I hope time has healed your heart. If someone wants to walk away from you, let them go. Never look back, no matter how much it hurts.. You can't try to hold on to something that God has intentionally took out of your life. If you do you'll miss what he has better for you. Much Love
just shows that even tho someone who is smiling is still going thru hurt or pain but keep on smiling and their heads held high, so never judge the next person cus their problems can be worse than yours but they still smiling☺
Reading the comments... I realized all women..no matter the background, color or creed go thru the same exact shit... struggles... And for the ones that haven't been thru it... KEEP LIVING.. YOU WILL!!😘😘😘
For some reason this made me lol. It's true. My granny always said - Live long enough... I've left a couple feeling this way and it's been my turn. 🤷🏿♀️
This used to be my anthem for years....then learned that my solitude is so much better than heartbreak. I stopped dating and my life turned around for the better. Relationships and marriage are great ...but if you never marry you won’t die. I made my peace with never marrying and I feel great.
Sooooo many emotions. This is such a difficult thing to go through. You can't truly know just how hard it is until you find yourself going through. Pride will tear you up inside
I love this song...I smile even though I hurts. Because I know God has something better for me! Momma always told me to never let them see you hurt. I can always relate to Tamia...I
I just cant cry anymore...my tears just dried up and I feel so numb....this song helps me to amend my broken heart right now......the pain is deep and I felt dying inside....even its hurting but sometimes we need to do the right things for the best and for ourselves if no more reason to stay.....stand up and moved forward......
I am so sick and tired of falling in love with the wrong guy. I am so sick and tired of crying. I am so sick and tired of being lied to. I am so sick and tired of you trying to play me for a fool. I am so sick and tired of being hurt. This song is my Anthem because it touches all points and angles of my life. No matter how many years this song has been out it still hits home.
So this song has finally hit me harder than I ever expected it to... I use to listen to this song years ago when I was dating. When things didn't work out with my love life, I would pretend as if it didn't phase me much and like Tamia said, I'd play the circus clown around my friends who were in relationships and just act like I didn't want marriage and children, etc...but deep down inside, I was dying for it all. I married a guy to help him get his green card, we divorced in about a year or so, I never slept with that man a day in my life. I honestly did it to help him out as a friend, plus I was only 20 years old, I thought what was the harm, right....fast forward to years later, I finally find a guy who's the complete opposite of what I thought was my type, he was just getting divorced and we connected like immediately.... We got married a year after dating, we then got pregnant with my 1st kid and his 4th. He has 3 with his ex wife... Things were so awesome we ended up having our 2nd the following year...everything was great! I finally had that love that all girls daydream about. Then he and myself decided to start our spiritual journey and find God, cause of course we want to raise our children up right and have God at the head of our household; and he stumbles across pastor Gino Jennings, and he teaches us that second marriages are sinful and we will burn in everlasting hell if we divorce and remarry while our first spouse is still alive...being that we both were married prior to our marriage, things started to change. Our warm and cozy home became very cold and depressing and very painful knowing that I'm losing the only thing I've ever asked God for, which was a family....I never wanted to have children out of wedlock, nor did I want to be a single mother..... The pain felt daily is indescribable, knowing that as each day pass, I'm a day closer to losing my husband and life as I have grown to know..... I'm currently still going through this separation process. Although we are technically still living together, parenting and working together on necessities like bills, we have disconnected in so many ways. There's no intimacy, there's no sex, there's no emotional feelings and it hurts. It hurts so bad daily....so this song now, has definitely reached an all time peak on how I receive and interpret it now...😢
massive fan of tamia got me through very tough times. i found her through her into you song with fabolous and searched a few of her other tunes and fell inlove. shes beautiful, powerful and has an amazing voice. we are now friends.
This song hits all the key points for me, It's not the life that I would choose, but what else can I do, if he don't love me, if he don't want me, I'm not about to sit around and let myself go!! Times like this is when I have to love myself the most!! Thank you Tamia for this song, inspiring women all around.
