I reconnected a woman from my past that I met when I was stationed in Colorado in 1990. She was a wife even back then. She was 19 and I was 26 but I only dated her briefly before her mom squashed it. The age difference and the fact that I was getting divorced was why. She was modest, classy and intelligent even then. We became friends for a yr but life took us apart. I came back 13 yrs later and looked for her but couldn’t find her. I came back two yrs ago and looked her up. I thought for sure she’d be married with a family but she ended up being a caretaker for her mom and brother. Also she only had a small handful of relationships and wasn’t promiscuous. She’s still modest, devout, selfless, thoughtful, considerate and cooperative. Jun makes 2 yrs together and by the end of the yr I plan to ask her to marry with the plan of getting married by the end of next yr. This woman that you’re talking to isn’t a wife
Her biggest problem isn’t even her IG , smoking or partying. It’s the arrested development, within the first 90 seconds listening her personality shows 19-23. Grow up!
@ I am from the town. She has it but she tries to cover it up and sound somewhat proper. We pronounce the word Baltimore with a d instead of the t. She didn’t. Way we say two and you and very distinctive also. If u ever watched the wire. The characters Cedric Daniels, snoop and proposition Joe were all actors from Baltimore. Listen to them you will hear a real Baltimore accent. Jada Pinkett from bmore as well
I subbed for that last statement. I’ve had multiple women that I’ve had to come rescue from the clubs because it’s “Crazy out here.” Over some stuff her and her crazy friends started. 😂😂😂😂
She gets overwhelmed at the store because she doesn’t know how to cook. 😒 How she going to handle children if she’s getting overwhelmed at the damn store?!?
You said it. This goes for the majority of modern women. I know women in their 50s who literally can't boil water. How are these women going to be able to handle feeding and taking care of children?
@@williamjoseph98Because it indicates she's not happy with self. Her hair texture is nothing like that wig. It looks just as silly as an Asian woman with an Afri wig
She’s not completely lost. I think she wants to be with the right type of man but our environments do shape us. Accountability is what she needs even if she doesn’t like it.
I agree with you. I lived/worked in Baltimore for years and the culture is ratchet. There really is no classy culture even within professional adult circles. She don't know what she don't know. The thing is it seems she is open to learn.
@@chillycharles910 You're not paying attention to the subtle details. She grew up in foster care and never had her father in her life which makes it even more challenging. At 28, she made a conscious decision to go and get tattoos and embrace the streets. She's childish and emotionally immature. As long she's getting attention from simps, she will never change. Why would a quality man tolerate this?. Degenerates only deserve to mix with degenrates.
Subscribing. I like your channel. You ask good questions and provide wonderful feedback. You have a soothing tone and display critical listening skills. Best of all, you think before you speak.
Its very annoying when women are held accountable, they deflect and say "what about men tho?" Mam, we can only take accountability for ourselves so lets just focus on that.
These women aren't used to accepting correction from a Man. That's why they gaslight or deflect when a man is holding them accountable. A woman learns how to take discipline when she's a little girl with her Father.
They always call mens' shows and want the men to go in on men. Just imagine us men calling in to Kendra G, Cynthia G, or that sprinkle sprinkle girl show and ask them, "what about the women"?
I don't think this young lady should be criticized because she's young & needs some guidance. With the proper guidance from elders & a man of substance, she can be trained to be a good woman if she's willing to learn.
They just want mo attention. My boy gurl worked in Reno, decided to move to Vegas talking bout mo money, but I seen in reality mo attention. They self esteem is so low they need constant validation & attention.
Couldn’t bring her around your peers. She is a very immature 28. Plus, every time I dated a woman with an empty fridge, I knew she was waiting for me to volunteer to fill it up. Nope!
She seems nice but women don’t understand that you have to already be a wife to get wifed. Women pick men based off what they like instead of what they would need in a man.
Peace to the God this 28 years female just proves Sister Ali Theory how to treat our females like a fourteen year old teenager that they are and that goes for all of our females in the community!!!!
She’s not wife material. It don’t matter she work and don’t have any kids. I was with a woman like that and OMG 😳 she’s for the STREETS! She’s crazy!!!! These women is not to be trusted and that’s a damn shame!
