When you lose weight and you are no longer the "fat friend", people will love to say that YOU changed, when really the only thing that happened was a physical change. The real change is how your "friends" feel about YOU. Sad but true. I wish you the best Remi!
Its true when i was overweight i remember going with one of my friends to buy a dress nd i picked one out saying “Oh this ones cute” she responded “It is too bad you’re not that size” it hurt so much...
Remi is such a girl boss ... taking ownership of her body and health and sharing the process with us is HONESTLY something I absolutely adore about her 💓💓
"Hating your body won't make you thin... and being thin won't make you stop hating your body." Remi you are beautiful inside and out! I'm proud of you for losing the weight for a healthier you! You GO GIRL!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like alisha already gave the info for her break tho, she was stressed and overworking to the point she wasnt happy with her content so she wanted to take time away from yt to focus on other things and coming up with better content that she'll be really proud of and happy with
Mia26 ok first of all she’s SOO BEAUTIFUL. the fact that u have the guts to put that out there makes you a disgusting person. She is truly beautiful, inside and out. I actually liked her appearance more when she had more weight. What does that say? It’s says I can see the beauty in everything, u could be a good person, but if ur saying that there’s obviously something wrong with u. I wanna c how u look bc I know u can’t compare to her. “It’s my opinion” if u say that that’s stupid because if that’s ur opinion u should keep it to yourself, don’t talk about anyone like that ever, everyone sees your actions. Ur being so ugly
@@urded20 hmmm sorry but beauty is not something that can appear and disappear wtf r u talking about? I will not become fat just because I called someone fat u dont have any logic
I love Remi, she is so so sooo positive, and she admits that she also has her ups and downs. That’s what I love about her. REMI is such an amazing person, and you don’t have to know her in person, you can just see through the screen, I love her so much!!! She is a human queen!!! ♡
Everyone is beautiful, whether thick or thin, skinny or curvy, tan or pale, no matter what you look like, how much you weigh, what your hair and eye color, don’t change for anybody. If there is a change to be made in your life, it should be made because you want it to, not because someone else can’t find the beauty in you. I feel it’s best when someone makes fun of you, not to listen, and if you need to, reassure your self by realizing they are only pointing out your flaws because they are insecure of their own.
Directioner Forever (I know this was only a year ago but I’m watching it now lol) but thank u so much for leaving this cmt ❤️ I 100 percent agree! I sometimes struggle with self-esteem and word for word what u said was perfect!
People already know the truth! She just needed a break bc filming and coming up with ideas and editing takes a long time! She just needed time to process her thoughts.
Francesdanae yikes you don’t know who Shane Dawson is? He’s a part of OG TH-cam check him out he’s been doing these videos for a while now it isn’t new
Elyse Huss Can't we have two queens 😧 Shane and Niki recent videos are similar because they're both in the documentary genre BUT the approach and style of their videos is completely different. Shane dives into the persons life while asking on questions how did they became the way they are. The video style has more of a reality TV style too it. Niki goes for the classic raw person to person and just straight to the point personal questions. (Niki and Shane needs to collab)
I feel like social media just puts so much pressure on people to look a certain way, especially when you are constantly on it or when it's your job. I'm honestly really tired of it... beauty standards are so toxic.
Not trying to be rude but I’ve watched your other videos and these type of videos seem more your thing. Not that you’re bad at the other type but I feel like this is your calling. This is awesome.
I agree, I love Mere, but I feel that she doesn't want to and wants to deal with it offline instead of telling the whole world. And the fact her friends aren't being friends to her makes me feel she won't want to do it. But I still hope she can open up eventually and recover.
From the majority of the pictures that were shown throughout this, two constants stood out to me. Lauren and Alisha have stayed with Remi for the longest time. You know they are true friends when they befriend you when you are "the fat one" and stick with you when you turn your life around. Those are real friends. They love you for who YOU are and not for what you may do for THEM through your appearance. I know Remi will probably never see this, but this was just on my heart as I watched the video. Props to you, Remi, for all that you have done and are doing. Don't forget what such great friends you have. They are one of the best things that have happened to you. ♥️♥️
Guys this is why Niki inspires me so much on youtube 😭❤️ she spreads so much awareness about different issues and is so kind about it. Keep being amazing Niki!
This was heartwarming. Remi and Nikki are both beautiful women! I’m in love with the series, and the part where they talked about not being happy when you actually reach your goals, really hit home. Thank you Nikki for creating this show and thanks for bringing Remi on. Her story is touching💖
When I lost weight in college, I wasn’t prepared for finding new insecurities on my body. Like every few weeks I felt like I had a new body I had to get used to.
I feel like it would be really good if you did a video of this series with your sister Gabi I know she’s also had some food related issues and you would have a whole other level of intimacy
I really can't believe that people hate her because she lost weight. She had to do that for her and her health. I don't understand why some people are being so mean. It's her life and her decisions.
Can you please do Teala Dunn - How she handles racist comments Liza Koshy - On her personal journey to self love (since that’s why she isn’t in a relationship anymore) Eva Gutowski I’m obsessed with this series, it’s so inspiring and I love it so much 💖💖💖💖💖
I needed this video today. I gain some weight in the last 4 years and I feel like nobody sees who I am anymore. I stopped been me and I became “the chubby girl” I feel that when everyone sees me or talks to me that’s all they see and all talk about. Well, you shouldn’t be eating that, or you shouldn’t be wearing a jacket if it’s a little hot outside, why are you always covering yourself? And almost every conversation involves my weight. My sister in law was making fun of me a few months ago with her cousin and when I told my husband he got a little upset, but also without saying it I knew he was thinking well then lose the weight so people stop making fun of you. And today was a reminder of that day, my stepmother texted me that she bought be clothes all black like I like it, which is not true. I wear black because I’m trying to hide, so her text was ironic and hurtful. Well, my husband saw it and he got mad but instead of saying I don’t like when people bully others, he said “ you should lose weight so all the bully’s can stop bullying you for your weight” that broke my heart in pieces. He’s an amazing guy, he is an amazing husband but I feel that this is what society does to everyone. Even my mother says the same thing just lose weight. I lost weight years ago but so unhealthy, starving myself and everyone was proud of me, look at her how beautiful and healthy now while I was dying inside. Now I feel I’m about to go in the same path and sadly the people that love me the most are the ones taking me there.
Massi Jovial bless your heart!! You’re beautiful no matter your size. Losing weight is hard and people who aren’t in your shoes have a hard time understanding. Take it day by day but do what you need to do for you and your health. I know for me prayer for strength and self-control had to be at the forefront of my journey. Praying for you.
