Judge Toler, my husband transitioned about the same time as yours, We were 30 good years in I buried him the day after our Anniversary. When I heard about your husband’s transition I cried for us both. Well, I am doing well in 2025 and so happy you are too! You have always been my favorite judge❤😊
I would love to meet you in person. I may be a little speechless, but I think that you would be able to jolt me back to reality. Thank you for continuing to share your stories. ♥ Great haircut! 💇♀
I LOVE your haircut and am so glad you're wearing and doing things that cheer you up!! Your wisdom raised me and saved me, Judge Toler. I'm 27 and spreading the knowledge I've learned from you to my loved ones. Thank you SO much!
Momma Judge Toler -- you look good, and so does your heart. Your words have taught me about life, perspective, as well as relationship with myself and others. Although I've never met you, I love and respect you sooo very much. May God bless you with peace and joy. PS -- if you're ever in the DC area, I'd be honored if you'd have tea with me❤
Hello Judge Lynn, I'm sure it's because you have dealt with this for many years, but you are spot on. A lot of people rush into marriage looking for panacea, not realizing how much work lies ahead. Thank you. Stay strong, Beautiful Lady. ❤ Love that smile.
I have so much respect for you Judge Toler. What you say rings true for so many others. Certain challenges are kept a secret. Thank you for speaking truth. So good to see you're smiling. 😊
Just seeing Judge Lynn right now was so needed...Gives such strength & motivation...I lost someone too, but not on her level...Saw many of her cases...Much respect & luv!!!☺️🥰💖🙏🏼
I love where you are going with this. Thank you for being you ,I share your sentiments on so many of the same views in life. Our lives seem so similar. I enjoy enjoy everything that you share, I just love you, judge.
4:28 that part. I'm happy the sun is starting to peek through your clouds.♡ I'm starting to have lil bit of myself *because I'm seeing how you move through this.* Gratitude, Mrs Lynn. *10:30* ditto. I haven't lost my ring but the weight, yes. The amount of weight gained during this process isn't important. It's the amount lost after is what matters to me. *I appreciate you* because it's scary going through this by myself. Sometimes.
You definitely wear it well Judge Lynn Toler. You are naturally beautiful. Wendell Pierce is actually from my home town⚜️🎭 Thanks for sharing your experiences and wisdom with the world. Enjoy your Saturday🙏🏼❤️
Personally Judge Lynn Toler, I think that’s a great hair cut and, you look beautiful wearing it. Your smile is like a light in a dark room. I love the way you think and how you impart such great knowledge in an empathetic, realistic, intelligent and clear way. I love reading the comments because I recognize that I am in a party of others who recognize just how important you are to mankind. Thank you for staying the course for the past, the present and the future. Your words are important reminders that greatness in humanity is “not” based upon perfection but, perseverance.❤👏🏽🙏🏽❤
Don’t worry we all have brain farts. I flag that cause I’ll start thinking of something else & forget what I was initially talking about. ❤I’ve been happily married 45 years. Out of 6 bro/sis I’m the only one married. We never did a marriage counselor, it def wouldn’t have hurt in the beginning for us to do counseling getting us to each other but we both wanted it & made it. Marriage is work but if you get it right it can be magic💯💯❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽It worked for us, but it’s different for everyone. Our families gave us 6 mths to a yr for our marriage to survive. 44 yrs & still going
You have the nicest way of talking! I love listening to you! I love to see you smile... your smile always makes me smile... THANK YOU FOR THAT!! I appreciate that you have shared this hard journey with us... You give me hope that we can all get through even the hardest of lifes challenges.... 😁🥰
Wow! It looks stunning, and by the way, you give the most exceptional advice. And you’re obviously turning a corner. Grief takes a lot of 4:48 time and a lot of work, just as you’re doing. One day at a time!
The haircut looks great, and I see a spark coming back. I can tell you are feeling better. I am so happy for you. May God continue blessing you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Greetings Goddess, hope alls well with family. You make the sunshine! You represent love, light, truth and right. Which is much needed in this anti life culture. The cut is on point. Thank you Goddess. Always Love And Respect!
Good Day, Judge Toler. My heart aches for your loss. I can relate to your pain. I am sending you a virtual hug, lots of love and prayers. You are a beautiful woman! Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration. May The Lord bless you 🙏🏽Love you❤
Love your teachings judge Lynn.May God continue to bless you and m happy for u that u are happy and getting better .Indeed u had a great marriage.I love the fact that you could praise ur husband while he was still alive.Very few do that.
