I had post partum depression after my pregnancy Cause I kept thinking “what if my baby died”-Bam Bam

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  • @amaka3632
    @amaka3632 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Hmm this is my story 8 and half yrs ago with pre-eclampsia too ,very high blood pressure, blood in the urine, emergency delivery, epidural did not work 😢 cut me open life and direct,during this process seizures happen,enter coma,baby stop breathing, after waking up for some days I lost my voice because of over .
    screaming ,
    Hmm my story long abeg but we give Jehovah the Glory ,we're all alive today.
    All mothers are Heros🎉❤.

    • @Ohhvida
      @Ohhvida 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations
      I’m proud of you

    • @NonyeEke-s5r
      @NonyeEke-s5r 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are a strong woman

    • @chinaza6143
      @chinaza6143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank God for your life dear

    • @Peace-tx7fc
      @Peace-tx7fc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢 wow! Am glad it ended in praise ❤

    • @sophiaerih1391
      @sophiaerih1391 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank God for you

  • @novemberchizurumoke9556
    @novemberchizurumoke9556 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I've experienced pre-eclampsia thrice. Birthed all three kids via emergency CS and two of them were premature (33 and 31 weeks). Also had to struggle with PPD. So I can totally relate to this story.
    If you've had it easy in pregnancy, don't think everyone's experience is the same as yours.

    • @MaryannNnenna_
      @MaryannNnenna_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What causes this?

  • @gideonharuna6675
    @gideonharuna6675 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    I don’t think many people understand what women go through during and after pregnancy. I’m happy that she’s happy and her babies are doing well. Credit to her husband as well. Kudos to all mothers.

  • @maryannodeh3387
    @maryannodeh3387 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Bambams voice can literally put anyone to sleep....I admire her a lot .she's so soft spoken .gosh I wish

  • @debbyfadoju7976
    @debbyfadoju7976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I love how she speaks, so pretty!

  • @BeautyUncut1
    @BeautyUncut1 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I could listen to this woman speak a whole day.

  • @mummytwins6752
    @mummytwins6752 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Same thing happened to me wen I was pregnant with my twins, but God came through 🙏.

  • @OguNora-f9o
    @OguNora-f9o 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I didn’t change much but my then husband treated me like shit I went through depression I can relate 😊I hv moved on and am happy

  • @mummytriplets3115
    @mummytriplets3115 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Highly classified boss lady. We love you, Bambam

  • @Onyii_Charles
    @Onyii_Charles หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Chei. The baby is a miracle. Pregnancy is no joke

    • @Osatotv
      @Osatotv หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @NgoziAsonye
    @NgoziAsonye 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    First time watching Chude cos of Bam.This lady has grown over the years.love it.

  • @oputapretty8771
    @oputapretty8771 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Your birth story made me teary and just brought memories when I was scheduled for an emergency surgery.
    Thank God for his mercies

    • @Osatotv
      @Osatotv หลายเดือนก่อน

      Am telling you 😢

  • @Tari-ann
    @Tari-ann หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My precious gift is 8 months old now and I'm going through depression still. Holding on for better days!!it's not easy, God bless all mamas!!❤

    • @BeamsUrban
      @BeamsUrban หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sending you hugs sis. Just hang in there❤ you will be fine

    • @chukwu93chelsea40
      @chukwu93chelsea40 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I pray you heal soon sis. Please do you take your vitamins?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 shamefully no, I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've honestly neglected myself, so busy with the baby. Are there any particular vitamin supplements you would recommend sis?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 I continued taking the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've just been so busy with the baby, neglecting the 'caretaker' me.
      It feels like there isn't enough time in a day for me to fit myself in. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. Everything has just been about my little bundle so much so that I've honestly neglected myself. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

  • @SolaAyoola-fu7ug
    @SolaAyoola-fu7ug 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Yoruba have a saying that translates into Thank God you came out of the danger of child birth .This is the reason why because child birth is not an easy experience.

  • @ibifuroabiotonye4670
    @ibifuroabiotonye4670 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Jesus!!!
    Every woman’s pregnancy story is different.
    You know the entire process of pregnancy till safe delivery is the reason Pastors pass the mic to mothers during dedication because What we go through before ,during and after pregnancy is What Most Mouths can’t say out.
    Congratulations Bam Bam

  • @FavourEbong
    @FavourEbong 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I could literally just listen to this lady speak all dey, she knows really how to hold intellectual conversations.., I love you Bam Bam.., and to Chude, you're such an amazing personality in content creation, keep up the good work 👍

  • @BukolaRY_TV
    @BukolaRY_TV ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She's gorgeous and calm 👏👏👏👏

  • @meddyalaka6314
    @meddyalaka6314 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is just my exact story. Preclampsia is just a whole sensitive case. Went for my last antenatal and got checked and diagnosed of preclampsia so they refused me going back home and asked my husband go pack our bag while I run down few other tests and get ready for emergency delivery(one week early than my due date)
    Lastly, I ended up with CS. I give it to oyibo people sha, so intelligent ! If not, I for kpai cus before then, I was always feeling light headed and numbness on my fingers for long time. Y’all take your ante-natal serious.

  • @ibrahimashantewa2380
    @ibrahimashantewa2380 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well spoken and beautiful, thank God for your husband and babies ❤

  • @patriciakasenge9927
    @patriciakasenge9927 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Bam is just a beautiful person, God bless you and the family ❤

  • @victoriaokoro3028
    @victoriaokoro3028 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I always tell people I add when I'm stress they always doubt me like it's food 😊 at least I'm not crazy hearing this from someone else😊

    • @obodonkem8092
      @obodonkem8092 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know for a fact that I add weight wen am stressed and the weight is an unhealthy one

    • @rosemaryoffor
      @rosemaryoffor 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too but they kept on saying it was food 😢

  • @nuratjinadu3860
    @nuratjinadu3860 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awwwwnnn my darling BAMBAM 😻
    The accent though 👌🏿👌🏿❤️🤧😍😍

  • @promiseukpong9043
    @promiseukpong9043 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You are such a lovely personality. I enjoyed listening to you and could do so all day❤

  • @olasunkanmi5200
    @olasunkanmi5200 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was actual story of my baby too
    Thank God for a gud hospital and my doctor was the best🤗

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bamike you're still very beautiful in your body God is indeed good to you

  • @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz
    @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I had to come here from Instagram just to hear this lady speak
    She's so beautiful 😍

  • @abubakarabatcha882
    @abubakarabatcha882 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She speaks so well, I enjoyed every bit of her movies ! She has done well for herself

  • @enyojochristianahabu6621
    @enyojochristianahabu6621 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    When you are pregnant that’s when you will see your partners true color

  • @ayoolahalimat9944
    @ayoolahalimat9944 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We love you the way you are BamBam😊❤🎉

  • @folusobankole5786
    @folusobankole5786 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is my story a year and half ago. Thank God for hood doctor and good hospital. They literally inform me that i can't go back to the office. Was just summoned to emergency CS immediately.

  • @firioluwahart3298
    @firioluwahart3298 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! Just an emotional birth story 😢 I literally teared up 😢

  • @aminamusa7629
    @aminamusa7629 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bam bam with class ❤❤

  • @princessizedike4865
    @princessizedike4865 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So classy with great diction! Go Bambam💃🤩🤩

  • @onuhhappiness6554
    @onuhhappiness6554 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You look amazing ma ❤

  • @Omah_jhay
    @Omah_jhay หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My sister went through the process but the baby didn't survive because of Lack of hospital equipments and facilities...Thank God for her life honestly

  • @ifeyinwaokolo1246
    @ifeyinwaokolo1246 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank God for every but, I would not credit the hospital. How was her urinalysis done after she left? Did they run out of strip? I've had three babies and urinalysis is done before you get to the doctor's office. So this sounds so wrong.

    • @petronellambuyu7025
      @petronellambuyu7025 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True. For our set up here in Zambia especially from the facility I work at, we do urinalysis even before the palpation. Like before going into any details with the antenatal visit, we check all vitals, then urinalysis, every month. Very important. Maybe they just didn't have strips otherwise, it surely sounds wrong especially if they had already noticed that her BP was very high, why even allow her drive? We thank GOD for grace otherwise this was wrong and anything could have happened. Thank GOD for grace I'll say it again!

    • @Magtvshows
      @Magtvshows หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

  • @elasygondwe4999
    @elasygondwe4999 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is the name BAMTEDY from Big Brother Naija still trending? bcoz whoooo I loved it 😊

  • @elizabethoyiza4272
    @elizabethoyiza4272 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can watch bambam all day

  • @gloryuroh347
    @gloryuroh347 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank God for the quick intervention of the doctor, but I like the chubby BamBam she looks prettier than the slim Bambam

  • @allenamegina
    @allenamegina 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gorgeous, strong and calm Bam Bam ❤😍. You are so beautiful in and out . God bless you and your family 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇. Well done Chude 👍.

  • @NaomiIsingoma
    @NaomiIsingoma หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bam ......soooo Graceful......I love her alot lot lot❤❤❤❤

  • @Iam_OdinakaN
    @Iam_OdinakaN 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Bammy, such a fresh breath👌

  • @MaryNSilasN
    @MaryNSilasN หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is so beautiful

  • @teesmedia1
    @teesmedia1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    BamBam looking all pretty❤

  • @Mamakheboiz
    @Mamakheboiz หลายเดือนก่อน

    So happy to see this girl,I love her facial expressions,any reccommendations of dramas she is in?

    • @debbie__jimmy
      @debbie__jimmy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Watch Case for the Heart - Omoni Oboli TV

  • @Ebere6365
    @Ebere6365 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her movie is one of the best for me ❤

  • @esthylizuko1992
    @esthylizuko1992 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She’s a strong woman

  • @BukwaraNgu
    @BukwaraNgu หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have the same ..this is 2 years after the child birth but am still not over the post partum

  • @peacenwachukwu3234
    @peacenwachukwu3234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We thank God for life...nice❤

  • @shikaamenyedor8815
    @shikaamenyedor8815 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The shoe size is so real!!

  • @anitabisong2383
    @anitabisong2383 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bam Bam is so lovely.

  • @goldenwealthpodcast
    @goldenwealthpodcast 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Guys this lady(Bambam Ola ) have 3 movies on omoni oboli tv , a case of the heart, love style and other things ,betting on love ❤you will love

  • @bolanlecantalk.
    @bolanlecantalk. ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bambam you're prettyyyyyy!

  • @huldahangbashim
    @huldahangbashim 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow the devil came late I love to hear Bambam’s voice ❤

  • @OluwatosinBammeke
    @OluwatosinBammeke หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how she speaks. But who’s she🥱

  • @violetadih2164
    @violetadih2164 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Luv u Bam Bam❤❤

  • @naa-imwinwononuah4126
    @naa-imwinwononuah4126 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After a year of birth, I still feel terrible. I feel like I’m a bad mother. I have people tell me I’m not a good mom and her grandma and auntie are better mothers than I can ever be. My Partner isn’t supportive towards me but a great dad to our baby. I can’t talk to anyone. I’ve gotten to the point where my brain sabotage myself. I don’t know if this is post P depression 😂. My body has gone through a significant change. If anyone is going through the same thing, I hope we grow past it. Motherhood should be a course to be studied.

    • @ItunnuAdebola
      @ItunnuAdebola 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are a great person , don't let others opinions matter

  • @angelahsikute8590
    @angelahsikute8590 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you bam bam from Zambia.❤❤

  • @joyhabila5214
    @joyhabila5214 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love her ❤

  • @Olivia22431
    @Olivia22431 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God is wonderful. Wait.. did she say she puts on weight when she’s stressed? I love it😅

  • @preciousjoe922
    @preciousjoe922 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think have started liking you already.. How are you bam bam!? ❤❤

  • @yehodaskitchen3401
    @yehodaskitchen3401 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was postpartum anxiety.
    Depression leads more towards baby rejection

  • @abdulcutekid8868
    @abdulcutekid8868 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She speaks nice🥰🥰

  • @kolejoanu7648
    @kolejoanu7648 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bam bam my new fav❤

  • @mariahugbashi8964
    @mariahugbashi8964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Class!!! ❤

  • @gugungcobo328
    @gugungcobo328 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bam Bam I hope one day you had a sit down with #Shella. I still do not understand her motive for throwing stones at them knowing very well that she also lived in that bb glass house. She was super judgemental at #Shella forgetting that we still remembered that Teddy A was with someone the mother of his son to be specific, but had no problem going PG18 on continental TV. In a nutshel she broke a family. She judged people who connected from day 1 people who exercised restrain for 9 weeks. Yes they are married they have kids blah blah blah but still a family was broken and internet still have their PG18 tape

    • @AugustaConteh-w6y
      @AugustaConteh-w6y 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I love your tears. It looks good on you

  • @precioustv6124
    @precioustv6124 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have always love you Bam
    So much love

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't really know her outside bbn though what has she been in

    • @tannyglow
      @tannyglow ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A lot of movies and trust me she’s a good actress

  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I fear motherhood...I have a 6year old and I can't imagine another one😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey
      @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do ivf and born all at once

    • @emmyknowsbeauty810
      @emmyknowsbeauty810 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      There is nothing wrong with one dear lots of people have only one child. Love on your baby and yourself.

