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  • @jessicabullard5806
    @jessicabullard5806 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "This is not their walk, this is your walk" what a refreshing reminder when dealing with all the opposition 🙏

  • @purdygirl1748
    @purdygirl1748 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Amen and Amen. I've been standing for over 7 years. I've learned through the years I'm not standing just for OUR marriage...I'm STANDING FOR ALL Marriages!! Praise Jesus!!
    God will restore!! Brian & Angie! Thank you for your prayers and for speakkng the truth!

  • @lisasmith4313
    @lisasmith4313 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I am feeling the loneliness right now about the coming 34 year anniversary. I trust God no matter what God old me to stand and that is what I will do . I know God is faithful in all of His promises. Isaiah 55: 11

    • @seatedinhim
      @seatedinhim หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Read pslams 34 everyday allllll day, and then read it again. That 34 is a prophetic number for you. Dwell in this scripture and with it and see what the Lord does, Mama!

    • @robina3443
      @robina3443 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Praise The LORD! 🙏🏾 Thank you for posting that Scripture!

    • @seatedinhim
      @seatedinhim หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@robina3443 You are welcome

  • @evelynrichardson1006
    @evelynrichardson1006 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This was so needed. Like many other standers, I too have been standing for about 17yrs. There were seasons of outside friend support, then i realized some could not be included in my stand because they truly did not understand the "why". I am so glad I have met you both for encouragement..we all need Destiny Helpers in our stand. Prodigals come home!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      GM Evelyn, It was our pleasure spending some precious moments wit you on last week. Continue to stay encouraged, uplifted and always abounding in the word. Prayers for every prodigal and every stander went up this morning as we stand in the gap before God. Keep your head up, trust him..

  • @dianepolk9878
    @dianepolk9878 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great discussion. The wilderness causes us to see if we really are whole and content in Jesus first. To accept our own desprete need of forgiveness in order to forgive others because God has offered all forgiveness. Freedom is trusting and obeying God which our flesh struggles with but if received in ones soul, is life❤

  • @ruthrosario8224
    @ruthrosario8224 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My husband just left the home 2 weeks ago and I can't bare, the pain every morning it's soooo unbearable, I'm a christian who believes in the healing power of the Almighty that heals and changes lives but I can't put it into perspective. I feel embarrassed, ashamed, I feel like nothing, I have soooooo much guilt of my own decision making that brings me to this place today. I feel like these videos help somewhat but I feel like having hope hurts me more because I feel like I'm just waiting on a man who tells me he doesn't love me and wants to start his life already with someone else......I NEED HELP, I JUST CANT

    • @mrs.ibelieve9600
      @mrs.ibelieve9600 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m praying for you in this hurtful time I’m standing in the gap for you when you can’t stand or pray God you alone knows the pain of a hurting woman but you can heal and restore no weapon formed against this lady shall prosper in Jesus Christ name amen and amen

  • @kelliesmith2903
    @kelliesmith2903 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was lead to do the exact same thing. I literally felt nudged to look at TH-cam videos. Searching to see if there was anyone going through what I was going through. That was when I was introduced to standers. Just learning about this has been a huge encouragement in my stand.

  • @AmandaMoon-p7s
    @AmandaMoon-p7s หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hi Guys I'm a stander i've been watching your videos ,you made me understand and lifted my faith when my family and friends are encouraging me to move on .I started my journey with God and I believe my husband will come back home.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome....God is gonna do that thing for you, continue to trust him

  • @felixspace-c2p
    @felixspace-c2p 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Inspiring

  • @traveltheworld3124
    @traveltheworld3124 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you so much for doing this video!
    This is so much my story as I’ve been standing for our marriage for the past 15 years. Every season you talked about, I’ve been through, even the part where some people were there and then they were gone, God used them for a season and then He brought someone else along.
    And I love the ending, how both of you said the simple truths…. Stander don’t lose hope!
    Prodigal Go Home, Just Go Home!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got this and God has you, stay encouraged..

