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I legit thought that Kodee was a teenager…the fact that this person was a grown ass adult when this all went down just means there’s absolutely no excuse for what she did 🤷🏼♂️
SAME I had no idea she was an adult while making the original video about Adam a few years ago. & yet Adam still gave her so much grace & forgave her for it. YIKES
I thought she was another kid in the same spheres as Adam when he was a kid. I thought she was another kid Colleen was using. Finding out she’s the same ish age as Colleen is fucking vile. The reason people try to stress we need to keep these conversations going in fiction is bc if you’re not on top of shit you look up one day and a 30 something is writing real person fanfiction with graphic SA and minors in it, getting mad like that’s a normal hobby uwu what’s wrong
Trauma therapy has pounded this one into my head: You DO NOT have to forgive people. Not for closure, not for anything. You can move on with your life without offering them that kindness.
@Fern the Green Fairy oh, trust... I've had some baaaaad therapists for trauma.... one told me I had to sit in my feelings and respect them... that ended in a multi-day flashback episode that was absolutely horrid. There's a certain type of trauma that you can't exactly "work thru"... some cases (ie my cptsd) aren't likely to get to a stable enough point to do EMDR therapy which is the hands down best way to deal with trauma..... and the goal is more co-existing with the trauma than getting over it.... that said.... yeah, lots of conflicting info out there.
@Fern the Green Fairy through PTSD therapy i’ve learned that it’s best to forgive yourself. i’ve noticed that i’ll get mad at myself for overlooking things that lead to my trauma, so sometimes it’s makes a bigger difference forgiving yourself to move on rather than forgiving the abuser, etc.
Adam, you're not stupid. When you feel like you're floating alone in the middle of the ocean, and someone throws you a life raft, you grab on. You don't question their motives, you reach out for the help you think they are offering. It's not your fault. It's NOT your fault.
Miss me with the "THEY'RE NEURODIVERGANT" messages in chat. I am on the spectrum and suffer with mental health issues, and I have NEVER done anything like Kodee has. ZERO EXCUSE. Stop letting abusers mental health struggles be an excuse for their behavior.
As an ND person I despise people trying to use neurodivergence as some excuse for awful things.. it just makes it look like being ND is the reason someone acts awful
SO happy you were able to see her behavior for what it was. I HEAVILY disliked her initial video - the entire time she was calling out Colleen's behavior towards children, but in the same breath admitted to doing awful things to children as well. Putting minors in a fanfics, trauma dumping to children in group chats, admitting to talking shit about a child just to get attention from a celebrity?? Like I'm sorry, why is she supposed to get a pass here? She was 30, not 13.
i didn't realize that she was 30 until after she deleted her original video.. i originally thought that her stupid behavior made sense, assuming that she was the same age as Adam or younger. after finding out that she is a FULL GROWN WOMAN just as much as Colleen, i am genuinely astonished. writing smut about minors as a 30 year old is fucking wild and disgusting. im only 19 and cant imagine interacting with children in this way
Yes! I hate to say it, but I knew from the second she came on screen that she was full of it. Even when Adam was talking to her, she would only talk about herself, her feelings, and her perspective. She was also 100% OK with Adam being mistreated for the past 3 years, then all of a sudden had a change of heart? Nah. She's strange and her video was made in bad faith.
I was the same way, but she seemed like a nice person and I wasn't a BIG MirandaSings/Colleen watcher. When this came out, I was shocked and disgusted at her. She needs to be 100% held accountable
All they're both doing is trying to make themselves bigger with the drama. There is a way to bring light to Colleens terrible behavior without dragging her family and pushing for her to be harassed. There's people looking for her house and begging her husband to leave her as if they know their relationship and personal life. All of this situation is disgusting
Always speak your truth Adam! Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing how much Colleen Ballinger and her fan base has truly affected you and always warning people despite their loyalty and blindness to narcissism. 🖤💫🧿
kodee only cared about the abuse when it affected HER. she doesn’t care about victims, she cares about herself. i’m so sorry ): that’s so shady and snaky, withholding information for years and then exposing the truth when it’s convenient for her
You're not stupid, you're young! You're only 20, give yourself some grace. You're already handling this better than these fully grown adults who can't take accountability.
Exactly. It’s already hard enough for a good hearted adult to deal with a manipulative, sociopathic adult.. let alone a single teenager dealing with multiple.
I was 16yrs old when I was groomed by a 30yr old man over the internet while being surrounded by other adults in the situation who acted exactly like Colleen, Kodee, Kory, and company. I've minimized a lot of what happened to me by saying a lot of the things Adam said in this video. There's something healing seeing everyone backing Adam and reassure him.
Strange enough many of the TH-cam's support lgbt+ pride in which the community were caught for grooming and child sexual abuse. Bruh, they created a sex book for kids. I'm not kidding. America is going down hill.
On another note, this is extremely empowering as someone who has not yet stood up against their groomer. Your unapologetic approach is amazing. I will be strong one day too.
Hell yeah Solvej. I hope nothing but peace and healing for you and I hope that, once you're able, once you feel you can safely, your abuser gets everything they deserve for hurting you.
My jaw hit the floor when I found out Kodees age. Originally I thought she was a fan who just turned 20 and was finally following Adam out of the cult. Nope. A creepy full grown woman talking to a bunch of kids. Disgusting.
@@ChrisOdinson132 does he have any older women as subs who just sometimes enjoy some of his content? Im new to the channel.. I have a grown up daughter who is 24 and two boys 14 and 9 .. and im 42. i watch a few younger youtubers who pop up in my algorythm but just cause i enjoy some of their videos , content, topics etc and it all seems very well put together , and intellectual . I actually learn some things from a younger generation than me on youtube. I think that could be why this channel popped up for me in my youtube today. This is the first video ive seen on this channel .. but he seems pretty well spoken and i agree completely. I dont chat with underage , or even VERY YOUNG.. I just mean watching certain videos .. I also enjoy a channel of a guy that travels everywhere .. and hes pretty young .. his channel is anton is here.
Honey, Dustin, as an adult should’ve never been fighting with you while you were a teenager. Be grateful for what these people are finally giving you, but, watch them closely ok. Guard yourself sweets, we are all here for you.
Agreed but that's how Dustin has always been I've never been a fan and I don't like people that are just there to gossip and be mean spirited much like Wendy Williams so. Adam seemed to put a much lighter take on things and was much nicer about it but I guess behind the scenes he wasn't always nice so it's good that he's taking accountability for that. I need to learn this is maybe not a circle he wants to be in and be a part of but that means you got to watch what you put out there and not gossip and be mean about people
It was a completely different atmosphere between the two videos. When I saw Kodee’s first video I thought she sounded excited like kid talking about their birthday or Christmas? Whereas Dustin’s tone was much more appropriate to the situation being discussed, and of course he took accountability for his actions where appropriate.
i used to love watching dustin and nick but they're always defending trisha 🙄 it wasn't surprising when they sided with colleen. don't care much for his apology and kodee needs to grow up.
None of this was your fault!!! You were groomed, love bombed, discarded, hoovered, gaslit, love bombed again, parentified, objectified, sexualized, negged, triangulated, othered, coerced, shamed, blamed, and scapegoated. ALL AS A CHILD WHO CANNOT CONSENT TO WHAT IS HAPPENING!!!
Very strange thing to say. So did the lgbt+ community in which many of you still support. They groomed and sexually abused children. Please seek help. Seek Jesus. God, what happened to this country? ☦
Same. I thought maybe when all this was going down she was 18 or 19 since she kept referring to herself as an adult when Colleen was being inappropriate with fans.
1 reason I continue to watch Dustin after all these years is because he is not afraid to apologize or admit when facts show he is wrong. Now that he knows the truth, he will die on that hill in support of you even IF you guys still had issues.
This just keeps getting worse and worse, I’m so sorry. You deserve the best Adam. She was a grown adult too and she knew what she was doing 3 years ago. She was almost the same age as Colleen chatting with minors too. I just hope things get better for you.
it's not that you're "stupid" adam, it's that predatory adults are RAMPANT in the entertainment industry (and society at large tbh), and they are highly skilled manipulators. sending love
When Adam said “seriously wtf is wrong with me?” I felt that so much. I remember when I got abused as a minor and I still sometimes wonder wtf is wrong with me. Hell I legit just got lead on for months by a grown ass woman I thought cared about me and she even told me she did but no. There’s nothing wrong with either of us Adam, we’re both just young 20 year olds figuring out life.
