OMG, every single word you said is 200% true, while watching you talking,I felt I am watching my own biography, my partner does the same, silent treatment is like everydays sweet treat after food,it's becoming so common , everyday tasks. I am sure many go through this situation. My request to you all 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 please don't become that dusri औरत in any मेल्स लाईफ and give pain to your sakhi...we women should respect each other, doesn't mater we know each other or not 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Such people don't let the other person become independent in any way. They keep them away from people who are good with them/who encourage them Each and every point is my own experience
बहुत ही शातिर दिमाग के, चालक लोग है ये . खाने के दात अलग दिखाने के दात अलग.बाहर तो बडे सचे आच्ये दिखायेंगे. कोई यकीन नाही करेंगे. हैरान है हम .भगवान बाचाये ऐसे लोगो से🙏💖
This is Surprising and good that people are aware of this NARCISSIST trait. Otherwise in India this trait had often become normalised in workplace, family and in friend circle. Now finally targeted person could raise up from this self-sabotage and dilemma path made by insecured and attention seeking person. Atleast they will not waste their time and energy by blaming themself after this knowledge. Thank you for your effort and dedication for welfare of humanity. Certainly this video mean a lot to those who had faced this issue who are not even onus of this problem of chaotic person.
@@baidyanathmahato6909 the only way to deal with such people is to go 'No contact' with them. Stop giving them supplies, they don't deserve your time and energy!! Wish you best of luck :-) .... Hari bol 🙌
Thank you Namitaji.This session is very helpful for me. I deeply believe in Lord Krishna. Krishna is everywhere and today i saw Krishna in you, Namitaji. You have no idea, what miracle you have done!!!
Namita ji ..app bahot hi achha kaam Kar Raha hai ..to educate people those who are in trouble or suffer from difficulty.. tons of thanks to you. Whenever I am facing any difficulty I used to watch your session again and again. Hare Krishna.
A. How to identify narcist in short time? Ans:- 1. Just create imaginary short story about yourself that you are in problem and you need help.Just see the reaction of narcist either he will smileing inside or he may feeling happy inside or he may reply you late. Most of narcist are feelingless and have no emotions for anyone. 2. If you are meet with any narcist they may be your office staff,relatives,parents they always target you on your weak point.So never reveal your weak point to narcist. Most of narcist used your weak point as their weapons. So if you seen any people use your weak point as a weapon then you may confirm that he is a narcist. 3. They always try to show superior in front of people but when time come to show their superiority they will ran away from the place.Most of covert narcist comes under this. 4. We always see jealousy mentality in narcist people.They always jealousy with other money,status,success. 5. They want you to surrender yourself under them. They want you to surrender your self-respect under him. 6. They always use facemask to hide their real face.For them their self respect,image is most necessary.If their image is destroy by someone they will take revenge with you. To make revenge with you they used your closed one like family,friend,relatives,office staff against you and they always make relationship with your closed to know your weak point or information. 7. During any talk they don't response to your conversation. They always try to make themselves center of attraction in every discussion. 8. They try to talk with you regularly to know your secret, to brainwash your mind and to make addiction of talk with them.Whenever you are in problem you just call them for solution whereas the narcist people after knowing your problem always take benefit from your problem. 9. Narcist people are so aggressive, controlling and dominating during talking and maintaining any relationship. They always telling lie and confusing you during talking. 10. During any conversation they always try to change topic, if in this topic they have any fault. 11. Most of narcist are kanjus in nature.They always show kanjusi in family to use their closed one money. whereas sometimes they waste money to get attention,admiration of people to hide their kanjusi nature. Basically they spent money on those people through whom they will benefited in future. 12. A narcist always take with him a support system of friends, relatives. Thats why normal people unable to defeat them with their plan.So they never afraid to anyone. To take revenge with someone they will used these relatives,friends against you. 13. They avoid you,fear to come in front of you or stop talking with you , if you took your self respect first in every ,if you have make boundaries for yourself, if you have control in yourself. 14. They also never able to face any insult in public.If you insult them in public they definitely take revenge with you and they may waiting for perfect time to take revenge like a scorpion. Sometimes they never come in front to take revenge with you whereas they may use their supporter or your closed one to take revenge with you. 15. They have constantly mood swing and dual personality. When they want some thing from anyone then they behave like normal people like showing emotions, respect, care and when they want to take revenge they do disrespect,angerness and demcare to other person.Behavior pattern always changed as per time. 16. They never socialize with people due to their fear. 17. They always afraid to their past.If you bring their past to them they will either change the topic,never admit their past fault or they hide their past with telling lie. 18. They will angry or their ego will hurt if you compare them with others. 