He should have told her. He wasn't "old fashioned" he was scared that she would leave for realizing that he had this body part that HE knew he was self-conscious about. Shame does not negate taking accountability for your deception. You are honest with who you truly love AND respect.
Mr.Sawyer This is unacceptable. I had to wait until 9:45 a.m. to get my weekly dose of only black kids in the class podcast 😑 I will be contacting my lawyer for this mental anguish that I've been put through. But anyway I love the podcast. I've been listening to you guys since a week or two after you started.
He should have told her. If she had a deformed body part that’s almost a birth defect and didn’t tell her she would be lying. This is something that should have been discussed before had . He didn’t love her enough to trust that she loved him more than his body parts.
This is now a weekly podcast I look forward to from Mr. Sawyer's honesty to Mrs Sawyer's laugh. Love it here. Especially love yall are native to Florida, so I understand a lot of the "slang" and local microaggressions. Can't wait to submit by Ask the Black Kids email 🙂
About the micro penis… what about if a woman marries a man and doesn’t disclose that she is unable to have biological children. Isn’t that misleading… I agree with the Mrs, just because she didnt ask doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have disclosed. He has a medical condition that impacts their marriage, he should of disclosed.
This very story was on Reddit ( OP told the husband her sis lied about being able to have kids) and they voted the liar / Sis was the AH. The OP wasn’t the AH for telling him the truth
As much as I love your podcast, I was honestly riled up on Mr. Sawyer's take on the micro*&^ post. It's not about the size it about the deceit. If role were reversed and she had hidden something about her, that would be wrong too. One should be given all opportunity possible to take a well-educated call before marrying some. Being ashamed does not give me a free reign to lie to people, especially someone I am marrying.
About the micro penis, in forums for women with vaginismus ( a condition that shrinks the v canal making sex painful for both partners) men regularly leave if PIV is not possible. Women tend to stay despite the man’s inability to have intercourse. Shame is not a good enough reason to lie to your forever partner. Once a person demonstrates the ability to lie everything is now regarded as a possible lie. Communication is essential in a marriage so starting with a lie is not a good sign. The lie is he is not traditional / religious nor confident in himself therefore his shame is the only thing that prevented intimacy. This is also a bad start to a marriage, your partner prefers not to touch you for a year because he is small! His insecurities are a barrier between them, he needs therapy solo and couples to have a chance to last. He is hindering the relationship and is at great risk of jealous fits.
THIS. PIN THIS. I love Mrs. Sawyer's husband...or whatever😒😑...... But he is being intentionally obtuse. Willfully and purposefully ignorant on this subject. Pin this for all the Mr. Sawyers out there.
Love the podcast! But yeah…hard disagree with Mr Sawyer on the micro penis bit. He purposefully withheld information that could’ve had a catastrophic impact to their relationship OR his spouse would’ve been okay with it. But the issue is lying by omission/lying about the reasons for abstaining. I also want to point out that by withholding this information he removed his spouses agency to make an informed decision. Plus, even if she did leave him over this, it’s her decision to make within the circumstances of their relationship. Many people have genitalia preferences (which is fine!) but a preference does not make a rule, so it isn’t fair to his spouse for him to make an assumption about her own feelings about a topic that they never even talked about. It doesn’t matter if he’s insecure about his body. A commenter posted a scenario that if the wife had withheld her fertility status that would also be a bad thing to do (and I prefer this comparison than the ones Mr Sawyer brought up). Overall, great episode you guys. I look forward to seeing new videos in my feed from you guys!
So he’s just gonna keep digging his feet into the ground on this micro penis thing? I can’t stand people like this who purposely claim to not understand something just to be right. This video was good until I got to that part. Wasn’t nobody shaming that man about his penis. He lied point blank period. Also whether she went to the internet or not does not change the fact that he lied from the get go.
yes!!! this part was so frustrating. you could replace micro-penis with anything: debt, secret children, addiction, saying you want children when you don’t, serious diagnosed medical conditions etc. withholding informing out of fear or shame until legally bound to someone because you think they wouldn’t marry you is MANIPULATION and it’s no foundation for a good marriage. this is NOT about “my body my choice” this is about lying and manipulation.
I had a small wedding of 25 people, no bridesmaids or grooms men anything. We didn’t do anything traditional expect jump the broom because it’s the only tradition that black Americans have at weddings.
sorry but this is the first and last time im watching yall bc his perspective and unwillingness to understand the point with the micropenis story is making my blood boil
Robert, you are being ridiculous on thr micro penis story. You're being an antagonist and a contrarian for the sake of being one. The guy ADMITTED he withheld information in fear of her leaving and used the pretense of waiting til marriage. You made horrible statements during that segment.
Since I’ve been these episodes regularly, last episode/10 minutes ago we were talking about a woman being a her friends relationship and not mine her business because she have enough going on you taking this woman relationship reels just like the other friend who got her friend into a argument with her tailgate husband 38:05
35:02 Mr Sawyer… now you know! You playing in our faces right now
He is tripping!
He should have told her. He wasn't "old fashioned" he was scared that she would leave for realizing that he had this body part that HE knew he was self-conscious about. Shame does not negate taking accountability for your deception. You are honest with who you truly love AND respect.
Would love to see yall wedding pics!
I love Mrs. Sawyer's excitement for Toxic Confessions😂😂
😂this was like a master class in gas lighting…. I’ve learned so much and laughed so hard 😂😂😂
Mr.Sawyer This is unacceptable. I had to wait until 9:45 a.m. to get my weekly dose of only black kids in the class podcast 😑 I will be contacting my lawyer for this mental anguish that I've been put through. But anyway I love the podcast. I've been listening to you guys since a week or two after you started.
