The problem I hear is Oga Obinna laying blame on the female being irresponsible by getting pregnant. He should have used protection himself…his advice should be to the boy child.
But if a woman does the same she goes ndio mean wakened mnajukikana kama watu wajinga sana...outside kenya people know having babymums didn't mean yr bad nor being a single mum a hoe if you didn't share a duvet with them ka injection they were both toxic read body language not what people say
Obina great clarification as a woman we are difficult don’t worry. Children love parents who listen to them and hate parents who make them sad. My children appreciate me more when I allow them to air their views. Obina as you have been doing well keep on staying and being in your children’s life. I personally had an excellent relationship with my father. Mungai Eve and Trevor good work. This is marital awareness tungelipa hela nyingi lakini Obina has schooled us.
Obina is not a nassist they don't take of their children My bro had such kind of a woman he went through hell we felt sorry for him everyday but thank God they separated and now he has peace
Praying for you Mama Ada (Lillian). Kids will always want to stay with the parent who spoils them, as for you, you are a loving, caring and authoritative parent who puts sense in the children. This is what parenting is. Nobody is perfect when it comes to parenting coz it doesn't come with the right manual. Right now you are the bad parent because you don't earn as much as Obinna, and maybe ,he looks down on you, it's OK, hii ni mapito na itaisha tu! Be strong, do what you think is good and right for your babies and don't be stressed with those attacking you on social media. One day, watachoka na watalala. Be strong Mama and find positive things to distract you from unnecessary dramas. You are a winner, infact ,more than a conquerer. For Ada and Lola, obey your father and Mother so that your days on earth may be long.( This is the only commandment with a promise). As for Mr.Obina, stop exposing your Baby Mama Online for wrong reason. She needs her privacy, infact if I were Lillian, I would have sued you for gross infringement (Recording someone without permission which is a crime).
There are 3 stages of Narcissistic abuse 1.IDEALIZE the victim, 2. DEVALUE the victim and finally 3.DISCARD the victim, this unfortunately seems to be her DISCARDING STAGE. To her everything was fine… and then all of a sudden the dismissing in a cold and hurtful way. In this phase, the victim is labeled the CRAZY or psycho sending her head spinning at these false accusations.Dude target her strengths and calls them her weaknesses. This is called the SMEAR campaign by the abuser and the goal is to ruin her self confidence or make her doubt herself, and not be able to comprehend who the dude was. She will be in endless explanation of who the guy is to anyone who cares to listen to her and non of these people will get her because all these were done covertly to her and now the abuser is playing the victim . It is well kamama just know its not about you. It is what it is, you ain't going to change anything. Build the immune of shrugging some of these things off and moving on.
I like the way Obinna is very real and objective. This things happen to many of us na marriage haina manual. The best you can do is to give your children an environment to thrive and flourish and enjoy life
Being the best father does not mean he is the best man, this issue of parenting affects the children,he can be the best father but what about the mother picture in their lives, the age difference between the children raises alarm
@@BelieveThat_ exactly.. if the man is truly a narcissistic as most of the people want to make it look like, why are woman quick to open their legs for him and even get pregnant 😏
My dear not all women selective am co parenting just fine with my ex. He cheated he was not a good partner but he’s a good father that I will give him m gland n blessed 4 my child to hv him as a dad. We r soo cool at times when he calls he is open he’s a clown so we joke around. He even told me their some he likes I support him would lv 4 him to marry n hv more kids he deserves happiness 2. So speak what u know.
Obina why keep evidences? Everything until now is planned, you are smart, you want you're ex to look bad, you are toxic and you should feature yourself in your own show
Obina keep the evidence, after all its evidence. Whether they say u are a narcissist or not, I don't care. Of they wanna keep their evidence, let them do. The fact that they have no evidence should not be an indication that they are the victims, it means their is no evidence . I know men suffer in silence, and women will always stand by their fellow women in spite of whether they are wrong or not. I will not take sides, but at least you have taken responsibility of your children. Period!
Oga Obina, as your fun allow me to air my opinion. Avoid being on social media too much especially with controversies. You owe nobody explanations especially about your personal drama. Focus on your career that is growing very well for now, otherwise you will dent yourself and you will go down. This lady might be an agent from your enemies. My opinion tu..sina noma.
There are always three sides to every story: the oppressed, the oppressor, and the creator. Obinna stop being emotional when Kido asks you a question and responds nicely.
Relationships can be messy when things go south. What i admire about Obina is that he wants to be in the life of his Children and he is taking care of his responsibilities as a father(this is a BIG plus for majority of the ladies in the same situation are fighting for this). I pray after the healing they will as a family do what is best for children especially the last two. Also i would refrain to label someone a Narcissistic without all the facts, that is character assassination. We are all dealing with our own issues and family dynamics. Let this family BE.
