Ig it depends my husband and I had a lot of violence the first year together but we went to counseling and gave each other space and have been great ever since
@@dajanaihicks4682 nawh y’all don’t listen to her, the second someone raises a hand at you, kick them out because they’re a piece of shit who’ll end up killing you
@@McSnezzly that’s your opinion, it is not a fact. People can go through tumultuous times in their relationship and still come out on top. I’m also in this category. I’m a male, and my girlfriend and I have had issues, much like the woman in this video she would get anxiety and get defensive, not in the right state of mind, she would grab knives and hold them to me or herself. I would just wrestle it away because I know she wouldn’t actually try to hurt me. It comes down to miscommunication and interpretation. If you aren’t willing to forego the burden that may be put on you, then why bother even speaking on it because you know absolutely nothing about it? You have no idea of a true love. Nobody here needs to hear your weak minded opinion
@gnr1978 forever I support mental health and I do everything in my power to help especially people I am that close with. You’re the psychopath here buddy don’t project onto me because I care about someone’s life
You have a very valid point! However, in this specific case I think it’s definitely a bit more complicated since both parties seem to use violence as a default
@@joknows4761 yeah nobody cares that he put her in a headlock, are you kidding me?! As a DV survivor I can say both parties were at fault and very violent and toxic I wonder if they questioned any of his former gfs
This was clearly a two-way abusive relationship. The fact that he's doing things like putting her in a chokehold, hitting her in her face (in front of others, no less), and cutting the cables of the tv as she's trying to leave... it just shows how volatile, and violent, their dynamic was. Relationships like this often end up with one person dying or near death. Angry, violent people need to work on fixing themselves instead of trying to fix others.
Two way abusive relationships does not justify her stabbing him and does not excuse the light sentence for a death. He was not violent in his past relationship which means that the violence in the new relationship was likely a dynamic she brought into the relationship and he was being reactive. Ever watched Tina Turners movie where she starts fighting back with him. That is a common dynamic that comes up in abusive relationships. My parents would get in fights but my father was the aggressor and my mother felt trapped in the dynamic. For all we know, that was their dynamic, her first being abusive and him being caught in the abusive cycle.
@@dillonyang6869 you should be given life in prison for being a racist prick. That has nothing to do with the situation, a person was killed no matter what they look like.
Yeah, that's what I'm focused on...... Thursday night, spending the night away from home while ma and her bf are partying..... If that's not unstable, idk what is. Hurts my heart for that baby boy.
💯💯💯 They "waste" their time because they are either victims of childhood abuse or victims of the cycle of abuse which includes the "honeymoon" period and fucks with your head.
I do see your point. If I was in her situation, i would’ve left and not killed him, but i understand why she did it. Yes she should have left him, but sometimes it’s not easy to leave. Some of the victims are threatened to be killed if they leave, held hostage, or being monitored or tracked on a cell phone. But like i said, i understand where you’re coming from.
Like when you get a bad feeling, like your partner is getting abusive or showing signs of toxicity, hurting you, you should leave the relationship and never see them again. Better safe than sorry.
People need to stop using the cliche term “toxic relationship”. They were mutually abusive adults who knew what they were doing. Everyone in this situation is an idiot and an asshole except his son.
@@Tsumami__ That's what toxic relationship means. They were both toxic to each other but calling them idiots I think that's little harsh. Not everyone is strong like you to walk away sooner then they should.
Yup. I did take note of him putting her down by saying she runs away, so there are two sides to this story. He put her into a headlock! That is a sign she was being abused!
@@brendajamison9174 Literally this. She was a victim. No one should have died, but there was a lead up of "he had her in a chokehold" "he punched her right in her face" and this was IN FRONT OF a crowd.
When someone has a sucking chest wound you need to immediately roll them on their side of the wound so the other lung doesn’t start filling up with blood. Because you probably don’t likely have a pneumothorax chest seal, you need to apply pressure to the wound until the paramedics arrive. Doing chest compressions is not what you want to do with gunshots or stabs, the man isn’t having a heart attack, they are losing blood fast, the bleeding is what needs to be focused on.
That is good advice. I will keep it in mind and hopefully I never will have to use it. If I am ever in that situation though now I will know what to do. 😊
@@NikkiC777 Happy to help spread my small amount of knowledge! I am ex military and I saw the medical progression through the OEF/OIF years in regards to gunshots and shrapnel wounds. They used to teach ABC (airway, breathing, circulation) in the combat lifesaver course but now everything is bleeding first. The major risk here is rapid loss of blood leading to shock and death. Doing a "blood sweep" on the whole body is necessary to to make sure there aren't wounds you cant immediately see. If it's a large knife wound to the body thats not a lung issue, applying pressure dressings are necessary and any extremity that is bleeding profusely and especially "squirting" blood every heartbeat (arterial wound) needs an immediate tourniquet. Loss of blood is the primary focus.
Uh, I assumed he said it because of the excessive alcohol and drug abuse by adults. If she’d only listened to her female friend who tried to de-escalate the situation.
NO ONE deserves to loose their life in such a nonsense way!!! NO ONE deserves to be punched in the face, especially by someone who out weighs you and is physically stronger. People keep your damn hands to yourself.
Obviously this isn’t the first time their friends saw them get physical with each other. Cause if my friend and their partner was having a physical fight I wouldn’t be like “come on stop it”. I would have also called the police immediately.
Yeah, that was my initial reaction but then I imagine the scenario: cops show up, white woman alleges domestic violence, everyone is drunk as a skunk, situation escalates... In his case, there was a real chance he would've ended up shot by cop if they had've called so I completely understand why they didn't.
My heart breaks for his son. Seeing the pain on his face. This man was a good father to his boy and was viciously taken away from his loved ones. Four years for murder. Wow!!