Massi Jovial i can understand what you feel cause even tho nobody is mean to me, my mind is a bitch to me. And that sucks but you should yes lose weight iiiif you are unhealthy. Size dont matter. But your selfesteem does. Just start moving your body and start with positive thinking just 1 time a day. And go from there.
oh my gosh girl literally this comment has been like my life as well the past 5 years so I totally get it. honestly, you should confront these people that make you feel like shit I learned the hard way until you tell them not just that it hurts you but literally stick up for yourself - be it your mother, stepmother, husband regardless of who it is make it VERY clear to them they have no right whatsoever to speak to you that way, or to make you feel inadequate or less than them. if they say you shouldn't be eating this or that, tell them something like "I don't need you to tell me what to eat I know what I should and shouldn't be eating. don't worry about me, worry about yourself." the moment I stood up for myself, all those negative feelings I was constantly having for days after someone said something to me that hurt me, went away. and honestly the only way you will ever stop feeling that way is when you stop worrying about other people's opinions, and it's very hard to reach that point, but you can reach that point when you come to the realization some people no matter what will ALWAYS have something negative to say about you and no matter what you do, they will never change because they're the problem not you. your husband saying you should lose the weight so people can stop making fun of you is not true at all. what really should happen is those people should gain some self awareness, and respect and understand that they're being rude af and stop what they're doing. someone I really like to listen to is Trent Shelton - he does spoken word but also mini videos of just life advice. I strongly encourage you to listen to him and remind yourself everyday YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. YOU'RE IMPORTANT. YOU HAVE A PURPOSE IN THIS WORLD AND GOD CREATED YOU FOR A REASON. YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE TO DEFINE YOUR WORTH BY A NUMBER ON THE SCALE BECAUSE YOU'RE SO, SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. eventually one day you will stop caring what people say, and it's something you can work towards by becoming aware of how much someone else's words, or actions affect you and I swear girl that is the day you will be free. stay strong, stick up for yourself don't let anyone say something to you that hurts you and know that you're so so beautiful and special and if they don't recognize it that's their problem, not yours!!
Massi Jovial Please do not. Your story has touched my heart and I'm literally crying. You should loose weight if you want to, not when others tell you to. Your a beautiful woman inside and out and if people don't appreciate that then that's their loss. Lots of Love ❤❤❤
Just as some criticism for improvement, it would be good if there would be no music when you guys are talking. It gets a bit distracting. Completely loving these series Niki, really really progressive xx
Seeing Remi sad makes me sad. I love Remi so so much. She’s one of my idols, and I can relate to her. I’m also trying, and watching Remi helps me, and she doesn’t deserve any hate (in my opinion). I love you so so much Remi💗
i think next you need to talk to teala; i just feel like she is changing a whole bunch and people need answers as to why she’s always having these like clickbait videos
I really really think Meredith Foster needs to be here too! EDIT: Okay, so I also saw the thing between Gabi and Ariana ( this happened in Twitter ). I hope even Gabi goes here. The fact that she still gets hate because she is “ copying “ Ariana. Fans of Ari are bashing her when she herself is a fan of Ariana too :(. I feel like we only see the side of her geting hate “ copying “ Ariana. I wanna hear her side too! Gabi deserves love. She might have the same style with Ariana but that doesn’t mean she is copying her. She is a FAN for goodness sake!
She gets hate because she doesn't admit it if she did I don't think she'd get as much hate. Also why put "copying" she is copying her. Do be so denial about it.
Erica Brumfield Ah okay. I respect your opinion. When I put “ copying “ it’s bcus it’s just my opinion too! Honestly, I really just wanna hear Gabi explain her side too, you know? Haha, anyway, have a nice day!
The background music is so loud :((( it makes me not wanna keep watching cause its so distracting! please lower the volume the next time cause i love this series
Celia Ortiz thank you! it was definitely not meant to be hateful, i thought i made that clear lmao. love niki and these type of videos it was just a tip that she may could take (or not) 😂
First off, i LOVE Remi. She is by far my favourite youtuber and i am so proud of her. I think these series are so great beacause we dont know as much about these youtubers as we think we do. The video’s are great and the editing is so beautiful Nikki! I love the both of you and hope you work things out for yourselfs
There is a PTSD that comes with both losing and gaining weight that not many people will understand. It is a club and you’re not in it until you’re in it. Losing weight and having that physical transformation and having to train your mind to readjust to who you are now is a kind of trauma and its gonna take time to get comfortable again. You and I are the same age going through the same things and it’s so normal to still feel like people are seeing you for who you were rather than who you are. You may not believe it but it can only get better from here. I’m so excited for you to get back comfortable with yourself.
This series is actually beautiful.🙌 I could only hope to create something this wonderful someday. Congrats niki, truly feel like you’ve found something great 🙏❤️
@@m-jane2881 what is wrong with you, so disrespectful, dont you dare body or shame ANYONE no matter what, i would hate to be your mom, such a disgrace, i cant believe someone has the guts to say such rude things, also how would you feel if someone said those exact word to you for billions and millions to see? I didn't think so, like such domt watch this vidow if you really wanna say that
Mia26 how dare you? why would you put someone down like that. She is absolutely gorgeous. One, she is not fat. And if she was, fat is NOT an insult! She did it mostly for her health. So, no thank you, next!!!
I’ve watched Remi since the beginning and I loved her then and I love her now her personality and it made me feel like I connected to her and tbh just because she started this journey doesn’t make her a different person it makes her stronger and that’s what’s inspiring
I love this. I love Remi. I love everything she said here. I feel she's relatable here a lot. I've loved watching her because she is so happy but it's nice to be reminded that she's a real person too. Love love love love love.
Yes . Even though I have not personally experienced this ( and I hope that I never will) I feel like th people who have unfortunately lost someone to cancer would like it to be educated to those who are uneducated on the topic
remi has always had a positive effect on my life I started watching her when I was 11 I'm 14 now and have struggled with comparing myself to others. I've never been over weight and still feel fat constantly. Remi's journey has helped me with my problems and excepting myself for who I am and for that I truly thank her.
