Chan’s advice on talking to your crush

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  • @dazzlekazzle
    @dazzlekazzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15173

    he knows we're gonna get rejected 🤡

    • @hongjoongspinky
      @hongjoongspinky  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1651

      naurrrrr💀

    • @iheartkimseungmin
      @iheartkimseungmin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +654

      Well…..it’s good to be truthful Channie I guess?

    • @orakimchi3577
      @orakimchi3577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      He definitely said its a 50 50 chance
      Hecwas consolling you and making stay prepare for the worst
      But your still saying weird thing

    • @dazzlekazzle
      @dazzlekazzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@orakimchi3577 it's a joke 😃

    • @ruiyang1179
      @ruiyang1179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@hongjoongspinky yarrrrrrrrrrrr

  • @jadedjoker2199
    @jadedjoker2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10857

    Stay: so how do I talk to my crush?
    Chan: lol prepare for rejection

    • @dazzlekazzle
      @dazzlekazzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +569

      💀 he isn't even trying to sugarcoat the truth

    • @ruizr3919
      @ruizr3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥲

    • @yeoboseyonoona
      @yeoboseyonoona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👁👄👁

    • @Fiona-oq4dn
      @Fiona-oq4dn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      😭😭😭😭

    • @stunna._yung
      @stunna._yung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Just do it because you only live once
      - bald keeho

  • @risorin1216
    @risorin1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10532

    i like how his advice is basically: be prepared for the worst
    we love a realistic king

  • @stephcurry9398
    @stephcurry9398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5410

    the whole time he's talking about rejection LMAO

    • @hongjoongspinky
      @hongjoongspinky  2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      ayo mf steph curry in my comment section🤩🤩🤩

    • @-_-ok9550
      @-_-ok9550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      like he was talking from experience🤣

    • @mintpudding7908
      @mintpudding7908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      He's the one who wrote the famous lines in EX lyrics

    • @sneha5971
      @sneha5971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@hongjoongspinky 😂😂😂

    • @chocmintsify
      @chocmintsify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      makes me chuckle though hahaha 🤣

  • @ramshafarooq
    @ramshafarooq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7441

    i loved that he actually said "wait i just saw a really cute question lemme scroll up" before telling us we'll be rejected akhdslhslfsklfs

  • @koiyangie
    @koiyangie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7515

    chan is so awkward when talking to us but atleast he gives good advice

    • @DaenerysUchiha
      @DaenerysUchiha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +328

      He's always soo awkward but that's one of the things we love about him 😆

    • @krhodes02
      @krhodes02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lmao

    • @KeyofDestiny3582
      @KeyofDestiny3582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      To me him being awkward feels comforting to me because I feel like he is just like us and I am awkward too so I love to have him to look up to as a role model

    • @Carolina-cm6nu
      @Carolina-cm6nu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      YES and the fact that he said he doesn’t give good advice is so so false he gives great advice

    • @ariesvixen853
      @ariesvixen853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Chan's advice: take STAY's advice
      He was too funny reading STAY's comment at the end. When he said "that boosts your confidence" he looked like "why didn't I think of smth like that?"

  • @ang3lcyy
    @ang3lcyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3527

    why is he emphasizing so much the rejection part i'm screamingggg

    • @lyllaby
      @lyllaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      mans must know the pain ig 😭

    • @user-vh4ms7mb3n
      @user-vh4ms7mb3n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      @@lyllaby nah I think he just knows that our real crush is actually him-

    • @woozihae
      @woozihae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      'Cause you do need to prepare mentally for those results lol

    • @migasa29
      @migasa29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      we're kpop fans

    • @lyllaby
      @lyllaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@user-vh4ms7mb3n or that yea 💀

  • @Peachyminffs
    @Peachyminffs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    Chan : you should be mentally prepared to get rejected
    Me who's bias is lee know : 😃👍🏼

    • @hongjoongspinky
      @hongjoongspinky  2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      you’re ✨experienced✨