As a mom this brakes my heart to see , Adam I am so sorry people hurt you, you are one amazing person and take care of yourself and have brake for your own mental health, people have no morals
Adam, youre not SUPPOSED to know how to find liars in adults when you are 20. Its hard enough to know yourself! These sick 30 yr olds are maniuplating the shyt out of everything but you know what, you will always have your authenticity and they will not. CHERISH the fact that you do not recognize a snake because it takes one to know one. Love you babe
I twitched when they said they forgave themselves But you're not stupid. You were victimised by Coleen and then Kodee used your trauma for her own benefit and revictimised you You were never stupid Adam. You were a child and then later you were just grateful that someone seemingly backed you up
Adam - You’re not stupid for wanting give people the benefit of the doubt. You’re not stupid for seeing the best in people. Those instincts are gifts that you’ll learn to hone as you age. You’re so young and you’ll get better at seeing red flags earlier as you get older, but please give yourself some grace and be gentle with yourself. These people all have so much more experience than you do. They’re stupid, not you. They’re the adults actively engaging with and manipulating children regularly.
Kodee’s selfish motivations do not change the truth of what they revealed. I agree with xylie, receipts don’t lie. Your vindication and others’s bravery won’t be stopped by this little bump in the road 💕
Feeling so bad for Adam. When I was 19 I dated a 30 year old. I couldn't figure out why everyone in my life was so upset about it. I'm 31 and it's just disgusting to think back on it... 19, 20, 21... You're still SO young. I think that's why it's easier for 30 whatevers to manipulate. At this age I still vividly remember high school, middle school and whatever else from younger years... BUT I also come with 10 years of "real life" experience. Not all 30 year olds are bad, but all definitely require strong boundaries. Lol.
Same here, I'm 32 now and when I was younger, people late 20/start 30's seemed quitw young still and I didnt see much difference. But being in my thirties now, it couldnt be further from the truth. It makes ALL the difference in the world and you can easily see how naive and innocent these teens and people at the beginning of their 20's are. Even the ones who think they are super mature for their age, it just doesnt compare at all
I'm 25 and I even see 20 year old adam as a child who needs to be protected. I just want to be like a big sister and go after everyone who hurt this poor little baby boy
I’m so sorry you went through that. I was 18 dating a 25 year old and there was such a difference in age and maturity. Plus my friend was 18 dating a 28 year old. Now being 25 I couldn’t imagine dating someone that young. They are a kid to me because I see the naivety and innocence still.
Adam, I can't imagine how emotionally exhausting this whole thing is for you, I'm so sorry. You are handling all this the best that you can, and there's nothing wrong with you for wanting to believe that you finally had someone in your corner. You are being so incredibly strong, stronger than you should have to be, and I hope now that the truth is finally being aired out, you can heal from all of this
You're not stupid. It's not your fault. You're a kind, empathetic person who got taken advantage of. As an abuse survivor myself, please take care of yourself through all of this, Adam 💜
FOR REAL!! It sucks so bad that people who are preyed upon almost always feel like it was their fault or are sorry for actions that they shouldn’t be apologetic for. It’s blame that isn’t the victims and it’s so shi itty. 😞
Yes!!! It’s not a bad thing to be a naturally trusting person. It’s not a bad thing to want to see the good in people. It breaks my heart every time he beats himself up for trusting kodee. You said everything I wanted to say ❤
I'm 33. I'm so sorry adults have manipulated you and I hope you keep being strong and get through it. Their actions aren't a reflection of their age or era. There are fucked up psychos in every generation. I'm just sorry you experienced these ones
Did have a weird gut feeling about Koode and this is very fucked up knowing this person has been full on adult through out the whole thing and you deserve way better and wish you the best ❤
Glad i don’t feel guilty now because i thought it was kind of weird too. I looked at her and was like … hmm.. you look significantly older than adam. But i didn’t really think too much of it.
@@pinheadlarry2921 not even about her age but she blatantly admitted even while speaking to Adam that she only released the video exposing Korey and Colleen because Korey ended up blocking her. It was never bout absolving Adam of blame or I think Kodee definitely was taking a moral high ground. I hate that Adam blames himself, he is in no way guilty of any wrong other than when he was young and in group chats making fun of other fans.
@Pinhead Larry Her age is a factor. She's a grown ass adult, acting like a teenager. In fact, she was a grown asa adult during every single thing. This isn't some innocent "omg I was a teen and manipulated because I'm naaivee," situation. She did everything because she wanted it to benefit her. It's just as gross as Colleen.
I started following you thanks to Peter monn during the frenemies era. I stayed for your amazing personality and humor. I later found out about the history with Colleen and I felt bad for you, but god. I didn’t know it went this deep and I feel so much for you. Lots of love to you boo
Adam, you are speaking up for yourself and all the other kids Colleen and Kory have traumatized, abused and exploited. You deserve all the views and attention you’re getting! Not for just what was done to you, but also for the way you are staying strong!
Adam, with ALL due respect... I'm over 30 yrs old and the Mother of a 12 yr old former Miranda fan and IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE!!! I know you were joking and just being cheeky, but us Mom's??? We are ANGRY and speaking for just myself, I will not be quiet and go away and allow this woman to keep her cushy career manipulating children!!! If I have to be in these Live chats then so be it, I'm here for the right reasons... To hold Colleen Ballinger accountable! Much love honey! 🥰
The frontal cortex of the brain doesn't fully develop to like 25, so give yourself grace Adam. Your feelings are valid though. I'm so sorry this gross lady and her little goblins are now attacking you. I'm so glad you took the steps you have to protect your peace. I know things look very grim now, but keep fighting, many people have your back, and it's only a matter of time that all these awful people are going to have the days they deserve.💚💚💚💚
Saying that insinuates that Adam is stupid imo. He’s not. I think things like this just comes with experience as you age. Sometimes, you trust too easily and the wrong people will make you lose all that trust real fucking quick. For some it happens very early, for some never. Has nothing to do with their pre frontal cortex. There are people under 25 who have to grow up very quickly to no fault of their own, and are incredibly smart despite their prefrontal cortex not being fully developed. Maybe I’m the only one who takes it offensively like that idk lol. I don’t mean this in an aggressive way towards you at all, so pls don’t take it that way. I do absolutely agree he should give himself some grace though. It’s not easy dealing with manipulative ass sociopathic adults, ESPECIALLY when you’re only a teenager yourself. He was naive and thought he was friends with his idol. It’s not his fault that the people he was “friends” with were nothing but predatory.. in many ways.
@@Taylor_mamaof2it's also based on pseudoscience. the age 25 was pretty much just a random number. been a while since i fell down the rabit hole and read studies abt it but its kinda interesting if u have time to spare :)
@@lucy-vo2lr It seems about as pseudosciency as saying people have the mental age of X age, but generally it's true the brain is still maturing into the 20s, whether it's finished or not in Adam's case who knows. Also neuroplasticity means we're always growing anyway. Maturity isn't an end point.
It amazes me how quickly a story can change when given just a tiny bit more context. You were treated horribly Adam. I'm glad this is all finally coming to light because it needs to!
Uh oh girl… I’m 33, was never interested in Miranda Sings and never watched family vloggers… found your channel in 2021ish when I was listening to lots of Smokey Glow, H3H3, and Emily D Baker. I love your youthful and authentic takes Adam! I think you’ll be amazed at how much you grow by the time you’re my age.. you’re already off to a head start sadly, after having to learn how to deal with this awfulness so early on! I really help you navigate relationships and business as you get older and wiser and more confident. I’m not saying I’m glad you’ve gone thru all of this.. just that when the pain isn’t so heavy, you will be stronger for having gone thru all of it!
Literally the first thought in my head when I heard that video was “She sounds more eager than sad,” and it rang a lot of alarm bells in my head. Sad to see that my gut feeling was correct, but never feel bad for being duped.