Been crying for an hour now and its all coming back. The tears, the pain, the bittersweet memories. I miss you ErP! I really do and i'm dying to know if you ever loved me at all? Have i ever crossed your mind after all these years?
This song basically puts lyrics to my life....wondering if it will ever happen for me. If the love of my life will come in the picture and STAY THERE. I keep saying that I'm ok if I don't get to experience having that special someone but deep inside......it's got a hold on me.
Man , when i first heard this song i was in Namibia as an exchanged student and that was exactly how I felt cause i was so home sick. put a smile on my face but i was so dying inside. I LOVE THIS SONG!
U know.. I'm always looking for songs to cry for at night!! Songs are my comfort .. I'm always finding lyrics that describe me.. And I think I just found the perfect song to to cry at night !! In fact I'm crying my eyes out right now.. And look it's 11:11 pm!! I'm just going to cry until I have headache and have to go to sleep!! Like always!! Now if you'l excuse me I have to go pour my eyes out to this song :'(
2019. anybody??? kapag nga naman malungkot ka naiintindihan mo yung kanta.. my gosh.. its killing me... i miss you so much baby. hope to see you soon.😢
A couple of years ago I was going threw a heartbreak and missing someone really bad I kept a smile on my face I thought no one noticed my friend played this song for me every time I listen to it it takes me back to that moment oh I also cried like a baby lol
I'm way past smiling. Bad things happen for a reason, and sometimes something bad can bring the end of so much pain and misery. If you've been through something bad, I can assure you there's a silver lining to that and you'll see it in time.
Dont give up on love, I know this is easier said then done but wait for love it will most likely come to you in the most unexpected time in the most unexpected way. Wish you and anyone who reads this well on your journey for love
I believe this song related to a past relationship for 7 years but now I’m on a better place I have to learn to love myself more and I thank God for taking it away because I believe it wasn’t God will but mine.. it is hard to love and ❤️trust again after you’ve been so much pain but I still believe that with God anything is possible and you wait on God he can surprise you and he truly believe God will surprise me with the one he has for me and I can start believing me in true love again and to know that it does exists it just a matter of God timing 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Mhhhhh i can relate to this song ,it happened to th best of me,dated smone fr 15 only to b dumped by him,they say it get better with tym ,3 yrs down t line still feels like yersterday .
Today i smile ladies only its not fake its real and there is no pain its because God blessed me with the man i prayed for 15 years wasted with a man who would never love me so i left got the courage healed my wounds gave love another chance and prayed for my king and God heard me and today i have never been so happy and its real pure trustworthy safe protected yall all those years that wasnt love love has found me and im getting married ❤️ i cry tears of joy 🥲i knew love waa still out there and im living proof pray ladies and gentleman your king or queen is waiting on yall prayed love is amazing and he prayed for me to!!!
I get you so much it's crazy. I don't understand how someone who swore to love you and always be there for you just leaves you like that never happened..
Okay so apparently I've been sleeping on Tamia... When I say this song is my life... Like literally all I could think of was me during this whole song. Wow.
I hope time has healed your heart. If someone wants to walk away from you, let them go. Never look back, no matter how much it hurts.. You can't try to hold on to something that God has intentionally took out of your life. If you do you'll miss what he has better for you. Much Love
💯
PRAISE GOD, THANK YOU!
7 years later--this message is for me and it gives me H-O-P-E🙏🏽🖤💜✝️
GOD BLESS YOU!🌟
I am crying
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this just touched me. After eleven years the message is still relevant
Let's take the time to take appreciation to how amazing her high notes are especially when it's just so awesome with the lightness of her voice
Tamia has the most beautiful voice i've ever heard
just shows that even tho someone who is smiling is still going thru hurt or pain but keep on smiling and their heads held high, so never judge the next person cus their problems can be worse than yours but they still smiling☺
well said well said best comment🙌🙌😞
Kairi Gibbons so true
"Sometimes I sit at home & wonder how it would be if he had loved me" lord Jesus this real music right here!
