👪Lucky was severely taught by Lee Seung-hyun for disobedience, and was called to the corner to be...
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ต.ค. 2024
- 谢谢观看！
别忘了点击订阅获得更多精彩真人秀短片 (//●⁰౪⁰●)//
👪Lucky不听话被李承铉严厉教训，还被叫到角落罚站，Lucky整个崩溃大哭！ | 李承铉 Lucky 戚薇 | 想想办法吧！爸爸
《想想办法吧！爸爸》是一档全家陪伴旅行类综艺节目。节目是导演谢涤葵继《爸爸去哪儿》之后的又一力作。节目中四组明星老妈将独自离开家，由明星老爸带着孩子寻找妈妈，上演一场搞笑又刺激的“爸在囧途”!
#Lucky#李承铉#戚薇#想想办法吧爸爸#GetSmartDad#陈飞宇#黄贯中#朱茵
![ENGSUB [Get Smart! Dad] EP10 | Qi Wei/Li Cheng Xuan/Zhu Yin/Huang Guan Zhong | YOUKU](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/kHKHH_OhxKM/mqdefault.jpg)
![ENGSUB [Get Smart! Dad] EP10 | Qi Wei/Li Cheng Xuan/Zhu Yin/Huang Guan Zhong | YOUKU](/img/tr.png)
i actually agree with his discipline. "she should not be scolded in public." did you see how he tried to go to the corner to talk to his child? its just unfortunate that the camera had to follow them because its a show...if you don't stop your child from her tantrums, it would lead to her being spoiled. being harsh doesn't always mean violence just as long as it does not constitute to maltreatment.
I agree. I was disciplined not only by my parents, but also my grandparents and my aunts. One of my aunts used to put me against the wall as a kid too for like half an hour, I was 5 or 6 at the time and I had to stand between a door and a wall. I can relate to Lucky 'cause I didn't listen and I would get scolded the same as her and I cried too. Cameras don't make a difference and it won't mess her up, dad is doing what he sees fit and it's only focused on her daughter.
And I'd like to add that being almost 30, the level of respect I have for my family is insane. I would always find a way to get into trouble 🤣 My grandma would drag me to the bathroom and put a bar of soap in my mouth if I tried to act too smart. Kids need to learn about consequences or they won't remember you are the parent, especially if the kid is not listening properly. I have a loving family that cared about me and now that I'm an adult sometimes we laugh with my mom and reminisce about what a little devil I was! Haha. It's okay for Lucky, she'll learn and she will be better, her dad cares about her ❤
Namo Amitabh buddha 🙏
@@dancingqueen6342 Sometimes people need to let kid be kid and learn to fall and get back up. I don't think it's right to prevent her to not being a kid.
小孩子做危险的事情真的是要及时阻止，不然受伤了后悔都来不及！李承铉做的非常对！
Yea I agree she also had multiple warnings
带小孩是你的很难，没有耐心是不行的，而且还要讲方法。但是有时候着急了真的很难控制不发火
真的很危險，尤是第二個，被夾到不是開玩笑的😣連我看影片都覺得那是一發生，就有可能是無法挽回的傷害。當下懲罰，我覺得是必須的，是讓她了解這件事的危險性。
讚、這樣以後出門才不會沒家教，不像現在有些家長都放任不管，出事了才怪東怪西
Namo Amitabh buddha 🙏
I applaud this father for his strict manner of disciplining his child... Yes, there will be times that we will be sweet and there will be times where it is play time... But the child needs to learn about CONSEQUENCES when they don't follow rules... They need to learn that they cannot reason or cry or tantrum their way out of punishment... They need to learn the concept of PUNISHMENTS and CONSEQUENCES because that's a very real thing for adults when we grow older...
