No judgement! Unless you are perfect than cast your stone, otherwise listen and empathize. Try to understand the hurt and frustration not to mention embarrassment she endured, before she decided to give him a taste of his own medicine. You don’t owe anyone an apology for repaying him back what he dished out!
Sister aw..koj ua tau lub siab tawv kawg kuv thov qhuas koj os txog thaum luag tsis hlub yus lawm yus tsis muaj txoj hau kev luag ua2 kuv txoj hauv kev tag lawm ces leej twg los yeej ua ib yam os tsuas yus ua li Cas los tsuas yus ua cawm yus tus kheej Kom yus txhob muaj mob xwb ces tsis tau care txog leej twg luag yog neeg yus yog neeg ib yam koj ua tau zoo lawm os
Wow lady I don’t think there’s anyone that plans to get married and plan to get a divorce in a yr or 10 yrs or 30 yrs. To my knowledge when everyone gets married, of course plans to have a good life and live happily ever after. Nej cov niag story no ces whoever is telling the story ces is the perfect one. Ces tog tov ces twb tsis zoo yuav tag li xwb os.
Omgg, Mab. You’re so good at story telling. At the end, I forget this is a person telling someone else’s story. I almost felt like the lady was talking and telling it. You’re amazing! Keep up the amazing work. And to this wife, you go girl!! 😂❤
Tus me viv ncaus aw kuv nrog koj zoo siab peb tshuav ib cov raug txiv neej tsim txom ua tsis taus pauj los muaj cov muaj peev xwm ua tau li koj ces thov qhuas cos uas yog male xwb es tsus yov man ces yeej liam li ko ces yuav tau ua kom sib phim thiab peb cov poj yeej tdis xav ua phem tab sis tseeb kawg li koj hais yog thaum muab yus thawb tib tsa ces kawg yusv tau ua pauj thiaj dib phim thiab thiaj nyob tau ib lub ntuj Cov nisg txiv dev es thaum yus hluas mas tusj zov ruj cuag dev zov quav mas yuav kiag tau yus ces lub nisg siab thiab ntsej muag dab tawm plaws xwb
Nyias muaj nyias siab nyias ntsws, yog Kuv, Kuv yuav tsis ua pauj vim koj ua zoo koj siab tabsis no thaum kawg yus yog tus neeg swb thiab liam ib yam li nws. Nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej txhob xav txog now think about in the long run. You should’ve divorced him before get even with him. Your heart will not be the same after you went and have an affair. He will take you back but when you old he will hurt you again. Maybe he might learned and not do again. Only opinion.
I'm not judging you. You go girl. Sometimes you have to give them a taste of their medicine. We not in your shoes. If I was I probably do the same. I would have left and married the Laos guy.
Yog ib tug niam tsev zoo thov txhob tham hluas nraug ua ntej koj nrauj koj tus txiv, yog tsis zoo lawm muab nws nrauj tag mam ua zoo nrhiav dua txiv thiab li tau tus zoo, peb cov txiv neej ces yog koj tham hluas nraug lawm lam rov yuav koj tam sim no lwm hnub koj laus zog no ces peb mam tsim rau thaum laus nawb
What i don’t understand is, you have the guts to cheat but not the guts to leave him after all his affairs? If you were strong, you should have left him the first time he cheated and moved on. If I were you, once I cheated, I am out. No point of staying in a marriage like that. It’s toxic for your kids. 🤦♀️
I agree! I did that and I have no regret! Lesson learn. They better change. Like I always say, don’t let me start, once I start, you will have a heart attack. 😂
Two wrongs dont make a right but sometimes people need a taste of ther own medicine to become humble. But damnnn gone bak to the old dog….to the comfortable not the new!😂😂😂 to each and their own.😂😂
Kuv mas tsis thuam koj li os....kuv tsa ntiv xoo OK 👍 rau koj xwb....yog muaj peev xwm txaus ces kav tsij ua xwb tiag vim nws twv koj nws tso cai rau koj lawm ua lo lub ntuj zam txim kawg...vim koj tu txiv tso cai lub ntuj hnov lawm ne....