Only the person that dealt with a narcissist can see through this man. Why do you have 3 baby mamas? That speaks for itself I feel sorry for any woman coming next she will suffer the same wrath. Narcissistic men always see every woman is abusive, they twist everything. For your information no angel 😇 woman on earth
Brother take my words this is the beginning of life battles it never end, as man don't bring your family issues to the media, Mute battles do your best let the life ahead you bless you. To your children do your best don't worry about what your Mama child does, she leaves her life, those media question avoids them there petty irrelevant, smart guys like you don't go to media for this kind of interview
He met with them when he was not sober imagine and again in pain,I can imagine the feeling Not judging How many men do have more than two children out of wedlock? Seriously May GOD help him to heal as he stands for his children.@@sharonnzuki2747
Is he trying to say the baby mama got herself pregnant without his knowledge?? 1, 2, 3 and 4.???? shame on him. He is playing the victim. Typical covert narc.
Narcism, gaslighting at its best,blaming the women you got pregnant and at the same time,one is even afraid of you,akichoma nguo anapack ready to go coz anakuogopa. A good father protects his kids well being,peace of mind and that means protecting their mother too from the public trolls and abuse for the sake of her mental health. You are a public figure but want to tarnish the image of the mother of your kids hence your kids reading the abuses online of there mother . shame on you.
Only we who are enlightened understand what narcissism is. He is a classic textbook example of a narc. 🚩🚩🚩 You should see some of the women in this comment section congratulating him. They have no idea what a narcissistic is and what they're capable of.
Obinna pole for the tough times you have had to go through, thanks to God they have made evolve, nice lessons to the youths in relationships atleast before talking it to the next level, there are lines to pick from your life
I don't understand why when things fall apart ,, men are judged /painted as the cause,, I can confidently say that we have very toxic women even to an extended of abusing their own kids,, for that case let every one play their role in kids lives ,, a mother cannever be the dad and viceversa,, the best thing I like with OBINA he is responsible and present dad❤❤
After listening to the Baby Mama's side of the story I think Obinna is saying a lot of BS... Those kids will grow up and hold him answerable for how he treats the mum.
True,I pity how this mother used to leave with this step children coz the way they have been poisoned by this Man they can't respect this lady at all at all.i heard one girl saying the boy used to tell him about the mother.
We sacrifice a lot for the sake of kids, not because we want to look good but for the sake of the young ones who we desire to see growing up well. The dramas may last, but the beauty part of it is that the kids are growing. As long as our lives are spared, the end will justify and crown our efforts.
Oga its okay not to be okay its good to talk out and air the pain you have been going through for years let the boy child speak......after all i admire him he is a responsible dad...and his kid love him too much
The best way to kill negative vibe is not to respond or react to it. A fire no matter how big Eventually dies down. He has fuelled it by talking about it, and this is something he knows - But has let his emotions think for him. In the minds of most people, Perception is Everything - most people don't have time to fact-check, and this can Destroy one's relationships and one's career. The longer this story goes on, the more his brand will deteriorate.
Obina..sshh..don't explain too much..it is what it is..I feel you. Kids are much more intelligent than what they seem..educate Kenyans.. by not talking to the kids and finding out their emotions does not mean that they think or feel nothing..kids are the most affected by parents separation and unfortunately they are the keenest observers and the most affected..talking to them helps them and you heal..I love your intelligent conversations and honesty with your kids coz you are in it together ❤️
If you've not experienced anything half of what this guy is narrating, please don't judge as he is still healing. Obinna is human and bound to mistakes. I personally appreciate how he is present in his kids life. Nonetheless, he should not publish any negativity about any baby mama he may do it privately instead to avoid triggering fights.
The society has conditioned us, women can go to all t.v stations crying and talking about their abusive husbands. The men are then, asked to be the bigger person and never talk about what actually happens.
As a father of two, I will not address anything about your baby mama. that's your business. but As a father, let me tell you, DON'T discuss your relationship with their mother to your kids. You are not their friend you are their father. You do whats best for them and not whats best for your career. This social media thing is for both of you to feel good about yourselves without thought of how it might adversely affect your kids. Hata kama huyo mama ni shetani vipi she still remains the mother to your child...your child. Respect starts with you, the father, show your daughter there can be dignity even in disagreement. to be honest, ALL CHILDREN DESERVE PARENTS BUT NOT ALL PARENTS DESERVE KIDS. this is a disappointment.