    • @Peachyminffs
      @Peachyminffs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@hongjoongspinky 😔✌🏻

    • @DoubleBunnyEntertainment
      @DoubleBunnyEntertainment 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😅

    • @cutelittlebrattho
      @cutelittlebrattho 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr😅

    • @tamaki4714
      @tamaki4714 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      It hurts but yeah, minho is really the best training 💀

  • @dra2521
    @dra2521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4034

    This probably isnt the advice people wanted to hear but it's incredibly mature and thoughtful and very true. One of the best pieces of advice you can get for anything in life is how to be okay with rejection. Know that it isnt personal or a blow to your self worth. And move on.

    • @AuAb10
      @AuAb10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      exactly!

  • @LLinds
    @LLinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2164

    Someone in the Vlive comments was like “I HOPE YOU’RE NOT SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE”

    • @jana5686
      @jana5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      I mean he could be, we all go thru rejection. It doesn’t have to be a romantic rejection, lots of things don’t go our way

    • @s1ckdolly
      @s1ckdolly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      well i mean he's probs had a crush before.

    • @jana5686
      @jana5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@s1ckdolly Who hasn't? 😂

    • @avanny3915
      @avanny3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      @@s1ckdolly of course he had, dude is 25, the probabilities of never having had a crush at that age is almost non-existent hahah

    • @hyunlixxie2662
      @hyunlixxie2662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@avanny3915 he’s 24

  • @jiabeijinn
    @jiabeijinn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1131

    when you have a crush on bang chan 👁️👄👁️

    • @AbbyRegalado
      @AbbyRegalado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      dang😭🐺

    • @bipashabhowmick9839
      @bipashabhowmick9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      An underrated gem o god I'm wheezing

    • @eccc7876
      @eccc7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Get ready for rejection 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

    • @L_A0
      @L_A0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Your not alone tho-👁🫦👁

    • @fireruby1882
      @fireruby1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      IKR🤣🤣

  • @alanystv378
    @alanystv378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    “If you wanna confess, you gotta confess”
    -Chan 2022

  • @zuzannabrzeszczak1578
    @zuzannabrzeszczak1578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1622

    why do i feel like he was speaking from his own experience? :,) he didn't even try to sugarcoat it, he literally said it like it is: this is the best way to deal with anything in your life, pretty much. you always have to hold your head high, and don't act like it's the end of the world if things don't go your way. especially if it's a minor crush, or if you're not really sure if that person will return your feelings, it's always best to be upfront, and tell the truth. the worst thing to do is avoiding the topic altogether and just keep pining after someone hopelessly without even taking an initiative.

    • @hichiihci
      @hichiihci 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      The way they portrayed the sobbing suggested to me that his experience was a rejection to all those groupies and more, I think many of them could not adequately accept rejection. So yeah, I think he has experience on that side.

    • @avanny3915
      @avanny3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      I mean... He is 25, there is no way he didn't have a crush at some point of his life

    • @s...5885
      @s...5885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      he was just saying the truth, udk if he's talking about his own experience? y'all too dramatic

    • @yasminechoerryscherry3701
      @yasminechoerryscherry3701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Maybe he has had an experience like this with a crush, but it's also important to remember that he is an idol that trained for 7 years of his life under jyfuckingpee, if anyone knows anything about rejection and moving on, it's him

    • @gwenmloveskpopandmore
      @gwenmloveskpopandmore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@avanny3915 yeah and plus he’s also human

  • @T_Cup
    @T_Cup 2 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Chan's advice: Confess, but be prepared for rejection
    Nicki Minaj's advice: Don't do it. Zon't zoo it.