He should have told her. If she had a deformed body part that’s almost a birth defect and didn’t tell her she would be lying. This is something that should have been discussed before had . He didn’t love her enough to trust that she loved him more than his body parts.
This is now a weekly podcast I look forward to from Mr. Sawyer's honesty to Mrs Sawyer's laugh. Love it here. Especially love yall are native to Florida, so I understand a lot of the "slang" and local microaggressions. Can't wait to submit by Ask the Black Kids email 🙂
About the micro penis… what about if a woman marries a man and doesn’t disclose that she is unable to have biological children. Isn’t that misleading… I agree with the Mrs, just because she didnt ask doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have disclosed. He has a medical condition that impacts their marriage, he should of disclosed.
This very story was on Reddit ( OP told the husband her sis lied about being able to have kids) and they voted the liar / Sis was the AH. The OP wasn’t the AH for telling him the truth
As much as I love your podcast, I was honestly riled up on Mr. Sawyer's take on the micro*&^ post. It's not about the size it about the deceit. If role were reversed and she had hidden something about her, that would be wrong too. One should be given all opportunity possible to take a well-educated call before marrying some. Being ashamed does not give me a free reign to lie to people, especially someone I am marrying.
Yeah Mr Sawyer is cap
About the micro penis, in forums for women with vaginismus ( a condition that shrinks the v canal making sex painful for both partners) men regularly leave if PIV is not possible. Women tend to stay despite the man’s inability to have intercourse. Shame is not a good enough reason to lie to your forever partner. Once a person demonstrates the ability to lie everything is now regarded as a possible lie. Communication is essential in a marriage so starting with a lie is not a good sign. The lie is he is not traditional / religious nor confident in himself therefore his shame is the only thing that prevented intimacy. This is also a bad start to a marriage, your partner prefers not to touch you for a year because he is small! His insecurities are a barrier between them, he needs therapy solo and couples to have a chance to last. He is hindering the relationship and is at great risk of jealous fits.
THIS. PIN THIS. I love Mrs. Sawyer's husband...or whatever😒😑...... But he is being intentionally obtuse. Willfully and purposefully ignorant on this subject. Pin this for all the Mr. Sawyers out there.
I look forward to this podcast! I appreciate the dynamic of your relationship!
Love the podcast! But yeah…hard disagree with Mr Sawyer on the micro penis bit. He purposefully withheld information that could’ve had a catastrophic impact to their relationship OR his spouse would’ve been okay with it. But the issue is lying by omission/lying about the reasons for abstaining. I also want to point out that by withholding this information he removed his spouses agency to make an informed decision. Plus, even if she did leave him over this, it’s her decision to make within the circumstances of their relationship. Many people have genitalia preferences (which is fine!) but a preference does not make a rule, so it isn’t fair to his spouse for him to make an assumption about her own feelings about a topic that they never even talked about. It doesn’t matter if he’s insecure about his body. A commenter posted a scenario that if the wife had withheld her fertility status that would also be a bad thing to do (and I prefer this comparison than the ones Mr Sawyer brought up).
Overall, great episode you guys. I look forward to seeing new videos in my feed from you guys!
this is the first time mr sawyer has missed 👀
Oh my still excited every time y'all drop
😂😂😂😂 Robert! Gotcha bish?!😂😂😂
Love the show, Mr Sawyer. I think you're full of it about the micro penis situation. You know he should had told her about he's micropenis
And this acrobatic twisting of the logic feels intellectually dishonest. Not cute.
@nadiacampbell9257 at the end of the day I feel he didn't give her a choice to choose he took away her choice to choose
So he’s just gonna keep digging his feet into the ground on this micro penis thing? I can’t stand people like this who purposely claim to not understand something just to be right. This video was good until I got to that part. Wasn’t nobody shaming that man about his penis. He lied point blank period. Also whether she went to the internet or not does not change the fact that he lied from the get go.
yes!!! this part was so frustrating. you could replace micro-penis with anything: debt, secret children, addiction, saying you want children when you don’t, serious diagnosed medical conditions etc.
withholding informing out of fear or shame until legally bound to someone because you think they wouldn’t marry you is MANIPULATION and it’s no foundation for a good marriage. this is NOT about “my body my choice” this is about lying and manipulation.
Y’all are so adorable the way you make her laugh ❤️🥹
I had a small wedding of 25 people, no bridesmaids or grooms men anything. We didn’t do anything traditional expect jump the broom because it’s the only tradition that black Americans have at weddings.
Certain ppl get married early so by 25 they already have a divorce under their belt
sorry but this is the first and last time im watching yall bc his perspective and unwillingness to understand the point with the micropenis story is making my blood boil
Thanks for joining us 😊
Robert, you are being ridiculous on thr micro penis story. You're being an antagonist and a contrarian for the sake of being one. The guy ADMITTED he withheld information in fear of her leaving and used the pretense of waiting til marriage. You made horrible statements during that segment.
Since I’ve been these episodes regularly, last episode/10 minutes ago we were talking about a woman being a her friends relationship and not mine her business because she have enough going on you taking this woman relationship reels just like the other friend who got her friend into a argument with her tailgate husband
38:05
I think if they agreed to it.
No +ones for parents done 51:47
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Men get tricked every day my soon to be ex wife still lying 36:14
You took a long way to get to his shame. I understand but you gotta communicate things you keep secret.