Kukira gadis kecil itu adalah Haru
Exactly
爸爸做的其实很对，不是看见一次直接惩罚，而是先耐心说，然后第二次警告，第三次才采取行动，很棒了
Explaining to them & showing them affection afterwards is SO IMPORTANT… it shows that we’re upset with the child’s action but still love them… so glad this is portrayed on mainstream media
I have a niece, her mother just lays and plays with her cellphone every day.. doesn't clean the house and is busy eating, or always complains that she wants to go out because she says she is tired of taking care of children..my niece often asks to be taught to read and count, but children are stubborn and like to play with cellphones.. children like to play cellphones because their mothers often give cellphones so that their children are not noisy, so they become addicted.. how can I prevent children from being stubborn? sorry if my sentence is random, i use google translate
Namo Amitabh buddha 🙏
李承鉉是位嚴父也是位慈父
李承鉉戚微夫妻倆把Lucky
教育的非常有禮貌非常有愛
心的小孩Lucky真的是位好可愛
好可愛的小朋友😊😊😊
我覺得他是很棒的爸爸，小孩子有時候你不夠嚴格他們真的會當耳邊風的! 而且處罰之後也有跟小朋友講原因，不是平白無故發脾氣
Lucky爸真的很棒，教育的非常好，有寵有罰的時候，特別棒，跟我的教育方式很貼近！相信Lucky長大後會是個很好的人，👍🏻太喜歡李承鉉了！羡慕戚薇有個這麼帥、又有才華，三觀又很正，又專一的好男人！
我也是這樣教育我女鵝的，她都會要抱抱撒嬌，但我還是會跟她溝通好後面才抱她安撫她～❤️
我媽是打我的類型 導致現在我都不理她 好羨慕這種不打但駡的教育方式 感覺你們的小孩很幸福@@
教育當下也把寶寶帶離人多的地方，這樣真的很暖，有這樣的父母三觀才會正常
就有顧及到 孩子的自尊心
而且 不讓其他人去過度干涉
而是 好好對話 溝通 再抱抱
他做了正确的事情，尽管当她已经被告知几次时，她应该知道这一点。
我只是喜欢他不想在公共场合骂她，而是把她拉到一边，大声而清楚地告诉她什么是对的，什么是错的
This is very much like how my dad brought me up too.. he was very strict and I always got scolded in public or at home but at the end of the day he always comes to check on me when I’m sleeping and shows his love too so I can never hate my dad but love him more because I know he cares and worries for me…
Show Name?
@@piyubrown2018 This show’s name is “Get Smart Dad”. All and complete episodes are uploaded onto TH-cam with English subs.
My dad would give me the cold shoulder for a couple days before there’s any affection shown again. It’s so important for parents to let their kids know immediately after scolding them that just because you’re upset at them doesn’t mean you don’t love them
I like the way he disciplined his daughter.... Not to hurt her but for her to know what is right and wrong....Her father loves her that much...That is a how a good father is...♥️♥️♥️👍☺️
He was being too harsh though
這個是暫時隔離法這個是很專業的
這對父母跟小孩都好的教育方式
這個爸爸太棒了！這個老公真是選得太好
這孩子很聰明，
被處罰的時候，眼睛溜啊溜的，
看其他人的反應。
明知會被處罰還是繼續犯，
她在賭現場一定會有人幫她，
或爸爸會因為有其他人而不會處罰她。
That's the best way to handle tantrums, don't make them feel that it's okay, lecture them then talk to them in calm way afterwards
好心疼爸爸跟孩子，好像看到我自己一樣。大人在忙的時候如果小孩沒有依照大人的心願不去做些大人禁止的事情，那個瞬間的情緒一上來，真的就會像李承鉉這樣，並不是說大人真的脾氣不好或怎麼樣的，所以看了真的很心疼，照顧孩子的累是真的累
I totally understand him and it very hard to be strict parent or a guardian and also worry about your child at the same time teaching your child obedience is also important to, even if it hurts your heart for punishing your child for the wrong doing.