Domestic violence escalates, a person dies, someone goes to prison, a young man is forced to grow up without the guidance of his father. About the only thing I can take away from this story is that the child is the real victim here. My hope is that he learns from his father’s death and never settles for an abusive relationship.
Please dont make this into a race issue. But I do agree in domestic situations, women tend to get off easier. But in this specific case, I understand. I think she should be charged with involuntary manslaughter. She was fighting back, showing him she wasn't going to allow her self to be an abuse victim anymore. She had obv never used a knife that big before in a fight, and didn't intend for the wound to be so large it kills him.
@@MoonBeamLaser OJ Simpson was an exception due to his societal status, connections, and unbelievably expensive team of lawyers. (As well as the prosecutions flubbed “smoking gun”). He is the anomaly not the baseline. Additionally, he pled not guilty so it’s not even comparable to this specific case.
If her lawyer were any good, she shouldn't have got charged with anything. A man twice her size put her in a headlock and punched her, when he should've just called the police.
@@Nunya_Beezwax Despite the testimonies of the witnesses, you're still sticking to the killer's first story(that was debunked as false by the police as shown in this video BTW)? In the chokehold scenario, the lady witness said she told him to release her, which he did & the knife was removed completely from both of their reach. In the stabbing scenario, there was no chokehold & the attack was unexpected before the killer went again for the knife & intentionally inflicted damage. All this was narrated in this video but here you are still positing on an obsolete tip!
If he would have killed her, they woulda sent him straight to death row. My heart aches for that man. 4 years for taking his life??? No justice at all!
I hate to say it, but both of them sound toxic. The idea too of this is just 'you know people disagree with each other' its like no. thats not a disagreement... these two should've not been around each other period.
@@jujubeanmdz Yup... >.< and either way, the victims family would've probably blamed the person who was alive, and said they should've known better... Its sad.
Wow this one is crazy... hopefully more people talk about this case cause it's a big example of what a toxic relationship can turn into if it's prolonged
"I didn't stab him that hard". Only takes 3" depth to reach the heart and about 30-40lbs/square inch of pressure. Best not to be stabbing people in the chest.
@@nevio2658 somehow I think him punching her, choking her and putting her in a headlock had more to do with the ruling then her hair color and race, but hey a chance to bash white people right?
@@MA__ I mean, it's literally backed up with statistics. White women by far are sentenced to the least amount of time for the exact same crimes. Maybe educate yourself on the bias of your own justice system?
This is tragic. Look I could sympathize with someone killing someone in self defense, or accidently killing someone in a fit of rage (cheating partner, catching molester in action etc), or a true psychotic break (postpartum depression, caretaker no longer able to watch their love one suffer with a disease)....but this woman had morbid posts about her bf and kept changing her recollection of events....she did it on purpose, no matter how regretful she felt in the moment she realize he was actually dying, I truly believe she wanted him to die. RIP and blessings to your family to have the strength to get through this injustice.
The son is so lovely. His parents did a good job and he is a great testament to his father's memory. Kaylee should have this burdening her consciences forever. She should have served a longer sentence.
@Weghweh Hwewehwhe I don't think it is easy to "fake" and think of covering your tracks like that when drunk tho. I think she was sincere. Stupid, but sincere.
@Eli Elijah Talking shit someone can easily do and is likely to do when drunk. Focusing on an alibi as you call 911 like she did would be much more difficult to do. Remember he was trying to kill her too. He had her in a headlock for godsakes. That shit is scary as hell and I go ass crazy when someone tries to inhibit my breathing. Then you won't have me thinking straight if/when you let go. That triggers the hell outta anyone. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Man, that little snippet at the end where the son shares his pain had me in tears. I'm sure this relationship wasn't great even when they were sober but the alcohol was/is a huge issue for many couples. I think there prolly would have been a lot less fights if it weren't a factor. And I also think this young man may still have hos father here. Prayers going out to him and the rest of his loved ones 🙏
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 If it is someone I love, yes I would, I wouldn't nagging the other person and I am a advocate for descalatation. If you are someone I don't really know, you wouldn't be able to put me in a headlock in the first place. So what are you saying? The punch and the stab are both justified?
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 they’re both toxic and made horrific choices. They are both wrong. Obviously she made the worse choice 100%. If he would have survived they both should have gone to jail. Obviously her for longer because she STABBED him. But if the other people weren’t there to stop it who’s to say he would have let her out of the headlock? That night was the breaking point.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 I will never stab anyone I love. And I won't punch my girlfriend, I taught my answer was clear. I don't know what stupid point you are trying to make. If we speak about that particular situation, she wasn't alone and there was people to help in that situation. The knives shit is not justified, not in that specific situation.
This was very sad. They should’ve walked away from their toxic relationship a long time ago, instead a life was lost. Please walk away if you’re in a relationship like this, look at their outcome.
Anyone who has been in a toxic relationship can be related to this chapter. Its important to make the right decision before its too late. My ex husband was a completely bipolar and I was becoming like him, sand and angry all the time and I got to the point where I couldn't recognise myself anymore. Every time I asked for divorce, he'll refuse but when I decided to leave, he reported me to the police for "being violent and ,apparently, trying to kill him". Thanks to God I was able to proof my innocence and what type of person he really was and is. He used my culture and race to frame me and set me up. - Advice: once the relationship becomes irrational, leave. Always trust your instincts.
I really respect & admire Brittany for giving the factual full account of what occurred & the behavior & actions she witnessed of everyone- including the victim's unpleasant actions. This is lovely example of integrity.
I clicked on the video because I live in Kentucky. I didn’t expect it to be in the town I live in. I can’t believe this is the first time I’ve heard this story.