  • @Anna_Gtz
    @Anna_Gtz หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You guys are so amazing. To God the glory 🔥
    "Just because you see one set of footprints, doesn't mean you're by yourself"!
    Yessssss!!!❤❤
    Thank you God 🙌
    Thank you Adrienne and Shaun 🙏
    We're on our way to COMPLETE RESTORATION OF MARRIAGES HERE!!!
    PRAISE GOD❤
    HALLELUJAH 🙌❤

  • @traiuslove78
    @traiuslove78 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video blessed my entire soul today !! I woke up extremely heavy! I prayed and prayed. I listened to this video and I feel lighter !! God bless you !! Glory to God

  • @DawnMcmurray-k2b
    @DawnMcmurray-k2b หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As always, the Contant that you provide is so valuable and relatable. I understand the loneliness, but have also experienced God moving within me and for me, sometimes in little ways, sometimes bigger, but always providing me the strength to stand with faith hope and trust. I appreciate you both so much. Praise God for healing and restoration. I’m holding on to Gods promises for my husband and our marriage

  • @AngelaMentzer
    @AngelaMentzer หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you. This is where I am right now. Your ministry has truly been a vessel from the Lord to me. I appreciate your honesty. I look forward to your videos and listen to them multiple times.

  • @PatriciaFletcher-nc4cx
    @PatriciaFletcher-nc4cx หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I needed watch this video! Our 26th anniversary is on Nov 14th and I am praying for a breakthrough! Please pray along with me for God to soften my husband’s hardened heart!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PatriciaFletcher-nc4cx Bless you so much and we will keep both of you in prayer as we stand in the gap for your family.🙏

    • @IngridHarrell-k3x
      @IngridHarrell-k3x หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Keeping prayers for my family 😊

    • @glamouriche5847
      @glamouriche5847 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I pray you have a great anniversary weekend in Jesus Name. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Happy Anniversary 😍

  • @kimpinson
    @kimpinson หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you all for this. There it is again…fasting and prayer! It works.

  • @ashleynegron6598
    @ashleynegron6598 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve been feeling a slight bit lonely here lately. It’s been almost five years since my husband left and our 15th wedding anniversary is November 2. Not to mention my sister is getting married on my wedding day in two weeks, so that in its self has been weighing on me as well. But I know that God has given me a promise and I’m not going to give up now. I’ve come too far to give up.

  • @Fervent21
    @Fervent21 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can relate to washing videos. That’s how I found you both. Thank you Jesus! Thank you both for continuing to share your journey with the masses. At the moment my situation seems helpless. My husband continues to have a cold heart and refuses to work with me. I have to keep reminding myself to walk by faith and not by sight. That Jesus is working all things for my good. That I have been commanded to be strong courageous because I have the all Mighty by my side. Thank you for the victory. 🙏🏼

  • @eileenfuentes6975
    @eileenfuentes6975 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    21:30

  • @s.williams7354
    @s.williams7354 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you both for your testimony!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Our pleasure! Thank you for listening 🙏

  • @tameekasmith321
    @tameekasmith321 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another excellent video! I thank you both for the encouragement that is given. Isolation is good as long as it's not rejection. Some of the prodigals trash the standers because they want to stay in sin. I always pray that God will send me divine prayer warriors who have high discernment. Thanks for all that you do. Blessings!

  • @Feedmysheep23
    @Feedmysheep23 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thank you both for sharing. This video has shed light on what I seemed as a struggle but was God walking me through the process when no one understands your walk. Blessings

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing!! Awesome to hear and know first hand where God has you, stay encouraged.

  • @cherylcastillo5784
    @cherylcastillo5784 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi! I’m so glad you both are back… gives me hope when I’ve had some super discouraging days. I would love to connect one day again!! Please continue to pray for my husband Tommy - that he returns to the Lord and his family!

  • @keturahkaufman9923
    @keturahkaufman9923 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I understand the lonely, standing alone,part.,.

