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The key here is sincere and natural empathy with genuine interest in the woman. When you have that you'll know it by her eye contact response. When she looks into your eyes and sees what you're doing she will shyly look down blushing. That's when you secretly congratulate yourself. You got her.
Something I didn't really understand until recently is that you gotta have 2 modes for eye contact. Friends, family, coworkers etc. is 60-70%, but you gotta switch to date mode in your mind to really crank it up to 80-90%.
Here bc i have been told several times that I have dreamy, seductive eyes and they assumed I was flirting. But I explained there's meaning behind it, it's my normal look.
Excellent video brother you really give examples on how to do it unlike others vids in which they don´t give these good examples the way you do. Thanks for the info.
From a female perspective I’ll never not get bashful if it’s a guy I feel attraction or a sexual tension with. 😂 I can hold eye contact for a short while, sure, but will always end up looking down first, shyly. And when you know the guy is still looking at you after that... 🥵🥵
YOU MUST HAVE SO MANY WOMAN! 😉 JOKING... BUT WHERE DID THE LOVELY AND MAGICAL 90S GO FELT LIKE A WEEK AGO! 90S WHEN LIFE AND MUSIC MADE SENSE ONE LOVE MICHAELA "Mia"
Its not Technics its natural.. if you will doing this on purpose its will look weird and creepy and she will notice you trying something on force. Just be yourself this is the best. And thinking you need look at her 95% of the time because that what you said it could be really creepy and weird to her you can look like a maniac just be yourself like i said
I love that there is a video about this. Too often, as you stated, people are intimidated by good eye contact. I can't tell you how many times I give direct eye contact, only to be met with half ass eye contact or eyes on the floor. I have respect for you when you can meet my gaze. It does require confidence but it's very attractive when done correctly.
And then there is me who really trynna deepen the eye contact and it always turns out that the woman sees me as a creep so that crap doesn’t work either
😂 Blue Steel!!! 😂 Don't just make your face look a certain way. Actually feel and emote the way you want to come across. Actually pay attention to what they are saying verses thinking about how your coming across. Actually flirt with her with you eyes and a smile. Emote it.
I get more choosing signals when I do this. But I was doing it this whole time without even knowing I was doing it. It was just natural for me. It works literally anywhere. Clubs, work home anywhere
Dude best advice, beating any technics you can learn or teach is actually to connect with that woman/person from your heart, show genuine interest in her/him (without thinking about what might come next... people sense what's going on in your head) and allow yourself to feel what you feel towards that person - a little bit of excitement to see them again, perhaps delecat admiration or maybe a bit of an appreciation for whatever they are doing or sharing with you at that moment.... We've all got sooo used to fake it till you make it, that the majority of things look and sound o over exaggerated, false and phoney ... You can't beat genuine connection 👍
hey tripp, can you do a video on how to approach a girl at the gym while she has her headphones on with out being creepy. Most of us know the gym is the new club scene
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
You can test it on strippers! eyes contact! listening, and rhen throw them a sincere Complement, you have magnificent eyes, ect? there are used to hearing I like your ass baby. Anyway try this on Every dancer whos attractive. I guarantee you if you go back again they will be fighting over you. And not just over your dollar bills. They all talk amongst each other in the back room about the guys. Be the one that they are raving about!
Best way I've learned how to be comfortable is to close your eyelids part ways to look like you're just waking up from a nap and remember to blink slowly instead of rapidly. People will naturally open up to you more if you appear to be calm and relaxed.
Recently I've been working on an issue I have when Socializing. I feel like I make people feel uncomfortable with my eye contact pattern. I consider myself a very confident person. When I am listening to you, I want to look at your eyes nearly uninterruptedly. However I notice that people start looking at my eyes more times, but for shorter periods. When I notice they do it twice I start looking away, pretty much not making eye contact. But when I do that, they start looking at my eyes more times and for periods longer than they were in the first place. I really dislike this situation. I feel like a moron, a trust unworthy person and I feel that I intimidate whoever I talk to. Recently I've been devoting to learn Body Language and Intimacy + Socializing in general. And I'm trying to find out if whether or not they do that because I over-arouse them or if it is part of a transition from shallow to deep and more arousing interactions. This video could be an important piece of whatever I find out.
