IS IT NECESSARY TO MOVE IN WITH YOUR PARTNER AT THE RELATIONSHIP STAGE?

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  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I sometimes just stare at Scanty when he’s commenting on issues like these. This guy speaks a lot of sense. The generation today have little to no morals and have now sugarcoated wrong things as the order of the day. Scanty, you speak facts

    • @KozmotheKid
      @KozmotheKid ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true… he’s wise

    • @Zahari_tech
      @Zahari_tech ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Scanty be one top guy.

    • @okaiethel2354
      @okaiethel2354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I always see Arnold in hiim❤

    • @enochpanful4988
      @enochpanful4988 ปีที่แล้ว

      This makes so much sense.

    • @davidolegendary2244
      @davidolegendary2244 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Someone said..
      "Youth today sees Evil as Fun"
      So I don't get surprise when people try defending something which is wrong/bad.

  • @preciousartwork
    @preciousartwork 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If u are still here in 2024 let me get a thumbs up.....
    After scrolling through the comment section I have come to the conclusion that director Kelly advise should not be taken and scanty's advise should...kudos to scanty and bry for speaking facts❤❤

  • @kwadwosheldonstudios
    @kwadwosheldonstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +35

    ‼️Kindly Like the video and subscribe to the channel

  • @owiredustephen2625
    @owiredustephen2625 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Low key low key Scanty is wise oo 🎉

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i love scanty opinion but girls will think scanty is a cheater.

    • @benblarney
      @benblarney ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's not biaa 😂😂😂

    • @graceennin4899
      @graceennin4899 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is!

  • @nsafoaphlash679
    @nsafoaphlash679 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    And the way scanty started no, i knew something great was coming😂😂😂. He was on point throughout the whole show🔥🔥🔥

  • @triciak5040
    @triciak5040 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I'm with Scanty and Brie on this. You can know someone from a distance if you want to know them. Not necessarily staying with them

    • @xendastark
      @xendastark ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true. Character can never be hidden even from afar. You don't need to cohabit to know your partner. I don't know who is teaching Kelly that mentality. He's totally lost.

    • @Frank265
      @Frank265 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯

  • @CruiseComrade
    @CruiseComrade ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Scanty just made me smile with his bars, we are back like a buttock.

  • @sethdartey6518
    @sethdartey6518 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    People sey what they want know i have married for 16 years and I still learn everyday I find new things about my partner I mean my wife. So if your girlfriend move in with you and you think that will help you to know her better is a lie you can never know everything till you guys get married even that one it's not easy

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow ปีที่แล้ว

      Still dunno them after marriage.

  • @princekent2718
    @princekent2718 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Brie has talk as any virtuous woman should bee 💥🤘

  • @lucasapinya8832
    @lucasapinya8832 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Ten mins into the video and I have a feeling Adwoa agrees with Director Kelly

  • @halidmusah5334
    @halidmusah5334 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    See how Adwoa make quiet dey listen to director and lowkey backing him😂😂😂
    Adwoa de3 ODO ne commitment y3 ne d3 too much.😂😂😂

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂 aah charley

    • @halidmusah5334
      @halidmusah5334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yawjay 😂😂adey lie

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@halidmusah5334 😂 you no dey lie kraa...the way love and commitment dey sweet Adwoa ennn

    • @KkbmultimediaConcepts
      @KkbmultimediaConcepts ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Memedigester
    @Memedigester ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The success of Bant and Rant must be attributed to Scanty fr. I got more interested in this show because of him.

  • @jefflyn2225
    @jefflyn2225 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    scanty 💯 facts . You lose your job , your family and friends are there . The respect must be kept
    You can't depend on your girlfriend .

  • @crelantnti7575
    @crelantnti7575 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree with Scanty and Bree
    Living with your gf or bf is a no ! They take you for granted and whatever they used to do for you they don’t do again. Like they take you out, buy you gifts 🎁 living together they stop everything because they see you everyday. So I don’t think living together as gf and bf is a good idea. 😊

  • @adamsalia3523
    @adamsalia3523 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Scanty is talking like an real African man 😂😂😂

  • @qc_blogtv
    @qc_blogtv ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I know for a fact that adwoa dont mess around even just listening or watching her!! She really understands what relationship means.... n i love her for that!!

  • @DanielAsiedu-b6t
    @DanielAsiedu-b6t 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the lady sitting next to Scanty,she is wise,always have an exception.

