Hello Mpumi, what you said about that lady at the salon reminded me of something of when i became disabled, there were people who said when I became disabled , “ yho if it was me who became disabled I would have killed myself “ Mpumi that triggered me so bad. It’s like I got shot, on a wheelchair now and that’s all you got to say to me, I was like wow, people are insensitive. But the very same people are uneducated today with nothing, I persevered, I’m educated with an honors degree, I’m married, have my own house in the burbs, and I have a great job, that pays relatively well. So I look back and I say I made it. Being paraplegic is not easy but I’m determined and intentional about my life, goals and achievements.
Hi Pamela. Your comment gave me so much perspective, to push through to your goals and conquer through the noise is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing you really touched me
This is so sad . What happened to ubuntu . I remember growing up we were taught never to shame or speak I'll to others now the world is mean . My sister you are beautiful the way you are
The same thing happened to me yesterday Mrs Mpos….. a lady who knew me when I was 18 says nginonile at a store full of people….. weee I dealt with her. I mean now I’m a mother, a wife, I’m a full grown woman. Honestly woman need to stop body shaming other woman.
Yhoo Mina I took time off from abo instagram and FB coz they give me anxiety sometimes. I enjoy TH-cam for now . Sorry Mrs Mops losisi bekakujwayela awunonanga , umuhle❤
oh, I went to mrp home & the cashier who wasn't even servicing me called me to the side, made finger gestures while whispering to me how my vagina was positioned in my Jeans (ikalekile). I try brushing it off & she carries on & laughs. I felt so uncomfortable during my entire stay at the mall omw. I felt so bad reporting her coz that could cost her her job but I definitely sent the email because people need to have discipline & not be over familiar with clientele. the area manager called asap & condemned her actions. geez it's so annoying.
The weight thing is so tricky because at times it's said as a compliment (well, in my case since i've been as XS all my life). So, when you say it to others, your intentions are good but rarely land well. I have learnt the hard way and now literally just focus on complimenting everything but the body size.
For me the most important thing is people need to be educated on body shaming because I think people have no idea how mean and terrible . Our sisters especially need to STOP this .
Wow! Such an important message! Love that you spoke about body shaming and that you were able to be so vulnerable. Just the confidence boost I needed, friend and such great affirmation that you can overcome and achieve anything if you put your mind to it! I love you, future, Mrs. SA! ❤
Ppl are annoying honestly... I totally get your outburst... people who don't even know why they commenting on something that doesn't affect them... can we get a skin care routine?
so profound what you said here Mrs Mops, I also like how you handled the situation at the salon. we really just have to set boundaries for ourselves. it's always mind blowing that it's ladies who often pass these negative comments without considering how the next person is going to take it. I'm also very calm but watch how you talk to me. stay kind & graceful💓
I wish people knew the impact their words had hey, trust guys we do see our bodies when we stand in front of a mirror we are aware of our body changes there’s no need to point it out.. I hate it when people talk about how much weight I’ve lost , I am aware and when they point it out , it reminds me that I suffer from an eating disorder and I don’t want to be thinking about that😤😭
Sorry to hear that Mpumi. I once experienced that at a salon in Randburg. My response was '"Yes, I am aware" I decided long ago to shut out comments about my weight even if they are paying a compliment. Keep to yourself nalo complement.
Hello Mrs Mops, it's always a pleasure watching you. People go overboard with body shaming and we are tired !!!!!! Congratulations on both your shoots.!!!!
Gorgeous Gorgeous Girl... ❤❤❤❤ nothing as exciting as getting a notification of your videos.... I love you so much ma'am .... 10k SUBBIES 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃
The family is growing!!! Congratulations on 10k subbies Mrs Mops🥳💕 . I absolutely love your content and can tell the amount of work and dedication put into it. Love the quality as well , top tier. Also that was very rude of the employee and unprofessional and I'm sorry that it happened when you weren't having the best of days . ❤❤I hope this week is better
big fan!!! mrs Mops yho we need a whole video on women commenting on each other's weight,skin and all ther other sensitive spots ...then they gaslight you and say you have drama when you react...women feel like they have the right to comment on anything they want and that's unnacceptable but most times, it happens in situations when you cannot address it where you need to restrain...women hate other women I swear...A man would never say that .nxa!!
Loved this video. I totally understand the salon situation, sometimes people just want to make comments that are unnecessary. Can we please get a body care, skin care routine ☺️
Seriously hun, every time something has to be opened with a cork I literally have to brace myself, lol, 😆😆😆😅. Also, nothing wrong with taking a social media break or some self-care time as needed! Looking Gorgeous, bright, et shining per usual; stay blessed love! 💕💕💗💗🥰🥰🥰
So chuffed to find your Channel. I follow you on insta, but didn't know you had a YT channel. You are the real bosslady for sure. The soft life becomes you darling.
