Like others have said: Let it go...he's not worth the pain in your heart. By holding onto this anger and resentment, you are not hurting him but yourself. Give your all to your husband who actually loved you enough to marry you. You wasted so much energy hating someone who could care less about you...stop it and conserve that energy for positive things in your life with your family!
20 years ago my ex got married while we were dating too. I broke up with him when I found out and he didn’t accept it but I moved on anyways. I’m so thankful that I didn’t marry him because he was a huge red flag. God was watching over me and steered me in a different direction. Like you, I am curious to know if he’s still married to his wife but I’m not angry or heartbroken anymore.
It's okay. Let go of the grudge. Be glad you didn't get him because if he change so quickly like that, he will do it in a heartbeat when you are married.
Sister you got to ask yourself what did you love about him. If it’s just his look and he spent money on you then it’s not love. You truly never knew him. At your age now you should had figured it by now. What you’ve lost was never meant to be. What you have now is your present and future so don’t waste your energy on him. I’m sure he’s forgotten about you a long time ago. I hope by you telling your story gives you some closure. Best to you!
Wow sis, I know exactly how you felt. I went through the same like you too, but for 6 years with my ex.. It hurts like hell. Can't even explain the pain and heartaches to anyone at all unless they go through the same. I feel your heartaches so much 😢. I believe in Karma and I know that one day, Karma will catch up to the people that have wronged us.
So sorry for your hurt, sister. But dont wait for karma to hit him. Go live your best life!! There is no point in holding this grudge on this sore loser. Just be glad you did not marry him. Hes wouldve probably been a cheating husband. You got lucky!
Txhob tu siab os sister. Ua li nws hais ntshe neb yeej tsis yog ntawv niam txiv. Txawm neb sib nyiam thiab sib hlub npaum twg thiab sib tham tau ntev los lawm los thaum nws pom lwm tus tseem yog tus nws nyiam dua lawm thiab.
Sounds like he did have genuine feelings in the beginning, but his feelings changed. He should've been honest to you when his feelings changed instead of keeping you in the dark. 😢
What's worse is that you hold onto this grudge for too long. You've missed all the best in your life. Enjoy your life and be happy. Don't live in the past anymore. Forgiveness is for your own good.
Never fully trust anyone, especially lovers because the reality is people are people and they can change anytime. Sad and disappoint but it is the truth.
Tu tsev how tired can you be to wake up at noon. When we were young my parents didn’t care how late we worked or helped we still had to be up by 7 or 8am couldn’t never passed noon. You mom covered you. My will never cover us that way.
Ohh kev foom no tsis Khaum ntau los yeej khaum me me thiab ov. Vim kuv twb mag khaum me me thiab. But I was young, we both were young, and he cursed me.
Sister, be glad he showed you his true colors and that you did not end up with him. He comes across as someone who falls IN and OUT of love very quickly, is fickle, and will not have loyalty. Be at peace that you got the better deal with your husband. Don’t let this linger in your heart any longer now that you have shared your story with the world. The best revenge is to move on and not let what he did continue to hurt you. Your life is bigger than that cowardly man or those two years you felt were wasted on him. You deserved better and that’s why God gave you your husband, not someone who has a wondering heart and will change with the wind.
Let it go. He doesn't love u. There r so many man out there. It's your fault 4 waiting n not dating any other man.❤ U should never trust long distance ❤.
I understand! I had a similar experience. However, let it go. 😅 You should follow up and find out what happened to him since you want to jinx him. In my case. .. they got divorce and hates each other now. ❤😊😊
Vim li cas na vim tej kev nkauj nraug yav ntuj puag thaum hluas es lawv twb tsis nyiam yus luag thiaj li tsis yuav yus es yog koj tau koj tus txiv tsis raws siab nyiam los ua cas tej kev nkauj nraug yav ntuj puag thaum hluas xwb cas niaj hnub no koj ho tseem chim ces txhais tias koj tus txiv niaj hnub no nws tsis zoo raws koj siab ntshaw puasyog na qhov tseeb tiag ces niaj hnub no yus yuav tau ua neej sib xeem lawm xwb tiag tej kev hluas yav tag los luag tsis txaus siab ua neej nyob nrog yus luag thiaj tsis yuav yus mas nim no twb tsim nyog hlub koj tus txiv nim no kom nws thiaj txaj muag rau koj pob es luag twb tsis yuav yus los yus haj tseem muab luag nco txog niaj hnub nim no mas nws tsis yog ib qhov zoo rau koj hais koj zaj neej neeg no yog nws hnov ces peb txiv neej mas muaj2 plus nawb txawm tias yus nco npaum twg los cia tuaj nruab siab xwb tsis txhob muab hais tawm tsam koj tus hlub tu2 siab rau koj es nws tsis xav hlub koj nawb yuav tau muaj hlwb me ntsis ma.
