Lucky to be born in privilage is what Lucky girl syndrome sounds to me. As someone from a latinamerican country, many jobs offered are very precarious and many (incluiding me) libe pay check to pay check. I tried thinking as a “lucky girl” but i just got more depressed, because my context doesnt allow me those opportunities
I'm sorry that you experienced more depression when trying to take on the 'lucky girl' mindset - I agree that it's an incredibly privileged mentality that doesn't account for those whose situations/countries have limited opportunities. Thanks so much for sharing your perspective on this and sending you love.
Isabel you have a queen name! I am Brazilian, and I live in Brazil, I have had many financial difficulties in my life, and I know about the limiting beliefs and experiences related to scarcity, fear and difficulties that Latin Americans are exposed to. In the beginning, it wasn't easy, but the law of attraction helped me a lot, I advise you to start with small things, like being grateful for being alive, for having perfect health, those things that are important and go unnoticed. Search for Jill Marie, Serenity Vibration Healing, it's changing my life
"context doesn't allow me those opportunities" brilliantly said. This is something that needs to be talked about more, how our context changes what's accessible to us. May you enjoy your life
I worked as a Federal Employee (Air Traffic Control) for 30+ years and each Fall we were given the opportunity to give to charities of our choice through paycheck deductions. Which I did. And a funny thing happened! I actually felt wealthier by giving $$ to charity. It’s like, well, if I have extra money to give to those in need, I must not be in need myself. That’s how I see “Lucky Girl.” It doesn’t change anything tangible overnight, but it most certainly gives you a different perspective of your standing in the world. Another great video!
Lucky girl syndrome just sounds like a rebrand of "positive thinking", "the secret", or prosperity gospel. It's generally a scam. It is true that a positive mindset is generally a good idea. It's good to be proactive. However, life is also unpredictable and unfair, and you need to be prepared when life punches you in the gut. That means investing in your savings, but it also means investing in quality relationships.
It’s typical that men discount this type of phenomenon because many can’t accept or believe in something that they can’t see or prove in a tangible world.
@@travkenn1019 Or maybe there's a sucker born every minute. If you're right, maybe that's why men make more money than women. Personally I think you're wrong, the current male version of lucky girl syndrome girls are crypto bros. They're just as filled with faith in something built on complete hot air, and just like lucky girl syndrome they attract a swarm of scum, scammers and grifters eager to take advantage of their naivety.
As someone who suffers from depression and si and can be quite pessimistic and finds it hard to believe in this spiritual stuffs and knowing the history of all this positive thinking and so many other things it's pretty hard for me to see myself as lucky.
I loved Richard Wisemans book on the topic, called Luck. He's a magician turned professor. They put lucky and unlucky people in a scenario where they imagined they got shot in the arm. Lucky people: Thank good I wasn't killed I'm so lucky! Unlucky people, I got shot in the arm! I'm so unlucky. But the different outlook on life had measureable differences in behaviour that lead to more luck.
I always considered myself to be lucky (even though I am not coming from generational wealth, khem Post Soviet Union country ) such minor things as the weather being perfect on special occasions gave me proof, I didn't know how it was a trend 😅 I like to think I make myself lucky most of the time, by the choices I make, the people meet, what country move to etc
I’m like a chronically optimistic person and any luck aside (and I do consider myself extremely lucky), it’s just a very pleasant mindset to exist in, it’s quite calming.
That's so interesting to hear about it because it is literally what the Bible also talks about. Not only do we get in life what we attract by good or bad thoughts but also it reminds me of the verse "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. Hebrews 11:1" Seeing it being pushed in a more modern way makes me a bit happier since people don't always believe in God, despite using what He left in the Bible. However, knowing it is being used and seeing results from it already says a lot about the power people have that was given by God. Albert Einstein once said, "Coincidence is just God’s way of remaining anonymous.” Great video, thank you!
I live in a 3rd world country and definitely wasn't born in a privilegied situation, but telling myself I'm lucky definitely helps me a lot. Not only with finances, but also things like investing on myself (buying things that are going to make my life easier or that will help me keep calm and happy). I am an overthinker and kinda paranoid, so thinking that everything will be fine no matter what freed me from anxiety so many times. I should admit tho that sometimes I spend more than I should because of that way of thinking lol
Lucky girl syndrome I think comes from manifesting and subliminals. I think it can be used for good if you are trying to improve your life but never force yourself to feel happy if you aren't. So feel the bad and the good to be your truest self and to manifest what you want
Wow you’re very well spoken. When I have to present in front of class, I feel quite nervous. When you film your videos do you have a script next to you? If so do you learn it out of your head or do you glance at it. I’m trying to get better into speaking in front of a crowd or camera. Would you say you feel the same way talking in front of a camera compared to talking in front of people? Sorry for all the questions 😂 if you have any tips I would appreciate it! I love your videos so I thought asking you would be a good idea.
