Hi guys, I'm 53. My ex wife and I lost 3 babies before God allowed us to keep 2 babies to raise. I haven't thought of any of this for a very long time. Seeing you both in pain, well it reminded me of the pain I suffered so long ago. So I totally empathize with your loss and the pain. All I can say is, God is good. When it is the right time, you will have children. Things will get better! I wish I could give you both a BIG hug! Take care!
I suspected She is expecting the last time I watched your video. Something different on her body . And then you mention about starting a family in your dream home. I’m so sad that that you guys loss it. Don’t worry is more to come. Just take it easy She.🙏🙏❤️❤️
Unfortunately, not everything is positive in this world; and life has its challenges. BUT focus on the most important thing. Sherlyn made it and you have each other. I hope you succeed and become parents at a later date. Hugs to you both.
I had it too in my first pregnancy. Then my OB told me try again after 3 months where your ovary is clean. We did and now we have 3 grown up children. I admire Finns love for Sherlyn. He is really a good man, partner and no doubt a good father. Take care Sherlyn.
Glad that Sherlyn is recovering now after the operation. I've seen the sad news on FB a few weels ago. Couldn't help to shed some tears just seeing Sherlyn recount her story. God is Good, all the time. What's important is you guys found it earlier and Sherlyn is safe. There is a time for everything and your child will come at the right time. No doubt about it, you will have a child, Finn and Sherlyn. This I declare in the Mighty Name of Jesus! Just have faith and be strong. You'll overcome this. There is hope. Wishing you both be surrounded with love, peace, joy and strenght and I thank the Lord for saving Sherlyn's life, and for all the prayers. After the storm comes the bright morning light! God always keep and protect you guys.
Sherlyn my love, it is normal to grieve after your lost. It is OK to cry and you must let your your grief to come out. When you let your grief to come out, it will shorten your grievance. You don’t have to be positive all the time. It is OK to be sad. It will pass… Sending you lots of love 🤗🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗
Praying for you Sherlyn, if you feel depressed it is because of the hormone imbalance after the surgery. You might be sad but be strong and praying for you. Be strong.
You guys are a beautiful couple and will make amazing parents some day. Actually, you already are amazing parents to your two dogs. Focus on your love for each other and for life. God is great and your dreams are coming true even now.
Trials. Everyone of us has different trials in this temporary life. Have more patience and keep the faith direct to One and Only God Who is in Heaven, Who Created us and gave us life and provided us everything. May God guide you both. Ameen. ❤❤
We are sad to hear that finnsnow and sherlyn, last 6mos i got miscarriage also at 6th wks 😢 but Alhmdullilah(thanks to.God) because behind this happen He have a great plan to us, Alhmdullilah Allah save you that moment always trust Him 😊 He gave us life and He is also the one who can take our life, He have better plan to Us, dont lose hope for getting a mom again Allahs always give us in perfect time,May Allah help you to recover and ease the pain,hugsss from.Emirati-Filipino family here in UAE❤❤❤
Don’t be too worried about “looking at the bright side” right now; grieving process is subjective and its stages are fluid and without time limits. Protection, love and healing are what I pray for you at this time. God bless.
During pregnancy eat healthy food never Skip meals, less movement/activity take vitamin daily avoid stress, avoid being sad or having problems thats my payo, god bless sainyo
Please accept our deepest condolences. We pray for a speedy and complete healing for you and Sherlyn. Please give the fur babies a hug and kiss from us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐🌹💐🌹💐🌹
Just found out through this video. Thank goodness Sheryl was taken care of quickly. An ectopic pregnancies happen more often than not. It wasn't time yet for both of you. Have faith that things happen for a reason. one day it will be meant to be parents for multiple children. Praying for peace, acceptance and hope for your future blessings. God Bless Always Finn and Sheryl💝🙏
Life is beautiful and chaotic. Sometimes there is chaos in the beauty. Sometimes there is beauty in the chaos. I also lost my first. Love you both and wishing you the best.
When it rains, it pours but even these things will pass. Being alive is a blessing and a gift that we should thank God for. I’m glad you guys came out strong. Just keep going.