My best friend that died we have been friends since we were born live down the street from each other with the school together and moved away to another state together then she died and I moved back home to bury her and my father at the same time and I'm still a homebody I don't do people at my house I don't go to people house I don't hang out I don't have the energy of time I don't do no strip clubs no lounges none of that I'm not dating I don't have the time
I go to school online my son go to school online it's the truth that's just me I'm a homebody I cook breakfast lunch and dinner 4 course meals from scratch not a box
black men we have to keep the pressure on our women to be decent women, good wives, and good mothers. and be respectful and understanding to them when doing it. they have been deceived, and we need to save them from themselves for the sake of our children.
My grandmother's never lived the lifestyle she does, never spoke like they were in the streets, or had the attitude she does. But I'm sure she's different just like she thinks.
your environment will shape you if you let it my wife & I are from NEWARK,NJ however we saved our $ got a house she 24 me 32 sold it and move out the hood married 26 years very happy sacrificing all the tattoos and the dumb stuff we waste our money on that's how we follow the trends of successful people
She should have never brought up the fact that her grandfather is a Pastor. And why didn't they raise her that she had to go to foster care. This young lady needs to read some books and watch the news . Then maybe she'll feel more confident about herself. I actually think she has potential but she has to want it
I don't club I don't drink I don't hang out my girlfriend's ain't hanging out at my house cuz I don't have no friends my best friend my one girlfriend died 3 years ago I don't entertain the club scene no nonsense I said my happy ass in the house contently everyday with my son who has autism
He's said some things I don't agree with and I recently started watching. I'm sure some people follow blindly. But what about those of us who don't? Do you not believe that some of us who watch him don't ever disagree?
What the hell does she think is so damn funny women kill me doing dumb s*** and then they smile at you when you trying to chastise their ass something wrong with you people
I feel for this generation they are cost and don't want anyone to give them advice and guide them. They thin k showing there body is everything and she have a long way to go to build h Dr self up and understand life.
First off I'm not going to put myself in the position to where I need to be saved the time of the night and put my man in the position to where he needs to come and save me that time of the night
You know what people relationships are not black and white. Sometimes we have to understand the struggle. This young lady was raised in foster care. Even though the odds were stacked against her she's not been to jail she's not a baby mama and she hasn't been divorced. To me she has a great attitude especially when you consider her upbringing. Sometimes we have to cut people some slack because half of you on this channel wouldn't survive if you had to walk in her shoes. She's not only surviving she's thriving much respect to this young lady. And I can guarantee you this if a high value man was to get for a chance he would be very happy with their marriage. This young lady has went against the odds and is doing very well she doesn't deserve this disrespect. She's going to make some man very happy one day
@@Kat89115😂 no! You sound broke not her. She's putting priorities FIRST over unnecessary wants. Y'all do them nails and YET need help from government for food, rental, and cash assistance PLEASE!!
And my other homegirl that I'm cool with that from back home that's here we've been friends over 15 years funeral home body she been with her man for 15 years consistently whip their three kids she don't come she don't party she don't hang out we don't be at each other's house waiting on the phone talking everyday I have a girlfriend older than me who's married p her and her husband been together over 20 years over 25 years with their three kids and they have three businesses that they worked and run together very positive couple very encouraging
I honestly didn’t see much wrong now I would’ve understood if u said you would t trust her because u doubt she go for free but she ain’t show ass or shake none from what I saw
They still don’t get it. They will either be married to an average man making average money (which means they will still have to work themselves) or they will be single and bitter. These 304’s don’t understand basic math. Their chance of finding a man making big money and one that they are attracted to has the same odds as them winning the lottery.
I reconnected a woman from my past that I met when I was stationed in Colorado in 1990. She was a wife even back then. She was 19 and I was 26 but I only dated her briefly before her mom squashed it. The age difference and the fact that I was getting divorced was why. She was modest, classy and intelligent even then. We became friends for a yr but life took us apart. I came back 13 yrs later and looked for her but couldn’t find her. I came back two yrs ago and looked her up. I thought for sure she’d be married with a family but she ended up being a caretaker for her mom and brother. Also she only had a small handful of relationships and wasn’t promiscuous. She’s still modest, devout, selfless, thoughtful, considerate and cooperative. Jun makes 2 yrs together and by the end of the yr I plan to ask her to marry with the plan of getting married by the end of next yr. This woman that you’re talking to isn’t a wife
@@Blackpilledforlifeyou tripping dude
i commend you for this. she needed a man like you to rescue her from her mother. good job.
