#grabbed- my partner (who i've had a lot of issues with recently) came home in the mood for arguing, and in order to process my feelings on it i went to my canvas and started painting out a meditation. i do abstract work with rounded edges. recently i tried out a style of sharp edges (it looks really cool). last night, as mars opposite venus was getting into its swing, i had the idea to combine the round and the sharp styles into one painting. i really love it, honestly. as i worked on smoothing out the edges here, and straightening out the edges there, coloring in a happy palette of colors that meshed well with the whole, and placing a boundary edge of black around the whole thing, it felt like i was working out something in my relationship, in my mars-venus, at the same time.
“Revising old conflicts in relationships” is such an excellent summary of what I am feeling and witnessing-how to balance perhaps righteous anger with the constructive hopes I have for expressing and metabolizing it. This moment can inspire some myopia but requires a longer view of the story arc.
Adam .. I’ve been following you for a long time. Every night. Except weekends! lol but I wish I could! You have single handedly changed my life with your insight! I’ve learned so much in so many years that all I wanna do is learn everything from you ! And you only! I love your soul!
I pay a lot of attention to decanic placements because of my Tarot work. Venus is in her own decan of Aquarius. The Tarot card associated with that decan is the 5 of Swords, a card that designates living something deeply enough that one might be willing to harm others and make enemies in its name. Mars is in the Saturn ruled Decan of Leo with the 5 of Wands, different factions trying to gain influence while denying it to everyone else. Meanwhile, Jupiter is in the Mars ruled decan of Gemini, 9 of Swords = nightmares and worries, and Mercury is in his own decan of Sagittarius, 8 of wands, some kind of resolution is coming. Hopefully a good ine. Mars retro may have no choice but to cool his jets while Jupiter retrograde could maybe dial back his big ideas before someone gets hurt. Hope so.
I have that Pluto moving into my house 5 next to Venus. So, manifestation today was pipes at school exploded and we ended up with sewage on the floor, and all the kids got to go home early!
Another great episode, thank you! I’ve already donated to the kickstarter and I encourage all of you who enjoy this content to do the same. Thank you to everyone at Nightlight!
I JUST started dating an woman who is an Aquarius sun and Venus and I’m a Scorpio sun and Venus! But her Mars is in Scorpio and mine is on Leo… we are literally having this opposition right now… her Venus is in 3 degrees my mars in 7!!! But we had like a 5 hour conversation last night! lol 🤷🏽♀️
So… the first thing you asked her about was planets and signs? Weird… I would’ve run away-but not before teasing you about astrology. Even though I follow some astrology topics myself, it’s a bit much to bring that up so early in a relationship. Good luck! 😂
Thank you, Adam. I felt this tension a few days ago. I have been going to this beauty salon for several months, and I really like the gal who does my hair. However, when she cuts it, it does not achieve the look I desire. Instead of telling her immediately to tweak it, I just live with it. (I have a very hard time asserting myself) Well a couple days ago, I was so mad I was looking for another salon, but instead I decided to call my salon to see if she could re cut my hair . Mars helped me be assertive, and I was able to articulate to her how I wanted it, and she achieved it beautifully! Oh! And #5 on the list, I'm thinking of joining a ukulele club 😉
I like the way you presented this dichotomy so much !! I’m not a fan of flat lining uniqueness nor am I fan of those that mistreat others due to entitlement~ I’ve noticed these themes ALL over the news~ and I must say~ it’s overwhelming some of the dilemmas popping up~ Rape, murder, trafficking, fake marriage scams ~ seriously, Adam~ this complexity is a BIG deal to balance. Thank you ❤️🌺🙏
Venus in Aqua to Mars in Leo, " you are not the exception and there is nothing special about your situation" , LOVE IT , Venus in ♒ native here, thanks for making me laugh with this vid 😂❤
Wow, spot on!! Yesterday I imposed my Venusian will upon the Mars ego of my estranged partner about giving our personal power over to spiritual leaders and religious figures. I said so in a succinct comment on his Facebook post, and his response was to block me!! My natal Venus is in Scorpio, his is in Aquarius. My natal Mars is in Leo, his is in Capricorn conjunct my natal Mercury. It's definitely an old conflict.
LOVED the "bend the knee" metaphor, especially since the original Greek name for Libra's constellation was "Chelae" for the "Claws" of Scorpio...which makes me think of Khaleesi from GoT...which also seems very fitting for this Venus/Mars opposition.