❤🚨🚨🚨❤Finn I know your pain we lost our child in March of this year, My Filipina wife had a miss carriage at about 2 months in. We’re strong minded men Finn 😊God will bless us both with another good chance that we will someday hold our young child in our arms!! ❤❤
Mine is 7 weeks then left fallopian tube ruptured. Sherlyn and Finn, my heart goes to you. Grieve together and help each other with the grief. Having people that support you and understand your grief is a BIG help in moving forward.
Good to know you're both ok now. We were in the same situation when we lost our 2nd child. It was 11 weeks already when my wife got a miscarriage. We went to emergency and the baby's heartbeat was gone. I know how you feel right now because we've been there. I know God has a better plan for both of you. Just continue to trust Him and in God's perfect time, you will be blessed. We will keep you both in our prayers...God bless and stay safe.
What's important is that you love each other. Just give it all to God. Time will heal your pain. Just stay strong and always communicate with each other, support each other, and just keep on praying for strength. What's important is you have each other. 🎎
Had the same ectopic pregnancy experience, Sherlyn. That time I knew it I was busy at and stressed with the studies. doctor said the same thing to me, she had to save my life and admitted right away. Now I have my son. Don't worry, Finn and Sherlyn you can do it well next time. Just hold on to God.
I’m so sorry about the loss of your child. God bless both of you and your lost child. The Lord will take care of the child. You are both young and God will you provide you with a large and blessed family. Take care and God bless you both.
Just think of it as your angel visiting you, checking out the soon to be mom and dad. You’ll be blessed with Kuya Jake’s sibling. 🥰 What’s important is you guys are ready. Much love💕
So sorry for your loss! Just keep praying and ask God for your guidance and healing. Its hard losing our own child, We had miscarriage our second child it was 9 weeks and after that I had heavy bleeding and that was it. Its hard Charlene but keep praying and it takes time to heal. And you will have both a beautiful baby someday. We put our God in our center and he gave us another bllessings after 3 months he gave us a talented , energetic sweet boy Trent. Now we have to handsome sweet boys. God Bless to both of you.
hug hug to both of you…thank you for the editing and filtering of high emotion part…you are both super healthy im sure God will give you in this time…some people went through the same and said that maybe the Lord gave an angel a little early… hug hug❤
I had been in a similar situation, we lost our first child too. Finn is mostly smiling throughout the video but I know it hurts a lot inside. We men need to set aside our feelings and emotions sometimes.
We've lost a child too and know that it's not an easy thing to go through. The important things are to keep your faith in God and each other and always be there for the other no matter what. We believe those things are what made it possible for us to deal with our situation. Our love and prayers go out the three of you. God bless stay strong for each other and stay safe.
Hi Sherlyn and Finn, so sorry for your loss😢😢😢 Please stay strong for each other. Sending you both lots of love and prayers and always Trust in The Lord Our God❤️🙏🤗😘
Bad things happen to great great people. You will become so much stronger through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. sorry for your loss!
Ectopic pregnancy is very dangerous. My sister-in-law died because of this. I'm glad the surgery was done before it got worse. Stay positive and don't stress out because of what happened. I'm sure Sherlyn will bounce back and will be as healthy as before. Take care!
Just saw this video after Sherlyn posted about it on IG. I wanted to express my condolences - so sorry to hear you were going through such a rough and challenging time. Sending you a big hug and hoping you can heal from this 🙏🤍
I am so sorry to hear this from sherlyn and Finn.. I was crying watching the video.. just trust in the Lord and continue praying.. nothing is impossible with God .. u both r still young so .. there’s tons of hope and possibilities awaiting.. keep the faith!! Important thing is you have each other no matter what.
So sorry for your loss but also thankful that Sherlyn is doing well. Praying for Gods to give you two pea and comfort. Also praying for continued healing for Sherlyn.
Sorry for your loss Finn & Sherlyn but love the strength you showed in this part of your life. Hold on to God. He knows what is best for you both. God bless
I had ectopic pregnancy after I had my daughter and son, after that pregnancy with 1 fallopian tube and God gave us another 2 girls… i remember I had emergency the laparoscopic surgery at 11am and got discharged @ 2 am in the morning and my husband made me walk to get to our car for about 6 blocks under a 20 degree cold weather in New York City… I was in pain, I was sad and was soo cold…but when we look back we are grateful for every thing we went through cause God was with us… and now we tell our friends how bad was my husband making me walk in the cold while I just got out from surgery lol… it will be ok. Stay strong and always hopeful. God bless u both. By the way I’m from Dumaguete too.
