I lived in Italy for a year and this is pretty much right on. It is important to remember that Italy does not exist for your entertainment. It is their home. It is not an adult Disneyland where you go to patronizingly comment on the charming little Mediterranean people and their quaint customs. Italians are quite sophisticated and educated. They tolerate tourists better than some other European nations because hospitality is a part of their upbringing. But after the throngs of summer, even their patience can wear thin. They really appreciate it if you try a little Italian, even if you mess it up. They are gracious and friendly. Don’t be that loud, crass American with loud clothes, indecent dress, and nonstop profanity. Don’t demand ketchup and ice and expect everyone to know your slang. And one important thing this video did not mention, do not make a fool of yourself by being drunk in public. That is considered very disgraceful in Italy.
I have been to Italy, and was horrified by the graffiti sprayed all over the ancient buildings. Naples was disgusting, and heaped with black garbage bags, and once again, graffiti!
6 years in Italy with the USAF ('68-'78). Hung out a lot with Italians and learned Italian (not much choice 😁). 40+ years later, I can still carry on a conversation. I've been back for a few weeks a dozen or so times since 2001 - motorcycling through the smaller towns and roads for the most part. An absolutely lovely country and people.
It is absolutely true that Italians find it a bit annoying when you just order pizza and pasta in restaurants. The flip side of that is that I have had waiters and waitresses smile from ear to ear when I order lampredotto or tripe and an obscure local wine for dinner. They seem genuinely happy when you explore the local delicacies, and one place even gave me a discount on my bill because I wasn't being like a typical tourist!
@@alessandroroveda2859 that's exactly what I had in mind! I have never seen lampredotto in the US, ever, so that's the first thing I look for in Tuscany.
Learning Italian before I visited had made a huge difference. The waiter's have appreciated it and complemented me on trying. Currently in Laga Del Garda watching this video.
Grazie per il video, la cosa più importante che hai detto è di non considerare l’Italia come un grande parco divertimenti. Ci sono cose che sono li da millenni e necessitano di rispetto e cura, ci sono regole ed usanze da rispettare come in qualsiasi altro paese del mondo. Rispetto e buona educazione e sarete sempre trattati come in famiglia
Key words, fondamentali: grazie, scusi, per favore, le dispiace se faccio … se prendo… se vado…” posso?” “SCUSI, lei parla inglese?” Non è necessario “essere o sembrare Italiano”, non è possibile come non è possibile per un Italiano “sembrare o essere” di un altro Paese. È essenziale essere educati e rispettosi verso usi e costumi locali☮️
"Le diaspace se" forse è anche troppo. Grazie prego scusi... tornerò😂 a parte gli scherzi sì. Un minimo di base sarebbe preferibile. Io faccio così ovunque vada. Mi sembra il minimo. Molti invece sembra che vengano in italia con la spocchia che tutti debbano parlare inglese x forza
"Le diaspace se" forse è anche troppo. Grazie prego scusi... tornerò😂 a parte gli scherzi sì. Un minimo di base sarebbe preferibile. Io faccio così ovunque vada. Mi sembra il minimo. Molti invece sembra che vengano in italia con la spocchia che tutti debbano parlare inglese x forza
It's not that man. He probably was a bit too harsh. Block the sidewalk, take selfies and be loud if you want. People immediately forget about that. Italians are very loud. Just respect the monuments. Do not carve your name into the colosseum or Pompei nor take a piece of them, do not drive a Maserati down the Spanish Steps, do not swim in the Trevi Fountain and do not climb the Dante's Statue. All these things have happened. For the rest enjoy your time, drink wine, visit and party as much as you want
@ - I saw it quite often near my apartment. I often ran into large groups that would block the corner of a very busy intersection. Some tour company used that spot as a pick up point a few days a week in the early morning. Their clients were oblivious to the regular pedestrian traffic. It was really quite amazing.
I agree with most of what you say. I personally enjoy trying lots of different foods when I travel, but if my travelling companions only want pizza and pasta it’s really nobody else’s business.
Great advice all around! Especially expanding on food comfort zone and restaurants. BTW "To have seen Italy without having seen Sicily is not to have seen Italy at all, for Sicily is the clue to everything". Goethe.
Currently watching this video on a train from Florence to Venice. Have been watching your videos as preparation to our first trip to Italy and found them to be very useful and on point! Grazie!
Bellissimo video. Non c'è molto da aggiungere, tranne che, se non riescono a portare rispetto a molti monumenti che hanno più di 1000 anni, perché credono veramente di essere a Disneyland, sappiano che rischiano anchd multe salatissime o grossi guai legali. ..giustamente. Ottime avvertenze !!!👍😉👏👏👏
Excellent video! And thank you for mentioning northern Italy: sometimes we feel ignored by tourists who feel that, apart from Venice, Italy starts south of the Appennino Tosco Emiliano 😊
Il Nord Italia è pieno di perle. Il vino innanzitutto. Centinaia di cantine ai vertici della qualità mondiale. Franciacorta per esempio. Per non parlare delle Alpi e tutta la zona collinare ai piedi delle montagne, il piacentino, centinaia di piccoli borghi, le Langhe, la Romagna, Rimini...... MAMMA MA!!!
My wife and I have been to parts of Italy, but not enough to say we went to Italy. As they say with many so-called travellers, You visit a country for one day and you can write a book. If you stay a week/month you can write a paragraph, but if you stay a year you will write a sentence. Communities have their own nuances and stories, one cannot pinpoint one event, community or experience and say that people in this country are like this. One has to experience another country and their culture with respect and appreciate what each place has to offer. Also, my wife and I do a lot of research of each country we visit and yes being respectful can open a lot of doors just by asking politely if they speak English and inform them where you are from and what it is you want. More often than not, people have recommended places to see and eat and those experiences have been memorable.
Yes, remember, every region, every city, every small village has its own products and traditional dishes, so, ask for advice to the locals and try aalllll of them, food is our treasure (one of our treasures). The same way, if you wanna know our country you have to visit it from the Alps to Sicily....Buon viaggio 😃😌 P.S. I thank you in advance for being respectful of my city (ROMA)...I'm sure you will understand the real value and meaning of this unique place. I was born here and everyday i feel like I'm walking on my 3 thousand year-old roots and I feel the history of my city runs in my blood 😊❤❤❤
I'm American, married to an Italian, and we live in Abruzzo. Great video, you covered all the important points and make some great comparisons with Italians in the US. Know that outside the tourist cities, you need to know basic Italian. On the flip side, Abruzzo has become one of the up-and-coming popular spots in Italy even for Italians. I always smile when I see Italian tourists trying to eat arrosticini, one of the iconic Abruzzese foods. Especially the northerners eating it like spiedini pushing the lamb off the skewers with knife and fork or trying to eat it like corn on the cob, pinkies out. Nope....you pick the skewer up with one hand, bite it, and pull sideways. Eat it like a caveman, it's finger food! And yes, drink and eat locally....each region has spectacular cuisine. I'd never eat pesto or carbonara in Abruzzo, just like I'd never have timballo teramano, olive ascolane, or arrosticini in Roma. The wines are as varied....Montepulciano d'Abruzzo is different from Montepulciano from Toscana.