I concur with you Lately l interfered where a lady wanted to jump over the balcony because the young man told her he's revising for exams and he needs his time,thank God they were about three revising,may God help this generation gene
if narcissistic was a person??? This is the real definition!!!!. His ego is thru the roof he is not a good human. God never ever let me meet such or have such individuals in my life Amen. waaaaaaah disgusting
I support this man...the children said it clearly, that she even throw shoes at him. Such a foolish woman. You should learn to respect your husbands. Kids don't lie. I imagine what this guy went through for over five years. Women please respect us pliiiiz🙏. A man can't stay where he is not respected
🤣🤣🤣 True. He is also trying to blame the woman for getting baby number 2 it's like he was ejaculating "wora" Guy is full of himself and the type that gives ultimatums on when the relationship should start and end.
it is so unfortunate he is taking advantage because the lady is not as rich as he is....He is just hiding under the kids and what kids are saying..you run the you tube channel it could be scripted..you are already calling her drunk if that kid watches this video she will believe you and say yeah my mum is a drunkard..respect her as the mother of your kids
He has been a deadbeat until he realized those kids could make him money on TH-cam!! He was absent when the kids were born, didn't help to pay maternity bill, was absent when his child needed a surgery just a foolish deadbeat he should shut up
If you ask me this person for a father of anyones kid, I will prefer send the kids for adoption than have such a kind of father. He has failed terribly
Having gone through most of your videos I've got few things to say to you, 1. Watoto have learned tabia mbaya of negatively discussing about their mother to you. 2. Its clear that you've taught the elder kids that their mother ain't good 3. You need to work on " Negative Ego Of Young Adult" It has also affected Your first born daughter and son. You don't know the harm you're causing them thinking its loving them,. SAD
You nailed it!! I equally hate the way he brags that he's sure he will be given all his kids by the court!! Why is he so sure! Is their something he knows that we dont know!! I hate men who talk too much in defense and don't own to any mistakes!! I feel this lady, kama hiyo ndio mdomo!! Huyu ni worse kuliko mwanamke.. That's the reason he has 3 baby mamas at 32.. If he doesn't change..more baby mamas on the way!! Pride comes before a fall... Take note Obina
Stop giving people the tea, especially about your family, we all have problems in our homes but we solve them privately, I have listened to Mama Ada on Ali's chanel and that Lady is telling the truth.
Obina besides every drama i just owe you a pat at the back that you have stood by your kids and i love how you aare raising them and showing them the teal world with the little you get.every marriage iko na drama and most fathers huwa hawafuatilii maisha ya watoto kama wewe
Obina, please protect your children, do not give permission to interrogate your children in the name of being open you will regret what you will exposing your children to bullying and questions you will regret why youleft it open. Please please protect your children from the outside world, your videos are ok, becuse as a parent you know your boundaries
WHEN A MAN DIVORCE 1ST WIFE,THEN 2ND,THEN 3RD.....LIKELY 4TH,That is a psychiatric Man....a sick man....but just keep urlife and ur children off social media till they reach 18 and let them take themselves..that is mental torture.........
It is bad to engage the kids in talking about the other parent. Please refrain! Don't spoil the other parents image if you really love your children. Even some conversations with the kids should be private... again if you really love them. That is their mother, the most important woman in their life. They need to be able to RESPECT her. And your friends asking your children about the parents is a NO, NO. Mungai Eve, next follow this video with a child counsellor so parents can know why it is important to NOT over share when it comes to parents parenting while not together. It is toxic and will cause permanent trauma to the children. Any parent who loves their children will protect their mental health. Kids need both parents and should never be made to choose sides. It is not a contest. Like I said, a loving parent will not subject their kids to having to choose nother entertain the kids trashing the other parents. If one parent is abusive, that is a different ballgame that may involve courts, counselors and family members. But in the best interest of the kids, unless they are in imminent danger, such sensitive talks regarding minors and with minors should be limited to very close associates mostly family and professionals dealing with children. Even in court, cases regarding minors are sealed and not open to the public. Let he who has an ear hear. If you need to confirm, consult a child psychologist or counselor, thank you!
Obinna is much better than the haters who r questioning him,I love hw he is raising his kids,haters continue hating,n before u point finger's to obinna,ask ur urself r u a better mom or dad to ur kids.
So are you saying kids dont notice when this shit happens?i feel like its very necessary to talk to these modern kids because they are sharp....there is nothing like engaging kids to talk badly about their parents...a toxic parent is just that
@@christinekimani7956 Kids should be safeguarded from adult issues by any and all responsible adults be it the parents, family, friends, teachers and society. When we involve kids in adult squabbles we steal their innocence and set them up for troubled and damaged futures as adults themselves I would like to see this bloggers who were interviewing Obinna follow the segment with an interview with a child psychologist) counselor. The damage parents do to their kids trying to hurt or damage the reputation of the other parent...if loving parents knew! Obinna is wrong to capture such intimate talks with his kids and post them online. That is the mother of his kids. If he loves his kids, he will hide her nakedness. They will never have another mother, so protect her image FOR THEM.