I love you Mrs Mops, but this was a bit funny...yaz uyaphapha loyo unone kuphi coz that's your everyday glow. That lady is mistaking ukuchachamba(glow) nokunona(fat). love and light to you.
Guys please invest in Automatic home backup generators. They range from R18 500 and up with installation. You can find them at Game stores or order online. They automatically switch on when the electricity goes off.
I don't approve the body comments. But I've realized lot of people don't see/ understand how it's inappropriate. Especially emakhaya. To them it's a positive compliment which is supposed to lift you up or make you feel appreciated. Charity begins at home let's explain to our aunts, mothers etc ask them to stop it.
Mrs Mops, I didn't know that you had a channel. Wow watching this episode it's like I am watching top billing. Everything so clean and so beautiful, how refreshing. You know i love your vulnerability that you understand women's struggles. But watching from where I am i'm wondering why you'd be conscious about certain stuff because you are so perfect. Beautiful, great body, clear skin and bright complexion and to top it all of you are wealthy. You are an epitome of what a woman strives to be. Do enter the competition i think you have a great chance.
I was Body shamed by a well known Supermarket employee’s (a group to be precise), they thought I don’t understand Isizulu or township slang. Did I not turn around and give it to them hot then proceeded to take pictures of them. Immediately called and forwarded those pictures to the head office. All relevant parties were alerted including regional managers etc. The head office did not leave this one lying down because ,evidence was visibly clear on the stores cctv and you can actually sue for such. I was then asked to come in store whereby the culprits were ordered to apologise, gifts as well as flowers were brought. I didn’t even take any of those gifts because, what they uttered that day no gifts can mend . As women we don’t necessarily gain weight from food the main culprit HORMONES , honey they fluctuate like the stock market and hit you in places that ,even gymn fanatics struggle with. I don’t take body shaming likely, I come with guns blazing not now ,not ever. God took time to create this banging body, so RESPECT .❤😘
Hello Mpumi, what you said about that lady at the salon reminded me of something of when i became disabled, there were people who said when I became disabled , “ yho if it was me who became disabled I would have killed myself “ Mpumi that triggered me so bad. It’s like I got shot, on a wheelchair now and that’s all you got to say to me, I was like wow, people are insensitive. But the very same people are uneducated today with nothing, I persevered, I’m educated with an honors degree, I’m married, have my own house in the burbs, and I have a great job, that pays relatively well. So I look back and I say I made it. Being paraplegic is not easy but I’m determined and intentional about my life, goals and achievements.
*That was nasty and appalling for people to utter such like you are not human.Askies hle,Bearhug!*
It's nothing but lack of education.
Hi Pamela. Your comment gave me so much perspective, to push through to your goals and conquer through the noise is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing you really touched me
This is so sad . What happened to ubuntu . I remember growing up we were taught never to shame or speak I'll to others now the world is mean . My sister you are beautiful the way you are
Sorry❤
This woman embodies everything I aspire to be and have. She has always been my favourite.
Aesh Fact,
The same thing happened to me yesterday Mrs Mpos….. a lady who knew me when I was 18 says nginonile at a store full of people….. weee I dealt with her. I mean now I’m a mother, a wife, I’m a full grown woman. Honestly woman need to stop body shaming other woman.
Yhoo Mina I took time off from abo instagram and FB coz they give me anxiety sometimes. I enjoy TH-cam for now . Sorry Mrs Mops losisi bekakujwayela awunonanga , umuhle❤
It's hard to control our emotions in a world where people think it's OK to be rude.
Mrs Mops my goodness thank you for voicing the weight comments, you dealt with it accordingly
Mrs Mops is the woman she thinks she is and more❤️😍
oh, I went to mrp home & the cashier who wasn't even servicing me called me to the side, made finger gestures while whispering to me how my vagina was positioned in my Jeans (ikalekile). I try brushing it off & she carries on & laughs. I felt so uncomfortable during my entire stay at the mall omw. I felt so bad reporting her coz that could cost her her job but I definitely sent the email because people need to have discipline & not be over familiar with clientele. the area manager called asap & condemned her actions. geez it's so annoying.
Oh my gosh! Why did she think that was ok!
The weight thing is so tricky because at times it's said as a compliment (well, in my case since i've been as XS all my life). So, when you say it to others, your intentions are good but rarely land well. I have learnt the hard way and now literally just focus on complimenting everything but the body size.
For me the most important thing is people need to be educated on body shaming because I think people have no idea how mean and terrible . Our sisters especially need to STOP this .