Great list here Gregor! The Italian people are so warm and friendly, it is just about being respectful! All we need to do is to remember their cultural norms are just a little different, and do a little research before you go there and don't assume it is the same as your home town. Grazie!
Our cultural norms are from a Western country and are no different from most of Europe. We only ask for respect for our country which is happy to host tourists who love art, culture, food etc. and not people do damage and behave like hooligans!!! That's all.😉👍
@@gabrielesantucci6189 Couldn't agree more, we have been to Italy 6x and already have next summer booked. The people, food, cultural sites, art and beautiful scenery is what keeps drawing us back!
Another useful video from my main man! ... When visiting our cities, towns, and villages, just remember the immortal words of Ron Burgundy: "Stay classy"
I traveled in Italy last summer and this spring, you are spot on with your advice. I found that my effort to speak some Italian was much appreciated by locals, even if they could speak English. People are warm and kind, a smile and "buongiorno" goes a long way ❤ Can't wait to return next spring. 🎉
About a week ago there was a girl skinny dipping in the fountain just behind you there in Santo Spirito. Every morning my son and I go there and pick trash out of the fountain before my cappuccino at caffee ricchi
Great video. I am just in Florence now. Yesterday, I saw something that made me gag. There was a group of women, from a “certain country”, in tight yoga pants, and revealing tops, plopped down their yoga mats right in front of the entry to Bell tower. As a woman, I felt embarrassed for them. Let’s just say that seeing that was appalling. I don’t understand what goes through people’s minds. Geez, some people have no class. Then. On the other side of the church, again, woman from “certain country” was covered in pigeons, feeding them left over food. 😂 😱 😳
Wow, that must have been quite the sight! 😳 It's always surprising to see how differently people can act when they're in a new place. I totally get where you're coming from-sometimes a little cultural awareness can go a long way. Florence is such a beautiful city, and it's always nice when everyone shows it the respect it deserves. Thanks for sharing your experience!
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I’m going to be visiting Naples in a few days so glad I watched this vlog. Now I know what not to do - respect local people
I just came across this video. Good video. The thing that many Americans don't get is the concept of relaxing and taking it easy. It is very Italian to drink in the ambience of the day or night. American's are too prattle minded because of the fact the U.S hasn't developed a culture and only know what is on social media. Italy is a very ancient land. Italy does have a social media, but they recognize it as something that is part of history. Italians treating U.S like a Disney land. I have friends who are Italian and Italian descent. I'm going to bring that up to them.
Most of these tips are common sense and I absolutely try to be respectful and considerate when traveling abroad. That being said, I think if someone is offended because you have an accent and don't say a word properly then they are the ones with the problem. I have never ever gotten upset with a foreigner with an accent who says "good morning" or some other phrase wrong. A little patience and understanding is a two way street.
One thing to remember is that for many people going to any country is truly a once in a lifetime experience, literally. Some people are not going to have the money to go back or even travel around in one country, so seeing only a historic city like Rome is what they want to go see. I agree with all that is said here. Respect other cultures and be polite.
As an American I HATE when my fellow countryfolk behave badly here in NYC. If they don't act with class & decorum where THEY LIVE, you'd be hard pressed to get them to suddenly act properly elsewhere. Chiedo scusa 😢 (btw my biggest mess up was folding my slice of pizza to eat it instead of using a fork & knife - I'm from Brooklyn what can I say 😅)
You hope that everyone will be kind and respectful to wherever you travel, foreign country or your own home country. It is annoying when people do try to taking so much time to take a picture of some place famous. I personally do not people in my shots of famous places, so I am always waiting to quickly capture that moment but if I can’t then I take the best pictures I can and move on. I do not need it as proof as I was there, it only matters to me if I was there.
in Rome I had friends who had an apartment and rented it... and they charged for cleaning at the end of their stay... some tourists left the house a total mess... I try to leave it as clean as possible because cleaning an accommodation well is a long job
Good advice because sadly, "common sense" isn't so common. Another thing I learned early on in my travels to Italy is to respect the "NON TOCCARE!" It should go without saying that "DON"T TOUCH!" means exactly that, especially in museums and galleries. It also applies to shopping. So many tourists (not to pigeon-hole, suffice to say often from certain non-European countries) feel entitled to touch and toss around everything. Whether you're in La Rinascente or at Sant'Ambrogio market, whether buying a handbag or some fresh fruit, a simple "Scusi, posso?" is considerate and always appreciated.
As an American Expat in Europe, dress nice(as you should to begin with) have manners, and stop taking pic's every 2 seconds...put that phone away! How often do you really go back and look at Holiday photo's, me either. They're called memories for a reason and we don't forget them. Europeans are kind, just keep it classy and look the part. They will welcome you with open arms, even if you choose the pizza. From Europe with Love. Lovely travel channel. ( Mrs.P)
Latin: salve (to wish someone good health) Italian: salute (to wish someone good health) English: health English: greeting (salute : ) "salve" is a word that here in Italy has remained unchanged throughout the millennia since ancient Rome
I’m an American. My wife and I were in Edinburgh recently. On two separate occasions, groups of Italians were by far the loudest people we encountered on our trip. Literally shouting in a restaurant at one point. As an American, I thought we were supposed to be the loud and obnoxious travelers? 😉
@@frangeesk Se vai a mangiare in un ristorante popolare, allora questo devi metterlo in conto.😂😂 Io questa domenica pensavo di diventare isterica. In una trattoria, accanto a noi, si sono messi a sedere dei giovani genitori, con dei bambini. I genitori parlavano a voce alta, uno sopra altro, e i bambini battevano le posate sui bicchieri e piatti. Adulti sgridavano i bambini, con voce ancora più grossa, "ora basta", ma ai bambini non gliene importava niente, continuavano con il loro concerto. Dopo che hanno pagato, una madre si rivolse verso di noi, e ci disse " scusate per il disturbo", 🥶🤢😬 Quando se ne sono andati tutta la trattoria fece un grande sospiro.😂
My husband is a chef de cuisine on Venice. He's born and grew in Venice. And yes , he say who American are the loudder tourist in the world ( and the big alcoolist he say but not than the venetian people 😂). I work in Venice since 2011 and yes I agree, my husband is in right. The question is : how much is drunk? Sorry for my bad english speaker yes but writer meh...
