Short-Term Dating, Long-Term Effects
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ธ.ค. 2024
- The plaintiff dated the defendant for about a month but says the defendant started accusing him of cheating. He says he loaned the defendant money but has not been paid back, so he’s suing for unpaid loans. The defendant argues the plaintiff abused him and she even filed a restraining order against him. She’s countersuing for pain and suffering and emotional distress.
“I didn’t hit her that hard to knock her out”. Dude is missing the entire point!! You shouldn’t be hitting women in the first place!!! What a low life! 😤
All women or just some?
I'm thinking he thinks it's normal to be hitting on a woman, wow, this was hard to watch.
If a woman hits you first, you never lay your hands on them. I don't know if I believe him in this case about that tho cuz he sounds sketchy. But fellas, if a woman is actualy laying hands on you, call the police and let them deal with it
@@Big_Bake Well said brother no one's should be hitting no one at all. If anyone's feel physical, mental, verbal abuse etc. Just depart ways from one another.
@@Big_Bake nah if a woman hits you first you knock her 🍑 out
I knew this case was over when she proved he hit her🤦🏾♀️JM does not do women beaters
Once he realize you’re a woman beater, don’t take care of your kids and/or you’re a liar… it’s a whole wrap , case over!
Facts, he should've done his research.
Agreed
Once he starts saying prove it... It's over🤣 On the flip side any man who hits a woman isn't a man.
I said the same thing it’s over for him!!
The way he said “sucker” at the end I died 💀 I’ve never seen him read someone this hard lol man was done
If you can look for the case where he breaks down & cries.
He snaps out on the man who helps raise his stepson. I think the plaintiff (stepson) had the music up too loud and because of that, he became violent towards him. It brought back memories to Judge Mathis... But I know he snapped out! Again this was 1 of his most noted cases where he breaks down and cries and then he snaps.
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@@Lanie-sl9ne I saw that case! It was so sad yet so beautiful. I wish I could hug that boy so tight and punch that step “ dad” right in his bitter soul.
@@Lanie-sl9ne if im thinking of the same case, I believe it was the kids uncle
I hollered 😂😂😂😂
6:29 “I hadn’t hit her that hard to knock anybody out”
So you did hit her?!
Sir! Keep your hands off people!!!
Exactly… then came back and said he didn’t put his hands on her at all. Disgusting
She's disgusting too, WOMEN keep your hands off these men too
@@kentthomason6285 Definitely.
@@kentthomason6285 exactly! Men and women keep your hands to yourself, period!
Right! Don't u learn that in kindergarten? Hands & feet belong to yourself right🤦🏾♀️
Proof that wisdom is NOT guaranteed with age. 😔
Some ppl know better BUT are too dumb to care...You know that's true just look at your community in the hood...U can't tell me black people don't know better...Just so many of them CHOOSE to be ignorant...
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When a man say he will never hit you again lie lie lie, once a man hit you he will always hit you so just leave the first time
Amen. Worked domestic violence for years.
Or woman. My ex wife was abusive and she sang that same song about never doing it again....smh
Agreed!! No man ever hits a woman ONCE then just stops EVERRR
@@Big_Bakewomen really do this too & I wish it was taken more seriously smh ppl need to keep their hands to themselves & if u can’t handle it then be single
They are both too old for this chaos. This is insane 😳
I pray to be happily married by then without toxicity.
I was just thinking the exact same thing
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No one is too young or old for abuse. She was abused and left.
@@belleame1064 exactly. Some people stay abusers their entire lives. Older people don't always mellow with age. It tickles me when people are shocked older folks behavior, as if some magic happens to make people nicer as they age.
I believe her. He looked like he wanted to lay hands the more her evidence proved her case. I hope she safe.