The problem I hear is Oga Obinna laying blame on the female being irresponsible by getting pregnant. He should have used protection himself…his advice should be to the boy child.
But if a woman does the same she goes ndio mean wakened mnajukikana kama watu wajinga sana...outside kenya people know having babymums didn't mean yr bad nor being a single mum a hoe if you didn't share a duvet with them ka injection they were both toxic read body language not what people say
HEEEY LADIES 🥰🥰🥰🥰 DID I HEAR THAT GETTING PREGNANT DOES NOT KEEP A MAN...
Ladies are we together get that right 🥱🥱
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That's a mere truth
That's where I am bt can't regret she is a blessing
This is what I sing to my daughters
Obina great clarification as a woman we are difficult don’t worry. Children love parents who listen to them and hate parents who make them sad. My children appreciate me more when I allow them to air their views. Obina as you have been doing well keep on staying and being in your children’s life. I personally had an excellent relationship with my father. Mungai Eve and Trevor good work. This is marital awareness tungelipa hela nyingi lakini Obina has schooled us.
The best gift you can give to your children is to love their mother.....
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!!!! MOST MEN DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT!!!!
Exactly
You are the best dad to your kids with a lot wisdom
The way a Narcissist can make a woman look crazy wueh😳😳😳..
The woman is crazy for sure
Aki...
Obina is not a nassist they don't take of their children
My bro had such kind of a woman he went through hell we felt sorry for him everyday but thank God they separated and now he has peace
Exactly a narcissist he is
Obinna is not a nassist,I admire how he love his kids
The fact that Obinna has three baby mama's talks volume about his character.
Once bitten thrice shy🤣
Unajaza baby mommas kama ujinga
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probably a narc who runs from one supplier to the next and playing victim all through.
But why are women quick to get pregnant for men of “bad character “?
Very true he must be the problem
It’s very much true. Oga Obina may GOD guide you to take care for your beautiful family and be blessed more 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Praying for you Mama Ada (Lillian). Kids will always want to stay with the parent who spoils them, as for you, you are a loving, caring and authoritative parent who puts sense in the children. This is what parenting is. Nobody is perfect when it comes to parenting coz it doesn't come with the right manual. Right now you are the bad parent because you don't earn as much as Obinna, and maybe ,he looks down on you, it's OK, hii ni mapito na itaisha tu! Be strong, do what you think is good and right for your babies and don't be stressed with those attacking you on social media. One day, watachoka na watalala. Be strong Mama and find positive things to distract you from unnecessary dramas. You are a winner, infact ,more than a conquerer.
For Ada and Lola, obey your father and Mother so that your days on earth may be long.( This is the only commandment with a promise).
As for Mr.Obina, stop exposing your Baby Mama Online for wrong reason. She needs her privacy, infact if I were Lillian, I would have sued you for gross infringement (Recording someone without permission which is a crime).
There are 3 stages of Narcissistic abuse 1.IDEALIZE the victim, 2. DEVALUE the victim and finally 3.DISCARD the victim, this unfortunately seems to be her DISCARDING STAGE.
To her everything was fine… and then all of a sudden the dismissing in a cold and hurtful way. In this phase, the victim is labeled the CRAZY or psycho sending her head spinning at these false accusations.Dude target her strengths and calls them her weaknesses. This is called the SMEAR campaign by the abuser and the goal is to ruin her self confidence or make her doubt herself, and not be able to comprehend who the dude was. She will be in endless explanation of who the guy is to anyone who cares to listen to her and non of these people will get her because all these were done covertly to her and now the abuser is playing the victim . It is well kamama just know its not about you. It is what it is, you ain't going to change anything. Build the immune of shrugging some of these things off and moving on.
its a matter of sence ......think twice obina is a vibe with the kid i will choose obinah over 10000 times
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I like the way Obinna is very real and objective. This things happen to many of us na marriage haina manual. The best you can do is to give your children an environment to thrive and flourish and enjoy life
Obi, you are the best father. Let those who want to talk increase their volume 👍👍🤣🤣🤣
Being the best father does not mean he is the best man, this issue of parenting affects the children,he can be the best father but what about the mother picture in their lives, the age difference between the children raises alarm
Take it easy brother obina. You own none explain of your life I just pray God to intervene in your situation. We all know you are the best daddy ever.