  • @music_lover3641
    @music_lover3641 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    the way he's staring into our soul when he said 'REJECTION.'
    he knows its not a 50/50 chance, its like a 99% chance we get rejected 😭😭
    its okay, guys we have chan

  • @reneeonrogue
    @reneeonrogue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    Lmao i haven't confessed to any crushes at all, because no :D
    But the "if they reject you, IT'S THEIR LOSS NOT YOURS" SPEAK YOUR TRUTH FAM

    • @random20000
      @random20000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      your first sentence is such a mood and me too

  • @priyankamazumdar5243
    @priyankamazumdar5243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +699

    do you ever think channie makes up questions to dicuss stuff he wants to talk about xD xD xD

    • @hongjoongspinky
      @hongjoongspinky  2 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      nah cuz sometimes i feel like he really does that💀

    • @exloster9624
      @exloster9624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      100%

    • @mintpudding7908
      @mintpudding7908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Well some of the comment during his live is nothing new. Chan answer question that he feel okay for audience. I remember asking him TMI during his Rona quarantine and he said all he did is making music cause he got nothing to do

    • @silvadragon4264
      @silvadragon4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      he prolly definetly does

    • @-thasisters-6194
      @-thasisters-6194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Naurrr cuz I always think of this and I’m happy I’m not the only one. Not just with chan but with other idols or celebrities who do lives often. They just seem to say something that’s not even seen in the comment section💀

  • @chimchimchococones
    @chimchimchococones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    chan reminds me of that meme where the kid goes *"DID YOU EVER HAD A DREAM?? WHEN YOU- AHSDBEIVNFKSJNVUSERNFLSUSVBKSERU YOU CAN BE ANYTHING??"*

    • @jadeyes12
      @jadeyes12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      couldnt have put it better myself

  • @dina-sk7vm
    @dina-sk7vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    his future partner will be so lucky to have him

    • @santoshmishra9641
      @santoshmishra9641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@dia_love_quotes oh yeah of course

    • @sneha5971
      @sneha5971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@santoshmishra9641 * inserts felix's voice * oh yeah sure 🤣

    • @natureschild5630
      @natureschild5630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thats me im bang chans future partner

    • @hh-qy8zt
      @hh-qy8zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and he will be so lucky to have them!!! love is a 2 way street and everyone is just human :)

    • @donttakefelixscheesestick6367
      @donttakefelixscheesestick6367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dia_love_quotes um excuse me it’s actually me

  • @cinnaminnieroll
    @cinnaminnieroll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “ if u get rejected then it’s their loss “
    Chan: yeahh…! 😃
    PLS IM LAUGHING

  • @julesishere7836
    @julesishere7836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +681

    Stay: Chan, how do I talk to my crush?
    Chan: be ready for ✨REJECTION✨
    lmaooooooo
    I totally what he's saying tho but it was just too funny for me hahaha

  • @rosierrd21
    @rosierrd21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +675

    Lmao the fact that I’m actually having a crush and idk how to talk to him - the timing lol I just wish I could talk abt everything to him he’s just the best dude ever

    • @Hhhh-q6j
      @Hhhh-q6j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      All the best bestie 🙃🙃 just do it .... I mean i only hv celeb crushes and i don't hv a real crush yet but i just talk to any boy with confidence nd trust me they will like u nd don't be nervous oky .... 😁 My tips for u .....

    • @rosierrd21
      @rosierrd21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Hhhh-q6j oml thx Gurl

    • @ruiyang1179
      @ruiyang1179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah me too, but i try not to because he isn't our therapist :(

    • @lilyblue9025
      @lilyblue9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can still talk to your crush and get closer to him/her as a friend its not like you have to date him/her to get close............
      but if you really wanna date that person as a person myself who got rejected about two days ago by my crush lol.... just get ready for rejection physically and mentally.......
      Better to be prepared like just imagine you'll be prepared for rejection but that guy/girl likes you back, you'll feel so happy, but incase you get rejected, I mean you were prepared for it........
      so its a win-win situation
      ALL THE BEST HOPE Y'ALL END UP DATING❤

    • @et3294
      @et3294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why don't you start sending little notes and by little I mean little like "hi how are you" and then on other day you can send another one complimenting something about the outfit. Or you can just go say hi while passing by and same with the compliment just passing by like "hi I like your (example) shirt" I feel that way you make yourself notice and it gives you the courage to talk a little bit more later or the person will start actually talking to you. The notes are in case you are to shy. I like giving notes because it makes you stand out in my personal opinion.