Ok look first of all calm down jeez. Also I feel like it would be nice if she talked with poeple about her life because, it can really help you. Liek you don't know what she's going through. Also not every is obbsesed with Arian
I agree. At this point, it's not normal, and it has been going on for years. It's not "cute" anymore, I don't think she deserves hate for it, but I think Gabi is having problems finding herself and figuring out who she really is because she keeps trying to adapt personalities from other people instead of being her own person. When she first went blonde I thought maybe she finally found herself and I started liking her more, but then I realized very quickly she was just trying to adopt Chanel's personality from Scream Queens. I think she just needs some help to figure out who she can be on her own, because she has potential to be a great individual personality. She's definitely allowed to have things in common with Ariana or Chanel, but to completely immerse herself into their personas isn't healthy and is disrespectful to real people like Ariana because her personality is something she developed on her own from growing up and finding herself, it's not okay to take parts of what someone really is naturally and force them into yourself. You can look up and be inspired by someone without going to the lengths that Gabi does.
Remi is so inspiring and I'm so glad that she is opening up, and was on this series. She's inspired me to get healthier and lose weight for myself and myself only, so seeing this side of her makes me feel less alone. Im so thankful for this series, Niki. Thank you.
I haven’t really watched much of Remi, but this makes me want to. This is so relatable. When you are overweight you think everything will be perfect and you’ll be so happy if you lose weight. But you have to learn that’s not what makes you happy and find what does
The music is so distracting! sorry. could you turn the volume down on the music more so we can hear better next time? thanks! Love you and your vids. Great new series!
Niki and Remi, you both are absolutely amazing. Niki, I applaud you for keeping this conversation going. As creators we can't even imagine the impact we have on young minds. You are making such a huge impact on the next generation of teenagers. I feel like for our generation it was hush hush and everyone tried to keep their struggles private. By making these videos, you are teaching the next generation that it is OK to struggle and it is OK to talk about it. Keep up the great work! This is an amazing series.
This right here is a true definition of strong, powerful, brave, amazing, inspiring women. I love how real this was and it 100% is something that everyone needs to be able to see more. Everyone goes through this and it is relatable to so many. So thank you so much for this inspirational video.💖
I love how Niki’s channel is growing and becoming more mature as she is. I’ve had problems so similar to Remi before. I am a petite girl and have never struggled with weight necessarily but rather how my body looks (especially on camera) and I completely relate to how Remi says you will never be 100% happy with your body. I am working on it, slowly but surely, both physically and mentally. Thank you for this video Niki ❤️
I related when Remi was talking in the beginning of the video, trying to lose weight and then gaining it back is so hard & especially when it’s constant, it’s still something I struggle with even when I’m still young. I love both of them sm, the series is so informational and Remi gives me so much hope about myself, her positivity seriously rubs off on other people. 💗💘💓
you should interview TEALA DUNN!! i think it would be nice to hear how she remains confident and strong despite all of the racist comments and hate she receives.. i would also like to get to know her better 🙂💓
I've watched every episode so far and honestly I feel like Niki could be a therapist or someone like that. She's very good at getting people to open up in a comfortable way without placing any pressure on them or the situation. She's also super kind, and she gives a lot of thoughtful input and feedback to the people she's talked with.
yara يارا not but he did start this whole TH-cam series. I’m not saying no one can do this style of videos, but I think she should give credit to him. If you watch Shane’s channel it’s obvious she was inspired by him
lola 🙄🙄it's legit just talking p, you're giving people to much credit for "creativity". Don't get me wrong Shane is creative in other ways but just talking? Are you kidding this is just a podcast w extra footage.
I am LIVING for this series Niki, I love that so many youtubers are speaking out about all these hard things, it helps normalize them along with bringing the youtubers down from the pedestals, and shows people that they aren't alone. Everyone is dealing with something, which makes us human.
I love what you say about "chasing" after what we think will make us happy and being disappointed. Ultimately, losing weight or looking different doesn't make us happy. Happiness is internal.
agreed! the only true happiness is in Jesus Christ. it is such a waste of time looking in every wrong place when the true source of JOY, perfect Joy, is in Him and in a walk with Him.
I have so many things to say about this: 1. What Remi said about only feeling like the past her is different or lesser when she sees her progress photos is true for me as an audience member as well. I remember feeling so immensely jealous of her beauty and her confidence 60 lbs ago, and when I watch her videos now I feel like I'm watching the same person, not someone necessarily better or someone who makes the old her seem ugly. 2. I am so happy that she unarchived her Instagram photos. I have followed her for 4 years now (at least), and there have been multiple occasions where I've wanted to scroll through her photos just for memories sake and saw most of them gone. 3. Remi shouldn't be afraid to be herself. It's the only way her channel will grow to its full potential. There will be more hate, but with more followers comes more people who will want to tear you down, regardless of your weight.
we need this back! this is really helping all of us getting to know them better and knowing they struggle with things we do too! Nicki we need another one of these!!
As an overweight girl since childhood, I understand completely. I always have the insecurities about my looks, and think "boys are gonna think twice before they make fun of me again" but I always get the feeling in the back of my head that would anything truly change? Would I spiral? Would I screw up one day and all the weight come back? I always remember this dream I had as a kid, for some reason I had a magic wand, I pointed it at my stomach and basically said that I wanted to be skinny. Well, as the fat was melting away, my stomach starting hurting really bad in my dream. I always associate being "skinny" as a pain in my stomach. I know all of this was rambles, but I just wanted to clarify, I understand the thoughts around yourself not being the ideal visual.
It is hard being vulnerable but it empowers you, no one is perfect and sharing your story also helps others💕 I can also relate, I used to binge and purge and it has still stuck with me, like I still checking myself, weighting myself and feeling shameful if I don’t exercise but I don’t binge or purge anymore. I go to a psychiatrist for bipolar disorder and anxiety as well and the step to truly getting better is to open up❤️
When you lose weight and you are no longer the "fat friend", people will love to say that YOU changed, when really the only thing that happened was a physical change. The real change is how your "friends" feel about YOU. Sad but true. I wish you the best Remi!
Sabrina omg wow... you’re so right thank you for bringing this to my attention
You are so right now I know that you don't your body does
I’ve never seen a comment that’s so accurate
Its true when i was overweight i remember going with one of my friends to buy a dress nd i picked one out saying “Oh this ones cute” she responded “It is too bad you’re not that size” it hurt so much...
Yeah i was the fat friend and i was a little chubby but over 1 month i went skinny and all my friends say i have changed love you remi
Remi is such a girl boss ... taking ownership of her body and health and sharing the process with us is HONESTLY something I absolutely adore about her 💓💓
SimplyFreshdew your so TRUE
SimplyFreshde
Annie Jane what you on about
"Hating your body won't make you thin... and being thin won't make you stop hating your body."
