Can you believe it, me and Enrico got married! All (I think) of your questions answered here :) Timestamps: 01:39 The 'proposal' 04:36 What was the process to get married? 18:08 How does it feel to get married?
I prefer the legality in Italy only because it puts a put to bigamy and lies and secrets being hidden. And weren't you provided with a list of documents that were required?
We got married in June 21, it was a little bit hard to understand what a nulla osta is (I'm danish) , but finally we made it. It went totally fine with my comune, I live in a smaller city, maybe that is the case :) We also waited like 1 year after the proposal because my wife had to be Italian first (she's originally nigerian) = un po' di burocrazia in meno. then the pandemic came ... but finally we made it! Non è cambiato molto, gia convivevamo da 6 anni, eccetto che nowwe have a little 3 months old Sven Damilola with us tanti auguri a entrambi !!
Holy shit I came back to this channel after like 3-4 years and I can’t believe how much has changed. Your videos and damonandjo content was huge in my decision to be able to go to Scotland to do my undergrad. I never would’ve had the confidence to go to school in another country without y’all. It’s so crazy to see you married now! Congrats that’s awesome
First things first: congratulations! Getting married is quite easy, in Italy, if you get married where you were born with someone from the same town. If not, well… When I got married in 1997, since I was living at the US at the time, I had to go through the Italian consulate: of course they had very different ideas on the kind of documents I needed. I ended up bringing my future father-in-law cellular phone (in ‘97!) to my wife’s comune offices in order to have the local officer spend half an hour yelling and accusing the consular agent of not knowing the law (and vice versa) until they came to an agreement. And we were able to do that since the officer was on a first name basis with my mother-in-law. I cannot imagine how bad it is in a big city where you don’t know anyone in the town administration and with all the problems getting an appointment with COVID…
"You can't get married on Tuesday" killed me. LOL it was a bit complicated to marry a foreigner here in the states during the pandemic....Obvio not as complicated but making appointments were frustrating. I too, didn't want to have my wedding the same month as my birthday (March) but we had to if we didn't want to wait. My ceremony also became more then what I actually wanted it to be, but anyway I totally understand. However wasn't the day so magical even after all of the bureaucracy? Well it was for me :-)
We have a saying in Italy that states that you can’t get married nor leave for a trip on tuesday and friday 😂 “Né di Venere né di Marte, non si sposa né si parte”
@@lorenzosignorini3288 sì, ma non credo sia per questo che a Milano non ti puoi sposare di martedì. Sarà perché le sale sono disponibili solo alcuni giorni al settimana.
@@eleclettica It's the same in an old Spanish saying, "En martes, ni te cases ni te embarques" (On a Tuesday, don't get married nor sail away"). By the way, as an Empire and being a Penisola, Romans probably taught it to the Spaniards when they conquered Spain before Christ. Needless to say, that silly superstition shouldn't be the real cause of that Milan regulation.
Congratulations!! It's so amazing having followed you since you were at the Bocconi University now seeing you so happily settled and even married! And in the while defeating the italian bureaucracy! Go girl!
Congrats again on the wedding 💕 I've been following you since Bocconi days and it just feels like a friend of mine got married!! I can imagine how stressful it must've been - now enjoy the happy buzz!! So happy for you two ✨
Tia thank you for sharing this! I’m going through the same exact process with my fiancé and getting crazy. It really relieves me knowing that we are not late in the process it’s just the bureaucracy!!
Evviva gli Sposi! Wishing you both the very best. There is so much craziness in the world at the moment and not enough love and this news is so heartwarming. Go girl, go!
Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you two !! ❤️ Anyway as much as I love my country, I know how complicated the procedures for almost everything are, also they never tell you exactly what you need to bring to do something and so you will always have to come back million times. Now that I’m studying law, I know that procedures are so complicated because of their origins (Roman, Germanic and catholic laws, etc…), but if the office workers were just a little bit more efficient it wouldn’t be so difficult to do almost anything 😅Anyway now you are out of the woods and I’m really happy for you 🥰
Very happy for you both, Tia! (And much respect for successfully surviving the journey through that hell that our bureaucracy is. Unfortunately in many other fields, as well). Be happy! My warmest wishes !
wow! what a hectic adventure! but so proud of you! and so happy that goal was accomplished, one way or another! Cheers to an amazing "second/Big" wedding day! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ And Happy marriage!