  • @jeff4762
    @jeff4762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    WOW THIS WAS FAST- THE LIVE HASN'T EVEN ENDED YET FJRJBFJF

  • @ri8144
    @ri8144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    He sounds like he’s speaking from experience

  • @PonderMoofin
    @PonderMoofin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    The zooms always send me but yeah his advice is true. Love how this is up yet he’s live atm lmao

  • @rachela3869
    @rachela3869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Watching a man for 1:45 explain in the nicest, kindest way to be prepared for rejection and don't go in with super high expectations so your heart doesn't get broken. Chan never wanting to hurt anyone's feelings is too sweet!

  • @miriamburgstaller8944
    @miriamburgstaller8944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    There's a Korean saying that goes like: "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst."
    I think he did a pretty good job elaborating just that

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a worldwide saying

    • @LOL_bye
      @LOL_bye 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ykook7000 they made me wonder whether it originated in korea. Did it? 😂

  • @lixxiin777
    @lixxiin777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    "Im really horrible at advices" hes so awkward and its so cute

  • @pennyl8006
    @pennyl8006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    i love this man so much; he cares for Stays so much to the point where he doesn't just tell us the good things or things we *want* to hear, but he's so careful with our hearts and making sure we know the reality of things so we don't set ourselves up for disappointment♡ honestly, even tho ppl might just want to hear encouragement and stuff, channie rly shows how much he care by being mature and realistic in the sweetest and most gentle way possible:'((( gosh i love him

  • @jana5686
    @jana5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This best advice my mom gave me was “never have great expectations” because if u do, there’s a higher chance of getting upset. Chan’s right, you gotta mentally prepare yourself for rejection in life in general but stay strong at the same time!

  • @FiReArNoK
    @FiReArNoK ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I always went with the "silently pine and never tell a SOUL because then I can't get hurt" method....... 👀👀

  • @chouii4669
    @chouii4669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    the advice i never knew i needed

  • @kkhhhfyvchhh
    @kkhhhfyvchhh 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    i think its kinds cute how theres some people asking him for advice
    actually him being older than the majority of us (like me im 23) and him being such a mature and responsible person makes him perfect for advices

  • @sarahramsey289
    @sarahramsey289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    when i was 16 i confessed to my crush ( i'm turning 23 this september good god i'm old) and i got rejected and i didn't expect for it to hurt a lot so i avoided him and mostly skipped class and never talked to him again :') back then i was stupid but now i learned to accept rejection but i'll still not talk to that person again and just go separate ways

    • @asuispond
      @asuispond 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      23 is still young don't worry :)

    • @Theoneandonly._.
      @Theoneandonly._. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Old or young
      We always are learning so no need to stress about the age...
      Wish You the Best for the future

  • @iheartkimseungmin
    @iheartkimseungmin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Channie is still live and I’m still watching him lol

  • @That_One_Gremlin-eb1ds
    @That_One_Gremlin-eb1ds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I miss chan’s room so much. 😭 he was a literal therapist and oh my god HE IS A SWEETHEART

  • @Jeongyeonnnnnnie
    @Jeongyeonnnnnnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "If you get rejected it's their loss not yours"
    Chan the knight in shining armour for stays, amplifying us all with just this one sentence ... Ngl his advices and talks are really helping me a lot

  • @StayABellliever
    @StayABellliever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Whoever edited this, thank you! The part at “rejection” and when he did the convo with himself were awesome 😂

  • @Miss_Jinx
    @Miss_Jinx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Expect rejection 💀😂 I mean honestly that’s the best advice though.