Remi you are beautiful inside and out! I'm proud of you for losing the weight for a healthier you! You GO GIRL!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The Bevans Life Time
I miss this series😭 who’s watching during quarantine 2020? Or 2021?
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"You cant let the good comments define you because then you're going to let the bad comments define you." HOW DID NO ONE TELL ME THIS BEFORE??
hey sub to my channel ill do a give away once i hit 4k
Eva Gutouski!
Meredith Foster!
Mia Stammer!
LaurDIY!
Gabi DeMartino!
Alisha Marie!(more in depth about her yt break and struggles)
Sarah Powell +cloe couture
I feel like alisha already gave the info for her break tho, she was stressed and overworking to the point she wasnt happy with her content so she wanted to take time away from yt to focus on other things and coming up with better content that she'll be really proud of and happy with
Madi Tee cloe would be a good one she could talk about her mom passing and her dad already remarried
hey subscribe to my channel ill do a give away once i hit 4k
U SHOULD DO MEREDITH FOSTER, TIFFANY MA & EVA GUTOWSKI!! NO HATE TOWARDS THEM OR ANYONE!! I LOVE THEM ALL💕💕
Michelle Sullivan yesss Tiffany Ma
I think she already did Meredith. (Edit): never mind just realized she haven’t 😂
Yeah that would be great they have had some struggles
OMG yes please do Meredith
Michelle Sullivan She should do Liza Koshy but it won't happen.
Niki Demar: Influencer, TH-camr, Singer and, Therapist
Lol no offense Niki but this is pretty accurate lol XD
Mia26 ok first of all she’s SOO BEAUTIFUL. the fact that u have the guts to put that out there makes you a disgusting person. She is truly beautiful, inside and out. I actually liked her appearance more when she had more weight. What does that say? It’s says I can see the beauty in everything, u could be a good person, but if ur saying that there’s obviously something wrong with u. I wanna c how u look bc I know u can’t compare to her. “It’s my opinion” if u say that that’s stupid because if that’s ur opinion u should keep it to yourself, don’t talk about anyone like that ever, everyone sees your actions. Ur being so ugly
Mia26 u also don’t deserve those subscribers, no person who acts like that should be happy if ur putting someone else down
@@m-jane2881 she's so beautiful I don't know what ur talkin bout
Don't say people are ugly or fat cause that's gonna happen to u...
@@urded20 hmmm sorry but beauty is not something that can appear and disappear wtf r u talking about? I will not become fat just because I called someone fat u dont have any logic
I love Remi, she is so so sooo positive, and she admits that she also has her ups and downs. That’s what I love about her. REMI is such an amazing person, and you don’t have to know her in person, you can just see through the screen, I love her so much!!! She is a human queen!!! ♡
Kay’s Island Same! I love how cheery she is and is always spreading positive vibes 🙌
I want to applaud you for this series. It is amazing Niki!
ikr natalies, btw ur vids are AMAZING but i its awesome how niki's opening up about herself and her friends!
Yeah applaud her for coping Shane Dawson
Random Person gurl sorry..but i dont think she is copying shane but she just feels like she wants to and feels like having the responsibility
Natalies Outlet pls you should do this video too with niki!
Your videos are amazing! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Still Meredith Foster! I want to see her on this series sooo bad!!!
MiKayla Rose idk if she's ready to admit anything yet tho😕 I would love to see her in the series tho
Her, Tila and Eva. Obv all have issues
MiKayla Rose what happened with her??
Tasia R she has anorexia
I agree with songbird377 that I don’t think she’s ready to talk about anything or if she even feels she has a problem
Everyone is beautiful, whether thick or thin, skinny or curvy, tan or pale, no matter what you look like, how much you weigh, what your hair and eye color, don’t change for anybody. If there is a change to be made in your life, it should be made because you want it to, not because someone else can’t find the beauty in you. I feel it’s best when someone makes fun of you, not to listen, and if you need to, reassure your self by realizing they are only pointing out your flaws because they are insecure of their own.
I totally agree but the world is not like that... we all need to change.
Directioner Forever (I know this was only a year ago but I’m watching it now lol) but thank u so much for leaving this cmt ❤️ I 100 percent agree! I sometimes struggle with self-esteem and word for word what u said was perfect!
U should interview mar foster. NO HATE AGAINST HER OR ANYONE ELSE!!!!! I love them both💕💕
Michelle Sullivan Mere*
Omg yesss I'm waiting for that one
I don’t think it will happen to be honest. Meredith don’t seem to know she has a problem.
Kiana Maisonet true
What problem?
I loved Remi at her larger size and her current. Her joy is contagious. Gosh, I hope she realizes how much beauty she brings to the world.
Would love to see Meredith Foster on this series. Great job Nikki! I love Remi and love how open she was able to be with you, ultimately with us.
The truth about Alisha Marie's break
Definitely that’s would be a good video
That's what i was actually thinking
People already know the truth! She just needed a break bc filming and coming up with ideas and editing takes a long time! She just needed time to process her thoughts.
Yoshna Naidoo um no Alisha already made a video
She already talked about it
nikki’s maturing into an adult taking on important issues that matter and I’M SO HERE FOR IT
niki..i think you've found your thing on youtube…..we ove to hear about you but making a series like this totally is a game changer
Francesdanae it really isn’t she’s just copying shane dawson in my opinion
Elyse Huss idk who Shane dawson is 🤷 so i like this.
Francesdanae Shane Dawson started doing these type of videos a while back, you should check him out he’s amazing.
Francesdanae yikes you don’t know who Shane Dawson is? He’s a part of OG TH-cam check him out he’s been doing these videos for a while now it isn’t new
Elyse Huss Can't we have two queens 😧 Shane and Niki recent videos are similar because they're both in the documentary genre BUT the approach and style of their videos is completely different. Shane dives into the persons life while asking on questions how did they became the way they are. The video style has more of a reality TV style too it. Niki goes for the classic raw person to person and just straight to the point personal questions. (Niki and Shane needs to collab)
Meredith foster
Kaylee Marie and we want her now
What’s going on with her?
Rachel Anne She has a eating disorder I think it hasn't been fully confirmed.
I doubt shell ever admit to herself let alone an audience she has a problem but definitely her next if possible!
Kaylee!!!!! I am a subscriber, ilysm!
Idk why people are so against people change. Change is GOOD it means you’re growing.