Oh Adam! What a pertinent perception of all these multiple interactions between planets. I couldn’t have done it better to resume my own romantic situation with Venus in my 9th (conjunct natal Sun and NN, and Pluto conjunct my MC) and Mars in my 3th. The only difference is that it could have taken 3 days for me to give the detailed explanation when you brilliantly did that in 15 min! 😂😂 Yeah, power of archetypes! 👍🏻❤❤❤
A mini #grabbed - Yesterday as I was putting on my perfume, the cap, which has small glass tube attached to the inside to use as an applicator, slipped out of my hand. The glass shattered all over the floor in my bedroom. At the moment it was just annoying until I went, ¨Wait a minute, this is Mars-Venus!!" And sure enough, listening to you now, it was basically JUST as it went exact 😉
Yesterday was rough. Aquarius Moon. Saggy raising 🐎this example of mars submission to venus applies to most businesses. Rules are rules and people do not change the rules only companies. I live in this world 🌍
Natal Aqua sun conj. Venus at 4 deg 10h with Mars(R) 0degrees Moon 8 degrees 4th house & Saturn(R) 28 degrees 5th house in Leo….Jupiter(R) 27 in Gemini…..you have soooo accurately described my internal struggles. The daily battle between my head & my heart 💜
Omg, you just described my situation at work. Been in the same position for years and fighting to be recognised. Funnily enough, when I (Scorpio Sun) decided that is time to leave, my boss (a Libra rising playing the Venus) is also leaving. Hopefully, his sucessor will do better, but I am still going to take everything I feel entitled due by by effort. he was so focus on the rules of fairness that he disregarded the exceptions in my situation ending up creating unfairness by being rigid in his fairness. Such an irony and loss for both sides.
Yes exactly. The light in the face of opposition! The tension that sparks the fire of possibility! 🥰😍🤩Best insight yet! Use your tension for good people.
When you were speaking of the mutual receptions and the bounds I couldn’t help but think of the upcoming full moon, of course bringing in again Jupiter and Mercury as well as Leo and Cancer, and the Mars Rx in Leo that will be Rx’ing back into Cancer. I believe the moon will be in the Mars bound as well. Not sure if you end up going there in this video but def even more playing into these energies. I haven’t plugged into Nightlight in a few weeks so it’s nice to be back! ✨
Look, there’s a time and a place to discuss the nuanced points that Mars needs to stress. However, there is a bigger picture starting point for the more granular conversations, and that’s what Venus is leading. So, for the sake of reorienting the conversation to where it needs to start, and ultimately for Venus to take the lead in doing so, instead of catering to Mars, letting him lead the conversation and asking him permission to lead, Venus is leading the conversation to the bigger picture starting point and away from the proliferation of nuance that will cause confusion and result in false statements complicate an already sensitive dynamic . We can talk about the nuanced points after we align on the bigger picture. This bigger picture also lays the foundation for engagement with people/the collective. Mars’s nuanced experiences thwart equitable engagement with the people that need to be engaged. So, Venus is leading the argument for the sake of the equity and to allow the collective to engage rather than showcasing Mars’s nuanced points that deter engagement and thwart benefits being directed to the collective. (I avoided saying exactly the thing I am dealing with, but this is exactly what is going on at my job right now. I’m female, Taurus sun and Venus with a Libra moon)
Hi Adam, I remember a few months ago you were looking for other astrologers to work with. I've been following Gary O'Toole of Timeline Astrology for a while now. I don't practice Vedic astrology but he has a pleasant style and a keen understanding of his craft. I thought the two of you might go well together for a collaboration as you did with Ari recently, just an idea.
On the 11th, I worked on my "to do list" for 10 hours, and at the end of the day, I was so exhausted but I constructed a Christmas wreath, all that was done because I had surgery scheduled for the 12th, but then early on the 12th I got a call from the surgeon asking to reschedule for the 13th. LOL..