If you study body language even casually, you can see Kodee was absolutely LOVING this attention. Smirking & being very self satisfied. She really thought she’d come in and be looked at as a savior. The girl doesn’t live in reality. Dustin said it all and more ! Kodee ONLY came out with all of this information for personal gain & revenge… not to vindicate you.
as someone whos hated kodee for years boddy language is 100% a pseudoscience. Im not defending kodee, she had terrible intentions but you dont need to "analyse" her body language to tell that much. Actually so annoying when people think you can genuinely read someones body language lmfao
I thought it was extremely mature of you to forgive her (because honestly I wouldn’t have forgave her) so you discovering this and recanting your forgiveness is more power for you!! What a bizarre situation..
Help why did Adam going “I am not talking to 30 years old anymore!” make me laugh so fricken hard. I found you through this entire event all the way back then so I hope you take any time needed to just take a breather. You deserve alllllll the love and support, hope you have a great week!
I commend Adam, despite everything he's been through, for being able to see things through such a nuanced lens. Like, even acknowledging that Kodee was manipulated is such a mature thing to say, given how self-serving Kodee has been/is being. It's both a strength and a weakness to have that sort of nuanced, empathetic perspective. On one hand, it stops you from shunning everyone away for mistakes made, on the other, it can blind you to malice that's right in front your eyes.
"Trauma Bonding" does *not* equal Bonding over trauma :Friendly PSA: Trauma Bond refers to the bond that connects an abuser and their target Frequently that bond holds sway over the target even after the relationship has long ended
Not always sometimes you love your abuser before they start abusing you and then they cause you a lot of trauma and then that somehow twist things and you get bonded it's just a terrible dynamic
@@Angelface11but in that situation they are still your abuser and you've been trauma bonded to them already, it just gets more twisted. people have been believing that like, talking to ur friend over trauma you share or have the same kind of is trauma bonding. like literally bonding with someone over trauma you share. that's not what it is though, a trauma bond is established by an abuser.
Sweetie, I wish I could give you a huge grandma hug! You are so strong... Your mom raised a good man, with a good heart. These are just evil bastards...
You are so brave. You are so much more mature than ALL these ADULTS!! It’s crazy how your more mature then everyone else!!! You were raised so strong. 💙
adam, i’ve been a long time fan of yours, since you were 17- and i’m currently 17 now. you are such a wonderful man, and incredibly headstrong. you’re so brave for talking about this, and despite kodee’s selfish reasoning, you still thank them for releasing information, and you don’t even have to thank them at all. i stand by you, always and forever. thank you for just being you
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU ADAM YOU'RE JUST A GOOD PERSON. Good people think a certain way and so they imagine that others would think similarly. You see peoples actions and assume they have good intentions because you are kind enough to give people the benefit of the doubt that some refuse to give you. People who have been hurt can either turn bitter and hurt others, or understand other's pain and be kind because of that. Don't let these nasty people make you think there's anything wrong with you. This is one of those rare situations where it really is everyone else, not you lol. Don't let these nasties shadow your light. We need more people in the world like you, and you're stronger than you'll ever know
Adam, please don't beat yourself up for being a decent, kind and trusting person. Those are admirable qualities. Don't lose them. You're a good and genuine person and we need more of those in this world and especially on social media. Keep being you, sweetie. Much love and healing to you. You're going to be okay. XOXO
Adam don’t beat yourself up! You aren’t stupid! I’m 29 but I’ve been in your position before in my early 20s too! I trusted in people and used my authenticity to forgive people that didn’t deserve it. I had older friends as well that did the same stuff to me as well as other trauma. I took time to heal and get the support I needed. Take some time for you to heal and take care of your mental health. I’m so sorry these people are insecure and just know people near or in their 30s aren’t all bad. Take care of you ❤
The behavior and actions of these grown adults is appalling. How disgusting to damage a young man so much and cause him to have so many trust issues. To allow and commend years of harassment. I really admire your strength and resilience, Adam. It cannot be easy to talk about all of these traumatic events again. Wishing you all the love and happiness in the world. I hope these horrible people get what karma owes them very soon.
As an almost 30 year old I couldn’t imagine being in a group chat with minors. That’s wild. Please make sure to look after your mental health. Sending you strength Adam.
Regarding trusting, forgiving, and feeling like you "endorsed" Kodee: Adam, from one survivor of emotional abuse to another, there is NO perfect victim. Making mistakes, being human, trusting people that didn't deserve it, NONE of that invalidates your experience with Colleen or your truth. You do not have to be perfect to be deserving of love, kindness, and apologies for how the internet eviscerated you.
I didn’t realize Kodee was that much older and that’s enough to change everything. To begin with, she never took any responsibility. That rubbed me wrong in the initial video. It was all “but I was manipulated”, “ but I was in a parasocial relationship”, “but I wanted her to like me”… I honestly looked past all of that because I assumed she was also a kid.
Nothing but love for you Adam. You don’t have to forgive Kodee. You aren’t stupid for wanting to trust others. That’s a gift. As you continue to grow, you’ll learn how to spot the difference between those you can trust and those you can’t. I hope you’re taking care of yourself while exposing all this and stuff is still coming out. You are so strong and deserve better. ❤️❤️❤️
When you said how triggered you felt about colleen traumadumping then kodee coming on the stream to trauma dump sat so horribly with me I got the worst energy from them
It really sucks that she only cared about herself and tried to make it seem like she cared about you. She doesn't deserve your forgiveness, and you deserve to move on to a better chapter. Came here from Dustin and happy to have a new channel to follow. Was heartbroken to hear about the whole situation because I could totally see myself in your situation. That could have happened to anyone and I really hope you don't feel stupid for trusting and caring about a human who clearly didn't deserve that love and respect. It's not embarrassing even though it might feel that way and I'm sending all the best vibes your way darling ❤
Tbh Adam should forgive her but for himself. It’s not good to hold onto things that only makes it worse in the long run. Speaking as someone who was groomed online and also SA’d. But yes fuck Kodee but he should do it for himself so he doesn’t hold that hurt in
@Hey It’s Sarah totally disagree. As someone who has also been SA'd as a minor I find grudges to be healthy. As a victim you don't have to forgive someone to move on from a situation. Fuck abusers. You can love yourself and still hate someone who was horrible to you.
@@StargazingDragon sorry poor choice of words. Yes obviously you can hate them & what they did to you. I strongly dislike the person who did it to me and could care less what happens to them but I am working on forgiving them because I don’t want they did to eat me alive. But I’m NOT doing it for them I’m doing it for me so I can heal. Like I said obviously f Kodee/Colleen/all abusers they’re disgusting asf but I at least dont want mine to have power over me. Btw I’m v sorry that you had to go thru it as well.
@Hey It’s Sarah my abusers don't have power over me because I won't forgive them. They were middle aged men in positions of power that knew better and I know now that they were trash not me. To forgive them would still be giving them power over myself in my very personal opinion. I try not to even waste brain cells thinking about them. You do you though boo.
I believed your story the entire time, because I’ve gone through a situation like this and the abuser will always try to turn everyone’s rage on to the victim!
Dear Adam, don't be hard on yourself. None of this is your fault, and Colleen, Kory, and all the adults taking advantage of you are the ones to be blamed. Hope you eventually get the justice and peace you deserve x
I’m a 29 year old with no kids maternally but I do have 2 step kids and I’m the oldest out of 4. My sweet younger brother is 20. If I found out someone had treated him like this at 17 id be out for blood. Your mom and dad sound amazing through this. I turn 30 in 6 months and while I enjoy younger people’s content if it’s well made and intriguing, id never talk to a kid unless they were a relative or child of a friend. I haven’t had anything in common with a 15 year old in 15 years when I was 15. I never knew who colleen was outside of Miranda but she sounds like a scared gross child that has no business being online. I’ve watched you the last year (so after all of this) and you’re creative and funny. Glad you found justice.
23:00 you are a forgiving, kind person who was willing to extend grace to people who apologized, period. there is nothing wrong with you. that’s a lovely quality to have and it’s very special. you can’t be well if you’re operating under the assumption that people are out to get you, and it’s never your fault when someone victimizes you or lies to you or takes advantage of you. they were going to do that no matter what because that is their character. you deserve loving, good people to receive your friendship and kindness.
The fact that you and Dustin were able to come together on this, and he spoke out and apologized to you regardless of any past differences, and even went further to defend you even against Kodee, just shows how good of people you both are. I’m happy for you both starting a new chapter.