Hello! Judge Lynn Toler, I love your new short,hair cut/ hairdo, It looks,good on you .I watch and listen to you every time that you're on You Tube, Definitely, excellent words,of Wisdom that you're sharing with US. Please remember,one day at a time . I'll go online and 1 or 2 of your books of purchase. Keep shining,evolving,as well as being an excellent ,strong black business woman,mother,and widow that you Continue,to help guide ,us in the right direction,as much as possible. I/ We Love 💕💕💕 you ! Forever, Much Love, 💕💕💕
🎉🎉 I miss the chokers from divorce court they framed your beautiful face you are gorgeous and a beautiful person I hope your house IS Ok but more important You and your family
Hi Judge!!👐👋👋🙌 You are glowing, GOD has given you reason to show off that beautiful smile!! Wishing you genuine happiness and great health. Your haircut is magnificent!! It fits you very well.. . GOD BLESSES YOU, in the name of Jesus Christ our lord and savior Amen.🙏
LYNN Toler. I am grateful to GOD FOR HIS BLESSINGS IN SHARING U WITH US. giving us wisdom through you to us & so many u have served while on the bench. & Off the bench. So CONTINUE TO be the blessing we still need from thee. Sitting above. So thank you GOD FOR YOUR GRACE & MERCY. IN JESUS NAME AMEN. CONTINUE THE GREAT WORK LYNN I LOVE U MOM.
❤We love you Judge Toler I rem watching you as a youngster I thought you are mean haha but I liked you cause you never hold back from telling people the truth so as a kid you were inspirational. ❤ I still watch you 20 plus years later ❤
I love you.She called them mom or he called his mom.Oh I would have have been there.That's so beautiful that you did that🎉❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤯🤯🤯🌬🌬🌬🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😢💯💯💯
I love listening to you! yes, I believe you had a successful marriage!! Also, I agree with the man you do know your stuff😂!! Blessings to you !! So much information in this video!! I’m glad you spoke about what a person brings to the table !! Because you know that’s going around on TH-cam ! And I also like how you talked about being a compatible ! That was very interesting! Thank you so much for all that you do 💐😘🤗
You have the best words of ADVICE I HAVE EVERY HEARD YOU GOT 10cents of information YOU CAN’t GET A DOLLARS WORTH OF OPINION OUT IF IT, BECAUSE THAT MEANS UOU BORROWED 90cents of NONSENSE, THAT IS GOING TO BE VERY HARD TO PAY BACK!!!!! THERE’s INTEREST ON THE STUPID TAX😂😂😂😂, PRICELESS. You SHOULD WRITE A BOOK IF ADVICE, It would be a NUMBER 1 BEDT SELLER💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My fellow Scorpion big sister. Oh, how I admire your knowledge and resilience so much!! And I thank you for sharing yourself with us, despite this profound grief journey that you're on. WE LOVE YOU JUDGE!! ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 PS. I had to have that amniocentesis thingy too Judge!! I was pregnant at 39- a "Maternal" pregnancy is what they called it! She's 12 yrs. old now (no abnormalities, thank God!) and my only one! LOL
Absolutely love you!!! Bought copies of "Dear Sanali" for each of my children (5 females and 2 males) when they were young adults (15-21 some matured faster). I strongly believe between the examples my husband and I set, and that particular book they've all gained something pretty special! The older 4 are married with children, the 3 youngest are still looking, but building on themselves. 34 years of marriage for me, my husband passed 6/26/24 saddest day of my life. Praying and wishing you well Judge Toler, asking for prayers for healing too! ❤
I’m so happy to hear you’re feeling better Judge Toler. 😊 This message was so informative and helpful and I appreciate your wisdom. May the Lord continue to bring you comfort and peace. With so much love and admiration, Thanks for all that you do! ❤🙏🏽 Your haircut is beautiful 😍
Judge Lynn, I wish I was honest with myself about me..I could have saved my x husband and I a lot of heart aches. I love you and your words, and pray for you .❤
Judge Toler, my husband transitioned about the same time as yours, We were 30 good years in I buried him the day after our Anniversary. When I heard about your husband’s transition I cried for us both. Well, I am doing well in 2025 and so happy you are too! You have always been my favorite judge❤😊
SO GLAD YOU ARE FEELING BETTER JUDGE LYNN🙏🏿👍🏿✊🏿👏🏿👊🏿
Judge Toler... DON'T. EVER. CHANGE! Beauty, wisdom, & honesty... don't ever change! ❤💘❤
JUDGE LYNN TOLER: You are a jewel.😇❤😘
You may not have any biological daughters, but you have alot of internet daughters and nieces...and I'm one of them.🥰I love you, auntie.😘
YES I AM ONE TO TOO. I LOVE YOU LYNN
Judge Lynn Toler I love your transparency and just the down to earth way you deliver the wisdom in these videos. ❤
"Your Honor, I don't know You !!!!! But, I LOVE You !!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
❤❤❤❤
Me too!