I feel your heartache, but holding on to heartache is never good for your health. Let it go and think about if you get to marry him and he doesn't love you.
Hate men who lied, the hurts will stay in your heart forever os tuvivncaus…kuv twb ntsib ib qhov zoo li ko thiab, tabsis thawm kawg kuv tus txiv hos mag yuav kuv …
Sister, he never really intended to marry you. You willingly wasted your time and effort on him. Consider yourself lucky. He's a two face liar and cheater. You have a good life now.
It’s not ok what he did. Everyone acting like she isn’t happy in her life. She wants justice which she is owed. Anyways, she can rest assure that his wife gets upset because women are jealous. Who wants a guy whom was so in love with a woman, did all sorts of stuff with and for that lady? I’m sure a lot of people bring it up all the time. You know how Hmong people mouth are.
Consider yourself lucky he left you before you two got married and not after you got married. Good things don’t last forever. Give your all to your husband, the person who loves you. Holding grudges is not healthy for you.
You’re just living in misery holding onto this hatred and grudge. Forgive yourself for believing him. What’s meant for you will be there for you. I have been through the same and life is so much peaceful when you learn to let go. People come and go from our life to teach us a lesson. This is what makes us who we are today.
Maybe he was NOT that into you as you were into him. That’s why nws kis twm rau koj zov tau ob xyoo & ended up marrying another woman. Cut your loss & move on…35 years is too long wasting your time & energy being angry at him. He’s not worth it! Your husband and children need your undivided attention.
Txhob khuv xim tej tus hluas nraug zoo li ntawv os. Koj yog tus hmoov zoo ua nws tsis yuav koj. Yog tias yuav koj ces niaj hnub no koj twb yog tus tau kev lwj siab vim hom txiv neej zoo li nws pom lwm tus zoo ces yuav mus tham zoo qhov neb tsis tau sib yuav es nws twb ua lub siab phem rau koj ua ntej lawm.
I don't understand how this is a karma story. We didn't hear anything about the karma part? Like what happened to rhe bf ? Did he live a miserable life? Hmmm.
You are torturing yourself for someone who never really loved you. 35 years and nothing happened but you still hold your anger? Then you’re the one that is npam.
Ruam los ntse, kev nkauj nraug sib dag xwb es koj nim muaj cai suav txim rau luag ntag? Luag ci pob zeb rau yus zov xwb es yus nim muaj cai twv rau lub ntuj daim av kom rov fab lwm tiam yus yuav rov los pauj kua zaub ntsuab? Yus tsuas nros yus ruam. Yus tsuas nros yus muab tag nrho yus lub siab kev nyiam luag rov los dag yus tus kheej. Nws dag koj 1 xwb, koj muab nws qhov kev dag koj 1 ntawd tig mus ua 10 lawm nev. Tsis tim luag nawb. Yog tim koj xwb ov. Koj yog ib tus neeg tsis paub hais tias lo lus "hlub hlub" ntawd txhais tau li cas. Nws hais lus ntxias ntxias koj xwb es koj tseem siv ntseeg tias hlub hlub koj lawm ntag? Ruam tiag tiag.
Koj tus hluas nraug ntawv tsuas ntxias deev koj xwb vim nws nyiam koj tsis tas, tab sis koj twm tsis raug nws txoj kev dag deev koj ntawv. Tej tswv yim zoo li no tsis yog raug rau koj nkaus xwb, raug rau coob tus ntxhais hluas nkauj los cov poj niam muaj dua txiv lawm tib si. Txiv neej lub siab mas xav kom cov poj niam nyob hauv world no cia rau nws tib leeg kavv tas nrho xwb.
Why would you show up unannounced so early in the morning at someone else home? How rude! RED WARNING BELLS. DUDE IS SO ILL MANNER AND RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL....
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Like others have said: Let it go...he's not worth the pain in your heart. By holding onto this anger and resentment, you are not hurting him but yourself. Give your all to your husband who actually loved you enough to marry you. You wasted so much energy hating someone who could care less about you...stop it and conserve that energy for positive things in your life with your family!