  • @JudyFakhouri
    @JudyFakhouri หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My 28 year wedding anniversary just past and I have never felt so lonely… it’s all a part of our journey! The cross that we carry is not meant to be easy but I gave my pain to God and so towards the end of the day the cross seemed lighter as I surrounded myself with Gods word 🙏

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Went through this after 17 years of marriage one year separated for a year he decided to file for divorce, but God has brought people in my life to help me in this difficult season even when family didn’t understand God knew what I needed❤❤much love to anyone who may be dealing with this

  • @teliashearer6169
    @teliashearer6169 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your ministry, watching you and hearing your stories makes each day more bearable🙏🏽

    • @teliashearer6169
      @teliashearer6169 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God bless you both and your family❤

  • @Sunsetlover2009
    @Sunsetlover2009 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You know what would be so fun is if you two did live zoom groups with us where we all meet up and talk to each other and discuss topics in standing and be able to ask questions. This walk in sooo lonely. I have no family, church family or friends. I been standing for 6 and half years im walking this out but im lonely.❤

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amazing as that has been an ongoing conversation but would also mean real people would have to be comfortable being, transparent on camera and willing to really share as most won't for good reason. Many come to these events just to look and criticize others and that's their only sole purpose. Last we would need a corporate zoom account that would allow more than 100 at a time with more than an 1hr. But is has been a topic between us. We will be doing a live soon and that is coming soon.

  • @victoriaogunsanya9074
    @victoriaogunsanya9074 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So needed this, haven’t even watched yet 😂

  • @kathygray9122
    @kathygray9122 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen, thank you.

  • @jemimahngatia
    @jemimahngatia หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen. Many times like today I feel lonely and looking at the many responsibilities I have to attend to all alone. Am looking up to God. Thank you for praying for the standers. Thank you for sharing your story very valuably.

  • @Jireh_woolridge777
    @Jireh_woolridge777 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    After 2yrs of separation. God gifted me with 2yrs of isolation. Allowed me to receive the prodigal back into the home. She's more prideful arrogant and rebellious than before. I feel more lonely than I did before she left.
    I'm hurting in an all new way. From being honest and accountable I find it's not enough. God keeps me upright and at his feet. PLEASE PRAY FOR MY FAMILY AND I. 🙌🏾💔🥺

    • @glamouriche5847
      @glamouriche5847 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Just remember who you are waring against and who is at war with you. You are at battle with the enemy and he is using the one made specifically to help you and stand with you in life as the weapon. Fight back in prayer, fight back with growing in the word, fight back with allowing God to be seen in/through your every act and word spoken. Remember the enemy will always come at you harder before they eventually have to wave that white flag. So use the war strategies of the almighty, stand guard and protect and cover what's rightfully yours on earth. Walk and war with God by your side. #YouAreWinning

  • @daniellemoss7746
    @daniellemoss7746 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are beautiful 🙏

  • @jcoffey7271
    @jcoffey7271 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another fantastic episode and topic….bravo you two🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bless and thank you so much as God is good and deserving of the glory. Be blessed and encouraged .🙏

  • @kelliesmith2903
    @kelliesmith2903 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So glad you all are talking about this, because I am certainly going through this right now.

  • @casseophealejarde-khaizen
    @casseophealejarde-khaizen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate to everything that you both are saying because I am going through it and GOD is just so faithful.
    I'm so blessed hearing your testimonies and I am envisioning my husband and I restored back to the LORD! Glory to Jesus! Thank you brother and sister! ❤

  • @94athreefoldcord
    @94athreefoldcord หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for prayer and encouragement!❤

  • @nehemiah4145
    @nehemiah4145 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. You are definitely one of my mentors during this season, along with standing supernaturally for marriage restoration. I am not sure if I would still be going. It really resonated when you spoke of others coming to you, not necessarily to help you. I have found myself being annoyed and really questioning because people seem to be drawn to me to offload their problems, and there have been times when I just wished they would ask about my journey, and I didn’t understand why I had to help carry other people’s burdens when I felt my own was already too heavy. Its good to know that this is normal.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for writing in, yes, God has a way of getting us unstuck in our own to focus on others. Even though we don't understand, God knows it is the building of our character and spiritual strength.

  • @npblevins
    @npblevins หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved this video, I can relate on so many points specifically with the family no longer talking to me. I would love a video on standing post divorce. I prayed confused prayers often during my separation, I was full of faith sometimes and then full of doubt other times. One night I heard God say divorce in my sleep and felt like He was telling me to let go. Once we divorced I truly gave up and now watching your videos gives me hope again. ❤

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      GM, thank you for watching. Our earlier videos will give you some insight on both the stander and prodigal side dealing with the time Shon filed for divorce. Go to: "there was an OW and a marriage"..video, begin with that one and I am sure you will find yourself in the middle and later encouraged.

    • @npblevins
      @npblevins หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@anuncommonlove1112 thank you 🙏🏾

  • @derrickking2996
    @derrickking2996 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Greetings to you both,
    I really do enjoy your videos. I came across your other ones, and I have been truly blessed. There is so much confirmation from the standing person part. The Heavenly Father has sent you guys in this season for sure.
    Blessing and Shalom!!!!

  • @gsxrfem5180
    @gsxrfem5180 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had to brace myself to listen to this one ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @chrystaldemonslayerjohnson4827
    @chrystaldemonslayerjohnson4827 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Our anniversary was 10/10 I was alone … I was expecting to hear something from my husband because we talked about it a few weeks earlier but no it was nothing I FELT LONELY BUT THEN HAD PEACE .. I trust Yah and his word is true .. we are one flesh I took those vows we said I do .. till death ..gotta walk this out by faith with God and his word

  • @teresareveles8973
    @teresareveles8973 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So thankful you two are back! This video was so timely, wow. Thank you for continuing to let the Lord use you, God, you are so faithful!! ❤

  • @DoItWrightRo
    @DoItWrightRo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed to hear this!

  • @ChosenbyGod73
    @ChosenbyGod73 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes. I have had people come in and out during this season. People who you thought were your friends disappear. There are periods where there is only just me and Abba. It’s beautiful and at some periods lonely, BUT I understand. The Lord put me in those places where it’s just him and I. Your testimony blesses me and confirms all I have gone through and is still going through. Thank you for sharing and your obedience to stand. It wasn’t only for Shon and your family, but others who would also go through what you have. You sacrificed yourself for us. Thank you. ❤🙏🏽

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awesome and thought provoking comments..so appreciated and you keep on trusting in God and stay encouraged.🙏

  • @joyce5805
    @joyce5805 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awwww, everything is on point! My goodness, I would've thought you knew my feelings and thoughts! Yes, that loneliness is very real, and you can't describe it to anyone. I smiled when you talked of your anniversary where there was absolutely no one available! So you turned on TH-cam. I do that exact same thing! Times no one is available, but God... My heart identifies so much with you, Adrienne, well-meaning people, pastors, and spiritual people, but they don't get it, tell you to move on, and they just want you to be happy. Shon, it's so good to hear it from the prodigal side.
    I so badly want to tell that to my husband, come home, just go home. My husband calls me when he has decisions he's making to get my opinion and advice. He's looking for a place to live, and I'm praying that in this looking he will hear God telling him to go home. I want it to be God's time and not my time. My heart hurts for him because it could be easier if he would let go and let God.
    And yes, in standing,i too find that as we minister and pour out into other people, God pours back into us.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bless you Joyce, stay encouraged and know God is with you🙏

