Probably my biggest pet peeve with Greys Anatomy is the fact that they keep performing surgery on their friends and family. Absolutely would not happen in real life.
The best plastic surgery episodes from this show involve a doctor called Mark Sloan. I suggest season 2 episode 18 where he operates on a young patient with a brain tumor caused by lionitis or really any significant plastics episode you find with him involved.
plastic surgeons don't operate on brain tumors, neurosurgeons do. plastic surgeons also usually don't know a lot about cancer (lymphoma/leukemia/lung etc) unless it involves an extremity or a flap or a certain procedure they are involved with. A lot of these medicine shows like Grey's and House have a lot of crossover between specialty where the same person is the hospitalist, oncologist, neurosurgeon, orthopedic surgeon, plastic surgeon etc. very different from reality.
My grandma had brest cancer and the doctors and my grandfather discussed all without telling her anything. She woke up one day without one of her brests and no one explained her anything. When she told me I was horrified that could even happen.
Shes a doctor too. She would know the Hippa laws and that she cant demand to see her mom's charts. So I think this was played up a little too much for the drama. And you'd think she would respond differently when she found out she has cancer, considering shes a doctor and had probably dealt with bad news before.
But when’s its on a family member its a little different. Your bias relationship with them and your feeling overpowered your judgment and logic on what you know
I'm not a doctor but I do serve people with disabilities and we have to abide by HIPAA. If this situation came up where a family member asked about it, the immediate response is always "I can't discuss that. It's private information" and also if it's a fellow employee I would totally say "you know better than this."
Thank you! I work at rite aid. Not even the pharmacy part but the store and even I had to take a two hour HIPAA course that we have to review every year. The fact that a doctor is doing this just makes it seem so unbelievable qnd takes me out of the show
The look on your face, even while reacting to a fictional situation, was clearly genuine. I appreciate that. I can see how much you care. Good job Doctor!
Here’s the thing, with the type of cancer that Maggie’s mom had, inflammatory breast cancer, you are not supposed to have reconstruction for at least 1 year. Plus, after surgery an additional 30 doses of radiation are required. I was so excited when she was diagnosed with this rare deadly form of cancer but disappointed in how they missed the chance to educate women, and the medical field, about this very deadly type of cancer. More and more, many women opt for no reconstruction. Unfortunately, when surgery and recovery are discussed, it’s rare that this option is brought up by the medical community. This needs to change.
I would add that this is a very aggressive type of cancer and you dont just get a mastectomy. Several lymph nodes are also removed during the surgery as they were most likely cancerous. Protocol is 18 rounds of chemo, followed by what is called a modified radical mastectomy, 6 weeks of healing, and 30 doses of radiation. Then in 1 year, if you are so inclined to put your body through more abuse just so you can have fake boobs, you can have reconstruction. Major fail Greys Anatomy!
@@Habibalhoque Exactly she even told Meredith I remember Maggie lashing out to Mer how she put Ellies Ashes I the OR when Mer told her not to stress her mum with surgeries and she refuse to listen, I applaude Mer for not doing the surgey she knew she had few days to live.
I was yelling HIPPA! The whole time I watched this episode. I took a phlebotomy course in 2019 and those rules got pounded into my head, this lady's behavior looking into her mother's chart could easily get her fired. Awesome to hear what you had to say on this!
Wow, the surgery part is very interesting but I now just realized that the actor in the first clip is also the actor for the game Detroit become human..
The medical world is definitely for certain people, i us to be a pre med major in college but when my Uni required us to shadow Dr and help nurses in hospitals this is when I know it wasn’t for me, now I am an Analyst, hats off to Dr and all those in the med field.
I worked as a scribe for a doctor and through my 10 months of doing that I realized on the floor wasn't for me - I still wanted to be involved in the medical field though. So I ended up getting a graduate degree in public health (aka preventative medicine) so I can try to keep people from ending up in the hospital in the first place
@@Ludix147 for those who are employed, great. For those who aren't? It's near impossible to get a job in the field because of how tough competition is. You're basically playing the lottery for if you get interviewed
Hi Dr. Youn, you gave me a much healthier outlook on plastic surgery as a 23 year old bombarded with pop culture. Wishing the best for you and your wife (:
Could you please do a video about The Swan? It was a TV show that used to air in which they would completely makeover women until they were unrecognizable and many times they had no idea which procedures they were undergoing and how they would look in the end. I’d really like your perspective on this show and how those women were treated.
I'm just curious why she was judging her mom for wanting implants before she knew her mother had cancer. The daughter needs learn HIPPA applys to her too.
The absolute funniest part about this video is how professional, realistic and ethical this doctor is while talking about Grey’s. As a Grey’s fan, I can tell you that being a part of your family member’s treatment is job requirement for the physicians at Grey Sloan Memorial.
I used to work in the VA's medical record department's release of information, and the HIPAA rules are extremely strict. In state regs, for example, you can give a patient's medical information to their outside physician over the phone. Fed regs don't allow that. The rule about accessing family records is true. Violating it means a $50,000 fine that the hospital has to pay, an audit by regulatory agencies, and you get fined about $20,000. Granted, it's been a few years since I worked with medical records, so I don't know if the financial penalties have gone up, or not. Edit: forgot to finish part of a sentence.
