The best part about same-gender relationships to me is the variety of options, and how everyone does it differently. Plus, there’s less likely to be cultural baggage of who is supposed to do what in the relationship (including bedroom stuff).
I love your content! Thank you! I would love to see a video on the topic of “unwanted consensual” sex when you are closeted and in a hetro relationship. I believe I have truama from all the years of not listening to my body and forcing myself to have sex with my husband out of guilt and wanting to do what was right. Coming out at 34 now, and looking back at the severe anxiety I felt when he wanted sex. And also still dealing with unwanted resentment toward him. A video on this topic would be awesome!
I fully agree with what you said. Also I always feel that the first time with someone is a "first time" because everyone has such different tastes and physical sensitivity. So yeah you might know how to do some things...but you always have to learn your partner. So to say. This is why i find ons to be very uncomfortable and not my cup of tea.
There is always so much pressure that first time, too (or can be, anyway). Sex and exploring needs to be fun if it is something you spend time doing, when that pressure shows up it definitely steals some of that joy! 💛💛
I got there are principles that stretch across. However, I am male 64 and have been with both for roughly 7 years. Thus, the late bloomer and consider myself bi but questioning if I am not gay. Could on occasion talk about men and bisexuality. Also blend in gay as well. Thanks
How do you prepare for sex with a homosexual partner for the very first time? I am older age wise and I am also new to queer/gay relationships. As a whole I am more into a emotional connection with my partner I date, but I am also open to satisfying my own sexual needs too.
Thank you for your helpful content, Kelly.
The best part about same-gender relationships to me is the variety of options, and how everyone does it differently. Plus, there’s less likely to be cultural baggage of who is supposed to do what in the relationship (including bedroom stuff).
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I love your content! Thank you! I would love to see a video on the topic of “unwanted consensual” sex when you are closeted and in a hetro relationship. I believe I have truama from all the years of not listening to my body and forcing myself to have sex with my husband out of guilt and wanting to do what was right. Coming out at 34 now, and looking back at the severe anxiety I felt when he wanted sex. And also still dealing with unwanted resentment toward him. A video on this topic would be awesome!
I fully agree with what you said. Also I always feel that the first time with someone is a "first time" because everyone has such different tastes and physical sensitivity. So yeah you might know how to do some things...but you always have to learn your partner. So to say. This is why i find ons to be very uncomfortable and not my cup of tea.
There is always so much pressure that first time, too (or can be, anyway). Sex and exploring needs to be fun if it is something you spend time doing, when that pressure shows up it definitely steals some of that joy! 💛💛
Very useful points, thank you. Just noticed your nose piercing, cute.
Thank you 😊
I got there are principles that stretch across. However, I am male 64 and have been with both for roughly 7 years. Thus, the late bloomer and consider myself bi but questioning if I am not gay. Could on occasion talk about men and bisexuality. Also blend in gay as well. Thanks
I can fully relate to whatever you discussed here
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Great points made
Thank you! And thanks for watching! 🧡🧡🧡
How do you prepare for sex with a homosexual partner for the very first time? I am older age wise and I am also new to queer/gay relationships. As a whole I am more into a emotional connection with my partner I date, but I am also open to satisfying my own sexual needs too.