Now, how could they not know that beautiful face with or without makeup.Just a Natural beauty inside and out.🎉❤
Judge Lynn is full of so much beauty and wisdom. ❤
JUDGE LYNN TOLER: You are a jewel.😇❤😘
Lynn, you are the definition of down to earth.
I would love to meet you in person. I may be a little speechless, but I think that you would be able to jolt me back to reality. Thank you for continuing to share your stories. ♥ Great haircut! 💇♀
I love listening to your words of wisdom. You have a beautiful smile, great haircut.
I LOVE your haircut and am so glad you're wearing and doing things that cheer you up!! Your wisdom raised me and saved me, Judge Toler. I'm 27 and spreading the knowledge I've learned from you to my loved ones. Thank you SO much!
I love seeing you Judge. Thank you for being kind, wise, and beautiful inside and out! ❤
I love your honesty and authenticity.
I love you JUDGE!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for your wisdom!!!!
Momma Judge Toler -- you look good, and so does your heart. Your words have taught me about life, perspective, as well as relationship with myself and others. Although I've never met you, I love and respect you sooo very much. May God bless you with peace and joy.
PS -- if you're ever in the DC area, I'd be honored if you'd have tea with me❤
You are so right about everything. That's the truth it's not about what you bring financially to the table.
Hello Judge Lynn, I'm sure it's because you have dealt with this for many years, but you are spot on. A lot of people rush into marriage looking for panacea, not realizing how much work lies ahead. Thank you.
Stay strong, Beautiful Lady. ❤
Love that smile.
You rolled up a lot of advice in that post, Judge! 👍🏾 Good job on the haircut! 😉
I have so much respect for you Judge Toler. What you say rings true for so many others. Certain challenges are kept a secret. Thank you for speaking truth. So good to see you're smiling. 😊
Just seeing Judge Lynn right now was so needed...Gives such strength & motivation...I lost someone too, but not on her level...Saw many of her cases...Much respect & luv!!!☺️🥰💖🙏🏼
Knocked it out of the park!!! Nice haircut your rocking it❤️🎯💯🙌🏻
😂😂😂😂don’t feel bad that you forgot. I do that all the time. 😂😂I am so glad you are feeling better we can see it❤️
Judge Toler,
Your name is synonyms with authenticity. Best wishes to continued peace, purpose, and prosperity.
How wonderful that I am starting to where a little makeup again to counter the winter blues.
Me too. I love it ❤ may God continue to bless you and keep you in his care. Keep sharing because I can't get enough of your commentaries ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
12:12-12:19 I just love that sentiment. Eric was the wind beneath your wings!
Hi Judge Lyn lol I just love your stories and your transparency . PS It took me a year to outgrow my last self haircut🤣
I love where you are going with this. Thank you for being you ,I share your sentiments on so many of the same views in life. Our lives seem so similar. I enjoy enjoy everything that you share, I just love you, judge.
Thank you, Judge Lynn Toler. You're down home wisdom is needed. I'm so happy you're feeling good.
4:28 that part. I'm happy the sun is starting to peek through your clouds.♡
I'm starting to have lil bit of myself *because I'm seeing how you move through this.*
Gratitude, Mrs Lynn. *10:30*
ditto. I haven't lost my ring but the weight, yes. The amount of weight gained during this process isn't important. It's the amount lost after is what matters to me.
*I appreciate you* because it's scary going through this by myself. Sometimes.
My love u will be fine. GOD will strengthen u every step of the way. I am grateful wisdom & so many that give it like u & Lynn praying for u. My love.
You look beautiful!
Yes she does look BEAUTIFUL🌹
You definitely wear it well Judge Lynn Toler. You are naturally beautiful. Wendell Pierce is actually from my home town⚜️🎭 Thanks for sharing your experiences and wisdom with the world. Enjoy your Saturday🙏🏼❤️
You did an amazing job with the haircut!!!👍🏽
…change is inevitable…you wear it beautifully…keep smiling, you glow🎉
Personally Judge Lynn Toler, I think that’s a great hair cut and, you look beautiful wearing it. Your smile is like a light in a dark room. I love the way you think and how you impart such great knowledge in an empathetic, realistic, intelligent and clear way. I love reading the comments because I recognize that I am in a party of others who recognize just how important you are to mankind. Thank you for staying the course for the past, the present and the future. Your words are important reminders that greatness in humanity is “not” based upon perfection but, perseverance.❤👏🏽🙏🏽❤
I love women with short hair(great job) You're fine without makeup, Judge Lynn 💯
You are good people Judge Lynn.