  • @snehadas1259
    @snehadas1259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don't know why but when this man (Chan) talk ... My heart just melted 🤧

  • @emanuelabego2408
    @emanuelabego2408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “REJECTION” the zoom 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ncitykey
    @ncitykey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    greatest advice giver back at it again

  • @vycxs_007
    @vycxs_007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Well I have a crush but that person is giving advice through online for other people about how to approach their crushes....
    BANG CHRISTOPHER CHAN💓

  • @zoeyoong974
    @zoeyoong974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I LOVE THE EDITING OH MY GOD, it really shows his cute rambling so well T-T

  • @xDalue
    @xDalue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    CAN WE ALL JUST HOLD ON A MOMENT and appreciate your absolute IMMACULATE editing skills?! I laughed my fricking ass off because the edits made everything ten times better. Thank you so much for your effort! ❤️

    • @hongjoongspinky
      @hongjoongspinky  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much i really appreciate it 😭💕

  • @lupicalmoon
    @lupicalmoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    The universe just loves sending advice from Chan when I'm in this exact situation.
    It's now or never I guess uwU
    Edit: Uhhh I didn't expect people to be invested in this but here's some background info for those interested. Basically we met online through a game. We've been talking for nearly 2 months and about halfway through I realised 'Shit I like like him'. Then a few days after making this realisation we had a conversation about this guy he's liked for awhile (ah I know qwq) and that he's been chasing after awhile even though this guy hasn't really paid him any mind. Now I'm stuck in the common dilemma of wanting to confess but not wanting to lose him over it, especially since we've just recently met. From the beginning we've always been pretty flirty and sharing art, he's a freelance artist and I do writing on the side as a personal passion. He exchanges photos of his pets and I do the same with the neighbourhood cats I'm friendly with.
    For those of you interested in MBTI I would love some feedback. I'm an INFJ and he's an INTJ, so if any of you could tell me what the signs are when you're crushing I would greatly appreciate it. (TωT )
    When we initially met online he initiated talking outside of the game. He calls me cutie a lot and always comments on the stuff I say as cute. I had an honest conversation about something personal and he called me sweetie. That is the first and only time he has ever called me that and I found it an anomaly. It did seem like he was keeping himself distant from me after he shared a very personal artwork he drew in the beginning of our friendship. Because of past experiences I'm kind of hesitant to believe he would like me that early on after meeting me. However after that conversation we had about the guy he liked, my brain basically dismissed any possibility that he might like me back qwq.
    I haven't asked him about the guy since I can't really slip it into conversation and being direct about it seems too forward. We just click really well and our sense of humour bounces off each other. (UωU)

    • @reneeonrogue
      @reneeonrogue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Good luck fam!!

    • @dazzlekazzle
      @dazzlekazzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aaa good luck ✨

    • @annelien7139
      @annelien7139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good luck 🍀🍀🍀

    • @majola347
      @majola347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fighting 💪🏼💪🏼

    • @teamsuho
      @teamsuho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      did you do it??

  • @lyllaby
    @lyllaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i love how he was preparing everyone for heartbreak the entire time, then at the end be like but yk JUST BE YOU 😀

  • @hannahkalifa3454
    @hannahkalifa3454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    'you know just try not to think too much about it'
    bang chan * thinking too much about it

  • @JasminePark-j1l
    @JasminePark-j1l 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    bro made me sure i should never think of confession

  • @moonie3945
    @moonie3945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He was still live wtf! I respect you so much for that fast editing

  • @lovley1389
    @lovley1389 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    0:28 he was right but i dint expect him like my best friend 💀

  • @starrynightsomewhere
    @starrynightsomewhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chan is so sweet and his lives are so comforting. Thank you channie 🙂💕I took his advice and asked my crush out, but I went into it prepared for rejection. Sadly I got rejected 😔but it’s ok, they just weren’t right for me and I still have bangchan, who will never leave me ☺️

  • @hyunjinnnn-9
    @hyunjinnnn-9 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    at 1:16 he went through so many emotions lol

  • @__ducky
    @__ducky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i love your editing, dude 😭💛

  • @lawtimeslegalconsultancy5778
    @lawtimeslegalconsultancy5778 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dude now the girl is never going to tell him. Thanks for the advice

  • @marrr1018
    @marrr1018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    like honestly expecting the worst rejection is the way to go about it, It won't hurt as much if you're already expecting the worst.. idk if it's healthy or not but it is what it is

  • @tutu.attalla
    @tutu.attalla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He really said “uh your gonna get rejected so prepare for it”

  • @becarefuldontdie
    @becarefuldontdie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro spent one minute and forty-six seconds telling us to be prepared for rejection

  • @iishilpisinhaii
    @iishilpisinhaii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ALSO CHAN WHY YOU SO FVCKING CUTE.