Hey Tia! I’ve been following you since the very beginning, and I was always fascinated by the fact that we had a lot in common…just reversed. I moved from Milan to New York in 2014. Lot of bureaucracy on my side too as an Italian international student in the US. Then last year I got married, and because of the pandemic my husband and I also chose to do a small city hall wedding. Kinda similar situation where no body really knew the date we were going to get married and so we picked a date randomly… February 24th 2021!!! 😅 So yeah… just felt compelled to comment! Congratulazioni a te ed Enrico!!! 🎉
Congratulations!! Happy for you and Enrico. 😀 I admire your strength, courage, and perseverance. It's not an easy feat to get married over here. You did it! Cheering for you. I've lived in Italy with my Italian partner over 10 years now, and we have a 12 year old daughter. If we had gotten married, I could've applied for citizenship YEARS AGO, but since we're not married I've waited these 10 years of residency to even THINK about applying... 🤣Like do I even want citizenship at this point, and then to go through the Hell that you're going through?? The paperwork over here is PESANTE!! Don't even get me started on renewing the Permesso (I'm going through that now, and on top of it all I accidentally let my Permesso expire by 2 years LOL I truly didn't realize - the Police officer at the sportello side eyed me the whole time LOL then I had to get fingerprints in a backroom, thank goodness she was nice).... the Questura di Milano is a HOT MESS - even with an appointment, wait outside 1 hour (minimum), wait inside 4 hours, never enough seats (I stood for 3 hours), then after the window, come back in a month WHEN/IF they send you a text to let you know you can come pick it up. "distanza di sicurezza" non-existent. Everyone in there just turning blind eyes all around. 😩 Even my partner, who has lived in the Milan area for 20 years said the place needed help. And I can't get started with those "marco da bollos" Oh Lord help us!!! And how we stranieri are often treated, sometimes if I don't walk out I know I'm gonna end up in prison. 🤣 I also noticed that when you mention wedding or baby to Italians - they make MIRACLES happen! 😆 So happy for you and Enrico. Wishing you both a lifetime of laughter, good wine, and love. : )
Hi Tia! I've been following you since 2015 and even if I don't know you personally I'm so happy for all your accomplishments. Auguri ragazzi I wish you all the best!
Congrats! I just found your channel and I've surprised myself I actually watched the whole thing.....To sum it all up: YOU are the total package, I love your look, I love your energy, you are amazing, your husband is a blessed man.....🥰🌺🌹🥀🌿
Congrats Tia and Enrico ❤❤ Welcome to Italy with all the ups and downs. I am married to an Italian but we got married in the Caribbean.. Sending love from Torino..
Wow...what an evolution for you and your life! Great to see the growth!! I remember having a few exchanges with you about you and Enrico visiting Fano (where he is from if I'm not mistaken!). Really inspiring to see how far you've come...to your continued success!
HALLELUJAH!! If you're in LOVE and spending years together in the same house. Why not get Married? Actually build a Life together...legally. Let the WORLD know we're couple. No more this my "boyfriend" but my husband. Mio Marito. So happy for you!! Viva l'amore! 🎊
Congratulations!!!🥳 I've been following you since the very beginning of your channel, it is so weird how much you know about a person you've never met. I am so happy for both of you!
It is so funny... how similar the situations for so many people are :) Do you think that the processes of/from both countries made marriage less romantic/fairytale? This is something I sortuve noticed is that due to having different nationalities (especially non-eu) the bureaucracy trumped the romanticism of marriage. Which is not necessarily a bad thing!
100% there were so many points where I was like “why are we actually doing this? Will it really make that much of a difference” 😅 also the dragged out nature of it gave us time to work on some final issues and humps that we def had to get on the same page on before being legal tied until death 😂 I didn’t feel like I was getting married until the second it happened so maybe it was better, even though this was hella stressful I can’t imagine how much more stressful it would have been had I been more financially and emotionally invested.. this was surprisingly the best way to do it for sure!
Congratulations, very happy for ya’ll. With you on talking things out, can’t believe how we do it in the states where the girl waits for the guy to be ready. Seems weird.
