I understand Hungani When he said it in a petori language, cause that's how we talk vele, we don't finish sentences but we understand each other, sentle fela
Topic of friendship is a serious one yoohhh.....especially as one grows older you find that you tend to "shed off" people you considered friends and only to realise they were just acquaintances...
the way Steph talks with her face! Anyway, my key takeaways: 1. Every friendship should serve a purpose, it shouldn't be about mere companionship 2. We are relational beings (see what lockdowns have done to our social nature) 3. The process of having the right friends around you involves cutting off others and letting in others 4. Be intentional about your inner circle 5. There are 'English bundles' lol and random observation, from Steph and others, women tend to have much more well-rounded perspectives about stuff than men ...
YOH this hits home. Being the only child at home and having lost my daddy at 6 years old I adopted this ''obsession'' on always finding male friends where I enforce a brotherly friendship with them. So I have realised that what I look for in my friends is male love and not like just a friendship. So I have had to cut manyyyyyyy.
Sorry about that, but we are glad you came to that realisation. Get some therapy so you’re able to build friendships without that ‘longing’ in the picture. May God be with you🤗🙏🏾
It also hit home because after matric i cut off a lot of people because i found myself being too loyal and committed to people that would not think twice about my wellbeing anf happiness . I'm the type of person that values friend... Maybe too much.. I end up feeling as if the friendship is one sided. Thank you guys for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This talk really pushes you to look within yourself and surround yourself to reassess the company you keep and also the kind of person you are . ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Let's be honest! 😂 Hungani showed us that when we speak in our vernacular , yey! We really channel our Africans selves yk. Like hey wena. Even the accent changes 😂😂 On a serious note tho. This was truly insightful ✨
Steph you are me I am you 😂😂 I've been forcing my friends to be friends and they all told me to stop but I kept thinking how can y'all not get along when y'all get along with me 😂😂 ama stop
The Ndlovu's are my absolute faves. xx. May God bless you both Steph and Hungani, continue to reveal His purpose and desires for your life because the light you shine brings hope and joy to so many people. I'm always smiling and laughing when I watch The Ndlovu's Uncut!
I always say the worst heartbreaks I've experienced are from friends. I hold my friendships to such a high degree but you cant always say you are as high up on someone's list as they are on yours. You just need to know where you stand with people. The older I become the fewer friends I have and the more content I have become.
I believe that it's so important to be aware of who you allow into your inner space and who you tell all your business. It's also important to know what kind of friend you are to others and to surround yourself with people who treat you the same and let of any friend who doesn't. It hurts but it has to happen. I love you guys 💕💕
Skip wena girlll 😂😂😂😂😂 the Thank you mfundisi and the shout out killed me struu bob😂😂😂influenza yona 😂😂😂why cut the video, it's the NDLOVU'S uncut after all😂😂😂
Being aware of the energy you feed off and give off through friends is really a serious matter❤Thank you guys for this and well making me laugh too much at thee end of the vid😂😂😂ke winter Hungz💃💃😉😂😂😂Love you guys!❤
🤣🤣🤣Hungani, when he said "Noooo....." I had to repeat that one, he WAS just so passionate about what he wanted to say, before realizing that steph wasn't done taking 😂😂❤️
So true... It's very important who you allow to speak into your life, in this context, the friends that you keep vele... Cause y'all can help each other van die wal af in die sloot in if your closest circle is filled with people who do not share common morals; that's why it's important to make sure that that circle can be candid with you and also call you out on it if you are derailing, not in a condemning way, but being aware of the person that you are striving towards becoming and kind of serving as your accountability partners. Like Steph said, it's important to identify which function specific friendships serve and your role as well, because some friendships serve a greater purpose at arms length.
Wow thank you for this topic ❤I'm not married nor in a relationship coz I want to work on myself and I'm really learning alot from you guys😭you are truly a blessing ❤❤
Black bucket hat, grey hoodie and a black T shirt😍😍Thank you. Mr Ndlovu please don't ruin Mrs Ndlovu's hair and thank you for the video, i need to do a little bit of spring cleaning in my life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Woow am sooo inlove with the new pictures featured in the 'introduction video'😍💖💞keep on growing Ndlovu's, we love what you offer to other young couples 🙏💞May God keep on blessing you🙏, you deserve happiness🤞
Me I volunteer to be hooked up Hungani. I am in Cape Town lol. But I love that you did this topic, I love the sensitivity and the mature way in which you handled it. It is something I often think about and speak to my friends about.