Do enter Mrs SA, you will definitely take the crown😊. I think you’ve planted a seed in my mind, I’m also considering it 🤔😅
This channel is a gem!!!
I can definitely see you as a Mrs SA😍😍. The matching Xhosa outfits with hubby😍👌.
Wow! Such an important message! Love that you spoke about body shaming and that you were able to be so vulnerable. Just the confidence boost I needed, friend and such great affirmation that you can overcome and achieve anything if you put your mind to it! I love you, future, Mrs. SA! ❤
I think when you're ready you should enter Mrs SA, you'd make such an amazing Queen!
Doesn’t it have an age limit?
Mrs SA not Miss SA. Mrs SA goes up to 50 years
🥹❤️i just discovered your channel , Ugg i love your vibe … definitely see you winning the mrs South Africa crown 🔥
Ppl are annoying honestly... I totally get your outburst... people who don't even know why they commenting on something that doesn't affect them... can we get a skin care routine?
so profound what you said here Mrs Mops, I also like how you handled the situation at the salon. we really just have to set boundaries for ourselves. it's always mind blowing that it's ladies who often pass these negative comments without considering how the next person is going to take it. I'm also very calm but watch how you talk to me. stay kind & graceful💓
I wish people knew the impact their words had hey, trust guys we do see our bodies when we stand in front of a mirror we are aware of our body changes there’s no need to point it out..
I hate it when people talk about how much weight I’ve lost , I am aware and when they point it out , it reminds me that I suffer from an eating disorder and I don’t want to be thinking about that😤😭
Sorry to hear that Mpumi. I once experienced that at a salon in Randburg. My response was '"Yes, I am aware" I decided long ago to shut out comments about my weight even if they are paying a compliment. Keep to yourself nalo complement.
Hello Mrs Mops, it's always a pleasure watching you. People go overboard with body shaming and we are tired !!!!!! Congratulations on both your shoots.!!!!
Gorgeous Gorgeous Girl... ❤❤❤❤ nothing as exciting as getting a notification of your videos.... I love you so much ma'am .... 10k SUBBIES 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃
One thing about Ms Mops: she'll drink a good bottle of champagne!🥂
Welcome back and congratulations on the Forbes feature!👏🏽🔥
You such a breath of fresh air !❤
The family is growing!!! Congratulations on 10k subbies Mrs Mops🥳💕 . I absolutely love your content and can tell the amount of work and dedication put into it. Love the quality as well , top tier. Also that was very rude of the employee and unprofessional and I'm sorry that it happened when you weren't having the best of days . ❤❤I hope this week is better
big fan!!! mrs Mops yho we need a whole video on women commenting on each other's weight,skin and all ther other sensitive spots ...then they gaslight you and say you have drama when you react...women feel like they have the right to comment on anything they want and that's unnacceptable but most times, it happens in situations when you cannot address it where you need to restrain...women hate other women I swear...A man would never say that .nxa!!
Social Media breaks are so important sis! For mental health wellness most especially 😭❤❤
I love that you are honest to yourself and those arround you
Thanks for being real and sincere - sidenote, you look and are amazing!
You are so pleasant to watch Mrs Mops❤
I'm glad you handled this because it's not okay to talk about another person 's body
You mos def would win the crown#Beautiful Mrs Mops#True ride or die😘😘😘💓💓💓💓
Loved this video. I totally understand the salon situation, sometimes people just want to make comments that are unnecessary.
Can we please get a body care, skin care routine ☺️
glad to see you back my love. congrats on 1ok subbies #roadto15k 🥳
Yes Mem enter Mrs South Africa, you already have a fan here :)
A channel I never knew I needed
I’m glad you addressed the weight comment ,so that they know going forward ,that they do not cross those lines with anyone else
11k😳wow the community is growing real quick, love this for you❤️👏
Seriously hun, every time something has to be opened with a cork I literally have to brace myself, lol, 😆😆😆😅. Also, nothing wrong with taking a social media break or some self-care time as needed! Looking Gorgeous, bright, et shining per usual; stay blessed love! 💕💕💗💗🥰🥰🥰
So chuffed to find your Channel. I follow you on insta, but didn't know you had a YT channel. You are the real bosslady for sure. The soft life becomes you darling.
I love you Mrs Mops, but this was a bit funny...yaz uyaphapha loyo unone kuphi coz that's your everyday glow. That lady is mistaking ukuchachamba(glow) nokunona(fat). love and light to you.
You will definitely win it. You such an elegant woman with such a positive vibe
Loved this so much, you give us so much and I personally filled up my cup, thank you❤️❤️❤️
Guys please invest in Automatic home backup generators. They range from R18 500 and up with installation. You can find them at Game stores or order online. They automatically switch on when the electricity goes off.