I'm so happy to see you happy Judge! And your husband would surely be as well. It's my first time seeing you feed in a while. God bless you!
Judge, be grateful for those who love you.
Be happy.
Glad too see you smiling again 😊
I love to see you and hear you Judge Toler. Your advices and sincerity are awesome. ❤👍
Thank you Judge Toler for your wisdom ❤
Don’t worry we all have brain farts. I flag that cause I’ll start thinking of something else & forget what I was initially talking about. ❤I’ve been happily married 45 years. Out of 6 bro/sis I’m the only one married. We never did a marriage counselor, it def wouldn’t have hurt in the beginning for us to do counseling getting us to each other but we both wanted it & made it. Marriage is work but if you get it right it can be magic💯💯❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽It worked for us, but it’s different for everyone. Our families gave us 6 mths to a yr for our marriage to survive. 44 yrs & still going
Lucky Wendell. Just got my needed daily dose of the judge. Now, what's for dinner? Great advice for those who can use it.
Yes, you look good, I feel better too,;been a little over a year since my hubby went home, you are such an inspiration!!!
You have the nicest way of talking! I love listening to you! I love to see you smile... your smile always makes me smile... THANK YOU FOR THAT!! I appreciate that you have shared this hard journey with us... You give me hope that we can all get through even the hardest of lifes challenges.... 😁🥰
Wow! It looks stunning, and by the way, you give the most exceptional advice. And you’re obviously turning a corner.
Grief takes a lot of 4:48 time and a lot of work, just as you’re doing. One day at a time!
GOD Bless you Judge Lynn Toler. Thank you. You look great and this advice was priceless.
The haircut looks great, and I see a spark coming back. I can tell you are feeling better. I am so happy for you. May God continue blessing you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Greetings Goddess, hope alls well with family. You make the sunshine! You represent love, light, truth and right. Which is much needed in this anti life culture. The cut is on point. Thank you Goddess. Always Love And Respect!
Good Day, Judge Toler. My heart aches for your loss. I can relate to your pain. I am sending you a virtual hug, lots of love and prayers. You are a beautiful woman! Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration. May The Lord bless you 🙏🏽Love you❤
And I just love your directness Judge Toler💙
Sincerely appreciate All the Wisdom And Experience of Everyday life issues judgelynn Share And Help Other's Deal with you thanks Queen 💖
Love your teachings judge Lynn.May God continue to bless you and m happy for u that u are happy and getting better .Indeed u had a great marriage.I love the fact that you could praise ur husband while he was still alive.Very few do that.
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE JUDGE LYNN&THANKS FOR ADVICE&WOW YOU DO LOOKS VERY BEATIGUL&LOVELY.GOOD HAIRCUT ALSO
Hello! Judge Lynn Toler, I love your new short,hair cut/ hairdo, It looks,good on you
.I watch and listen to you every time that you're on You Tube, Definitely, excellent words,of Wisdom that you're sharing with US. Please remember,one day at a time . I'll go online and 1 or 2 of your books of purchase. Keep shining,evolving,as well as being an excellent ,strong black business woman,mother,and widow that you Continue,to help guide ,us in the right direction,as much as possible. I/ We Love 💕💕💕 you ! Forever, Much Love, 💕💕💕
I am soo glad you are healing 💕! Stay strong!
🎉🎉 I miss the chokers from divorce court they framed your beautiful face you are gorgeous and a beautiful person I hope your house IS Ok but more important You and your family
Girl , You did a great job! You are looking fabulous!🌹
Hi Judge!!👐👋👋🙌 You are glowing, GOD has given you reason to show off that beautiful smile!! Wishing you genuine happiness and great health. Your haircut is magnificent!! It fits you very well.. . GOD BLESSES YOU, in the name of Jesus Christ our lord and savior Amen.🙏
😁😁😁😁😁❤❤❤❤❤💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 I'm the shy one. She talking about us 😂😂😂
LYNN Toler. I am grateful to GOD FOR HIS BLESSINGS IN SHARING U WITH US. giving us wisdom through you to us & so many u have served while on the bench. & Off the bench. So CONTINUE TO be the blessing we still need from thee. Sitting above. So thank you GOD FOR YOUR GRACE & MERCY. IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
CONTINUE THE GREAT WORK LYNN I LOVE U MOM.
I love your honesty. Thank you for sharing your insights and wisdom. Your “realness” is so on point! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Btw beautiful hair cut! Get jib!