I remember one time I was at the hospital and we were discussing post op care. My mom was in the room. I felt so embarrassed because my mom wanted to take control over EVERYTHING (I was early-mid 20s at the time so no longer legally a dependent on her) and I had to just about get in a full blown argument with her there with the nurse there in the corner of the room. I had told my Mom beforehand but she wanted to fight me in there in the clinic room :|
actually, i agree with the daughter's reaction. at first her mother was getting a random boob job, in her eyes for no apparent reason, and refused to tell her anything about it. of course she would be worried and of course she would try to ask her doctor about if, even more so if it's a colleague and a friend. yes, it's against rules, but it's family we're talking about. and then when she finds out her mother actually has cancer, truthfully it is one of the most plausible reactions. if you hear your mother is going in for surgery on a terminal illness and has hid this away from you all this time, would you happy dance? no, of course not. she went trough psychological stages: at first denial, when she asked her mother if that was true, realization, when she saw that her mother was serious, and then anger about not only her hiding the truth, but also the situation itself, one of your parents, or truly anyone in your family, group your friends or even an acquaintance getting cancer is a big deal. and after a shock like this one, it's only normal that she would want to know what's going on with her mother, because if she can hide that she has cancer, what else can she can hide? and this goes even further, as the daughter is a doctor, she has seen a generous amount on cancer cases that don't end well, at all, it's only understandable that she reacts that way.
They always show zero scarring on TV. A lot of people think they can literally make things DISAPPEAR with plastics, so I'm really happy you're around to disspell these myths
My ex was an MD. When we divorced I had to be really careful with the doctors I chose because he would get my medical info from doctors pretending we were still married.
I don't want to be rude towards your trauma But isn't this something you could have reported? He doesn't have the rights to your information and should lose his job trying to do that.
As a non-medical, I value your videos for the inside look they offer. Doctors are scary, illness is scary and, with the times as they are, they are especially so. Information into the thinking/feeling processes of those who treat us are invaluable. From the heart, thank you.
I think she needs to take emotional sick leave. I don’t know if that’s a thing but she definitely needs it. She’s too emotionally distressed to concentrate on her work and practice ethical and safe practices. Definitely needs a break.
Dr Youn is reviewing the show so honestly and he's able to come up easily with facts and additional information to elaborate on a simple scene. I appreciate his channel and his work so much!
Do you think you'd be able to do a video regarding your experience in undergrad, med school, and residency? Tips for proper studying and such. I'm a biology major and am strongly considering medical school. Thank you for your consideration!!!
My grandfather on my mother's side was diagnosed with cancer when my mum was in her late teens. This was in Japan about forty years ago and the whole family had to act like nothing was wrong with him, even though he had realised what was going on. They had to keep denying that he had cancer right up until he passed away from it. I can't even begin to imagine how stressful and painful that must have been for everyone involved.
Hi, Dr. I'm currently binge watching your videos during the quarantine, lol. Do you think Jared Leto has some work done to look so young at 48? I was watching his IG live the other day, and he looks 28 actually...Even the skin around the eyes looks amazing.
Hey you should do a video with Doctor Mike! You both have watched med shows and talk about your opinions and facts, plus itd be cool to see you guys talk about stuff! (Hes very beautiful too)
I'm 33yo woman and my little sister got breast cancer at 30 this past year. It's been exceptionally hard being "doctor sister" as she calls me. I cried myself to sleep every night for about a month until she got through AC chemo. 💕 I've also had to help walk my brother in law through aortic dissection and brain death of his mother 2 years ago. It can be very tough dealing with these things when you know the medicine behind it.
In East Asian countries such as China, we still practice a lot of what you refer to 'paternalism'.. shielding the patient from diagnosis.. Akwafina recently starred in a film regarding this topic.
This is a great show. In reality I been in the position where I had to tell a doctor, charge nurse, surgeon, as well with love ones that they do not have the right to ask me or order me to do anything that will cause me to lose my job. Trust me when your momma or love one is sick regardless of your title you will become as vulnerable and demand the same thing. It is different when it hits home. You are human with feelings.
Being a nurse in the eighties and nineties was sometimes difficult because the patients already knew they were seriously ill and the doctors withheld the information. So the patients begged us to reveal their diagnoses which we were forbidden. Still if we knew the patients well, a lot could be "told" with nodding and shaking of your head. It was heartbreaking.
PS I truly think people should know (if they want to) the state of their health and spend the, often limited, time as they see fit and be able to make the nessecary arrangements for their departure.
I just like and admire you. You are a genuine person. You earned your specialty through many years of study and hard work, plus financial burdens I'm sure. So "Thank You" for being "available" to all of us in a way that doesn't make any of us feel intimidated. You "relate" to us as a fellow human being, with all our flaws, strengths, failings and successes. You also make me laugh with your wit and humour. (Yeah spellcheck - I'm English - hence the 'u' in Humour!) And you have rescue dogs - that's just the cherry on the cake for me!
Hello, I'm Desi, I am a mortgage broker living in Florida. I just found this channel and Im so in love with it. I think it's great that you made this channel and you are communicating with us. Most doctors are snobs. You're a breath of fresh air.