He is just hiding under the father and kids thing ... narcissist 💯
Like you are
True,,
@@BelieveThat_ exactly.. if the man is truly a narcissistic as most of the people want to make it look like, why are woman quick to open their legs for him and even get pregnant 😏
don't think so
true. i hate it.
This is true Obinna, women are envious but some ignore their responsibility and then they don't like seeing men did it. This is great Obinna.....
My dear not all women selective am co parenting just fine with my ex. He cheated he was not a good partner but he’s a good father that I will give him m gland n blessed 4 my child to hv him as a dad. We r soo cool at times when he calls he is open he’s a clown so we joke around. He even told me their some he likes I support him would lv 4 him to marry n hv more kids he deserves happiness 2. So speak what u know.
Obina why keep evidences? Everything until now is planned, you are smart, you want you're ex to look bad, you are toxic and you should feature yourself in your own show
🤣🤣🤣 najua inauma juu akona evidence. Unataka adelete ndio amalizwe kabisa.
Obina keep the evidence, after all its evidence. Whether they say u are a narcissist or not, I don't care. Of they wanna keep their evidence, let them do. The fact that they have no evidence should not be an indication that they are the victims, it means their is no evidence . I know men suffer in silence, and women will always stand by their fellow women in spite of whether they are wrong or not. I will not take sides, but at least you have taken responsibility of your children. Period!
If he's a good dad to his kids them that settles it wachemi ujimga
No need to fight your baby mama. Make parenting much enjoyable and smoother. Avoid any negativity
Exactly
Obinna you are the best dad continue fighting for your kids ❤ you are strong
Oga Obina, as your fun allow me to air my opinion. Avoid being on social media too much especially with controversies. You owe nobody explanations especially about your personal drama. Focus on your career that is growing very well for now, otherwise you will dent yourself and you will go down. This lady might be an agent from your enemies. My opinion tu..sina noma.
Good advice 👏🏾
Hujui drama ndio ulipa? This how they get views! Put yours in private! You think he doesn't know that?🙄🙄🙄
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Nancy I surport you fully,let him keep off from social media
Oga you've reaally encouraged me I swear I'll watch this now and then 💙💙💙
There is nothing as dangerous as a narcissist with enough money and English😢😢...
Weeeh!.....I tell you.......he will always appear as the angle from above.😂
There are always three sides to every story: the oppressed, the oppressor, and the creator. Obinna stop being emotional when Kido asks you a question and responds nicely.
Kido was asking something that obinna has already explained........follow it clearly
Obina congratulations I like your advice 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Obina is a cool guy, i love the way you keep it real. You are a great father its so obvious
Your just a toxic father. Let the other 2 baby mama talk. And your just jealous over this beautiful lady. Leave her alone.
Am a mother with grown up children like you keep up
Relationships can be messy when things go south. What i admire about Obina is that he wants to be in the life of his Children and he is taking care of his responsibilities as a father(this is a BIG plus for majority of the ladies in the same situation are fighting for this). I pray after the healing they will as a family do what is best for children especially the last two. Also i would refrain to label someone a Narcissistic without all the facts, that is character assassination. We are all dealing with our own issues and family dynamics. Let this family BE.
Only the person that dealt with a narcissist can see through this man.
Why do you have 3 baby mamas?
That speaks for itself
I feel sorry for any woman coming next she will suffer the same wrath.
Narcissistic men always see every woman is abusive, they twist everything.
For your information no angel 😇 woman on earth
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Word
Gas lighters kabisaaaa..very charming
Exactly he's just a down ade down not top ade top😆
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You are a gentle man who learns from his mistakes.keep up the wisdom
the moment u watch obinas tv and how he interacts with kids,keep it up obina
its good he is taking care of the kid but not all good fathers make good husbands
@@carolineondula3633 You can't be a good father and less a husband and vice versa applies
Brother take my words this is the beginning of life battles it never end, as man don't bring your family issues to the media, Mute battles do your best let the life ahead you bless you. To your children do your best don't worry about what your Mama child does, she leaves her life, those media question avoids them there petty irrelevant, smart guys like you don't go to media for this kind of interview
wait until those kids outgrow your coaching .let them mature and get into their senses. kwanza the girls.hautaamini
Sure
The fact that he has 3 baby mamas speaks volume
Did any of them get pregnant at gun point?
@@sharonnzuki2747 are you even understanding the point
He met with them when he was not sober imagine and again in pain,I can imagine the feeling
Not judging
How many men do have more than two children out of wedlock? Seriously
May GOD help him to heal as he stands for his children.@@sharonnzuki2747
3or 4
@@sharonnzuki2747 no. and it still speak volumes
Is he trying to say the baby mama got herself pregnant without his knowledge?? 1, 2, 3 and 4.???? shame on him. He is playing the victim. Typical covert narc.