Facts
When I see people get really wild online and say they miss the old days, and they want women to go back to the old way relationships used to be, I think about this. I think about how in the old days, men could beat women casually and it was OK. And I feel like that’s what this dude wanted, he was upset that she wouldn’t just go along with what was happening
EXACTLY
Back in the day was just like today only low down dirty men would beat and hit on women 💞
EXACTLY!!!!!!! So many older women have told me to NEVER get married bcuz of this smh
Mathis was so mad he took off his glasses to read the paperwork
I seen that,it's after yet before the case he seen her pictures,speaking on me I was in my early 30's fresh divorce after 15yrs my daughter father knocked me clean df out I seen stars & bells that shit shook me & stayed,ninga tried to convince me he didn't knock my ass out stayed with him but learned to fight back...I'm still f up now...relationships is hard for me to build still!!! carrying this shame
@@rhondaharris93 u stayed but u have to let that go. We are the hardest critics of ourselves. Only 1 person walked this Earth that was perfect. If u haven't , maybe consider therapy. But forgive yourself
I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂
Dear Plaintiff and Defendant, there is not much difference between 30 days and 40 days…
Yes what you said 🧏🏾♀️ @ Jae Tay
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Why even entertain this guy and allow him into your space. A guy like that leads with money and gifts because he expects control. This man assaults and disrespects you and you still allow him to be around you and the grandkids? Hopefully she learns and keep her distance and threaten and follow through with police reports. Dudes like this are dangerous.
She ain't no joke..
She look to old to be learning now. She said the man stalked her. But she gave in and started dating him 😂😂😂.
@@deon3133 - Like wtf??!! Lol.
@@deon3133 that’s why… the stalking wore her down
Wow, a whole 30 days; they practically grew old together🙄 and if he assaulted her a month into the relationship, then why on earth would she ever give him another chance to do it again?!
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These the elders that say listen to me ik what’s right!😒😒. I have sense enough to not let a man know the names or gender of my kids in 30 days of dating.
She doesn’t want to be lonely
LOL I AM COMPLETELY DEAD!! ☠️
Because he promised her he would never do it again.
Me personally? He would have been hit right back and had the cops called on him. I watched my mom be abused by my father, and I was determined that would never be me.
How you gonna bring someone to court after you done did all you did to them 😩😩
No fool like an old fool. 😮
He’s a liar and abuser
If someone hits you once... Don't go back to them.
I knew there was something behind that low voice. Wow, he abused her and she stood around in glad she won the case and I hope she continues to heal 🙏 thx god she's able to talk about it so many women aren't able to because their abuser silence them 🤔😬
This one kind of scared me. I would hate for him to go after her because Judge came down on him so hard. He is egotistical, abusive and controlling. Not only was he harassing her by bringing her to court after breaking her jaw, he even tried to low-key intimidate her there in the courtroom right in front of Judge Mathis saying that *SHE* had his evidence. That was more than just a suggestion - he is a dangerous predator.
Bet he wouldn’t fight a man, though.
These comments are sad. Most are basically saying she was too old to be abused and old enough to know better. Vulnerability is vulnerability at any age. People are in DV situations for up to 5 decades sometimes.
They was only together 30 days. And she hit him first and he hit her back. Maybe she needs to keep her hands to herself
You’re absolutely right
@@deon3133 She did not hit him when they were in the car. He punched this lady in front of her grandkids. Do you beat women?
You're so right!!!!
I said he's too Old for his Shenanigans and I never said anything about her being abused people have heard of elder abuse and that's obvious that ABUSE can happen at any age.
He called him a playa and a sucka and told him to take all that jewelry off I almost fell out I really feel bad for the defendant in all seriousness tho
Can we take a moment and acknowledge that Judge Greg Mathis is probably the realest person on television. He is a very important figure. He came from poverty, the projects, selling and doing drugs, pimping and robbing, began turning his life around and went to college. Met his wonderful wife whom he always speaks highly of. He became a judge then moved to television and has been on for 16 years. He speaks up for women‼️ He speaks out against the abuse of people and drugs. He checks these clowns who come into his court room acting tough and he is at the same time understanding, compassionate and hilarious. I feel so blessed to have this man being a positive influence in my life. I wouldn’t know where else to get such wisdom. I’m giving Judge Mathis his flowers today💐 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Exactly
💯to that 👏 he’s does deserve his flowers I love him. Him and judge Rudy not Judy. She’s is so rude and funny, but Mathis is the real deal. Flowers 💐
@@mahaliadick1282 yes! I had to stop and think, this man is a blessing in disguise. I’ve learned so many life lessons from watching this show.