You´re so good! I have just found your videos, and already learned, that in Northern Italy, they say: "Brioche" but in other parts, it´s called "cornetto" :-) My husband and I have been 4 times in Giardini Naxos in Sicily, and just because, I can some frases in Italian, we have made good relationships with some of the locals
I'm reasonably fluent in Italian, and so I was able to get into a lot of interesting conversations while I was in Italy. When I would arrive at a hotel, the first thing I would say (after "buongiorno") was "Abbiamo una prenotazione," and the person at the hotel would not know where I was from until they looked at my passport. This is a good phrase to know. Incidentally, the final "e" in "grazie" is pronounced "eh" instead of "A", and so you need to work on your pronunciation as well. I also speak German, Spanish, and French, and so I have a lot of experience with variations in vowel sounds from one language to another. We rented a car in Rome and drove to Florence, Siena, Pitigliano, and Tivoli/Hadrian's Villa. I am anxious to go back.
It's pretty funny how they take litter and recycling seriously however they light up cigarettes wherever they please, whilst walking, after eating in a busy outdoor restraunt and near kids etc. I'm not use to that. Here in AUS our government banned 20m near food and basically frowned upon which has reduced people doing it not to mention the price
Already clicked the like button. Usually I subscribe after I see more videos by you. This is the first I've seen. Even here most places aren't open round the clock. I live at NYC. I like Pizza and Pasta. In Italy they eat many things I don't.
Another valuable video Gregor. Thank you. We are off to Florence on Tuesday. Staying in an Agriturismo close to Impruneta. Your videos have been of great advice........can't wait to get started on all that food and wine! Saluti!
Sui vari social si parla spesso di questo "coprifuoco" del cappuccino. In realtà non c'è nulla di misterioso, vi spiego una volta per tutte il senso della cosa: il latte é un cibo difficile da digerire, va benissimo per la colazione perché poi si ha tutto il tempo per metabolizzarlo. Prendere un cappuccino il pomeriggio o la sera potrebbe ridurre la capacità di gustare appieno la cena ed è questo che infastidisce gli italiani! C'è tanto impegno e passione nella preparazione del cibo, che senso ha mangiare a pancia giá piena o con le papille gustative addormentate dal cappuccino? Dopo cena, poi, i grassi del latte sono davvero un inutile appesantimento della cena. Insomma, come mai gli italiani non ingrassano? Perché fanno attenzione a queste cose, perché amano gustare i pasti con tutti i sensi al top e perché la notte vogliono dormire bene anche dopo una cena abbondante! Non c'è nessun mistero, solo un po' di buon senso😊😊😊. Complimenti per i tuoi video!
@@ElenaLume-fq2bv Non ti è mai capitato di bere una cioccolata calda al pomeriggio o dopo cena? Anche quella contiene il latte, eppure non c'è questo stigma come nei confronti del cappuccino...
@@fredjackson3264 No, la cioccolata calda mai bevuta la sera, francamente non mi é mai venuto in mente! È vero, non c'è lo stigma ma solo perché nessun creator lo ha mai evidenziato. Poi ognuno è libero di fare come vuole. Il consiglio ad uno straniero che vuole godersi davvero la cucina italiana é quello di evitare il latte la sera, ma ripeto: nessuno vi metterà in galera per questo.
I think that a rule of thumb when traveling but generally living anywhere is to be respectful of who's around you and try to follow general rules and good sense. When traveling it's important to open your eyes, be alert and watch how things are done in the new place you're visiting. He's correct about entering religious places like churches or mosques...be respectful...they are not museums...they are sacred places for believers and must be treated with respect. I'm also a guard in the Vatican...no really short shorts, no tank tops...you have to look decent and not as if you're at the beach. I had to accompany a couple of Americans to the exit after 2 warnings: it many churches it's not allowed to take pictures inside although you can in St. Peter's in the Vatican but don't be touching or posing with the statues and art, don't be trying to take artistic pictures with your camera on a base or in the floor...keep your voice down...no running or sitting on the floor...no eating inside...men, please, take your hat upon entering. Remember...its a church and a place of prayer...it's just common sense.
I went to Venice Florence and Rome along with Cinque Terre, Murano, Burano and San Gigiamano. We were very respectful and are planning another trip to Sicily, Calabria, Amalfy coast, Sorento and maybe Puglia.
I would add to always say "mi scusi" (excuse me) or "per favore" (please) before asking for direction or something. If you straight out shoot a question to people you don't know, they will feel you are rude and entitled if you don't, and in some cases they will give you a wrong answer on purpose if you don't 😅
Glad to see I didn’t offend anyone when I was there in 2016. I did tip my car service driver in Bologna for being early and handling my luggage before and after. It was only 5 Euro and I was discrete. Eating was a problem for me as I am not supposed to eat dinner after 7pm but I managed. I actually had a Margarita pizza for the very first time in my life Siena. My favorite dish was Malfetta or Gnudi. I had squid in Venice. Seems each restaurant I ate at wanted to give me their complimentary bread soup which was very filling but I ate as much as I could out of politeness. I found the policy of dressing up as if going to church or to a nice restaurant and always being polite and smiling went a long way. Also being very patient. Life is much slower and more relaxed outside the U.S.
These are great points, but they are not just for visiting Italy. Anytime we travel, we should be respectful of those who call someplace home. I know I wouldn't like it if huge crowds came to my small hometown and acted rude or disrespectful.
I love your channel. So helpful to me. Trying to plan for a September 2025 trip. Need you expertise. The Airbnb for my Rome stay says it’s Esquilino; also says Lazio….how is this area? Is it in walking distance to all the sites? And my Airbnb for Florence is located it says Borgo San Frediano (Firenze). How is that area? Walking distance to most attractions? We don’t mind d walking. We hike a lot😅any info would be great!
There is no excuse for lewd and lascivious behavior. This comes across as going to Arlington National Cemetery or the Lincoln Memorial and climbing on either monument naked or worse.
Salve! I marciapiedi in Italia sono larghi circa 1,5 metri. Quelli che vedete nel video sono molto stretti perche' si trovano nei centri storici delle citta'.