I remember happening that to my bestfriends fiance at the peak of covid, and sadly my bestfriend lost his fiance and lost their baby. Good thing you guys caught it early. You guys will be okay, time heals all wounds. Just keep that Faith strong
We experience just like your case , We're lucky our medicare system is the best in the World , cost us nothing. Keep trying we had two girls now they're both professional engineers in our adapted country Canada! Good luck to both of you!
Sorry to hear about your loss, I’m glad Sherlyn is okay. I’m praying for her fast recovery. God is awesome I’m sure he will give you a few children. Praying for both of you.
Oh my god I’ve never met you guys in my life but it shows how the power of vlogging is when we all subscribe and follow people like yourself,you still come into our lives over the internet and it fills like we are all family in some way and feel the love and support and mainly other than this situation it’s happiness. I thank you for allowing us to be part of this and send my love and god bless you both and wish you good health and continue what you do in this difficult time 🇬🇧🇵🇭🤙🏻
We love you guys. You'll get through this Sherlyn. There is a Japanese method of repairing broken pottery and filling the cracks with gold. The thing about God is takes broken things and makes them beautiful. In the brokeness you are both feeling some good will come out of it although it may be hard to see right now. Praying for you both. God bless!
next child going be okay keep prayer .
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We lived the same thing and 2 years later we got our beautiful daughter. But the situation is very dangerous for the Mother. Good news if she is ok.
Hi guys, I'm 53. My ex wife and I lost 3 babies before God allowed us to keep 2 babies to raise. I haven't thought of any of this for a very long time. Seeing you both in pain, well it reminded me of the pain I suffered so long ago. So I totally empathize with your loss and the pain. All I can say is, God is good. When it is the right time, you will have children. Things will get better! I wish I could give you both a BIG hug! Take care!
I suspected She is expecting the last time I watched your video. Something different on her body . And then you mention about starting a family in your dream home. I’m so sad that that you guys loss it. Don’t worry is more to come. Just take it easy She.🙏🙏❤️❤️
so sorry to hear this sad news. more power to you and Sherlyn.
Unfortunately, not everything is positive in this world; and life has its challenges.
BUT focus on the most important thing. Sherlyn made it and you have each other.
I hope you succeed and become parents at a later date.
Hugs to you both.
I had it too in my first pregnancy. Then my OB told me try again after 3 months where your ovary is clean. We did and now we have 3 grown up children. I admire Finns love for Sherlyn. He is really a good man, partner and no doubt a good father. Take care Sherlyn.
Glad that Sherlyn is recovering now after the operation. I've seen the sad news on FB a few weels ago. Couldn't help to shed some tears just seeing Sherlyn recount her story. God is Good, all the time. What's important is you guys found it earlier and Sherlyn is safe. There is a time for everything and your child will come at the right time. No doubt about it, you will have a child, Finn and Sherlyn. This I declare in the Mighty Name of Jesus! Just have faith and be strong. You'll overcome this. There is hope. Wishing you both be surrounded with love, peace, joy and strenght and I thank the Lord for saving Sherlyn's life, and for all the prayers. After the storm comes the bright morning light! God always keep and protect you guys.
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Prayers for Sherlyn to get well soon.
I'm so glad she is OK 😢
Sherlyn my love, it is normal to grieve after your lost. It is OK to cry and you must let your your grief to come out. When you let your grief to come out, it will shorten your grievance. You don’t have to be positive all the time. It is OK to be sad. It will pass…
Sending you lots of love 🤗🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗
Praying for you Sherlyn, if you feel depressed it is because of the hormone imbalance after the surgery. You might be sad but be strong and praying for you. Be strong.
First of all, get well soon. Please remember that God is always with the person he loves from Turkey
Sherlyn is still here.. ❤ Good karma will come your way guys and you too, will rejoice!
You guys are a beautiful couple and will make amazing parents some day. Actually, you already are amazing parents to your two dogs. Focus on your love for each other and for life. God is great and your dreams are coming true even now.
