Ben Stiller: Family Legacy, Workaholism, & Saving his Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ย. 2023
- Ben Stiller joins us in the studio to discuss his parents’ influence, his mental health journey as a child, how the pandemic brought him and his wife Christine Taylor back together again, his workaholic tendencies, and what’s next for his career. He and Mayim share the nightmares they had the night prior, Ben shares his favorite Yiddish words and Mayim teaches him a new one during an impromptu Yiddish Word of the Day segment! Ben opens up about what it’s been like to make a documentary about his parents, how his marriage echoes his parents’ relationship, and his mother’s struggles with alcoholism. He recounts his feelings of separation anxiety as a child, the interesting forms of therapies his family tried, and his experience with transcendental meditation. Mayim details her digital detox and inspires Ben to consider giving it a try, and they discuss how creativity can add something incredible to or get in the way of a romantic relationship.
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Ben, one day I saw your parents in NYC and I got so excitred that I almost got hit by a car on the corner. They laughed and helped me! It was one of my biggest thrills. Loved them, so did my dad.
I met Ben a few times when i worked at Universal Studios Hollywood. He was such a nice guy back then, and very personable and approachable! As he told me In 1997/1998, His favorite ride was the ET Adventure which I had worked at for 3 years, from 1996 - 1999. I seated him on the ride vehicle twice and greeted him once as he walked thru the park headed to the lower lot Studio Center (where ET use to be). Meeting celebrities was always a perk of working there.
Love this guy!
LOVE BEN!
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he has a bit of a rep for being a jerk to wait staff, etc....
The ET Adventure was my absolute favorite as a kid
It’s nice to see another side of Ben and hear him talking about his parents. I’m a huge fan of them and him. Great interview Mayim! 🙏🏽💖
Speaking of Christine Taylor, them working together in Dodgeball is my favorite thing. Throughout the whole movie her character is totally disgusted with him and I truly dont know how she got through any of that without laughing 😂 Love them both and wishing their family all the best ❤
Nobody makes me bleed my own blood. NOBODY!
@@HealthHorror legendary scene😂
I like Stiller's body language. The way he sways his chair and has a demeanor like he is just a regular person meeting another regular person. I watch so many comedian podcasts where they sit and move like they are superior beings, like they are above everyone else. You can tell a lot by how someone sits and acts during a conversation. He seems to actually listen and be thinking like a grounded person.
He had pretty good parents 😅
The Secret Life of Walter Mitty is one of my favorite movies! I watch it whenever I just want to feel good! Thanks for that!
Blossom was a heart-throb growing up in the 90's, she's still got it... Mad Respect. Ben's got that Silver Fox vibe too. Shalom ☮
It is so cool that you have Ben Stiller on this podcast. I really liked a lot of the movies that he did. Keep up the great work Mayim, you are such an inspiration! ❤
Inwardly screaming with joy at this episode! You both are simply fabulous (and yes, we love Jonathan too). But can we just take a moment to appreciate this famous Jewish boy having a sit down with this famous Jewish girl? Eeee!!! Pure magic and greatness rolled into this interview. Thank you for this talk.
He enjoyed unearthing the past and also media and now he’s combining that by digging into his parents past and making the documentary.❤
How funny that you both had nightmares before this interview and that you both shared them!
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He looks great for pushing 60 ! Insane. This was a great interview ❤
Ben Stiller is an awesome actor Mayim. I really liked his job of voicing Alex in Madagascar, playing Walter Mitty, Derek Zoolander and Larry in Night at the Museum. He also made a guest appearance in Friends. Keep your good job Mayim! Also happy belated anniversary to Big Bang Theory!
He was so great in Meet the Parents. That movie is so funny and his unease is palpable, you can feel it and audience along for the same ride he's going on. He is a brilliant actor, I agree. One of my faves, just wish he would do more. Tropic Thunder was brilliant too!
@@vaskylark Oh right. I forgot about Tropic Thunder too
Loved this interview! You're right, Mayim. Ben Stiller hardly does interviews, so hearing him open up about so many topics was a real treat. Great job!
What a lovely interview. Gentle, humorous, open, & humble. Well done, both of you. 😊❤😊
What a lovely conversation filled with depth and kindness. Well done Ben and Mayim.
I agree with Ben & Mayim here! I can swear that the workaholoism Ben speaks about is a real thing. It’s a drug that consciously or unconsciously some of us look for like evasion, as in all addictions. It took years, lots of stress, nights of bad sleep & a cancer to me to realize it & try to amend it..