@@GregorBrown Salve, credevo le potesse far piacere ricevere precisazioni da noi italiani. Non e' il caso che qui ci si dilunghi sulla evoluzione dei marciapiedi nel corso dei secoli. Ad esempio il centro storico di Firenze e' in gran parte medievale con strade molto strette. Se si sposta nella zona ottocentesca della città' (poco frequentata dai turisti) vedrà marciapiedi di altro tipo. Certo, per uno statunitense sembreranno sempre piccoli 😉 Buona serata
In 2003 i was working in Italy and had a rental car, and one evening it was so difficult to find a place to prk it i ended up doing as the locals, parking on the sidewalk, when i exited the car a family stopped and looked at the car and me, feeling guilty parking on the sidewalk said to them "when in rome, do as the romans" and thought i was clever, but they didn't understand me and i asked them why they looked at my car, "oh, its a new model" they told me, they hadn't seen that car model before
@1:05 Can't wait til the kids have all of this ammunition of their parents mistakes because it's the internet...can only imagine that hilarious argument. Child: "this is why I'm so messed up".
It's not just Italy. I live/work in a tourist haven in the US. People throwing garbage on the ground, driving like maniacs, walking around screaming drunk, and all this with the "I pay you, you're my servant" attitude. It only takes a few idiots to make locals dread the arrival of the "tourons".
Mi piacciono molto i tuoi video e le spiegazioni che dai ai tuoi connazionali o semplicemente ai turisti stranieri :-) e si vede che ti piace l'Italia. Solo per questo, sei UN GRANDE!!! Mi sono iscritto con piacere
The credit card machines with the tip percentage has ruined the United States. Many machines don't even have an option for 20%. It's 17% or 23%, lololololol. They know people will pick the 23% options. Tipping has gotten so out of control in the U.S., that many people don't even go out much anymore because of it. I really hope the "no tipping" culture in Italy stays that way. Please, if any Americans go to Italy, don't tip. Don't ruin the culture.
I’m hoping to do a short visit to Italy but all the does and don’ts. Isn’t it common sense and decency and respect wherever you go? I just want to try the food, wine, coffee and chill not feeling as if I’m back at school.🤔
In big cities you can find some restaurants that use gluten-free pasta... but in general, no. I advise you to inform the restaurant of your problem, and I'm sure you will eat something good anyway!
I appreciate you are trying to give us travel hints, BUT might I suggest you offer some positive hints. 1) plan your trip off season - pull your kids out of school. It won't scar them permanently. 2) say "please" and "thank-you" to anyone who does something nice for you. Politeness is never wrong regardless of cultural values. 3) learn a couple of short phrases that indicate appreciation of something you've seen or experienced. Locals are proud of their city.
Lo scrivo in italiano spero mi traduciate: accompagnavo una nostra assistita dal medico, non cammina bene, è invalida ha più di 70 anni. Dovevamo salire i gradini di un ponte di Venezia che aveva il corrimano. La signora ha cominciato ma davanti c'era un' intera famiglia che si faceva i selfie occupando il corrimano. Ho chiesto di spostarsi e mi pareva ovvio il perché, la signora rischiava di cadere. Il capofamiglia ha cominciato a farmi il verso facendo " bla bla bla" e rideva. Ridevano tutti. È stato umiliante per la signora, stava per piangere. Doveva essere una cosa ovvia, ma il signore era così contrariato di aver interrotto le foto che non ha trovato di meglio di prendere in giro una signora invalida. 😢
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how about i cancel my trio and not throw my pink dollars about but i see how you have to do this for americans as they are a saltless people
I lived in Italy for a year and this is pretty much right on. It is important to remember that Italy does not exist for your entertainment. It is their home. It is not an adult Disneyland where you go to patronizingly comment on the charming little Mediterranean people and their quaint customs. Italians are quite sophisticated and educated. They tolerate tourists better than some other European nations because hospitality is a part of their upbringing. But after the throngs of summer, even their patience can wear thin. They really appreciate it if you try a little Italian, even if you mess it up. They are gracious and friendly. Don’t be that loud, crass American with loud clothes, indecent dress, and nonstop profanity. Don’t demand ketchup and ice and expect everyone to know your slang. And one important thing this video did not mention, do not make a fool of yourself by being drunk in public. That is considered very disgraceful in Italy.
Thanks for the comment. Thanks.
I have been to Italy, and was horrified by the graffiti sprayed all over the ancient buildings. Naples was disgusting, and heaped with black garbage bags, and once again, graffiti!
6 years in Italy with the USAF ('68-'78). Hung out a lot with Italians and learned Italian (not much choice 😁). 40+ years later, I can still carry on a conversation. I've been back for a few weeks a dozen or so times since 2001 - motorcycling through the smaller towns and roads for the most part.
An absolutely lovely country and people.
Ah, that's great. And you must touch me cool stories from your motorcycle trips.
We’re not all pigs. My family went to Rome a couple of weeks ago. I am glad to say we were very respectful. It’s so beautiful.
I'm happy to hear that and thank you for sharing your experiences
So thank to you and your family
Your family and you will always be welcome to Italy ❤
Everything said matches with the behaviour of so many English and Germans in Gran Canaria last June. I can't stand that lack of education.
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As an italian, I really appreciate this video. Thanks a lot for shaping these informations
"This is not Disneyland" ! Standing ovation !
It is absolutely true that Italians find it a bit annoying when you just order pizza and pasta in restaurants. The flip side of that is that I have had waiters and waitresses smile from ear to ear when I order lampredotto or tripe and an obscure local wine for dinner. They seem genuinely happy when you explore the local delicacies, and one place even gave me a discount on my bill because I wasn't being like a typical tourist!
ohhhh, I love my lampredotto.
Bravo! Lampredotto with green sauce and spicy sauce 🔝
Just looked up Lampredotto, thank you for that tip. Will be there in October and want to explore all the foods :)
@@alessandroroveda2859 that's exactly what I had in mind! I have never seen lampredotto in the US, ever, so that's the first thing I look for in Tuscany.
@@GregorBrown and you haven't lived until you've had the raw sausage!
Learning Italian before I visited had made a huge difference. The waiter's have appreciated it and complemented me on trying. Currently in Laga Del Garda watching this video.
Lago di Garda ;)
@@k.e.becquer4681 Gracias 🤣
Lago di Garda?!? I'm sorry. That's a tourists trap.