    • @paulinekerubo2800
      @paulinekerubo2800 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My second born is 5 I wanted three kids but am like wait a minute I don't think am ready for this.

  • @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
    @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whao !
    Interesting !

  • @DestinyDivine-v1j
    @DestinyDivine-v1j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just recover from that weared thing called postpartum

  • @FosterAmponsahBoahene
    @FosterAmponsahBoahene หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mon died sake of pregnancy 😢
    RIP

  • @Borlartar
    @Borlartar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤Love you Bambam

  • @adejokeomotolani3703
    @adejokeomotolani3703 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whr can I watch full video or this is the only clip 🥺

    • @WithChude
      @WithChude  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The full video is up on TH-cam or Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full interview and listen.withchude.com for the full podcast. You can also catch up with older episodes on both platforms.

  • @Chef_maraa
    @Chef_maraa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I thought i was the only one who puts on weight when I’m stressed 😩 it’s not just funny

    • @queenobioma78
      @queenobioma78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope you're not alone

    • @maryannokojie7404
      @maryannokojie7404 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are on the same WhatsApp group

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm here too 😁
      I literally put on weight when i am stressed

    • @isiguzorichard641
      @isiguzorichard641 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@GiftUzoma-hj2dsI don't understand......do people really gain weight when stressed??🤔🤔🤔

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@isiguzorichard641 yes they do

  • @oluwakemiatanda2636
    @oluwakemiatanda2636 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you so much bambam❤

  • @larasanni5550
    @larasanni5550 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My bambam❤

  • @lilianmartinaamakyi689
    @lilianmartinaamakyi689 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My bam bam

  • @ashanmoses7517
    @ashanmoses7517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you bam

  • @TORIMONGER
    @TORIMONGER ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look pretty though

  • @purplechocho
    @purplechocho หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank God I wasn't this lucky cos of funds I lost my baby unfortunately 🥺🥺👆

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So sorry about your loss 🥺 may God almighty give you double for your trouble.

  • @LuluPrecious
    @LuluPrecious หลายเดือนก่อน

    My BamBam 😍

  • @solapeters5566
    @solapeters5566 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bambam ❤

  • @CynthiaUche-kd2de
    @CynthiaUche-kd2de หลายเดือนก่อน

    But how your tommy is flat did you do bbl??

  • @samitoro1840
    @samitoro1840 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite

  • @Philjoe
    @Philjoe 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don't get it. They should not have let you go with PIH. You should have been stabilized....
    Post partum depression is real. This is trauma. PTSD.
    th-cam.com/users/liveOKmbyic59cg?feature=share

  • @sheis_aries
    @sheis_aries 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She speaks so well

  • @ijeomairene5105
    @ijeomairene5105 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My bambam

  • @Fanenteraudu
    @Fanenteraudu ปีที่แล้ว

    Bambam

  • @christianabishung9412
    @christianabishung9412 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Swt bam bam❤

  • @blissbodynmind
    @blissbodynmind ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the 11th to comment on your video. All the best.

  • @augustafrancis254
    @augustafrancis254 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @AreesWorldStores_
    @AreesWorldStores_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @Glorymore
    @Glorymore ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful classy woman

  • @TheresaNgusurun
    @TheresaNgusurun 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤🙏

  • @mabintoudrammeh8314
    @mabintoudrammeh8314 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love my favorite

  • @ENOR_G
    @ENOR_G 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Bam with the great dictions😊

  • @Oh_Nana1990
    @Oh_Nana1990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait oh she decided to disobey her doctor’s orders to go back to the hospital because she was hungry and too tired ? Sounds like her postpartum stemmed from guilt because had the hospital not been insistent, she or her baby would have died. That would have been a big shame.