My heart goes out to Kustons family and friends.Especially his son. I'm so sorry for their loss 😔 💐 And if you're afraid of a man you don't go back to look and see if he's chasing you. Does Kaylee even hear herself?
I am so sorry, especially for his son. This is so sad and in my opinion justice was not served. If the judge felt 4 years was sufficient, he or she should have just told her to walk! How horrific of an outcome, I am so very very sorry and sad for the family he left behind
I thought the same thing but it sounds like they live near by so maybe he was home. She said she helped him with his homework but then later says she offered to take Brittany to her house.
I wish he never, ever met her... And, stayed with his fiancé. Love for all his Loved ones, and as far as Kaylee, she deserves life. In prison, with some bread and water. Sounds awful, but she is
Wow! If it were the other way around, and she were killed by him, he’d never see the light of day again!! How sad for Kuston and his son and family😢🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yeah it's almost like men and women are different, have very different physical abilities that are considered by the court in a domestic violence fight situation.
My thoughts exactly...it would've been a LIFE sentence without parole at the least. No question. Justice system is biased towards women and built against men and people of color. It's just a fact.
Any relationship that has violence in it needs to be extinguished ASAP ! Jealousy is toxic which usually leads to horrible consequences ? You do not stab someone by mistake ? She finally lost all her composure and killed him.
If one person is at the heat of his/her temper, don't meet him/her halfway. Be the opposite. We cannot control other people but we can control our responses. If your gf/bf/spouse is emotional, be less emotional. Nothing good will ever end if both parties are angry. Sometimes shutting up is the best solution and makes you the bigger person than talking back to non sense.
I've been in a situation like this myself. We were both toxic and abusive. At times things would get ugly and we both knew it was only a matter of time before one of us would die
His mom: my first impression of her was negative because she walked in with a can of alcohol. Me walking into my mother in law's with a can of alcohol: HEYYYOOOOO. Where's mine????! My sister in law: I brought wine, Tay!! :Pours giant glass: My mom: I bought 4 new bottles of wine. Who wants some?! 😅🤣🤣😅
Yikes, they were both SUPER toxic to each other. The scary thing is, when people get to an escalated state of anger and violence, they just see red. I honestly don't even think either of them knew what was happening, it was just pure hatred between them and they should never have gotten back together. I hate saying this, but it was only a matter of time that one of them killed each other after resuming their relationship.
They always say that the victim was loved by everyone, I kind of want to come across one where they say that all the people that they interviewed kind of hated them.
That was kinda off-putting. She said she believed GOD placed her there that night to be the victim's voice of truth about what actually happened but then she kept stuttering & saying she wasn't sure about critical parts of what she supposedly witnessed. A conviction was still secured anyways, I guess.
I've seen this story so many times & I will continue to have the same opinion about it which is I don't care how much you love someone if a relationship is turning toxic LEAVE!!!!!
His heart had stopped, he was basically dead at that point, no breathing, no heart beat, restarting the heart becomes top priority, wounds don't bleed with a stopped heart. Order of operations get the heart started then worry about plugging the wound.
The pain and suffering in his son's eyes at the end when he was talking about his dad. . . Oh my gosh. My heart hurts for this baby. That monster of a woman deserves so much more than 4 years. She took that man's life, that boy's father, and did it all out of vain. I understand being in an abusive relationship, my girls father tried to kill me in front of my children, so I definitely know what it feels like being abused. But some times, more often than we know, the abuse comes from a woman and one day the man finally gets tired of being hit on, spit on, things thrown at them, ect and they are only human. They have the right to fight back. They should've ended their relationship long before this final fight that ended this mans life. WE ALL KNOW IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND HE HAD KILLED HER, THERE WOULD BE SO MUCH COVERAGE, SO MUCH HATE FOR HIM. The judge would've handed his ass to him in court if this were a black man killing his pretty white girlfriend. But nah. White privilege seriously is a thing, and it disgusts and disappoints me to my core. Bitch will not learn her lesson and I'm sure we will hear about this one again, probably in a Similar scenario, hopefully not with the same outcome though. She was not tried fairly and needs to be brought back to court and get a proper sentencing. This shit ridiculous
Obviously she deserved a harsher punishment, she killed a man 4 years is a slap on the wrist honestly. However they were both abusive and it was gonna end in disaster since they refused to leave each other. It's sad a man is dead The biggest victim is the son that has to grow up without a father.
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Once you have violence in any relationship, give it up
Ig it depends my husband and I had a lot of violence the first year together but we went to counseling and gave each other space and have been great ever since
@@dajanaihicks4682 nawh y’all don’t listen to her, the second someone raises a hand at you, kick them out because they’re a piece of shit who’ll end up killing you
@@McSnezzly that’s your opinion, it is not a fact. People can go through tumultuous times in their relationship and still come out on top. I’m also in this category. I’m a male, and my girlfriend and I have had issues, much like the woman in this video she would get anxiety and get defensive, not in the right state of mind, she would grab knives and hold them to me or herself. I would just wrestle it away because I know she wouldn’t actually try to hurt me. It comes down to miscommunication and interpretation. If you aren’t willing to forego the burden that may be put on you, then why bother even speaking on it because you know absolutely nothing about it? You have no idea of a true love. Nobody here needs to hear your weak minded opinion
@@dajanaihicks4682 Agree! Depends on everyone’s situation.
@gnr1978 forever I support mental health and I do everything in my power to help especially people I am that close with. You’re the psychopath here buddy don’t project onto me because I care about someone’s life
"I didn't stab him that hard" honey you shouldn't be stabbing him at all
Okay!
It's called self defense! A man needs to Keep his hands to himself!