Tia congratulations on your marriage, you & your husband are so Blessed to have each other. I have watched past videos on how you have experienced the prejudices of ignorant people. It makes me angry that this is still happening today. You are so Beautiful, so smart, intelligent speak with such eloquence. I enjoy your videos, I recently came across your video. Please strong as you are. Pray Gods Angel's over you & your husband
I'm so happy for you. As a woman of color I can relate. Love Italian men. I'm retired and live in cherry hill,nj. Was it hard for you to learn the language. Again wishing you the best. May God bless you and Enrico with a beautiful life together
congratulation to both of you 🥰😍 you are such a beautiful couple. for the italian bureaucracy we know it's a pain in the ass, i was born and rise here and i never experience any other system and it's still a traumatizing experience, i can only imagine how stressful it is having to deal with it more than any other people especially if you've experience a functional one. i hope we can fix it in the near future.
Congratulations :) This might sound weird, but when I saw the title I was like: Aren't they already married? I've been following you for a while (years) and your couple is so established that for a second I thought you were already married 😅
I got married at the justice of the peace 20yrs .. getting a divorce but all that to say justice of the peace wedding last really long I know alot that never divorced
Congratulations Hunny!!! I've been watching you since the beginning...BTW, you ain't broke Chyle, you get paid in Euros.....LOL....So happy for you and Enrico!
I’m so happy for you tia!! I too live here in Milan, and most of the people who works at the comune/poste, makes you boil il sangue, cause they are LAZY people… but congrats again!!
Can you believe it, me and Enrico got married! All (I think) of your questions answered here :)
Timestamps:
01:39 The 'proposal'
04:36 What was the process to get married?
18:08 How does it feel to get married?
After years together you are now a Family. You're his Wife/Moglie. He's your husband/MARITO!! No more ti presento mio Ragazzo! CONGRADULATIONS!! ❤️
My goodness..."You're gorgeous!"🧸🧡
I prefer the legality in Italy only because it puts a put to bigamy and lies and secrets being hidden. And weren't you provided with a list of documents that were required?
Congratulations 🎊
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Congratulations! I've been subscribed since your Bococoni days and I'm happy for you two! Can't wait to see what the future holds for you!
Thank you so much!!
Omg sammmme nearly cried when the video was posted 🤍💕🧿🧿
We got married in June 21, it was a little bit hard to understand what a nulla osta is (I'm danish) , but finally we made it. It went totally fine with my comune, I live in a smaller city, maybe that is the case :)
We also waited like 1 year after the proposal because my wife had to be Italian first (she's originally nigerian) = un po' di burocrazia in meno. then the pandemic came ... but finally we made it! Non è cambiato molto, gia convivevamo da 6 anni, eccetto che nowwe have a little 3 months old Sven Damilola with us
tanti auguri a entrambi !!
Holy shit I came back to this channel after like 3-4 years and I can’t believe how much has changed. Your videos and damonandjo content was huge in my decision to be able to go to Scotland to do my undergrad. I never would’ve had the confidence to go to school in another country without y’all. It’s so crazy to see you married now! Congrats that’s awesome
I really respect the conversation element of getting married! It doesn’t have to be the man to propose when he’s ready
First things first: congratulations!
Getting married is quite easy, in Italy, if you get married where you were born with someone from the same town. If not, well…
When I got married in 1997, since I was living at the US at the time, I had to go through the Italian consulate: of course they had very different ideas on the kind of documents I needed. I ended up bringing my future father-in-law cellular phone (in ‘97!) to my wife’s comune offices in order to have the local officer spend half an hour yelling and accusing the consular agent of not knowing the law (and vice versa) until they came to an agreement. And we were able to do that since the officer was on a first name basis with my mother-in-law.
I cannot imagine how bad it is in a big city where you don’t know anyone in the town administration and with all the problems getting an appointment with COVID…
"You can't get married on Tuesday" killed me. LOL it was a bit complicated to marry a foreigner here in the states during the pandemic....Obvio not as complicated but making appointments were frustrating. I too, didn't want to have my wedding the same month as my birthday (March) but we had to if we didn't want to wait. My ceremony also became more then what I actually wanted it to be, but anyway I totally understand. However wasn't the day so magical even after all of the bureaucracy? Well it was for me :-)
Are u approve of by YAHAWA god.