You did good on your hair cut it’s beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
❤We love you Judge Toler I rem watching you as a youngster I thought you are mean haha but I liked you cause you never hold back from telling people the truth so as a kid you were inspirational. ❤ I still watch you 20 plus years later ❤
I love you.She called them mom or he called his mom.Oh I would have have been there.That's so beautiful that you did that🎉❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤯🤯🤯🌬🌬🌬🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😢💯💯💯
I love listening to you!
yes, I believe you had a successful marriage!!
Also, I agree with the man you do know your stuff😂!!
Blessings to you !!
So much information in this video!!
I’m glad you spoke about what a person brings to the table !!
Because you know that’s going around on TH-cam !
And I also like how you talked about being a compatible ! That was very interesting!
Thank you so much for all that you do 💐😘🤗
You have the best words of ADVICE I HAVE EVERY HEARD YOU GOT 10cents of information YOU CAN’t GET A DOLLARS WORTH OF OPINION OUT IF IT, BECAUSE THAT MEANS UOU BORROWED 90cents of NONSENSE, THAT IS GOING TO BE VERY HARD TO PAY BACK!!!!! THERE’s INTEREST ON THE STUPID TAX😂😂😂😂, PRICELESS. You SHOULD WRITE A BOOK IF ADVICE, It would be a NUMBER 1 BEDT SELLER💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your haircut fits you perfect. It fits your inner and outer beauty. God bless you.
Peace & Blessings 🙏
Love the hair ❤ it looks sharp👍🏾
I love, LOVE your advice! Your hair looks AMAZING!!!!! Great job!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Empress! I can feel your pain, please let yourself be loved again. Your soul is so bright. Prayers
It’s a Great Hair Cut. A Beautiful Hair Cut. You really got not only abilities but skills too. Watched to the end.
Aweee that’s so sweet of you!!! I love you and you are very beautiful with or without makeup!!!
💖I'm so glad you're feeling better & happier. You & your haircut look so beautiful. God bless🙏🏽
You are looking so refreshing ❤
Thank you Judge for the good advice.
My fellow Scorpion big sister.
Oh, how I admire your knowledge and resilience so much!! And I thank you for sharing yourself with us, despite this profound grief journey that you're on. WE LOVE YOU JUDGE!! ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
PS. I had to have that amniocentesis thingy too Judge!! I was pregnant at 39- a "Maternal" pregnancy is what they called it! She's 12 yrs. old now (no abnormalities, thank God!) and my only one! LOL
Love the cut!!!! You did great job…looks like a pro did it!!!! You don’t need a lot of makeup…too beautiful in and out of makeup😊
I love you Judge ! Your first book was brilliant.
I love you so much. God will reward your efforts to be happy with the joy that comes in the morning. Bless you Your Honor!
I I'm glad you're feeling better judge
I love your wisdom
May God continue to strengthen and bless you 🎉❤😊
Thank you for the advice! I see my prayers for you have been working! Praise God!!
I love your short hair! So cute! I kept my hair short throughout my teens, then at 20 I got Locs and I still cut them short once a year 😄
I love you, don't ever change. I wish you all the best. I still watch your show DC 😊❤
"Yea, it is me....c'mere." Lol, that's something I'd say...😆
Absolutely love you!!! Bought copies of "Dear Sanali" for each of my children (5 females and 2 males) when they were young adults (15-21 some matured faster). I strongly believe between the examples my husband and I set, and that particular book they've all gained something pretty special! The older 4 are married with children, the 3 youngest are still looking, but building on themselves. 34 years of marriage for me, my husband passed 6/26/24 saddest day of my life. Praying and wishing you well Judge Toler, asking for prayers for healing too! ❤
I hope they enjoy it!
I’m so happy to hear you’re feeling better Judge Toler. 😊
This message was so informative and helpful and I appreciate your wisdom. May the Lord continue to bring you comfort and peace.
With so much love and admiration,
Thanks for all that you do! ❤🙏🏽
Your haircut is beautiful 😍
You look at peace ❤ the advice 😊 Thank You
Haircut looks great!
Wow Judge, thank you! It’s always a blessing sitting and listening to your wisdom! I love the message and the haircut!!🙂
Your hair looks great!
Judge Lynn, I wish I was honest with myself about me..I could have saved my x husband and I a lot of heart aches. I love you and your words, and pray for you .❤
More of these please!! ✨
Hello Judge Toler I watched your show every day glad you are feeling better have a wonderful day
I'm glad you're getting better ma'am, you look beautiful ❤❤❤
Your haircut is beautiful and thank you for sharing your wisdom.