He has patience that I could never had, he repeatedly said to be careful and to not do it again cuz it's dangerous and I think it's good that he took his daughter away from the crowded place to not make herself embarrassed
很棒！现在的孩子可不是一般的精明，必须严厉教育，教育是何时何地都必须执行到位。每一次的“售后服务”是很重要的，要跟孩子静下心来，好好沟通，让孩子知道父母这样做的原因。其实孩子都会越来越爱这位严父/严母的
覺得各位的回應都說得對本人就是同感因為前面大家說的太有道理了
世界上需要多些这样的爸爸。做的太对了
李承铉教育小孩很棒 對就誇 不對就罰 很讚
people may not like this, but i understand.. kids get too enthusiastic especially when discovering things and doing things like other kids..and sometimes it can get dangerous and parents would do anything to keep them safe.. kids may not fully understand what is happening that is why they do not listen.. and this kind of way to discipline is needed to make them understand...
I'm afraid some people will misunderstand his ways. But his discipline is very important. Lucky seems to have an attention problem and shows slight symptoms of ADHD. What he is doing is actually an effective way of teaching her consequence. He is preventing her from hurting herself by her own actions by giving her a time-out. And he counts at her, as a warning as well as to inform her he is giving her the chance to calm down, listen and follow orders. It's a trick used for children with ADHD, to distract them from their hyperactive state during a confrontation.
Lucky asking for a hug is a sign that she's having difficulty understanding why she is being punished and retaliating by acting on a bigger tantrum.
This was why he went ahead and gave her an isolated time-out, where he placed her in a place with almost no people(except the guard) far away from her acquaintances as a harder form of punishment.
When she still doesn't stop, he finally raised his voice. Giving her a warning that this waa the last chance for her to pay attention. Then he stopped making sure he already has her attention. Once he has, he started asking questions, this way she can develop the understanding on her own about why she is being scolded and punished and why her father refused to comfort her.
Because children with an attention problem, or ADHD always have difficulty concentrating and are scatter-brained. They cannot understand social cues on the get go and takes time for them to understand what's going on right away. Subsequently, they also have a hard time listening to someone. So if you just say "don't do this", "don't do that" they don't understand right away. So that's why he asks her questions so she can formulate her own answers and make her realize what she did wrong, on her own.
Although, he could've done it(the discipline) better had he done that(interrogating Lucky) at the first disciplinary action. That way, it didn't have to escalate the way it did.
It's hard to remain patient and hold your temper when taking care of an attention deficit child. But, he dealt it the best way he could.
Other parents would've just straight away smacked their kid and call it discipline. When all it does is just aggravating and traumatizing their child.
Well said!
從處罰到收尾都是非常好的方式，
處罰讓孩子明白自己的危險行為，
抱抱也給足孩子心靈上慰藉，
讓孩子在勇敢改變上得到最大支持♥️
That’s good parenting, not many people like this style but he’s only worried for her
Yup a lot don't like that kind of parenting... Mostly Asian people is doing that kind of parenting
@@ck-bs2ms I think this is actually a western style.Asian parents just smack their kid.😆
But then asian parents can also be loving towards their kids.
It is mostly because some of the strict parents would abuse their power and would punish their child unnecessarily.And this is why people mostly get the vibe that this is an overstrict method and don't like it.
看了那么多评论后我想说:
1. 李承铉并不是在众目睽睽下教导孩子，而是第一时间把孩子带去角落让她罚站，后来也是尽力避免人多的地方教导孩子。
2. 这是一个节目，亲子节目，摄影师是需要全程拍摄他们与孩子之间的的真实状况，不然你们现在能看到这片段？能任由你们评论李承铉的教育方式对不对？他也在学习中，别太苛刻!没有人天生就是做父母的料!
3. 很多人评论亚洲/中国教育方式可怕、过分。的确比起西方的放养教育方式，东方一直都是信奉棒子下出孝子，孩子做错就要打，打了他们才懂、才会学乖，但李承铉全程有动过Lucky一根手指头吗？没有!即使按耐不住脾气他也只是说话大声了些，但他有注意场合，比起我小时候被老爸直接在公共场合大声打骂好太多了!更别说回家后还要被请吃火辣辣的藤条!
4. 看到有人说Lucky这个年龄好奇心强，应该让她自由探索、自在的玩。呵呵，请问你有看清楚状况吗？Lucky当时是在玩那个门，无论是单靠门柱左右移动，还是把门来回开关都是非常危险的事! 前者一不小心失去重心摔跤，意外磕到脑袋的话会有什么后果你不知道吗？!后者如果被门夹到自己的或是别的小朋友的身体该怎么办？要知道小孩子兴奋玩起来可是没轻没重的!万一骨裂甚至更严重，到时李承铉要怎么做？热搜头条一出然后所有人纷纷指责他没照顾好孩子，就不该带孩子参加节目？
5. 没养过孩子的，请你们独自找个孩子，让他的父母轻松一下，由你亲自去照顾孩子，我敢说不管孩子如何，你最后肯定会崩溃!没做过就别随意批评别人的教育方式!你有意见请憋着，等你孩子出现后你再去行动证明你觉得正确的教育方式。人有千百种，不强求好吗？
6. 以我个人经验，被爸妈教训后的我知道了什么事是不可以做的。所以即使后来忍不住，我也会非常注意自己的安全，再忍不住回想父母教训我的事。小时候会哭是因为害怕，也是知道自己做错了才会发泄出来，发泄完毕后就没事了，最多会怕父母一阵子。李承铉事后还会向孩子道歉这点实在让我羡慕极了，我爸妈从没解释过，都是让我自己理解的。
以上只是我个人想法，不影射任何人。若误伤，我先在这里说声对不起。
不能同意更多，父母不是一味温柔就是爱孩子的，该批评教育的时候就要严肃，父母爱子女就是为他/她设想各方面，而且全程带孩子是真的很容易崩溃的，有几个孩子是特别安静听话的？还有……我女儿叫Alice Gao，跟你就差一个字母哈哈哈
非常同意您的看法👍
@@lushalala1 所以虐孩子，反证他在家重复无数次了孩子依旧这样，越无耻越低级越多人追捧
I feel like dad at this age are very strict because it's his first child, a daughter and if anything happened it his fault for not protecting he's daughter. At least he acknowledged he's wrong doing when he dislike her, and trying to improve. Also ain't he an artist, then there's probably a lot of pressure being in public
The fact that he was still calling her darling I doubt it that he isn't disliking her.
What her dad's name
what if he's an artist. being a father and a artist is a different thing. He has to make his daughter obedient or else he's going to face problem later
He dislikes his own daughter?
He doesnt dislike his own daughter.He loves her thats why while she is still a child he disciplines her right away...thats what you call love for your children..
我覺得做白臉當然會比較容易，大家都開心。
所以明白做黑臉是很辛苦的，這也是必要的。
但是我覺得應該要給小孩理解為什麼不能做，要給時間小孩理解的時間，他們小孩理解會比較慢一些，所以不能太急。
好可爱超级聰明和活泼好喜欢这个女孩！爸爸好帥也是好爸爸,好有耐心和爱💕
會乖乖罰站的小孩很棒了
小心苦瓜臉
爸爸付出的爱与时间，lucky会明白的，所以她很爱爸爸，而且很懂事又会意识到错误承担~及时教导叫机会教育，而且爸爸已经和她说了很多次很危险，身边人也说了很危险，警告再犯就要行动，小孩难免需要克制，小时候不教长大才来教就晚了，因为你不教，社会会帮你教！到时候孩子打击更大！ 他当下严厉我觉得很对，有时候不是爱的教育孩子就会明白事情的严重性！父母不管，真的跌倒受伤了才来后悔何必呢？不如当下利用机会教育让孩子明白，有些事情需要分辨危险与安全意识
小孩子就是要這樣教育～不然長大了不得了
李承鉉把女兒教得很好！要適當的疼愛…
That made me laugh when lucky said to her dad, lower your voice, his face said it all..
You must teach a child when and we’re it happens. He is talking about safety. Disobedience can cause injury, serious injury children must learn when told . He is doing it because he loves the child not because of any other reason. When things were calmed down he told child how much he loved .