You can't get married on tuesday?? Omg!!🤣 LIKE COME ON PEOPLE!
We have a saying in Italy that states that you can’t get married nor leave for a trip on tuesday and friday 😂
“Né di Venere né di Marte, non si sposa né si parte”
@@eleclettica veramente? O:
@@lorenzosignorini3288 sì, ma non credo sia per questo che a Milano non ti puoi sposare di martedì. Sarà perché le sale sono disponibili solo alcuni giorni al settimana.
@@eleclettica It's the same in an old Spanish saying, "En martes, ni te cases ni te embarques" (On a Tuesday, don't get married nor sail away"). By the way, as an Empire and being a Penisola, Romans probably taught it to the Spaniards when they conquered Spain before Christ. Needless to say, that silly superstition shouldn't be the real cause of that Milan regulation.
Congratulations!! It's so amazing having followed you since you were at the Bocconi University now seeing you so happily settled and even married! And in the while defeating the italian bureaucracy! Go girl!
Congrats again on the wedding 💕 I've been following you since Bocconi days and it just feels like a friend of mine got married!! I can imagine how stressful it must've been - now enjoy the happy buzz!! So happy for you two ✨
Tia thank you for sharing this! I’m going through the same exact process with my fiancé and getting crazy. It really relieves me knowing that we are not late in the process it’s just the bureaucracy!!
The thumbnail alone made me gasp!!! Congrats Tia!!! 😍😍😍🎉
Evviva gli Sposi! Wishing you both the very best. There is so much craziness in the world at the moment and not enough love and this news is so heartwarming. Go girl, go!
Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you two !! ❤️ Anyway as much as I love my country, I know how complicated the procedures for almost everything are, also they never tell you exactly what you need to bring to do something and so you will always have to come back million times. Now that I’m studying law, I know that procedures are so complicated because of their origins (Roman, Germanic and catholic laws, etc…), but if the office workers were just a little bit more efficient it wouldn’t be so difficult to do almost anything 😅Anyway now you are out of the woods and I’m really happy for you 🥰
Sto piangendo dall'emozione!! Siete bellissimi, tanti auguri 🥂 🍾
Been here since the very start.
Feels surreal. Wanna give you guys a huge hug. 💚💚💚💚💚
Very happy for you both, Tia! (And much respect for successfully surviving the journey through that hell that our bureaucracy is. Unfortunately in many other fields, as well). Be happy! My warmest wishes !
wow! what a hectic adventure! but so proud of you! and so happy that goal was accomplished, one way or another! Cheers to an amazing "second/Big" wedding day! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ And Happy marriage!
Hey Tia! I’ve been following you since the very beginning, and I was always fascinated by the fact that we had a lot in common…just reversed. I moved from Milan to New York in 2014. Lot of bureaucracy on my side too as an Italian international student in the US. Then last year I got married, and because of the pandemic my husband and I also chose to do a small city hall wedding. Kinda similar situation where no body really knew the date we were going to get married and so we picked a date randomly… February 24th 2021!!! 😅
So yeah… just felt compelled to comment!
Congratulazioni a te ed Enrico!!! 🎉
Congrats to you both! Wishing you a wonderful & blessed union! Take care!🙂
Congratulations!! Happy for you and Enrico. 😀 I admire your strength, courage, and perseverance. It's not an
easy feat to get married over here. You did it! Cheering for you.
I've lived in Italy with my Italian partner over 10 years now, and we have a 12 year old daughter. If we had gotten married, I could've applied for citizenship YEARS AGO, but since we're not married I've waited these 10 years of residency to even THINK about applying... 🤣Like do I even want citizenship at this point, and then to go through the Hell that you're going through?? The paperwork over here is PESANTE!!