I have a Mars / Venus opposition natally. I'm extremely familiar with this energy. A life lived in juxtaposition. 😂 Thank you, Adam, for this articulate breakdown. This particular transiting opposition is in a square to my natal opposition. Good times! 😂🎉👏🏻🫶🏼💫🪐❤️🩷
How well does this tension between Mars-Venus/Leo-Aquarius with a sprinkle of Mercury-Jupiter describe the collective reaction to the UHC shooter?! Love to see it
There has been a lot of business men wanting 'special treatment' at my place of employment, privileged pricing, prioritized production, me, me, me, me, while the comoany I am with is both relocating and maintaining production with me (female) gatekeeping this stuff so giving them the standard please just submit your details we will get your estimate and designti to you promptly and very satisfactory to expedited and quality work especially under the circumstances but that is the standard we have for everyone - when everyone is special, the entitled don't feel special
From my pairs of shoes and the studies I worked through in the past years, there is an important statement to make. Venus is divine feminine energy; she cannot project onto someone per se. The only thing the solar and lunar divine feminine energy or aspect within us can do is reflect back to the divine masculine aspect energy that he projects outward. That's a fact. She has never done anything else, and she will never do anything else because she just is; she just exists. It may be difficult to understand, but she is only the space between the masculine principle. And she is only triggered into something through the masculine principle. She sleeps in her dream until he wakes her up to her dream. Until then, she is just an observer, a sleepy one, though. The divine masculine principle is only waking up to her if he has drifted away from his authentic self. This is the only place she can hold him within because this is the only place he allows expansion and peace. If he starts to feel the separation from his divine feminine principle, he becomes restless.
The tension is high but am sadly unable to turn this conflict into play as we are 1000 miles apart. In other circumstances, could have transformed into great sex and new ideas birthed but other factors prohibit this so it will be interesting to observe how we manage this transit individually.
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#grabbed- my partner (who i've had a lot of issues with recently) came home in the mood for arguing, and in order to process my feelings on it i went to my canvas and started painting out a meditation. i do abstract work with rounded edges. recently i tried out a style of sharp edges (it looks really cool). last night, as mars opposite venus was getting into its swing, i had the idea to combine the round and the sharp styles into one painting. i really love it, honestly. as i worked on smoothing out the edges here, and straightening out the edges there, coloring in a happy palette of colors that meshed well with the whole, and placing a boundary edge of black around the whole thing, it felt like i was working out something in my relationship, in my mars-venus, at the same time.
“Revising old conflicts in relationships” is such an excellent summary of what I am feeling and witnessing-how to balance perhaps righteous anger with the constructive hopes I have for expressing and metabolizing it. This moment can inspire some myopia but requires a longer view of the story arc.
well said.
Adam .. I’ve been following you for a long time. Every night. Except weekends! lol but I wish I could!
You have single handedly changed my life with your insight! I’ve learned so much in so many years that all I wanna do is learn everything from you ! And you only! I love your soul!
I pay a lot of attention to decanic placements because of my Tarot work. Venus is in her own decan of Aquarius. The Tarot card associated with that decan is the 5 of Swords, a card that designates living something deeply enough that one might be willing to harm others and make enemies in its name. Mars is in the Saturn ruled Decan of Leo with the 5 of Wands, different factions trying to gain influence while denying it to everyone else. Meanwhile, Jupiter is in the Mars ruled decan of Gemini, 9 of Swords = nightmares and worries, and Mercury is in his own decan of Sagittarius, 8 of wands, some kind of resolution is coming. Hopefully a good ine. Mars retro may have no choice but to cool his jets while Jupiter retrograde could maybe dial back his big ideas before someone gets hurt. Hope so.
I have that Pluto moving into my house 5 next to Venus. So, manifestation today was pipes at school exploded and we ended up with sewage on the floor, and all the kids got to go home early!
Another great episode, thank you! I’ve already donated to the kickstarter and I encourage all of you who enjoy this content to do the same. Thank you to everyone at Nightlight!
Thanks so much for delineating these beautiful story lines. Like a great detective or bloodhound hot on the trail. Great stuff !!
I JUST started dating an woman who is an Aquarius sun and Venus and I’m a Scorpio sun and Venus! But her Mars is in Scorpio and mine is on Leo… we are literally having this opposition right now… her Venus is in 3 degrees my mars in 7!!! But we had like a 5 hour conversation last night! lol 🤷🏽♀️
Star match imo! 😍
The most brilliant signs of the zodiac.
@@nadineshone5188 I think so too! Thank you!
@@YannahYahyel I agree! All the fixed signs are brilliant imho!
So… the first thing you asked her about was planets and signs? Weird… I would’ve run away-but not before teasing you about astrology. Even though I follow some astrology topics myself, it’s a bit much to bring that up so early in a relationship. Good luck! 😂
Thank you, Adam.