Grazie per il video, la cosa più importante che hai detto è di non considerare l’Italia come un grande parco divertimenti. Ci sono cose che sono li da millenni e necessitano di rispetto e cura, ci sono regole ed usanze da rispettare come in qualsiasi altro paese del mondo. Rispetto e buona educazione e sarete sempre trattati come in famiglia
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Key words, fondamentali: grazie, scusi, per favore, le dispiace se faccio … se prendo… se vado…” posso?” “SCUSI, lei parla inglese?”
Non è necessario “essere o sembrare Italiano”, non è possibile come non è possibile per un Italiano “sembrare o essere” di un altro Paese. È essenziale essere educati e rispettosi verso usi e costumi locali☮️
"Le diaspace se" forse è anche troppo.
Grazie prego scusi... tornerò😂 a parte gli scherzi sì. Un minimo di base sarebbe preferibile. Io faccio così ovunque vada. Mi sembra il minimo. Molti invece sembra che vengano in italia con la spocchia che tutti debbano parlare inglese x forza
"Le diaspace se" forse è anche troppo.
Grazie prego scusi... tornerò😂 a parte gli scherzi sì. Un minimo di base sarebbe preferibile. Io faccio così ovunque vada. Mi sembra il minimo. Molti invece sembra che vengano in italia con la spocchia che tutti debbano parlare inglese x forza
@@ilefab4545 I went to Italy last year and I did learn several phrases in Italian because it is respectful.
Gotta Respect the culture… wherever you go.
No litter everywhere and no signatures on statues and historic buildings, please. Thanks for having highlighted these two main points
Veramente!!! Brava 👍
There is a certain irony here. In New York City, no other group so effectively blocks sidewalk traffic like an Italian tour group.
It's not that man. He probably was a bit too harsh. Block the sidewalk, take selfies and be loud if you want. People immediately forget about that. Italians are very loud. Just respect the monuments. Do not carve your name into the colosseum or Pompei nor take a piece of them, do not drive a Maserati down the Spanish Steps, do not swim in the Trevi Fountain and do not climb the Dante's Statue. All these things have happened. For the rest enjoy your time, drink wine, visit and party as much as you want
@@bunkie2100 i’ve been in New York many many times and never ever saw italians do that.
@ - I saw it quite often near my apartment. I often ran into large groups that would block the corner of a very busy intersection. Some tour company used that spot as a pick up point a few days a week in the early morning. Their clients were oblivious to the regular pedestrian traffic. It was really quite amazing.
Boils down to RESPECT to the prevailing culture and people wherever you are and AWARENESS of others. This goes for anywhere, anyone travels really.
Well said, just keep it classy is all...as most of us already do.👍
I agree with most of what you say. I personally enjoy trying lots of different foods when I travel, but if my travelling companions only want pizza and pasta it’s really nobody else’s business.
Great advice all around! Especially expanding on food comfort zone and restaurants. BTW "To have seen Italy without having seen Sicily is not to have seen Italy at all, for Sicily is the clue to everything". Goethe.
Currently watching this video on a train from Florence to Venice. Have been watching your videos as preparation to our first trip to Italy and found them to be very useful and on point! Grazie!
ahhhhhhhh, happy to hear!
Come to Turin one time! Elegant and underrated city...was the first Italian capital. Food and history is fantastic!
Good idea. I have a video I'm working on with Torino in it.
We were in Northern Italy last year and just loved Turin.
Learned Italian. Most Italians wanted to practice their English! Did help when a word was lost by one or the other😊
Bellissimo video. Non c'è molto da aggiungere, tranne che, se non riescono a portare rispetto a molti monumenti che hanno più di 1000 anni, perché credono veramente di essere a Disneyland, sappiano che rischiano anchd multe salatissime o grossi guai legali. ..giustamente. Ottime avvertenze !!!👍😉👏👏👏
Grazie!!!
Excellent video! And thank you for mentioning northern Italy: sometimes we feel ignored by tourists who feel that, apart from Venice, Italy starts south of the Appennino Tosco Emiliano 😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
Il Nord Italia è pieno di perle. Il vino innanzitutto. Centinaia di cantine ai vertici della qualità mondiale. Franciacorta per esempio. Per non parlare delle Alpi e tutta la zona collinare ai piedi delle montagne, il piacentino, centinaia di piccoli borghi, le Langhe, la Romagna, Rimini...... MAMMA MA!!!
My wife and I have been to parts of Italy, but not enough to say we went to Italy. As they say with many so-called travellers, You visit a country for one day and you can write a book. If you stay a week/month you can write a paragraph, but if you stay a year you will write a sentence. Communities have their own nuances and stories, one cannot pinpoint one event, community or experience and say that people in this country are like this. One has to experience another country and their culture with respect and appreciate what each place has to offer. Also, my wife and I do a lot of research of each country we visit and yes being respectful can open a lot of doors just by asking politely if they speak English and inform them where you are from and what it is you want. More often than not, people have recommended places to see and eat and those experiences have been memorable.
Yes, remember, every region, every city, every small village has its own products and traditional dishes, so, ask for advice to the locals and try aalllll of them, food is our treasure (one of our treasures). The same way, if you wanna know our country you have to visit it from the Alps to Sicily....Buon viaggio 😃😌 P.S. I thank you in advance for being respectful of my city (ROMA)...I'm sure you will understand the real value and meaning of this unique place. I was born here and everyday i feel like I'm walking on my 3 thousand year-old roots and I feel the history of my city runs in my blood 😊❤❤❤
@@liviaproiettigaffi I’d be afraid to ask lol
So true. Such a great country.
I'm American, married to an Italian, and we live in Abruzzo. Great video, you covered all the important points and make some great comparisons with Italians in the US. Know that outside the tourist cities, you need to know basic Italian. On the flip side, Abruzzo has become one of the up-and-coming popular spots in Italy even for Italians. I always smile when I see Italian tourists trying to eat arrosticini, one of the iconic Abruzzese foods. Especially the northerners eating it like spiedini pushing the lamb off the skewers with knife and fork or trying to eat it like corn on the cob, pinkies out. Nope....you pick the skewer up with one hand, bite it, and pull sideways. Eat it like a caveman, it's finger food! And yes, drink and eat locally....each region has spectacular cuisine. I'd never eat pesto or carbonara in Abruzzo, just like I'd never have timballo teramano, olive ascolane, or arrosticini in Roma. The wines are as varied....Montepulciano d'Abruzzo is different from Montepulciano from Toscana.
Thanks for pointing that out. And your region has some great places to visit and beautiful coastline and rolling hills inland.
i'm from the North and i've Always eat spiedini linea cavemen! There's realy people that use Fork ?
Oh, finalmente, grazie di cuore, very well done!