Suggestion: can you turn the background music down just a tad, I love these but have trouble hearing. I really am loving these, keep them up!!
Meredith Foster, MylifeasEva, Teala Dunn and maybe Gabi...if they're willing to share their stories :)
I feel like social media just puts so much pressure on people to look a certain way, especially when you are constantly on it or when it's your job. I'm honestly really tired of it... beauty standards are so toxic.
Truee
Not trying to be rude but I’ve watched your other videos and these type of videos seem more your thing. Not that you’re bad at the other type but I feel like this is your calling. This is awesome.
If you have something mean to say then don't say it
I don't think that was mean. You're just giving advise.
You're so dumb she said trying not to be rude its not rude she is saying her opinion jeez kids these days think everything is rude ugh
@@harnoorrakkar5993 you're so rude TH-cam these days of mean people these days like you btw not rude I'm just saying my opinion 😒😌👊
@@harnoorrakkar5993 now your rude oh just saying my opinion 😌😏👐
please bring meredith foster on
Please do Meredith Foster next (if she wants too, of course!) ❤️
Fabiola Suárez I know!!! Meredith HAS TO DO THIS!!!!
I agree, I love Mere, but I feel that she doesn't want to and wants to deal with it offline instead of telling the whole world. And the fact her friends aren't being friends to her makes me feel she won't want to do it. But I still hope she can open up eventually and recover.
Agreed🙌
YESSS
I agree!! I Think she is struggling but idk if she is ready to talk.
who else is obsessed with this series
KeepingUpWithRheanna me
KeepingUpWithRheanna Me!
me
KeepingUpWithRheanna me
KeepingUpWithRheanna definitely
From the majority of the pictures that were shown throughout this, two constants stood out to me. Lauren and Alisha have stayed with Remi for the longest time. You know they are true friends when they befriend you when you are "the fat one" and stick with you when you turn your life around. Those are real friends. They love you for who YOU are and not for what you may do for THEM through your appearance. I know Remi will probably never see this, but this was just on my heart as I watched the video. Props to you, Remi, for all that you have done and are doing. Don't forget what such great friends you have. They are one of the best things that have happened to you. ♥️♥️
Do teala. I'm not a fan of Teala's but I wanna know the truth about a lot of things
Christelle Ilmet yesss
Guys this is why Niki inspires me so much on youtube 😭❤️ she spreads so much awareness about different issues and is so kind about it. Keep being amazing Niki!
ik! :)
I COMPLETELY AGREE!
Same❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
she's such a beautiful soul, inside and out
Who
Sophie the unicorn Remi...
I agree!
Thanks
This was heartwarming. Remi and Nikki are both beautiful women! I’m in love with the series, and the part where they talked about not being happy when you actually reach your goals, really hit home. Thank you Nikki for creating this show and thanks for bringing Remi on. Her story is touching💖
How incredibly brave of Remi to open up like this!
I was waiting for this episode with Remi!!!♡
Kay’s Island SAME! I remember when Remi mentioned that she filmed a video with Niki in one of her vlogs
Kay’s Island SAME!!
Kay’s Island Me too! 😃💞🤩
Jordan Hill same! I’ve been waiting since and knew it was about this! 💗😍
HI GUYS I JUST POSTED A SUMMER NIGHT ROUTINE..but not really. Go watch if you want Kay’s Island
I would just cancel the background music altogether. It’s an excellent series by itself, no fluff needed 😘
R for RAE TV yeah it was a little bit distracting
When there's actually no music it gets awkward tho
Just an opinion
yeah it was distracting and wasn't really even appropriate for the discussion
I agree
R for RAE TV yesssss
When I lost weight in college, I wasn’t prepared for finding new insecurities on my body. Like every few weeks I felt like I had a new body I had to get used to.
We want Maredith Foster episode!
I feel like it would be really good if you did a video of this series with your sister Gabi I know she’s also had some food related issues and you would have a whole other level of intimacy
Leonor Leitmann yessss
I really can't believe that people hate her because she lost weight. She had to do that for her and her health. I don't understand why some people are being so mean. It's her life and her decisions.
Renata Stav ppl h8 her cuz she punched leigh
Sushma El what happened?
Sushma El what
Sushma El Who is Leigh and when did that happen?
Can you please do
Teala Dunn - How she handles racist comments
Liza Koshy - On her personal journey to self love (since that’s why she isn’t in a relationship anymore)
Eva Gutowski
I’m obsessed with this series, it’s so inspiring and I love it so much 💖💖💖💖💖
That's the same ppl I wanted for Nikki to do
Teala gets racist comments?
Haddie Laura Yup not really racist but she makes it seem like it
Inspiring Vanessa pls do these!! Especially teala hate that bitch
PLEASEEEEEEE
I love Shane’s impact, he really changed the game for TH-cam :’)
melina rios This is a great positive comment about the shane inspiration xx
You are the most positive person about their content being similar 👏🏾 Shane does it with his circle of friends and she’s doing it with hers.
okay i like this series but i wish it was more raw like no background music
nope, im pretty sure the most requested is Meredith
Amber Gorissen meredith isn't going to admit anything tho
“Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.”
Psalms 37:5 NLT
Love you Rem 💕
Savannah Hopkins I love that!!!!😘😘
Amen❤️
amen! amen! God bless
Amen 💕💕
💖
You should do Meredith Foster
Aeisha Brown I’m pretty sure she did a video with her
Heuy Freeman no she didn't
Aeisha Brown she doesnt want to do one.
What’s wrong with Meredith ?
What's wrong with her
I needed this video today. I gain some weight in the last 4 years and I feel like nobody sees who I am anymore. I stopped been me and I became “the chubby girl” I feel that when everyone sees me or talks to me that’s all they see and all talk about. Well, you shouldn’t be eating that, or you shouldn’t be wearing a jacket if it’s a little hot outside, why are you always covering yourself? And almost every conversation involves my weight. My sister in law was making fun of me a few months ago with her cousin and when I told my husband he got a little upset, but also without saying it I knew he was thinking well then lose the weight so people stop making fun of you. And today was a reminder of that day, my stepmother texted me that she bought be clothes all black like I like it, which is not true. I wear black because I’m trying to hide, so her text was ironic and hurtful. Well, my husband saw it and he got mad but instead of saying I don’t like when people bully others, he said “ you should lose weight so all the bully’s can stop bullying you for your weight” that broke my heart in pieces. He’s an amazing guy, he is an amazing husband but I feel that this is what society does to everyone. Even my mother says the same thing just lose weight. I lost weight years ago but so unhealthy, starving myself and everyone was proud of me, look at her how beautiful and healthy now while I was dying inside. Now I feel I’m about to go in the same path and sadly the people that love me the most are the ones taking me there.