Ditto !!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍
@@Ericasgaines I agree me too.
Judge Mathis : Where's your evidence playa?
Plaintiff: She got it! 😑
This is too merch 😝😂🤣😭
Everybody knows JM don’t play about women beaters. He shouldn’t have even shown up 😂😂😂😂
Or dead beats
His ring placement tells me he’s backhand king
Exactly smh
Ain't no way I'm a woman beater and come to court in front of a judge....
A woman beater is not aware to be a woman beater. They're deluded and feels entitled. That's why they walk in courts with such a dreadful confidence.
@@frankamye4251 I suppose
Especially if the judge is JM. The plaintiff must not watch the show if he thought he was going to win.
Abusive men think their presence alone will scare their victim into not speaking up. It’s sick.
She said JANGURERY, IT'S JANUARY LOL
😀🤣 I cracked up every time she said it.
And Krogers... 😳
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And thoat 😂
Main rule… Don’t get picked up by a man at Krogers.
I thought my mother was the ONLY ONE that says JANJUARY!! And confidently, like she's right....
We all knew how this was gonna turn out for the plaintiff as soon as she came with credible evidence of him assaulting her😳…………as it should’ve turned out! 🤨🤷🏽♂️
This is why men and women need to work on their image, their value and their overall health before getting into any relationship…. It’s too much evil 👿 and sickness🤕 in the world 🌍 not to do so…
Sometimes a person doesn’t want to be with you but doesn’t want anybody else to have you 🤗 stuff like that does happen .
"He assaulted me Janjuary 16th"
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Listen I thought only I heard it
Omg!!!! You getting whoop on as a granny. I ain’t never seen a man put his hands on my granny! That’s so odd to be 55/65 getting beat on. Too old bones too Brittle. Absolutely not.
The way auntie says January, I know her banana pudding good as hell. She gives me the vibe she cooks & cusses good ❤️😂❤️😂 I’m in. Auntie, let me know what you need because me & nephew will come lay Morris Day & the Times smooth out
I’m screaming I was reading your comment as she was saying January 😂😂😂😂
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This is such a cute comment 😂
I’m dead 😭😭😭not morris day & the time 😭😭 Auntie does look like she can burn though.
She has the receipts? That means you purchased the items for her 🤦🏿♀️🥴. Keep your hands to yourself Sir.
Once a man hits you, he will do it again. He's abusive and she has low self esteem .
no she was out quick because she knew better- she pressed charges and was sure to have evidence- she spoke up for herself , got a restraining order and did the right thing
@@jofloletschat7788 💯
Hello beautiful people ladies and Gentlemen watching this episode...Peace and Blessings to everyone 💯☮️🌈💐😁💯
You too.
Same to you
@@sheneyquamercan1699 all good here in Melrose Park Illinois ☮️💯💐
Ok so if his story is he just smacked her then how in the hell did she get a dislocated jaw?? He had to have hit her pretty hard.
If I heard it correctly he hit her, she fell and hit her face on the ground which then dislocated her jaw.
Either way it was still a hard enough smack to lift her off her feet for her to fall down face first.
But why do women even hit on men if a man is naturally Stronger anyway. If u hit first u deserve to get hit back
@@brennenjones6658 he made it seem like her jaw just dislocated on its own.. it’s almost as if he was trying to minimalize his part . Either way, it’s crazy.
@@Msmary98-98 yeah, they both waaaaay too old for these shenanigans. No one should be going through what they are going through but the fact that they are seasoned or supposed to be seasoned individuals, makes it that more ridiculous.
Yes, abusers are always trying to minimize what they do to you. Mines did! I had a fractured rib and a punctured lung and he tried to convince me that I made him that way.
Now why would a women beater come in front of Judge Mathis?
I mean, woman beaters aren’t the brightest individuals
They too old for this foolishness but the way Uncle Judge Mathis called him a sucka took me out 😂
I would expect a little more maturity from these two.
This what it looks line to become a sad “older” instead of a respected “elder”.
You expect too much. 😞
Not them going hard to express it was a 30-40 day relationship 😩🥴 they’re a old hot mess!