Trials. Everyone of us has different trials in this temporary life. Have more patience and keep the faith direct to One and Only God Who is in Heaven, Who Created us and gave us life and provided us everything. May God guide you both. Ameen. ❤❤
We are sad to hear that finnsnow and sherlyn, last 6mos i got miscarriage also at 6th wks 😢 but Alhmdullilah(thanks to.God) because behind this happen He have a great plan to us, Alhmdullilah Allah save you that moment always trust Him 😊 He gave us life and He is also the one who can take our life, He have better plan to Us, dont lose hope for getting a mom again Allahs always give us in perfect time,May Allah help you to recover and ease the pain,hugsss from.Emirati-Filipino family here in UAE❤❤❤
God has always a plan bro. At this moment just relax and recover for everything and back to normal and you both can try again in the future🙏🙏🙏.
Dont skip ads to support finn and sherlyn..... Finn and sherlyn you guys are incredibly strong!
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Sorry for your loss but life must go on...everything happens for a reason. Sending love and hugs. God has in store the best for you in the future.
The main thing is Sherlyn is ok. God will bless you two with kids at the right time. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.
Take care Sherlyn and Fin❤
just pray everything will be okay..
Don’t be too worried about “looking at the bright side” right now; grieving process is subjective and its stages are fluid and without time limits. Protection, love and healing are what I pray for you at this time. God bless.
I agree... looking at the bright side is good, but it's easier said than done, especially for us mothers. It'll come in her own time.
Exactly, she needs him to console and hug her and be sensitive to the grief she is going through as her body recovers.
During pregnancy eat healthy food never Skip meals, less movement/activity take vitamin daily avoid stress, avoid being sad or having problems thats my payo, god bless sainyo
I am so happy to see Sherlyn back in shape in God's care. We pray for her full recovery, ♥️🙏
Praying for Sherlyn fast recovery. God will provide in the right time. Just believe in God and be positive in life 🙏🏻
Please accept our deepest condolences. We pray for a speedy and complete healing for you and Sherlyn. Please give the fur babies a hug and kiss from us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐🌹💐🌹💐🌹
hope you are doing well now Sherlyn🙏🏼❤️💐
Just found out through this video. Thank goodness Sheryl was taken care of quickly. An ectopic pregnancies happen more often than not. It wasn't time yet for both of you. Have faith that things happen for a reason. one day it will be meant to be parents for multiple children. Praying for peace, acceptance and hope for your future blessings. God Bless Always Finn and Sheryl💝🙏
Life is beautiful and chaotic. Sometimes there is chaos in the beauty. Sometimes there is beauty in the chaos. I also lost my first. Love you both and wishing you the best.
When it rains, it pours but even these things will pass. Being alive is a blessing and a gift that we should thank God for. I’m glad you guys came out strong. Just keep going.
❤🚨🚨🚨❤Finn I know your pain we lost our child in March of this year, My Filipina wife had a miss carriage at about 2 months in. We’re strong minded men Finn 😊God will bless us both with another good chance that we will someday hold our young child in our arms!! ❤❤
GOOD DAY Finland SHERLYN hoping for her fast recovery FEEL for your loss guys
Mine is 7 weeks then left fallopian tube ruptured. Sherlyn and Finn, my heart goes to you. Grieve together and help each other with the grief. Having people that support you and understand your grief is a BIG help in moving forward.
Good that you are out of danger now Sheralyn.Hope you will be successful for the next time you try.
Good to know you're both ok now. We were in the same situation when we lost our 2nd child. It was 11 weeks already when my wife got a miscarriage. We went to emergency and the baby's heartbeat was gone. I know how you feel right now because we've been there. I know God has a better plan for both of you. Just continue to trust Him and in God's perfect time, you will be blessed. We will keep you both in our prayers...God bless and stay safe.
OMG Finn. I never knew you guys were expecting. Prayers are being lifted brother.
So nice to see Sherlyn on the mend after the medical emergency, she is strong and will be able to give you many sons to fill your viking longhouse.