Massi Jovial bless your heart!! You’re beautiful no matter your size. Losing weight is hard and people who aren’t in your shoes have a hard time understanding. Take it day by day but do what you need to do for you and your health. I know for me prayer for strength and self-control had to be at the forefront of my journey. Praying for you.
Shrinking Rutz thank you for your beautiful words❤️
Massi Jovial i can understand what you feel cause even tho nobody is mean to me, my mind is a bitch to me. And that sucks but you should yes lose weight iiiif you are unhealthy. Size dont matter. But your selfesteem does. Just start moving your body and start with positive thinking just 1 time a day. And go from there.
oh my gosh girl literally this comment has been like my life as well the past 5 years so I totally get it. honestly, you should confront these people that make you feel like shit I learned the hard way until you tell them not just that it hurts you but literally stick up for yourself - be it your mother, stepmother, husband regardless of who it is make it VERY clear to them they have no right whatsoever to speak to you that way, or to make you feel inadequate or less than them. if they say you shouldn't be eating this or that, tell them something like "I don't need you to tell me what to eat I know what I should and shouldn't be eating. don't worry about me, worry about yourself." the moment I stood up for myself, all those negative feelings I was constantly having for days after someone said something to me that hurt me, went away. and honestly the only way you will ever stop feeling that way is when you stop worrying about other people's opinions, and it's very hard to reach that point, but you can reach that point when you come to the realization some people no matter what will ALWAYS have something negative to say about you and no matter what you do, they will never change because they're the problem not you. your husband saying you should lose the weight so people can stop making fun of you is not true at all. what really should happen is those people should gain some self awareness, and respect and understand that they're being rude af and stop what they're doing.
someone I really like to listen to is Trent Shelton - he does spoken word but also mini videos of just life advice. I strongly encourage you to listen to him and remind yourself everyday YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. YOU'RE IMPORTANT. YOU HAVE A PURPOSE IN THIS WORLD AND GOD CREATED YOU FOR A REASON. YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE TO DEFINE YOUR WORTH BY A NUMBER ON THE SCALE BECAUSE YOU'RE SO, SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. eventually one day you will stop caring what people say, and it's something you can work towards by becoming aware of how much someone else's words, or actions affect you and I swear girl that is the day you will be free. stay strong, stick up for yourself don't let anyone say something to you that hurts you and know that you're so so beautiful and special and if they don't recognize it that's their problem, not yours!!
Massi Jovial Please do not. Your story has touched my heart and I'm literally crying. You should loose weight if you want to, not when others tell you to. Your a beautiful woman inside and out and if people don't appreciate that then that's their loss.
Lots of Love ❤❤❤
Just as some criticism for improvement, it would be good if there would be no music when you guys are talking. It gets a bit distracting. Completely loving these series Niki, really really progressive xx
Seeing Remi sad makes me sad. I love Remi so so much. She’s one of my idols, and I can relate to her. I’m also trying, and watching Remi helps me, and she doesn’t deserve any hate (in my opinion). I love you so so much Remi💗
You should ask Bethany Mota!💜
Olivia Garcia what about Bethany?
lilcuty1492 she hasn’t posted on youtube in 2 months and she was really popular at one point but then she stopped posting. hope this helps :)
mel _ people have lives and opportunities outside of youtube
Olivia Garcia yess agree
yesss!
i think next you need to talk to teala; i just feel like she is changing a whole bunch and people need answers as to why she’s always having these like clickbait videos
I really really think Meredith Foster needs to be here too!
EDIT: Okay, so I also saw the thing between Gabi and Ariana ( this happened in Twitter ). I hope even Gabi goes here. The fact that she still gets hate because she is “ copying “ Ariana. Fans of Ari are bashing her when she herself is a fan of Ariana too :(. I feel like we only see the side of her geting hate “ copying “ Ariana. I wanna hear her side too! Gabi deserves love. She might have the same style with Ariana but that doesn’t mean she is copying her. She is a FAN for goodness sake!
Jin’s Non-Existing Ugliness why?
Lindsey Wood she’s become really distant from friends and family and has been really stressing about her body and her image
She gets hate because she doesn't admit it if she did I don't think she'd get as much hate. Also why put "copying" she is copying her. Do be so denial about it.
Erica Brumfield Ah okay. I respect your opinion. When I put “ copying “ it’s bcus it’s just my opinion too! Honestly, I really just wanna hear Gabi explain her side too, you know? Haha, anyway, have a nice day!
I do too, I just don't like when people try to not admit that she's copying, like it's very obvious, so please stop. There's no way around it lol.
SHANE 👏🏻 DAWSON 👏🏻 DID 👏🏻 NOT 👏🏻 INVENT 👏🏻 INTERVIEWS 👏🏻
Wren McKenzie hun, no one said that. I’m pretty sure Shane Dawson was one of the major TH-camrs who did this first.
M
one of the major youtubers you watched- so many youtubers have had interviews or podcasts where they talk to other people about their experiences
Yes he did
No😂 basically what these you tubers are doing “profiles” in journalism. It’s not new. It’s just nice to see on a new platform!
id love to see thegabbieshow on here. remi and gabbie have gone through a transformation, but in a completely diffrent way
monica how are they different
Gabbie literally is the same person
yara يارا bo dunc she is actually slightly different because she went through plastic surgery to change her nose
Darth Cheeto she got injections on her nose not plastic surgery.
Darth Cheeto come on that wasn’t plastic surgery. Her nose looks still the same 😂
Niki's honestly killin' it!!!
VicEloAbo ikr her content has been FIRE.
The background music is so loud :((( it
makes me not wanna keep watching cause its so distracting! please lower the volume the next time cause i love this series
i think it’s fine🤷🏼♀️
Lmao stfu it sounds fine
Alice Kho it’s just constructive criticism. There’s no need to be rude. They aren’t trying to hate.
Celia Ortiz thank you! it was definitely not meant to be hateful, i thought i made that clear lmao. love niki and these type of videos it was just a tip that she may could take (or not) 😂
Celia Ortiz lmao I wasn't being rude
First off, i LOVE Remi. She is by far my favourite youtuber and i am so proud of her. I think these series are so great beacause we dont know as much about these youtubers as we think we do. The video’s are great and the editing is so beautiful Nikki! I love the both of you and hope you work things out for yourselfs
Please do Meredith foster
There is a PTSD that comes with both losing and gaining weight that not many people will understand. It is a club and you’re not in it until you’re in it. Losing weight and having that physical transformation and having to train your mind to readjust to who you are now is a kind of trauma and its gonna take time to get comfortable again.