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And he has 3 bby mamas
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When he said the lady should ask first if he wants children 😏😏
One child is for one baby mama, 2nd another baby mama and 3rd and 4th another baby mama🥱
Narcism, gaslighting at its best,blaming the women you got pregnant and at the same time,one is even afraid of you,akichoma nguo anapack ready to go coz anakuogopa.
A good father protects his kids well being,peace of mind and that means protecting their mother too from the public trolls and abuse for the sake of her mental health.
You are a public figure but want to tarnish the image of the mother of your kids hence your kids reading the abuses online of there mother . shame on you.
Only we who are enlightened understand what narcissism is. He is a classic textbook example of a narc. 🚩🚩🚩
You should see some of the women in this comment section congratulating him. They have no idea what a narcissistic is and what they're capable of.
Most cases people who grew without father figures have difficulty staying with a woman.
So true!!!
Obina you are old enough to know that getting pregnant is both of your responsibility!
Obinna pole for the tough times you have had to go through, thanks to God they have made evolve, nice lessons to the youths in relationships atleast before talking it to the next level, there are lines to pick from your life
It should never be about one parent vs the other Obinna!!! Children need both and should never feel like they have to pick!
I love that
Sometimes it's better to keep quiet for the sake of peace n the kids...
😂😂😂😂I like how he’s pretending to be good….. that’s why he has 3 different baby mamas wow 🤩
I don't understand why when things fall apart ,, men are judged /painted as the cause,, I can confidently say that we have very toxic women even to an extended of abusing their own kids,, for that case let every one play their role in kids lives ,, a mother cannever be the dad and viceversa,, the best thing I like with OBINA he is responsible and present dad❤❤
How toxic when someone is married more than 3 times at 32.this is not normal but unfortunate.
After listening to the Baby Mama's side of the story I think Obinna is saying a lot of BS... Those kids will grow up and hold him answerable for how he treats the mum.
agreed!! I trust the lady.
True,I pity how this mother used to leave with this step children coz the way they have been poisoned by this Man they can't respect this lady at all at all.i heard one girl saying the boy used to tell him about the mother.
That baby boy has been poisoned and picked some bad characters@@gracekamau4716
Many reasons I’ll keep marriage out of my mind until further notice.
I know same here
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Wow you are full of wisdom keep on standing for your kids
We sacrifice a lot for the sake of kids, not because we want to look good but for the sake of the young ones who we desire to see growing up well. The dramas may last, but the beauty part of it is that the kids are growing. As long as our lives are spared, the end will justify and crown our efforts.
Hapo kwa getting pregnant does not keep a man is true...Obinna am always your fan n follow always,continue loving your children
so he had no business getting the woman preganant
I'm not to judge,but having 3baby mamas speak it all.
Those are few
I think so too
I know this guy... He is a player., and his attitude sucks
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@@carolinemurugi5803 really ? He looks like a nice guy
Oga its okay not to be okay its good to talk out and air the pain you have been going through for years let the boy child speak......after all i admire him he is a responsible dad...and his kid love him too much
Remember you fathered girls
A few years to come , someone will bad mouth them after a broken relationship
It will haunt you obinna
I love what you have said....her girls will not live with him forever....they will one day get into relationships....they will hate their father
The best way to kill negative vibe is not to respond or react to it. A fire no matter how big Eventually dies down. He has fuelled it by talking about it, and this is something he knows - But has let his emotions think for him.
In the minds of most people, Perception is Everything - most people don't have time to fact-check, and this can Destroy one's relationships and one's career. The longer this story goes on, the more his brand will deteriorate.
Obina..sshh..don't explain too much..it is what it is..I feel you. Kids are much more intelligent than what they seem..educate Kenyans.. by not talking to the kids and finding out their emotions does not mean that they think or feel nothing..kids are the most affected by parents separation and unfortunately they are the keenest observers and the most affected..talking to them helps them and you heal..I love your intelligent conversations and honesty with your kids coz you are in it together ❤️
If you've not experienced anything half of what this guy is narrating, please don't judge as he is still healing. Obinna is human and bound to mistakes. I personally appreciate how he is present in his kids life. Nonetheless, he should not publish any negativity about any baby mama he may do it privately instead to avoid triggering fights.
true
Very true young man with a lot of wisdom
The society has conditioned us, women can go to all t.v stations crying and talking about their abusive husbands. The men are then, asked to be the bigger person and never talk about what actually happens.
know what to record and what not to...si ati mtoto akiongea ushainua camera...some things are better off camera.