I understand this a show and the daughter is worried about her mom and her health and future, however as a doctor she should 100% understand that a patient may not feel comfortable talking to them, especially if it’s a family member. I personally wouldn’t want to go to one of my family members that are a medical professional as they can be full of biases and emotions.
Agreed. Where I work I can look at anything about a patient, past or present. But, I'm bound ethically to not snoop. And, when he says this doesn't happen often, I gotta disagree. Friends and family don't always have the option to get medical care just anywhere, but the do have absolute authority regarding their medical history. A husband can block his wife, or vice versa. A kid can shut out their parent if they are of legal age. A colleague can keep things under wraps except for need to know people. And, if info leaks, they can audit electronic files to figure out who snooped and when. I've seen groups of people, nurses and doctors, fired for such things. We have annual training and testing surrounding medical information treatment.
I like how he brought up how it would not occur in an actual hospital when most of then things that happen in greys anatomy are less likely to happen at all lol
In china, they don’t tell elderly relatives when they have a life threatening health problem. Oftentimes, this actually results in the individual living far past the expected amount of time they have left. I don’t have any first hand experience with this, but I heard about this and a movie made about it on NPR one time haha
I love how she went from calling her mom self involved (also shaming her a lot in the episode) to just walking away from her when she tells her what was actually happening.
She passed away after her daughter steered her into some clinical trial where she suffered so much!! You should watch the series, it's excellent. I've seen it 20+ times lol
Kinda relate to what he's saying about treating and operating family member. I'm a vet, well not exactly practitioner tho I work in pharmaceutical industry... And I really panic and can't think straight when my cat sick..... So I visit other vet and trust them
Dang, my aunt died from a really agresive cancer with out she even know she had it, but it was her biggest fear so actually I might think it was the best way to go.
My mom did this to me. She meant well because I deal with depression. What people don't know is being blindsided triggers depression for me. She didn't want to be a burden and that made me feel so sad. I'll do anything for her but when I was in the process of moving states she was ill. She told my siblings and the rest of the family and they all kept it from me. I found out after I forced it out of her a year later while I was in town for a visit. She just didn't want me to be sad because she knows I'm really emotional. She wanted me to be happy when I moved because she knew how hard I worked for that moment in life. I understand why she did it that way. She knows I would have never taken that step. One she never made which is leaving your home state.
I really empathize with the daughter here. My mom hid that she had ovarian cancer and had to undergo a total hysterectomy because I was living abroad-- she didn't want me to worry and go through the expense of flying home. Luckily, I had worked with my brother (who told me nothing) to surprise her on Mother's Day with a visit. Her surgery was the next day and...I can't even remember how I reacted. I was totally shocked.
That character, Maggie, does later on realize how during the time her mother had cancer she was acting like a doctor above acting like a daughter. I think you made some really good points about her reactions and what she said and I wanted to add that the show does go in later and address some of how Maggie acted not only in this episode but in other ones during this story line with her mother.
I’ve only seen a bit of greys anatomy but as a student nurse and as someone who also works as a nursing assistant it infuriates me because they make it look like the doctors do everything and nurses & nursing assistants don’t even exist. Doctors, like every job role in the hospital, are extremely important, but in real life it’s the nurses that do all the managing of patient care and nursing assistants and us students that actually have the most patient contact!
Hi Dr. Youn, I can’t say I’m loving this quarantine but I am grateful that you’re pumping out more vids as a result!! Ps, because of you I focused on incorporating retinol, vitamin C, and sunscreen into my routine! How can I go about asking my family doctor for a tretinoin rx if I want it for anti-aging purposes (not so much acne)?
If this happened in the hospital that I work in, heads would roll. It has happened. I don't have first hand knowledge, but every year we have to watch videos and read materials explaining HIPPA rules and laws. You have to written consent to give anyone, other than you, açcess to your medical information. This episode is very unrealistic in a number of ways. It's drama, but it ain't medical drama.
I am so happy to see this reaction. Maggie's mum would probably have lived longer if her doctors acted like doctors but instead they were tiptoeing around Maggie and let her lead the next steps of treatment. They should have stepped up. I know a lot of this is done for the drama but, as a paralegal, I just notice things that can go so wrong legally.
Yeah, back in 2011 my grandma died at 75 I believe. It was revealed last year when visiting my Grandaunt, grandma’s sister, that grandma had a doctors appointment the week before she was found. Before the appointment grandma said if they found anything wrong she didn’t want to go through that. And then we were informed she died but wasn’t told how.
I was fortunate not to develop any cancers. But was able to view my mother and her sisters (3 out of 4 sisters with the gene develop breast cancer.) My mother survived breast cancer, but passed away from pancreatic cancer 32 years later, another concern for BRCA1 carriers. Two of her sisters passed away due to their decisions about options. Also, my younger sister who had the gene, passed away from ovarian cancer. She did get surgery to remove her ovaries, but two years later was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. As a woman turning 61, we accepted our bodies. Like my mother's family doctor/surgeon told her back in 1983, after she asked him what did he think? He was truthful. If he as a person, had a body part trying to kill him, he would remove it. Be it an arm or a leg. Best advice ever. He told her that his father was a doctor and had a patient with breast cancer and this woman went on to live a full life. It is always important to speak truthfully, do not give me statistics! What have you as a doctor/surgeon seen.