Ive done it without noticing 😂 im an introvert and im faking till i make it to be confident I looked at her she looks back I smirk and look her from eye to toe She mirrored it, she reached out and ask for a fist 👊 lol i hold her hand instead and shake it after that she changes her energy and was playful in the dms which she is not doing before 😂💀its like a real life spell/power
Dude no girl wants a guy who agrees with everything a woman says. If u disagree with her on something then don't hold back and act like a submissive ass bitch. U tell her straight up that "I don't agree with this and that" or "I believe in this and that." No girl is gonna get mad at u for having ur own opinion on shit. Women will be more likely to respect u more because u have ur own way of thinking.
my most successful nights have come off women getting mad at me. an emotional response, even a negative one is better than no response at all. it is all how you react to it. as long as you remain calm don't start immediately apologising or getting angry and just smile. if push comes to shove you can always agree to disagree.
@@Lak3baby Well if the bitch acts all moody then she's not the one for u. It means she's emotionally immature and can't handle other people's opinions. I'm not gonna hold back my opinion just to make someone else feel better. Her insecurities are not my problem. That's bullshit. Any mans opinion is just as valid as any womans opinion. I'm not gonna kiss a girls ass just because she can't handle the fact that I disagree on something. I want a woman not a petty ass spoiled little girl in my life. Fuck that. The same way I would love a woman to speak her mind and not agree with everything I say the same way I'm gonna speak my mind and give my own opinion and not agree with everything she says.
In my case i will be listening to her from across the desk and looking at her in the eyes and sometimes I look at her hair. Will she notice im looking at her hair when i take off eye contact Then I go. Back and look at her in the eyes as She continues to talk to me i also look at her neck as she wears neck cover dresses that look very elegant but sexy. While I take look at all those things and not just at her eyes can she tell what is that I’m looking at ?
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if you smoke a joint before talking to her, you won't have to worry about the squinting and smiling part at all.
Hahaha great comment dude
So true
Hahaha good one 🍻🍻🍻🍻
Yeah but you might have to worry if your wallet is missing though 🤔
True ... I started to going to work high and this girl at my work who would Always ignore me started flirting like crazy even caught her stalking me
The key here is sincere and natural empathy with genuine interest in the woman. When you have that you'll know it by her eye contact response. When she looks into your eyes and sees what you're doing she will shyly look down blushing. That's when you secretly congratulate yourself. You got her.
Got that for the first time today. I used to walk around staring at the floor, so it felt amazing.
Something I didn't really understand until recently is that you gotta have 2 modes for eye contact. Friends, family, coworkers etc. is 60-70%, but you gotta switch to date mode in your mind to really crank it up to 80-90%.
I’m Date Mike, nice to meet me..
xD
I suffer of lazy eyes and my dates think that I’m looking at other girls
Nick Ronaldo bro u not alone same here with me,I know the feeling
Nick Ronaldo sit next to her instead. That way you’ll be closer and it makes it easier for you to able to touch eachother
He is joking guys
Lol
Lol
Eye contact is an alpha trait.
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It's very powerful especially if you're handsome. I use to be uncomfortable in it so I didn't know the power to get em wet.
Here bc i have been told several times that I have dreamy, seductive eyes and they assumed I was flirting. But I explained there's meaning behind it, it's my normal look.
Tripp here, he was showing his version of his "blue steel look" flirty stare, haha!! In case you don't the reference it's from Zoolander.
I looked a girl right in the eyes on a bus the other day...i can't remember if she looked back because i nodded off.
Excellent video brother you really give examples on how to do it unlike others vids in which they don´t give these good examples the way you do. Thanks for the info.
I just look at the bridge of their nose. They think I'm looking them in the eyes and I'm not freaking out 🤣🤪
Wow thanks for the idea!!
Beta
Anyone that says beta is a beta 🤣
@@NaeMuckletakes one to know one
@@kennn1007 did you really just say takes one to know one 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍
If you want to get that slight smile, think of a funny moment or joke you heard recently
My dentist is using these techniques on me, so hard to resist I better run away🙃
LMFAO
From a female perspective I’ll never not get bashful if it’s a guy I feel attraction or a sexual tension with. 😂 I can hold eye contact for a short while, sure, but will always end up looking down first, shyly. And when you know the guy is still looking at you after that... 🥵🥵
Omg I do this flirty things even if I don't think about it sometimes. I guess beacause i'm a good listener
Did you guys know that you can't technically look in both eyes you either look in the left or right food for thought
Switch it up when talking
how tall are you tripp?
Thanks Tripp
Tip: take many selfies or look at the mirror (killer look) as many as you can to boost your eye contact.
You are tripp ing
I will absolutely fake all these cool eye contact techniques on my next dare.
I will become a professional eye furrower....lol.
Love Tripps advice but i feel like that smile is a little creepy when your lips are already wide
In Singapore it doesn't work I tried already
Singapore girls are too shy. Eye contacts rude in Asian culture anyway.