Hi there!! Thank you so much for watching :) When I film these videos, I have a script on my computer beside me that I glance at. Usually every sentence or two, when there's an edit in the video, I've re-glanced at the script - so it definitely gives the illusion that I'm able to rattle all of it off at once, but sadly not able to do that quite yet! That being said, I think recording videos like this does help a lot with public speaking! It feels somewhat similar once you get used to both, the main difference with public speaking being that you don't get to edit it as much. But if you're looking to practice public speaking, I think it's worth recording yourself a bit so you can see areas to improve and get more comfortable. :)
I like this idea. I do agree that if you're more positive and open then you will definitely get more opportunities. Also people will want to be around you more.
No you need to have structural change in the leadership, upper/capitalist classes, and economical structures in the third world. Imagine being so dense you blame people living in poverty for their lot in life.
Acknowledging one’s fortune in life does not contradict recognising one’s own privilege. Dwelling on the positive is the best thing to do, but envy and pity are - for better or worse - parts of the human experience that ought to be factored in.
To me the idea of "luck" here is bad because luck, by it's nature is a mysterious gift rather than strategic. People who put in work and strategy and outsmart their own psychology are doing a thing, not experiencing the magic of the universe, and they deserve to give themselves credit accordingly. Others, who simple have enough safety net that it's possible to pretend luck just appears around them don't need to feel shame about having privilege, but they need to see that there's a context of well-built foundation to being able to trust and depend on luck to eventually come, or circumstances to work in your favour - otherwise there's something delusional happening, rather like some good Christians assuming that they just do better because God's with them and their faith is worthy.
For some reason I get secondhand embarrassment with this trend...it's probably because of the word "syndrome" being used in a way that is not exactly appropriate in my opinion.
Louise Hay and other wonderful authors as Lisa Nichols or Joe Vitale have talked about the law of attraction many years ago and I believe that positive thinking and attitude does help but it is not everything, you need to put effort and spirituality in it. Thank you for your videos!
I disagree that individual stock picking is gambling. There are traders that beat the market average over enough time to rule out chance. I think with due diligence and reading it is possible to treat individual stock picking as a fair investment strategy.
I don't think those spoiled pretentious girls you showed have anything to do with positive critical thinking - much less investing. I think you crossed some wires on this one.
no offense I feel this is another trend / fake mask for "pretty priviledge / that girl" for the social media algorithim. I do believe law of attaraction / manifestation / positivity works but some of the video clips you showed seem more attention seeking.
Lucky to be born in privilage is what Lucky girl syndrome sounds to me. As someone from a latinamerican country, many jobs offered are very precarious and many (incluiding me) libe pay check to pay check. I tried thinking as a “lucky girl” but i just got more depressed, because my context doesnt allow me those opportunities
I'm sorry that you experienced more depression when trying to take on the 'lucky girl' mindset - I agree that it's an incredibly privileged mentality that doesn't account for those whose situations/countries have limited opportunities. Thanks so much for sharing your perspective on this and sending you love.
Isabel you have a queen name! I am Brazilian, and I live in Brazil, I have had many financial difficulties in my life, and I know about the limiting beliefs and experiences related to scarcity, fear and difficulties that Latin Americans are exposed to. In the beginning, it wasn't easy, but the law of attraction helped me a lot, I advise you to start with small things, like being grateful for being alive, for having perfect health, those things that are important and go unnoticed. Search for Jill Marie, Serenity Vibration Healing, it's changing my life
"context doesn't allow me those opportunities" brilliantly said. This is something that needs to be talked about more, how our context changes what's accessible to us. May you enjoy your life
Become a Marxist Leninist and free yourself from your chains
Exactly. Been unemployed for 6 months and just interviewed for the perfect job and didnt get it. these teachings are crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think survivorship bias is a big part of influencers in general.
I worked as a Federal Employee (Air Traffic Control) for 30+ years and each Fall we were given the opportunity to give to charities of our choice through paycheck deductions. Which I did. And a funny thing happened! I actually felt wealthier by giving $$ to charity. It’s like, well, if I have extra money to give to those in need, I must not be in need myself.