On a less serious tone, sharing your nightmares before today’s episode has been such a pleasant dream to us! 😅
A legend. His aged gracefully. I've always loved his movies. His a funny guy
Can't wait to see the documentary on your parents Ben. What amazing people! Thanks for all that you do!
I could listen to these 2 for hours. Great conversation!
OK so many gems of wisdom in this interview (you are doing an amazing job Mayim and are truly so amazing at interviewing in a non intrusive way but getting people comfortable enough to open up in a way that feels safe and secure) but the best part was that Ben had a drink next to him that he had probably brought with and was so intrigued by the conversation that the level didn't go down the entire interivew! Call me a dork for details for noticing that, but to me it just showed that this was a conversation he was super engaged with.
had the same thought, true! haha
HEY!! - great mention of the classic movie, "Sliding Doors." You nailed it, that is a keeper.
Love Ben Stiller he seems like such a down to earth guy
Loved him ever since Reality Bites. ❤
Mayim would make an excellent therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist......wow.....her interview style. She does not miss anything. Asks all the right questions.
His hairdresser did a great job on the cut and colour mix! Great look
First time caller… long time listener…
First, truly appreciate you and Ben Stiller as artists! So this was a treat watching y’all nerd out.
Second, I respect how your kind but discovering questions about his family gave us but a glimpse into their family dynamic…
And lastly, I too got emotional thinking about his family… I guess it struck a chord in myself!
Well done chica!
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Really enjoyed listening to Ben Stiller.
Glad he's on here and to hear he's working on a documentary about his legendary parents. Thanks for including favorite Yiddish words; it gave me de ja vu for the actors studio ❤❤❤
Always love Stiller and Mera... Loved their schtik]
This is the best episode of FUN WITH FLAGS I've seen. 😉
❤ 👏 great interview
So happy to get to know you on a more personal level, Mayim. I grew up watching Blossom and Big Bang was a household favorite. Learning who you are as an actual person has been a blessing. Thank you for calling attention to so many topics. A neuroscientist, a famous actress-what a lifetime-congratulations to you 🎉❤ Ben Stiller is a great guest, happy to learn more about him 😊
There's something so sexy about Ben's openness.
Something sexy full stop😮way more attractive now he’s older !
So sorry that lately Jonathan is not “there”..not even in remote!😢 I miss his always great points of view!
About Ben & wife: second chances do exist…even if a pandemia is needed to realize! Now seriously..Romantic? Yes! Beautiful and endearing? Yes! But I’m sure they succeded with great and quite untold dose of courage and willpower. Admirable! Bravo for them!
Thank you for again a fabulous guest and episode.
Refreshing episode! I have followed Ben over the years and one of my favorite movies is Tropic Thunder! When I need spirits lifted I go straight to comedy. What a fascinating life he has had. I loved the new Yiddish word Mayim! You are all amazing people. Thank you for sharing this space with us all 🎉❤😊
Oh my, I think this is one of my favorite interviews. You’ve done! Love, Ben Stiller.
Omg. I love this man. 😭❤
Excellent Mayim, thank you so much for all your work. I love Ben Stiller as an actor, as a human and for his parents too.
Ben Stiller is the coolest guy in the entire universe
I love your talks. You're more than an interviewer - you're a conversationalist with so much nuance. Thank you for this one and all of them :)
Ben looks just like his dad ..I really love him he is a good actor
Thank you for this Mayim!
We love Ben Stiller!!!! ❤❤
I love this episode! Two of my favorite actors. I love the fascinating backstories of Ben. Thank you Mayim, for always keeping your podcasts fun, enlightening, and down to earth. P.S. Blossom was one of my favorite shows growing up. You and Ben Stiller never age. You guys Rock🎉
I only found this channel yesterday - not really sure how - but it is utterly refreshing to hear famous people not be asked boring questions about their upcoming film or what happened 20 years ago with this or that film, but actually their every day lives and the mundane stuff that every human being goes through. I've now watched about 8 ......Gold star for you ! 🌟
He is so great. She is wonderful. Nice discussion.
This episode is one I'm definitely looking forward to! This was the last thing I saw before going to bed (its already evening here in PH), and it was the perfect end to the day. Watching these two enjoy their chat makes me incredibly happy. We can see the impact his parents had on him. You can tell that they have a lot in common. It's enjoyable to observe and hear about their personal experiences because they are moving. Ben's use of his favourite Yiddish phrases is another thing I adore.