Hmoob thaj ua pheej mus nraws kwvtij ces thaum kawg kwvtij rov tham yus pojniam ntag... Cov neeg ua yuav tom yus ces yog cov neeg ua yus mus thawj lawv ntag. Vim lawv tsis care yus. Yog yus pojniam tseem zoo zoo nkauj ces tab tom coj yus pojniam mus rau lawv tham xwb. Hmoob mas yog ruam xwb😂😂😂
This Is Hilarious! 😂 Why I Don’t Retaliate & Do It Return!? Not Worth It … You Made It Worst Than It Already Is?! Move On If It Hurts! It Won’t Make It Better! 😢❤😂 Sometimes I Wonder If I Did What You Did, Then I Decided; NO!! I Don’t Want To Deal With What You Was Going Thru!! 😢❤😮
A taste of his own medicine is not gonna hurt him... as long as u both start fresh and new... no going backward and using that experience to fight each other, then life will be good, not great but good enough to respect each other and enjoy each others company again.
Koj txhob xav tias koj twv yeej koj tus txiv txoj kev ua hluas zaum no puas yog? Koj lub neej qhov zoo zaum no tag kiag rau hnub koj cia koj 2 sab ceg rau lwm tus txiv neej tsa yam koj tsis tau nrauj koj tus txiv liam no ua ntej tso.
First of all, your sorry husband just a typical person with no games. He had to suck it up and buy your love with his money and charm words. Second, don’t you ever put yourself down and put up with his bs talking. Stand up for yourself!! Third, you’re also in the wrong for doing what you did in the last part of the story. Remember always that 2 wrongs does not make it right. Anyway, is the younger brother’s name Yeej @14:30 or it is Txos @ 16:25?
Kudos to you. He cheated on you for so long.....it's good you decided to give him a taste of his own medicine. When you can't stop him you had no choice but to joined him and you sure did a good job. You're a strong, smart woman. I am proud of you cuz most hmong women wouldn't have the guts to do that...they'll let their man continue to hurt them over and over again for years. You on the other hand show him you too, are human. You have a heart, feelings and bleed out blood when you get a cut just like him. They say you have the kov daiv and for you to hold it but what do you win if you hold the kov daiv? You win nothing, shit so whats the point of hold the kov diav for. If you do a get divorce you're not gonna get everything...things are gonna be split evenly. His side of the family will fight with him eventhough he's the one at fault. You made the right choice. Both have the same right. He has the right to cheat so do you. Remember to keep your head up and watch him.....once a cheater will always be a cheater. He will go back to being a cheater later cuz he have a cheating disease which will catch up to him in no time so watch out.
You both deserve each other. This is not the last of it, your cheater husband will resume his cheating after you both aged. You will regret your decision to stay. Once you decided to cheat then you should be able to divorce him and move on. We'll wait for part 2 when he cheats again and you're now too old.
Hmong customs need to change, why pay to fix the other husband’s face, the wife should’ve asked payment for her face too because the cheating wife knew he was married. Us wives need to remember to speak up for our rights s as well!
Nej lub ntsiab lus no tsis raug lawm , koj lam txawj xwb tsis muaj ib lub hlwb li luag ntxub yus tas npaum los tseem 'tseeg thiab yog tsis muaj koj niag yawg nrauj tus hluas nkauj ces koj mag quj ua hmoov tas lawm os yuav tau ua nws tsaug nawb ua neeg nyob yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej thiab muab hais los pab koj tu siab vim koj tseem ruam tshaj tsiaj lawm yus twb tu ceg tas los yog vim nws es koj tseem tsis zeem thiab muab saib los koj tseem mag tsim txom tsis tau txaus txiv neej ntiaj teb tsis tas rau tus dab kom nav .
No one will ever understand until they’ve been in your shoes! He tasted his own medicine. You deserve better! Men will never admit that they’re jealous.
When u both marry young and have zero experience with other relationships. Get through how u can. He doesn’t deserve you. At least you got to experience someone else because of his disgusting ways.