Great list here Gregor! The Italian people are so warm and friendly, it is just about being respectful! All we need to do is to remember their cultural norms are just a little different, and do a little research before you go there and don't assume it is the same as your home town. Grazie!
thanks buddy, glad you find it useful.
Our cultural norms are from a Western country and are no different from most of Europe. We only ask for respect for our country which is happy to host tourists who love art, culture, food etc. and not people do damage and behave like hooligans!!! That's all.😉👍
@@gabrielesantucci6189 Couldn't agree more, we have been to Italy 6x and already have next summer booked. The people, food, cultural sites, art and beautiful scenery is what keeps drawing us back!
@@joecowan3719Happy return for next summer then. Ciao👍😉
Greetings from Bergamo.. I like your channel very much and feel so glad you mentioned my beautiful hometown
So nice. Thanks Marcello! Città Alta Is beautiful in Bergamo.
You are so precize in your explaining. Really perfect! More than many italians could do.
Wow, thank you!
Another useful video from my main man! ... When visiting our cities, towns, and villages, just remember the immortal words of Ron Burgundy: "Stay classy"
thanks Vista Dave!
I traveled in Italy last summer and this spring, you are spot on with your advice. I found that my effort to speak some Italian was much appreciated by locals, even if they could speak English. People are warm and kind, a smile and "buongiorno" goes a long way ❤ Can't wait to return next spring. 🎉
Ahh.that is great to to hear. Thanks
About a week ago there was a girl skinny dipping in the fountain just behind you there in Santo Spirito. Every morning my son and I go there and pick trash out of the fountain before my cappuccino at caffee ricchi
wow, good job! you know the area well, too
Great information and I agree with you 100%. Some people are just classless and clueless. Love the Italians, very warm and happy people.
In North you must try Risotto,in many different way,instead of pasta. In Liguria,not pizza but focaccia,without tomatos but very tasty
Great video. I am just in Florence now. Yesterday, I saw something that made me gag. There was a group of women, from a “certain country”, in tight yoga pants, and revealing tops, plopped down their yoga mats right in front of the entry to Bell tower. As a woman, I felt embarrassed for them. Let’s just say that seeing that was appalling. I don’t understand what goes through people’s minds. Geez, some people have no class. Then. On the other side of the church, again, woman from “certain country” was covered in pigeons, feeding them left over food. 😂 😱 😳
Wow, that must have been quite the sight! 😳 It's always surprising to see how differently people can act when they're in a new place. I totally get where you're coming from-sometimes a little cultural awareness can go a long way. Florence is such a beautiful city, and it's always nice when everyone shows it the respect it deserves. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I’m going to be visiting Naples in a few days so glad I watched this vlog. Now I know what not to do - respect local people
The video helps going Italy next week
I just came across this video. Good video. The thing that many Americans don't get is the concept of relaxing and taking it easy. It is very Italian to drink in the ambience of the day or night. American's are too prattle minded because of the fact the U.S hasn't developed a culture and only know what is on social media. Italy is a very ancient land. Italy does have a social media, but they recognize it as something that is part of history. Italians treating U.S like a Disney land. I have friends who are Italian and Italian descent. I'm going to bring that up to them.
Same old tired sterio type Europeans always say Americans have no culture.
You wouldn't have a modern country without Americans.
Most of these tips are common sense and I absolutely try to be respectful and considerate when traveling abroad.
That being said, I think if someone is offended because you have an accent and don't say a word properly then they are the ones with the problem. I have never ever gotten upset with a foreigner with an accent who says "good morning" or some other phrase wrong. A little patience and understanding is a two way street.
One thing to remember is that for many people going to any country is truly a once in a lifetime experience, literally. Some people are not going to have the money to go back or even travel around in one country, so seeing only a historic city like Rome is what they want to go see. I agree with all that is said here. Respect other cultures and be polite.
As an American I HATE when my fellow countryfolk behave badly here in NYC. If they don't act with class & decorum where THEY LIVE, you'd be hard pressed to get them to suddenly act properly elsewhere.
Chiedo scusa 😢
(btw my biggest mess up was folding my slice of pizza to eat it instead of using a fork & knife - I'm from Brooklyn what can I say 😅)
But folding a pizza IS Italian, at least if you're in the South! I think you qualify for dual citizenship.
dude i’m one and a half minutes into the video and i’m wondering how freaking wild disney land must be
You hope that everyone will be kind and respectful to wherever you travel, foreign country or your own home country. It is annoying when people do try to taking so much time to take a picture of some place famous. I personally do not people in my shots of famous places, so I am always waiting to quickly capture that moment but if I can’t then I take the best pictures I can and move on. I do not need it as proof as I was there, it only matters to me if I was there.
Well said. Thanks for watching.
Thank you for this video ❤😊
Welcome!!
Great Video, Gregor! Appreciate the gems and advice - love your style of presentation 😎
Glad you enjoyed it!
in Rome I had friends who had an apartment and rented it... and they charged for cleaning at the end of their stay... some tourists left the house a total mess... I try to leave it as clean as possible because cleaning an accommodation well is a long job
You can also say Buona Giornata or Buona Serata,that is Have a nice Day or Night
Good advice because sadly, "common sense" isn't so common. Another thing I learned early on in my travels to Italy is to respect the "NON TOCCARE!" It should go without saying that "DON"T TOUCH!" means exactly that, especially in museums and galleries. It also applies to shopping. So many tourists (not to pigeon-hole, suffice to say often from certain non-European countries) feel entitled to touch and toss around everything. Whether you're in La Rinascente or at Sant'Ambrogio market, whether buying a handbag or some fresh fruit, a simple "Scusi, posso?" is considerate and always appreciated.
Very good information! Thank you Sir 🙏
Most welcome
As an American Expat in Europe, dress nice(as you should to begin with) have manners, and stop taking pic's every 2 seconds...put that phone away! How often do you really go back and look at Holiday photo's, me either. They're called memories for a reason and we don't forget them. Europeans are kind, just keep it classy and look the part. They will welcome you with open arms, even if you choose the pizza. From Europe with Love. Lovely travel channel. ( Mrs.P)
Excellent videos. Wish I watched them before I went to Italy. Just got back from there a few days ago
Glad you like them!
Wise man. 100% trustable 😎❤️
thanks!!