I literally only watched this video now, as I didn't get the chance to watch when it dropped😭Anyway I LOVE this topic. We should normalize assessing the people we let into our lives. We tiptoe around this topic so much that we forget that it is important to be honest with people around us, for the sake of our emotional wellbeing. Thank you Steph and Hungs for such a great topic. You guys are awesome!!! 😁👏
When Hungani says "say Hi" to hook up. Yazi he wants people to meet their people kiri Bona. Unconventional ME coming out to play mara Hi kea eng LOL... after thought
This hits hard guys mo lifeng we meet different people who we think are cool and staff but then they are not good friends or people to chill with.People are wearing sheepskin outchea and that makes it very difficult to choose Friends so nje thank you guys for talking about that and I myself been dribbled alot by "friends" and I've learned alot more and I'm more cautious now within my circle all thanks to my ex boyfriend who taught me that I can live without friends and in an honest truth I'm okay now I have one friend who also happens to have one Friend(me ofcause 😌) and I'm grateful for that....thank you guys and much love ♥️keep the topic coming I like it🙌
Hi Stephanie my name sake, I am a 🇨🇲 Cameroonian, was in SA for 8years and now in the 🇺🇸 US but I miss SA so bad. That's my second home, praying to visit December 2021.
In adulthood I really struggle with friendship. I always have my guard up, close friendship especially can miss me, it can be a heavy load. Distant friendshipping honestly is my thing and it works for me.
A video that forces introspection above anything else, and just in direct correlation with the sermon series of winning in relationships which includes friendships (Relationship goals reloaded by Ps. Mike Todd) Anywho, we're all for the merch., bring it on 🔥🔥
There's a solar/wind plant in upington ,the moment I saw Upington my mind quickly shifted to that 🙈🙈...i don't even know why iam excited hearing Upington..
Heyyy missed you Romsy and our girl Ingie...im watching from Zimbabweeee im so happy you are back guyss misssed you mara kodwa its good that you are back and i hope its for goood.
We all hit that like button before even watching moc😍😍😍
SOOOO TRUUUUE
that's faxxx😄🔥😋🔥
True even share before finishing
Definitely!😍❤😂
I understand Hungani
When he said it in a petori language, cause that's how we talk vele, we don't finish sentences but we understand each other, sentle fela
Topic of friendship is a serious one yoohhh.....especially as one grows older you find that you tend to "shed off" people you considered friends and only to realise they were just acquaintances...
Notification gang nikuphi??
Mina ngi Present !! 💃🔥
Present
Present
Here🙋♀️
How do people actually like consciously click this👎 to the Ndlovu's. 💏 World Wide we Just love you👍❤
🙄Whyy marra
Love this title. It's actually very true that you become who you surround yourself with. 👏👏
Hh y ýhhhhhhhhhhh
LITHA act like she doesn't wanna do the things........at the end.
Did he just point me and say 'I see Kenyans in the building'😂😂 ❣
I see you 😋🤗❤️
the way Steph talks with her face!
Anyway, my key takeaways:
1. Every friendship should serve a purpose, it shouldn't be about mere companionship
2. We are relational beings (see what lockdowns have done to our social nature)
3. The process of having the right friends around you involves cutting off others and letting in others
4. Be intentional about your inner circle
5. There are 'English bundles' lol
and random observation, from Steph and others, women tend to have much more well-rounded perspectives about stuff than men ...
English bundles mntakabawo😂😂😂😂
Hungani bra obolela Se pitori jikijiki mabra u changing to English .... Just flow brayaka ka spitori 😂😂😂😂
Their love is mushy wushy I like it. How they look at each other when the other speaks🤩🥰
🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼Zim in the house
❤
Yeah
Its beautiful how Steph lights up and gets all smiley when Hungani is talking❤
Eish Ladies Can Talk And Men Go Straight To The Point And Ladies Speak And Speak Like Forever!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s a good balance 🙏🏾
YOH this hits home. Being the only child at home and having lost my daddy at 6 years old I adopted this ''obsession'' on always finding male friends where I enforce a brotherly friendship with them. So I have realised that what I look for in my friends is male love and not like just a friendship. So I have had to cut manyyyyyyy.