You will make it through this. I was in a similar position (not so publicly) from the time I was 12 until I was 19 and I came out of it with a stable and healthy adulthood. You will be able to trust other people and you will be able to find real and genuine people. The one thing this situation has taught you is how to recognize SNAKES when you meet them. You will heal from this and learn from this and come out stronger.
Adam, you’re still so young. Please take care of yourself during this time my love. Many of us always believed you. I’m glad this info has come out, but be gentle with yourself.
As a 30 something, huge grain of salt here 😅 but wanted to send this tiny bit of validation to you- I always believed you and always thought the CB apology, beneath the spin, admitted everything you said. I’ve followed you ever since because I genuinely could not understand why people did not credit what you said. To any adult outside the situation or not caught up with being online, it was so transparent how inappropriate and exploitative her behavior was/is. It was shocking to me that anyone could try to excuse it away. I have been so happy to see how much your channel has taken off & how you’ve found your own voice apart from that situation. Please be gentle with yourself. 💜The same compassion you’ve been having towards your 13-17 year old self you will have in a few years to your 20 year old self. Being a forgiving person is never something to be embarrassed about. Take care of yourself 💜
It’s ok if you don’t trust these people. At the end of the day they’re just people online. This is not your life anymore Adam. It’s nice that you and Dustin were able to apologize to each other, but you don’t have to fully trust or be friends with any of them, if you choose not to. I think this is all important for your healing process but I also think you now know to separate this from your personal life. Which is very important. I know you’re an adult now, but you’re still very very young and it’s heartbreaking that you’re going through it. I’m glad the truth is coming out and I hope you’re now able to heal and move on from it.
Adam, you’re an honest person and trusting people to be honest is ohkay! I understand how disappointing it can be to realize not everyone is as honest as you 😓
You seem like you have a very kind nature Adam and people sometimes take advantage of that, but it doesn't make you week or stupid, it makes you a wonderful light in this world, don't let people like this snuff you out. Lots of love from a fellow Northern Irish mess xx
Oh honey I’m so sorry what you’re going through right now. I had a childhood with abuse and it mentally fkd me up, it took years of therapy and self love to help heal my heart and soul. I know you’re going thru it but remember that you deserve to be loved and respected. Keep your loved ones close, keep being strong dear. This to shall pass ❤
I’m a long time casual viewer of yours and i’ve been keeping up with this story all week. Just wanted to say how brave and strong you are to speak your truth! It’s both heartbreaking and shocking that this ever happened to begin with. I hope you’re able to heal from this one day. Stay strong Adam 🥰
Adam was groomed early on and this will likely stay with him forever:( this is why grooming in the schools, grooming in politics, grooming in leadership is soooo horrible. And everyone being groomed now is not going to see it for a number of years until they’ve already been traumatized .
its not your fault for being eager and happy about finding an ally in this. you've felt alone for so long and kodee took advantage of that. stay strong adam your small corner of the internet has got your back ❤
Honestly love being right about my vibe when I first saw their video LOL. I can't believe I just read about you in The Sun!!!!! Colleen's karma is that this scandal has skyrocketed your career and taken hers down. Truly *chefs kiss*
@@TheBrokeCyberWanderer yeah i watched the jake doolittle stream all the way through when he was live and they were there fairly early and stayed until the end (i think it was the end)
It’s a shame that something she should have done 3 years ago is only being done now to cover her own ass, NOT to help you and vindicate you. I’m sorry Adam… I can’t imagine how much it must hurt to know that. The three years of turmoil you experienced could have been avoided, had she just been selfless and spoken up 3 years ago. She needed a selfish reason to tell the truth, and that’s just not ok :(
Adam please remember to take time for yourself, all of this must be truly the fucking worst and I have no idea how you're coping with it again. Having to go trhough it at age 17 would have been bad enough but it all comming back up again is insane. I hope the support you're getting is helping, so I hope you see this!
I was waiting for you to have this realization. I know it hurts and it’s a new wound but I’m proud of you. It’ll be a long road but you’re growing stronger every day. Love 💚
I’m so glad to see this. I searched for her video the other day and instead found a bunch of info about her pretending to be Native American to dodge criticism for racist remarks and videos showcasing her own inappropriate behavior with minors in group chats, etc. This whole endeavor was self serving on her part, but I’m glad it’s finally brought the truth to light.
I promise not all 30 year olds are like those horrible people. Im so sorry you had to go through this, them being the adults in the situation should have known better. They knew exactly what they were doing, and its disgusting, you are not stupid, you were groomed and taken advantage of and used by grown ass adults?!! Just stay strong, you are doing a good thing, and they need to be called out and honestly need to be charged with this!
I’ve spent the last few hours going down the Colleen ballinger rabbit hole. I didn’t realize kodee was an adult when this was all happening, this is disgusting. I got bad vibes from kodee in adams previous video. I’m so happy for Adam that the truth is coming out. This is terrifying, my step daughter was/is a fan of miranda/colleen. The internet is terrifying. I’m so sorry Adam.
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I legit thought that Kodee was a teenager…the fact that this person was a grown ass adult when this all went down just means there’s absolutely no excuse for what she did 🤷🏼♂️
Wait wha
Same
SAME I had no idea she was an adult while making the original video about Adam a few years ago. & yet Adam still gave her so much grace & forgave her for it. YIKES
I thought she was another kid in the same spheres as Adam when he was a kid. I thought she was another kid Colleen was using. Finding out she’s the same ish age as Colleen is fucking vile.
The reason people try to stress we need to keep these conversations going in fiction is bc if you’re not on top of shit you look up one day and a 30 something is writing real person fanfiction with graphic SA and minors in it, getting mad like that’s a normal hobby uwu what’s wrong
@@DanBorens she's literally 33 years old😬
Trauma therapy has pounded this one into my head: You DO NOT have to forgive people. Not for closure, not for anything. You can move on with your life without offering them that kindness.
@Fern the Green Fairy oh, trust... I've had some baaaaad therapists for trauma.... one told me I had to sit in my feelings and respect them... that ended in a multi-day flashback episode that was absolutely horrid.
There's a certain type of trauma that you can't exactly "work thru"... some cases (ie my cptsd) aren't likely to get to a stable enough point to do EMDR therapy which is the hands down best way to deal with trauma..... and the goal is more co-existing with the trauma than getting over it.... that said.... yeah, lots of conflicting info out there.
@Fern the Green Fairy through PTSD therapy i’ve learned that it’s best to forgive yourself. i’ve noticed that i’ll get mad at myself for overlooking things that lead to my trauma, so sometimes it’s makes a bigger difference forgiving yourself to move on rather than forgiving the abuser, etc.
@@abbieortiz7779 yesss!!!!!!
Yeah, somewhere along the lines I think "coming to terms" became synonymous with "forgiveness" and they are actively very different things.
Forgiveness isn't for the other person. It's for you....
Adam, you're not stupid. When you feel like you're floating alone in the middle of the ocean, and someone throws you a life raft, you grab on. You don't question their motives, you reach out for the help you think they are offering. It's not your fault. It's NOT your fault.
this is a great way to put it, because that's exactly the situation this is. colleen and everyone involved, including kodee are sharks
this is an amazing analogy
Great analogy. Well said. 100% true.
Yes amazing way to explain it 👏🏽
THIS!!!! 👏👏👏
Miss me with the "THEY'RE NEURODIVERGANT" messages in chat.
I am on the spectrum and suffer with mental health issues, and I have NEVER done anything like Kodee has.
ZERO EXCUSE. Stop letting abusers mental health struggles be an excuse for their behavior.
On top of that shes a grown ass women
It's also pretty insulting towards neurodivergent people.
@@awetistic5295absolutely.
@@awetistic5295 period. So tired of others making nd people look bad by using it as a excuse
As an ND person I despise people trying to use neurodivergence as some excuse for awful things.. it just makes it look like being ND is the reason someone acts awful
SO happy you were able to see her behavior for what it was. I HEAVILY disliked her initial video - the entire time she was calling out Colleen's behavior towards children, but in the same breath admitted to doing awful things to children as well. Putting minors in a fanfics, trauma dumping to children in group chats, admitting to talking shit about a child just to get attention from a celebrity?? Like I'm sorry, why is she supposed to get a pass here? She was 30, not 13.