Sister, you reaped what you sowed. You only have yourself to blamed. You should've never married him. After the first year and once he got your innocence and gotten you he's ready to torment and torture and control you. He's gonna shame you and all that pettiness he's gonna throw back at you. He's gonna start to cheat and disrespect you. You should've divorced him but nope you stayed married to him for 15 plus years. You are the foolish one.
Bravo for giving him a taste of his on med. My kind of girl!
Integrity is something Hmong men don't have much of.
Bravo 👏👏👏zoo kawg pauj tau kev chim siab kawg!!
No judgement! Unless you are perfect than cast your stone, otherwise listen and empathize. Try to understand the hurt and frustration not to mention embarrassment she endured, before she decided to give him a taste of his own medicine. You don’t owe anyone an apology for repaying him back what he dished out!
Zoo sab kawg le lau yuav tau Ua taus niam li koj thiab txiv neej thiaj muaj muaj phaus nrog Koj zoo siab kawg nkaus li os
U go girl!!! I like the way u think and do things.
Zoo siab koj ua tau paub lawm me viv ncaus. Nrog koj zoo siab heev os ua kiag rau niag txiv dev tig rov los hlub koj lawm.👍👍❤️❤️
Both of u deserve each other.
An eye for an eye... my kind of girl
You go girl!!! So proud of you. You should go get marry right in front of his face. Man like this one no mercy for him.
Sister aw..koj ua tau lub siab tawv kawg kuv thov qhuas koj os txog thaum luag tsis hlub yus lawm yus tsis muaj txoj hau kev luag ua2 kuv txoj hauv kev tag lawm ces leej twg los yeej ua ib yam os tsuas yus ua li Cas los tsuas yus ua cawm yus tus kheej Kom yus txhob muaj mob xwb ces tsis tau care txog leej twg luag yog neeg yus yog neeg ib yam koj ua tau zoo lawm os
He brings home some xyhob txhiaj and you brings home some xhyob txhiaj . Good luck
You go girl!!!!!👏👏👏
Koj ua tau zoo kawg li sister. Kuv tab Tom yuav txog koj them lom lom zem ntawv os 😂😂
Koj ua tau zoo kawg. I like like
LOVED YOU SISTER ♥️ ❤
Wow lady I don’t think there’s anyone that plans to get married and plan to get a divorce in a yr or 10 yrs or 30 yrs.
To my knowledge when everyone gets married, of course plans to have a good life and live happily ever after.
Nej cov niag story no ces whoever is telling the story ces is the perfect one.
Ces tog tov ces twb tsis zoo yuav tag li xwb os.
Keej kawg koj nas.
Omgg, Mab. You’re so good at story telling. At the end, I forget this is a person telling someone else’s story. I almost felt like the lady was talking and telling it. You’re amazing! Keep up the amazing work.
And to this wife, you go girl!! 😂❤
Yg kv yog ib tug thiab😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Kuv tuaj tog nawb muaj peev xwm li ko ntag
Tus me viv ncaus aw kuv nrog koj zoo siab peb tshuav ib cov raug txiv neej tsim txom ua tsis taus pauj los muaj cov muaj peev xwm ua tau li koj ces thov qhuas cos uas yog male xwb es tsus yov man ces yeej liam li ko ces yuav tau ua kom sib phim thiab peb cov poj yeej tdis xav ua phem tab sis tseeb kawg li koj hais yog thaum muab yus thawb tib tsa ces kawg yusv tau ua pauj thiaj dib phim thiab thiaj nyob tau ib lub ntuj
Cov nisg txiv dev es thaum yus hluas mas tusj zov ruj cuag dev zov quav mas yuav kiag tau yus ces lub nisg siab thiab ntsej muag dab tawm plaws xwb
Mi niamhluas aw! Your not the only one. Pretty sure every women wants a good life w/the intention of staying. It’s call “ENOUGH IS ENOUGH”.
Nyias muaj nyias siab nyias ntsws, yog Kuv, Kuv yuav tsis ua pauj vim koj ua zoo koj siab tabsis no thaum kawg yus yog tus neeg swb thiab liam ib yam li nws. Nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej txhob xav txog now think about in the long run. You should’ve divorced him before get even with him. Your heart will not be the same after you went and have an affair. He will take you back but when you old he will hurt you again. Maybe he might learned and not do again. Only opinion.
I like this kind of revenge story good job sister..thanks for sharing
Love your style!!!❤❤❤
Never let yourself be a 2nd choice..especially my Hmong sisters.
I'm not judging you. You go girl. Sometimes you have to give them a taste of their medicine.
We not in your shoes. If I was I probably do the same. I would have left and married the Laos guy.
Good for you sis…I support you❤❤❤👏👏👏
Yog ib tug niam tsev zoo thov txhob tham hluas nraug ua ntej koj nrauj koj tus txiv, yog tsis zoo lawm muab nws nrauj tag mam ua zoo nrhiav dua txiv thiab li tau tus zoo, peb cov txiv neej ces yog koj tham hluas nraug lawm lam rov yuav koj tam sim no lwm hnub koj laus zog no ces peb mam tsim rau thaum laus nawb
What i don’t understand is, you have the guts to cheat but not the guts to leave him after all his affairs? If you were strong, you should have left him the first time he cheated and moved on. If I were you, once I cheated, I am out. No point of staying in a marriage like that. It’s toxic for your kids. 🤦♀️
I agree! I did that and I have no regret! Lesson learn. They better change. Like I always say, don’t let me start, once I start, you will have a heart attack. 😂
Qub neeg qub siab
Ha ha. Tij laug Teeb deev niam ntxawm yeej
Two wrongs dont make a right but sometimes people need a taste of ther own medicine to become humble. But damnnn gone bak to the old dog….to the comfortable not the new!😂😂😂 to each and their own.😂😂
Mloog ua ke os🎉
All my cousins who are married to Laotian guys are very spoiled and happy. Their Husbands loves them very much; it changed the elders’ perspective.
Kav tsij mus ua ntag ntshe tsis txawj ua xwb yuav tsum ua thiab thiaj tsim nyog
Tam sim no koj mam ua pauj ces lig dhau lawm os.......
Kuv mas tsis thuam koj li os....kuv tsa ntiv xoo OK 👍 rau koj xwb....yog muaj peev xwm txaus ces kav tsij ua xwb tiag vim nws twv koj nws tso cai rau koj lawm ua lo lub ntuj zam txim kawg...vim koj tu txiv tso cai lub ntuj hnov lawm ne....
Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo ces Yog koj tus txiv
Peb cov poj Niam yuav tua ua li no lol😊
Tsis tuam koj lis. Muaj peev Xwm li koj, koj tus txiv thiaj “respect “ koj.
Cas ib pliag txos ib pliag yeej na
👍👏👏👏👏
Hmoob thaj ua pheej mus nraws kwvtij ces thaum kawg kwvtij rov tham yus pojniam ntag... Cov neeg ua yuav tom yus ces yog cov neeg ua yus mus thawj lawv ntag. Vim lawv tsis care yus. Yog yus pojniam tseem zoo zoo nkauj ces tab tom coj yus pojniam mus rau lawv tham xwb. Hmoob mas yog ruam xwb😂😂😂
Bravo to your sister.
This Is Hilarious! 😂 Why I Don’t Retaliate & Do It Return!? Not Worth It … You Made It Worst Than It Already Is?! Move On If It Hurts! It Won’t Make It Better! 😢❤😂
Sometimes I Wonder If I Did What You Did, Then I Decided; NO!! I Don’t Want To Deal With What You Was Going Thru!! 😢❤😮
Good job tus niam tsev. Muab nws hauv tshuaj rau nws haus kom nws thiaj paub tias iab thiab mob npaum cas
Neeg tsis sawm zoo os niam neej vam aw
A taste of his own medicine is not gonna hurt him... as long as u both start fresh and new... no going backward and using that experience to fight each other, then life will be good, not great but good enough to respect each other and enjoy each others company again.
Koj txhob xav tias koj twv yeej koj tus txiv txoj kev ua hluas zaum no puas yog? Koj lub neej qhov zoo zaum no tag kiag rau hnub koj cia koj 2 sab ceg rau lwm tus txiv neej tsa yam koj tsis tau nrauj koj tus txiv liam no ua ntej tso.