@@Blackpilledforlifeno real man tells another man with a plan what to do you wish him well and bid him good luck
@ don’t be mad cause you’re not wanted. Smdh
@@Blackpilledforlifewhat are you mumbling about 😂
Her biggest problem isn’t even her IG , smoking or partying. It’s the arrested development, within the first 90 seconds listening her personality shows 19-23. Grow up!
Her Ig isn’t that bad
You slayed the whole convo in the first 45 secs of the video..
She definelty got the bmore accent!! lmaooo
She does. She trying to be proper the way she pronounces Baltimore 😂🤷🏾🤦🏾♂️
I never heard a B'More accent in my life until now.
@ I am from the town. She has it but she tries to cover it up and sound somewhat proper. We pronounce the word Baltimore with a d instead of the t. She didn’t. Way we say two and you and very distinctive also. If u ever watched the wire. The characters Cedric Daniels, snoop and proposition Joe were all actors from Baltimore. Listen to them you will hear a real Baltimore accent. Jada Pinkett from bmore as well
I subbed for that last statement. I’ve had multiple women that I’ve had to come rescue from the clubs because it’s “Crazy out here.” Over some stuff her and her crazy friends started. 😂😂😂😂
This is the best one, Guru good job brother 👏
17:53, when she says "I been eating out" that means she's been going on dates USING men for free food knowing she is not interested in them at all.
That vest with the labels are so on point my brother. Make me remember my younger days in corperate.
She gets overwhelmed at the store because she doesn’t know how to cook. 😒
How she going to handle children if she’s getting overwhelmed at the damn store?!?
She just talking without thinking. Be like that sometimes with them
You said it. This goes for the majority of modern women. I know women in their 50s who literally can't boil water. How are these women going to be able to handle feeding and taking care of children?
The immaturity is off the charts.
Aye yo Guru, I'm from B- more, and she got " Hot girl summer all year long party girls"just moved it to Vegas...😂😂😂😂 Written all over her!!!😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
You know she stayed on North and Penn !
😂
"U don't like how I be going so hard or what" lmaoooo guruuuuuuu 😂😂
LMFAOOOOOOO AYOOOOO!!!!
She Weaved up!
so?
Most of them are.
Definitely 💯
@@williamjoseph98Because it indicates she's not happy with self. Her hair texture is nothing like that wig. It looks just as silly as an Asian woman with an Afri wig
@@williamjoseph98You like fake hair ?
It's good to see y'all generation finally trying to figure this shit out... All y'all have is each other in the end 👏🏿👏🏿
She’s not completely lost. I think she wants to be with the right type of man but our environments do shape us. Accountability is what she needs even if she doesn’t like it.
She's lost. She can't unsee what she's seen. These women need complete resonstruction
@ that’s pretty much what I said.
I agree with you. I lived/worked in Baltimore for years and the culture is ratchet. There really is no classy culture even within professional adult circles. She don't know what she don't know. The thing is it seems she is open to learn.
@@chillycharles910 You're not paying attention to the subtle details. She grew up in foster care and never had her father in her life which makes it even more challenging. At 28, she made a conscious decision to go and get tattoos and embrace the streets. She's childish and emotionally immature. As long she's getting attention from simps, she will never change. Why would a quality man tolerate this?. Degenerates only deserve to mix with degenrates.
@@CorGP She grew up in foster care, has tattoos, smokes and drinks. What quality man is going to deal with her??
Subscribing. I like your channel. You ask good questions and provide wonderful feedback. You have a soothing tone and display critical listening skills. Best of all, you think before you speak.
Appreciate you! Welcome to the channel
She been wearing wigs for so long that she don't even know what her real hair look like. Sad.
She from Here So She Just got on here to gain more Followers! PERIOD
Its very annoying when women are held accountable, they deflect and say "what about men tho?" Mam, we can only take accountability for ourselves so lets just focus on that.
These women aren't used to accepting correction from a Man. That's why they gaslight or deflect when a man is holding them accountable. A woman learns how to take discipline when she's a little girl with her Father.
They always call mens' shows and want the men to go in on men. Just imagine us men calling in to Kendra G, Cynthia G, or that sprinkle sprinkle girl show and ask them, "what about the women"?
Correction!!
She doesn't "know how to CONDUCT herself properly" in front of elders.
She's a good PRETENDER!!!
I don't think this young lady should be criticized because she's young & needs some guidance. With the proper guidance from elders & a man of substance, she can be trained to be a good woman if she's willing to learn.