20 years ago my ex got married while we were dating too. I broke up with him when I found out and he didn’t accept it but I moved on anyways. I’m so thankful that I didn’t marry him because he was a huge red flag. God was watching over me and steered me in a different direction. Like you, I am curious to know if he’s still married to his wife but I’m not angry or heartbroken anymore.
It's okay. Let go of the grudge. Be glad you didn't get him because if he change so quickly like that, he will do it in a heartbeat when you are married.
Sister, Don’t hold on to the grudge. Be glad God showed his true colors to you first. It was his loss and your gain.
Sister you got to ask yourself what did you love about him. If it’s just his look and he spent money on you then it’s not love. You truly never knew him. At your age now you should had figured it by now. What you’ve lost was never meant to be. What you have now is your present and future so don’t waste your energy on him. I’m sure he’s forgotten about you a long time ago. I hope by you telling your story gives you some closure. Best to you!
Man. He did you dirty. So sorry to hear this. ❤
Wow sis, I know exactly how you felt. I went through the same like you too, but for 6 years with my ex.. It hurts like hell. Can't even explain the pain and heartaches to anyone at all unless they go through the same. I feel your heartaches so much 😢. I believe in Karma and I know that one day, Karma will catch up to the people that have wronged us.
So sorry for your hurt, sister. But dont wait for karma to hit him. Go live your best life!! There is no point in holding this grudge on this sore loser. Just be glad you did not marry him. Hes wouldve probably been a cheating husband. You got lucky!
Txhob tu siab os sister. Ua li nws hais ntshe neb yeej tsis yog ntawv niam txiv. Txawm neb sib nyiam thiab sib hlub npaum twg thiab sib tham tau ntev los lawm los thaum nws pom lwm tus tseem yog tus nws nyiam dua lawm thiab.
Good advice, Niam NeejVam.
Sounds like he did have genuine feelings in the beginning, but his feelings changed. He should've been honest to you when his feelings changed instead of keeping you in the dark. 😢
What's worse is that you hold onto this grudge for too long. You've missed all the best in your life. Enjoy your life and be happy. Don't live in the past anymore. Forgiveness is for your own good.
Wow,,,,,Me vivncaus aw peb yog ib phaum hluas nkauj rau lub sijhawm ntawv os. Tabsis luv tau kuv tus hlub uas hlub tau 4 xyoo mam sib yuav. Nrog koj mob siab tiag tiag. Cas tsis noog noog koj tus qub hmoob ntawv mood sib puas phum os
Yessss kuv mas tos2 kawg zaum no tau mloog lawm lau
Cov niag txiv neej pauv siab sai2 li tus hluas nraug no mas txhob khuv xim os yog koj tau yuav nws ces ntshe twb mag nrauj lawm os
Come to crisis. He can heal your broken heart 💔 Forget and forgive. Move on to better things in life.
Never fully trust anyone, especially lovers because the reality is people are people and they can change anytime. Sad and disappoint but it is the truth.
There's a saying, it's better to have known someone than never know him, but I totally understand you.
Tu tsev how tired can you be to wake up at noon. When we were young my parents didn’t care how late we worked or helped we still had to be up by 7 or 8am couldn’t never passed noon. You mom covered you. My will never cover us that way.
Ohh kev foom no tsis Khaum ntau los yeej khaum me me thiab ov. Vim kuv twb mag khaum me me thiab. But I was young, we both were young, and he cursed me.
I can relate to this story. Tiger bite.
Thov kom npam tswb thiab Nplooj ob leeg tib si.
Sister, be glad he showed you his true colors and that you did not end up with him. He comes across as someone who falls IN and OUT of love very quickly, is fickle, and will not have loyalty. Be at peace that you got the better deal with your husband.
Don’t let this linger in your heart any longer now that you have shared your story with the world. The best revenge is to move on and not let what he did continue to hurt you. Your life is bigger than that cowardly man or those two years you felt were wasted on him. You deserved better and that’s why God gave you your husband, not someone who has a wondering heart and will change with the wind.
Let it go. He doesn't love u. There r so many man out there.
It's your fault 4 waiting n not dating any other man.❤
U should never trust long distance ❤.
I understand! I had a similar experience. However, let it go. 😅 You should follow up and find out what happened to him since you want to jinx him. In my case. .. they got divorce and hates each other now. ❤😊😊
Peb cov poj niam kws paub nrog hmoob hais lus uasi es nyob rau xyoo 1979 -80 kuv tus kheej kiag lawv yuav yuav kuv tseem ntxhais2 teb hais tias yes no os tus vivncaus aw.