You and I are the same age going through the same things and it’s so normal to still feel like people are seeing you for who you were rather than who you are. You may not believe it but it can only get better from here. I’m so excited for you to get back comfortable with yourself.
Omg same only I'm 13 and I haven't lost any weight but still I feel sooo fat and I am overweight
This series is actually beautiful.🙌 I could only hope to create something this wonderful someday. Congrats niki, truly feel like you’ve found something great 🙏❤️
NicolePamela I'm subscribed to u!!
Yes it truly is..:)
I know we are like serious but like...Remi's Eyelashes ARE BOMB!
@@m-jane2881 don't be so rude she is beautiful in her own way don't out others down to put yourself up it's not ok
@@m-jane2881 what is wrong with you, so disrespectful, dont you dare body or shame ANYONE no matter what, i would hate to be your mom, such a disgrace, i cant believe someone has the guts to say such rude things, also how would you feel if someone said those exact word to you for billions and millions to see? I didn't think so, like such domt watch this vidow if you really wanna say that
Mia26 You need slapped. NOT okay. You think you’re so tough hiding behind a keyboard but I bet you’re a coward irl. Disgusting.
Mia26 how dare you? why would you put someone down like that. She is absolutely gorgeous. One, she is not fat. And if she was, fat is NOT an insult! She did it mostly for her health. So, no thank you, next!!!
@@m-jane2881 did u realize that u don't have any likes
I’ve watched Remi since the beginning and I loved her then and I love her now her personality and it made me feel like I connected to her and tbh just because she started this journey doesn’t make her a different person it makes her stronger and that’s what’s inspiring
Madalynn White i have watched remi 3 or 4
Yes! I hate how people are always negative about her change.
Same!!!
Ive been watching Remi ever since 2015 and Mia, Alisha, Mylifeaseva, Tiffany, Niki and Gabi
I love this. I love Remi. I love everything she said here. I feel she's relatable here a lot. I've loved watching her because she is so happy but it's nice to be reminded that she's a real person too. Love love love love love.
you should interview Cloe about losing her mom to cancer
mels xo can I post the same comment? I love this idea and I want it to get as much attention as possible
Yes . Even though I have not personally experienced this ( and I hope that I never will) I feel like th people who have unfortunately lost someone to cancer would like it to be educated to those who are uneducated on the topic
Mels xo Can I use this idea to tweet her with or something love the idea (I lost my uncle due to cancer it went away then came back a lot worse)
Raelee Myers of course!!
remi has always had a positive effect on my life I started watching her when I was 11 I'm 14 now and have struggled with comparing myself to others. I've never been over weight and still feel fat constantly. Remi's journey has helped me with my problems and excepting myself for who I am and for that I truly thank her.
please talk with gabi and her ariana grande identity crisis plz
Rana Afhame woah fan girl calm down.
Rana Afhame yeah...calm down. It’s Niki’s channel. Really don’t think you need to bring Gabi into it.
Ok look first of all calm down jeez. Also I feel like it would be nice if she talked with poeple about her life because, it can really help you. Liek you don't know what she's going through. Also not every is obbsesed with Arian
I agree. At this point, it's not normal, and it has been going on for years. It's not "cute" anymore, I don't think she deserves hate for it, but I think Gabi is having problems finding herself and figuring out who she really is because she keeps trying to adapt personalities from other people instead of being her own person. When she first went blonde I thought maybe she finally found herself and I started liking her more, but then I realized very quickly she was just trying to adopt Chanel's personality from Scream Queens. I think she just needs some help to figure out who she can be on her own, because she has potential to be a great individual personality. She's definitely allowed to have things in common with Ariana or Chanel, but to completely immerse herself into their personas isn't healthy and is disrespectful to real people like Ariana because her personality is something she developed on her own from growing up and finding herself, it's not okay to take parts of what someone really is naturally and force them into yourself. You can look up and be inspired by someone without going to the lengths that Gabi does.
Eric Strahl 😂😂😂
Remi is so inspiring and I'm so glad that she is opening up, and was on this series. She's inspired me to get healthier and lose weight for myself and myself only, so seeing this side of her makes me feel less alone. Im so thankful for this series, Niki. Thank you.
I haven’t really watched much of Remi, but this makes me want to. This is so relatable. When you are overweight you think everything will be perfect and you’ll be so happy if you lose weight. But you have to learn that’s not what makes you happy and find what does
The music is so distracting! sorry. could you turn the volume down on the music more so we can hear better next time? thanks! Love you and your vids. Great new series!
Truth about Gabi
Truth about Meredith
Truth about Mia
Truth about laurdiy
Truth about Eva
Maybe some guy episodes to
Erica Ann shane?
Anna Grace Koehler there's no need to do Shane he's really open already.
Erica Ann James Charels
Haijs Nsuje No she said to do Shane l said don't do him Jesus.
You should deff make a video with Meredith Foster
Natalia Kolanowska what happened
Yes defiantly
Meredith Foster doesn’t want to admit to having a problem though...unless I missed something.
Natalia Kolanowska well she claims she doesn’t have a problem so...
Why?
Remi needs to collaborate with Shane...like Shane needs to do a series with her💖💖💖
Yes!!!!!!!
This needs to happen!
YAAAAASSSSSSSS my fave TH-camrs collab ❤❤❤
*Sees her apartment*
*Looks around own house*
*Sigh* I’m going to Ikea
You should have Meredith Foster
being body positive doesn't mean you're not allowed to change. I'm so proud of you for doing this for your health and future :)
Niki and Remi, you both are absolutely amazing. Niki, I applaud you for keeping this conversation going. As creators we can't even imagine the impact we have on young minds. You are making such a huge impact on the next generation of teenagers. I feel like for our generation it was hush hush and everyone tried to keep their struggles private. By making these videos, you are teaching the next generation that it is OK to struggle and it is OK to talk about it.
Keep up the great work! This is an amazing series.