God love you so much. We all love you so much. Hold on tight to your faith, Shirleyn and Finn. I keep you in my prayers always
What's important is that you love each other. Just give it all to God. Time will heal your pain. Just stay strong and always communicate with each other, support each other, and just keep on praying for strength. What's important is you have each other. 🎎
Thanks for sharing that difficult story glad things didn't turn out worse than they did, wishing you both all the best.,
Had the same ectopic pregnancy experience, Sherlyn. That time I knew it I was busy at and stressed with the studies. doctor said the same thing to me, she had to save my life and admitted right away. Now I have my son. Don't worry, Finn and Sherlyn you can do it well next time. Just hold on to God.
Sorry to hear losing your first child palangga Finn 😢
Sorry for your loss finn and Sherilyn prayer for fast recovery 🙏🙏
Prayers to you and sherlyn bud! God speed!
So you both have already an angel. Its not really a loss. Almighty God, Yahweh, will give you children that you wish ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry about the loss of your child. God bless both of you and your lost child. The Lord will take care of the child. You are both young and God will you provide you with a large and blessed family. Take care and God bless you both.
Just think of it as your angel visiting you, checking out the soon to be mom and dad. You’ll be blessed with Kuya Jake’s sibling. 🥰 What’s important is you guys are ready. Much love💕
So sorry for your loss! Just keep praying and ask God for your guidance and healing. Its hard losing our own child, We had miscarriage our second child it was 9 weeks and after that I had heavy bleeding and that was it. Its hard Charlene but keep praying and it takes time to heal. And you will have both a beautiful baby someday. We put our God in our center and he gave us another bllessings after 3 months he gave us a talented , energetic sweet boy Trent. Now we have to handsome sweet boys. God Bless to both of you.
Hugs and prayers to you... Finn and Sherlyn 🌱🙏🌎
So sorry for your loss, praying for a quick and full recovery for Sherlyn
Those that get tested... are The "Chosen" because they can handle it, and become inspiration for others!❤
So sorry for your loss. 😢You will have a child sooner rather than later. Stay strong and positive always!
So sorry for your loss. Thank God you’re ok.
You and Sherlyn will be great parents! Your future children are very fortunate to have such beautiful and talented and caring parents.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Time will heal the hurt and you 2 are young to keep trying. Prayers for both of you.
hug hug to both of you…thank you for the editing and filtering of high emotion part…you are both super healthy im sure God will give you in this time…some people went through the same and said that maybe the Lord gave an angel a little early… hug hug❤
Take care of each other, Finn and Sherlyn. This was a rough bump in your road. Sending good vibes.
Hugs to you, Sherlyn, Finn and Jake! Kämpa på!
I had been in a similar situation, we lost our first child too. Finn is mostly smiling throughout the video but I know it hurts a lot inside. We men need to set aside our feelings and emotions sometimes.
We've lost a child too and know that it's not an easy thing to go through. The important things are to keep your faith in God and each other and always be there for the other no matter what. We believe those things are what made it possible for us to deal with our situation. Our love and prayers go out the three of you. God bless stay strong for each other and stay safe.
Hi Sherlyn and Finn, so sorry for your loss😢😢😢 Please stay strong for each other. Sending you both lots of love and prayers and always Trust in The Lord Our God❤️🙏🤗😘
you had tears in my eyes I am so happy that she made it through the surgery my prayers go out for both of you 🙏
I know it´s not that much, but...
I send you all my Postive Energy.
Wishing you both the best.
Greetings from Germany
Bad things happen to great great people. You will become so much stronger through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. sorry for your loss!
I know the feeling I lost my first son at 4 months In the pregnancy 2020 , she had massive bleeding , praying for u guys ❤️🙏🏻
So sorry to hear the sad news Finn. Our prayers to both of you for healing and keeping you safe . Hug to you- Sherlyn. Look after yourself.
Ectopic pregnancy is very dangerous. My sister-in-law died because of this. I'm glad the surgery was done before it got worse. Stay positive and don't stress out because of what happened. I'm sure Sherlyn will bounce back and will be as healthy as before. Take care!
True the siater of my father lost and never see her because of ectopic pregnancy
Just saw this video after Sherlyn posted about it on IG. I wanted to express my condolences - so sorry to hear you were going through such a rough and challenging time. Sending you a big hug and hoping you can heal from this 🙏🤍
My heart hurts for you both. My prayers are with you both.