I guess getting knocked out in front of her kids wasn't enough, she had to get knocked out in front of her grandkids.
need to go on to the retirement home
Judge Mathis should be a little more patient when the litigants try to explain their situations, not everyone is quick witted. I’m sure the plaintiff was trying to say that he wanted a more committed relationship and she was seeing him and maybe keeping her options open and he didn’t want that. Judge made him out to look a fool from that point onward. Plaintiff is not innocent however .
Mathis loves to believe the women ,but super quick to bash the men. Smh
Yes because once you’re an abuser! Nothing else you have to say matters. He gave this woman a concussion! He knew what he was doing from the beginning, that’s why he had no issues assaulting her in a months time span. That’s his character!
@@Sunshine-r6s3w of course , totally agree, he gets no passes ! He’s dead wrong. I was just making an observation bc it’s something I’ve noticed in multiple cases regarding Mathis
Judge dnt take woman abuse lightly.. once he hears that its a wrap
It's called evidence, she got it he didn't simple.
They are TOO old for this nonsense!
It's no "they" he shouldn't beat on women end of story. Glad she left him before he killed her.
@@jaydub4661 you are correct, but she is old enough to know that once a man hits you he will do it again. So why put up with the nonsense after the first time? I stand with my original statement “THEY” are too old for this mess. Him, for trying to beat on someone and her for tolerating this foolishness. I’m glad she finally had the courage to leave.
Right! need to sit their old butts down
I have never met a trustworthy old man with long hair . It’s all in the hair ladies 😂
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She didn't want him she wanted the money but she was mad about the strings attached to that money. The game never changes.
In thr game no one ever agrees to be beat.
Who cares! He’s an abuser and a manipulator. Men are always finding excuses for the poor behavior in other men.
@@theresadaughterofthemosthi4963 she kept going back...🤔💭
@@theresadaughterofthemosthi4963 she went back from what I heard once and it don’t matter how many times it was.. she didn’t ask to be hit. Mr Culture one of them suckas too 😂😂😂
@@nikki09190912 it does matter people stop feeling sorry for you. Buying clothes on layaway this is over some drugs. both talk like some crackheads.
I can't believe he took her to court..... The audacity of abusers blow my mind. He most likely brought her to get to her. He didn't even bring any evidence??
Pro-tip, my man... When a woman can prove that you hit her, you may not want to be bringing her to court. Especially JM. 😂😂😂
Facts
I felt so sad for that lady.
I rather be single then to go through this
This judge decides he don't like you the minute he looks at you.
No he decides he don’t like a person when he finds out they’re a WOMAN BEATER!
Nah Judge just dont play game...
"I can smell it!!!"
If you neglect your kids or the women show proof of abuse it’s a wrap for your case
@@Leelang931 that's what i meant👍
JudgeM called him a sucka 😂😂😂
If it's one thing JM don't like, it's abusive men!
& dope feins 💀
& deadbeats 💀
@@nggapraying4392 right
@@Rayallwayz as does most of society based upon gender roles and social norms 🤷🏾♂️
And folks with crackish mannerisms
🤦🏾♀️They should be attending Bible study, on the deacon board,and making quilts. They are on national TV with this Middle Schoolery. 🤦🏾♀️
Baby I am from the south. A little hot grits and molasses does the trick everytime.
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank you chow chow
@@beverlyhall4578 only if you like drama and jail
“Janjoowary”😂😂😂
Education at it's finest 👍🏿
😫😭 lol
lol lol!! woo
Thank YOOOOUUU! I was beginning to think I was the only one that heard that. I went back 3 or 4 times to get a few more chuckles! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😬☻
Happy Tuesday Family!
I'm glad the judge saw right through him. He was lying. He knows he hit her....and in front of her grand kids. How despicable!
Exactly a narcissist abuser
Does Janjuary come right after Drecemba or right before Febberary?
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What month is Janjuary???
This is beyond ghetto. Cars, leather suits, punches, grandkids. Smh
Don't bs fooled. The same things apply in Upper Class neighborhoods.
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Dude should have stayed home. He should have known he wasn't winning in JM's courtroom with proof of a domestic...😒
Chile January was kicking her a**. Sheesh.