Vim li cas na vim tej kev nkauj nraug yav ntuj puag thaum hluas es lawv twb tsis nyiam yus luag thiaj li tsis yuav yus es yog koj tau koj tus txiv tsis raws siab nyiam los ua cas tej kev nkauj nraug yav ntuj puag thaum hluas xwb cas niaj hnub no koj ho tseem chim ces txhais tias koj tus txiv niaj hnub no nws tsis zoo raws koj siab ntshaw puasyog na qhov tseeb tiag ces niaj hnub no yus yuav tau ua neej sib xeem lawm xwb tiag tej kev hluas yav tag los luag tsis txaus siab ua neej nyob nrog yus luag thiaj tsis yuav yus mas nim no twb tsim nyog hlub koj tus txiv nim no kom nws thiaj txaj muag rau koj pob es luag twb tsis yuav yus los yus haj tseem muab luag nco txog niaj hnub nim no mas nws tsis yog ib qhov zoo rau koj hais koj zaj neej neeg no yog nws hnov ces peb txiv neej mas muaj2 plus nawb txawm tias yus nco npaum twg los cia tuaj nruab siab xwb tsis txhob muab hais tawm tsam koj tus hlub tu2 siab rau koj es nws tsis xav hlub koj nawb yuav tau muaj hlwb me ntsis ma.
I feel your heartache, but holding on to heartache is never good for your health. Let it go and think about if you get to marry him and he doesn't love you.
Move on lady. Don’t waste your time on bad memories. A lot of us have been hurt just like you.
U 2 were not meant 2b❤❤
Hate men who lied, the hurts will stay in your heart forever os tuvivncaus…kuv twb ntsib ib qhov zoo li ko thiab, tabsis thawm kawg kuv tus txiv hos mag yuav kuv …
Sister, he never really intended to marry you. You willingly wasted your time and effort on him. Consider yourself lucky. He's a two face liar and cheater. You have a good life now.
Let it go…..life is too short for baby love…..
Oh, I was expecting raug dag and then karma to the hluas nraug. Sounds like no ending to the story.
You must learn to forgive. Peb cov poj niam ces yeej raug dag. Av tsij rau2 siab ua koj lub Neej. It's his loss.
I am the girl who got the boy all the girls wanted. Believe me, the boy everyone went crazy for is not all that!
Let go of the past. You two weren't meant to be. Txhob khuv xim. Ua neej sib tw nrog nws.
It’s not ok what he did. Everyone acting like she isn’t happy in her life. She wants justice which she is owed. Anyways, she can rest assure that his wife gets upset because women are jealous. Who wants a guy whom was so in love with a woman, did all sorts of stuff with and for that lady? I’m sure a lot of people bring it up all the time. You know how Hmong people mouth are.
Maybe love at first sight 😂es nws thiaj mus rau nws tus wife 😅 zoo li koj muab nws nyiam dhau lawm.
Lawv tsis hlub yus tiag os. Ib txhias yeej raug dag li nos os. Koj hmoov zoo koj thiaj dim nws lub txhoj lawm os
If he or she really loves you, I’m sure they’ll find time to be with you.
Raug dag vim nws pom tus tshiab lawm ne...tus tshiab haib tshaj tus qub na
Consider yourself lucky he left you before you two got married and not after you got married. Good things don’t last forever. Give your all to your husband, the person who loves you. Holding grudges is not healthy for you.
People have a change of hearts, it’s ok
You’re just living in misery holding onto this hatred and grudge. Forgive yourself for believing him. What’s meant for you will be there for you. I have been through the same and life is so much peaceful when you learn to let go. People come and go from our life to teach us a lesson. This is what makes us who we are today.
Niag tiger bite ntawv cas yuav dag koj loj tiag2 li os viv ncau aws.
Koj niag hluas nraug uas nqa koj phau duab yog hom hluas nraug tsis paub cai....yog hom neeg tsuab tsuab luab
Ohhhh is this going to be a new series?! 😮
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So, where was the karma? Did I missed it? 😅
Maybe he was NOT that into you as you were into him. That’s why nws kis twm rau koj zov tau ob xyoo & ended up marrying another woman. Cut your loss & move on…35 years is too long wasting your time & energy being angry at him. He’s not worth it! Your husband and children need your undivided attention.