Am sorry for that hunny. No one deserves such. . And you're a beautiful person with a smart personality. And yes you deserve to go to miss sa shows
My favourite notification 😻✨🎉 #roadto15k subbies let’s gooooo!!!
Aibo Mrs Mops how come you’ve never mentioned you have a channel?? I’m so happy I stumbled upon it I’m definitely gonna binge 😍
Thank you Amile. ❤️❤️
You’re absolutely everything and more🫶🏾❤️
You would definitely win the crown 👑. You're so elegant 💕
Love you Queen Mpumi ❤
Oksalayo Chomi umuhle, you beautiful from inside and out ❤️ lots of love 💕
I don't approve the body comments. But I've realized lot of people don't see/ understand how it's inappropriate.
Especially emakhaya.
To them it's a positive compliment which is supposed to lift you up or make you feel appreciated.
Charity begins at home let's explain to our aunts, mothers etc ask them to stop it.
Mrs Mops could we please see a closet tour. That would make for such an interesting video 🥰
You are gorgoues , classy and well mannered , you are goals,Sis omuhle.
I was expecting a vlog but I really enjoyed the format of this Life Update 🥰 I can't wait for the next video!
That pop ma’am🤣🤣😭😭😭 glad it wasn’t directly on your face ❤
Mrs Mops, you are such a beautiful soul. Keep shining mam. Yes do enter🎉.
Our Mrs South Africa😄💕
😂😂😂😂I like how your like “ hey am mrs SA” . I like how your all about women empowerment
Good to see you beautiful sis, stay beautiful and blessed 💖💖💖😘😘😘🥰🥰
We are within ❤
Haven't watched but pls I love this🥺💕
Beautiful and elegant as always ✨️
I can't stop watching your videos😍😍😍you are amazing to watch🤞🔥😘
Mrs Mops, I didn't know that you had a channel. Wow watching this episode it's like I am watching top billing. Everything so clean and so beautiful, how refreshing. You know i love your vulnerability that you understand women's struggles. But watching from where I am i'm wondering why you'd be conscious about certain stuff because you are so perfect. Beautiful, great body, clear skin and bright complexion and to top it all of you are wealthy. You are an epitome of what a woman strives to be. Do enter the competition i think you have a great chance.
Congrats on the Forbes feature🥂👑
You are everything beautiful and more 👑♥️ thank you for sharing this video with us.
I have done the same, being friendly is one thing but keep it professional.
❤❤❤ ohh and YES for Mrs SA
Congratulations on your Forbes feature, the cover is definitely coming😍😍
Stand your ground Mrs Mops love u
looking good mrs Mops. who won perfume voucher guys
We love you Mrs Mops Honey! 🔥 😍❤️
Notification gang❤️🤭
We growing mama ❤
Gosh I love you so much. 😍❤️
I’m sorry you had that experience at that salon. ❤
You responded well to it.
I was Body shamed by a well known Supermarket employee’s (a group to be precise), they thought I don’t understand Isizulu or township slang. Did I not turn around and give it to them hot then proceeded to take pictures of them. Immediately called and forwarded those pictures to the head office. All relevant parties were alerted including regional managers etc. The head office did not leave this one lying down because ,evidence was visibly clear on the stores cctv and you can actually sue for such. I was then asked to come in store whereby the culprits were ordered to apologise, gifts as well as flowers were brought. I didn’t even take any of those gifts because, what they uttered that day no gifts can mend . As women we don’t necessarily gain weight from food the main culprit HORMONES , honey they fluctuate like the stock market and hit you in places that ,even gymn fanatics struggle with. I don’t take body shaming likely, I come with guns blazing not now ,not ever. God took time to create this banging body, so RESPECT .❤😘
love your videos Mpumi..and love you!!
Love you mpumi
Absolutely love your content Mrs Mops 🫶
Wow, congrats on the Forbes feature ❤
I want to be you when I grow up.🥺❤️
You are such a beautiful Mpumi ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This Queen 👑 Rocks My World,
Haha Miss SA❤ go hun, you have what it takes 🎉
I hate such comments yoooo n when they say such they look disgusted nami i react kabi bayadelela abantu.
Quality is giving✨😭
I can tell you’re one of those ladies that smell really good 😭😍.
lol we have the same champagne flutes 😍
November and December is wedding season in Uganda as well. It is probably a thing.
Looking beautiful as always Mrs Mops❤️
New subbie here. Love all the way from Namibia. 🇳🇦
Love you so much 🥺❤️
You look great Mrs Mops and sound lovely ❤❤❤
Mrs Mops for Mrs SA🔥🔥
Haaaa gal!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣talk about popping bottles
Not me sitting down while I’m on duty to watch this 😍
I’m so sorry you cried 🫂🫂🫂❤️