You have a very valid point! However, in this specific case I think it’s definitely a bit more complicated since both parties seem to use violence as a default
@@joknows4761 yeah nobody cares that he put her in a headlock, are you kidding me?! As a DV survivor I can say both parties were at fault and very violent and toxic I wonder if they questioned any of his former gfs
Like “I only pulled the trigger once.”
“Tell me why you went back there”
“I wanted to make sure he wouldn’t grab me anymore”
…. By going up to him??????
This was clearly a two-way abusive relationship. The fact that he's doing things like putting her in a chokehold, hitting her in her face (in front of others, no less), and cutting the cables of the tv as she's trying to leave... it just shows how volatile, and violent, their dynamic was. Relationships like this often end up with one person dying or near death. Angry, violent people need to work on fixing themselves instead of trying to fix others.
Why didn't you list the things she did? Since it's a two -way street.
Two way abusive relationships does not justify her stabbing him and does not excuse the light sentence for a death. He was not violent in his past relationship which means that the violence in the new relationship was likely a dynamic she brought into the relationship and he was being reactive. Ever watched Tina Turners movie where she starts fighting back with him. That is a common dynamic that comes up in abusive relationships. My parents would get in fights but my father was the aggressor and my mother felt trapped in the dynamic. For all we know, that was their dynamic, her first being abusive and him being caught in the abusive cycle.
@@dillonyang6869 you should be given life in prison for being a racist prick. That has nothing to do with the situation, a person was killed no matter what they look like.
If you put someone in a choke hold don't be surprised if they try to kill you..They are both maniacs in this situation.
@Witty Witty he put her in a choke hold bro
I guess the fact that a “child was sleeping in a guest room” is just lost on everyone. Wtf!!
Yeah I'm sorry but both of these guys are POS I don't care what their friends say
@@suki3275 agreed, to allow relationship fights to escalate like that with other people especially a child in the home... These people were reckless
Was literally the only thing I could think of the entire time.
Right like let’s all forget about the baby 👶 damn smh
Yeah, that's what I'm focused on...... Thursday night, spending the night away from home while ma and her bf are partying..... If that's not unstable, idk what is. Hurts my heart for that baby boy.
Off and on relationships NEVER work. Why do people waste their life on an unstable relationship?
💯💯💯
They "waste" their time because they are either victims of childhood abuse or victims of the cycle of abuse which includes the "honeymoon" period and fucks with your head.
Some people live for the drama..
I do see your point. If I was in her situation, i would’ve left and not killed him, but i understand why she did it. Yes she should have left him, but sometimes it’s not easy to leave. Some of the victims are threatened to be killed if they leave, held hostage, or being monitored or tracked on a cell phone. But like i said, i understand where you’re coming from.
Like when you get a bad feeling, like your partner is getting abusive or showing signs of toxicity, hurting you, you should leave the relationship and never see them again. Better safe than sorry.
@@silly_.rabbit2 💯💯💯
"Why isn't he breathing?!" Idk maybe because you STABBED HIS CHEST?!
Those friends have my respect. I hope they don’t feel guilty for not stopping her, they obviously tried their best and I hope they have peace of mind.
This is bizarre
Toxic relationships are dangerous, alcohol and toxic relationships are a bomb just waiting to go off. This really broke my heart.
Same... poor kid.
Very true! I feel so sad for the son! Its heart breaking how fight can escalated so quickly and become deadly!
People need to stop using the cliche term “toxic relationship”.
They were mutually abusive adults who knew what they were doing. Everyone in this situation is an idiot and an asshole except his son.
@@Tsumami__ That's what toxic relationship means. They were both toxic to each other but calling them idiots I think that's little harsh. Not everyone is strong like you to walk away sooner then they should.
Yup. I did take note of him putting her down by saying she runs away, so there are two sides to this story. He put her into a headlock! That is a sign she was being abused!
They both needed to be away from each other permanently. I speak from experience when I say alcohol + abusive behavior = ticking 💣. Senseless loss.
Precisely 💯
💯 right, I just thank god my mother got out of this kind of relationship before one of them ended up dead.
They are.
She was abuse from the start.I have be no compassion for women who are narsacistst
Period.She acts like a Lori Daybell.Osrercise and lie.
Facts
She played the victim card and got away with it. That’s sick.
Heyyyy 👋
This is America’s justice system sadly
Pretty sure she was a victim, choking out,hit in the face,being beat and choked and she was protecting her life, been there,done that!
@@brendajamison9174 bruhhhh 😪
@@brendajamison9174 Literally this. She was a victim. No one should have died, but there was a lead up of "he had her in a chokehold" "he punched her right in her face" and this was IN FRONT OF a crowd.
His friend was so right had he killed her in “self defense” he would’ve went straight to prison for life
They need to stop dating beckys...never a fair trial
"Why aren't you breathing?!"
Maybe because you stabbed him....
EXACTLY LIKE DONT PLAY THE DUMB BLONDE HERE
Could be.....
She playing dumb and it's beyond annoying 🙄 like you know what you did. Stop playing victim.
No kidding. People like this should not be drinking they can’t handle themselves when under the influence. Then someone gets killed
@@sharonbrown6595 right? It's barbaric
When someone has a sucking chest wound you need to immediately roll them on their side of the wound so the other lung doesn’t start filling up with blood. Because you probably don’t likely have a pneumothorax chest seal, you need to apply pressure to the wound until the paramedics arrive. Doing chest compressions is not what you want to do with gunshots or stabs, the man isn’t having a heart attack, they are losing blood fast, the bleeding is what needs to be focused on.