The removing of the fat from the stomach is what my co-worker's sister had done. My grandmother had breast cancer and didn't tell any of her daughters for almost a year. They were very upset because obviously this affects not only their health and granddaughter's health.
Most systems don’t have preventative lockouts like this, either. The more realistic scenario is Maggie would have had no problem accessing the files, and if a single issue came up they would retroactively lookup access records. They’d see she accessed a family’s records without the patient’s permission, check if she was the power of attorney (though even that would still be problematic), and handle accordingly. It’s serious enough that getting fired is very much on the table, and I have seen it happen twice at my facility, once on a first offense.
It seems likely it would be flagged if she access the chart at all. If her mom specifically requested Maggie not be informed, I don't think it's outside the realm of possibility that she would be blocked from accessing it.
I absolutely LOVE Grey's Anatomy!!! 💘 In no way do I believe it is like reality, but it is super entertaining. Combine that with you Dr. Youn! Oh yeah! I'm there! What a fun video! Thank you!!!! 🥰
I'd like to add that not only was the daughter deceived by her mother, but her mother was also withholding *crucial* health information from her daughter, who is now finding out that she may be at risk for developing breast cancer too.
Probably my biggest pet peeve with Greys Anatomy is the fact that they keep performing surgery on their friends and family. Absolutely would not happen in real life.
I dont remember when they performed on their family but they definitely performed on their friends
As the seasons progress they seem to care less and less about it
Friends but only one episode did I see family... And paperwork had to be signed...
Greys Anatomy isn't a medical show, it's a soap opera where the main cast just happen to be doctors.
@@BigUriel sadly now there aren't even real medical cases, only petty high school drama :(
The best plastic surgery episodes from this show involve a doctor called Mark Sloan. I suggest season 2 episode 18 where he operates on a young patient with a brain tumor caused by lionitis or really any significant plastics episode you find with him involved.
Harmony A E yes! How do you review plastics on greys without mark?
@@mc10333 I know, I was a little bummed it was only Jackson.
Ya we need mark
RIP Mark Sloan 😭
plastic surgeons don't operate on brain tumors, neurosurgeons do. plastic surgeons also usually don't know a lot about cancer (lymphoma/leukemia/lung etc) unless it involves an extremity or a flap or a certain procedure they are involved with. A lot of these medicine shows like Grey's and House have a lot of crossover between specialty where the same person is the hospitalist, oncologist, neurosurgeon, orthopedic surgeon, plastic surgeon etc. very different from reality.
Your reactions to this show are meme-worthy
Haha! Thanks!
Anthony Youn, MD you’re awesome
In a good way of course
@@DoctorYoun i love you🥺❤
Absolutely 😅..70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺
My grandma had brest cancer and the doctors and my grandfather discussed all without telling her anything. She woke up one day without one of her brests and no one explained her anything. When she told me I was horrified that could even happen.
Wow that's terrible
Was/is she ok long after what happened?
That had to be terrifying to wake up to
When did this happen?
HOLY COW! when and where did it happen?
well men know it better that's why thet decided for her
Shes a doctor too. She would know the Hippa laws and that she cant demand to see her mom's charts. So I think this was played up a little too much for the drama. And you'd think she would respond differently when she found out she has cancer, considering shes a doctor and had probably dealt with bad news before.
it's HIPAA
@@uwulisu actually I think its HYPPAH. Jk thanks for the correction. I'm not a dr myself.
Timothy Morigeau Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act lol 🤪
But when’s its on a family member its a little different. Your bias relationship with them and your feeling overpowered your judgment and logic on what you know
HIPAA.
I'm not a doctor but I do serve people with disabilities and we have to abide by HIPAA. If this situation came up where a family member asked about it, the immediate response is always "I can't discuss that. It's private information" and also if it's a fellow employee I would totally say "you know better than this."
Thank you! I work at rite aid. Not even the pharmacy part but the store and even I had to take a two hour HIPAA course that we have to review every year. The fact that a doctor is doing this just makes it seem so unbelievable qnd takes me out of the show
i've never seen grey's anatomy so the most surprising thing about this was seeing markus the android messiah as a plastic surgeon
Lmao, I thought I was the only one who recognized him
I knew he looked familiar!
Lmao same I was like: wait is that markus voice???
And then I went to google and yes!!
FJOANISBS YES
Just commented about that lmao 😆
The look on your face, even while reacting to a fictional situation, was clearly genuine. I appreciate that. I can see how much you care. Good job Doctor!
Here’s the thing, with the type of cancer that Maggie’s mom had, inflammatory breast cancer, you are not supposed to have reconstruction for at least 1 year. Plus, after surgery an additional 30 doses of radiation are required. I was so excited when she was diagnosed with this rare deadly form of cancer but disappointed in how they missed the chance to educate women, and the medical field, about this very deadly type of cancer.
More and more, many women opt for no reconstruction. Unfortunately, when surgery and recovery are discussed, it’s rare that this option is brought up by the medical community. This needs to change.
I would add that this is a very aggressive type of cancer and you dont just get a mastectomy. Several lymph nodes are also removed during the surgery as they were most likely cancerous. Protocol is 18 rounds of chemo, followed by what is called a modified radical mastectomy, 6 weeks of healing, and 30 doses of radiation. Then in 1 year, if you are so inclined to put your body through more abuse just so you can have fake boobs, you can have reconstruction. Major fail Greys Anatomy!
Yh she knew she had cancer for ages and only came to Seattle to say goodbye to maggie
i think Grey's Anatomy is a romance novel disguised as a medical show. Shouldn't expect much.
not only that, there's been cases where doctors have forced reconstruction onto women who did not want it
@@Habibalhoque Exactly she even told Meredith I remember Maggie lashing out to Mer how she put Ellies Ashes I the OR when Mer told her not to stress her mum with surgeries and she refuse to listen, I applaude Mer for not doing the surgey she knew she had few days to live.
I was yelling HIPPA! The whole time I watched this episode. I took a phlebotomy course in 2019 and those rules got pounded into my head, this lady's behavior looking into her mother's chart could easily get her fired. Awesome to hear what you had to say on this!
Def., HIPAA is no joke!
In normal setting probably yes but in this particular series her sister owns the hospital they both work at so 🤷🏼♀️
I yell HIPPA on just about every episode 😂
what episode was this?
@@trullyfreak that’s when you call the medical board😂
Please react to Oli London, he's a British man who tries to look like a BTS member by having tons of plastic surgery.
thats what i was thinking too
What a creep
pls stop givin em attention this is literally what he wants from us
@@unorthifox HE isnt even a bts fan and gives kpop fans everythere a bad rep, stop trying to give this guy clout.
Aušrinė Vilimaityte I know he isn't a bts fan, but I thought it would be interesting to see a plastic surgeon's comments on his surgeries.
Wow, the surgery part is very interesting but I now just realized that the actor in the first clip is also the actor for the game Detroit become human..
I was looking for someone else who noticed this!
I thought his voice sounded very familiar!
yessss i'm glad you pointed that out i was like "omg what else is he from....." it was driving me nuts i couldn't remember the dang word
Thank you! I was wondering the whole time where I knew him from
I'm glad I was of help!!
The medical world is definitely for certain people, i us to be a pre med major in college but when my Uni required us to shadow Dr and help nurses in hospitals this is when I know it wasn’t for me, now I am an Analyst, hats off to Dr and all those in the med field.
I worked as a scribe for a doctor and through my 10 months of doing that I realized on the floor wasn't for me - I still wanted to be involved in the medical field though. So I ended up getting a graduate degree in public health (aka preventative medicine) so I can try to keep people from ending up in the hospital in the first place
@@Lilliaace how's the public health thing going these days?
@@Ludix147 for those who are employed, great. For those who aren't? It's near impossible to get a job in the field because of how tough competition is. You're basically playing the lottery for if you get interviewed
Hi Dr. Youn, you gave me a much healthier outlook on plastic surgery as a 23 year old bombarded with pop culture. Wishing the best for you and your wife (:
Could you please do a video about The Swan? It was a TV show that used to air in which they would completely makeover women until they were unrecognizable and many times they had no idea which procedures they were undergoing and how they would look in the end. I’d really like your perspective on this show and how those women were treated.
Georgia Day plus they absolutely BULLY these women(ugly ducklings)
Never heard of this show but sounds awful!! I would also like to see him react
I'm just curious why she was judging her mom for wanting implants before she knew her mother had cancer. The daughter needs learn HIPPA applys to her too.
Esp. as a doctor. HIPAA must be drilled into irl docs due to the especially litigious nature surrounding the profession.
I love it that you actually watch the show. Due to HIPPA, no one has the access to your private information, But it's great to see you watch them...
HIPAA*
"Hopefully she does ok in the end"
Grey's Anatomy fans: "Uh....."
what happened to her??
@@lisademoor9292 She died, like most of the characters in this tv show...
Jelly ssia that’s why I can’t watch it the good doctors my show greys kills too many
That’s EXACTLY what went through my mind 😂
Everyone dies
The absolute funniest part about this video is how professional, realistic and ethical this doctor is while talking about Grey’s.
As a Grey’s fan, I can tell you that being a part of your family member’s treatment is job requirement for the physicians at Grey Sloan Memorial.
I used to work in the VA's medical record department's release of information, and the HIPAA rules are extremely strict.
In state regs, for example, you can give a patient's medical information to their outside physician over the phone.
Fed regs don't allow that.
The rule about accessing family records is true. Violating it means a $50,000 fine that the hospital has to pay, an audit by regulatory agencies, and you get fined about $20,000.
Granted, it's been a few years since I worked with medical records, so I don't know if the financial penalties have gone up, or not.
Edit: forgot to finish part of a sentence.
Let's be honest Grey's is not the same without Sandra Oh. I stopped watching.
Tabe tha I stopped watching before she left, but I can’t even imagine the show without her, because she was a really big part of it
It hasn’t been the same since George left
I still watch but I resent myself for it lol
i agree. i’ve still been keeping up with it but it’s definitely just not the same as it use to be
Stopped watching after the season where the chief gets electrocuted. Seems like the plot was lost..
I remember one time I was at the hospital and we were discussing post op care. My mom was in the room. I felt so embarrassed because my mom wanted to take control over EVERYTHING (I was early-mid 20s at the time so no longer legally a dependent on her) and I had to just about get in a full blown argument with her there with the nurse there in the corner of the room.