19. They always like to show up things like staus,mobiles,vehicle,money but they afraid to disclosed if someone help him through monetary or emotionally. That is their main weak point. 20. If they like you or love you then they will hide you from society. 21. They always wants attention, admiration,complement,validation from others.They want people will do as per their order and they like to use people as a slave. 22. They like to make multiple relationship always searching for new relationship.They can't live in one relationship for longtime.They may bored in one relationship.To boost own ego they like multiple relationship.If a narcistic men have many gf whereas a narcistic women have many bf. B. How to counter a narcist? Ans:- 1. If you want to talk to any narcist then you talk with him full confidence with aggressiveness without showing him any weak point or emotions.Hide your emotions during talking with him. 2. Try to avoid direct communication like talking with narcist people.Try to avoid them with making no contact with him. Most of narcist people try to talk with you to know your views on any matter or to know your weak point.If you see any narcist people desperately want to talk with you at that time avoid them and show yourself busy.Set boundaries for yourself.Don't allow them to enter in your life easily. 3. Don't argue with them.During arguing they can take information from your mouth. 4. Stop explaining them they will not able to understand. 5. Sometimes narcist intentionally make angry you but instead of angry with him you just give them normal reaction. At that time narcist will became tense that all my plan fail. 6. To use narcist people or make them happy just give compliments them. Like you are beautiful,you do a good work etc. 7. Sometimes narcist show himself as victim or behave like fake crying. Basically they play victim card when they are red handed caught in hiding any truth or his plan failed. They also used this fake crying to attract those people who are against them. Sometimes use victim card to confuse you and their plan to convince to work as per their will. They cry in front of you to show you that everything your fault. 8. Don't give narcist those things what they want desperately. 9. Don't try to show them their mistakes they will always blame you for their mistake. 10. They will always use anger, manipulation,victimhood to make you feel guilty and gain power over you. 11. Don't give them more attention, admiration and avoid them before they started avoiding you. Just accept that they have psychological disorder and avoid them. 12. Never trust their words.They always telling lie.They always hide their real intentions behind behaving well and smiling face.
Hi I have dealt with both female and male narc , I agree with all the points but one point you mentioned is wrong , "that they are not social " (Talking about 16th point that you have mentioned} they are social and charming as well . They have a good social circle , and they try to demean you if in case you don't have a high social circle , they will demean you . I still am affected by both the narcs , they are pure evil and I know they have a good friend circle , but nobody knows the mask behind that. I hope you will not take it in a negative way as I have observed this thing.
Thank You Namrataji for validating my feelings. Little by little I am lurking to look at myself and my feelings and feeling I am part of Paramatma so I need to love myself just the way he loves me. Sixty years of neglect is going to take time but THANK YOU 🙏 I am learning to love myself. God Bless you snd your family. 😊🙌🙏
Thanks for this guided meditation. I am actually feeling very strong. I need to do this meditation frequently to feel energised. This meditation is wonderful. May lord krishna shower his love on you.
Just ignore these kind of people. Stop giving them any kind of importance. Do whatever you want to do. I am dealing with these kind of ppl for so long and telling you from my experience.
Omg 😱 mai to unspeakable ho gai! No wordings to Appreciate!100% true, ap ka wordings sunka to comment likhna v bhul gai! kash Ap mujha pahali malai hotai to ma kitna mentality strong or majbut hoti! Ap ka Nam Uccha rahai 🙏♥️🇳🇵🇺🇸
I too have gone through all this for most part of life but as I started believing and following spirituallity I learned it is definately karmic law and the more one understands this there is so much peace and the soul guides us to peace. The Narcissist we have to live with get themselves away from us the more one gets into spirituallity, my experience.
Live in ur truth.never validate them for their bad behaviour.b independent as much as possible for ur circumstances. Stand up for ur truth.I cant still believe what my life became in few years.im living the dream🤗.
I had gone through similar situation in my life, my dad, sibling and wife all were toxic and narcissistic. When I live up to their expectations I was “ram” when I felt their toxicity and I asked to stop nonsense I was “haram”. It was me against my family and I don’t have to explain these circumstances to friends as they know me since a long time but some distant relatives they wonder.Sometimes I think being genuine honest humble is a curse these days. Thank you for the wonderful teachings ! God bless
मेरे साथ तो बहुत समय से होता रहा ,,,बहुत करीब से ,,,एक एक बात सही रही ,,,बस मेरा बड़ा स्ट्रांग नेचर है ,,,शायद इसीलिए वो मेरा बहुत बिगाड़ नहीं कर सकी ,,,मगर आपकी बात एकदम सही है ,,,
Staying connected with God and try to be self dependent it will solve all problems and yes it sounds really difficult at emotional level but you need to start detaching yourself and develop self love and connect with god spend time with yourself for your own well being All points mentioned are perfectly alright for a narcissist person.