The moment he says evidence says it all
Obinna you are a hero,let no one judge you whatever they say is up to them
As a father of two, I will not address anything about your baby mama. that's your business. but As a father, let me tell you, DON'T discuss your relationship with their mother to your kids. You are not their friend you are their father. You do whats best for them and not whats best for your career. This social media thing is for both of you to feel good about yourselves without thought of how it might adversely affect your kids. Hata kama huyo mama ni shetani vipi she still remains the mother to your child...your child. Respect starts with you, the father, show your daughter there can be dignity even in disagreement. to be honest, ALL CHILDREN DESERVE PARENTS BUT NOT ALL PARENTS DESERVE KIDS. this is a disappointment.
Very correct
May the Lord bless you for been there for you children
Obinna i just love you n vile tu watasema don't try to justify yourself from the look of things you're a good person
This is a honest talk.... Boychild go through a lot.... Opening up is good
I concur with you
Lately l interfered where a lady wanted to jump over the balcony because the young man told her he's revising for exams and he needs his time,thank God they were about three revising,may God help this generation gene
and so do wemen whom you throw away with kids
I love your advice on leaving an abusive relationship.Yes that's what we should all do before things go south
Congratulations eve good 👍 job,first to comment wapi likes
The fact that you can call a woman a name says alot,so rude!!!!just a bad man !
if narcissistic was a person??? This is the real definition!!!!. His ego is thru the roof he is not a good human. God never ever let me meet such or have such individuals in my life Amen. waaaaaaah disgusting
Ameen!! A man with arrogance coz he has money. Nonsense!!!
I appreciate you for being present in your kid's life
I support this man...the children said it clearly, that she even throw shoes at him. Such a foolish woman. You should learn to respect your husbands. Kids don't lie. I imagine what this guy went through for over five years. Women please respect us pliiiiz🙏. A man can't stay where he is not respected
He should do toxic baby daddy on himself 🤣🤣🤣
The way he said. Sitamuanika thn start narrating ati drinking driving etc
🤣🤣🤣 True. He is also trying to blame the woman for getting baby number 2 it's like he was ejaculating "wora" Guy is full of himself and the type that gives ultimatums on when the relationship should start and end.
I can relate with hao I woz brought up n Ur doing a gud thing try to be near your kids
Me I can't hate, I love you so much continue taking care of your children.
I love you obina with a love of our God may he bless I believe you
Better get out with your kids kwa socks 🤣🤣🤣well said
Exactly oga has say the Truth pregnancy is not love is mature thing
it is so unfortunate he is taking advantage because the lady is not as rich as he is....He is just hiding under the kids and what kids are saying..you run the you tube channel it could be scripted..you are already calling her drunk if that kid watches this video she will believe you and say yeah my mum is a drunkard..respect her as the mother of your kids
Same thing pple were saying to johnny deep, all those branding of narcissistic or blah blah then wen truth came out boom
Absolutely
The way he talks speak volumes. So full of himself!
When a woman speaks in the same manner, you all say she is confident qnd independent 🤣🤣
He's a narcissist.
I personally I admire Obinna for being a wonderful Dad ,He's true and he is always there to shape up the future of his kids 👏👏
Go and listen the other side of Mama.....ndio hutajua mama ni genuine kabisa......
there is no wonderful father here! i.listened to the kids mother n I believed her side of the story.
He has been a deadbeat until he realized those kids could make him money on TH-cam!! He was absent when the kids were born, didn't help to pay maternity bill, was absent when his child needed a surgery just a foolish deadbeat he should shut up
You should listen to the other side of story.mambo ni mengi
If you ask me this person for a father of anyones kid, I will prefer send the kids for adoption than have such a kind of father. He has failed terribly
Uyu jamaa i loved in hadi jqna tu i downloaded 8 episodes of toxic boyfriends leo nkaona stry nashindwa hata kudownload more juu yy ni mtoxic pia😅
Oga Obinna!!!! My latest obsession!! I LOVE the way you interact with the kids
Its fake, all for the camera, they should also show behind the scenes and the edited parts!!
Women who are here please don’t point fingers at your fellow woman,just listen to the other side of the story.
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Obinna you owe no one an explanation...what i know you might not be a husband but you are the best dad.
😂😂😂😂 Obina blaming the baby mama for getting pregnant as if he was ejaculating holy water.
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imagine. the audacity
😂😂😂
Truth be told...You are trying.. may the Almighty God bless you🙏
Finally Mama Ada has come out, spoke the truth. Now we know who Obinna is, very toxic.
I just love how obinna takes care of his kids,
Am super proud of him too
Obinna you need to mature up! bear the consequences of your loose zip & learn to face your issues off social media
You're the best dad to your kids 👌
They should all put there differences behind and learn to coparent for the sake of the kids...