  • @kellibrown-ui7qp
    @kellibrown-ui7qp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow… I needed this. I have really been struggling lately in my stand with the isolation
    And my husband in his double minded state of the mess that has been created and others involved, harassment etc. also with not wanting to take accountability with actions and family hurt. It’s a very big snowball effect. Please pray for my husband salvation deliverance back to God and see the grass is not greener and the life he had, the lord is working on me as well. The OW is not a factor but “she” feels she is very important and a lot of drama has transpired. Pray for laborers to come to my husband and her and that eyes would see I’m not the awful person made out. Not perfect but Godly woman and eyes on Jesus is what I am trying to do while I wait and hold on. It’s very hard. Pray the OW sees this is not for her and that he sees he’s been shared. I do believe he has major regret as he has left family behind and friends
    I do not even know him right now.
    He’s believed the lies of the enemy and a lot of negative words by OW have been spoken and coaxing to leave his marriage.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Prayers have already gone up first thing this am for every stander and prodigal, as we also stand in the gap for you. Stay encouraged

  • @pursuingthecrown3866
    @pursuingthecrown3866 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So encouraging, thank you

  • @patriciarowland8230
    @patriciarowland8230 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes and you try not to bother anyone .😢

  • @throughthefire1980
    @throughthefire1980 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So many have stopped talking to me because of my stand his family are friends with her now so they no longer check on me. his mistress was playing on my phone recently so now i havent heard from him even though he has divorced me for her he was still in communication with me always sending text messages that im sure she may have not liked seeing its been 11 years since he left but here i stand

  • @patriciarowland8230
    @patriciarowland8230 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please pray for my spouse Brian Dr say a bad report for memory I believe For God's Healing.

  • @solvereadingproblemswithph9070
    @solvereadingproblemswithph9070 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sean, are you wearing a Seattle Seahawks hat? I have always been a Seahawk's fan for as long as I can remember .Just wondering. Thank you both for your testimonies, I'm preparing to move away because family in my life are against my stand for my husband.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You know I am😀, they have been my team since the early 70's and I'm not going nowhere ...😂 Found this one at a team shop while in Seattle bout a month ago. Something different you know.

  • @theCussnChristian
    @theCussnChristian หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Adrienne. This is Felicia. Remember me? This video spoke to me as mine and Kedrick's anniversary was on Oct 10th. I have to be honest his new marriage situation is very discouraging, yet I am still believing the promises of God. By the way, I am reaching out from my podcast channel. As I mentioned, my friend and I finally started our podcast "The Cuss'n Christian" and I am looking forward to your feedback. Thanks for your inspiration. Love you guys and I am looking forward to you checking us out!!!!

  • @helenemakuch8366
    @helenemakuch8366 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would love to speak to you about my situation.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can reach out to us via IG so we may get your info and connect..

  • @Salomesaville
    @Salomesaville หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How do u explain the psychology of it all. If the dad just appears different days to visit. Its anazing really i juat can't understand it all.i have so much to do but not to be rude i do sit a bit and talk but my heart is heavy like i dont want to even talk.its a terrible road just painful.

  • @ARighteousLife
    @ARighteousLife หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So what if i don't care anymore? What if i don't find him attractive or appealing anymore? What if i'm the one who keeps pushing him away? What if i'm annoyed by him? What if i just wanna move on? After all he put me through i have forgiven him and we cool now as co parents, i know he still wants me but i don't want him no more.🤔

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for responding and that is an honest assessment of ones self about where they think they are personally that most wont be truthful about.
      Now to the questions of what if?....
      Wanting to stand God's way is one of two options, reconcile or stay separate but never to be involved with anyone else or re-marry.
      So if that is what one wants they can definitely do one of the two options, but outside of that where someone thinks it's ok to pickup someone else is not biblical at all. God's way requires discipline and humility due to whatever situations there may be as well as total and complete trust in God. Just know that no matter what, you are not alone and we always pray Gods blessings upon each of you.🙏

    • @laurafletcher8411
      @laurafletcher8411 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I understand. But I'm standing on the word of God not how I feel. " Let God be true and every man a liar". It's what He ordained. It's what He wants even if I don't.

    • @ARighteousLife
      @ARighteousLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cool 😊

  • @patriciarowland8230
    @patriciarowland8230 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I has someone tell me was I praying for the other woman to die.😢 I pray for God's will for her she had a husband before.

  • @hollymaxwellboydell
    @hollymaxwellboydell หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