Very nice Madem. जय श्री कृष्णा बहुत ही सुंदर बोलते हैं आप ,मैडम मैं जीवन में वास्तविकता को पसंद करती हूं उन लोगों को पसंद करती हूं जो सच्चाई से मैं आपको प्रस्तुत करते हैं मैंने आज तक अनेकों लाइफ कोच सुने हैं पर कमेंट नहीं किया पता नहीं क्यों नहीं किया पर आपका लाइफ कोच कार्यक्रम उसी लगा कमेंट करना चाहिए क्योंकि आप अपने शब्दों से जो सेवा कर रहे हैं यह शायद स्वयं भगवान श्री कृष्ण का उद्देश्य लगता है।
True word by word....as if I am listening my story....what I feel that it's only me who is going through all this hullshit but surprised to know that the world is full of such people.... waiting eagerly to know how to cope up and survive with this type of selfish and self centred ppl
हरे कृष्ण, माता जी 🙏🏼🌺 Unbelievable but true. I have found you when I have empowered myself found solution. It is truly magical and amazing. I have done the same to deal with them. This is only the Almighty who showered his love n light on me. And taught me the right way to come out of the situation. हरे कृष्ण 🙏🏼💐
😢😭😰 I get nightmares.I was depressed did not eat for long time…like year, I was full time working, we both are highly educated accomplished. But I did not have these lessons before, I thought I m wrong…. Failure 😨 but now got over it finally…but still feel pity on myself for going through complexity. By the way excellent show."I m sure time has changed now and people are smart.
maine lakho video dekhi ..lakiin aap jaissa video kabhi nahi sunii. same problem mere saath hi but me nahi samj pa rahi .aaj samaj aaya finialy.thank god. aap jitna thank kaho kam hi .man karta hi aapko hug kar lo.aapka haath choom lu.god aap ko bahut blessed de.aap bahut bahut intelligent ho .love you a lot
I resonate myself with this helplessness and facing all these traumatic situation all the time n every single second, but cannot leave him because my daughter loves him a alot. Although she is just 5 years old but still she also understand his ill behaviour with me. My God you told all the feeling that i personally feel with my husband
Bilkul sahi h, ledis bechari apne bachcho ki tarfh dekh ti h bchcho ka future barbad n ho ye sab soch kar sah leti hai, Kabhi kabhi to use apani jan ka khatra bhi dikhata hai par kya karen mjbur h.
I had been searching for some psychologist for long to understand what's going wrong in my life . Two people were terribly troubling me ...your video has given me a complete insight how to handle them ...
Namita ji ki baatein sun kar sukoon toh milta hai , lekin in logo ki reality kabhi saamne nahi aati aur aap mentally kaafi suffer karte hai , vo aaj bhi khush hai aur apni zindagi jee rahe hai , khush hai apni zindagi me dusro ko barbad karke , Karma kuch nahi hota , ye sab baatein sirf sukoon dene ke liye hoti hai , unke saath hamesha accha hota hai , aur hum jaiso ke saath bura. " This is Harsh reality of life." Main khud apne aankhon ke saamne ese logo ko badta hua dekh rahi hoon , accha career , acchi biwi ya pati , accha naam , accha paisa . Life me bas akele raho aur khud pr trust karo , ek baar badnaam ho gaye to ho gaye , mujhe kisi se koi umeed nahi hai . Apne pr focu karti hoon aur aage badh rahi hoon bas .
Yes such narcissits keep you confused in their web by doing some favours also towards their targets! They are controlling and highly jealous of their target and cannot tolerate someone doing better or being praised or living a good life, your children doing well.. they are always comparing your living standards with theirs…
Give them their own medicine and see the reaction. One has to be self confident and have self belief to deal with a narcissist partner or person. Mentally detach your self when you are physically present with them.
Thank you so much Namita didi for all things detail discussion in this video and amazing meditation. This helped greatly for my past and present experiences. Feeling blissful, I am looking clear and calm in all aspects. Feeling better today after many years. Lord Krishna and Shivbaba bless you and all of us. 🙏🙏💞🙏🎉✨💐
Yes it’s very painful to have some toxic people as close family members as the family members become selfish and switch sides giving blind support to such members so it becomes pertinent to keep distant or cut ties with whole family to get complete peace of mind otherwise this negativity will go on snd on..with passage of time everyone will come to realise the truth and such narcissists ate exposed! Only when they go through same pain will they realise the pain other person went through!
Shaadi ke bad se hi Aaj 30 saal ho gaya aur mere upar SAS mere partner donon blame Laga rahe Hain Tum galat hokahate Hain bar bar mein thak chuki hun mere bacchon ko bhi torture Kiya jata hai ab mein ine donon ke baton per Dhyan nahin deti hun. Aaj aapka video dekh kar hamen achcha Laga.
Astro knowledge is important to solve issues of any sort.. Focus is on the self, not on the partner. My life is shown in my chart..Seventh house is for partner.