How to keep your brain healthy: avoid constant negative news. Thankyou. Have a nice day .
Avoid social media with your private life. And anywhere kids are involved, avoid avoid avoid cz you will affect their lives.
Having gone through most of your videos I've got few things to say to you, 1. Watoto have learned tabia mbaya of negatively discussing about their mother to you. 2. Its clear that you've taught the elder kids that their mother ain't good 3. You need to work on " Negative Ego Of Young Adult" It has also affected Your first born daughter and son. You don't know the harm you're causing them thinking its loving them,. SAD
You nailed it!! I equally hate the way he brags that he's sure he will be given all his kids by the court!! Why is he so sure! Is their something he knows that we dont know!! I hate men who talk too much in defense and don't own to any mistakes!! I feel this lady, kama hiyo ndio mdomo!! Huyu ni worse kuliko mwanamke.. That's the reason he has 3 baby mamas at 32.. If he doesn't change..more baby mamas on the way!! Pride comes before a fall... Take note Obina
Baby mama ndio alikua kwa interview akaongea mengi ndio
Stop giving people the tea, especially about your family, we all have problems in our homes but we solve them privately, I have listened to Mama Ada on Ali's chanel and that Lady is telling the truth.
Oh yes she is. This guy is narcissistic.
True,,kabisa,, hii ni punda ya mtu tu
He is a pretender
Patholigical liar...traits of a narc
One hunnid...we don't need all that
Obina besides every drama i just owe you a pat at the back that you have stood by your kids and i love how you aare raising them and showing them the teal world with the little you get.every marriage iko na drama and most fathers huwa hawafuatilii maisha ya watoto kama wewe
I love how he explains anything lovely Dad
Unapata pesa unaringia mwanamke,you just a bad man ,!
Obina, please protect your children, do not give permission to interrogate your children in the name of being open you will regret what you will exposing your children to bullying and questions you will regret why youleft it open. Please please protect your children from the outside world, your videos are ok, becuse as a parent you know your boundaries
WHEN A MAN DIVORCE 1ST WIFE,THEN 2ND,THEN 3RD.....LIKELY 4TH,That is a psychiatric Man....a sick man....but just keep urlife and ur children off social media till they reach 18 and let them take themselves..that is mental torture.........
Wueh!!kumbe co-parenting si mchezo.Poleni.
It is bad to engage the kids in talking about the other parent. Please refrain! Don't spoil the other parents image if you really love your children. Even some conversations with the kids should be private... again if you really love them. That is their mother, the most important woman in their life. They need to be able to RESPECT her. And your friends asking your children about the parents is a NO, NO. Mungai Eve, next follow this video with a child counsellor so parents can know why it is important to NOT over share when it comes to parents parenting while not together. It is toxic and will cause permanent trauma to the children. Any parent who loves their children will protect their mental health. Kids need both parents and should never be made to choose sides. It is not a contest. Like I said, a loving parent will not subject their kids to having to choose nother entertain the kids trashing the other parents. If one parent is abusive, that is a different ballgame that may involve courts, counselors and family members. But in the best interest of the kids, unless they are in imminent danger, such sensitive talks regarding minors and with minors should be limited to very close associates mostly family and professionals dealing with children. Even in court, cases regarding minors are sealed and not open to the public. Let he who has an ear hear. If you need to confirm, consult a child psychologist or counselor, thank you!
I agree
Obinna is much better than the haters who r questioning him,I love hw he is raising his kids,haters continue hating,n before u point finger's to obinna,ask ur urself r u a better mom or dad to ur kids.
@@blackybronze No one said he isn't a good dad, the point is there some issues you don't engage your kids in like dads and mum personal issues.
So are you saying kids dont notice when this shit happens?i feel like its very necessary to talk to these modern kids because they are sharp....there is nothing like engaging kids to talk badly about their parents...a toxic parent is just that
@@christinekimani7956 Kids should be safeguarded from adult issues by any and all responsible adults be it the parents, family, friends, teachers and society. When we involve kids in adult squabbles we steal their innocence and set them up for troubled and damaged futures as adults themselves
I would like to see this bloggers who were interviewing Obinna follow the segment with an interview with a child psychologist) counselor. The damage parents do to their kids trying to hurt or damage the reputation of the other parent...if loving parents knew! Obinna is wrong to capture such intimate talks with his kids and post them online. That is the mother of his kids. If he loves his kids, he will hide her nakedness. They will never have another mother, so protect her image FOR THEM.
They drive you crazy then they run announcing you are crazy
Keeping up with Mr three baby mamas.NKT!
I like you obina for sure you're the best Dad.