This right here is a true definition of strong, powerful, brave, amazing, inspiring women. I love how real this was and it 100% is something that everyone needs to be able to see more. Everyone goes through this and it is relatable to so many. So thank you so much for this inspirational video.💖
I love how Niki’s channel is growing and becoming more mature as she is. I’ve had problems so similar to Remi before. I am a petite girl and have never struggled with weight necessarily but rather how my body looks (especially on camera) and I completely relate to how Remi says you will never be 100% happy with your body. I am working on it, slowly but surely, both physically and mentally. Thank you for this video Niki ❤️
DO MEREDITH FOSTER! DO MEREDITH FOSTER! DO MEREDITH FOSTER!
I’m so proud of Remi!
I related when Remi was talking in the beginning of the video, trying to lose weight and then gaining it back is so hard & especially when it’s constant, it’s still something I struggle with even when I’m still young. I love both of them sm, the series is so informational and Remi gives me so much hope about myself, her positivity seriously rubs off on other people. 💗💘💓
Remi looks and sounds so sad it breaks my heart I love her
Meredith Foster.
you should interview TEALA DUNN!! i think it would be nice to hear how she remains confident and strong despite all of the racist comments and hate she receives.. i would also like to get to know her better 🙂💓
I would be alllllll about a Remi and gabi collab 🙌💝
NicolePamela yess!!
I've watched every episode so far and honestly I feel like Niki could be a therapist or someone like that. She's very good at getting people to open up in a comfortable way without placing any pressure on them or the situation. She's also super kind, and she gives a lot of thoughtful input and feedback to the people she's talked with.
Why am I getting real Shane vibes from this
Juli : because she copied him
lola so Shane invented talking about struggles? not oprah or any talk show host??
yara يارا not but he did start this whole TH-cam series. I’m not saying no one can do this style of videos, but I think she should give credit to him. If you watch Shane’s channel it’s obvious she was inspired by him
V Rose “easy to think of”. Girl, please. It takes creativity. Go watch Shane’s videos and if you think the same thing you’re just in denial.
lola 🙄🙄it's legit just talking p, you're giving people to much credit for "creativity". Don't get me wrong Shane is creative in other ways but just talking? Are you kidding this is just a podcast w extra footage.
You are Beautiful Remi!!! Be proud girl!
I totally agree! Own it Remi !
33 minutes!! IM READY 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
VicEloAbo 29 second
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Zadie Fleming • 30* seconds.
Sarah S it’s 29* 😂
VicEloAbo HI GUYS I JUST POSTED A SUMMER NIGHT ROUTINE..but not really. Go watch if you want
This series is revelationary😭🙌🏼
Katie Tracy i just watched one of your videos today! really good! keep working hard!
I lov ur channel ❤️❤️❤️
I am LIVING for this series Niki, I love that so many youtubers are speaking out about all these hard things, it helps normalize them along with bringing the youtubers down from the pedestals, and shows people that they aren't alone. Everyone is dealing with something, which makes us human.
I love that you do interview with LOTSSSSSS of flashback clips of Remi. It is really engaging! I can't even look away! 💕
do one with gabi about her ariana phase
I feel like it would give Gabi the chance to really speak out in depth about it
Sophia Houle same! gabi said she had identity problems growing up as a twin so i feel she could really open up about that :’)
Lol you mean the one she's still pathetically in?!?!
Mel Weaver wow. It's insane that you put hate towards someone for something that doesn't affect anyone. It's style. Chill.
until she admits she still does imitate ariana that will never happen :(
I love what you say about "chasing" after what we think will make us happy and being disappointed. Ultimately, losing weight or looking different doesn't make us happy. Happiness is internal.
Nina Thomas couldn’t agree more
Nina Thomas yea but health.
agreed! the only true happiness is in Jesus Christ. it is such a waste of time looking in every wrong place when the true source of JOY, perfect Joy, is in Him and in a walk with Him.
Rebecca Ince maybe for you. It’s not my true happiness, nor is it for everyone else. Allow people to find true happiness in their own special things.
Does carry around an extra 50lbs bag make you happy? I lost 40lbs. It feels great being active.
I have so many things to say about this:
1. What Remi said about only feeling like the past her is different or lesser when she sees her progress photos is true for me as an audience member as well. I remember feeling so immensely jealous of her beauty and her confidence 60 lbs ago, and when I watch her videos now I feel like I'm watching the same person, not someone necessarily better or someone who makes the old her seem ugly.
2. I am so happy that she unarchived her Instagram photos. I have followed her for 4 years now (at least), and there have been multiple occasions where I've wanted to scroll through her photos just for memories sake and saw most of them gone.
3. Remi shouldn't be afraid to be herself. It's the only way her channel will grow to its full potential. There will be more hate, but with more followers comes more people who will want to tear you down, regardless of your weight.
we need this back! this is really helping all of us getting to know them better and knowing they struggle with things we do too! Nicki we need another one of these!!
Niki’s hair is giving me Kylie Jenner vibes!! So cute!!😍😍
I feel like it would be cool to do Gabi especially with all the drama that’s happening right now
Lindsey Donohoe yes!
Gabi who? What is the drama?
victoriayellsnever Her twin sister Gabi is having drama with this whole Ariana Grande thing
Lindsey Donohoe only cuz arianas fans cant read arianas own tweets and know that she's cool with gabi
the background music is loud like omg I’d but it’s driving me nuts- constrictive criticism not hate ok
Luke Alexander had to stop watching the video because of the loud music
Yeah your right I was literally paying attention to the music instead of the convo a lil distracting
i agree, thought i was the only one
I felt the same! I kept getting distracted.
Yes luke alexander but ur giving constructive critism about her body
As an overweight girl since childhood, I understand completely. I always have the insecurities about my looks, and think "boys are gonna think twice before they make fun of me again" but I always get the feeling in the back of my head that would anything truly change? Would I spiral? Would I screw up one day and all the weight come back? I always remember this dream I had as a kid, for some reason I had a magic wand, I pointed it at my stomach and basically said that I wanted to be skinny. Well, as the fat was melting away, my stomach starting hurting really bad in my dream. I always associate being "skinny" as a pain in my stomach. I know all of this was rambles, but I just wanted to clarify, I understand the thoughts around yourself not being the ideal visual.
It is hard being vulnerable but it empowers you, no one is perfect and sharing your story also helps others💕 I can also relate, I used to binge and purge and it has still stuck with me, like I still checking myself, weighting myself and feeling shameful if I don’t exercise but I don’t binge or purge anymore. I go to a psychiatrist for bipolar disorder and anxiety as well and the step to truly getting better is to open up❤️
Have a magical day good job on your improvement keep rising through it I struggle with the same as well