Well said I completely agree!!! She’s just as f’n creepy!!
exactly like the call is coming from inside the house ??
Big 📠
i’m 20 now and would never be in a group chat with teenagers
i didn't realize that she was 30 until after she deleted her original video.. i originally thought that her stupid behavior made sense, assuming that she was the same age as Adam or younger. after finding out that she is a FULL GROWN WOMAN just as much as Colleen, i am genuinely astonished. writing smut about minors as a 30 year old is fucking wild and disgusting. im only 19 and cant imagine interacting with children in this way
all of adam's fans in the livechat encouraging him to take a break if it's getting to heavy for him is so wholesome
She gave me bad vibes. I am glad you got your truth confirmed and that she was found out. Take care of yourself, Adam.
Yes! I hate to say it, but I knew from the second she came on screen that she was full of it. Even when Adam was talking to her, she would only talk about herself, her feelings, and her perspective.
She was also 100% OK with Adam being mistreated for the past 3 years, then all of a sudden had a change of heart? Nah. She's strange and her video was made in bad faith.
@@Amzzyyo you are so right!
I also noticed that she kept bringing the subject back to herself. Such bad vibes.
I was the same way, but she seemed like a nice person and I wasn't a BIG MirandaSings/Colleen watcher. When this came out, I was shocked and disgusted at her. She needs to be 100% held accountable
All they're both doing is trying to make themselves bigger with the drama. There is a way to bring light to Colleens terrible behavior without dragging her family and pushing for her to be harassed. There's people looking for her house and begging her husband to leave her as if they know their relationship and personal life. All of this situation is disgusting
Always speak your truth Adam! Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing how much Colleen Ballinger and her fan base has truly affected you and always warning people despite their loyalty and blindness to narcissism. 🖤💫🧿
kodee only cared about the abuse when it affected HER. she doesn’t care about victims, she cares about herself. i’m so sorry ): that’s so shady and snaky, withholding information for years and then exposing the truth when it’s convenient for her
You're not stupid, you're young! You're only 20, give yourself some grace. You're already handling this better than these fully grown adults who can't take accountability.
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Exactly. It’s already hard enough for a good hearted adult to deal with a manipulative, sociopathic adult.. let alone a single teenager dealing with multiple.
I was 16yrs old when I was groomed by a 30yr old man over the internet while being surrounded by other adults in the situation who acted exactly like Colleen, Kodee, Kory, and company. I've minimized a lot of what happened to me by saying a lot of the things Adam said in this video. There's something healing seeing everyone backing Adam and reassure him.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You deserve support too
I was 14 when I was groomed by multiple, multiple fucking grown men. Ik what it feels like I’m so sorry you had to go through this.
Strange enough many of the TH-cam's support lgbt+ pride in which the community were caught for grooming and child sexual abuse. Bruh, they created a sex book for kids. I'm not kidding. America is going down hill.
@@meLLL100 So did Disney and many other shows that you see to so many years. Nothing happened.
Validation from other survivors has been a HUGE part of my healing. It always feels good to know I'm actually totally normal.
On another note, this is extremely empowering as someone who has not yet stood up against their groomer. Your unapologetic approach is amazing. I will be strong one day too.
Edit- abuser to groomer.
Me too
Hell yeah!
I wish you luck and I’m sending love your way 💖
Hell yeah Solvej. I hope nothing but peace and healing for you and I hope that, once you're able, once you feel you can safely, your abuser gets everything they deserve for hurting you.
Watching Adam realize in real time how shitty people are is heartbreaking.
absolutely bloody fair enough!! The fact that she's a fully grown woman in her 30s and behaves like this online is so pathetic it's sad lolll
Bloody fair enough?
My jaw hit the floor when I found out Kodees age. Originally I thought she was a fan who just turned 20 and was finally following Adam out of the cult. Nope. A creepy full grown woman talking to a bunch of kids. Disgusting.
@@ChrisOdinson132 does he have any older women as subs who just sometimes enjoy some of his content? Im new to the channel.. I have a grown up daughter who is 24 and two boys 14 and 9 .. and im 42. i watch a few younger youtubers who pop up in my algorythm but just cause i enjoy some of their videos , content, topics etc and it all seems very well put together , and intellectual . I actually learn some things from a younger generation than me on youtube. I think that could be why this channel popped up for me in my youtube today. This is the first video ive seen on this channel .. but he seems pretty well spoken and i agree completely. I dont chat with underage , or even VERY YOUNG.. I just mean watching certain videos .. I also enjoy a channel of a guy that travels everywhere .. and hes pretty young .. his channel is anton is here.
@sunni common Irish and UK slang I believe, currently studying abroad over here and the locals use that exact phrase all the time lol
@@haileennevsmom09 I'm apparently 15 years older than Adam although I had no idea he's just twenty, he doesn't sound like that.
Honey, Dustin, as an adult should’ve never been fighting with you while you were a teenager. Be grateful for what these people are finally giving you, but, watch them closely ok. Guard yourself sweets, we are all here for you.
Agreed but that's how Dustin has always been I've never been a fan and I don't like people that are just there to gossip and be mean spirited much like Wendy Williams so. Adam seemed to put a much lighter take on things and was much nicer about it but I guess behind the scenes he wasn't always nice so it's good that he's taking accountability for that. I need to learn this is maybe not a circle he wants to be in and be a part of but that means you got to watch what you put out there and not gossip and be mean about people
THANK YOU. Dustin is also a damn adult who is making money off of this now, but didn’t speak up until the internet had already made up their mind.
Unlike Kodee, it appears that Dustin is genuinely sorry.
And admitted his wrongdoing without blaming someone else!
It was a completely different atmosphere between the two videos. When I saw Kodee’s first video I thought she sounded excited like kid talking about their birthday or Christmas? Whereas Dustin’s tone was much more appropriate to the situation being discussed, and of course he took accountability for his actions where appropriate.
No it doesn't???
i used to love watching dustin and nick but they're always defending trisha 🙄 it wasn't surprising when they sided with colleen. don't care much for his apology and kodee needs to grow up.
but we need to stop putting our trust in people so quickly because the same thing could happen again
None of this was your fault!!!
You were groomed, love bombed, discarded, hoovered, gaslit, love bombed again, parentified, objectified, sexualized, negged, triangulated, othered, coerced, shamed, blamed, and scapegoated.
ALL AS A CHILD WHO CANNOT CONSENT TO WHAT IS HAPPENING!!!
Very strange thing to say. So did the lgbt+ community in which many of you still support. They groomed and sexually abused children. Please seek help. Seek Jesus. God, what happened to this country? ☦
This whole time I thought she was a child too. Not a grown ass adult
Same. I thought maybe when all this was going down she was 18 or 19 since she kept referring to herself as an adult when Colleen was being inappropriate with fans.
Literally same. Isn’t she the same person who’s eyelids got stained by the James Charles palette?
She is as mature as a 7 yo tho
@@woadxqueen666 yes 😂
@@Kelvin5378 I hate to take James side on that one 💀 but she was unhinged. I thought she was 14
1 reason I continue to watch Dustin after all these years is because he is not afraid to apologize or admit when facts show he is wrong. Now that he knows the truth, he will die on that hill in support of you even IF you guys still had issues.
This just keeps getting worse and worse, I’m so sorry. You deserve the best Adam. She was a grown adult too and she knew what she was doing 3 years ago. She was almost the same age as Colleen chatting with minors too. I just hope things get better for you.
it's not that you're "stupid" adam,
it's that predatory adults are RAMPANT in the entertainment industry (and society at large tbh), and they are highly skilled manipulators.
sending love
When Adam said “seriously wtf is wrong with me?” I felt that so much. I remember when I got abused as a minor and I still sometimes wonder wtf is wrong with me. Hell I legit just got lead on for months by a grown ass woman I thought cared about me and she even told me she did but no. There’s nothing wrong with either of us Adam, we’re both just young 20 year olds figuring out life.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you realize now that it wasn’t your fault. Thank you for sharing your story💖
It’s freeing when you realize it is on them and not you. I wish you the best.