Lol 😂
So was throat
Now why these people come in that court room when they are KNOWN women beaters, get someone fired from work, and or don’t pay child support?!?!!!!! They KNOW JM don’t play that!!!
I'm getting dejavu like I have watched this already
Same as soon as I saw the thumbnail
Damn seems like a nice lady. Those be the ones that get hurt…
He's just a old abusive trick and when she got tired of being with him and using him she tried to leave and he snapped
After the 1st assault situation I'm wondering why she ever accepted him back.
I might be the only one to want these same ppl in the courtroom audience, lol I be mad if the black lady with the glasses behind the defendant also the white lady and bald black dude better be in attendance
“On my grandson and birthday, it was ‘Janjuary’ the 6th”😂😂😂at 5:22
Why do abusers always expose themselves by going on national tv.. thinking they’re going to win a case… 🤦🏾♀️
“Janguary” is really working on me
I don't know how JM catches on pretty fast who the abusers are. I've seen men get accused and he doesn't react but later revealed that she was lying and I've seen people get called out for abuse and it's proven later. He's usually spot on with his gut feeling. Maybe there's a trick to spotting the liars
He suppose to been the defendant ?
Or maybe they just walked through
the wrong doors 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Defendant proved her case, abuse and all. Enough said. Next cassssse!
She never had to say a word. The look on her face was enough for me!
All these “SUCKAS Judge Mathis Hit that man wit GOT ME CRYING 🗣 #SUCKA 😂🤣😭
JM ate him up at the end
Putting his hands on her was WRONG, but ladies…. We gotta do better. Y’all better quit putting your hands on these men expecting them to maintain restraint. Treat them the way u want them to treat u. Look at the way she played the victim after throwing the first blow
How do you know she hit him first? Oh because he said so?
Some ppl never grew up. These old ppl acting like kids
For the pandemic episodes, the black dude in the front is always animated. I love him. He shook his head so hard and crossed his legs when the defendant was describing the abuse.
He's the studio producer. All of them work for the production team.
@@mzfancy4767 thank you! Do you happen to know the positions/roles the other ppl play?
@@shhhhh529 Good morning dear. They're all apart of production. I've attended a filming of abt 7 cases in 2011-2012.
Did Judge Mathis really say "sucker" in court?
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The Defendant learned how to say Janjurary from Ms. Wanda from Love and Marriage Huntsville lmao.
But you kept going back🤦🏾♀️😂🤣
At the end the lady was trying 2 tell judge something. I'm like NOOOOOOO plezzz don't say shit😂😂😂 you've won da case already. Cause when judge heated and u already won. U say 1 thing you'll go home with $0🤣🤣
Taking off glasses to read???? 😂😂😂
Idk why men who beat on women come to JM… he can’t stand them
Some people don’t want a relationship but still don’t want you dating other people. Judge you’ve been out the dating game awhile !
If you don't want a relationship with the person you're having sex with, you don't get to decided what they do elsewhere.
@@tatianadaniel3569 That’s true but I’m just stating the selfish desire of some
@@kay22100 Understood🤝🏽
Cadillacs, leather suites... I feel like I'm in the 70's
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@@Proverbspsalms ijs I was waiting on one of em to say jive turkey
@@thesavagery6696 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🫣😩
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@@Proverbspsalms they sound like a episode of good times
Mathis is a arrogant big mouth behind that robe. He thinks he can say whatever the heck he wants to people; he's just rude and disrespectful!!!
People, if you want your case reviewed without bias,;stay clear of this fooll
😂JM you ain’t have to do him like that
Mathis STOP!!!!
Right
How you this old and simple minded she look 60 this is sad poor girl hope she learns smh
A real man don't hit a woman.
O’l woman beater. I hope she’s safe, he’s definitely a nut case!!!
Judge Mathis tried so hard not to snap lol
Long-term relationship for 30 days!
Where her kids??? If anybody abused my grandma like that.. im breaking bones! And smashing dentures!
Judge it’s guys out there that will cheat and accuse you on cheating and don’t want you. Even tho she’s a woman.
Og on here wit that little oxtail ponytail lol 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Nobody should be putting hands on anyone