That’s how I see “Lucky Girl.” It doesn’t change anything tangible overnight, but it most certainly gives you a different perspective of your standing in the world.
Another great video!
So true!!!
Lucky girl syndrome just sounds like a rebrand of "positive thinking", "the secret", or prosperity gospel. It's generally a scam.
It is true that a positive mindset is generally a good idea. It's good to be proactive.
However, life is also unpredictable and unfair, and you need to be prepared when life punches you in the gut. That means investing in your savings, but it also means investing in quality relationships.
Amen! LOL
It’s typical that men discount this type of phenomenon because many can’t accept or believe in something that they can’t see or prove in a tangible world.
@@travkenn1019 Or maybe there's a sucker born every minute. If you're right, maybe that's why men make more money than women. Personally I think you're wrong, the current male version of lucky girl syndrome girls are crypto bros. They're just as filled with faith in something built on complete hot air, and just like lucky girl syndrome they attract a swarm of scum, scammers and grifters eager to take advantage of their naivety.
@@travkenn1019 this kind of reasoning is what leads many to think women a supersticious and dumb, maybe we shouldnt fall for it
Exactly! And having a positive mindset and getting “rich” “lucky” because of it is correlational and not a causation.
As someone who suffers from depression and si and can be quite pessimistic and finds it hard to believe in this spiritual stuffs and knowing the history of all this positive thinking and so many other things it's pretty hard for me to see myself as lucky.
I loved Richard Wisemans book on the topic, called Luck. He's a magician turned professor. They put lucky and unlucky people in a scenario where they imagined they got shot in the arm. Lucky people: Thank good I wasn't killed I'm so lucky! Unlucky people, I got shot in the arm! I'm so unlucky. But the different outlook on life had measureable differences in behaviour that lead to more luck.
"Is there something to lucky girl syndrome?"
yeah, confirmation bias lol
fact. Been unemployed for 6 months and just interviewed for the perfect job and didnt get it. these teachings are crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love your videos. Please keep them coming 🥰
Thank you so much 💞 that means a lot!
She’s right, you make interesting and well presented content!
lucky girl syndrome increases directly in proportion to level of hotness.
I always considered myself to be lucky (even though I am not coming from generational wealth, khem Post Soviet Union country ) such minor things as the weather being perfect on special occasions gave me proof, I didn't know how it was a trend 😅
I like to think I make myself lucky most of the time, by the choices I make, the people meet, what country move to etc
You’re unlucky because the Soviet Union crumbled
I’m like a chronically optimistic person and any luck aside (and I do consider myself extremely lucky), it’s just a very pleasant mindset to exist in, it’s quite calming.
These videos are so helpful! Also you look soooo much like like Aubrey Plaza
Thank you on both fronts!! So glad you find these videos helpful, and I'm honored to be compared at all to Aubrey 😍
That's so interesting to hear about it because it is literally what the Bible also talks about. Not only do we get in life what we attract by good or bad thoughts but also it reminds me of the verse "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. Hebrews 11:1"
Seeing it being pushed in a more modern way makes me a bit happier since people don't always believe in God, despite using what He left in the Bible. However, knowing it is being used and seeing results from it already says a lot about the power people have that was given by God. Albert Einstein once said, "Coincidence is just God’s way of remaining anonymous.”
Great video, thank you!
I live in a 3rd world country and definitely wasn't born in a privilegied situation, but telling myself I'm lucky definitely helps me a lot. Not only with finances, but also things like investing on myself (buying things that are going to make my life easier or that will help me keep calm and happy). I am an overthinker and kinda paranoid, so thinking that everything will be fine no matter what freed me from anxiety so many times. I should admit tho that sometimes I spend more than I should because of that way of thinking lol
Lucky girl syndrome I think comes from manifesting and subliminals. I think it can be used for good if you are trying to improve your life but never force yourself to feel happy if you aren't. So feel the bad and the good to be your truest self and to manifest what you want
Love this video, great perspective. I love your analysis!
I love your videos, I’m going to watch them all!! you’re so smart and kind I love to hear what you have to say ❤
Wow you’re very well spoken. When I have to present in front of class, I feel quite nervous. When you film your videos do you have a script next to you? If so do you learn it out of your head or do you glance at it. I’m trying to get better into speaking in front of a crowd or camera. Would you say you feel the same way talking in front of a camera compared to talking in front of people? Sorry for all the questions 😂 if you have any tips I would appreciate it! I love your videos so I thought asking you would be a good idea.