Very sorry for your loss ... time heals may the Lord bless you with a wonderful family
Cried with you when I saw your post on FB. Prayer for your full recovery and looking forward to seeing your future kiddos. Stay positive 😊
I am so sorry to hear this from sherlyn and Finn.. I was crying watching the video.. just trust in the Lord and continue praying.. nothing is impossible with God .. u both r still young so .. there’s tons of hope and possibilities awaiting.. keep the faith!! Important thing is you have each other no matter what.
Hugs to you Sherlyn and Finn❤praying for fast recovery🙏
So sorry for your loss but also thankful that Sherlyn is doing well. Praying for Gods to give you two pea and comfort. Also praying for continued healing for Sherlyn.
I can’t possibly know what you guys are going through but my thoughts and prayers are with both of you. Wishing you all the best❤
Bless you both. My wife and I went thru this also. God is good!
Such an amazing couple!! Sending positive vibes!! You are going to be amazing parents!!
Don’t lose hope guys. Just keep praying🙏. My wife had two miscarriages. Praying for healing.
So sorry for your loss Finn and Sherlyn. Everything happens for a reason. Praying for your fast recovery.🙏
So very sorry to hear about your loss. Here’s hoping that the second time around is a charm!!!
God bless you and family Finn!
Sorry for your loss Finn & Sherlyn but love the strength you showed in this part of your life. Hold on to God. He knows what is best for you both. God bless
Take care Sherlyn , eat healthy rainbow color foods, your body will recover fast! Love you Both ❤️🙏😇❤️🙏😇❤️🙏😇
I had ectopic pregnancy after I had my daughter and son, after that pregnancy with 1 fallopian tube and God gave us another 2 girls… i remember I had emergency the laparoscopic surgery at 11am and got discharged @ 2 am in the morning and my husband made me walk to get to our car for about 6 blocks under a 20 degree cold weather in New York City… I was in pain, I was sad and was soo cold…but when we look back we are grateful for every thing we went through cause God was with us… and now we tell our friends how bad was my husband making me walk in the cold while I just got out from surgery lol… it will be ok. Stay strong and always hopeful. God bless u both. By the way I’m from Dumaguete too.
I’m sorry guys. Praying she recovers soon🙏
I remember happening that to my bestfriends fiance at the peak of covid, and sadly my bestfriend lost his fiance and lost their baby. Good thing you guys caught it early. You guys will be okay, time heals all wounds. Just keep that Faith strong
Oh, sorry to hear your loss on your first child. Stay strong. Our prayers Finn and Sherlyn. ❤️🙏🏻
We experience just like your case , We're lucky our medicare system is the best in the World , cost us nothing. Keep trying we had two girls now they're both professional engineers in our adapted country Canada! Good luck to both of you!
So sad and sorry for your loss but there's always more positive things and more2 blessings coming to both of you Finn and Sherilyn 🙏🙏...
Sorry to hear about your loss, I’m glad Sherlyn is okay. I’m praying for her fast recovery. God is awesome I’m sure he will give you a few children. Praying for both of you.
So sorry to hear the sad news, Finn & Sherlyn! Praying for Sherlyn’s healing and recovery.
Dont lose hope Finn and Sherlyn.. everythings will be fine, there will be a perfect time. 🙏
Oh my god I’ve never met you guys in my life but it shows how the power of vlogging is when we all subscribe and follow people like yourself,you still come into our lives over the internet and it fills like we are all family in some way and feel the love and support and mainly other than this situation it’s happiness. I thank you for allowing us to be part of this and send my love and god bless you both and wish you good health and continue what you do in this difficult time 🇬🇧🇵🇭🤙🏻
Hi Finn and Sherlyn!!!
There’s Nothing impossible with our Lord God and Everything will work out for Good.
Amen 🙏.
We are All here for you both .
We love you guys. You'll get through this Sherlyn. There is a Japanese method of repairing broken pottery and filling the cracks with gold. The thing about God is takes broken things and makes them beautiful. In the brokeness you are both feeling some good will come out of it although it may be hard to see right now. Praying for you both. God bless!
This made me cry.. stay strong guys, i'm very sorry for your loss. Hugs and God bless !
Sorry to hear of your loss. My wife and I have been there. Prayers go out to you both.