  • @florenceocran534
    @florenceocran534 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The way Scanty heat di333333😂😂😂😂😂

  • @asarerabbi390
    @asarerabbi390 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Scanty is smart ! .. You know most of our problem is the type of women or men we go in for that’s why we feel we should be under the same roof during courtship to actually realize what we anticipated … instinctively speaking there are individuals you have strong intuition if you accept to start a journey with there’s a high possibility it will end in marriage even though they aren’t perfect they will definitely be within target but then you will never choose them

  • @BiGBoY-d4p
    @BiGBoY-d4p ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Scanty is spitting facts charlie........🔥🔥🔥

  • @Tiana_Asante
    @Tiana_Asante ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I support Scanty, and the lady sitting with him, with 10,000 bags of cement.😂

  • @ohenebahjoe_1990
    @ohenebahjoe_1990 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The way Kelly dey defend this thing with passion di3 ebi like he already dey cohabitate

  • @ismailjibriel6991
    @ismailjibriel6991 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bro scanty is always on point, he never miss.😂

  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love scanty. “If you’re a guy and you’re in need and the only option you have is your girlfriend, you have failed. “ true fact Scanty

    • @Nofsgivin
      @Nofsgivin ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I somewhat agree with him, you shouldn’t let you girlfriend be your only option. I do not like the idea of asking your woman for your need..

    • @nerogyi7361
      @nerogyi7361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @stylzk1830
      @stylzk1830 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t see anything wrong with going to your girlfriend for help

  • @matildaadjei4197
    @matildaadjei4197 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I agree with scanty 100% .Just few hours hanging out is enough. 😂. 😂😂

  • @aarontruth
    @aarontruth ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Scanty is the main reason I watch Bants & Rants, from first to finish

  • @creepnews
    @creepnews ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You guys are missing an important factor. People change, there’s nothing you can do about that. A successful marriage is just by God’s grace

    • @kwadwoampong9790
      @kwadwoampong9790 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May the God of our fathers bless u for this comment, stay safe

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow ปีที่แล้ว

      It's luck.

    • @Naya__Brooks
      @Naya__Brooks ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Marriage is not for two perfect people but two imperfect people who understand each other and are both willing to make it work by adapting to each other.

    • @byheartboy925
      @byheartboy925 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Naya__BrooksI agree totally.....we live,make mistakes,learn and move on. We build a relationship based on our imperfections

  • @chenpuoroger459
    @chenpuoroger459 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The underlining word is whether it is a "NECESSITY"
    Before I proceed to make comments we must understand that every individual and the amount of time they need to get to know someone depending on what they look out for in the opposite sex. With that said, the necessity depends on the individual.
    1. As Dir.Kelly was saying there are certain attitudes, behaviours or characters that can become obvious when you live under the same roof with the person but that is not the only way you can do so. Involuntarily or unconsciously people become their true self even on phone conversations the only problem is if you are not seeing well or looking out for only the big stuff.
    2. If a human being will want to pretend regardless of he or she living with you or not they can actually do so. People can live a lie their whole life and no one gets to find out. So living together is not a guarantee you will know the other person as it may seem.
    3. We must also know that the dangers of staying under one roof.

  • @bigg_2.0
    @bigg_2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Scanty is really advising. He speaks a lot of sense and am 100% with scanty with what he’s saying …

  • @gabrieltetteh9830
    @gabrieltetteh9830 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scanty aced this argument!
    Everything he said is spot on.

  • @morvis152
    @morvis152 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Director Kelly dey counter paaa I like that ein point all dey back with elaboration we dey make sense

  • @victorselikem241
    @victorselikem241 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Staying with someone or not. You can never know someone fully. You get to know what they want you to know. Aside from the basics like how clean or hardworking and so on the person is. You can visit for just few hours and you can also get to know certain things from friends and family. Staying together, naaah
    In my opinion.

  • @owusubempah8011
    @owusubempah8011 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I agree with Scanty. Such situations usually end up at Ante Naa on radio😂. Y'all must be serious. What compels you to build your own house when you're already living in a rent-free one?

  • @doskylingz13
    @doskylingz13 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dr. Kelly has a valid point

  • @maxwelladdison4828
    @maxwelladdison4828 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Heeerh Scanty I dey feel you okay. What you are saying is the hard truth this generation is failing to accept.❤ Keep going hard Scanty

  • @Thecyborg-97
    @Thecyborg-97 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way Adwoa is,She go love too much…pls don’t let some coconut headed boy break ur heart for me oo😂

  • @emmanuelamofo62
    @emmanuelamofo62 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Herr. Sometimes, when I watch these videos, I wish I was sitting there some la.

  • @sethanadjoe1787
    @sethanadjoe1787 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Scanty has good view about life. Like that. God bless your efforts bruh

  • @zachariahkwesidrake7381
    @zachariahkwesidrake7381 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kelly and Adwoa are the only ones being real today.
    I would love to know Nene's POV on this topic. So bad he's not around.