Latin: salve (to wish someone good health)
Italian: salute (to wish someone good health)
English: health
English: greeting (salute : )
"salve" is a word that here in Italy has remained unchanged throughout the millennia since ancient Rome
I’m an American. My wife and I were in Edinburgh recently. On two separate occasions, groups of Italians were by far the loudest people we encountered on our trip. Literally shouting in a restaurant at one point. As an American, I thought we were supposed to be the loud and obnoxious travelers? 😉
yes, you are
@@frangeesk
Se vai a mangiare in un ristorante popolare, allora questo devi metterlo in conto.😂😂
Io questa domenica pensavo di diventare isterica. In una trattoria, accanto a noi, si sono messi a sedere dei giovani genitori, con dei bambini.
I genitori parlavano a voce alta, uno sopra altro, e i bambini battevano le posate sui bicchieri e piatti.
Adulti sgridavano i bambini, con voce ancora più grossa, "ora basta", ma ai bambini non gliene importava niente, continuavano con il loro concerto.
Dopo che hanno pagato, una madre si rivolse verso di noi, e ci disse " scusate per il disturbo", 🥶🤢😬
Quando se ne sono andati tutta la trattoria fece un grande sospiro.😂
My husband is a chef de cuisine on Venice. He's born and grew in Venice. And yes , he say who American are the loudder tourist in the world ( and the big alcoolist he say but not than the venetian people 😂). I work in Venice since 2011 and yes I agree, my husband is in right. The question is : how much is drunk? Sorry for my bad english speaker yes but writer meh...
You´re so good! I have just found your videos, and already learned, that in Northern Italy, they say: "Brioche" but in other parts, it´s called "cornetto" :-) My husband and I have been 4 times in Giardini Naxos in Sicily, and just because, I can some frases in Italian, we have made good relationships with some of the locals
I'm reasonably fluent in Italian, and so I was able to get into a lot of interesting conversations while I was in Italy. When I would arrive at a hotel, the first thing I would say (after "buongiorno") was "Abbiamo una prenotazione," and the person at the hotel would not know where I was from until they looked at my passport. This is a good phrase to know. Incidentally, the final "e" in "grazie" is pronounced "eh" instead of "A", and so you need to work on your pronunciation as well. I also speak German, Spanish, and French, and so I have a lot of experience with variations in vowel sounds from one language to another.
We rented a car in Rome and drove to Florence, Siena, Pitigliano, and Tivoli/Hadrian's Villa. I am anxious to go back.
Aw the little kids behind you ❤😊
It's pretty funny how they take litter and recycling seriously however they light up cigarettes wherever they please, whilst walking, after eating in a busy outdoor restraunt and near kids etc. I'm not use to that. Here in AUS our government banned 20m near food and basically frowned upon which has reduced people doing it not to mention the price
Gregor tips always on the Money,thank you.!!!
Love this!
Looks too good! ❤
Thank you 😋
6:45 non dimenticare la bellissima Busto Arsizio
Already clicked the like button. Usually I subscribe after I see more videos by you. This is the first I've seen. Even here most places aren't open round the clock. I live at NYC. I like Pizza and Pasta. In Italy they eat many things I don't.
thanks so much!
Interesting video and good advice
Glad you enjoyed it
Another valuable video Gregor. Thank you. We are off to Florence on Tuesday. Staying in an Agriturismo close to Impruneta. Your videos have been of great advice........can't wait to get started on all that food and wine! Saluti!
thanks so much
Sui vari social si parla spesso di questo "coprifuoco" del cappuccino. In realtà non c'è nulla di misterioso, vi spiego una volta per tutte il senso della cosa: il latte é un cibo difficile da digerire, va benissimo per la colazione perché poi si ha tutto il tempo per metabolizzarlo. Prendere un cappuccino il pomeriggio o la sera potrebbe ridurre la capacità di gustare appieno la cena ed è questo che infastidisce gli italiani! C'è tanto impegno e passione nella preparazione del cibo, che senso ha mangiare a pancia giá piena o con le papille gustative addormentate dal cappuccino? Dopo cena, poi, i grassi del latte sono davvero un inutile appesantimento della cena. Insomma, come mai gli italiani non ingrassano? Perché fanno attenzione a queste cose, perché amano gustare i pasti con tutti i sensi al top e perché la notte vogliono dormire bene anche dopo una cena abbondante! Non c'è nessun mistero, solo un po' di buon senso😊😊😊. Complimenti per i tuoi video!
@@ElenaLume-fq2bv Non ti è mai capitato di bere una cioccolata calda al pomeriggio o dopo cena? Anche quella contiene il latte, eppure non c'è questo stigma come nei confronti del cappuccino...
@@fredjackson3264 No, la cioccolata calda mai bevuta la sera, francamente non mi é mai venuto in mente! È vero, non c'è lo stigma ma solo perché nessun creator lo ha mai evidenziato. Poi ognuno è libero di fare come vuole. Il consiglio ad uno straniero che vuole godersi davvero la cucina italiana é quello di evitare il latte la sera, ma ripeto: nessuno vi metterà in galera per questo.
I think that a rule of thumb when traveling but generally living anywhere is to be respectful of who's around you and try to follow general rules and good sense. When traveling it's important to open your eyes, be alert and watch how things are done in the new place you're visiting.
He's correct about entering religious places like churches or mosques...be respectful...they are not museums...they are sacred places for believers and must be treated with respect. I'm also a guard in the Vatican...no really short shorts, no tank tops...you have to look decent and not as if you're at the beach. I had to accompany a couple of Americans to the exit after 2 warnings: it many churches it's not allowed to take pictures inside although you can in St. Peter's in the Vatican but don't be touching or posing with the statues and art, don't be trying to take artistic pictures with your camera on a base or in the floor...keep your voice down...no running or sitting on the floor...no eating inside...men, please, take your hat upon entering. Remember...its a church and a place of prayer...it's just common sense.
I went to Venice Florence and Rome along with Cinque Terre, Murano, Burano and San Gigiamano. We were very respectful and are planning another trip to Sicily, Calabria, Amalfy coast, Sorento and maybe Puglia.
@@salmaiorana6860 San Gimignano ; )
I would add to always say "mi scusi" (excuse me) or "per favore" (please) before asking for direction or something. If you straight out shoot a question to people you don't know, they will feel you are rude and entitled if you don't, and in some cases they will give you a wrong answer on purpose if you don't 😅
I like the steering wheel quality!
yeah, good car
Glad to see I didn’t offend anyone when I was there in 2016. I did tip my car service driver in Bologna for being early and handling my luggage before and after. It was only 5 Euro and I was discrete. Eating was a problem for me as I am not supposed to eat dinner after 7pm but I managed. I actually had a Margarita pizza for the very first time in my life Siena. My favorite dish was Malfetta or Gnudi. I had squid in Venice. Seems each restaurant I ate at wanted to give me their complimentary bread soup which was very filling but I ate as much as I could out of politeness. I found the policy of dressing up as if going to church or to a nice restaurant and always being polite and smiling went a long way. Also being very patient. Life is much slower and more relaxed outside the U.S.