That is good advice. I will keep it in mind and hopefully I never will have to use it. If I am ever in that situation though now I will know what to do. 😊
@@NikkiC777 Happy to help spread my small amount of knowledge! I am ex military and I saw the medical progression through the OEF/OIF years in regards to gunshots and shrapnel wounds. They used to teach ABC (airway, breathing, circulation) in the combat lifesaver course but now everything is bleeding first. The major risk here is rapid loss of blood leading to shock and death. Doing a "blood sweep" on the whole body is necessary to to make sure there aren't wounds you cant immediately see. If it's a large knife wound to the body thats not a lung issue, applying pressure dressings are necessary and any extremity that is bleeding profusely and especially "squirting" blood every heartbeat (arterial wound) needs an immediate tourniquet. Loss of blood is the primary focus.
Exactly. I said something similar in the comments regarding a different situation like this and got crucified. But you are absolutely right.
Thanks for the Knowledge
I actually keep a GOOD trauma kit that includes chest seals and a decompression needle, good idea if you get the training to use it
'He is always abusing me'
Also her: my life is perfect
And there's a child hearing all of this in another room.... lord have mercy
30 seconds in and I can already tell that this case will be filled with stupidity and reckless waste
How could you tell that?
Uh, I assumed he said it because of the excessive alcohol and drug abuse by adults. If she’d only listened to her female friend who tried to de-escalate the situation.
@Amanda Cuckhold go back to Twitter with your boring cookie cutter takes please
@@JosephKulik2016 why'd you put your email at the end lmao
@Amanda Cuckhold it was more to do with the sheer number of partners and the prevalence of drugs in the story but ok.
Like my brother once told me, "If it gets to the yelling, screaming, phase. It's time to break up! No, if and or buts about it!"
Good point 🎯👍🏼😉
True!
that's Good bro.
First comes arguing and fighting, then the screaming, and then the physical harm.
I agree. Time to move on
Praying for this precious young man and his mama!!! Growing up without a daddy is one of the hardest things one can endure 💝
NO ONE deserves to loose their life in such a nonsense way!!! NO ONE deserves to be punched in the face, especially by someone who out weighs you and is physically stronger.
People keep your damn hands to yourself.
Had he killed her by accident, he would have given a more severe sentence..
@Akbar Shabazz-Jenkins unfortunately. They would have found a way to blame her even if she was dead.. or portray her as crazy etc.
@IThinkTheFuckNot YouTrickAssBitch ? Speak so you can be understood
@@fabulousprincess603 Well, yall are blaming him and he dead.
Exactly
@@theloquaciouslady he had something to do with it though, he is not innocent. Thank God your not a lawyer
Obviously this isn’t the first time their friends saw them get physical with each other. Cause if my friend and their partner was having a physical fight I wouldn’t be like “come on stop it”. I would have also called the police immediately.
Yeah, that was my initial reaction but then I imagine the scenario: cops show up, white woman alleges domestic violence, everyone is drunk as a skunk, situation escalates...
In his case, there was a real chance he would've ended up shot by cop if they had've called so I completely understand why they didn't.
No kidding!!!!! This is what I thought too!!
Sadly that isn't how it works in some black households. We solve it internally which doesn't work.
We should call the cops, but we rarely do.
You got it sweetie. What the hell is wrong with $o called friends these days.?
Yesss girl! They were acting like it was normal for him to be beating her in front of them 🤬🤦♀️
Let me get this right, you witness your friends fighting each other it’s beginning to get out of hand, but you never think to call the police.
They scared of the wyte privilege card
@@vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192 they probably were use to it, or didn’t want to get him in trouble because he put his hands on her first
My heart breaks for his son. Seeing the pain on his face. This man was a good father to his boy and was viciously taken away from his loved ones. Four years for murder. Wow!!
Domestic violence escalates, a person dies, someone goes to prison, a young man is forced to grow up without the guidance of his father. About the only thing I can take away from this story is that the child is the real victim here. My hope is that he learns from his father’s death and never settles for an abusive relationship.
His father was an abuser too. And don’t blame people for being in an abusive relationship
@@sexylexi9579 Don’t blame people???? Are you speaking to me? I know you’re not because how dare you!
@B RR yes I am. I still say the children are the real victims. Sorry if you don’t agree but that’s my opinion.
They were both toxic and abusive. Add alcohol. I agree with the sentence for that reason. This was a mutual thing. The victim here is yes the child.
@@cradames 💯
If it was the other way round, Kuston would have been given life in Prison without possibility of parole.
OJ Simpson laughs
Please dont make this into a race issue. But I do agree in domestic situations, women tend to get off easier. But in this specific case, I understand. I think she should be charged with involuntary manslaughter. She was fighting back, showing him she wasn't going to allow her self to be an abuse victim anymore. She had obv never used a knife that big before in a fight, and didn't intend for the wound to be so large it kills him.
@@MoonBeamLaser OJ Simpson was an exception due to his societal status, connections, and unbelievably expensive team of lawyers. (As well as the prosecutions flubbed “smoking gun”). He is the anomaly not the baseline. Additionally, he pled not guilty so it’s not even comparable to this specific case.
@@user-zh8xj1yd3f fair point
@@Anonymous-ry1jb did someone delete a comment I didnt see? Literally no one brought up race except you
Watching these episodes makes me want to stay single.
So sad....the mother seems so sweet and classy in her mannerisms. Now she's forever broken over the loss of her son. Rip Kuston
I love how his bby mom spoke of him she has a nice heart
Too bad they didn’t stay together. He would still be alive.
@@DottieMinerva i agree
He had to have that side chick. To stupid to know a good thing when he had it
@@DottieMinerva no, she was smart to leave his woman beating ass.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 if he wasn’t doing it with his exes then it’s very possible the relationship brought out the worst in both parties.