We are the same when it comes to reprimanding our child... but eye contact is the key point when you're saying something important to a child. My son once told me sometimes he was scared with the way i look him. Esp my eyes, it made him think he has done something wrong, he will then ask me "ma, is there something wrong? You look upset." Hahaha
if we spoke to our children in public with that stern tone someone would call the police. no wonder 53% of our children get away with rudeness in public areas
真的是爱孩子的父亲！！！
还有重要的小孩那么小眼里只有父母，也是最爱父母的，不管父母怎么打骂，最后他们会自责，会羞愧，会觉得都是自己的问题，恨自己就出现了。也是叛逆的原因。
This just showed up on my home page, but this man reminds me of my mom when I was growing up. She was affectionate, but very hard on me.
李承鉉很懂自己的孩子，教導孩子如何保護自己
Good father👍👍👍
爸爸教的好，雖當下得糾正錯誤兇了點，但都兇後心疼不得了的！孩子得知道問題所在啊！
You have to discipline children about listening to avoid danger otherwise they will get hurt you may regret it
Time out 对惩罚小孩子是最安全有效的方式，虽然他声音挺大，不过当小孩哭闹的时候声音小了没用
Poor Dad. He has the parent guilt we all have as parents after disciplining our kids. But Lucky learned to listen to her Dad and behave. Timeouts are frustrating, for everyone. But he did the right thing and never gave in. ❤❤
I have the parent guilt as well when I hit my cat and I’ll usually hit myself later exactly the same way 😅anyway I shouldn’t have hit it since my cat can never learn like a human child.
MY MAMA WON'T SAY ANYTHING IF WE DO SOME MISTAKES A FLYING SLIPPER OR A HANGER WILL SURPRISE US. 😅😅😅 She will hit us until we utter what mistakes we did. ASIAN parents can relate.
yeah that's why theres a lot of broken hangers hahaha
😂😂😂my mom would literally use anything as a weapon at u.....slippers,remote controlls, hangers
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... same here.
This is how my parents discipline us when we were young. Kids can be mischievous and do not listen to their parents because they are so curious about things around them but still if something bad happens while you were outside it will put the parents into deep trouble.
李承铉软硬兼施真的很用心。
I support his way, his action. But maybe Lucky feel double triple sad when she got scolded in front of crowd. And i must say Lucky is very cute 😍😍😍 when she said she want a hug her lip movement 2:59 so cute 😂😂😂
I agree, he should have find the corner 1st where there are few to no people around before he scold her. But I support that no matter where they are (I mean the place, mall, park, a friend's house), a child should be disciplined
Sorry, what the name of the show?
@@camilladanelli4139 idk either 😂 its just come out as suggestion in my utube algorithm
@@csw11pjm30 ahahaah. Okay, I Need to learn chinese 😂
@@camilladanelli4139 oh wishing you all the best ! Jia you !
He has the same temper as me. It’s a combination of no patience and feeling ignored that caused the anger, because he had told her time and again not to do dangerous stuff yet she still continued without paying heed to what he just said. Sometimes we expect people to get things right, she may feel embarrassed in public and it could affect her even till she is grown up but it also is a lesson learnt to listen to what your parents are telling you. If she listened then he wouldn’t be lecturing her, I understand that kids at that age might not have powerful memories but I think she has probably done the same in the past which led to him losing his patience. It’s never easy dealing with kids but I appreciate the fact that he acknowledged that he could have done better, he didn’t lecture her in front of everybody but carried her to a corner where people wouldn’t see them, he also explained why he scolded, gave a candy and even apologised for something he didn’t do wrong.
做的非常好，事不过三，一定要有效。 而且也没有体罚孩子，这样做是真的对。
我的孩子就喜欢坐在凳子上晃，换牙前摔到地上牙里都充血了，幸亏是换牙之前，现在换了牙还好不然一辈子都要种牙修牙花钱不说关键是麻烦。
李承鉉真的把小朋友教得很好
爸爸是对的!
Actually he is a really good father, he loves his family, especially his smart daughter.. 👍👍👍👍👍
This is a great parenting. He gives reminders 3 times before he timed out her. Kids need to be disciplined and told so they will know what are the consequences of their wrong behaviour. After explaining, he consoled her which is to show that despite being scolded (though for her own good in this case), she is still loved by him. I noticed Lucky mostly avoided prolonged eye contacts and seems to me have problems in paying attention, not sure if to the extend of ADHD though. Just better to get her checked.