Sorry about that, but we are glad you came to that realisation. Get some therapy so you’re able to build friendships without that ‘longing’ in the picture. May God be with you🤗🙏🏾
Thank you ❤❤
@@TheNdlovusUncut how can I get the apparel
The end though... So adorable
Aw mam Mfundisi ❤😂 we (single gang) will be waiting for the revelation 😅
😄I like how Hungani is finishing Stepheni's sentences. It's adororable.
Love you Mr and Mrs Ndlovu 😍😍
Watching from Harare, Zimbabwe.
"Man of my own self, don't need nobody, 😂Born alone, die alone "😂
Watching all the way from Hazyview loving u Ndlovus..
@@preciousmatsane2905 😊😊😊
😂😂😂 Steph "born alone die alone" yes wena girl lol and Hungz "mo lifeng neh" 😂😂
When Nthabiseng said "hhaaaaaa......" it hit home hard, 🤞🏻
"At some point we all need grace and forgiveness" Steph that was soo profound 🤞🔥🔥 Nami rhandza Henwinaaa 💚💜💜 thank you for keeping it real
As for "ke winter" 😂😂❤️ I'm so glad we have such content from people like you guys.
Hits home🏡😭❤️
The realest outchea 🤗👊🏾
I totally understand you Hungz 😂, jiki jiki motho wao makatsa hore heh bathong khante 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
"Jiki jiki you thought this guy...daman kii!!!...and then is not" Hungani mara😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hungani's reaction when steph brings up the topic.....😂😂😂
Anyways, we missed yall. Much appreciation all the way from Gauteng, Tembisa 1632....🙏
It also hit home because after matric i cut off a lot of people because i found myself being too loyal and committed to people that would not think twice about my wellbeing anf happiness . I'm the type of person that values friend... Maybe too much.. I end up feeling as if the friendship is one sided.
Thank you guys for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This talk really pushes you to look within yourself and surround yourself to reassess the company you keep and also the kind of person you are . ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm watching from Namibia, Windhoek. That is so true or friends make us or break us if one allow them.
Watching from Moscow, Russia😊💕
Motase, don't you miss home? Sjoe!
Let's be honest! 😂 Hungani showed us that when we speak in our vernacular , yey! We really channel our Africans selves yk. Like hey wena. Even the accent changes 😂😂
On a serious note tho. This was truly insightful ✨
There’s so much beauty in our languages😍😍
There really is 😍🔥
Steph you are me I am you 😂😂 I've been forcing my friends to be friends and they all told me to stop but I kept thinking how can y'all not get along when y'all get along with me 😂😂 ama stop
I forgot that today it's Friday, the notification 🔔 of the video just reminded me that it's #TheNdlovuUncut#Friday 😊👌😅
The Ndlovu's are my absolute faves. xx. May God bless you both Steph and Hungani, continue to reveal His purpose and desires for your life because the light you shine brings hope and joy to so many people. I'm always smiling and laughing when I watch The Ndlovu's Uncut!
I always say the worst heartbreaks I've experienced are from friends. I hold my friendships to such a high degree but you cant always say you are as high up on someone's list as they are on yours. You just need to know where you stand with people. The older I become the fewer friends I have and the more content I have become.
I believe that it's so important to be aware of who you allow into your inner space and who you tell all your business. It's also important to know what kind of friend you are to others and to surround yourself with people who treat you the same and let of any friend who doesn't. It hurts but it has to happen.
I love you guys 💕💕
Skip wena girlll 😂😂😂😂😂 the Thank you mfundisi and the shout out killed me struu bob😂😂😂influenza yona 😂😂😂why cut the video, it's the NDLOVU'S uncut after all😂😂😂
Content is always unexpected, which really makes your channel unique. #realtalkhere#
'Ke winter' 😂😂 haibo!