I'm hoping Jonathan will appear in the upcoming episode. He is missed, as is his insightful viewpoint. By the way, you look great Mayim 😊 when i see your happy, im also happy. This was a fantastic episode. Kudos Mayim and Jonathan! ❤ Looking forward to the next guest! 😁
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belated happy anniversary to the big bang theory 🎉❤ (ShAmy Fan here 😂)
Nice! Mayim I always appreciate your origination questioning. Very familiar aspects to growing up, which can be confusing at times. Ben looks great and I look forward to any project in front or behind the camera. Best of all was the news he is back with his wife- bravo!
I grew up on the upper west side in the same era on RSD and went to elementary school for 2 years with Benji. Loved this interview! Specifically, the alternate side of the street parking part since that was always so weird and time consuming for my parents too 😄
One of the reasons for me being hooked to this podcast is how well-thought-out Mayim's questions are...
Ben Stiller is awesome in that he mentioned all the sitcoms on tv that I used to watch. :).
I've always Ben Stiller but now even more. It takes a lot of guts to open up on such personal stuff 👏👏❤️
I so enjoyed this interview! A fan of Ben's, but a huge fan of Stiller and Meara (I'm giving away my age)! You two really connected! 👍😊
I am a bit older, and i lived Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara
Together and separately.
Jerry on King of Queens was a reason to watch that show. Anne as Steves Ma, in sex in the city. Amazing!
Yes she was amazing and felt almost true to life
I saw what I believe was his debut as an actor in "House of Blue Leaves" with John Mahoney at Lincoln Center and while he's continually improved as an actor (and he can do both--I really liked his version of "Secret Life of Walter Mitty") he totally floored me as a director on the extremely serious true crime mini-series "Escape at Dannemora." Also, grew up watching and loving his mom and dad, one of the great comedy stand-up duos of all time.
Beautiful interview, love it when guests aren't over Zoom! Hits different
You know, this is completely off-topic but as I’m sitting here doing my normal reading, devotional & prayer time I’m reading two studies of the book of Esther. As a Jesus-follower I absolutely love the way you pull your faith into your interviews. & how the different faith traditions are discussed with your guests.
I learn so much even from just the brief discussions in these interviews & in your other social media specifically about your Jewish background, & I just wanted to say thank you for that. You too, Mayim, were born for such a time as this. Thank you for using God’s giftings to you to help so many people. 😊
Thank you Mayim, this was such a good show. I can't wait to see the documentary about his parents. I've been a big fan of Anne Meara and Jerry Stiller since I was a child (I'm 65 now). Here comes Ben and he's as funny as his parents. Thank you for this memory. 😊 PS. I'm watching a rerun of Big Bang right now and I love yall too 🤣
Great Breakdown, Mayim! I loved hearing him talk about Stiller and Meara. His parents were a wonderful comedy team. Great memories of watching them on variety shows when I was a youngun!
@@Dena-x I was a yungun too. We know where he got his talent in the beginning and then Ben ran with it. 😊
@@danitaharris9919 We sure do! ✌🏽💜
Thanks for this video with Ben. I was amazed by his acting abilities/skills. Although I never liked his parents, I realized now that I just didn't understand them. But they sure did an awesome job with Ben.
I am old enough to remember his parents on stage. They were fantastic!...on the Ed Sullivan Show and other stages. They were every bit as good as Mike Nichols and Elaine May. ...I still remember his parents as ground breakers and highly creative and fun. Thank you, Mayim, for this lovely interview!
This was wonderful! I love the Yiddish ending :)
I love Ben's perspective of growing up with his parents together and how it related to Christine and him living together. Very insightful.
Excellent conversation 💫
I loved this interview so much, I liked the therapy talk , I would like people to be encouraged to talk and go. I'm a fan of both of you and his dad, it was so emotional! hug from Uruguay
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Just discovered your channel this past week, and this was a really exceptional interview. I loved how Ben had some incredibly relatable stories, but also some unique perspectives that only he could convey. I don't always agree with him politically, but you can tell that at his core, he is a good soul. He's also a terrific comedic actor, and I hope he and his wife continue to make it work!
Wow! Ben Stiller! Can't wait to watch!
I love this. Ben Stiller has always been one of my favorites. I remember him starting out doing MTV stuff. My dad grew up on Riverside Drive. Mom lived across the street and they met when dad and his best friend were at a movie, and mom told them to be quiet cuz she was a usher 😂
I was in my early twenties when I put the connection together of Ben being related to his Mom and Dad ,, I loved all of what they did .. his dad had a gift .. just a look .. he had a look like my own dad that you knew you were in the presence of comic genius .. not everyone has that .. as for Ben ,, I was like wtf ? ,, that's their son ? .. he must have been taken from the hospital by mistake .. I cannot see in Ben his parents .. he is a really great comedian and actor but I cannot see the connection .. :( he's a great guy and the interview was really great .. :) Mayim is very very good at hosting her studio interviews .. loved it .