@@daMEGatron thank you for your validation! I appreciate your words :)
@@boogiebear3095 it is the most freeing feeling in the world
As a mom this brakes my heart to see , Adam I am so sorry people hurt you, you are one amazing person and take care of yourself and have brake for your own mental health, people have no morals
Adam, youre not SUPPOSED to know how to find liars in adults when you are 20. Its hard enough to know yourself! These sick 30 yr olds are maniuplating the shyt out of everything but you know what, you will always have your authenticity and they will not. CHERISH the fact that you do not recognize a snake because it takes one to know one. Love you babe
I twitched when they said they forgave themselves
But you're not stupid. You were victimised by Coleen and then Kodee used your trauma for her own benefit and revictimised you
You were never stupid Adam. You were a child and then later you were just grateful that someone seemingly backed you up
Adam - You’re not stupid for wanting give people the benefit of the doubt. You’re not stupid for seeing the best in people. Those instincts are gifts that you’ll learn to hone as you age.
You’re so young and you’ll get better at seeing red flags earlier as you get older, but please give yourself some grace and be gentle with yourself. These people all have so much more experience than you do. They’re stupid, not you. They’re the adults actively engaging with and manipulating children regularly.
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Well Said ❤
Kodee’s selfish motivations do not change the truth of what they revealed. I agree with xylie, receipts don’t lie. Your vindication and others’s bravery won’t be stopped by this little bump in the road 💕
Feeling so bad for Adam. When I was 19 I dated a 30 year old. I couldn't figure out why everyone in my life was so upset about it. I'm 31 and it's just disgusting to think back on it... 19, 20, 21... You're still SO young. I think that's why it's easier for 30 whatevers to manipulate. At this age I still vividly remember high school, middle school and whatever else from younger years... BUT I also come with 10 years of "real life" experience. Not all 30 year olds are bad, but all definitely require strong boundaries. Lol.
Same here, I'm 32 now and when I was younger, people late 20/start 30's seemed quitw young still and I didnt see much difference. But being in my thirties now, it couldnt be further from the truth. It makes ALL the difference in the world and you can easily see how naive and innocent these teens and people at the beginning of their 20's are. Even the ones who think they are super mature for their age, it just doesnt compare at all
It’s sad how common your story is, I was 18 dating a 33 yr old cause I thought I was so mature…
I'm 25 and I even see 20 year old adam as a child who needs to be protected. I just want to be like a big sister and go after everyone who hurt this poor little baby boy
I’m so sorry you went through that. I was 18 dating a 25 year old and there was such a difference in age and maturity. Plus my friend was 18 dating a 28 year old. Now being 25 I couldn’t imagine dating someone that young. They are a kid to me because I see the naivety and innocence still.
Adam, I can't imagine how emotionally exhausting this whole thing is for you, I'm so sorry. You are handling all this the best that you can, and there's nothing wrong with you for wanting to believe that you finally had someone in your corner. You are being so incredibly strong, stronger than you should have to be, and I hope now that the truth is finally being aired out, you can heal from all of this
You're not stupid. It's not your fault. You're a kind, empathetic person who got taken advantage of.
As an abuse survivor myself, please take care of yourself through all of this, Adam 💜
🤍 This
FOR REAL!! It sucks so bad that people who are preyed upon almost always feel like it was their fault or are sorry for actions that they shouldn’t be apologetic for. It’s blame that isn’t the victims and it’s so shi itty. 😞
Yes!!! It’s not a bad thing to be a naturally trusting person. It’s not a bad thing to want to see the good in people. It breaks my heart every time he beats himself up for trusting kodee. You said everything I wanted to say ❤
I'm 33. I'm so sorry adults have manipulated you and I hope you keep being strong and get through it. Their actions aren't a reflection of their age or era. There are fucked up psychos in every generation. I'm just sorry you experienced these ones
Did have a weird gut feeling about Koode and this is very fucked up knowing this person has been full on adult through out the whole thing and you deserve way better and wish you the best ❤
Glad i don’t feel guilty now because i thought it was kind of weird too. I looked at her and was like … hmm.. you look significantly older than adam. But i didn’t really think too much of it.
@@pinheadlarry2921 not even about her age but she blatantly admitted even while speaking to Adam that she only released the video exposing Korey and Colleen because Korey ended up blocking her. It was never bout absolving Adam of blame or I think Kodee definitely was taking a moral high ground. I hate that Adam blames himself, he is in no way guilty of any wrong other than when he was young and in group chats making fun of other fans.
@Pinhead Larry Her age is a factor. She's a grown ass adult, acting like a teenager. In fact, she was a grown asa adult during every single thing. This isn't some innocent "omg I was a teen and manipulated because I'm naaivee," situation. She did everything because she wanted it to benefit her. It's just as gross as Colleen.
I started following you thanks to Peter monn during the frenemies era. I stayed for your amazing personality and humor. I later found out about the history with Colleen and I felt bad for you, but god. I didn’t know it went this deep and I feel so much for you. Lots of love to you boo
Right?? I found him from the Colleen video and stayed ever since becuase of the same reason! The vibes are chefs kiss
Same. Peter monn sent me years ago. Stayed because I adore you 💛
Don't worry about the sponsorship, we get how contracts work haha 😂
the fact they sat in your face and pretend to care in front of everyone STILL after everything is sick .
Adam, you are speaking up for yourself and all the other kids Colleen and Kory have traumatized, abused and exploited.
You deserve all the views and attention you’re getting! Not for just what was done to you, but also for the way you are staying strong!
ABUSED AND EXPLOITED LMAO U ARE SO FULL OF SHIT
Adam, with ALL due respect... I'm over 30 yrs old and the Mother of a 12 yr old former Miranda fan and IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE!!! I know you were joking and just being cheeky, but us Mom's??? We are ANGRY and speaking for just myself, I will not be quiet and go away and allow this woman to keep her cushy career manipulating children!!! If I have to be in these Live chats then so be it, I'm here for the right reasons... To hold Colleen Ballinger accountable! Much love honey! 🥰
Consider me president of Moms against Miranda Sings! 😂🤬🤬🤬
The frontal cortex of the brain doesn't fully develop to like 25, so give yourself grace Adam. Your feelings are valid though. I'm so sorry this gross lady and her little goblins are now attacking you. I'm so glad you took the steps you have to protect your peace. I know things look very grim now, but keep fighting, many people have your back, and it's only a matter of time that all these awful people are going to have the days they deserve.💚💚💚💚
Saying that insinuates that Adam is stupid imo. He’s not. I think things like this just comes with experience as you age. Sometimes, you trust too easily and the wrong people will make you lose all that trust real fucking quick. For some it happens very early, for some never. Has nothing to do with their pre frontal cortex. There are people under 25 who have to grow up very quickly to no fault of their own, and are incredibly smart despite their prefrontal cortex not being fully developed. Maybe I’m the only one who takes it offensively like that idk lol. I don’t mean this in an aggressive way towards you at all, so pls don’t take it that way.
I do absolutely agree he should give himself some grace though. It’s not easy dealing with manipulative ass sociopathic adults, ESPECIALLY when you’re only a teenager yourself. He was naive and thought he was friends with his idol. It’s not his fault that the people he was “friends” with were nothing but predatory.. in many ways.
@@Taylor_mamaof2it's also based on pseudoscience. the age 25 was pretty much just a random number. been a while since i fell down the rabit hole and read studies abt it but its kinda interesting if u have time to spare :)
@@lucy-vo2lr I believe that tbh.
@@lucy-vo2lr It seems about as pseudosciency as saying people have the mental age of X age, but generally it's true the brain is still maturing into the 20s, whether it's finished or not in Adam's case who knows. Also neuroplasticity means we're always growing anyway. Maturity isn't an end point.
@@qwandary agreed
It amazes me how quickly a story can change when given just a tiny bit more context. You were treated horribly Adam. I'm glad this is all finally coming to light because it needs to!
Uh oh girl… I’m 33, was never interested in Miranda Sings and never watched family vloggers… found your channel in 2021ish when I was listening to lots of Smokey Glow, H3H3, and Emily D Baker. I love your youthful and authentic takes Adam! I think you’ll be amazed at how much you grow by the time you’re my age.. you’re already off to a head start sadly, after having to learn how to deal with this awfulness so early on! I really help you navigate relationships and business as you get older and wiser and more confident. I’m not saying I’m glad you’ve gone thru all of this.. just that when the pain isn’t so heavy, you will be stronger for having gone thru all of it!
Literally the first thought in my head when I heard that video was “She sounds more eager than sad,” and it rang a lot of alarm bells in my head.