Try in hot Indian girls their eye contact is flirtatious
Nice job as always!
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YOU MUST HAVE SO MANY WOMAN! 😉 JOKING... BUT WHERE DID THE LOVELY AND MAGICAL 90S GO FELT LIKE A WEEK AGO! 90S WHEN LIFE AND MUSIC MADE SENSE ONE LOVE MICHAELA "Mia"
How romantic 😍
True
Its not Technics its natural.. if you will doing this on purpose its will look weird and creepy and she will notice you trying something on force. Just be yourself this is the best. And thinking you need look at her 95% of the time because that what you said it could be really creepy and weird to her you can look like a maniac just be yourself like i said
ab pta chlrha h bad news for merohini
Big problem for aspies!
Flirting with the eyes. Very important skill in a seducers tool box.
Without that you cannot successfully seduce any woman. But it has to be covertly done as if no one else can see it but her.
It worked! I fell in love with myself
hahahahahahaha
lucky you!
I love that there is a video about this. Too often, as you stated, people are intimidated by good eye contact. I can't tell you how many times I give direct eye contact, only to be met with half ass eye contact or eyes on the floor. I have respect for you when you can meet my gaze. It does require confidence but it's very attractive when done correctly.
And then there is me who really trynna deepen the eye contact and it always turns out that the woman sees me as a creep so that crap doesn’t work either
Done with love and high vibration
Yessss
Female opinion here: it works, but there is a definite fine line between seductive and creepy.
(pandemic) cannot tell if anyone is smiling, driving me nuts.
All I get are TEXTS🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
SEE HOW MUCH I'M SMILING ? 😂
Same man
Look out for their eyes if they're wearing masks. If you are texting online though then that's a whole nother story.
😂 Blue Steel!!! 😂
Don't just make your face look a certain way. Actually feel and emote the way you want to come across.
Actually pay attention to what they are saying verses thinking about how your coming across. Actually flirt with her with you eyes and a smile. Emote it.
I get more choosing signals when I do this. But I was doing it this whole time without even knowing I was doing it. It was just natural for me. It works literally anywhere. Clubs, work home anywhere
choosing signals?
MrNicoJac like when a girl is giving you hints to approach her
Dude best advice, beating any technics you can learn or teach is actually to connect with that woman/person from your heart, show genuine interest in her/him (without thinking about what might come next... people sense what's going on in your head) and allow yourself to feel what you feel towards that person - a little bit of excitement to see them again, perhaps delecat admiration or maybe a bit of an appreciation for whatever they are doing or sharing with you at that moment....
We've all got sooo used to fake it till you make it, that the majority of things look and sound o over exaggerated, false and phoney ...
You can't beat genuine connection 👍
hey tripp, can you do a video on how to approach a girl at the gym while she has her headphones on with out being creepy. Most of us know the gym is the new club scene
I did a podcast episode on that a while back. Here ya go ► apple.co/3b1QPrR.
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
Don’t. We go to gym to get shit done, not chase dick. If we put headphones in, it’s because we don’t want to talk or be disrupted. Use a dating app or pub - women often avoid gyms because we’re tired of men using it as a playground/nightclub and not letting us workout in peace without making us feel uncomfortable about being watched and chatted up.
@@BehindTheBush96 that's true
I look at all my strippers in their eyes 👀
Hahaha 😂😂
You can test it on strippers! eyes contact! listening, and rhen throw them a sincere Complement, you have magnificent eyes, ect? there are used to hearing I like your ass baby. Anyway try this on Every dancer whos attractive. I guarantee you if you go back again they will be fighting over you. And not just over your dollar bills. They all talk amongst each other in the back room about the guys. Be the one that they are raving about!
Best way I've learned how to be comfortable is to close your eyelids part ways to look like you're just waking up from a nap and remember to blink slowly instead of rapidly.
People will naturally open up to you more if you appear to be calm and relaxed.
Tripp’s camera must be so wet rn
Tripp made me so wet and I’m a guy
Do this guys, do all that staring he's talking about, but TOTALLY avoid talking to her... *Do it for MONTHS...LMAO 🤣😂*
Love this video... this helps! 👍
Tips start 4:09.
@Cactuss I'm glad you appreciate, but don't say that. I am absolutely not God, and I will never claim to be (so help me God).
The actual content of this video is good.
I thank this person for presenting it.
This is really helpful now-a-days because of mask on face😂😂😂
I say trust your instincts this is over acting 🎭
It takes time to trust your instincts dawg
I just noticed that I naturally did what you showed in this video. Kind of reassured me lol
I can’t do it at all one of my biggest confidence issues
Recently I've been working on an issue I have when Socializing.