I had told my Mom beforehand but she wanted to fight me in there in the clinic room :|
I can literally stay here all day long 😂 love it here !!!
Wow that daughter is ANNOYING
Blessing O sooo annoying 🤦🏾♀️
You have no idea 😂
Mabel Lopez right Oml, be soo aggy.
@@patienceboley5864 I try to like but jesus christ she is so dam annoying
actually, i agree with the daughter's reaction. at first her mother was getting a random boob job, in her eyes for no apparent reason, and refused to tell her anything about it. of course she would be worried and of course she would try to ask her doctor about if, even more so if it's a colleague and a friend. yes, it's against rules, but it's family we're talking about. and then when she finds out her mother actually has cancer, truthfully it is one of the most plausible reactions. if you hear your mother is going in for surgery on a terminal illness and has hid this away from you all this time, would you happy dance? no, of course not. she went trough psychological stages: at first denial, when she asked her mother if that was true, realization, when she saw that her mother was serious, and then anger about not only her hiding the truth, but also the situation itself, one of your parents, or truly anyone in your family, group your friends or even an acquaintance getting cancer is a big deal. and after a shock like this one, it's only normal that she would want to know what's going on with her mother, because if she can hide that she has cancer, what else can she can hide? and this goes even further, as the daughter is a doctor, she has seen a generous amount on cancer cases that don't end well, at all, it's only understandable that she reacts that way.
They always show zero scarring on TV. A lot of people think they can literally make things DISAPPEAR with plastics, so I'm really happy you're around to disspell these myths
My ex was an MD. When we divorced I had to be really careful with the doctors I chose because he would get my medical info from doctors pretending we were still married.
Can they even give it out to him, even though you 2 would still be married?
Couldn't your doctor get fired or lose their license for that? Don't you have to give them permission?
I don't want to be rude towards your trauma
But isn't this something you could have reported? He doesn't have the rights to your information and should lose his job trying to do that.
He doesn’t have rights to your medical information even if you were married.
It's a good thing you divorced👍
I love how he talks, easy to understand (bad hearing), calm, informative, and cheery.
As a non-medical, I value your videos for the inside look they offer. Doctors are scary, illness is scary and, with the times as they are, they are especially so. Information into the thinking/feeling processes of those who treat us are invaluable. From the heart, thank you.
I think she needs to take emotional sick leave. I don’t know if that’s a thing but she definitely needs it. She’s too emotionally distressed to concentrate on her work and practice ethical and safe practices. Definitely needs a break.
it’s a show... the stress isn’t real and she can’t decide that.
paige 12
Well duh
FLMA
it exits, my mom did that :)
Dr Youn is reviewing the show so honestly and he's able to come up easily with facts and additional information to elaborate on a simple scene. I appreciate his channel and his work so much!
i cant believe how calm dr youn is while watching the operation scene. oh my god im cringing
I'm used to it
Do you think you'd be able to do a video regarding your experience in undergrad, med school, and residency? Tips for proper studying and such. I'm a biology major and am strongly considering medical school. Thank you for your consideration!!!
My grandfather on my mother's side was diagnosed with cancer when my mum was in her late teens. This was in Japan about forty years ago and the whole family had to act like nothing was wrong with him, even though he had realised what was going on. They had to keep denying that he had cancer right up until he passed away from it. I can't even begin to imagine how stressful and painful that must have been for everyone involved.
I found your channel yesterday and I LOVE IT! You're becoming my favorite youtuber!
Thanks!
apparently my new hobby is watching Dr Youn watch tv. it's so therapeutic. thank you Dr Youn!
I was just binging his videos but the actor from “Detroit become human” caught me off guard XD
Tbh, Idk how I got to your channel but.. I've been binge watching it for the past 2 hours. Subscribed 👌🏼👏🏼
Awesome!
Hi, Dr. I'm currently binge watching your videos during the quarantine, lol. Do you think Jared Leto has some work done to look so young at 48? I was watching his IG live the other day, and he looks 28 actually...Even the skin around the eyes looks amazing.
Thanks for the suggestion! I'll think about doing a video on him
He’s 48!!??
Anthony Youn, MD I can’t wait for this video 📍
That opening scene has HIPPA Violation ALL over it. (not commenting on the Drs. response, just as a past employee of a hospital system in IT security)
I used to love Grey's but almost every ep. they seem to violate HIPAA. 😂 especially for the biggest drama moments.
Hey you should do a video with Doctor Mike! You both have watched med shows and talk about your opinions and facts, plus itd be cool to see you guys talk about stuff! (Hes very beautiful too)
I would say unrealistic but I watch for the ~drama~
I'm 33yo woman and my little sister got breast cancer at 30 this past year. It's been exceptionally hard being "doctor sister" as she calls me. I cried myself to sleep every night for about a month until she got through AC chemo. 💕
I've also had to help walk my brother in law through aortic dissection and brain death of his mother 2 years ago. It can be very tough dealing with these things when you know the medicine behind it.
Why is "Detroit: Become Human" Markus here?
I'm glad i'm not the only one that noticed that!
Lol more like why is Jackson Avery in Detroit Become Human?