Sad to see that my gut feeling was correct, but never feel bad for being duped.
same with the zylie person adam is talking to on this vid
Exactly!!!
If you study body language even casually, you can see Kodee was absolutely LOVING this attention. Smirking & being very self satisfied. She really thought she’d come in and be looked at as a savior. The girl doesn’t live in reality. Dustin said it all and more ! Kodee ONLY came out with all of this information for personal gain & revenge… not to vindicate you.
Ok but "body language analysis" is pseudoscience BS lol
@@violet7773 ok Kodee’s sock account 😂😂😂
The way she edited the confession videos too- the goofy sound effects seemed so odd for such serious topics.
as someone whos hated kodee for years boddy language is 100% a pseudoscience. Im not defending kodee, she had terrible intentions but you dont need to "analyse" her body language to tell that much. Actually so annoying when people think you can genuinely read someones body language lmfao
I thought it was extremely mature of you to forgive her (because honestly I wouldn’t have forgave her) so you discovering this and recanting your forgiveness is more power for you!! What a bizarre situation..
Help why did Adam going “I am not talking to 30 years old anymore!” make me laugh so fricken hard.
I found you through this entire event all the way back then so I hope you take any time needed to just take a breather. You deserve alllllll the love and support, hope you have a great week!
Poor guy can't catch a break
Kodee writing down all of the “things they need to talk to their therapist about “ was really something.
She has got to take an internet break
Watching Adams reaction video of her was my first time watching her and she gave me all the wrong vibes.
It felt like a skit with how outlandish that was
She's a nutjob.
I commend Adam, despite everything he's been through, for being able to see things through such a nuanced lens. Like, even acknowledging that Kodee was manipulated is such a mature thing to say, given how self-serving Kodee has been/is being. It's both a strength and a weakness to have that sort of nuanced, empathetic perspective. On one hand, it stops you from shunning everyone away for mistakes made, on the other, it can blind you to malice that's right in front your eyes.
"Trauma Bonding" does *not* equal Bonding over trauma
:Friendly PSA:
Trauma Bond refers to the bond that connects an abuser and their target
Frequently that bond holds sway over the target even after the relationship has long ended
Not always sometimes you love your abuser before they start abusing you and then they cause you a lot of trauma and then that somehow twist things and you get bonded it's just a terrible dynamic
@@Angelface11thats the same thing op said lol
@@Angelface11but in that situation they are still your abuser and you've been trauma bonded to them already, it just gets more twisted. people have been believing that like, talking to ur friend over trauma you share or have the same kind of is trauma bonding. like literally bonding with someone over trauma you share. that's not what it is though, a trauma bond is established by an abuser.
Omg thank you for this. TB is often an overused/misused term
Sweetie, I wish I could give you a huge grandma hug! You are so strong... Your mom raised a good man, with a good heart. These are just evil bastards...
I don’t blame you for having a hard time trusting people 😞
You are so brave. You are so much more mature than ALL these ADULTS!! It’s crazy how your more mature then everyone else!!! You were raised so strong. 💙
adam, i’ve been a long time fan of yours, since you were 17- and i’m currently 17 now. you are such a wonderful man, and incredibly headstrong. you’re so brave for talking about this, and despite kodee’s selfish reasoning, you still thank them for releasing information, and you don’t even have to thank them at all. i stand by you, always and forever. thank you for just being you
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU ADAM YOU'RE JUST A GOOD PERSON. Good people think a certain way and so they imagine that others would think similarly. You see peoples actions and assume they have good intentions because you are kind enough to give people the benefit of the doubt that some refuse to give you. People who have been hurt can either turn bitter and hurt others, or understand other's pain and be kind because of that. Don't let these nasty people make you think there's anything wrong with you. This is one of those rare situations where it really is everyone else, not you lol. Don't let these nasties shadow your light. We need more people in the world like you, and you're stronger than you'll ever know
Adam, please don't beat yourself up for being a decent, kind and trusting person. Those are admirable qualities. Don't lose them. You're a good and genuine person and we need more of those in this world and especially on social media. Keep being you, sweetie. Much love and healing to you. You're going to be okay. XOXO
Adam don’t beat yourself up! You aren’t stupid! I’m 29 but I’ve been in your position before in my early 20s too! I trusted in people and used my authenticity to forgive people that didn’t deserve it. I had older friends as well that did the same stuff to me as well as other trauma. I took time to heal and get the support I needed. Take some time for you to heal and take care of your mental health. I’m so sorry these people are insecure and just know people near or in their 30s aren’t all bad. Take care of you ❤
The behavior and actions of these grown adults is appalling. How disgusting to damage a young man so much and cause him to have so many trust issues. To allow and commend years of harassment. I really admire your strength and resilience, Adam. It cannot be easy to talk about all of these traumatic events again. Wishing you all the love and happiness in the world. I hope these horrible people get what karma owes them very soon.
Wanting to believe in people isn’t stupid, it’s hopeful! And hope is one hell of an effective way forward
Please make sure you’re caring for your mental health in between sharing the different pieces of this awful story. 🖤
As an almost 30 year old I couldn’t imagine being in a group chat with minors. That’s wild. Please make sure to look after your mental health. Sending you strength Adam.
I'm only 21 and I feel weird when an 18 year old hits on me at the bars, let alone if I was talking to a minor.
Regarding trusting, forgiving, and feeling like you "endorsed" Kodee: Adam, from one survivor of emotional abuse to another, there is NO perfect victim. Making mistakes, being human, trusting people that didn't deserve it, NONE of that invalidates your experience with Colleen or your truth. You do not have to be perfect to be deserving of love, kindness, and apologies for how the internet eviscerated you.
I didn’t realize Kodee was that much older and that’s enough to change everything.
To begin with, she never took any responsibility. That rubbed me wrong in the initial video. It was all “but I was manipulated”, “ but I was in a parasocial relationship”, “but I wanted her to like me”… I honestly looked past all of that because I assumed she was also a kid.
Nothing but love for you Adam. You don’t have to forgive Kodee. You aren’t stupid for wanting to trust others. That’s a gift. As you continue to grow, you’ll learn how to spot the difference between those you can trust and those you can’t. I hope you’re taking care of yourself while exposing all this and stuff is still coming out. You are so strong and deserve better. ❤️❤️❤️
When you said how triggered you felt about colleen traumadumping then kodee coming on the stream to trauma dump sat so horribly with me I got the worst energy from them
It really sucks that she only cared about herself and tried to make it seem like she cared about you. She doesn't deserve your forgiveness, and you deserve to move on to a better chapter. Came here from Dustin and happy to have a new channel to follow. Was heartbroken to hear about the whole situation because I could totally see myself in your situation. That could have happened to anyone and I really hope you don't feel stupid for trusting and caring about a human who clearly didn't deserve that love and respect. It's not embarrassing even though it might feel that way and I'm sending all the best vibes your way darling ❤
Tbh Adam should forgive her but for himself. It’s not good to hold onto things that only makes it worse in the long run. Speaking as someone who was groomed online and also SA’d. But yes fuck Kodee but he should do it for himself so he doesn’t hold that hurt in
@Hey It’s Sarah totally disagree. As someone who has also been SA'd as a minor I find grudges to be healthy. As a victim you don't have to forgive someone to move on from a situation. Fuck abusers. You can love yourself and still hate someone who was horrible to you.
@@StargazingDragon sorry poor choice of words. Yes obviously you can hate them & what they did to you. I strongly dislike the person who did it to me and could care less what happens to them but I am working on forgiving them because I don’t want they did to eat me alive. But I’m NOT doing it for them I’m doing it for me so I can heal. Like I said obviously f Kodee/Colleen/all abusers they’re disgusting asf but I at least dont want mine to have power over me. Btw I’m v sorry that you had to go thru it as well.
@Hey It’s Sarah my abusers don't have power over me because I won't forgive them. They were middle aged men in positions of power that knew better and I know now that they were trash not me. To forgive them would still be giving them power over myself in my very personal opinion. I try not to even waste brain cells thinking about them. You do you though boo.
i truly feel for you, grooming is so traumatic and it takes so long to process
I believed your story the entire time, because I’ve gone through a situation like this and the abuser will always try to turn everyone’s rage on to the victim!