  • @lennixx3433
    @lennixx3433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Two very solid perspectives. All ah go talk bi say what wey go work give u may not work for someone.

  • @tobesmart7
    @tobesmart7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I even remember director Kelly once said he needs freedom in a a relationship in one of their videos
    About commitment
    You can check out what he actually said over there😂scanty is the best ❤

    • @_Agent_2G
      @_Agent_2G ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That guy serf😂

    • @graceennin4899
      @graceennin4899 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes he did 😂

  • @eugeniuslamptey1174
    @eugeniuslamptey1174 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Big ups to scanty always on point no sugar coating

  • @sandraboo5577
    @sandraboo5577 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of the best debates they have had so far

  • @Kwabenamankwah
    @Kwabenamankwah ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ebi true paaaa
    Some ladies dey bath once a day 😂😂😂

  • @frederickquame8051
    @frederickquame8051 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Next time please add Nene to this squad😂😂😂

  • @porshiaamankwa36
    @porshiaamankwa36 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The video hasn’t even started and Eii Scanty 😂😂

  • @ayateyjoshua6190
    @ayateyjoshua6190 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A swear I really like Scanty ….
    He is always serious in everything he does 👍👍

  • @Jay_Ice98
    @Jay_Ice98 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ebi like Adwoa doesn’t want to draw a distinction between the happenings in relationships and wedlock.😂😂😂😂
    She wants to enjoy in relationships as she would in a marriage.
    Adwoa, you’re warned!😂😂😂
    Our little siblings watch.😹🤝

  • @godwindonkor7719
    @godwindonkor7719 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    See, either ways, if it will work, it will if it won't, it won't.
    Why should you pretend in a committed relationship?
    If you put a lot of people relationship in one house, those relationships will collapse. It takes a lot of things to stay with someone. Even married people get fed up with each other.
    This topic is neither here nor there

  • @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164
    @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Scanty, you speak facts, I applaud you☺ The new normals in our generation is eradicating our sense of morality.

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think everyone is right on his or her point coz human being are not the same so everyone should go on with what they like and not that's all🙏

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Scanty they like arguements😂😂😂😂Kai….. so far as he give the point de3 he go defend am by force .. no matter what 😂😂😂

  • @Fashion_with.MrElegant99
    @Fashion_with.MrElegant99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scanty is on heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @qwesiharrison9354
    @qwesiharrison9354 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Some girls them no dey bath” adey floor😂😂😂 Director Kelly paaa

  • @claudiabaah1049
    @claudiabaah1049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I support Scanty and 2nd Adwoa. Talk sense into the ears of the youth. This things brings abortion and born 3 mothers.

  • @eminina6570
    @eminina6570 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will go with Scanty's submission 😊

  • @ebenezerduah7967
    @ebenezerduah7967 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brie and Scanty you right 👍
    Adwoa my best host of the year ❤❤

  • @nashiruhamza6462
    @nashiruhamza6462 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Scanty is speaking facts 👍🏼

  • @BELOVED_TV
    @BELOVED_TV ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Sheldon. Am looking forward to taking the mantle some day.

  • @harrydeals1298
    @harrydeals1298 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think Adwoa should host United Showbiz

  • @ryllisasiedu8830
    @ryllisasiedu8830 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice topic and I agree with both guys

  • @ernestansong1056
    @ernestansong1056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eii scanty….😂😂😂 you talk true facts….Kelly nor noe wat he Dey talk 😂😂😂😂

  • @Hiwo4ld
    @Hiwo4ld ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm all in for whatever scanty said😊

  • @awondokpaul1365
    @awondokpaul1365 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The guy is right, some girls don't bath ampa

  • @NanaKwame-np3rw
    @NanaKwame-np3rw ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Keep up with the good work guys 🎉

  • @dashingmanuel
    @dashingmanuel ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Both arguments are valid. Some things you would know from a distance. Some too you would only know if you leave with them

  • @benblarney
    @benblarney ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Director Kenny on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @YaaPinaman-he1zs
    @YaaPinaman-he1zs ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m getting addicted here because of Scanty 😅he’s just a vibe

  • @albertzagkah8607
    @albertzagkah8607 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scanty always speaks facts 🥶😊

  • @ohene_Y
    @ohene_Y ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Scanty guy is always spitting true vibes

  • @laudkitcher753
    @laudkitcher753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Scanty has said it all

  • @theplushnails
    @theplushnails ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My boss back then lost his place to fire. He wanted to stay with his girlfriend for a week while she got his place back together. The issue was supposed to be simple because he got the apartment for the girlfriend and furnished it with tv, couches, fridge, bed, everything. Charle the girlfriend’s father refused. So he went to stay with his sister. See this life 333rh. The person you even trust to be there for you will show you pepper.
    Until you’re married to a person, don’t live together under 1 roof. Have some foolish pride for yourself. Because people show you what they want you to see. People dey pretend and lie on a daily.