I felt this tension a few days ago. I have been going to this beauty salon for several months, and I really like the gal who does my hair. However, when she cuts it, it does not achieve the look I desire. Instead of telling her immediately to tweak it, I just live with it. (I have a very hard time asserting myself) Well a couple days ago, I was so mad I was looking for another salon, but instead I decided to call my salon to see if she could re cut my hair . Mars helped me be assertive, and I was able to articulate to her how I wanted it, and she achieved it beautifully!
Oh! And #5 on the list, I'm thinking of joining a ukulele club 😉
❤love your talks! Always so grounded and insightful
I like the way you presented this dichotomy so much !! I’m not a fan of flat lining uniqueness nor am I fan of those that mistreat others due to entitlement~
I’ve noticed these themes ALL over the news~ and I must say~ it’s overwhelming some of the dilemmas popping up~
Rape, murder, trafficking, fake marriage scams ~ seriously, Adam~ this complexity is a BIG deal to balance. Thank you
❤️🌺🙏
Awesomeness on how to be a leader
Take the read and of creativity in the midst of tension. Ty
Venus in Aqua to Mars in Leo, " you are not the exception and there is nothing special about your situation" , LOVE IT , Venus in ♒ native here, thanks for making me laugh with this vid 😂❤
Wow, spot on!! Yesterday I imposed my Venusian will upon the Mars ego of my estranged partner about giving our personal power over to spiritual leaders and religious figures. I said so in a succinct comment on his Facebook post, and his response was to block me!! My natal Venus is in Scorpio, his is in Aquarius. My natal Mars is in Leo, his is in Capricorn conjunct my natal Mercury. It's definitely an old conflict.
LOVED the "bend the knee" metaphor, especially since the original Greek name for Libra's constellation was "Chelae" for the "Claws" of Scorpio...which makes me think of Khaleesi from GoT...which also seems very fitting for this Venus/Mars opposition.
Thankyou ❤
Oh Adam! What a pertinent perception of all these multiple interactions between planets. I couldn’t have done it better to resume my own romantic situation with Venus in my 9th (conjunct natal Sun and NN, and Pluto conjunct my MC) and Mars in my 3th. The only difference is that it could have taken 3 days for me to give the detailed explanation when you brilliantly did that in 15 min! 😂😂 Yeah, power of archetypes! 👍🏻❤❤❤
A mini #grabbed - Yesterday as I was putting on my perfume, the cap, which has small glass tube attached to the inside to use as an applicator, slipped out of my hand. The glass shattered all over the floor in my bedroom. At the moment it was just annoying until I went, ¨Wait a minute, this is Mars-Venus!!" And sure enough, listening to you now, it was basically JUST as it went exact 😉
Yesterday was rough. Aquarius Moon. Saggy raising 🐎this example of mars submission to venus applies to most businesses. Rules are rules and people do not change the rules only companies. I live in this world 🌍
Natal Aqua sun conj. Venus at 4 deg 10h with Mars(R) 0degrees Moon 8 degrees 4th house & Saturn(R) 28 degrees 5th house in Leo….Jupiter(R) 27 in Gemini…..you have soooo accurately described my internal struggles. The daily battle between my head & my heart 💜
Omg, you just described my situation at work. Been in the same position for years and fighting to be recognised. Funnily enough, when I (Scorpio Sun) decided that is time to leave, my boss (a Libra rising playing the Venus) is also leaving. Hopefully, his sucessor will do better, but I am still going to take everything I feel entitled due by by effort. he was so focus on the rules of fairness that he disregarded the exceptions in my situation ending up creating unfairness by being rigid in his fairness. Such an irony and loss for both sides.
Yes exactly. The light in the face of opposition! The tension that sparks the fire of possibility! 🥰😍🤩Best insight yet! Use your tension for good people.
When you were speaking of the mutual receptions and the bounds I couldn’t help but think of the upcoming full moon, of course bringing in again Jupiter and Mercury as well as Leo and Cancer, and the Mars Rx in Leo that will be Rx’ing back into Cancer. I believe the moon will be in the Mars bound as well. Not sure if you end up going there in this video but def even more playing into these energies. I haven’t plugged into Nightlight in a few weeks so it’s nice to be back! ✨
Monday evening a friend gave me a puppy 🐶
Look, there’s a time and a place to discuss the nuanced points that Mars needs to stress.
However, there is a bigger picture starting point for the more granular conversations, and that’s what Venus is leading.
So, for the sake of reorienting the conversation to where it needs to start, and ultimately for Venus to take the lead in doing so, instead of catering to Mars, letting him lead the conversation and asking him permission to lead, Venus is leading the conversation to the bigger picture starting point and away from the proliferation of nuance that will cause confusion and result in false statements complicate an already sensitive dynamic .
We can talk about the nuanced points after we align on the bigger picture.
This bigger picture also lays the foundation for engagement with people/the collective. Mars’s nuanced experiences thwart equitable engagement with the people that need to be engaged.
So, Venus is leading the argument for the sake of the equity and to allow the collective to engage rather than showcasing Mars’s nuanced points that deter engagement and thwart benefits being directed to the collective.
(I avoided saying exactly the thing I am dealing with, but this is exactly what is going on at my job right now. I’m female, Taurus sun and Venus with a Libra moon)
Thank you for this Adam!
Thank you! I will get a reward! I love your work! 🤩😊
Thank you. Loved the humor. 😄
Hi Adam, I remember a few months ago you were looking for other astrologers to work with. I've been following Gary O'Toole of Timeline Astrology for a while now. I don't practice Vedic astrology but he has a pleasant style and a keen understanding of his craft. I thought the two of you might go well together for a collaboration as you did with Ari recently, just an idea.
On the 11th, I worked on my "to do list" for 10 hours, and at the end of the day, I was so exhausted but I constructed a Christmas wreath, all that was done because I had surgery scheduled for the 12th, but then early on the 12th I got a call from the surgeon asking to reschedule for the 13th. LOL..
Great video, thank you ❤
Thank you
I have a Mars / Venus opposition natally. I'm extremely familiar with this energy. A life lived in juxtaposition. 😂 Thank you, Adam, for this articulate breakdown. This particular transiting opposition is in a square to my natal opposition. Good times! 😂🎉👏🏻🫶🏼💫🪐❤️🩷
Wow! My birthday is the 19th AND my Sun is in the 6th house...(27 degrees Sagittarius) I may need to get in on that webinar 😅
❤😂born to parents on the leo,aquarius axis..😂never saw such power plays,egos 😂😂
I have 1’ Leo Asc w Saturn Rx at 13’. Aquarius sun at 18’. 1/7 axis. I’m happy for Pluto to be there. This should be fun. 😂
Venus in Aquarius is such a cold place. I've dated 2 ppl with this placment it's not a good feeling. Not with my venus in Taurus.
🙏😇✨️💜Thank you
How well does this tension between Mars-Venus/Leo-Aquarius with a sprinkle of Mercury-Jupiter describe the collective reaction to the UHC shooter?! Love to see it
There has been a lot of business men wanting 'special treatment' at my place of employment, privileged pricing, prioritized production, me, me, me, me, while the comoany I am with is both relocating and maintaining production with me (female) gatekeeping this stuff so giving them the standard please just submit your details we will get your estimate and designti to you promptly and very satisfactory to expedited and quality work especially under the circumstances but that is the standard we have for everyone - when everyone is special, the entitled don't feel special
Venus is right on my sunsign and I pulled the sun card today ❤
This is perfectly in line with my current work experiences 🎉thank you Adam!! So very helpful 😊
I have my sun in Aquarius @ 6 degrees and my Venus is there too @ 10 degrees.
From my pairs of shoes and the studies I worked through in the past years, there is an important statement to make. Venus is divine feminine energy; she cannot project onto someone per se. The only thing the solar and lunar divine feminine energy or aspect within us can do is reflect back to the divine masculine aspect energy that he projects outward. That's a fact.
She has never done anything else, and she will never do anything else because she just is; she just exists. It may be difficult to understand, but she is only the space between the masculine principle. And she is only triggered into something through the masculine principle. She sleeps in her dream until he wakes her up to her dream. Until then, she is just an observer, a sleepy one, though.
The divine masculine principle is only waking up to her if he has drifted away from his authentic self. This is the only place she can hold him within because this is the only place he allows expansion and peace. If he starts to feel the separation from his divine feminine principle, he becomes restless.
The tension is high but am sadly unable to turn this conflict into play as we are 1000 miles apart. In other circumstances, could have transformed into great sex and new ideas birthed but other factors prohibit this so it will be interesting to observe how we manage this transit individually.
Also, a lot of what you are describing sounds a lot like the "battle of the sexes" as it is currently unfolding. No judgement, just observation.
Thanks!