This is so true and couldn’t agree more.
I like how passionate Dustin is I wish more creators were doing this they clearly think it’s okay when it’s disgusting really.
Dear Adam, don't be hard on yourself. None of this is your fault, and Colleen, Kory, and all the adults taking advantage of you are the ones to be blamed. Hope you eventually get the justice and peace you deserve x
I’m a 29 year old with no kids maternally but I do have 2 step kids and I’m the oldest out of 4. My sweet younger brother is 20. If I found out someone had treated him like this at 17 id be out for blood. Your mom and dad sound amazing through this. I turn 30 in 6 months and while I enjoy younger people’s content if it’s well made and intriguing, id never talk to a kid unless they were a relative or child of a friend. I haven’t had anything in common with a 15 year old in 15 years when I was 15. I never knew who colleen was outside of Miranda but she sounds like a scared gross child that has no business being online. I’ve watched you the last year (so after all of this) and you’re creative and funny. Glad you found justice.
23:00 you are a forgiving, kind person who was willing to extend grace to people who apologized, period. there is nothing wrong with you. that’s a lovely quality to have and it’s very special. you can’t be well if you’re operating under the assumption that people are out to get you, and it’s never your fault when someone victimizes you or lies to you or takes advantage of you. they were going to do that no matter what because that is their character. you deserve loving, good people to receive your friendship and kindness.
The fact that you and Dustin were able to come together on this, and he spoke out and apologized to you regardless of any past differences, and even went further to defend you even against Kodee, just shows how good of people you both are. I’m happy for you both starting a new chapter.
You will make it through this. I was in a similar position (not so publicly) from the time I was 12 until I was 19 and I came out of it with a stable and healthy adulthood. You will be able to trust other people and you will be able to find real and genuine people. The one thing this situation has taught you is how to recognize SNAKES when you meet them. You will heal from this and learn from this and come out stronger.
Adam, you’re still so young. Please take care of yourself during this time my love. Many of us always believed you. I’m glad this info has come out, but be gentle with yourself.
As a 30 something, huge grain of salt here 😅 but wanted to send this tiny bit of validation to you- I always believed you and always thought the CB apology, beneath the spin, admitted everything you said. I’ve followed you ever since because I genuinely could not understand why people did not credit what you said. To any adult outside the situation or not caught up with being online, it was so transparent how inappropriate and exploitative her behavior was/is. It was shocking to me that anyone could try to excuse it away. I have been so happy to see how much your channel has taken off & how you’ve found your own voice apart from that situation.
Please be gentle with yourself. 💜The same compassion you’ve been having towards your 13-17 year old self you will have in a few years to your 20 year old self. Being a forgiving person is never something to be embarrassed about. Take care of yourself 💜
well said.
Adam you are so strong. I can't imagine what the trauma and revisiting it is doing to you. Just know you are not alone ❤
It’s ok if you don’t trust these people. At the end of the day they’re just people online. This is not your life anymore Adam. It’s nice that you and Dustin were able to apologize to each other, but you don’t have to fully trust or be friends with any of them, if you choose not to. I think this is all important for your healing process but I also think you now know to separate this from your personal life. Which is very important.
I know you’re an adult now, but you’re still very very young and it’s heartbreaking that you’re going through it. I’m glad the truth is coming out and I hope you’re now able to heal and move on from it.
Your mom Adam, your mom is the only person in this whole wide world that you can trust wholeheartedly! ❤
TELL YOUR TRUTH BABES! WE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU
Adam, you’re an honest person and trusting people to be honest is ohkay! I understand how disappointing it can be to realize not everyone is as honest as you 😓
Here to support you, babe. Sending love from St. Augustine, Florida and hopes for a bright future that you deserve.
Forgiving is something that heals yourself. So even when the other person didnt deserve it, its going to be something that helps yourself all along ❤
Praying you’re holding up okay Adam, what you are going through rn js so much. The muckers love you ❤
You seem like you have a very kind nature Adam and people sometimes take advantage of that, but it doesn't make you week or stupid, it makes you a wonderful light in this world, don't let people like this snuff you out. Lots of love from a fellow Northern Irish mess xx
I play these streams as background noise as I do other things, so when you take dramatic pauses, I always think the video froze 😂😂
Lol same and he also sits so still so when I look up it looks like it froze too
@@sariahwilhelm1180 YES 😂😂😂
Oh honey I’m so sorry what you’re going through right now. I had a childhood with abuse and it mentally fkd me up, it took years of therapy and self love to help heal my heart and soul. I know you’re going thru it but remember that you deserve to be loved and respected. Keep your loved ones close, keep being strong dear. This to shall pass ❤
I’m a long time casual viewer of yours and i’ve been keeping up with this story all week. Just wanted to say how brave and strong you are to speak your truth! It’s both heartbreaking and shocking that this ever happened to begin with. I hope you’re able to heal from this one day. Stay strong Adam 🥰
Also on a related but different topic: There should be actual laws made to protect children whose parents profit from them on TH-cam. It’s sick.
Adam was groomed early on and this will likely stay with him forever:( this is why grooming in the schools, grooming in politics, grooming in leadership is soooo horrible. And everyone being groomed now is not going to see it for a number of years until they’ve already been traumatized .
its not your fault for being eager and happy about finding an ally in this. you've felt alone for so long and kodee took advantage of that. stay strong adam your small corner of the internet has got your back ❤
Adam, you obviously just have a big heart. Keep your head up and know that you have people in your corner.
Honestly love being right about my vibe when I first saw their video LOL. I can't believe I just read about you in The Sun!!!!! Colleen's karma is that this scandal has skyrocketed your career and taken hers down. Truly *chefs kiss*
I am so sorry you went through this. It doesn't really get easier to trust people once you lose that trust....just be patient with yourself okay?
I’m so sorry! I so thought you would have your peace now. I hope you get to find your peace, you deserve it.
i thought it was weird when she jumped into jake doolittle's live the other night -- she was so obviously trying to control the narrative in the chat.
Oh, wow! She was in the chat? I missed it. That's bonkers
@@TheBrokeCyberWanderer yeah i watched the jake doolittle stream all the way through when he was live and they were there fairly early and stayed until the end (i think it was the end)
@miki marie Wow, that's ballsy!
@@mikishroom yeah I just watched it and she stayed till the end basically
It’s a shame that something she should have done 3 years ago is only being done now to cover her own ass, NOT to help you and vindicate you. I’m sorry Adam… I can’t imagine how much it must hurt to know that. The three years of turmoil you experienced could have been avoided, had she just been selfless and spoken up 3 years ago. She needed a selfish reason to tell the truth, and that’s just not ok :(
Adam please remember to take time for yourself, all of this must be truly the fucking worst and I have no idea how you're coping with it again. Having to go trhough it at age 17 would have been bad enough but it all comming back up again is insane. I hope the support you're getting is helping, so I hope you see this!
The ending where y'all talk about how Colleen could respond hits different after the ukulele
I was waiting for you to have this realization. I know it hurts and it’s a new wound but I’m proud of you. It’ll be a long road but you’re growing stronger every day. Love 💚
I’m so glad to see this. I searched for her video the other day and instead found a bunch of info about her pretending to be Native American to dodge criticism for racist remarks and videos showcasing her own inappropriate behavior with minors in group chats, etc. This whole endeavor was self serving on her part, but I’m glad it’s finally brought the truth to light.
I promise not all 30 year olds are like those horrible people. Im so sorry you had to go through this, them being the adults in the situation should have known better. They knew exactly what they were doing, and its disgusting, you are not stupid, you were groomed and taken advantage of and used by grown ass adults?!! Just stay strong, you are doing a good thing, and they need to be called out and honestly need to be charged with this!
So proud of you Adam. I know this hurts and I’m so sorry this happened, but the whole internet has your back. We love you!
Dustins video was amazing and so eye opening.. sending positive vibes Adam 🌻
Ya I loved it too. He really came for Kody. Was good to hear lol
I’ve spent the last few hours going down the Colleen ballinger rabbit hole. I didn’t realize kodee was an adult when this was all happening, this is disgusting. I got bad vibes from kodee in adams previous video. I’m so happy for Adam that the truth is coming out. This is terrifying, my step daughter was/is a fan of miranda/colleen. The internet is terrifying. I’m so sorry Adam.