@@belltell5914 I see what you did there
Dr Youn ...is the voice of reason and real intelligence and skill that cuts through the fake ....made for TV drama ...He’s the best ❤️
Thank you for making me smile and laugh! Your opinions show you really are a great surgeon to your patients!
In East Asian countries such as China, we still practice a lot of what you refer to 'paternalism'.. shielding the patient from diagnosis.. Akwafina recently starred in a film regarding this topic.
What is the movie called?
@@criskp6861 It's called the farewell I believe.
Hi Dr Anthony, I am a new subsciber from the island of Trinidad in the caribbean. Thank you for content during these trying times. Stay safe.
This is a great show. In reality I been in the position where I had to tell a doctor, charge nurse, surgeon, as well with love ones that they do not have the right to ask me or order me to do anything that will cause me to lose my job. Trust me when your momma or love one is sick regardless of your title you will become as vulnerable and demand the same thing. It is different when it hits home. You are human with feelings.
Being a nurse in the eighties and nineties was sometimes difficult because the patients already knew they were seriously ill and the doctors withheld the information. So the patients begged us to reveal their diagnoses which we were forbidden. Still if we knew the patients well, a lot could be "told" with nodding and shaking of your head. It was heartbreaking.
PS I truly think people should know (if they want to) the state of their health and spend the, often limited, time as they see fit and be able to make the nessecary arrangements for their departure.
4:15 Huh. I wonder why your mother didn't want to tell you anything.
I just like and admire you. You are a genuine person. You earned your specialty through many years of study and hard work, plus financial burdens I'm sure. So "Thank You" for being "available" to all of us in a way that doesn't make any of us feel intimidated. You "relate" to us as a fellow human being, with all our flaws, strengths, failings and successes. You also make me laugh with your wit and humour. (Yeah spellcheck - I'm English - hence the 'u' in Humour!) And you have rescue dogs - that's just the cherry on the cake for me!
"Jackson, what is going on?"
Um, HIPAA. You, of all people, should know that.
If I ever would have plastic surgery, I would only go to Anthony. NO. ONE. ELSE.
Hello, I'm Desi, I am a mortgage broker living in Florida. I just found this channel and Im so in love with it. I think it's great that you made this channel and you are communicating with us. Most doctors are snobs. You're a breath of fresh air.
I understand this a show and the daughter is worried about her mom and her health and future, however as a doctor she should 100% understand that a patient may not feel comfortable talking to them, especially if it’s a family member. I personally wouldn’t want to go to one of my family members that are a medical professional as they can be full of biases and emotions.
Agreed. Where I work I can look at anything about a patient, past or present. But, I'm bound ethically to not snoop. And, when he says this doesn't happen often, I gotta disagree. Friends and family don't always have the option to get medical care just anywhere, but the do have absolute authority regarding their medical history. A husband can block his wife, or vice versa. A kid can shut out their parent if they are of legal age. A colleague can keep things under wraps except for need to know people. And, if info leaks, they can audit electronic files to figure out who snooped and when. I've seen groups of people, nurses and doctors, fired for such things. We have annual training and testing surrounding medical information treatment.
If I'm a patient I will tell who I want. In not going home a hour after cancer surgery anyway.
I like how he brought up how it would not occur in an actual hospital when most of then things that happen in greys anatomy are less likely to happen at all lol
Love hearing your insights, and yes please more Greys! Any case Mark Sloan has, lot of different and in depth surgeries I’m sure you can react to :)
I've never seen an episode of "Grey's Anatomy", but this video made me realize one of the actors played Marcus in "Detroit: Become Human".
Now this is the kind of entertainment i was looking for. Keep it up!
Yes, a Grey's reaction video!! These are my faves
In china, they don’t tell elderly relatives when they have a life threatening health problem. Oftentimes, this actually results in the individual living far past the expected amount of time they have left. I don’t have any first hand experience with this, but I heard about this and a movie made about it on NPR one time haha
I love how she went from calling her mom self involved (also shaming her a lot in the episode) to just walking away from her when she tells her what was actually happening.
I just loove his expressions during watching the show.. he's the best 👍👏
I am so happy I ran across you. Watching your reactions makes me happy and i learn new things. Win win situation. 70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺
She passed away after her daughter steered her into some clinical trial where she suffered so much!! You should watch the series, it's excellent. I've seen it 20+ times lol
Breast cancer survivor here with DIEP reconstruction! Very happy with the results!
Kinda relate to what he's saying about treating and operating family member. I'm a vet, well not exactly practitioner tho I work in pharmaceutical industry... And I really panic and can't think straight when my cat sick..... So I visit other vet and trust them
Dang, my aunt died from a really agresive cancer with out she even know she had it, but it was her biggest fear so actually I might think it was the best way to go.
Dr. Youn, you seem like a person who gives great life advice. 👍 Much wisdom.
Such a knowledge you have, love you so much.
My mom did this to me. She meant well because I deal with depression. What people don't know is being blindsided triggers depression for me. She didn't want to be a burden and that made me feel so sad. I'll do anything for her but when I was in the process of moving states she was ill. She told my siblings and the rest of the family and they all kept it from me. I found out after I forced it out of her a year later while I was in town for a visit. She just didn't want me to be sad because she knows I'm really emotional. She wanted me to be happy when I moved because she knew how hard I worked for that moment in life. I understand why she did it that way. She knows I would have never taken that step. One she never made which is leaving your home state.