Per piacere cosa è la zuppa di pane?😅😅
taxi drivers always load and unload your luggage in the taxi, at least here in northern Italy
For many tourist Italy is park like Disneyland.
These are great points, but they are not just for visiting Italy. Anytime we travel, we should be respectful of those who call someplace home. I know I wouldn't like it if huge crowds came to my small hometown and acted rude or disrespectful.
I love your channel. So helpful to me. Trying to plan for a September 2025 trip. Need you expertise. The Airbnb for my Rome stay says it’s Esquilino; also says Lazio….how is this area? Is it in walking distance to all the sites? And my Airbnb for Florence is located it says Borgo San Frediano (Firenze). How is that area? Walking distance to most attractions? We don’t mind d walking. We hike a lot😅any info would be great!
italy best country must visit
Most of this is common sense. Just respect the locals, it's really not difficult.
Hi Gregor! I’m Italian and I can understand your accent very well, I’m just curious: where are you from? If USA, where in USA? Thanks! Great video!
yes, the US :)
Great Gregor!!! ❤
thanks!!
There is no excuse for lewd and lascivious behavior. This comes across as going to Arlington National Cemetery or the Lincoln Memorial and climbing on either monument naked or worse.
Salve! I marciapiedi in Italia sono larghi circa 1,5 metri. Quelli che vedete nel video sono molto stretti perche' si trovano nei centri storici delle citta'.
Beh. Non credo
@@GregorBrown Salve, credevo le potesse far piacere ricevere precisazioni da noi italiani. Non e' il caso che qui ci si dilunghi sulla evoluzione dei marciapiedi nel corso dei secoli. Ad esempio il centro storico di Firenze e' in gran parte medievale con strade molto strette. Se si sposta nella zona ottocentesca della città' (poco frequentata dai turisti) vedrà marciapiedi di altro tipo. Certo, per uno statunitense sembreranno sempre piccoli 😉
Buona serata
Gregor thanks : we will be in Florence soon
In 2003 i was working in Italy and had a rental car, and one evening it was so difficult to find a place to prk it i ended up doing as the locals, parking on the sidewalk, when i exited the car a family stopped and looked at the car and me, feeling guilty parking on the sidewalk said to them "when in rome, do as the romans" and thought i was clever, but they didn't understand me and i asked them why they looked at my car, "oh, its a new model" they told me, they hadn't seen that car model before
@1:05 Can't wait til the kids have all of this ammunition of their parents mistakes because it's the internet...can only imagine that hilarious argument. Child: "this is why I'm so messed up".
arrosticini are made whit sheep, not lamb. it's "nice" 'cause at least we can hope the animal lived some "free" year.;-)
It's not just Italy. I live/work in a tourist haven in the US. People throwing garbage on the ground, driving like maniacs, walking around screaming drunk, and all this with the "I pay you, you're my servant" attitude. It only takes a few idiots to make locals dread the arrival of the "tourons".
yeah, people need to be respectful all around.
Mi piacciono molto i tuoi video e le spiegazioni che dai ai tuoi connazionali o semplicemente ai turisti stranieri :-) e si vede che ti piace l'Italia. Solo per questo, sei UN GRANDE!!! Mi sono iscritto con piacere
Dude I live in Manhattan and we feel the same on a lot of the same things.
Great video as always Gregor , I thinks these rules apply in there own way in most tourist locations
Absolutely
@@GregorBrown As an Italian English cross I love your content and also your near my home town of Prato so even better
Please tell americans that when they enter a bar and ask for a “latte” they will get milk and not coffee! 😂
You mentioned Sicilia, but forgot Sardegna Amico Mio.
The credit card machines with the tip percentage has ruined the United States. Many machines don't even have an option for 20%. It's 17% or 23%, lololololol. They know people will pick the 23% options. Tipping has gotten so out of control in the U.S., that many people don't even go out much anymore because of it. I really hope the "no tipping" culture in Italy stays that way. Please, if any Americans go to Italy, don't tip. Don't ruin the culture.
i only go for Hawaiian Pizza in Italy....
haha, perfect!!
Dont forget TORINO, ex Capitale del Regno d'Italia.
I’m hoping to do a short visit to Italy but all the does and don’ts. Isn’t it common sense and decency and respect wherever you go? I just want to try the food, wine, coffee and chill not feeling as if I’m back at school.🤔
In good practice, no matter the nation and weather, I always wear pants and button up shirt with colar
Hi Gregor, listening to your comments about substitutions, regarding food. Is it possible to get gluten free pasta there. Am travelling in September.
In big cities you can find some restaurants that use gluten-free pasta... but in general, no.
I advise you to inform the restaurant of your problem, and I'm sure you will eat something good anyway!
that's hard, liek Geridelbello says, just avoid pasta and go for the 2nd courses instead of the first courses.
Basta che glielo chiedi prima, tranquillo 👍
I appreciate you are trying to give us travel hints, BUT might I suggest you offer some positive hints.
1) plan your trip off season - pull your kids out of school. It won't scar them permanently.
2) say "please" and "thank-you" to anyone who does something nice for you. Politeness is never wrong regardless of cultural values.
3) learn a couple of short phrases that indicate appreciation of something you've seen or experienced. Locals are proud of their city.
watch the vid, points 2 and 3 are in it. Point 1 is covered in some of my other vids.
Did the Olympics cause people to be more rude?
You can always tell an American in Europe by the big print on the T-shirt and the baseball cap!
Lo scrivo in italiano spero mi traduciate: accompagnavo una nostra assistita dal medico, non cammina bene, è invalida ha più di 70 anni. Dovevamo salire i gradini di un ponte di Venezia che aveva il corrimano. La signora ha cominciato ma davanti c'era un' intera famiglia che si faceva i selfie occupando il corrimano. Ho chiesto di spostarsi e mi pareva ovvio il perché, la signora rischiava di cadere. Il capofamiglia ha cominciato a farmi il verso facendo " bla bla bla" e rideva. Ridevano tutti. È stato umiliante per la signora, stava per piangere. Doveva essere una cosa ovvia, ma il signore era così contrariato di aver interrotto le foto che non ha trovato di meglio di prendere in giro una signora invalida. 😢
Ok sulla fiducia!