  • @Altchicks_hairdye
    @Altchicks_hairdye ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man got rejected so often, he prepares others to save them from a heart attack

  • @intothekpopmultiverse
    @intothekpopmultiverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He just finished his live and his byeEe UGH SO CUTE

  • @tabitasutharsan_winklemon33
    @tabitasutharsan_winklemon33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I just adore how channie was meant to give advice on how to talk with your crush without getting awkward but he started talking about dealing with rejection and just ended it with "be you", a quite generic term but imo, it sounds more philosophical coming out of chan
    and at the end there where he agreed to the last comment after her couldn't really think of anything to say cus he got so awkward sounds exactly like a dad trying to give advice to his daughters about things he doesn't know how to explain and ends up piggy backing on the mother's advice😂

  • @Jw-lp2qw
    @Jw-lp2qw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like some people misunderstood.
    I think he meant that no matter how much your attracted to your crush you should always know that there’s a chance of rejection. That way you won’t be as hurtful , and i feel like that goes for most situations

  • @darkrapperbin
    @darkrapperbin ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i miss chan's room...i hope he will do it again in a future

  • @skznxr
    @skznxr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:34 BRO WHEN HE SAID THAT I STARTED GIGGLING AND SCREAMING

  • @stanhannahbahng4666
    @stanhannahbahng4666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I seen this live and was honestly dying at the question and the answer because it’s funny duh

  • @Maria-dm7qo
    @Maria-dm7qo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These some of advice that you just said was actually true and your advice really does help a lot you are a very good adviser because we are good listener which that makes you a good advisor that you would like to help out and that is one of the most kindest thing you ever do , Awesome job 👍☺

  • @Hdinsbhe
    @Hdinsbhe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    0:26 ReJEctIoN 👀😭😂

    • @Aiyana_kpop1
      @Aiyana_kpop1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He said that straight forward without hesitation lol

    • @Hdinsbhe
      @Hdinsbhe หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Aiyana_kpop1 frrr 😭

  • @Leavemeastray
    @Leavemeastray ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's so human❤

  • @Margotshusband
    @Margotshusband หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    BROO lmaoo Chan always looks like he did coke and is tired from being the boss of the group wake up Chan lol 😂❤

  • @ChangbinsThirdToenail
    @ChangbinsThirdToenail ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro really said “You’re gonna get rejected, deal with it👹”
    Jokes aside, it’s good advice

  • @steamy_da_god3362
    @steamy_da_god3362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's not the advice that person wanted, but it's one they needed. 😌

  • @11.06_aj
    @11.06_aj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you can tell he has experience… damn.

  • @Salua_deer1
    @Salua_deer1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t believe he talked about this😂
    I love how he cares about how we feel😭😭

  • @Skz_STAY_For_STAY
    @Skz_STAY_For_STAY ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just a more chan way of saying "be prepared for rejection"

  • @fatherlouiswilliamssugaada1095
    @fatherlouiswilliamssugaada1095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The reason why he is such a boyfriend material is his maturity...but I really like to be friends with him ...I think he'd be a really reliable person when you are facing a problem

  • @楽しみのための星
    @楽しみのための星 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE CHAN!!!
    (I'm never gonna confess)

  • @yourfavoritelovesong
    @yourfavoritelovesong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I second this advice with everything: do your best and be prepared for the worst...that way you'll be less likely to regret it

  • @ayyzarr
    @ayyzarr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    stay: how do i talk to my crush?
    chan: get ready for your rejection

  • @cadie_byeoli
    @cadie_byeoli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE 50 50 CHANCE HELP ITS 3 AM AND I'M ALREADY TIRED BUT THIS IS CROSSING MY LIMITS AGHXSHIFSJ

  • @manifestingsleep4138
    @manifestingsleep4138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dese edits man! They make my day!