Reading the comments... I realized all women..no matter the background, color or creed go thru the same exact shit... struggles... And for the ones that haven't been thru it... KEEP LIVING.. YOU WILL!!😘😘😘
True hey
Facts
For some reason this made me lol. It's true. My granny always said - Live long enough... I've left a couple feeling this way and it's been my turn. 🤷🏿♀️
Women put men in so much pain with their games so I'm glad both genders can feel the pain and not just men 😂
This used to be my anthem for years....then learned that my solitude is so much better than heartbreak. I stopped dating and my life turned around for the better.
Relationships and marriage are great ...but if you never marry you won’t die.
I made my peace with never marrying and I feel great.
Sooooo many emotions. This is such a difficult thing to go through. You can't truly know just how hard it is until you find yourself going through. Pride will tear you up inside
I love this song...I smile even though I hurts. Because I know God has something better for me! Momma always told me to never let them see you hurt. I can always relate to Tamia...I
I'm dying inside with my pride nd a smile on my face June 2020
Hang in there I feel you
July 2021. Love you sister🙏🏽🖤💜✝️
Still Hits Even Today😭💔
MAY 2024 ✨🫶
June 2024
I just cant cry anymore...my tears just dried up and I feel so numb....this song helps me to amend my broken heart right now......the pain is deep and I felt dying inside....even its hurting but sometimes we need to do the right things for the best and for ourselves if no more reason to stay.....stand up and moved forward......
I am so sick and tired of falling in love with the wrong guy. I am so sick and tired of crying. I am so sick and tired of being lied to. I am so sick and tired of you trying to play me for a fool. I am so sick and tired of being hurt. This song is my Anthem because it touches all points and angles of my life. No matter how many years this song has been out it still hits home.
I couldn't put it better
+Donna-dean Telfer-Smith I really am tired but what someone else don't want somebody else do and will. It's the waiting part that takes the longest.
Rachael Landers same.
Rachael Landers *Smoke Weed*
Spend time learning to love you first. I'm doing it..
So this song has finally hit me harder than I ever expected it to... I use to listen to this song years ago when I was dating. When things didn't work out with my love life, I would pretend as if it didn't phase me much and like Tamia said, I'd play the circus clown around my friends who were in relationships and just act like I didn't want marriage and children, etc...but deep down inside, I was dying for it all. I married a guy to help him get his green card, we divorced in about a year or so, I never slept with that man a day in my life. I honestly did it to help him out as a friend, plus I was only 20 years old, I thought what was the harm, right....fast forward to years later, I finally find a guy who's the complete opposite of what I thought was my type, he was just getting divorced and we connected like immediately.... We got married a year after dating, we then got pregnant with my 1st kid and his 4th. He has 3 with his ex wife... Things were so awesome we ended up having our 2nd the following year...everything was great! I finally had that love that all girls daydream about. Then he and myself decided to start our spiritual journey and find God, cause of course we want to raise our children up right and have God at the head of our household; and he stumbles across pastor Gino Jennings, and he teaches us that second marriages are sinful and we will burn in everlasting hell if we divorce and remarry while our first spouse is still alive...being that we both were married prior to our marriage, things started to change. Our warm and cozy home became very cold and depressing and very painful knowing that I'm losing the only thing I've ever asked God for, which was a family....I never wanted to have children out of wedlock, nor did I want to be a single mother..... The pain felt daily is indescribable, knowing that as each day pass, I'm a day closer to losing my husband and life as I have grown to know..... I'm currently still going through this separation process. Although we are technically still living together, parenting and working together on necessities like bills, we have disconnected in so many ways. There's no intimacy, there's no sex, there's no emotional feelings and it hurts. It hurts so bad daily....so this song now, has definitely reached an all time peak on how I receive and interpret it now...😢
No words can describe how much i can relate to this song!
massive fan of tamia got me through very tough times. i found her through her into you song with fabolous and searched a few of her other tunes and fell inlove. shes beautiful, powerful and has an amazing voice. we are now friends.
i've been putting on my makeup and a smile on my face and telling everyone that everything is ok for 2 years and im still not over him....