She extra weaved up : 😮 . 😂😂😂😂
They just want mo attention.
My boy gurl worked in Reno, decided to move to Vegas talking bout mo money, but I seen in reality mo attention.
They self esteem is so low they need constant validation & attention.
She is average & something to work with. She def my type. Need more like her, that doesn't mind being regular.
Couldn’t bring her around your peers. She is a very immature 28. Plus, every time I dated a woman with an empty fridge, I knew she was waiting for me to volunteer to fill it up. Nope!
Did that sound like the conversation with a 28 yo woman or a 16 yo girl?
She sounds just like a teen I wonder who she hangs around
28 and no kids from Bmore.She land in the right hands she going hold her man down.
You're just as delusional as her
she do it in her sleep, please stay sleeping and never wake up. Women in a full Halloween costume 360 days. No thank you 💀💀💀😂
She seems nice but women don’t understand that you have to already be a wife to get wifed. Women pick men based off what they like instead of what they would need in a man.
She’s 28 with no kids? Impressive. She got some things she needs to work but she’s ahead of her peers with no kids.
She just told on her self several times during this interview 😂😂😂😂😂
She gotta stop smoking, lighten up on the drinking, posting, and definitely get up out of Vegas. She needs a real life plan.
You know the difference between Baltimore women and Las Vegas women.....$$$$
Imagine what she been up to out there
Might as well be a high paid toilet
I appreciate your Quran in the background 🤗
This young lady is wasting her life and don’t even realize it
Peace to the God this 28 years female just proves Sister Ali Theory how to treat our females like a fourteen year old teenager that they are and that goes for all of our females in the community!!!!
She’s not wife material. It don’t matter she work and don’t have any kids. I was with a woman like that and OMG 😳 she’s for the STREETS! She’s crazy!!!! These women is not to be trusted and that’s a damn shame!
I think she s teachable and that s a plus......If she can actually do the work on herself, she ll be a ait!!!😮
I havent met a Baltimore woman who doesnt have kids. Lol. They come with 2-3 kids
😂😂😂😂
My best friend that died we have been friends since we were born live down the street from each other with the school together and moved away to another state together then she died and I moved back home to bury her and my father at the same time and I'm still a homebody I don't do people at my house I don't go to people house I don't hang out I don't have the energy of time I don't do no strip clubs no lounges none of that I'm not dating I don't have the time
She doesn't have to lie, so why is she lying?!
I go to school online my son go to school online it's the truth that's just me I'm a homebody I cook breakfast lunch and dinner 4 course meals from scratch not a box
black men we have to keep the pressure on our women to be decent women, good wives, and good mothers. and be respectful and understanding to them when doing it. they have been deceived, and we need to save them from themselves for the sake of our children.
Man change woman would follow it has always been like that.
My grandmother's never lived the lifestyle she does, never spoke like they were in the streets, or had the attitude she does. But I'm sure she's different just like she thinks.
your environment will shape you if you let it my wife & I are from NEWARK,NJ however we saved our $ got a house she 24 me 32 sold it and move out the hood married 26 years very happy sacrificing all the tattoos and the dumb stuff we waste our money on that's how we follow the trends of successful people
Naw I fuc with Guru tho I Can’t Lie! Kevin Samual ain’t the only One Who do this, he was just the one we KNEW about
I don't have time to entertain nobody I don't have time to be searching and looking for somebody and God sent them thank the Lord if not I'm cool
She should have never brought up the fact that her grandfather is a Pastor. And why didn't they raise her that she had to go to foster care. This young lady needs to read some books and watch the news . Then maybe she'll feel more confident about herself. I actually think she has potential but she has to want it
Why you weaved up?
Brother guru I think you should suggest these women stop lying so much. That's where the healing and the restoration begins
I don't club I don't drink I don't hang out my girlfriend's ain't hanging out at my house cuz I don't have no friends my best friend my one girlfriend died 3 years ago I don't entertain the club scene no nonsense I said my happy ass in the house contently everyday with my son who has autism
❤🙏👍
When he asks what the chat thinks, by default they always gonna agree with him come on now.
He's said some things I don't agree with and I recently started watching. I'm sure some people follow blindly. But what about those of us who don't? Do you not believe that some of us who watch him don't ever disagree?
😂😂😂THESE WOMEN WOULD BE BETTER OFF FINDING GOD AND KEEPING THE COMMANDMENTS😂
Her pride made her forget she agreed to become your second wife. Next she will try to justify and skirt tale around the words in denial.