I agree that is not long enough time for killing a person especially when she went after him again in the bedroom. This sentence really sucks.
Yeah but the reality is once she serves her time, nobody is going to hire her upon a background check.
If her lawyer were any good, she shouldn't have got charged with anything. A man twice her size put her in a headlock and punched her, when he should've just called the police.
@@Nunya_Beezwax Exactly
I wish she had just ran after he hit her
@@Nunya_Beezwax Despite the testimonies of the witnesses, you're still sticking to the killer's first story(that was debunked as false by the police as shown in this video BTW)? In the chokehold scenario, the lady witness said she told him to release her, which he did & the knife was removed completely from both of their reach. In the stabbing scenario, there was no chokehold & the attack was unexpected before the killer went again for the knife & intentionally inflicted damage.
All this was narrated in this video but here you are still positing on an obsolete tip!
If he would have killed her, they woulda sent him straight to death row. My heart aches for that man. 4 years for taking his life??? No justice at all!
EXACTLY
No, not in ky. He wouldn't have got death.
OJ said whats up. You see a version the program wants you to. He put her in a headlock. Whats to say that wasn't normal?
Exactly and in 4 years she'll be free living her best life and his son will grow up with no father. Sad.
If this was vice versa, he would’ve been slapped with premeditated murder and murder in the first degree.
4 years right? 😔 I wonder how many years he would’ve gotten with the roles reversed 🤔?. Fuck the system.
Life, no doubt with
BLACK MAN, Let that be a lesson
Inappropriate use of a kitchen knife, second degree.
Probably about 4 years.
WELLLL....
I hate to say it, but both of them sound toxic. The idea too of this is just 'you know people disagree with each other' its like no. thats not a disagreement... these two should've not been around each other period.
exactly one of them would eventually kill the other
@@jujubeanmdz Yup... >.< and either way, the victims family would've probably blamed the person who was alive, and said they should've known better... Its sad.
Exactly you know this wasn't the first time they threw hands at each other.
Obviously 🙄 Still, you don't fcking kill someone 🤬
@@MindyBeee Duh. I never said it gives you the right. I'm saying it could've gone either way.
My heart goes out to the young man who lost his. Bless his heart. I pray he goes on to do great things in his Dad's memory 🙏
4yrs? Not even remotely fair! I feel so bad for his son and family, I hope they are doing well.
Every time someone is the life of the party, they die!
Dont be the life of the party kids
Don't go around lighting up rooms with your smile either! 😁
Glad I’m a wallflower.
True , the most popular kids died from my highschool
Strange curse 🤷🏻♀️
@@misscyanic2484 so glad I never smile. All jokes aside, this case is horrible and so was her "sentence." She deserves so much more.
Wow this one is crazy... hopefully more people talk about this case cause it's a big example of what a toxic relationship can turn into if it's prolonged
Not only that, but how a WHITE FEMALE kills a BLACK MALE and ONLY gets 4 years. Justice has NOT been served. Think about it.
The ending with his son just broke my heart. The whole thing is a massive injustice.
"if the shoe was on the other foot, he would have been trial to cellblock in an instant."
Aint that the truth in so many aspects
"I didn't stab him that hard". Only takes 3" depth to reach the heart and about 30-40lbs/square inch of pressure. Best not to be stabbing people in the chest.
Four years? That’s a joke! She killed him!
The system is whacked 💯
Blonde white woman, what do you expect?
@@nevio2658 somehow I think him punching her, choking her and putting her in a headlock had more to do with the ruling then her hair color and race, but hey a chance to bash white people right?
@@MA__ I mean, it's literally backed up with statistics. White women by far are sentenced to the least amount of time for the exact same crimes. Maybe educate yourself on the bias of your own justice system?
@@nevio2658 maybe educate yourself about how prior convictions are considered for sentencing
Bro that dude is super chill on that 911 call.
This is tragic. Look I could sympathize with someone killing someone in self defense, or accidently killing someone in a fit of rage (cheating partner, catching molester in action etc), or a true psychotic break (postpartum depression, caretaker no longer able to watch their love one suffer with a disease)....but this woman had morbid posts about her bf and kept changing her recollection of events....she did it on purpose, no matter how regretful she felt in the moment she realize he was actually dying, I truly believe she wanted him to die. RIP and blessings to your family to have the strength to get through this injustice.
So many cherished family members lost to senseless violence how tragic
The ex-fiancee is in denial. There was two-way abuse going on.
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True all of these other people should realize this it was both of their faults but she still shouldn't have stabbed him..
After busting his face opened in his home you would think that reality would set in and she would just leave.
If he was violent and abusive towards her he would still b alive... cause if gave me gash to my head the bitch would b unconscious
Really u have evidence to backup that bullshit assumption???
I'm still shocked at only 4 years smh.
The son is so lovely. His parents did a good job and he is a great testament to his father's memory. Kaylee should have this burdening her consciences forever. She should have served a longer sentence.
“why’s he not breathing ?” uhhh cus you stabbed him...
@Weghweh Hwewehwhe I don't think it is easy to "fake" and think of covering your tracks like that when drunk tho. I think she was sincere. Stupid, but sincere.
@Eli Elijah Talking shit someone can easily do and is likely to do when drunk.
Focusing on an alibi as you call 911 like she did would be much more difficult to do. Remember he was trying to kill her too. He had her in a headlock for godsakes. That shit is scary as hell and I go ass crazy when someone tries to inhibit my breathing. Then you won't have me thinking straight if/when you let go. That triggers the hell outta anyone.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
The friend yelled that. . I don’t think she realized he was stabbed
Dammm this is crazy asf and who else is addicted to watching these 😭
Mee! I'm addicted to these since late February of this year. I love hearing Chris Hansen voice 😍
@Anshuman Baruah ?