Yes absolutely clear, same happens at my place and now my tolerance limit has crossed n effecting my health physically n mentally, yes convenient ly fact change change karte hein n, same he's maintained his image n people really don't believe that he behaves like this
Manisha namita ji 🙏 mere husband govt high post per hai ,puri power n position ka pura use karte hai pareshan karne ke liye. Aap jaisa describe ker hahe hai 100% waise he hai
Hare Krsna Namita ji. Thank you so much for such a beautiful and informative session on this topic. I learn a lot from your sessions. May the Lord bless you abundantly🙏😇
ये विकृति पूरे कुल में न्यूनाधिक रूप से सभी में होताहै इसे संयम अर्थात सहनशीलता नामक साफ्टवेयर से अधिक से अधिक डील किया जाता है लेकिन निजि परिवार/ स्वजन परिजन से अधिक सामना करना पड़ता है |
Mam u r absolutely right. Mera husband aise hi hn. Aj mujhe pata chala ki ye to personality disorder h. I feel good throughout the day but as soon as my husband comes home in the evening I feel drained immediately. Also on weekends I only pray ki aj kuch na hojaye
Thank you Namita ma’am for yet another absorbing session….narcissism is really prevalent in our society like a disease which badly affects people and their relationships. I am sure the remedial actions suggested by you will help everyone…Hare Krishna 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Scribed you from london. 30 ਸਾਲ i am in narsces realtionship. Now I am saprted from him nearly 3 years. He still bother me. Sometimes I think i am lucky I am in here. Where I get lots off help. Feel bad for people live in India. When you have childrens specialy for ladys.you have no no choices but put up with everything. I like your channel just come across just few Das before. I watch fo many videos made by English people. But you video benefits soo many who still with sefish partners. Cord cutting and medication. Thanks Los off love frome me carry on hard work love you ❤️💕💖💞🌹♥️☺️
Getting your points i m really thankful to you but at the same time i m sorry to feel that i have wasted my 25 years in struggling with these people and wasted all my talents
Yes yes yes .. Omg you defined my condition without knowing me .. I am soooo blessed to hear this talk
OMG, every single word you said is 200% true, while watching you talking,I felt I am watching my own biography, my partner does the same, silent treatment is like everydays sweet treat after food,it's becoming so common , everyday tasks.
I am sure many go through this situation.
My request to you all 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 please don't become that dusri औरत in any मेल्स लाईफ and give pain to your sakhi...we women should respect each other, doesn't mater we know each other or not 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Such people don't let the other person become independent in any way. They keep them away from people who are good with them/who encourage them
Each and every point is my own experience
Well explained mam I will surely try to follow up
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I will try tolove myself from today. You have told the truth which i have experienced so many times in my life.
I liked the video. Your teaching skill and vice is very nice . Thank you so much. You are so sweet and beautiful.
बहुत ही शातिर दिमाग के, चालक लोग है ये . खाने के दात अलग दिखाने के दात अलग.बाहर तो बडे सचे आच्ये दिखायेंगे. कोई यकीन नाही करेंगे. हैरान है हम .भगवान बाचाये ऐसे लोगो से🙏💖
Kaise bache in logo se
Right
This is Surprising and good that people are aware of this NARCISSIST trait. Otherwise in India this trait had often become normalised in workplace, family and in friend circle.
Now finally targeted person could raise up from this self-sabotage and dilemma path made by insecured and attention seeking person. Atleast they will not waste their time and energy by blaming themself after this knowledge.
Thank you for your effort and dedication for welfare of humanity. Certainly this video mean a lot to those who had faced this issue who are not even onus of this problem of chaotic person.
So true . It is so difficult living with such people . You truly feel drained out and lose your self esteem
बहुत सारा सुकून मिला आंख से आशु बहुत सारे आशु निकल आये मन शांत हो गया अच्छा लग रहा है।
Yes....i and my children going through this same situation.
Speaking from experience to the question How to deal with a narcissist partner. It’s simple. Not to deal with them. Walk away and save your sanity
True..💯
How to deal such people mam I am also feeling the same
@@baidyanathmahato6909 the only way to deal with such people is to go 'No contact' with them.
Stop giving them supplies, they don't deserve your time and energy!!
Wish you best of luck :-) .... Hari bol 🙌
@@wishu5327 true
आपने जिस तरीके से समझाया उस पर पूरा ध्यान रखेंगे बहुत ही एनर्जी हाई फील हो रही है आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद्
Dealing with narcissists is zero investment of our emotions
It’s absolutely true.
I am not alone.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you for the session. I have been stuck for the past 34 years. I really was going in the state of depression
Thank you Namitaji.This session is very helpful for me. I deeply believe in Lord Krishna. Krishna is everywhere and today i saw Krishna in you, Namitaji. You have no idea, what miracle you have done!!!
🙏🙏🙏
Awesome Ma'am....you have nailed it...truly impressed... Very Thankful 🙏
Hare Krishna 🙏
This video is Krishna's Gift
एकदम सही बात कही है आपने.