What the hell does she think is so damn funny women kill me doing dumb s*** and then they smile at you when you trying to chastise their ass something wrong with you people
She never said anything about Morales Principal and Integrity
Salaamu alaikum. I love the Muslim perspective that you hitting them with. Keep it up. Let’s normalize polygyny, bi idthni llah.
I feel for this generation they are cost and don't want anyone to give them advice and guide them. They thin k showing there body is everything and she have a long way to go to build h Dr self up and understand life.
Baltimmmmmmore‼️💙
First off I'm not going to put myself in the position to where I need to be saved the time of the night and put my man in the position to where he needs to come and save me that time of the night
You know what people relationships are not black and white. Sometimes we have to understand the struggle. This young lady was raised in foster care. Even though the odds were stacked against her she's not been to jail she's not a baby mama and she hasn't been divorced. To me she has a great attitude especially when you consider her upbringing. Sometimes we have to cut people some slack because half of you on this channel wouldn't survive if you had to walk in her shoes. She's not only surviving she's thriving much respect to this young lady. And I can guarantee you this if a high value man was to get for a chance he would be very happy with their marriage. This young lady has went against the odds and is doing very well she doesn't deserve this disrespect. She's going to make some man very happy one day
Nobody is owed anything. Not even you.
You see here as a young lady even thought she is almost 30!...shes very immature
I wear my natural hair you not going to catch me getting acrylic nails I'll do my own first I don't have money to waste I got bills
If you're broke just say that.
@@Kat89115😂 no! You sound broke not her. She's putting priorities FIRST over unnecessary wants.
Y'all do them nails and YET need help from government for food, rental, and cash assistance PLEASE!!
Lol😅😅
She was going hard by being a uber driver
And my other homegirl that I'm cool with that from back home that's here we've been friends over 15 years funeral home body she been with her man for 15 years consistently whip their three kids she don't come she don't party she don't hang out we don't be at each other's house waiting on the phone talking everyday I have a girlfriend older than me who's married p her and her husband been together over 20 years over 25 years with their three kids and they have three businesses that they worked and run together very positive couple very encouraging
Had the nerve to end the convo with a bold face lie. 😑
I honestly didn’t see much wrong now I would’ve understood if u said you would t trust her because u doubt she go for free but she ain’t show ass or shake none from what I saw
How's she paying for her trips 🤔
@ that’s my point that’s what he should’ve said but the way she represents herself picture wise is fine
Masculine energy
Grocery shopping is overwhelming???? Who raised you?
We have tu give our bw some grace, life is tuff
Who is we? Who's life is tough?
Grace my foot.
@@JustBree716 my guy... definitely not you, chump, beat it
@@JustBree716 go tu bed bruh
@@Kenny-Alpha mind yo business sus
She is cute and what if she don’t want no husband comparing her to a 19 yr old wife might not hurt her feelings 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
5:00 Nobody has ever checked her like this.
Demon time 😂😂😂😂😂😂lmfaooooo
You got that lu mamu
Her fridge don't even have breakfast items....
Know respect just tattoos and fake hair take you where to hotel 😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
They still don’t get it. They will either be married to an average man making average money (which means they will still have to work themselves) or they will be single and bitter. These 304’s don’t understand basic math. Their chance of finding a man making big money and one that they are attracted to has the same odds as them winning the lottery.
Dude is way too judgemental. Asking her body count like a woman is gonna be honest.
She has potential! And she's pretty but she's immature and she gives me schemer vibes😂
No. Next?
She’s pretty!
I like her conversation he's being weird for nothing
He's a bottom😂😂😂😂😂
Wow I don't think she married material
She acts like a 304 she is for the Streets!!!!
rebellious lol
The Audacity is Gross
All that talk hes doing I bet he's still single say I'm lieing
He's a bottom
HE'S MARRIED
You a goofy
Eve syndromes no good
She is going to die alone 😮😮😮😮
She works the desk at the Comfort Inn.
If she was a nice modest it wouldnt even matter
I think guru like her. She is cute though
This YBW is a walking, talking contradiction. It's very, very unfortunate.
She is Not marriage material : 😮😮😮😮
Definitely got some potential gotta work some things for sure
Not coming to pick them up
no
She from Bmore hellllll noooo
Hell noooo
She’s too loud for me
She's not even that bad, she's coachable, but I only see this, I would give her a chance....
Because you are simp