Don't even get me started on renewing the Permesso (I'm going through that now, and on top of it all I accidentally let my Permesso expire by 2 years LOL I truly didn't realize - the Police officer at the sportello side eyed me the whole time LOL then I had to get fingerprints in a backroom, thank goodness she was nice).... the Questura di Milano is a HOT MESS - even with an appointment, wait outside 1 hour (minimum), wait inside 4 hours, never enough seats (I stood for 3 hours), then after the window, come back in a month WHEN/IF they send you a text to let you know you can come pick it up. "distanza di sicurezza" non-existent. Everyone in there just turning blind eyes all around. 😩 Even my partner, who has lived in the Milan area for 20 years said the place needed help. And I can't get started with those "marco da bollos" Oh Lord help us!!! And how we stranieri are often treated, sometimes if I don't walk out I know I'm gonna end up in prison. 🤣
I also noticed that when you mention wedding or baby to Italians - they make MIRACLES happen! 😆
So happy for you and Enrico. Wishing you both a lifetime of laughter, good wine, and love. : )
Hi Tia! I've been following you since 2015 and even if I don't know you personally I'm so happy for all your accomplishments. Auguri ragazzi I wish you all the best!
I am so happy for you. Mrs. Tia! What a beautiful moment for you and your husband! You are glowing!😍✨
Congrats! I just found your channel and I've surprised myself I actually watched the whole thing.....To sum it all up: YOU are the total package, I love your look, I love your energy, you are amazing, your husband is a blessed man.....🥰🌺🌹🥀🌿
Congrats Tia and Enrico ❤❤ Welcome to Italy with all the ups and downs. I am married to an Italian but we got married in the Caribbean.. Sending love from Torino..
OMG, you were stunning! Like out of a fashion magazine! Congrats guys!!!
You look absolutely beautiful with your natural hair 😍
Wow...what an evolution for you and your life! Great to see the growth!! I remember having a few exchanges with you about you and Enrico visiting Fano (where he is from if I'm not mistaken!). Really inspiring to see how far you've come...to your continued success!
Congratulations 🎉 I was just checking in to see what’s new from Tia! May you have all the happiness in the world ❤
Tia! I could cry! So amazing - congratulations to you two!!! Looked like a beautiful and sweet day!
HALLELUJAH!! If you're in LOVE and spending years together in the same house. Why not get Married? Actually build a Life together...legally. Let the WORLD know we're couple. No more this my "boyfriend" but my husband. Mio Marito. So happy for you!! Viva l'amore! 🎊
Congratulations to you both! May your love last a lifetime👰🏾🤵🏻💍💓💓💘💘💞💞
Congratulations!!! So happy for you, wish you a lifetime of happiness together✨
Major congratulations on this big milestone and moment Tia! Wow! Married!!!!! ♥️♥️♥️ May you both have many more years of joy together!
Ma che splendida notizia!! Complimenti ragazzi, vi auguro il meglio!🌈
congrats!!! The bureaucracy is a nightmareeee!!! They probably want to test if you are really up for it :D
Congratulations!!!🥳 I've been following you since the very beginning of your channel, it is so weird how much you know about a person you've never met. I am so happy for both of you!
It is so funny... how similar the situations for so many people are :) Do you think that the processes of/from both countries made marriage less romantic/fairytale? This is something I sortuve noticed is that due to having different nationalities (especially non-eu) the bureaucracy trumped the romanticism of marriage. Which is not necessarily a bad thing!
100% there were so many points where I was like “why are we actually doing this? Will it really make that much of a difference” 😅 also the dragged out nature of it gave us time to work on some final issues and humps that we def had to get on the same page on before being legal tied until death 😂 I didn’t feel like I was getting married until the second it happened so maybe it was better, even though this was hella stressful I can’t imagine how much more stressful it would have been had I been more financially and emotionally invested.. this was surprisingly the best way to do it for sure!
Congratulations!! Your videos helped me so much when I was applying to college. I’m so happy for you!!
Congrats Tia! Every time a watch your videos or stories about Italian bureaucracy I’m reminded of why I couldn’t move back 😭
che belli aaaaaaaaa congrats girll!!!
Congratulations to you and Enrico! Wishing you all the best in the new chapter of your lives together!❤️
Oh the marco da bollo issue! I remember those IG stories! Congrats to you and Enrico!!! ♡
I'm diggin' your cute little suit, you fashionista, you. You look gorgeous and you make a lovely couple.
Congratulations, very happy for ya’ll. With you on talking things out, can’t believe how we do it in the states where the girl waits for the guy to be ready. Seems weird.