Repetitive constriction to their actions specially when others are around can impact their personality and character. Let them know that what they are doing is wrong and scold them a little bit at least in private, but always hug them at the end its like saying that "I care for you that's why I scold you" reconcile with them quickly.
it shows he had no patient to his kid.
thats what im saying! my parents are really strict growing up but they've never scolded me in public because they know that shit gonna stay
You think he never try that? Or you assume?
@@sokunthealy7619 really glad he knows that he wanted to better his teachings, he knows this is wrong but because its his first child he may be a little protective and scared for her safety.
@@sokunthealy7619 really glad he knows that he wanted to better his teachings, he knows this is wrong but because its his first child he may be a little protective and scared for her safety.
训归训 还是心疼😭
I remember getting on accident and having huge cuts because of that trolley when I was a like 10 y/o, it's really dangerous.
Kid was aware of the disobedience. The dad was clear and firm. That's okay, it wasn't excessive.
As an Asian, I find his way to discipline his kid is quite tame..maybe because I was brought up by tiger parents..
True.. you can't hear anything from my parents. No explanation, no hugs. Just slippers, belt, broom, any hard objects coming my way 😂😂😁 but still it does build your character.
agreeed! my dad even asked me to choose tail or head of the belt!
Not just quite. It's indeed tame. 😂
有時候父母的懲罰 就是愛的表現 不管不駡才是大問題
爸做得對極了，很認同做法，与本人有共通法，一預告，二警告，三懲法，後再告知原委，到孩子受教後，再安慰，擁抱，，，一❤😅😅
我覺得教導孩子還得教她/他別人說話眼睛要直視對方不要東張西望，這樣更好聽進去
It is good he is so strict. Most strict parents won't hug you or try to show love at the end. I grew up with an overprotective mom and trust me he's not as overprotective as you think he is. He has a right to scold her. I hate to see children crying in public and their parents don't do anything. Where I'm from they say you lack in disciplining your child smh
棒！该严厉就必须严厉，该呵护也必须呵护
，
我也覺得李承鉉做的很對
He is a good father and obviously adore her. What he did is not strange. She need to be taught to listen.
Some people might misunderstood he's way of disciplining the child, but it is important especially in that age.
Great job dad! 💕
Hahaha how cute to see the father n daughter. Nathan n lucky
Severely taught? 还好吧罚站已经仁慈了…我小时候爸妈出门前就已经警告不能乱乱跑她说no就no，如果不听话回家就等着挨鞭子了😂我如果有这样的爸爸应该是万幸了呵呵
Consistency is very important. Good job!
My dad just like that. Im dad's 1st daughter. He gives in everything i want but at the same time if i misbehave esp at the public he will go that way, same as tht guy. At the end i get a hug from him or a yummy chocolate or ice cream. It didnt affect me in bad way. Instead i remembered everything and not to do it ever again cz i know its bad. I once saw how the father just ignore his son misbehave n do nothing but check.on his phone. Tht kid get worse he even broke the chair and still get ignored
disciplining starts as early as possible for the kids to know what is right fr wrong. when they grows up they won't forget it and eventually thank their parents for the discipline they got fr them.
教育的好
小孩子必须教不要一昧宠，真的看不惯很多现在的父母
I know that he hated to use strict discipline, but it is better that she learns now than later. I can see the hurt in his face, but he loves his daughter.
and thats how my mother raised me. so dicipline and now i get a better understanding in life and not be a spoiled kids when i grow up. because when my father still alive he spoil me with everything everything i want and my mom only enjoy it. this how u raised ur kids so they know their limit
I think this generation is not used to this kind of tough love anymore so to them it seems harsh. But he did not hit her, spank her, or do anything that he did not say he was going to do. Disciplined her well. She's just upset that she has consequences for her actions. Of course we feel sorry for her but there's nothing wrong with his parenting style.
Well done, dad! Firm but loving!