I feel like I make people feel uncomfortable with my eye contact pattern.
I consider myself a very confident person. When I am listening to you, I want to look at your eyes nearly uninterruptedly. However I notice that people start looking at my eyes more times, but for shorter periods.
When I notice they do it twice I start looking away, pretty much not making eye contact. But when I do that, they start looking at my eyes more times and for periods longer than they were in the first place. I really dislike this situation.
I feel like a moron, a trust unworthy person and I feel that I intimidate whoever I talk to.
Recently I've been devoting to learn Body Language and Intimacy + Socializing in general. And I'm trying to find out if whether or not they do that because I over-arouse them or if it is part of a transition from shallow to deep and more arousing interactions. This video could be an important piece of whatever I find out.
This does not help at all!!! Only in USA
U can steal all the women with strategie!! Have all the dudes mad for real!!
Ive done it without noticing 😂 im an introvert and im faking till i make it to be confident
I looked at her she looks back
I smirk and look her from eye to toe
She mirrored it, she reached out and ask for a fist 👊 lol i hold her hand instead and shake it after that she changes her energy and was playful in the dms which she is not doing before
😂💀its like a real life spell/power
What if it made her angry or lost the mood when you countered her opinion
Dude no girl wants a guy who agrees with everything a woman says. If u disagree with her on something then don't hold back and act like a submissive ass bitch. U tell her straight up that "I don't agree with this and that" or "I believe in this and that." No girl is gonna get mad at u for having ur own opinion on shit. Women will be more likely to respect u more because u have ur own way of thinking.
Hamilton Champagne did you not read his comment, sometimes an insecure moody bitch will get mad if you disagree so don’t act strange
my most successful nights have come off women getting mad at me. an emotional response, even a negative one is better than no response at all. it is all how you react to it. as long as you remain calm don't start immediately apologising or getting angry and just smile. if push comes to shove you can always agree to disagree.
@@Lak3baby Well if the bitch acts all moody then she's not the one for u. It means she's emotionally immature and can't handle other people's opinions. I'm not gonna hold back my opinion just to make someone else feel better. Her insecurities are not my problem. That's bullshit. Any mans opinion is just as valid as any womans opinion. I'm not gonna kiss a girls ass just because she can't handle the fact that I disagree on something. I want a woman not a petty ass spoiled little girl in my life. Fuck that. The same way I would love a woman to speak her mind and not agree with everything I say the same way I'm gonna speak my mind and give my own opinion and not agree with everything she says.
You're funny in both
This guy treats his viewers like they're idiots..like children.
Like he's God or something. He's not even licensed.
5:18 hahaha
Hey Tripp, it’s be great if you put the video summary in the description because I want to screenshot notes to read daily and ingrained into my head
yes
Buy the book
drexter09 buy these nuts
That's a great idea. You should do it.
@@TrippAdvice 💀💀💀
Great video on field
My powerful weapon to chase a lot of women😊
I appreciate your helpful tips & examples!
He's always reminding me of Adam sandler
I tried that smile before the video and yes it does work
(before video starts) is it triangle gazing? i bet it's triangle gazing. (end of video) huh, i guess not.
The joys of having a lazy eye......
You look like Steph Curry when you do flirty fun 😂😂😂
Dang bro how do you not burst out laughing while looking at me like that
Worst advices ever except the eye-related stuff, but I applaud your demo ♡
Eye contact become stares and bloom into brawls!
This guy here is trying to seduce me😏😏.. . Man I am taken 😊.................................................................... No I am not 😶😭😭😭
now i get to knw everhthng i hope i knew it before
Thanks tripp
Sigma male grindset: is she doesn’t show interest, stalk her
The comments are driving me nuts.
I'm loving the backdrop, and button down in this video. Looks nice.
I keep blinking when trying to hold eye contact.
Do you have an email I want to share with you something what’s going with my life
Hmm wondering if it's worth all this☠️
Support the channel Tripp 👌🔥
good.
lol
Anyone after Salvatore??
Stefan?
I am shy and have social anxiety but whenever i talk to a girl, i have NO problem at all with eye contact or confidence. idk why that is.
Thank you for all your videos bro !
🤣
In my case i will be listening to her from across the desk and looking at her in the eyes and sometimes I look at her hair. Will she notice im looking at her hair when i take off eye contact Then I go. Back and look at her in the eyes as She continues to talk to me i also look at her neck as she wears neck cover dresses that look very elegant but sexy. While I take look at all those things and not just at her eyes can she tell what is that I’m looking at ?