Congratulations Tia. You looked so beautiful. Wishing you and Enrico all the happiness & blessings to come. ❤️💕❤️
Tia congratulations on your marriage, you & your husband are so Blessed to have each other. I have watched past videos on how you have experienced the prejudices of ignorant people. It makes me angry that this is still happening today. You are so Beautiful, so smart, intelligent speak with such eloquence. I enjoy your videos, I recently came across your video. Please strong as you are. Pray Gods Angel's over you & your husband
Congrats Tia!! 🥰🥰
Quindi hai sposato il tuo primo amore! Che teneri. Il vostro è il tipo di coppia che mi fa emozionare tantissimo.
I'm so happy for you. As a woman of color I can relate. Love Italian men. I'm retired and live in cherry hill,nj.
Was it hard for you to learn the language. Again wishing you the best.
May God bless you and Enrico with a beautiful life together
Congrats!!🎉 so happy for you 💛
congratsss,so happy for you
Congratulations!! Wow! I'm so happy for the both of you!! Wishing the best for y'all!! 🤗
Congratulation love! So happy to see you guys together and still in love!
The color of your skin😍😍😍 good for you
Congratulations! Congratulazioni! 🎉🎉🎉
congratulation to both of you 🥰😍 you are such a beautiful couple.
for the italian bureaucracy we know it's a pain in the ass, i was born and rise here and i never experience any other system and it's still a traumatizing experience, i can only imagine how stressful it is having to deal with it more than any other people especially if you've experience a functional one. i hope we can fix it in the near future.
Congratulations 🎊 Our anniversary is 11-11-1983..very easy to remember..I add the 8+3, that gives me another 11..😍
Enrico my shy boy, congratulations to u both 🎉❤️
Congrats!!!🎉🎉🎉💍💍💍🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations :)
This might sound weird, but when I saw the title I was like: Aren't they already married? I've been following you for a while (years) and your couple is so established that for a second I thought you were already married 😅
Congratulations!!! I have been a longtime subcriber and this was so heartwarming to see 🥰
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I am absolutely excited for both you and your husband's nuptials this pass month. Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳
Congratulations Tia!!!! This is amazing news
I got married at the justice of the peace 20yrs .. getting a divorce but all that to say justice of the peace wedding last really long
I know alot that never divorced
You look beautiful. And your relationship and it's events are perfect just the way they are
My first time on your channel. You are so beautiful. Congratulations on your marriage 💝
Absolutely beautiful!!! Many blessings to you both… Blessed be.
Congratulazioni Tia ed Enrico !!
Congratulations guys. So happy for the both of you.
Congratulations!! You looked so beautiful Tia!! Love the dress!
Congratulations, Tia - been following forever and may I write - you’re so beautiful 🥰✌🏽❤️
congratulations ☺️🎉 it's so lovely that romance still exists. Makes me believe in all the old novels I read😂
CONGRATULATIONS !!! ...sorry I am a little late for those, but who cares? Congratulations anyhow to both of You.
So happy for you guys! Enrico is my fav youtuber's boyfriend
Such a Beautiful Lady, Congrats on your Wedding 💞👏🏾👏🏾
Congratulations and Happy beautiful years of marriage.
Just beautiful.
sono tanto felice per voi congrats!
Congratulazioni!! Che bella notizia!
Congratulations Hunny!!! I've been watching you since the beginning...BTW, you ain't broke Chyle, you get paid in Euros.....LOL....So happy for you and Enrico!
Congratulations Tia! So very happy for you both.
Thank you so much!
Congratulations 🎈
Congratulations! You look so happy! 😍
Congratulations!!! I am really happy for you!!!
Congratulations to both of u ❤
So so happy for you two !!! 💐💐💐
Congrats Tia!!! 🥳
Congratulations 🍾 Tia and Enrico.
Felice matrimonio
So Happy for you! Congrats!
Congratulations 🎊 Wishing you years and years of happiness 😊
I’m so happy for you tia!! I too live here in Milan, and most of the people who works at the comune/poste, makes you boil il sangue, cause they are LAZY people… but congrats again!!
Congratulations !!
Have been a year since day one girl am so happy for you❤❤❤🙌🙌
You look beautiful congratulations
Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉
Sister! I had a feeling you two would marry after the purchase of the house. Congratulations you two ❤️
You guys are a beautiful couple!💕
Congratulations!! You should've brought that man to the states and married him here. wham bam!! Easy peasy! 🥰