Jah no. This was an awesome video. Thank you Mr and Mrs Ndlovu ❤🔥
Being aware of the energy you feed off and give off through friends is really a serious matter❤Thank you guys for this and well making me laugh too much at thee end of the vid😂😂😂ke winter Hungz💃💃😉😂😂😂Love you guys!❤
I love your authenticity ❤️ sending love from Zambia 🇿🇲
Oh yasss Steph I would love to order the hoodie . 😍🔥
The ending was all sorts of adorable.. The Ndlovu's are a whole VIBE 🐘❤️🐘
🤣🤣🤣Hungani, when he said "Noooo....." I had to repeat that one, he WAS just so passionate about what he wanted to say, before realizing that steph wasn't done taking 😂😂❤️
Please keep at this never stop you' ll are doing the most . Fridays have become my favourite day 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Hungani's energy today oh my gosh🤣🤣💃💃🎊🎊... Throughly enjoyed the video wow😍🕺😊😊🔥🔥
So true... It's very important who you allow to speak into your life, in this context, the friends that you keep vele... Cause y'all can help each other van die wal af in die sloot in if your closest circle is filled with people who do not share common morals; that's why it's important to make sure that that circle can be candid with you and also call you out on it if you are derailing, not in a condemning way, but being aware of the person that you are striving towards becoming and kind of serving as your accountability partners.
Like Steph said, it's important to identify which function specific friendships serve and your role as well, because some friendships serve a greater purpose at arms length.
lets keep it zero dislikes guys
Boaz we generally have unhappy people, they just dislike without even watching.
Love❤❤❤❤❤❤ from Vaal.
The Ndlovu's uncut.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍. You guys😂😂😂😂😂
You guys are such a mood waits😁, I like how you’ll be whispering along the video like we can’t hear you😂😂. Hey Litha👋🏿
How did we go from friendship advice to hookups. Yoh. Hungani 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
'We ain't here for games' 😂😂 Steph guys!! A whole vibe 😍😂😂
I love you guys❤️🌻. Watching from Cape Town☺️
Much much love from Zimbabwe 😙
I’m really enjoying your young “mentorship”. Shout out ✨👌🏾 😌
A Kenyan in the building😴 ❤💯, not up for hook ups though👋👋🇰🇪
I'm from Dundee, KZN but watching this from Pretoria 😊I really needed this ❤️❤️❤️
I lov this topic guyz "no single frnds" ....power to dat guyz
Only if they are not like minded. The whole point is to not be misled by your friends.
Like I literally rewatched the part where Stephanie says the title and Hungani does who knows what. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love you TNU 🌺❤️
That killed me...😂😂😂😂
I re watch these videos until a new one is posted thats how am addicted to this couple
I stan Steph in this video. You are so smart and very attentive. you are always quick to listen not quick to talk . you respond with understanding
😂😂😂😭😭First few minutes of the video and I'm already cracking up.. Love you Steph.. Don't worry youll get it eventually ❤️❤️❤️
Much Love The Ndlovu's🐘🐘😘😘..This is so Adorable😘
Supporting you guys all the way from Guyana🇬🇾.
Profound topic. Nailed it from A to Z👌💫💯
Wow thank you for this topic ❤I'm not married nor in a relationship coz I want to work on myself and I'm really learning alot from you guys😭you are truly a blessing ❤❤
Black bucket hat, grey hoodie and a black T shirt😍😍Thank you. Mr Ndlovu please don't ruin Mrs Ndlovu's hair and thank you for the video, i need to do a little bit of spring cleaning in my life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The new intro pictures weeeuh❣
Did you just say Kenya? Well hey...i'm really enjoying this relationship series.
You guys are such an authentic couple, I absolutely love it 😭
Woow am sooo inlove with the new pictures featured in the 'introduction video'😍💖💞keep on growing Ndlovu's, we love what you offer to other young couples 🙏💞May God keep on blessing you🙏, you deserve happiness🤞
Yes the birds of the same feather flock together.......Judas was not going to survive in the upper room experience.....