10:25 Greys anatomy song choices are just beautiful
Just started watching you, love the videos 🥰
I love your facial expressions!
howwwww have you not made a reaction video for nip/tuck? best plastic surgeon show ever!
I really empathize with the daughter here. My mom hid that she had ovarian cancer and had to undergo a total hysterectomy because I was living abroad-- she didn't want me to worry and go through the expense of flying home. Luckily, I had worked with my brother (who told me nothing) to surprise her on Mother's Day with a visit. Her surgery was the next day and...I can't even remember how I reacted. I was totally shocked.
She took the chart when she left the room. Isn't that a HIPPA issue as well?
You're such positive person, love watching your vids
That character, Maggie, does later on realize how during the time her mother had cancer she was acting like a doctor above acting like a daughter. I think you made some really good points about her reactions and what she said and I wanted to add that the show does go in later and address some of how Maggie acted not only in this episode but in other ones during this story line with her mother.
I’ve only seen a bit of greys anatomy but as a student nurse and as someone who also works as a nursing assistant it infuriates me because they make it look like the doctors do everything and nurses & nursing assistants don’t even exist. Doctors, like every job role in the hospital, are extremely important, but in real life it’s the nurses that do all the managing of patient care and nursing assistants and us students that actually have the most patient contact!
Hi Dr. Youn, I can’t say I’m loving this quarantine but I am grateful that you’re pumping out more vids as a result!!
Ps, because of you I focused on incorporating retinol, vitamin C, and sunscreen into my routine! How can I go about asking my family doctor for a tretinoin rx if I want it for anti-aging purposes (not so much acne)?
Best doctor on TH-cam hands down
These people aren't even real and Dr Youn is still so caring!
I agreed with Doc. Anthony
0:12 How did he say that without stuttering ?!!
If this happened in the hospital that I work in, heads would roll. It has happened. I don't have first hand knowledge, but every year we have to watch videos and read materials explaining HIPPA rules and laws. You have to written consent to give anyone, other than you, açcess to your medical information.
This episode is very unrealistic in a number of ways.
It's drama, but it ain't medical drama.
You are So precious! When You was non judgmental about the reaction of the Dr daughter when she was told her mother had breast cancer
You are always precious! There are So many amazing things you say and react to That is angelic. Tfs 😘
Dag nab it. I was really getting invested in this episode! Dr. Youn you should've at least finished it with us! LOL
I am so happy to see this reaction. Maggie's mum would probably have lived longer if her doctors acted like doctors but instead they were tiptoeing around Maggie and let her lead the next steps of treatment. They should have stepped up. I know a lot of this is done for the drama but, as a paralegal, I just notice things that can go so wrong legally.
Yeah, back in 2011 my grandma died at 75 I believe. It was revealed last year when visiting my Grandaunt, grandma’s sister, that grandma had a doctors appointment the week before she was found. Before the appointment grandma said if they found anything wrong she didn’t want to go through that. And then we were informed she died but wasn’t told how.
I loved your reaction and how you explained things!
Please do ER and/or Chicago Med..thanks..love your channel!
I was fortunate not to develop any cancers. But was able to view my mother and her sisters (3 out of 4 sisters with the gene develop breast cancer.) My mother survived breast cancer, but passed away from pancreatic cancer 32 years later, another concern for BRCA1 carriers. Two of her sisters passed away due to their decisions about options. Also, my younger sister who had the gene, passed away from ovarian cancer. She did get surgery to remove her ovaries, but two years later was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. As a woman turning 61, we accepted our bodies. Like my mother's family doctor/surgeon told her back in 1983, after she asked him what did he think? He was truthful. If he as a person, had a body part trying to kill him, he would remove it. Be it an arm or a leg. Best advice ever. He told her that his father was a doctor and had a patient with breast cancer and this woman went on to live a full life. It is always important to speak truthfully, do not give me statistics! What have you as a doctor/surgeon seen.
The removing of the fat from the stomach is what my co-worker's sister had done. My grandmother had breast cancer and didn't tell any of her daughters for almost a year. They were very upset because obviously this affects not only their health and granddaughter's health.
Most systems don’t have preventative lockouts like this, either. The more realistic scenario is Maggie would have had no problem accessing the files, and if a single issue came up they would retroactively lookup access records. They’d see she accessed a family’s records without the patient’s permission, check if she was the power of attorney (though even that would still be problematic), and handle accordingly. It’s serious enough that getting fired is very much on the table, and I have seen it happen twice at my facility, once on a first offense.
It seems likely it would be flagged if she access the chart at all. If her mom specifically requested Maggie not be informed, I don't think it's outside the realm of possibility that she would be blocked from accessing it.
I absolutely LOVE Grey's Anatomy!!! 💘 In no way do I believe it is like reality, but it is super entertaining. Combine that with you Dr. Youn! Oh yeah! I'm there! What a fun video! Thank you!!!! 🥰
I found out your office is in Troy ,Mi
I'm happy because I live in MI
More of this videos! I would have nothing against longer videos.
I'd like to add that not only was the daughter deceived by her mother, but her mother was also withholding *crucial* health information from her daughter, who is now finding out that she may be at risk for developing breast cancer too.