I feel you girl
Love is just not for me I feel guys just break my heart contiously. I wanna be loved and appreciated.
Lanh Tran I felt this 🤧
Me too
Same here hun... Everytime i pour my heart out i get crushed
Did it ever get better ?
This song hits all the key points for me, It's not the life that I would choose, but what else can I do, if he don't love me, if he don't want me, I'm not about to sit around and let myself go!! Times like this is when I have to love myself the most!! Thank you Tamia for this song, inspiring women all around.
I have been searching for this song for years.
"what else can i do if he don't love me, if he don't want me"
that part makes me burst in tears. :(
I really love this song. This song perfectly fits the way my life is going on. :)
I'm tired of getting excited about someone and then being disappointed 😔
Love never fails
Been crying for an hour now and its all coming back. The tears, the pain, the bittersweet memories. I miss you ErP! I really do and i'm dying to know if you ever loved me at all? Have i ever crossed your mind after all these years?
Tamia, you made that song JUST for me. uh huh girl. thanks a lot
love this song so much i can listen to it all day long and i will not get sick of it!
This song basically puts lyrics to my life....wondering if it will ever happen for me. If the love of my life will come in the picture and STAY THERE. I keep saying that I'm ok if I don't get to experience having that special someone but deep inside......it's got a hold on me.
Man , when i first heard this song i was in Namibia as an exchanged student and that was exactly how I felt cause i was so home sick. put a smile on my face but i was so dying inside. I LOVE THIS SONG!
Those lyrics crossed my mind today 😊❤
Amazing! Timeless artist! So talented!
Baby face can write the hell out of a song.
Bony face I liked
Smh this song really hit hard ..still makes me sad to this day but I love how she sang it.
Many years passed but can't get over it.
Dying inside with my pride and a smile on my face 😢😁
It's funny how a song that I know I've heard a thousand times could now bring me to tears. My current situation 😢😢
I went thru this and it is so painful but we all continue to push on.....now I've found my soulmate.....
*Just Wear your best SMILE...* 😊
damn cant stop replaying it ....
U know.. I'm always looking for songs to cry for at night!! Songs are my comfort .. I'm always finding lyrics that describe me.. And I think I just found the perfect song to to cry at night !! In fact I'm crying my eyes out right now.. And look it's 11:11 pm!! I'm just going to cry until I have headache and have to go to sleep!! Like always!! Now if you'l excuse me I have to go pour my eyes out to this song :'(
I'm sorry your going through things
It WILL get better. That's a Guarantee!! Straighten your crown queen...your time is approaching 👸
Who's still here October 2019❤😣
this song just summerise the fuck I'm going through, but I just slay my smile regardless.
I truly love this song :D
Soon in luv wit this song 🎵 💕
This song make me cry because it reminds me of my late grands ,😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I love this song . Memories 🥰❤️
been addicted to this song. i could relate to it.
2019. anybody???
kapag nga naman malungkot ka naiintindihan mo yung kanta.. my gosh.. its killing me... i miss you so much baby. hope to see you soon.😢
A couple of years ago I was going threw a heartbreak and missing someone really bad I kept a smile on my face I thought no one noticed my friend played this song for me every time I listen to it it takes me back to that moment oh I also cried like a baby lol
Ooo yes this song directly to me, everything im going through.....I'm just so tired 😫 of heartbreaks, n it killing me inside.
i guess i will never find love i need to make peace with that, the pass four years i have been hurt so many time. i am tired of the heart break. NELE
One of the most underrated love songs
I love this song!!!! I can relate to it.
Beautiful song first time I heard it and love it I love Tamia as an artist
OMG. I'm crying right now, its a perfect description of me right now.