Me!
@@abrahambrambila7920 huh
true crime fan for more than one year and I wonder how I didn't watch it before !!! Was reaally missing out on something lol.
Man, that little snippet at the end where the son shares his pain had me in tears. I'm sure this relationship wasn't great even when they were sober but the alcohol was/is a huge issue for many couples. I think there prolly would have been a lot less fights if it weren't a factor. And I also think this young man may still have hos father here. Prayers going out to him and the rest of his loved ones 🙏
this is so sad, just horrible to hear, sending love and healings prayers for ,her family and friends.
Don't punch your girlfriend but when the situation is already in a descalatation zone, don't stab your boyfriend.
And if you were put into a headlock, then punched? Would you walk away? Smh
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 If it is someone I love, yes I would, I wouldn't nagging the other person and I am a advocate for descalatation.
If you are someone I don't really know, you wouldn't be able to put me in a headlock in the first place.
So what are you saying? The punch and the stab are both justified?
@@carlroy you didn't answer my question. Don't dodge it.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 they’re both toxic and made horrific choices. They are both wrong. Obviously she made the worse choice 100%.
If he would have survived they both should have gone to jail. Obviously her for longer because she STABBED him. But if the other people weren’t there to stop it who’s to say he would have let her out of the headlock? That night was the breaking point.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 I will never stab anyone I love. And I won't punch my girlfriend, I taught my answer was clear. I don't know what stupid point you are trying to make.
If we speak about that particular situation, she wasn't alone and there was people to help in that situation. The knives shit is not justified, not in that specific situation.
This was very sad. They should’ve walked away from their toxic relationship a long time ago, instead a life was lost. Please walk away if you’re in a relationship like this, look at their outcome.
Don’t blame victims
This is so heartbreaking 😢 💔
Anyone who has been in a toxic relationship can be related to this chapter. Its important to make the right decision before its too late. My ex husband was a completely bipolar and I was becoming like him, sand and angry all the time and I got to the point where I couldn't recognise myself anymore. Every time I asked for divorce, he'll refuse but when I decided to leave, he reported me to the police for "being violent and ,apparently, trying to kill him". Thanks to God I was able to proof my innocence and what type of person he really was and is. He used my culture and race to frame me and set me up. - Advice: once the relationship becomes irrational, leave. Always trust your instincts.
The pain in his poor young sons eyes . So sad.
A very toxic relationship that ended in a tragic way 😔😭
I’m not even gone say it… but history just keeps repeating itself 😅
They didn’t get justice, she got away with murder only getting 4 yrs!! What a joke!!
I feel like "off and on" generally means your relationship is not working.
Toxic relationships are horrible, they never end well. It goes smooth for a minute and then it goes bad. The worst is when kids are involved.
I really respect & admire Brittany for giving the factual full account of what occurred & the behavior & actions she witnessed of everyone- including the victim's unpleasant actions. This is lovely example of integrity.
If “when your type doesn’t want you” was a person
I clicked on the video because I live in Kentucky. I didn’t expect it to be in the town I live in. I can’t believe this is the first time I’ve heard this story.
Lucky you, this is the 3rd time I've seen this incident...on this channel.
frl bru as soon as they said bg i was shocked
Is why I clicked on it also n I hadn't heard of it either.
My heart goes out to Kustons family and friends.Especially his son. I'm so sorry for their loss 😔 💐
And if you're afraid of a man you don't go back to look and see if he's chasing you. Does Kaylee even hear herself?
Amen 🙏👊
Four years? Abusive relationships never end well. Just leave the other person!
I am so sorry, especially for his son. This is so sad and in my opinion justice was not served. If the judge felt 4 years was sufficient, he or she should have just told her to walk! How horrific of an outcome, I am so very very sorry and sad for the family he left behind
Brittany’s son was in the house when all that happened? Can’t imagine he slept through it
Probably used to them fighting, very sad.
Use to it.
I thought the same thing but it sounds like they live near by so maybe he was home. She said she helped him with his homework but then later says she offered to take Brittany to her house.
This is crazy she should have left not stab him
He could have walked away too....
I wish he never, ever met her... And, stayed with his fiancé. Love for all his Loved ones, and as far as Kaylee, she deserves life. In prison, with some bread and water.
Sounds awful, but she is
@@AlexaCBrown he was no angel either. He was abusive.
Yeah she seemed like an emotionally unstable and violent person
@@kittyb275 That's his house, he packed her shit and told her to leave.
4yrs? For murder? What a slap in the face 😳
I love how we hear that she grabbed the knife before he hit her and during the recap they made it a point to say he hit her then she grabbed the knife
Oh so 2 abusers? That definitely won't end well lol
Wow! If it were the other way around, and she were killed by him, he’d never see the light of day again!! How sad for Kuston and his son and family😢🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Not anymore murder is murder 💯
Nah murder is murder wether its a man or woman !
@Jericho Bravecat good example 💯
Yeah she’s a woman. Big difference. He a grown As man and could have walked away too.
@@goodpumpum656 they all have that same opportunity male or female 💯
4 Years, Wow. That's pretty much the same sentence as misdemeanor theft. What a miscarriage of justice.
Omg I am literally 20 minutes from Bowling Green Ky ... I am in Franklin Ky and this was such a sad story... So so sad
Imagine what his prison sentence would have been if this situation was reversed.
Honestly though, his family didn’t get any kind of justice. Just pathetic.
EXACTLY my thought
Yeah it's almost like men and women are different, have very different physical abilities that are considered by the court in a domestic violence fight situation.
My thoughts exactly...it would've been a LIFE sentence without parole at the least. No question. Justice system is biased towards women and built against men and people of color. It's just a fact.