爸爸做的好 小女孩不知道危险只知道好玩
因為獨苗，所以孩子被寵的無法無天，幾年前去北京過年，正月初二吃晚餐，臺上表演變臉，臺下幾個孩子在臺上亂竄，服務員勸阻，幾個家長口出惡言駡店家，所以戚薇的家教非常棒
對啊、寵壞是害了孩子！
罰站很棒了，我小時候老爸講第二次棍子就過來了，常常被當狗在打！打了10幾年，打到我都懷疑是不是親生的...
I mean yeah he shouldn't have yelled at her in public. But at least he brought her to a more secluded area away from the prying eyes of others in the area they were in before. Seems like he's been scolding her over and over for similar things so I can understand him getting frustrated. He reprimanded her and then still followed up with giving her affection and an apology for having to yell at her. That's very good.
I dsciplined my son same like this and im so proud what he is now❤️❤️❤️
李承铉真的完美
光看小孩子會好好吃飯就知道很乖
天啊怎麼長得跟媽媽這麼像 就像縮小版的戚薇
he was lenient enough with her, because if it was my mom, she would've whooped my ass infront of everyone 💀
Lucky is so so cute looking baby 💖💖 full of love ❤ is dripping from her top to bottom..I think she looks more like her mum than her Pa..But one thing I must say her Pa is caring n loving father but very strict & hot tampered lk my dad 🤭🤭
Fathers are always very protective and same time loving to their children but mums ( sigh) nothing to say and specially Indian mums their temper is out of this world 😁😁😁
I saw a comment here saying that it's wrong of him to scold her in public. Its actually a yes and a no for me. Yes it's wrong to scold a child in public, specially at this age. But no, because he didn't really scold her publicly. As you can see they are in a public area but at first the child get a "timeout" and he made her stand in a corner. It is actually a good parenting, the fact that she stood there is a good sign because we can see that the child already knows that if she did something wrong, she will have to stand in a corner. In the video she cried and asks for her dad's hug. This might be because she already know that she did something wrong and she already wants to reconcile, but she's a child, they can't really express their feelings outright, but then she started shouting, that left the father no choice but to remove her from the scene and scold her. He managed to get her out of the crowd to scold her and that is a very good thing. Because if he didn't scold her at that moment and make her realize what she did wrong, she might not learn the lesson and think that shouting publicly is okay. Plus it's not just about the shouting of the child, if he let her shout like that while receiving a punishment, she will think it's okay, and the "timeout" punishment will not be efficient anymore if that happens. As someone from an asian family the timeout punishment to a child is one of the great ways to discipline them, to be honest, some friends of mine had trauma growing up because their parents became physical while trying to discipline them.
The father knows his child well so as you can see in the video he reconciled right away when he knew his daughter already understood why was she punished for.
For some people he might seems so strict but only parents know their child.. He knows her too well, that's why he is strict towards her.. But you can't help it if the child is a curious type 🤣 for me, I like to let the child to have experience, then only they will understand why the adults are trying to stop them from doing so.. Well different people have different method 🤷🏽♀️
Damn my asian blood is tingling~ I was raised the same way with only one difference, we were never comforted after the scolding in public. Yes, I learned but the memory of embarassment still lingers.
Handsome daddy!
If it’s about safety of your kids, you shouldn’t tolerate their wrongdoings but at the same time, don’t be too harsh on them. After all, they’re still kids. Learning is the child’s take away when this things happen. Teach them how to understand their actions are not right. Teach them that you’re doing that not to harm them but for them to understand the consequences of their wrong actions. I grew up having a strict mom but now that I’m an adult, it was such a good memory and now it became like an inside joke between us. I learned that whatever my mom did in the past was to discipline me.
I admire how he discipline Lucky,. However, if you want lucky to understand you more you must ask her to look at you in the eye when you are talking to her.that way her only attention is with you only..
And let her repeat what you told her LOL to make sure she actually listened.. im just saying! ❤️
lucky寶寶好可愛喔
雖然是要教，但小朋友真的不是說幾次就能聽進去，最重要的是家長不要氣著自己，這樣會很辛苦。
When she asked for a hug😭💔