  • @Bamgeutcutiepie
    @Bamgeutcutiepie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it's good advice though.... i mean.. there is SO much that goes into attraction.. if someone doesn't want YOU, it doesn't automatically mean there's something lacking with you, and it also doesn't mean that they are bad people for not liking you. There are so many reasons why the two of you are not a fit, and if the other person see that before you do, then you can know faster they were not meant for you. you want someone who is READY to go an that date with you. someone saying YES, that they want you - that should be the easy part... actually being together for a long time is the hard part. them accepting you to begin with, that should be easy. If they don't want you, who knows WHY it doesn't matter... don't break your OWN heart, by liking someone so much, before you've even gotten to know them

  • @JekkaG89
    @JekkaG89 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The ENFJ in him was ENFJing hard

  • @kiku_jime
    @kiku_jime ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks for being real with us channie

  • @gabrielaanonim9098
    @gabrielaanonim9098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am quite late but I have to say that. I love that man so much but he gave me those "dad talks vibe" so much there hahaha. You know that feeling? When you sit down with your dad and talk about girls/boys (choose what you want) and they became shy but try their best to help you. Like. He tried his best to protect us and gave us that knowladge that we should prepered ourselfs first. He doesn't want us to be hurt or smth. He was kinda shy and hectic while talking about that just like most dads are. He's just precious

  • @ramshafarooq
    @ramshafarooq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YOUR EDITING IS SO FUNNY HELPPP

  • @naughtypotato5243
    @naughtypotato5243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was there during the live lol and I felt he was talking to me! I'm going through the exact situation where I prolly expected more frm this guy and thought he liked me too but maybe he was just being friendly! Now it's hard for me to get over him..
    Chan ty for always being there for me
    Specially when u played Waiting for us
    Ilysm

  • @julesishere7836
    @julesishere7836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okey but why does he look so damn good with blue hair! Also I hope his hair is doing okey 💀

  • @Bunniesblink_xthetics
    @Bunniesblink_xthetics 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    0:54 At this point we should call him TeAcHeR ChAn🤓

  • @kye7552
    @kye7552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BYE THE 50 50 CHANCE TOOK ME OUT💀💀💀

  • @gracea3643
    @gracea3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think he just wanted us(stays)to not get hurt or heartbroken 😭… awww I love Chan❤️

  • @Jinni3_Dumpling
    @Jinni3_Dumpling 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Channie don't reject Stays cuz we got a big crush on you😭😭

  • @Tontoquienloleation
    @Tontoquienloleation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That's actually a pretty good advice. If you're not afraid of being rejected, it'll make you feel more confident and the probabilities for you to be rejected will be lower.

    • @8luvbug
      @8luvbug ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't agree with that especially if you're constantly getting rejected or don't have the confidence to ask someone out

  • @AmberFoxx-h3x
    @AmberFoxx-h3x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "im really bad at.. advices.." Chan

  • @thivya70
    @thivya70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ok no he's actually right. i expected too much and got my heart broken when i got rejected :/

  • @김부부-p9g
    @김부부-p9g ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm always like "oh okay" when I get rejected, but at home I'm like "wHYYYYYYYY"

  • @aaleesha3187
    @aaleesha3187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro as a person applying to college soon, this hit different

  • @bosslu2768
    @bosslu2768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pov: if be prepared for the worst was a twoish minute sentence

  • @TshepisoMokoena-qc8qq
    @TshepisoMokoena-qc8qq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that I am about to tell my crush tmr 😢😢😢this couldn't have come at a better time 😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @Lilith_Plays_Dti
    @Lilith_Plays_Dti หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He knows we wanna ask him out lol