Hi there!! Thank you so much for watching :)
When I film these videos, I have a script on my computer beside me that I glance at. Usually every sentence or two, when there's an edit in the video, I've re-glanced at the script - so it definitely gives the illusion that I'm able to rattle all of it off at once, but sadly not able to do that quite yet!
That being said, I think recording videos like this does help a lot with public speaking! It feels somewhat similar once you get used to both, the main difference with public speaking being that you don't get to edit it as much. But if you're looking to practice public speaking, I think it's worth recording yourself a bit so you can see areas to improve and get more comfortable. :)
@@thefinancialfreedomgirl Hi! Thank you for your response. I’ll take your tips into consideration 😊❤️
All your videos are so helpful to me ❤
I like this idea. I do agree that if you're more positive and open then you will definitely get more opportunities. Also people will want to be around you more.
Turning your attention towards what you want can help a lot of things in your health and business goals
Luck is opportunity meeting preparedness.
Its just manifesting... Its nnsense.
I agree, many girls in third world countries are probably not on the proper mindset, thats what we need in the world, more lucky girl syndrome.
No you need to have structural change in the leadership, upper/capitalist classes, and economical structures in the third world.
Imagine being so dense you blame people living in poverty for their lot in life.
@@deedeeramone34 yes, I agree with you, I was trying to point out this nonsense of Lucky girl syndrome
This was really interesting!
Thank you!!
I don't know, I consider myself lucky. I'm alive and I have a job and a roof over my head.
Lucky Girl Syndrome helps to have a positive mindset. I think it's better than pessimism.
Acknowledging one’s fortune in life does not contradict recognising one’s own privilege. Dwelling on the positive is the best thing to do, but envy and pity are - for better or worse - parts of the human experience that ought to be factored in.
Thank you for highlighting my comment.
To me the idea of "luck" here is bad because luck, by it's nature is a mysterious gift rather than strategic. People who put in work and strategy and outsmart their own psychology are doing a thing, not experiencing the magic of the universe, and they deserve to give themselves credit accordingly. Others, who simple have enough safety net that it's possible to pretend luck just appears around them don't need to feel shame about having privilege, but they need to see that there's a context of well-built foundation to being able to trust and depend on luck to eventually come, or circumstances to work in your favour - otherwise there's something delusional happening, rather like some good Christians assuming that they just do better because God's with them and their faith is worthy.
I only saw 2 red cars... god damn it, just my luck.
For some reason I get secondhand embarrassment with this trend...it's probably because of the word "syndrome" being used in a way that is not exactly appropriate in my opinion.
Louise Hay and other wonderful authors as Lisa Nichols or Joe Vitale have talked about the law of attraction many years ago and I believe that positive thinking and attitude does help but it is not everything, you need to put effort and spirituality in it. Thank you for your videos!
Exactly 💯 couldn't have said better than myself
how are you so wise beyond your years?
I disagree that individual stock picking is gambling. There are traders that beat the market average over enough time to rule out chance. I think with due diligence and reading it is possible to treat individual stock picking as a fair investment strategy.
Wonder what lucky bro syndrome is?
What is the bro equivalent of Lucky Girl Syndrome? Based Chad Syndrome?
This is just the Gen Z rebranding of the Law of Attraction, or The Secret.
Interesting video
I don't think those spoiled pretentious girls you showed have anything to do with positive critical thinking - much less investing. I think you crossed some wires on this one.
I practice the law of assumption
Let me guess, you’re now a millionaire with your dream job and the perfect family?
I keep telling myself that everything is going to be alright, and I have been more positive 😂
Not everything is ok though, is it?
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That Lularoe burn!
Sounds to me like 'The Secret' bs with a new name.
That’s exactly what it is
I’d like to see a guilty pleasures video for funzies
no offense I feel this is another trend / fake mask for "pretty priviledge / that girl" for the social media algorithim. I do believe law of attaraction / manifestation / positivity works but some of the video clips you showed seem more attention seeking.
Yeah I was questioning that too lol😂
Sounds like an attempt to be obstinately delusional
Are really out there people that believe in this nonsense?
You lost me at channeling the energy of the universe. Too bad people exploited from necro capitalism didn't channel the energy of the universe enough.