  • @kimtv476
    @kimtv476 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    D. Kelly analyses is also very true to some extend

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Moving in at any point in time before marriage is a no no. I agree with Scanty and that fine lady.

  • @REAL_BIGG
    @REAL_BIGG ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sheldon placing education in entertainment 💯fashoo

  • @Ck_gids
    @Ck_gids ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Big up Kelly you are spitting sense waa👏👏👏👏

  • @josephatangaagana8993
    @josephatangaagana8993 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In as much I wouldn't want a partner to stay with you before marriage for valued reasons. But the other guy is making very valued points. The others couldn't defend their opinion

  • @megannaya07
    @megannaya07 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I totally agree with scanty. I've never n will never live with a boyfriend except my hubby period!! Of what benefit is it to move in with a boyfriend?!! Smh

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i hope you stand with your word or are you saying this because of media? 😂😂😂

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@CruiseComradewhy would I say that bcus of media??.... I'm not one of those ppl who are so gullible n easily persuaded by the media oo hwɛ

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@CruiseComradeI'm from a family that doesn't even allow us to sleep over at friend's houses not to talk of move in with a boyfriend boi.

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade ปีที่แล้ว

      @@megannaya07 ok I love that ❤️❤️

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade ปีที่แล้ว

      @@megannaya07 this is nice.

  • @stephenasamoa-agyare5637
    @stephenasamoa-agyare5637 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Cohabiting is fun till one dies in your room.

  • @kofibankson_
    @kofibankson_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone making correct point 🤝

  • @BigGodStudios
    @BigGodStudios ปีที่แล้ว +2

    27:40.....scanty poured alot wisdom, that was the basis of his argument from the onset.... there is no dignity in paying a price for something you've already owned...it doesn't even make sense.

  • @markarthur108
    @markarthur108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Scanty said that guy is a failure 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    My rib cage is killing me
    So am with scanty and Brie on this you don’t necessarily need to stay with someone to know their character.
    Ma guys should preach on.

  • @justinakiss
    @justinakiss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I somehow agree with Kelly because ladies are more secretive and it’s hard to know them better unless you live with them for sometime. A lady can bath before visiting and also bath after intimacy. It might be because of the intimacy but she will not bath when she’s gone. 😅

  • @mrcash1838
    @mrcash1838 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not just in relationship
    In general you get to know people better when you stay with them👌🏿

  • @Starbwoy-m1s
    @Starbwoy-m1s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Charlie Kelly be ryt one way the other

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thumbs up Scanty! We shouldn't replace morals with logic

  • @eugeniabassaw5435
    @eugeniabassaw5435 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Scanty you have wisdom

  • @Abdul-Samad-z9o
    @Abdul-Samad-z9o ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheldon always invite Bismark ❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @missajorkor4029
    @missajorkor4029 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scanty is just something else 😂😂😂😂

  • @glorious8951
    @glorious8951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Scanty is a Gem🔥🔥❤

  • @ernestedem5184
    @ernestedem5184 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Scanty always delivering

  • @enockopoku9974
    @enockopoku9974 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Committed relationships makes sense but normal relationship de3 daabi daabi. People with different opinions won’t allow you to stay with them.

  • @jerryagbenyefia7570
    @jerryagbenyefia7570 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Scanty is real 💯💯💯

  • @shanguy1628
    @shanguy1628 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Eei Scanty And Brie,you guys have said it all,please end the show and for Adwoa and the other guy❤😅

  • @lynnemaverick1865
    @lynnemaverick1865 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Director Kelly is speaking facts. Scant should kinda of relax. Why is it bad for a man to stay with a woman, if he is not financially stable at the moment. I don't see anything wrong when you flip the situation otherwise for a lady who wants to stay with the bf, when financially instability.

  • @augustusrockson4660
    @augustusrockson4660 ปีที่แล้ว

    Director Kelly Dey stay plus his woman I sure waaahh 😂😂😂

  • @RosaleeClavert
    @RosaleeClavert ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scanty is the reason why I watch rants and bante

  • @SulemanaErnestine
    @SulemanaErnestine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Scanty always emit hard truth.

  • @bigg_2.0
    @bigg_2.0 ปีที่แล้ว

    Scanty is the only one in this Ghana that can a special advice

  • @juliusmadjitey2230
    @juliusmadjitey2230 ปีที่แล้ว

    scanty & brie are absolutely right.