Blessed mam... krishna ji ke yaad me aakh bhar aayi.... thank you mam
Puri meri he kahani hai, I love you maam, आप ने सब वहीं बोला है जो मैं सोचती हूँ थैन्क्स मैम
appny itna sahi explain Kiya really tru 100% ik ik batt tru hy
...sabko yh jrrur sunna chahiye.....gob bless you 🙏 ❤ dear
Namita ji ..app bahot hi achha kaam Kar Raha hai ..to educate people those who are in trouble or suffer from difficulty.. tons of thanks to you.
Whenever I am facing any difficulty I used to watch your session again and again.
Hare Krishna.
A. How to identify narcist in short time?
Ans:-
1. Just create imaginary short story about yourself that you are in problem and you need help.Just see the reaction of narcist either he will smileing inside or he may feeling happy inside or he may reply you late. Most of narcist are feelingless and have no emotions for anyone.
2. If you are meet with any narcist they may be your office staff,relatives,parents they always target you on your weak point.So never reveal your weak point to narcist. Most of narcist used your weak point as their weapons. So if you seen any people use your weak point as a weapon then you may confirm that he is a narcist.
3. They always try to show superior in front of people but when time come to show their superiority they will ran away from the place.Most of covert narcist comes under this.
4. We always see jealousy mentality in narcist people.They always jealousy with other money,status,success.
5. They want you to surrender yourself under them. They want you to surrender your self-respect under him.
6. They always use facemask to hide their real face.For them their self respect,image is most necessary.If their image is destroy by someone they will take revenge with you. To make revenge with you they used your closed one like family,friend,relatives,office staff against you and they always make relationship with your closed to know your weak point or information.
7. During any talk they don't response to your conversation. They always try to make themselves center of attraction in every discussion.
8. They try to talk with you regularly to know your secret, to brainwash your mind and to make addiction of talk with them.Whenever you are in problem you just call them for solution whereas the narcist people after knowing your problem always take benefit from your problem.
9. Narcist people are so aggressive, controlling and dominating during talking and maintaining any relationship. They always telling lie and confusing you during talking.
10. During any conversation they always try to change topic, if in this topic they have any fault.
11. Most of narcist are kanjus in nature.They always show kanjusi in family to use their closed one money. whereas sometimes they waste money to get attention,admiration of people to hide their kanjusi nature. Basically they spent money on those people through whom they will benefited in future.
12. A narcist always take with him a support system of friends, relatives. Thats why normal people unable to defeat them with their plan.So they never afraid to anyone. To take revenge with someone they will used these relatives,friends against you.
13. They avoid you,fear to come in front of you or stop talking with you , if you took your self respect first in every ,if you have make boundaries for yourself, if you have control in yourself.
14. They also never able to face any insult in public.If you insult them in public they definitely take revenge with you and they may waiting for perfect time to take revenge like a scorpion. Sometimes they never come in front to take revenge with you whereas they may use their supporter or your closed one to take revenge with you.
15. They have constantly mood swing and dual personality. When they want some thing from anyone then they behave like normal people like showing emotions, respect, care and when they want to take revenge they do disrespect,angerness and demcare to other person.Behavior pattern always changed as per time.
16. They never socialize with people due to their fear.
17. They always afraid to their past.If you bring their past to them they will either change the topic,never admit their past fault or they hide their past with telling lie.
18. They will angry or their ego will hurt if you compare them with others.
19. They always like to show up things like staus,mobiles,vehicle,money but they afraid to disclosed if someone help him through monetary or emotionally. That is their main weak point.
20. If they like you or love you then they will hide you from society.
21. They always wants attention, admiration,complement,validation from others.They want people will do as per their order and they like to use people as a slave.
22. They like to make multiple relationship always searching for new relationship.They can't live in one relationship for longtime.They may bored in one relationship.To boost own ego they like multiple relationship.If a narcistic men have many gf whereas a narcistic women have many bf.
B. How to counter a narcist?
Ans:-
1. If you want to talk to any narcist then you talk with him full confidence with aggressiveness without showing him any weak point or emotions.Hide your emotions during talking with him.
2. Try to avoid direct communication like talking with narcist people.Try to avoid them with making no contact with him.
Most of narcist people try to talk with you to know your views on any matter or to know your weak point.If you see any narcist people desperately want to talk with you at that time avoid them and show yourself busy.Set boundaries for yourself.Don't allow them to enter in your life easily.
3. Don't argue with them.During arguing they can take information from your mouth.
4. Stop explaining them they will not able to understand.
5. Sometimes narcist intentionally make angry you but instead of angry with him you just give them normal reaction. At that time narcist will became tense that all my plan fail.
6. To use narcist people or make them happy just give compliments them. Like you are beautiful,you do a good work etc.
7. Sometimes narcist show himself as victim or behave like fake crying. Basically they play victim card when they are red handed caught in hiding any truth or his plan failed. They also used this fake crying to attract those people who are against them. Sometimes use victim card to confuse you and their plan to convince to work as per their will. They cry in front of you to show you that everything your fault.
8. Don't give narcist those things what they want desperately.
9. Don't try to show them their mistakes they will always blame you for their mistake.
10. They will always use anger, manipulation,victimhood to make you feel guilty and gain power over you.
11. Don't give them more attention, admiration and avoid them before they started avoiding you. Just accept that they have psychological disorder and avoid them.
12. Never trust their words.They always telling lie.They always hide their real intentions behind behaving well and smiling face.
Very true !!!! ✨
Hi
I have dealt with both female and male narc , I agree with all the points but one point you mentioned is wrong , "that they are not social " (Talking about 16th point that you have mentioned} they are social and charming as well . They have a good social circle , and they try to demean you if in case you don't have a high social circle , they will demean you . I still am affected by both the narcs , they are pure evil and I know they have a good friend circle , but nobody knows the mask behind that.
I hope you will not take it in a negative way as I have observed this thing.
Thank You Namrataji for validating my feelings. Little by little I am lurking to look at myself and my feelings and feeling I am part of Paramatma so I need to love myself just the way he loves me. Sixty years of neglect is going to take time but THANK YOU 🙏
I am learning to love myself. God Bless you snd your family. 😊🙌🙏
Thanku mam
I am so surprised ye sab sach hain, sach hain aisahi hain danyavad mam
बहुत ही अच्छा फिल हों रहा है।
Thank you Universe thank you Namita ji... Hare Krishna om kleem krishnayan namah
Mamta Madam bilkul sahi kah rahi hai Sahi hota hai aapki baten sunkar bahut achcha Laga
I realized now i faced this too from 10 years of marriage totally loose my self esteem ,self respect, and going in depression
Mera bhi yehi seen hai
Thanks for this guided meditation. I am actually feeling very strong. I need to do this meditation frequently to feel energised. This meditation is wonderful. May lord krishna shower his love on you.
Brilliant teaching Ma'am 🙏.... हरे कृष्ण 🙏
Ji ha बिलकुल येसा ही होता हैं फील👍
Just ignore these kind of people. Stop giving them any kind of importance. Do whatever you want to do. I am dealing with these kind of ppl for so long and telling you from my experience.
No you can't ignore them.. they become more agressive
Omg 😱 mai to unspeakable ho gai! No wordings to Appreciate!100% true, ap ka wordings sunka to comment likhna v bhul gai! kash Ap mujha pahali malai hotai to ma kitna mentality strong or majbut hoti! Ap ka Nam Uccha rahai 🙏♥️🇳🇵🇺🇸
100% true !very well explained! Same type of two people help each other against u for their benefit.
I too have gone through all this for most part of life but as I started believing and following spirituallity I learned it is definately karmic law and the more one understands this there is so much peace and the soul guides us to peace.
The Narcissist we have to live with get themselves away from us the more one gets into spirituallity, my experience.
There is actually no way to handle a narsicist... you just have to move away if you can
बहुत सत्य. श्री राधे श्री राधे.
Live in ur truth.never validate them for their bad behaviour.b independent as much as possible for ur circumstances. Stand up for ur truth.I cant still believe what my life became in few years.im living the dream🤗.
I had gone through similar situation in my life, my dad, sibling and wife all were toxic and narcissistic. When I live up to their expectations I was “ram” when I felt their toxicity and I asked to stop nonsense I was “haram”. It was me against my family and I don’t have to explain these circumstances to friends as they know me since a long time but some distant relatives they wonder.Sometimes I think being genuine honest humble is a curse these days. Thank you for the wonderful teachings ! God bless
मेरे साथ तो बहुत समय से होता रहा ,,,बहुत करीब से ,,,एक एक बात सही रही ,,,बस मेरा बड़ा स्ट्रांग नेचर है ,,,शायद इसीलिए वो मेरा बहुत बिगाड़ नहीं कर सकी ,,,मगर आपकी बात एकदम सही है ,,,
Staying connected with God and try to be self dependent it will solve all problems and yes it sounds really difficult at emotional level but you need to start detaching yourself and develop self love and connect with god spend time with yourself for your own well being
All points mentioned are perfectly alright for a narcissist person.
Very nice Madem. जय श्री कृष्णा बहुत ही सुंदर बोलते हैं आप ,मैडम मैं जीवन में वास्तविकता को पसंद करती हूं उन लोगों को पसंद करती हूं जो सच्चाई से मैं आपको प्रस्तुत करते हैं मैंने आज तक अनेकों लाइफ कोच सुने हैं पर कमेंट नहीं किया पता नहीं क्यों नहीं किया पर आपका लाइफ कोच कार्यक्रम उसी लगा कमेंट करना चाहिए क्योंकि आप अपने शब्दों से जो सेवा कर रहे हैं यह शायद स्वयं भगवान श्री कृष्ण का उद्देश्य लगता है।
True word by word....as if I am listening my story....what I feel that it's only me who is going through all this hullshit but surprised to know that the world is full of such people.... waiting eagerly to know how to cope up and survive with this type of selfish and self centred ppl
हरे कृष्ण, माता जी 🙏🏼🌺
Unbelievable but true.
I have found you when I have empowered myself found solution.
It is truly magical and amazing.
I have done the same to deal with them.
This is only the Almighty who showered his love n light on me.
And taught me the right way to come out of the situation.
हरे कृष्ण 🙏🏼💐
😢😭😰 I get nightmares.I was depressed did not eat for long time…like year, I was full time working, we both are highly educated accomplished.
But I did not have these lessons before, I thought I m wrong…. Failure 😨 but now got over it finally…but still feel pity on myself for going through complexity. By the way excellent show."I m sure time has changed now and people are smart.
I love you mam. I had been in this condition for many many years in my marriage. Whatever little confusion was there is washed away now.
How are you now?
Hk 🙏I'm a bundle of ur show, but mercifully Krishna planned everything so beautifully that not to move me away from him. 🙏
जी हां मुझे भी ऐसा ही महसूस होता है
maine lakho video dekhi ..lakiin aap jaissa video kabhi nahi sunii. same problem mere saath hi but me nahi samj pa rahi .aaj samaj aaya finialy.thank god.
aap jitna thank kaho kam hi .man karta hi aapko hug kar lo.aapka haath choom lu.god aap ko bahut blessed de.aap bahut bahut intelligent ho .love you a lot
I resonate myself with this helplessness and facing all these traumatic situation all the time n every single second, but cannot leave him because my daughter loves him a alot. Although she is just 5 years old but still she also understand his ill behaviour with me. My God you told all the feeling that i personally feel with my husband
Bilkul sahi h, ledis bechari apne bachcho ki tarfh dekh ti h bchcho ka future barbad n ho ye sab soch kar sah leti hai, Kabhi kabhi to use apani jan ka khatra bhi dikhata hai par kya karen mjbur h.
I feel so blessee today after discovering ur channel... Seems as if now my problems will sort in someway or other
Oh my god aapne har bat perfect btayi hai ma'am
Jaise jaise , jo jo aap keh rahe hai , bilkul vaise hi hota .... Ab buhut thak gaye in sab se
Jaise lagta hai meri hi story hai es topic ko lene ke liye Very very Thanks
Every thing was true ,very useful video,thank you so much ma'am
I had been searching for some psychologist for long to understand what's going wrong in my life . Two people were terribly troubling me ...your video has given me a complete insight how to handle them ...
Up d.
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Thanks so much.. Namita ji Hare Krishna... Mujhe bahat achha laga.
Hum bahat paresan hun par aaj aap ko sunkar bahat achha laga Hare Krishna.. Jay jagnnatha ji ki.... Thank u so much ji.....
बिल्कुल सही कह रहे हैं आप ऐसा भी मेरी लाइफ में हो रहा है
Thankyou Namita ji aapke video se jarur life achchi hogi jitana tarif kare aapki Kam h
Namita ji ki baatein sun kar sukoon toh milta hai , lekin in logo ki reality kabhi saamne nahi aati aur aap mentally kaafi suffer karte hai , vo aaj bhi khush hai aur apni zindagi jee rahe hai , khush hai apni zindagi me dusro ko barbad karke , Karma kuch nahi hota , ye sab baatein sirf sukoon dene ke liye hoti hai , unke saath hamesha accha hota hai , aur hum jaiso ke saath bura. " This is Harsh reality of life." Main khud apne aankhon ke saamne ese logo ko badta hua dekh rahi hoon , accha career , acchi biwi ya pati , accha naam , accha paisa . Life me bas akele raho aur khud pr trust karo , ek baar badnaam ho gaye to ho gaye , mujhe kisi se koi umeed nahi hai . Apne pr focu karti hoon aur aage badh rahi hoon bas .
Negativity nikal gayi .feeling better. Head bhari lag raha tha.halka lagane laga.thanks
Your each and every points so true. I suffered the same situations in my childhood and still i cant recove my confident properly
Bilkul sahi... I lost my personality...
All your words..keep me alive still 🙏 thank you so much Mataji..
Aapki Voice aur flow bhut sundar hai.
Yes such narcissits keep you confused in their web by doing some favours also towards their targets! They are controlling and highly jealous of their target and cannot tolerate someone doing better or being praised or living a good life, your children doing well.. they are always comparing your living standards with theirs…
Give them their own medicine and see the reaction. One has to be self confident and have self belief to deal with a narcissist partner or person. Mentally detach your self when you are physically present with them.
Thank you so much Namita didi for all things detail discussion in this video and amazing meditation. This helped greatly for my past and present experiences. Feeling blissful, I am looking clear and calm in all aspects. Feeling better today after many years. Lord Krishna and Shivbaba bless you and all of us. 🙏🙏💞🙏🎉✨💐
Krishna loves me unconditionally
Very true! Ayurwada mai kaha hai ki Rog ka laxan nahi Rog ka karan janna hota hai! Ap ki bat Bahut sahi hai! Thanks sis 🇳🇵🇺🇸
Bilkul sachi vat che. Perfect analysis…. Very good 👌👏
I m living in such a type of family from past 28 yrs
I ignore all and focus only on my goal.
After the guided meditation, all of a sudden i felt very empowered. Thank you so much Namitaji 🙏
There are lots of selfish people on earth you have to try to remember you are and not to forget to act according
Yes I also feel it from many narcissist of my life.
Yes it’s very painful to have some toxic people as close family members as the family members become selfish and switch sides giving blind support to such members so it becomes pertinent to keep distant or cut ties with whole family to get complete peace of mind otherwise this negativity will go on snd on..with passage of time everyone will come to realise the truth and such narcissists ate exposed! Only when they go through same pain will they realise the pain other person went through!
Isa hi hota he
I felt same thing ! Yes yes this is true!! They are insecure person I also felt confused They are abnormal people
Omg mam kaise apko ek ek bat pta hai ...Sach mai jindgi nark ban jati hai...Esa hi feel hota hai mam bilkul
Shaadi ke bad se hi Aaj 30 saal ho gaya aur mere upar SAS mere partner donon blame Laga rahe Hain Tum galat hokahate Hain bar bar mein thak chuki hun mere bacchon ko bhi torture Kiya jata hai ab mein ine donon ke baton per Dhyan nahin deti hun. Aaj aapka video dekh kar hamen achcha Laga.
Aap sahi bol rahi hain.
Apne Sahi kha ma'am ...I need healing ...
Astro knowledge is important to solve issues of any sort..
Focus is on the self, not on the partner.
My life is shown in my chart..Seventh house is for partner.
Yes absolutely clear, same happens at my place and now my tolerance limit has crossed n effecting my health physically n mentally, yes convenient ly fact change change karte hein n, same he's maintained his image n people really don't believe that he behaves like this
Manisha namita ji 🙏 mere husband govt high post per hai ,puri power n position ka pura use karte hai pareshan karne ke liye. Aap jaisa describe ker hahe hai 100% waise he hai
Hare Krsna Namita ji.
Thank you so much for such a beautiful and informative session on this topic. I learn a lot from your sessions. May the Lord bless you abundantly🙏😇
I really felt very very light. It has been amazing. Hare Krishna mataji. Dandvat pranam
Yes exactly mujhe feel hota h partner se
ये विकृति पूरे कुल में न्यूनाधिक रूप से सभी में होताहै इसे संयम अर्थात सहनशीलता नामक साफ्टवेयर से अधिक से अधिक डील किया जाता है
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Thank you feeling better now
Almost 90 percent true and it is fully based on my wife
Thank you so much ma'am..Thank you from the core of my heart ❤️
Yes, you are right but its late I lost my energy n hope
Thank u maam
Hare Krishna
Aap ki video’s mujhe mere dukh ko kam karne me help karti hai…thank you so much mam
Mam u r absolutely right. Mera husband aise hi hn. Aj mujhe pata chala ki ye to personality disorder h. I feel good throughout the day but as soon as my husband comes home in the evening I feel drained immediately. Also on weekends I only pray ki aj kuch na hojaye
Absolutely this is how it feels.
Thank you Namita ma’am for yet another absorbing session….narcissism is really prevalent in our society like a disease which badly affects people and their relationships. I am sure the remedial actions suggested by you will help everyone…Hare Krishna 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Me shan rehne ki koshish karti hu
V. V. Precisely explained.
True picture has been sketched
Ma'am kina ignore Karen jb sab khilaf Ho
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ऐसे लोगों की हरकत पर कम ध्यान दो क्योंकी ऐसे लोगों को दुसरे को परेशान करना अच्छा लगता है, खुश रहीए और आगे बढ़े।
Scribed you from london. 30 ਸਾਲ i am in narsces realtionship. Now I am saprted from him nearly 3 years. He still bother me. Sometimes I think i am lucky I am in here. Where I get lots off help. Feel bad for people live in India. When you have childrens specialy for ladys.you have no no choices but put up with everything. I like your channel just come across just few Das before. I watch fo many videos made by English people. But you video benefits soo many who still with sefish partners. Cord cutting and medication. Thanks Los off love frome me carry on hard work love you ❤️💕💖💞🌹♥️☺️
Thank you ma'am. Your lectures are helping a lot
Thank you ma'am. Aapka program decent h. But aap hume bahut der mili. Shayad Mai ab kuchh seekh Pau aur change la Pau apne me.
Yes, Madam, mein hamesha anxiety mein rehe thi huin, 🙏
You select every good social topic
Getting your points i m really thankful to you but at the same time i m sorry to feel that i have wasted my 25 years in struggling with these people and wasted all my talents
Ye sahi me ek alag topic he ,kitne logo ki problem or confusion khatam hojayenge...