First of all, your sorry husband just a typical person with no games. He had to suck it up and buy your love with his money and charm words. Second, don’t you ever put yourself down and put up with his bs talking. Stand up for yourself!! Third, you’re also in the wrong for doing what you did in the last part of the story. Remember always that 2 wrongs does not make it right. Anyway, is the younger brother’s name Yeej @14:30 or it is Txos @ 16:25?
Kudos to you. He cheated on you for so long.....it's good you decided to give him a taste of his own medicine. When you can't stop him you had no choice but to joined him and you sure did a good job. You're a strong, smart woman. I am proud of you cuz most hmong women wouldn't have the guts to do that...they'll let their man continue to hurt them over and over again for years. You on the other hand show him you too, are human. You have a heart, feelings and bleed out blood when you get a cut just like him. They say you have the kov daiv and for you to hold it but what do you win if you hold the kov daiv? You win nothing, shit so whats the point of hold the kov diav for. If you do a get divorce you're not gonna get everything...things are gonna be split evenly. His side of the family will fight with him eventhough he's the one at fault. You made the right choice. Both have the same right. He has the right to cheat so do you. Remember to keep your head up and watch him.....once a cheater will always be a cheater. He will go back to being a cheater later cuz he have a cheating disease which will catch up to him in no time so watch out.
I regret that I ua niam tsev siab zoo. Should of taken that route
You both deserve each other. This is not the last of it, your cheater husband will resume his cheating after you both aged. You will regret your decision to stay. Once you decided to cheat then you should be able to divorce him and move on. We'll wait for part 2 when he cheats again and you're now too old.
Hmong customs need to change, why pay to fix the other husband’s face, the wife should’ve asked payment for her face too because the cheating wife knew he was married. Us wives need to remember to speak up for our rights s as well!
Nej lub ntsiab lus no tsis raug lawm , koj lam txawj xwb tsis muaj ib lub hlwb li luag ntxub yus tas npaum los tseem 'tseeg thiab yog tsis muaj koj niag yawg nrauj tus hluas nkauj ces koj mag quj ua hmoov tas lawm os yuav tau ua nws tsaug nawb ua neeg nyob yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej thiab muab hais los pab koj tu siab vim koj tseem ruam tshaj tsiaj lawm yus twb tu ceg tas los yog vim nws es koj tseem tsis zeem thiab muab saib los koj tseem mag tsim txom tsis tau txaus txiv neej ntiaj teb tsis tas rau tus dab kom nav .
More power to you sister!
Under-dogs on top!
Ua tau zoo kawg!
No one will ever understand until they’ve been in your shoes! He tasted his own medicine. You deserve better! Men will never admit that they’re jealous.
When u both marry young and have zero experience with other relationships. Get through how u can. He doesn’t deserve you. At least you got to experience someone else because of his disgusting ways.
Oh yaum yus mos mos ab nus nyiam qhuav 20 xyoo es koj hais tias nus yog ib niag nraug laus no los cas koj niam yuav mos uas luaj lis os
Hom neeg es thaum hluas nraug khib khib xeeb liam liam hiam mas txhob yuav nawb yog sib yuav ces koj tau tu txiv lub siab liam liam ntag
Koj tus txiv tab Tom pim koj xwb......nws twb tsis laus rau koj. Kuv qhia rau koj tias kuv twb tshaj kuv poj niam 38 xyoo es nws twb tsis hais tias kuv laus laus no laiv. Txhob Liam tias nws laus tshaj koj nawb.
Neb ces liam sib phim xwb nawb...
Loving the double standards!!
This story is alright a turn off how she started the perfect person she is.
Tus niam tsev ruam koj ua tau ruam heev ualis koj ua kos mas tsi muaj neeg qhuas koj lis os
Neb ces sib phim xwb.
Sister, you reaped what you sowed. You only have yourself to blamed. You should've never married him. After the first year and once he got your innocence and gotten you he's ready to torment and torture and control you. He's gonna shame you and all that pettiness he's gonna throw back at you.
He's gonna start to cheat and disrespect you.
You should've divorced him but nope you stayed married to him for 15 plus years. You are the foolish one.
Poj niam liam xyob txhiaj