You saying it’s a fact doesn’t make it so. People are sentenced based on the crime and their past criminal history. Race has nothing to do with it.
That’s some garbage behavior on both of their parts. There was a child there too.
Trashy.
Any relationship that has violence in it needs to be extinguished ASAP ! Jealousy is toxic which usually leads to horrible consequences ? You do not stab someone by mistake ? She finally lost all her composure and killed him.
Only four years!!! That's disgusting!! She should have got life!!
If one person is at the heat of his/her temper, don't meet him/her halfway. Be the opposite. We cannot control other people but we can control our responses. If your gf/bf/spouse is emotional, be less emotional. Nothing good will ever end if both parties are angry. Sometimes shutting up is the best solution and makes you the bigger person than talking back to non sense.
Be the better person and walk away
I'd know and call cops on yourself if necessary. It's ok to ask for help. Self reflection prevents violence escalation
!!
I've been in a situation like this myself. We were both toxic and abusive. At times things would get ugly and we both knew it was only a matter of time before one of us would die
I hope you are safe and in a better place now.
@@Adoubless I am ❤ thanks
Same
I’m so glad you got out ❤️ stay safe, you are beautiful!
I hear u hunny. Left a few months ago, best decision of my life
His mom: my first impression of her was negative because she walked in with a can of alcohol.
Me walking into my mother in law's with a can of alcohol: HEYYYOOOOO. Where's mine????!
My sister in law: I brought wine, Tay!! :Pours giant glass:
My mom: I bought 4 new bottles of wine. Who wants some?!
😅🤣🤣😅
I feel like that's a weird thing to judge someone on. Many people drink, and it doesn't make them a bad person.
Yikes, they were both SUPER toxic to each other. The scary thing is, when people get to an escalated state of anger and violence, they just see red. I honestly don't even think either of them knew what was happening, it was just pure hatred between them and they should never have gotten back together. I hate saying this, but it was only a matter of time that one of them killed each other after resuming their relationship.
You're making your father proud, Kyle. Just keep pushing forward, you're gunna do great things. Much ❤ & respect. 💯
4 years?? DISGUSTING! The poor son.☹️💕
Wow, she got 4 yrs for killing someone. That’s nuts. The justice system sucks.
Me: i'm just gonna watch one more
Also Me: *This one looks really interesting! I wonder what happened*
They always say that the victim was loved by everyone, I kind of want to come across one where they say that all the people that they interviewed kind of hated them.
There's a true crime TH-camr named deadbug who is a lot more real about the victims than channels like this. Not for the easily offended
@@MA__ just search for that name or chNnel?
LOL true but kind of terrible
@@MA__ thanks for that
Lit up the room, every single time
Eye witness saying "I THINK" is no good sis. Your credibly will go out the window in court.
That was kinda off-putting. She said she believed GOD placed her there that night to be the victim's voice of truth about what actually happened but then she kept stuttering & saying she wasn't sure about critical parts of what she supposedly witnessed. A conviction was still secured anyways, I guess.
Thanks ~
💋 so sad. Reminds us all to be gracious, walk away and appreciate those who really love us.
I've seen this story so many times & I will continue to have the same opinion about it which is I don't care how much you love someone if a relationship is turning toxic LEAVE!!!!!
💯💯💯
Yep or one of you may not live to tell the tale later on.
Both were toxic. One of went even farther
@@Jinxs-Journey exactly
@@raf686 Agreed
It is ridiculous that she got such a light sentence!!!
I pray for his son and other loved ones.
Light sentences are given too white woman especially when they kill a black man
She didn’t stab him because she was afraid, she stabbed him out of rage. She is guilty simple as that.
If he had a stab wound to the chest/lung, I would have been reluctant to advise chest compressions.
This woman is nuts - WHO got "mean and abusive"??
His heart had stopped, he was basically dead at that point, no breathing, no heart beat, restarting the heart becomes top priority, wounds don't bleed with a stopped heart. Order of operations get the heart started then worry about plugging the wound.
The pain and suffering in his son's eyes at the end when he was talking about his dad. . . Oh my gosh. My heart hurts for this baby. That monster of a woman deserves so much more than 4 years. She took that man's life, that boy's father, and did it all out of vain. I understand being in an abusive relationship, my girls father tried to kill me in front of my children, so I definitely know what it feels like being abused. But some times, more often than we know, the abuse comes from a woman and one day the man finally gets tired of being hit on, spit on, things thrown at them, ect and they are only human. They have the right to fight back. They should've ended their relationship long before this final fight that ended this mans life.
WE ALL KNOW IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND HE HAD KILLED HER, THERE WOULD BE SO MUCH COVERAGE, SO MUCH HATE FOR HIM. The judge would've handed his ass to him in court if this were a black man killing his pretty white girlfriend. But nah. White privilege seriously is a thing, and it disgusts and disappoints me to my core. Bitch will not learn her lesson and I'm sure we will hear about this one again, probably in a Similar scenario, hopefully not with the same outcome though. She was not tried fairly and needs to be brought back to court and get a proper sentencing.
This shit ridiculous
I feel so bad for this family! They didn’t deserve to lose their loved one like that! No one ever does!!!
You're addicted to these two 😂
@@PrincessZaire100 yes 🤦🏾♀️
And the 4 year sentence makes it worse.
Obviously she deserved a harsher punishment, she killed a man 4 years is a slap on the wrist honestly. However they were both abusive and it was gonna end in disaster since they refused to leave each other. It's sad a man is dead The biggest victim is the son that has to grow up without a father.
“wasnt fearing for her life” *also gets put in a headlock getting choked out and hit*
yea if a guy is continuing to put hands on me and everyone is just watching, he might get stabbed