I'm way past smiling. Bad things happen for a reason, and sometimes something bad can bring the end of so much pain and misery. If you've been through something bad, I can assure you there's a silver lining to that and you'll see it in time.
Dont give up on love, I know this is easier said then done but wait for love it will most likely come to you in the most unexpected time in the most unexpected way. Wish you and anyone who reads this well on your journey for love
Timeless Tamia, truly the best
I believe this song related to a past relationship for 7 years but now I’m on a better place I have to learn to love myself more and I thank God for taking it away because I believe it wasn’t God will but mine.. it is hard to love and ❤️trust again after you’ve been so much pain but I still believe that with God anything is possible and you wait on God he can surprise you and he truly believe God will surprise me with the one he has for me and I can start believing me in true love again and to know that it does exists it just a matter of God timing 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Whoever dumbs down this song doesn't know what real music is,she killed it
I put a smile on my face
and if anyone ask me...
everything is okay😔
I so love this song. ♥
2021 & this song is timeless & relatable...
To all the guys who's having the same situation as the song says. Cheer up! One day we will be having the love that we want.
Mhhhhh i can relate to this song ,it happened to th best of me,dated smone fr 15 only to b dumped by him,they say it get better with tym ,3 yrs down t line still feels like yersterday .
still crying in 2021 my favorite song of all time back in highschool
Still here in 2024❤
it's been years and this song is still breaking me. 😭😭
Who's still here March 2020
May 2024✨🫶✨🥂
A very good song...I relate to this song so much right now
She couldn't have described it any better.
This song describes exactly how I feel and what I am going through!
It'll get better, I promise
Horatio Major I sure hope you're right
Tabitha Waters Look at yourself in the mirror, you'll be just fine.
Things better now?
this song speak of my life right now
Hits home everytime!
2020 Still listening to it 🥰🥰
Love this song ♥
Today i smile ladies only its not fake its real and there is no pain its because God blessed me with the man i prayed for 15 years wasted with a man who would never love me so i left got the courage healed my wounds gave love another chance and prayed for my king and God heard me and today i have never been so happy and its real pure trustworthy safe protected yall all those years that wasnt love love has found me and im getting married ❤️ i cry tears of joy 🥲i knew love waa still out there and im living proof pray ladies and gentleman your king or queen is waiting on yall prayed love is amazing and he prayed for me to!!!
Awesome love tamia
Takeena this song makes me understand you love ☺️☺️☺️☺️
sobrang favorite q tong song nato,actually lht ng songs ni tamia...
9 months later and I still have a broken heart doing this exact thing
THTS me. ALL DAY. love this song
I LOVE this song. 💜
Listening July 2020🇿🇦
I get you so much it's crazy. I don't understand how someone who swore to love you and always be there for you just leaves you like that never happened..
This is a beautiful song!
2020 💜💙🔥💯💪💪💪
This song bring back so much memories of my past relationship you want it to work and be happy but the other person don’t feel same way 😔
great songg..i can also relate to it (:
Love this song My Favorite ❤️
i love this song & lylics so much.. just like me!
2021. I relate to this song🥺❤
i love this song it describes e in sooo many ways i never show how i feel !!!!!
I sometimes wish I didn't have such an easy heart, I hate how I fall easy and hard for people and I'm always the one crying myself to sleep
I still love this song...Feels like it describes me.....
Patiently waiting 🤩
Thanks for the lyrics
This relates to me so much I'm left wondering if I wrote it in my sleep, sleepwalked to a mailbox, and sent it to Tamia. Honestly.
Okay so apparently I've been sleeping on Tamia... When I say this song is my life... Like literally all I could think of was me during this whole song. Wow.
Current Situation. Loving this song in this 2019 era. Hahaha.
i forgot how much i used to love tis song
This is me right now because no one wants to be with me and no one ever will, and I'm okay with that.
+Taylor Easley That's how i feel
don't speak that way hun. someone is out there for you. it just take time.
GREAT SONG .