Awesome interview. Very interesting. Thanks Mayim 😊
I’ve rewatched the secret life of Walter Mitty a lot. Maybe one of my Ben Faves.
The character and the story are classic for a reason 😅
I enjoyed every minuet of that.
I loved the interview! He is so down to earth and nice! I really enjoy this podcast. Really helps listening to topics related to my mental struggles. Mayim, I’ve been a fan since Beaches!!
Me too
I adored his parents but his dad… now, that is what you’d call a true genius.
This was soooo good!🙌🏽
They say throw a hook in the beginning of the podcast.. u just gave a segment. Love it.
Yes marriage. Stay together. ❤
Loved this one so much. Both Mayim and Ben’s conversations were amazing and had me taking notes! Something hit me pretty hard when Ben said “why do parents love their children so much?” Moved me to tears because the love I have for my children is incredible. Then I thought “and why do some parents (my 8 year old son’s father) have no interest, love or a real connection to with their children. It blows my mind, breaks my heart for my son, angers me etc.
He’s so mellow…. Is that unusual? But I love it so far
I must admit that I come away from this discussion with a whole new appreciation for Ben Stiller. I had always respected him for the sake of his parents whom I absolutely enjoyed watching when they worked together. (How could anyone not love Jerry and Anne?) But, through the course of this discussion, I can gladly state that the apple really hasn't fallen far from the tree in Ben's case. The fact that he wrote that sketch on the family therapy demonstrates that. I'm looking forward to the documentary and to his future endeavours, particularly in light of his journey of introspection. Thank you, Mayim, for inviting Ben onto the program and, consequently, for allowing me this opportunity to see him in a new light.
Ben looks amazing ! Loved this!,
Wow I'm surprised to see ben on the podcast I have been a fan of him since the movie heavyweights and reality bites and zoolander 😊
Thanks for the John Roeder shoutout, Ben. Loved him as a teacher.
Great broadcast! 🇨🇦
I loved him in reality bites.
Such a great interview! Thanks to you both...
Ben Stiller is one of my favorite actors - I bore witness to his expert grip on his craft as an actor in the film "Permanent Midnight" which helped me develop as an adult with anxiety issues brought on by addiction to pharmaceuticals that was creating paranoia in my marriage which eventually disintegrated despite my efforts - please get a chance to see this film Mayim it's a gripper - you look so fantastic with hair and makeup keep it up you're beautiful!❤
Never heard of this movie, I'll ck it out, ty!
@@lovingmayberry307 You won't be disappointed - it's a white knuckle ride!
I think Mayim is extremely attractive, on the Big Bang Theory she was made to look unattractive with the long straightened hair.
I loved this episode! Love hearing him laugh.
This was brilliant.
I'm a big fan of Ben's parents. When he came along, the only reason I checked him out was because of who his folks were. They have to be so proud of him. 🥰
Such a relented man, loved his parents
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A really Nice Guy - Ben Stiller and His Famous - Family - Parents 😊😆 Awesome Episode! 👊✊🎃✌🍁
I am really looking forward to his documentary.
Me too!
I loved his parents' work!
I fell in love with him in What about Mary...hilarious
Its so wonderful seeing my girl mayim bialik again I have really missed her so much I just wish she was ready to return back to jeopardy i really like her alote and love her podcast program I can handle anything with her she so strong so kind so sweet and so smart and so wonderful to I felt like a part of me was gone until I found her again Amanda Miller Rockledge Florida
I love how Miaym projects her reality onto the interviewed person, and they redirect her to their reality. It makes me more aware of also doing the same. Love this podcast.
Ben is such a great guy - and a nice person. Great interview!
Really enjoyed this
love your show
Great episode 👏 ❤😊
I’ve only just discovered your channel. It’s been very interesting, fascinating and brought up a lot of familiar things. Both my (now Adult) kids have Asperger’s and according to them so do I, my partner is also neurodivergent. The mental health stuff is great too. I had my own battle with depression following a MS diagnosis and physical limitations that came with it. I see myself as lucky though as stem cell therapy halted the condition and whilst I’m still suffering physical issues life has never been better. Learning to be open about everything including my mental health challenges is a big part of that though and your channel articulates much of what I learned far better than I ever could. I’ll be sharing you channel with my kids who will both find it interesting and beneficial…. If they follow my recommendation (which rarely happens 😂)!
Loved his parents in Heavyweights!