You guys are crazy though 😂 stru ❤❤❤❤ happy that you are back and with a Bang. Nwana 🏃♀️
That point on showing grace to people cause you will need it from them one day phew! That was heavy.Love you guys all the way in 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Kerata gore lagafa❤️ and la nkhatlha folks🔥😂.... The Ndlovu's Uncut 🙏🏾
I feel like I'm Hungani 3-4 years back... These things called friendships can be hectic 😂
Wow what a topic..... I thought I did the bad thing but after watching this I actually realized that I did the right thing by doing the cutting
Me too🤦♀ I always feel bad whenever i see them 💔but then just got a relief ☺
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yhooo please like, yeyi wena Nthabiseng.
The level of energy from Hungani yerrrr!
Steph you are getting the big chop my dear.
I love you guys...love from Zimbabwe 😘
Wooooooooo the title,we are readyyyyyyyyy
I love you guys .. this is Syeon... watching from Zimbabwe
Me I volunteer to be hooked up Hungani. I am in Cape Town lol. But I love that you did this topic, I love the sensitivity and the mature way in which you handled it. It is something I often think about and speak to my friends about.
I literally only watched this video now, as I didn't get the chance to watch when it dropped😭Anyway I LOVE this topic. We should normalize assessing the people we let into our lives. We tiptoe around this topic so much that we forget that it is important to be honest with people around us, for the sake of our emotional wellbeing. Thank you Steph and Hungs for such a great topic. You guys are awesome!!! 😁👏
When Hungani says "say Hi" to hook up. Yazi he wants people to meet their people kiri Bona. Unconventional ME coming out to play mara Hi kea eng LOL... after thought
This hits hard guys mo lifeng we meet different people who we think are cool and staff but then they are not good friends or people to chill with.People are wearing sheepskin outchea and that makes it very difficult to choose Friends so nje thank you guys for talking about that and I myself been dribbled alot by "friends" and I've learned alot more and I'm more cautious now within my circle all thanks to my ex boyfriend who taught me that I can live without friends and in an honest truth I'm okay now I have one friend who also happens to have one Friend(me ofcause 😌) and I'm grateful for that....thank you guys and much love ♥️keep the topic coming I like it🙌
Hi Stephanie my name sake, I am a 🇨🇲 Cameroonian, was in SA for 8years and now in the 🇺🇸 US but I miss SA so bad. That's my second home, praying to visit December 2021.
There is so much beauty in difference 😭👏🏽
In adulthood I really struggle with friendship. I always have my guard up, close friendship especially can miss me, it can be a heavy load. Distant friendshipping honestly is my thing and it works for me.
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Hungani when Mrs Ndlovu says the title for the first time! 🔥 🔥
You're very profound guys and the content you're providing is very vital and essential ❤👌🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
🙌🏾🙌🏾
A video that forces introspection above anything else, and just in direct correlation with the sermon series of winning in relationships which includes friendships (Relationship goals reloaded by Ps. Mike Todd)
Anywho, we're all for the merch., bring it on 🔥🔥
Watching from Lusaka Zambia
From Lusaka Zambia aswel 😍😍
I’m watching you here in Upington. Yeeee☺️❤️
There's a solar/wind plant in upington ,the moment I saw Upington my mind quickly shifted to that 🙈🙈...i don't even know why iam excited hearing Upington..
Stephanie's on point. I am all about keeping the circle's small.Yoh I love this topic.
Funny that My real name is actually Nthabiseng . Lovely video!👍😘♥️
🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦 Namibia in the house!!
Hey fellow Namibian🤗🤗
@@joyaebeb4002 hey hey🌻🌻
That "ke winter" at the end killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and when Hungani was speaking that tswana accent😂😂😂I'm on the floor, love you guys so much😍😍😍😍💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I love this. So relevant to us nowadays 🔥🔥🔥 opening up and letting go of friendships👌🏽 #bornalonediealone😌
I really can't wait to see you guys having a beautiful family❤❤❤
Heyyy missed you Romsy and our girl Ingie...im watching from Zimbabweeee im so happy you are back guyss misssed you mara kodwa its good that you are back and i hope its for goood.
My Favorite couple Mrs Lilitha Ndlovu n her hubby. L💖U GUYS 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