Woman, just let it go! It was not meant to be
Its ok and let it go
1. Tim koj ntseeg koj niag tsov tom Nplooj dag ntawv tas tas nev. Thaum kawg koj thiaj li raug nws dag, raug nws ntxias xwb tsis yuav koj. Koj yeej paub zoo lawm hais tias cov niag tsov tom txiv neej ces ncauj qab zib nplaig qab ntse, dag noj dag tau cov poj niam lub siab xwb. Lawm yeej tsis xav hlub yus thiab. 2. Tsis yog Nplooj dag koj. Yog nws hloov siab, ntxeev siab, thiab rov taw tuam ntuj rau koj xwb vim nws mus pom tus neeg tshiab uas nws nyiam tshaj koj lawm. Txiv neej siab phem heev ces lawm yeej ua tau li ntawv. 3. Txawm li cas los nws twb dhau tas lawm ces txhob xav txog ntxiv lawm thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Zoo li ib yam koom uas qub qub lawm es muab nws tso pov tseg mus.
Wow hope he got his karma. And hope that he submit his karma story for us too. 😂
Based on the information given. I don't believe your X did anything wrong either
Txhob khuv xim tej tus hluas nraug zoo li ntawv os. Koj yog tus hmoov zoo ua nws tsis yuav koj. Yog tias yuav koj ces niaj hnub no koj twb yog tus tau kev lwj siab vim hom txiv neej zoo li nws pom lwm tus zoo ces yuav mus tham zoo qhov neb tsis tau sib yuav es nws twb ua lub siab phem rau koj ua ntej lawm.
I don't understand how this is a karma story. We didn't hear anything about the karma part? Like what happened to rhe bf ? Did he live a miserable life? Hmmm.
You are torturing yourself for someone who never really loved you. 35 years and nothing happened but you still hold your anger? Then you’re the one that is npam.
Tus neeg phem neeg dag ua neej yeej tsis muaj qhov kaj siab.
Zaj no tsis ntxim hu ua karma story.
Glad you didn't marry him. Tus neeg tsis ruaj tsis khov, tso thaum ntxov ces yog dim txoj kev npam. Nws tus poj niam los theej koj lub txhoj xwb os.
Ib tug txiv neej hloov hloov siab li ntawv lub neej tsis nto ntsis. Ua nkauj nraug mob siab tsis cuag ua poj niam mob siab tshaj. Txoj kev mob siab nws yuav ua rau nws tus poj niam tseem yuav mob tshaj qhov koj raug.
It wasn’t ment to be just think of it that way
Me niam laus aw, yus tsuas nros yus ruam yus es yus yuam nkim 35 xyoo nco luag na! Koj ruam hwv lawm os! Luag twb muab koj tso pov tseg hnub luag ntsib tus tshiab es luag thiaj tsis hu xov tooj nrog koj tham na! Twb tsim nyog koj muaj nws tso nrog koj tawb quav rau deb tshoob 35 lub xyoo nram ntej ub lawm os!
(-niam Anthony)
Ruam los ntse, kev nkauj nraug sib dag xwb es koj nim muaj cai suav txim rau luag ntag? Luag ci pob zeb rau yus zov xwb es yus nim muaj cai twv rau lub ntuj daim av kom rov fab lwm tiam yus yuav rov los pauj kua zaub ntsuab? Yus tsuas nros yus ruam. Yus tsuas nros yus muab tag nrho yus lub siab kev nyiam luag rov los dag yus tus kheej. Nws dag koj 1 xwb, koj muab nws qhov kev dag koj 1 ntawd tig mus ua 10 lawm nev. Tsis tim luag nawb. Yog tim koj xwb ov. Koj yog ib tus neeg tsis paub hais tias lo lus "hlub hlub" ntawd txhais tau li cas. Nws hais lus ntxias ntxias koj xwb es koj tseem siv ntseeg tias hlub hlub koj lawm ntag? Ruam tiag tiag.
Koj tus hluas nraug ntawv tsuas ntxias deev koj xwb vim nws nyiam koj tsis tas, tab sis koj twm tsis raug nws txoj kev dag deev koj ntawv. Tej tswv yim zoo li no tsis yog raug rau koj nkaus xwb, raug rau coob tus ntxhais hluas nkauj los cov poj niam muaj dua txiv lawm tib si. Txiv neej lub siab mas xav kom cov poj niam nyob hauv world no cia rau nws tib leeg kavv tas nrho xwb.
Where is the karma?
there wasn't any karma in the story...
That's it? Where's the karma?
This one is raug dag
Not even related to the topic 😅
Why would you show up unannounced so early in the morning at someone else home? How rude! RED WARNING BELLS.
DUDE IS SO ILL MANNER AND RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL....