You can move to a smaller place so that you can afford. When your mom comes home she sleeps wherever place available or share room with the grandkids. She's still your mother. Keep that respect
Cov mi nyuam aw tsis muaj ib tug yog tswv ntuj es yuav qhia tau qhov tseeb rau nej os mog qhov zoo ces vuag nej lub neej ua ntej os mog yeej pab nej tu siab qhov nej tau ib leej niam zoo li no os cov mi nyuam aw
Yog neb yuav tsis tau neb niam....txhob kick neb niam out. Neb tau mus nrhiav ib lub tsev me me rau neb niam nyob txawm phem npaum twg....neb txhob kick nws out nawj. Neb niam twb tsis kick neb out ne. If u guys can't handle her....please apply section 8 for her but don't forget to check on her.
Txawm li cas los yog nej niam txhob kick nws out nawb. Kev npam muaj tiag tiag li os me nyuam aws. Cov ua thaum ub lawm niam lawv txiv quaj quaj yeej lawm rwb tsis ncaws lawv niam lawv txiv taws lawv txom txom nyem thaum kawg lawv twb tau zoo lawm. Tej lau tsis muaj puas tsawg xyooj nrog yus nyob nws yeej yuav tuag es ua lub isab ntev.
Ib qho uas peb cov niam txiv Hmoob muaj ib txhia tu2 siab rau lawv cov menyuam los vim lawv tseem ntseeg Hmoob lo lus uas hais tias “ua qoob ua loo los npaj tshaib, tu tub ki los npaj laus.”
Yog nws muab nyiaj xa tas mus rau tus mi txiv hmoob nplog khuj noj khuj haus no yam tsis paub khib thiab tsis muaj responsibility rau nws tus kheej ces raws li kuv xav yeej tsis npam li os. You cannot suffer because of her.
When a child didn’t do what is expected then he gets kick out. The rules apply to the parents also. “No Karma”. Let her know your plan for her. Don’t just do behind her back. Be honest. Be kind but stand your ground!!
Kuv los teb ob tug me nyab cov thov kev pab os me nyab aw tsis txhob os twb tsis yog nej ua rau ho yog nej niam nws rau ua rau nws tus kheej xwb cev yeej tsis muaj kev khuam kev nplam li os mog tsis yog nej tsis hlub nws os yog tsis hlub nws tus kheej xwb txawm yog nej tsis yuav los yeej tsis nplam tsis khaum li ob tug me nyab aw
Ua li nej cov tub nyab ua ko xwb yeej tsis npam dev na qau qhov na ib niag leej xuaj npaum ko hos yeej tsis Los pab tej tub nyab li nej hais ces kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm es nws mus nyob nws xwb cov me nyuam aw….yog nej tseem cia mus2 los2 li ntawm nej ko thiab ces thaum kawg cov neej tsis yuav tawg tag thiab ok yeej meem muab nws tsem tawm mus es nej lub neej thiaj li yuav tsis muaj meem xwb los mas nawb ua li ua ko xwb yeej tsis npam qhov twg li os ok…😁😁😁😁👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Yeej tsis npam li os . Tej niag niam khaus pim li ntawd , tsis tsim nyog mi nyuam hlub li lawm os . Yus tej nyiaj mas yuav tsum muab pab rau yus tej mi nyuam lub cuab yig xwb mas thiaj tsim nyog mi nyuam hlub nawb .
Nej niam yeej yog ib tug neeg tsis paub qab hau thiab tsis txawj hlub nej. Tab si nej hlub nej niam vim yog nws txawm yuav muaj nyiaj thiab tsis muaj nyiaj los nws yeej yog nej niam. Yog nej muab nej niam ncaws tawm tsev ces nej saib nej niam muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tau nej ces nej yuav. Yog nej niam tsis muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tsis tau nej ces nej tsis yuav tsis hlub ces yog nej muaj kev khib thiab nej saib nej niam li Ua nws yog ib tug neeg nej paub xwb. Nej niam Foom los nej npam. Nej niam tsis Foom los nej npam.
Cov me nyuam yeej tsis npam os mog,kom nej niam kav tsij mus nyob tim nplog teb xwb tsis txhob los tsev dem tus 1 lawm los nriav tus 2 tus 3 los yeej tau
Tus niam zoo li no twb tsi hlub menyaum, thaum kawg menyuam tsi hlub lo tsi npam li os. Yog npam cov menyuam ces kuj npam 2 tug txiv mos ab thiab rau qhov twb dag nws nyiaj siv nes. Yog tsi npam nkawv tsi npam nej cov menyuam li os.
I would be more worried about her funeral costs. Your husband needs to tell her to save for her own funeral instead of sending money to her sugar baby. If she has that much money to send, she should be helping out with the bills. Well, find her an affordable place to live and send her there. Let her be responsible for her own bills.
Yog nej niam tig uas neeg zoo ces nej cov me nyuam yuav tau hlub tab sis yog tias muaj tseeb li tus nyab no hais ces txawm hlub tsis taus nws ua niam los tej zaum yuav tsis khaum thiab os cov me nyuam
The mom is not responsible for herself but supporting other men. Is a no no, She old she needs to be by her children side. Never follow any men. You guys did right. The mom needs to learn she too old already. Old people find someone at your age and the man must be responsible not living off you.
Tsis npam ntau los npam me os nawb,nej niam ua tsis zoo 6 nej ces nej tsis yuav nej niam, nco ntsoov tias nej muaj ib teev ntshav phem ces nej yeej yuav tsuj nej niam tus hneev taw ib hnub twg xwb, zam lub txim 6 nej niam zoo dua nej tsuj nej niam tus hneev taw..
nancy aw nyob zoo rau koj os.kuv tseem nco qab thaum ub 1985 es kuv tuaj nrog koj neb ob niam txiv ua hauj lwm lub company hu ua ( company Standly nyob costa mesa ) koj puas nco qab lawm os?
Xav Rau nej thaum nej hluas es nej ua li cas los nej niam Tseem cia nej Nyob twb tsis ntiav nej tawm tsev ne. Nim no nej tsis muaj txiv ces nws laus lawm nws ua li cas Los nws nrhiav kev kaj siab thiab lom zem Rau nws xwb. Nej yuav xav knom nws los Nyob tsev zov nej tej pab me nyuam thiab ua mov nej noj nws li Nyiaj nej muab kaus cia. Es cia nws nyob tsev zov me nyuam es nws sawv los zov me nyuam li no xwb nws ham tsis tuag sai xwb ma hmoob aw. Peb ua neeg Nyob no tsis hais poj niam txiv neej li. Ib leeg yeej muaj ib qhov hobby li os.
No tsis npam os mog. Yog nej niam yog ib tug niam nyob khov kho thiab txawm tsis pab nej los nws hlub nws tus kheej. Muab nws cov nyiaj Los siv rau nws tus kheej such as xav noj yam twg los yuav, yuav daim tshiab los hnav, muab tej nyiaj mus vacation tej qhov chaw zoo2 nkauj ces yes nej yuav tau hlub thiab ua siab ntev rau nws. But Yog nws muab nws cov nyiaj mus yug cov txiv tim Laos xwb ces yam nej ua no xwb tsis npam. I feel mad for you the children and feel sorry for your in-laws.
Ua niam coj tau liam npaum li ko ces g npam oss, kv mas yeej yog minyuam niam tau 18 xyoo, g mus ua laus nkauj nawj, kv tseem ua wrk, kv tej nyiaj kv muab pab kv cov minyuam lawv leejtwg need, I’m been single mom when I was 40 years, til now
I maybe way off on this, but consider what your mother in law gone through she needs help mentally more than physically. She want to be love, feel appreciated and being protected. In her mind, if she find a man that can give her these things she will be happy. Her logic is not wrong however she did not realize how fragile she is. This love she so long for she didn't need to look in a man, left alone predators, she have you guys. She was a strong woman when she did not really have a man, getting back to be her strong self will be hard. If you guys can, help her to overcome the depression that's been with her for so long. It's going to be an uphill battle but with everyone, she can be the strong mother in law she once was. As for your question, do you do it with vile intention or with kindness and love? I believe you have your answer sister.
Well this is what I would do I would not give her a dime whatever she have she can use to me I will not give her any money just because her bad behavior😮😮😮😊
Npam ho nej niam muaj neej tsa cas nej ho tsis hais rau dab laug hais nej niam. Txawm laus lawm los twb ntshaw tu Hlub thiaj ua hluas. Nej niam twb tsis muab nej kick out thaum ub cas nej ho yuav kick out nws os. Nej yuav kick Nws out mam yuav tau hais rau nws cov neej tsa ua neej tso nawb!
We can all just take a wild guess but we are not God. Karma is not up to us. Your mother-in-law needs guidance. The least all her children can do is be patient and help guide her. I know, it’s annoying! But she’s human just like you. We all need a little reminder and guidance when we’re lonely and lost. If it’s gonna take the hard way, so be it. At least, in the end, you know you’ve tried. Us as wives, never encourage our husbands to abandon their mother when she clearly needs guidance. How would we feel if our nyabs did that to our brothers? So, sit down with your husband and enlighten him. Don’t encourage him to turn his back on his mom. That mom was the one who gave birth to him. Without her, he wouldn’t exist.
Cas yuav ntxub cov niag pog laus khao pim mus yuav cov niag dab nplog teb ntawv ua luaj li os ntuj aw tuag mus ko tag thov kom Trump muab dab ntxaug nplog xav ros qab mus ko tag os !!!!!!!.
If your mother in law love and help u guys and you guys dont want her, don't want to take care of her then yes there are karma but in this situation, she doesnt love you guys, doesn't help with babysitter or pay for anything then there's no karma. Besides you guys cant be responsible for her funeral cuz she remarried....in hmong tradition if she remarried then you guys aren't responsible for her funeral.
I don’t think so. I feel sorry for her bc she was abuse by her wife husband and deserves to be loved. Her choice of men is all wrong, she should have learn from the 1st laos husband but she did it again so she is far gone from being a good mother. I say kick her out she is on her own if she keeps sending money over seas
Kuv xa mas yeej npam me me thiab nawb cov me nyuam aw!! Txawm nej niam ua li los yog nws txoj kev ntshaw xwb nawb nej ua li ko tsis yog lawm thiab os yuav tau cia nws nrog neb nyob tabsis nej yuav tau qhia rau nej niam tej yam kws nws ua tsis zoo li nej hais los ko kom nws txob ua ntxiv lawm, nws thiaj paub nawb
Tsi npam vim niam tsi ua neeg zoo Cia Kom nws txom nyem Kom txaus tsos mam hlub nws twb tsi paub yus muaj nqis nws pom cov niag hmoob nplog zoo xwb ces Kom nws mus nrog lawv nyob Tim nplog vim nws cov nyiaj twb muab xas tas rau lawv lawm ne txhob major hlub nws nawb tos Kom nws nyoo tso nawb.
Tsis sib haum los nyias nyob nyias tsis ua cas peb cov laus tam sim no me nyuam kom yus mus nyob qhov twg ces yuav tau mus thiab vim tias tub nyab lawv muaj hauj lwm ntau tsis khoom saib xyuas yus tsis txhob tu siab rau lawv.
Your mother in -law is too toxic, she should go find a place of her own. Don’t let your kids and your family expose to her selfish. She chose her way by gave all her money to young man. And not helping you guys. Put her out. No karma..
Nancy tab sis Lawv niam twb mus yuav txiv tshiab lawm es yog lawv tseem coj kev cai qub no Lawv yeej ua tsis tau dab qhuas rau niam lawm nws yog hmoob niam hmoob Li dab qhuas Lawm na yog hnub twg lawv niam tsis muaj txoj sia lawm los cov me nyuam no yeej tsis ua Lawv li kev cai rau lawm Lawv txiv cov kwv tij yeej tsis pub Lawv muab ua lawv txiv cov dab qhuas Hmoob kev cai yeej caiv koj Lawv mus nrog cov txiv ntxawm tham seb Lawv niam twb mus yuav txiv tshiab Lawm es seb cov txiv ntxawm pom zoo li cas ib tsam thaum lawv niam ho noj tsis qab nyob tsis zoo ces seb Tus txiv tshiab cov kwv tij puas yuav take care nawb,
Tsis npam li os vim niag niam no yog niam tsis txawj hlub tub ki. Koj niam twb npam lawm nws thiaj li xa nyiaj mus pub lwm tus noj es nws yoo. Lub ntuj tam sim mo ntik yeej paub txhiav txim rau tus neeh phem xwb
Txoj kev nkauj kev nraug tsis muaj poj tsis muaj txiv lawm yeej muaj cai ua tab sis nej niam muab ruam thiab ua dhau heev lawm yog nej tsis yuav los yuav npam tsis tau nej
Nej niam yeej yog ib tug neeg tsis paub qab hau thiab tsis txawj hlub nej. Tab si nej hlub nej niam vim yog nws txawm yuav muaj nyiaj thiab tsis muaj nyiaj los nws yeej yog nej niam. Yog nej muab nej niam ncaws tawm tsev ces nej saib nej niam muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tau nej ces nej yuav. Yog nej niam tsis muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tsis tau nej ces nej tsis yuav tsis hlub ces yog nej muaj kev khib thiab nej saib nej niam li Ua nws yog ib tug neeg nej paub xwb. Nej niam Foom los nej npam. Nej niam tsis Foom los nej npam. Tus tub, tus ntxhais muaj muaj kev hlub mas yeej tsis hais txog saib niam muaj nyiaj los tsis muaj li yeej hlub thiab tsis ntxub niam li.
Tsis paub yuav hais cas li leej twg muaj ib niag neeg xiam hlwb zoo li no mas nyuab kawg ua ntej nej yuav muab nej niam tshem tawm nej yuav tau sab laj rau kwv tij thiab nej niam cov neej tsa kom lawv pab hais yog hais tsis tau lawm thiab ces nej tshem los tsis npam li vim txoj kev liam no yog nws tsim nws tus kheej xwb
Talk to your mom and either let you control of her money or if she still be able to control her own money then she must pay rent , utility, and her own food because this is how she reports to the social worker.
There is no karma in this situation because your mom-in-law is digging her own grave of karma. As children, if you guys want to help her to make sure of her mental state; you guys need to stop being use by your in-law. First, STOP exchanging her foodshare money for cash because this is a federal crime! Damages is not just in her but in you guys too. Next tell her that if she doesn’t stop sending money you guys will report her. I know it sounds mean but this will actually be beneficial for her so you guys don’t have to save her in case she gets report to IRS. And lastly, I would reach out to her social worker to end her benefits so she has no money and be in trouble to actually realize her living condition.
Tsis npam os. If your mother was doing right and living an honest, morally right life and you guys kick her out, then yes, npam nej los mas tabsis nej niam twb ua tsuas yog, coj tsis zoo ne. Doesn't matter, nws txawm yuav foom nej npaum cas los yeej tsis khaum tsis npam nej kiag li os.
Txawjm yog Niam Los news twb tsis ua zoo Tsuas mus ua pleas ua yi xwb ces news cov me Los twb txom2 nyem thiab Tsuas yog Nyiaj Tsuas yog Lawv Npaj kom tau lib chaw Nyob rau lawv xwb , tsis yog lawm lim hiam es tsim Txos lawv Niam ces tsis txhaum thiab tsis npam no os mog ,tab sis yog Hnub news ho rov ua zoo no ces kom lawv rov Hlob xwb
Coj mus tsum neej tsa qhuab qhia vim paub tias thaub moob nplog ntxias nyiaj xwb yog neej tsa hais tsis tau ces tu lus nej yuav tsi tau nej niam ces thaum ntawm nej mam khiav tsev tso nws pov tseg Yeej tsi npam li ua néeg nyob yuav tsum sib pab yog muaj tseeb li nej hais nej niam yog tus phem
Poj niam hmoob laus ruam mas ruam tshaj tus ruam! Your mother-in-law has never been love by her husband before so she is too desperate. Some women never learn. Coj li koj niam pog coj no nej tsis yuav nws lawm los yeej tsis npam. Nws twb tsis hlub nws tus kheej thiab mas cov me nyuam. However, because she’s their mother and have taken cared of them when they were vulnerable, she should be given second chance to turn her life around.
No, tsis npam os. She remarried already. The ss$$ she gets feed and provides for her needs. If she chooses to sent to new hubby. You all kids have no obligation to her. She can go live there.
I don't know,,,but I can see the difference between how children treat their dad difference from their mom when it comes to the same situation. Something to think about it.
Seriously? How do you know? Even God is still love a sinner. This old lady is blind, brain wash, addictive to liar, honor a stranger but hate her family. Of course, she is a problem but still a mother and human being. We all born with a heart and our hearts nurtured us to have a have faith, hope and love. What if she is you or your mother? The true is this family needs helped. Someone who is above the laws and feeling. That is God.
I need to know why the lady from USA went to Laos get married to a men and has to pay the Wedding ? What kind of Hmong culture is this? Los yog Hmoob txoj Cai yog Dev Npua Cai txoj xwb na ? Kuv xav tias txiv neej .thiaj tau them nqe tshoob nkaus xwb.
100%. Tsi pam never wrong.
Ruam tsaj
You can move to a smaller place so that you can afford. When your mom comes home she sleeps wherever place available or share room with the grandkids. She's still your mother. Keep that respect
Ua siab ntev mog yus niam tsuas muaj ib tug tsuas muaj ib zaug Niam xwb mog😊😊😊😊
Niam tais ci nplas aws tiam neej tshiab tam sim nov cov me nyuam tebchaws nov Lawv tsi ntseeg txog kev npam kev khaum li os
Cov mi nyuam aw tsis muaj ib tug yog tswv ntuj es yuav qhia tau qhov tseeb rau nej os mog qhov zoo ces vuag nej lub neej ua ntej os mog yeej pab nej tu siab qhov nej tau ib leej niam zoo li no os cov mi nyuam aw
Yes aw lawm mas thiab aw kawg mas
Yog neb yuav tsis tau neb niam....txhob kick neb niam out. Neb tau mus nrhiav ib lub tsev me me rau neb niam nyob txawm phem npaum twg....neb txhob kick nws out nawj. Neb niam twb tsis kick neb out ne. If u guys can't handle her....please apply section 8 for her but don't forget to check on her.
Txawm li cas los yog nej niam txhob kick nws out nawb. Kev npam muaj tiag tiag li os me nyuam aws. Cov ua thaum ub lawm niam lawv txiv quaj quaj yeej lawm rwb tsis ncaws lawv niam lawv txiv taws lawv txom txom nyem thaum kawg lawv twb tau zoo lawm. Tej lau tsis muaj puas tsawg xyooj nrog yus nyob nws yeej yuav tuag es ua lub isab ntev.
Tsi noam os vim nws xaiv nws txoj kev lawm twb tsis hlub tej minyuam li es tsis tsim txiaj li txaj muag dhau lawm os tsis npam li os😂😅
Au kuj tsis hnov niam sab ne yuav txiavtxim tsis meej ka
Yog npaum li ne nroo los no mas yeej yog caij lawm nawb
Ib qho uas peb cov niam txiv Hmoob muaj ib txhia tu2 siab rau lawv cov menyuam los vim lawv tseem ntseeg Hmoob lo lus uas hais tias “ua qoob ua loo los npaj tshaib, tu tub ki los npaj laus.”
Npam kawg yog nej niam tsis foom ces thiaj tsis npam xwb
Cov niam cov txiv uas me tub me nyuam hlub txaus txaus lawm yeej tsis npam os
Tsis Npam Lis os!!! She’s the adult, who abandoned them.
Yog nws muab nyiaj xa tas mus rau tus mi txiv hmoob nplog khuj noj khuj haus no yam tsis paub khib thiab tsis muaj responsibility rau nws tus kheej ces raws li kuv xav yeej tsis npam li os. You cannot suffer because of her.
Yog kuv los kuv yeej tsi yuav thiab nawv
Do you own that restaurant. Been there once. Very nice.
Tsis npam li os. Cov niag ntsej muag dev nyob tim nplog twb tsis npam.
When a child didn’t do what is expected then he gets kick out. The rules apply to the parents also. “No Karma”. Let her know your plan for her. Don’t just do behind her back. Be honest. Be kind but stand your ground!!
tsis pam! kuv txiv los yog ib lub maiv thiab cov lis koj niam thiab. cov neeg cov lis koj niam thiab kuv txiv ces mob mob hlwv kawg!
Tsis npam li os muab ncaws tawm mus
Kuv los teb ob tug me nyab cov thov kev pab os me nyab aw tsis txhob os twb tsis yog nej ua rau ho yog nej niam nws rau ua rau nws tus kheej xwb cev yeej tsis muaj kev khuam kev nplam li os mog tsis yog nej tsis hlub nws os yog tsis hlub nws tus kheej xwb txawm yog nej tsis yuav los yeej tsis nplam tsis khaum li ob tug me nyab aw
Nej cov es hais tsi npam no tsam txog nej zeeg nej ho tu tu siab os
Ua li nej cov tub nyab ua ko xwb yeej tsis npam dev na qau qhov na ib niag leej xuaj npaum ko hos yeej tsis Los pab tej tub nyab li nej hais ces kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm es nws mus nyob nws xwb cov me nyuam aw….yog nej tseem cia mus2 los2 li ntawm nej ko thiab ces thaum kawg cov neej tsis yuav tawg tag thiab ok yeej meem muab nws tsem tawm mus es nej lub neej thiaj li yuav tsis muaj meem xwb los mas nawb ua li ua ko xwb yeej tsis npam qhov twg li os ok…😁😁😁😁👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Tsis muaj npam kiag tus npam ces twb yog niag pog laus ntawv lawm os
Yeej tsis npam li os . Tej niag niam khaus pim li ntawd , tsis tsim nyog mi nyuam hlub li lawm os . Yus tej nyiaj mas yuav tsum muab pab rau yus tej mi nyuam lub cuab yig xwb mas thiaj tsim nyog mi nyuam hlub nawb .
Tsis npam nawb mog
Tus npam ces twb yog that old granny. She did it all to her self.
Nej niam yeej yog ib tug neeg tsis paub qab hau thiab tsis txawj hlub nej. Tab si nej hlub nej niam vim yog nws txawm yuav muaj nyiaj thiab tsis muaj nyiaj los nws yeej yog nej niam. Yog nej muab nej niam ncaws tawm tsev ces nej saib nej niam muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tau nej ces nej yuav. Yog nej niam tsis muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tsis tau nej ces nej tsis yuav tsis hlub ces yog nej muaj kev khib thiab nej saib nej niam li Ua nws yog ib tug neeg nej paub xwb. Nej niam Foom los nej npam. Nej niam tsis Foom los nej npam.
Cov me nyuam yeej tsis npam os mog,kom nej niam kav tsij mus nyob tim nplog teb xwb tsis txhob los tsev dem tus 1 lawm los nriav tus 2 tus 3 los yeej tau
Tus niam zoo li no twb tsi hlub menyaum, thaum kawg menyuam tsi hlub lo tsi npam li os. Yog npam cov menyuam ces kuj npam 2 tug txiv mos ab thiab rau qhov twb dag nws nyiaj siv nes. Yog tsi npam nkawv tsi npam nej cov menyuam li os.
I would be more worried about her funeral costs. Your husband needs to tell her to save for her own funeral instead of sending money to her sugar baby. If she has that much money to send, she should be helping out with the bills. Well, find her an affordable place to live and send her there. Let her be responsible for her own bills.
Yog nej niam tig uas neeg zoo ces nej cov me nyuam yuav tau hlub tab sis yog tias muaj tseeb li tus nyab no hais ces txawm hlub tsis taus nws ua niam los tej zaum yuav tsis khaum thiab os cov me nyuam
The mom is not responsible for herself but supporting other men. Is a no no,
She old she needs to be by her children side. Never follow any men. You guys did right. The mom needs to learn she too old already. Old people find someone at your age and the man must be responsible not living off you.
Ncaws tawg niag pog Liam xwb ces tsi npam li os.
Tsis npam li os. Nwb twb tsis hlub nej li os.
Lwm zaus nav muab lawv nqos kiag xwb mas.
Tsis npam ntau los npam me os nawb,nej niam ua tsis zoo 6 nej ces nej tsis yuav nej niam, nco ntsoov tias nej muaj ib teev ntshav phem ces nej yeej yuav tsuj nej niam tus hneev taw ib hnub twg xwb, zam lub txim 6 nej niam zoo dua nej tsuj nej niam tus hneev taw..
nancy aw nyob zoo rau koj os.kuv tseem nco qab thaum ub 1985 es kuv tuaj nrog koj neb ob niam txiv ua hauj lwm lub company hu ua ( company Standly nyob costa mesa ) koj puas nco qab lawm os?
Xav Rau nej thaum nej hluas es nej ua li cas los nej niam Tseem cia nej Nyob twb tsis ntiav nej tawm tsev ne. Nim no nej tsis muaj txiv ces nws laus lawm nws ua li cas Los nws nrhiav kev kaj siab thiab lom zem Rau nws xwb. Nej yuav xav knom nws los Nyob tsev zov nej tej pab me nyuam thiab ua mov nej noj nws li Nyiaj nej muab kaus cia. Es cia nws nyob tsev zov me nyuam es nws sawv los zov me nyuam li no xwb nws ham tsis tuag sai xwb ma hmoob aw. Peb ua neeg Nyob no tsis hais poj niam txiv neej li. Ib leeg yeej muaj ib qhov hobby li os.
Ib leej niam vwm li no ces nws yuav nyob qab Choj los tsis khaum tub ki li os
No tsis npam os mog. Yog nej niam yog ib tug niam nyob khov kho thiab txawm tsis pab nej los nws hlub nws tus kheej. Muab nws cov nyiaj Los siv rau nws tus kheej such as xav noj yam twg los yuav, yuav daim tshiab los hnav, muab tej nyiaj mus vacation tej qhov chaw zoo2 nkauj ces yes nej yuav tau hlub thiab ua siab ntev rau nws. But Yog nws muab nws cov nyiaj mus yug cov txiv tim Laos xwb ces yam nej ua no xwb tsis npam. I feel mad for you the children and feel sorry for your in-laws.
Nej cov pog laus no es laus tag, niam hluas ntsws tag lawm los tseem pheej ntshaw yob ua luaj SMH.
Ua niam coj tau liam npaum li ko ces g npam oss, kv mas yeej yog minyuam niam tau 18 xyoo, g mus ua laus nkauj nawj, kv tseem ua wrk, kv tej nyiaj kv muab pab kv cov minyuam lawv leejtwg need, I’m been single mom when I was 40 years, til now
I maybe way off on this, but consider what your mother in law gone through she needs help mentally more than physically. She want to be love, feel appreciated and being protected. In her mind, if she find a man that can give her these things she will be happy. Her logic is not wrong however she did not realize how fragile she is. This love she so long for she didn't need to look in a man, left alone predators, she have you guys. She was a strong woman when she did not really have a man, getting back to be her strong self will be hard. If you guys can, help her to overcome the depression that's been with her for so long. It's going to be an uphill battle but with everyone, she can be the strong mother in law she once was. As for your question, do you do it with vile intention or with kindness and love? I believe you have your answer sister.
Well this is what I would do I would not give her a dime whatever she have she can use to me I will not give her any money just because her bad behavior😮😮😮😊
In this case. Tsis nplam li os. Because you didn’t do anything to the mom. The mom is npam right now. Tsis nplam li os.
tsis npam li os vim nej niam nws mus nrhiav nws kev npam rau nws xwb es
Yuav muaj kev mpam me ntsis rau nej cov me nyuam vim nej muab ntiab tawm tsev tsis muaj chaw noj chaw pw chaw nyob.
Tsi npam
Cov laus no yeej hais nyuab kawg thaum kawg ces yog yus tha xwb mas pab tu siab kawg yog nws nyob nws ces kav liam txbob muab nyiaj rau los yog txais nws foom los tsis npam.
Npam ho nej niam muaj neej tsa cas nej ho tsis hais rau dab laug hais nej niam. Txawm laus lawm los twb ntshaw tu Hlub thiaj ua hluas. Nej niam twb tsis muab nej kick out thaum ub cas nej ho yuav kick out nws os. Nej yuav kick Nws out mam yuav tau hais rau nws cov neej tsa ua neej tso nawb!
We can all just take a wild guess but we are not God. Karma is not up to us. Your mother-in-law needs guidance. The least all her children can do is be patient and help guide her. I know, it’s annoying! But she’s human just like you. We all need a little reminder and guidance when we’re lonely and lost. If it’s gonna take the hard way, so be it. At least, in the end, you know you’ve tried. Us as wives, never encourage our husbands to abandon their mother when she clearly needs guidance. How would we feel if our nyabs did that to our brothers? So, sit down with your husband and enlighten him. Don’t encourage him to turn his back on his mom. That mom was the one who gave birth to him. Without her, he wouldn’t exist.
Cas yuav ntxub cov niag pog laus khao pim mus yuav cov niag dab nplog teb ntawv ua luaj li os ntuj aw tuag mus ko tag thov kom Trump muab dab ntxaug nplog xav ros qab mus ko tag os !!!!!!!.
If your mother in law love and help u guys and you guys dont want her, don't want to take care of her then yes there are karma but in this situation, she doesnt love you guys, doesn't help with babysitter or pay for anything then there's no karma. Besides you guys cant be responsible for her funeral cuz she remarried....in hmong tradition if she remarried then you guys aren't responsible for her funeral.
kuv xav tias tsi npam nawb vim tus niam tsi mloog hais tsi txiaj ne
Yes if you kick your mother or father out your guys will get karma soon for sure.. Txog Kev Npam Yeej Muaj Tiag Ok....
I don’t think so. I feel sorry for her bc she was abuse by her wife husband and deserves to be loved. Her choice of men is all wrong, she should have learn from the 1st laos husband but she did it again so she is far gone from being a good mother. I say kick her out she is on her own if she keeps sending money over seas
Thov koj tus Facebook puam tau os niam laug🎉🎉
Kuv xa mas yeej npam me me thiab nawb cov me nyuam aw!! Txawm nej niam ua li los yog nws txoj kev ntshaw xwb nawb nej ua li ko tsis yog lawm thiab os yuav tau cia nws nrog neb nyob tabsis nej yuav tau qhia rau nej niam tej yam kws nws ua tsis zoo li nej hais los ko kom nws txob ua ntxiv lawm, nws thiaj paub nawb
Tsi npam vim niam tsi ua neeg zoo Cia Kom nws txom nyem Kom txaus tsos mam hlub nws twb tsi paub yus muaj nqis nws pom cov niag hmoob nplog zoo xwb ces Kom nws mus nrog lawv nyob Tim nplog vim nws cov nyiaj twb muab xas tas rau lawv lawm ne txhob major hlub nws nawb tos Kom nws nyoo tso nawb.
Tsis sib haum los nyias nyob nyias tsis ua cas peb cov laus tam sim no me nyuam kom yus mus nyob qhov twg ces yuav tau mus thiab vim tias tub nyab lawv muaj hauj lwm ntau tsis khoom saib xyuas yus tsis txhob tu siab rau lawv.
Your mother in -law is too toxic, she should go find a place of her own. Don’t let your kids and your family expose to her selfish. She chose her way by gave all her money to young man. And not helping you guys. Put her out. No karma..
Nancy tab sis Lawv niam twb mus yuav txiv tshiab lawm es yog lawv tseem coj kev cai qub no Lawv yeej ua tsis tau dab qhuas rau niam lawm nws yog hmoob niam hmoob Li dab qhuas Lawm na yog hnub twg lawv niam tsis muaj txoj sia lawm los cov me nyuam no yeej tsis ua Lawv li kev cai rau lawm Lawv txiv cov kwv tij yeej tsis pub Lawv muab ua lawv txiv cov dab qhuas Hmoob kev cai yeej caiv koj Lawv mus nrog cov txiv ntxawm tham seb Lawv niam twb mus yuav txiv tshiab Lawm es seb cov txiv ntxawm pom zoo li cas ib tsam thaum lawv niam ho noj tsis qab nyob tsis zoo ces seb Tus txiv tshiab cov kwv tij puas yuav take care nawb,
Tsis npam li os vim niag niam no yog niam tsis txawj hlub tub ki. Koj niam twb npam lawm nws thiaj li xa nyiaj mus pub lwm tus noj es nws yoo. Lub ntuj tam sim mo ntik yeej paub txhiav txim rau tus neeh phem xwb
Txoj kev nkauj kev nraug tsis muaj poj tsis muaj txiv lawm yeej muaj cai ua tab sis nej niam muab ruam thiab ua dhau heev lawm yog nej tsis yuav los yuav npam tsis tau nej
Nej niam yeej yog ib tug neeg tsis paub qab hau thiab tsis txawj hlub nej. Tab si nej hlub nej niam vim yog nws txawm yuav muaj nyiaj thiab tsis muaj nyiaj los nws yeej yog nej niam. Yog nej muab nej niam ncaws tawm tsev ces nej saib nej niam muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tau nej ces nej yuav. Yog nej niam tsis muaj nyiaj thiab hlub tsis tau nej ces nej tsis yuav tsis hlub ces yog nej muaj kev khib thiab nej saib nej niam li Ua nws yog ib tug neeg nej paub xwb. Nej niam Foom los nej npam. Nej niam tsis Foom los nej npam. Tus tub, tus ntxhais muaj muaj kev hlub mas yeej tsis hais txog saib niam muaj nyiaj los tsis muaj li yeej hlub thiab tsis ntxub niam li.
Tsis npam.li os vim nws twb tsis pab nej ces ua li ko yeej tau kawg li
Tsis paub yuav hais cas li leej twg muaj ib niag neeg xiam hlwb zoo li no mas nyuab kawg ua ntej nej yuav muab nej niam tshem tawm nej yuav tau sab laj rau kwv tij thiab nej niam cov neej tsa kom lawv pab hais yog hais tsis tau lawm thiab ces nej tshem los tsis npam li vim txoj kev liam no yog nws tsim nws tus kheej xwb
tsis npam os..yog ib leej niam zoo li ko nas
Before you kick your mom-in law out all of your have to talk to your mom's brother or sister first.
Yeej yuav tsis npam li os kev ntxhaum yog yog aib niam xwb ov
Good or bad she still gave birth to them
Talk to your mom and either let you control of her money or if she still be able to control her own money then she must pay rent , utility, and her own food because this is how she reports to the social worker.
There is no karma in this situation because your mom-in-law is digging her own grave of karma. As children, if you guys want to help her to make sure of her mental state; you guys need to stop being use by your in-law. First, STOP exchanging her foodshare money for cash because this is a federal crime! Damages is not just in her but in you guys too. Next tell her that if she doesn’t stop sending money you guys will report her. I know it sounds mean but this will actually be beneficial for her so you guys don’t have to save her in case she gets report to IRS. And lastly, I would reach out to her social worker to end her benefits so she has no money and be in trouble to actually realize her living condition.
Kuv xam pom mas npam me me vim lawv tawm ntawm lawv niam lub qhov los
Tsis npam os. If your mother was doing right and living an honest, morally right life and you guys kick her out, then yes, npam nej los mas tabsis nej niam twb ua tsuas yog, coj tsis zoo ne. Doesn't matter, nws txawm yuav foom nej npaum cas los yeej tsis khaum tsis npam nej kiag li os.
Txawjm yog Niam Los news twb tsis ua zoo Tsuas mus ua pleas ua yi xwb ces news cov me Los twb txom2 nyem thiab Tsuas yog Nyiaj Tsuas yog Lawv Npaj kom tau lib chaw Nyob rau lawv xwb , tsis yog lawm lim hiam es tsim Txos lawv Niam ces tsis txhaum thiab tsis npam no os mog ,tab sis yog Hnub news ho rov ua zoo no ces kom lawv rov Hlob xwb
not your fault...she got married and is not helping so kick her out...
Tham rua koj niam cov dablaug saib puab has le cas
Kuv thov qhia rau nej cov me nyuam hais tias yog nej tsis hlub nej niam ces kev npam yeej yuav muaj xwb nawb.
Coj mus tsum neej tsa qhuab qhia vim paub tias thaub moob nplog ntxias nyiaj xwb yog neej tsa hais tsis tau ces tu lus nej yuav tsi tau nej niam ces thaum ntawm nej mam khiav tsev tso nws pov tseg Yeej tsi npam li ua néeg nyob yuav tsum sib pab yog muaj tseeb li nej hais nej niam yog tus phem
Poj niam hmoob laus ruam mas ruam tshaj tus ruam!
Your mother-in-law has never been love by her husband before so she is too desperate. Some women never learn.
Coj li koj niam pog coj no nej tsis yuav nws lawm los yeej tsis npam. Nws twb tsis hlub nws tus kheej thiab mas cov me nyuam. However, because she’s their mother and have taken cared of them when they were vulnerable, she should be given second chance to turn her life around.
Tsis npam li os. Niag niam coj li ko xwb ces cia nws mam phov nws xwb os.
No, tsis npam os. She remarried already. The ss$$ she gets feed and provides for her needs. If she chooses to sent to new hubby. You all kids have no obligation to her. She can go live there.
Tsis npam kuv xav na
I don't know,,,but I can see the difference between how children treat their dad difference from their mom when it comes to the same situation. Something to think about it.
How can u see the difference when their dad already died and didn't even do what their mom is doing? Or did u just assumed bc of other ppl?
Tsis npam os 😊
Tsis Noam kiag li ntxiv muaj ncaws tawm mas zoo dua nawj.
Seriously? How do you know? Even God is still love a sinner. This old lady is blind, brain wash, addictive to liar, honor a stranger but hate her family. Of course, she is a problem but still a mother and human being. We all born with a heart and our hearts nurtured us to have a have faith, hope and love. What if she is you or your mother? The true is this family needs helped. Someone who is above the laws and feeling. That is God.
I need to know why the lady from USA went to Laos get married to a men and has to pay the Wedding ? What kind of Hmong culture is this? Los yog Hmoob txoj Cai yog Dev Npua Cai txoj xwb na ? Kuv xav tias txiv neej .thiaj tau them nqe tshoob nkaus xwb.
Cov tub nyab ua yeej tsis npam li os. Twb tsis yog lawv txiv yug nej es nej niam tseem foom los yeej tsis npam
Tsis npam os. Yog need Tsis ua yuav neej niam os
Tsis npam os. Your mom have a lot of money to throw away and definitely can afford her own place.
Tsis npam tsis npam tsis npam go ahead kick her out
Tsi npam