Hey - this video was darlingly put for me at this time. Really interesting and you've been intelligently easy on yourself. This has been a lesson I've been learning through therapy and Tarot and that a new chapter is welcome - and needed. You've such a beautiful perspective. But whatever you choose to do now and onward, I want to wish you every happiness in it. Writing is good - I'm sure you know that. I may follow a similar route. Always be kind to yourself! 💚
In the end NEVER treat people like MEAT...But a lot of Guyz think if you do O.F., they OWN you...Ridiculous, these are real people you NEVER OWN a Guy...no matter if he / she... is a sexworker. Treat EACH man with the respect, you yourself would be like to be treated....
Hiiii Drew .. your fan girl Jess here from Shambala few years ago 😅 Thank you for this video. I’ve definitely thought about starting only fans many times, often when I’ve been feeling down and not sure what to do with my life which I’ve been feeling a lot recently. People in my life used to tell me that’s all I’d be good at and ‘you should just do it because you’d make loads of money.’ But I never started one because I just knew that something about the whole thing gave me the ick. Not towards other people doing it but just thinking about how that would make me feel and just knowing that, yeh I could make money but … it was not going to make me happy. I really resonated when you were talking about sharing your intimacy, that is really vulnerable and divine, and .. should that be shared with random weirdos searching around on the internet?! Dunno Well done for reclaiming your power and making that decision. And thank you for your insights and kind of solidifying my own perspective! Not sure I’ve watched a video like it before. All the best Xxxxxx
Omg hey Jess!!! How are you doing 🩷❤️🩷❤️ Wow thank you for commenting, so interesting hearing your thoughts. Well first of all that’s definitely not all you’re good for, you have lots of talents and skills which you can easily use to persue whatever you want in life so don’t listen to those people… but I totally get how you consider doing it because it’s always portrayed as “quick cash” Another thing I noticed from being a creator was people assuming that I had thousands of pounds from doing it, they would just be super intrusive and it always made me laugh bc we don’t go around and ask people with ‘normal jobs’ how much they make. Anyway I think the people saying “you should do it” maybe are just saying that cause it’s exciting to them and they would never do it, but the reality of doing it is. A lot of emotional and time consuming work which can also be amazing! Especially if you earn thousands a month but it is hard as well - the people that make a lot of money in my eyes are genuinely business bosses and 👏👏👏 bc it’s not easy!! But I think we are allowed to persue what we want, reinvent ourselves and allow ourselves to change, grow and go on a journey so listen to your gut and do what feels right 💚💚💚 sending hugs 😘
I know you’ve mentioned a couple of times that you have respect for people who still do it and you don’t judge them and stuff… But… like… there’s this one thing i always stumble upon on yt these days: people (especially within the 🌈 community) express opinions like “we’re tired of objectification and &exualization…”, “we’re more than our bodies”… 😶🌫️ You know… it’s as though the &exual revolution is going backwards these days. In my opinion (which I don’t want all people to accept), there’s nothing bad about &exualization and it doesn’t stop us from being an author, say. I currently identify as a hook 🪝 up ⬆️ enthusiast (i kinda coined this term lol) - I’m writing a book about my discoveries of various bodies. And I’m also thinking of starting the of career
Hey! I totally support your career and being a hook up enthusiast ect…. I’m actually a date and seggs writer so I totally get it. I guess what this video is getting at is my personal experience of how my thoughts and opinions changed whilst doing it. It went from being so fun and empowering at the beginning to being an absolute chore. So by all means go for it but you’re gonna go on a wild emotional ride 🤪 which isn’t necessarily a bad or negative thing!
Hey - this video was darlingly put for me at this time. Really interesting and you've been intelligently easy on yourself. This has been a lesson I've been learning through therapy and Tarot and that a new chapter is welcome - and needed. You've such a beautiful perspective.
But whatever you choose to do now and onward, I want to wish you every happiness in it. Writing is good - I'm sure you know that. I may follow a similar route.
Always be kind to yourself! 💚
In the end NEVER treat people like MEAT...But a lot of Guyz think if you do O.F., they OWN you...Ridiculous, these are real people you NEVER OWN a Guy...no matter if he / she... is a sexworker. Treat EACH man with the respect, you yourself would be like to be treated....
Really interesting video :) best of luck with everything ❤
Thank you babe ❤
Hiiii Drew .. your fan girl Jess here from Shambala few years ago 😅
Thank you for this video. I’ve definitely thought about starting only fans many times, often when I’ve been feeling down and not sure what to do with my life which I’ve been feeling a lot recently. People in my life used to tell me that’s all I’d be good at and ‘you should just do it because you’d make loads of money.’ But I never started one because I just knew that something about the whole thing gave me the ick. Not towards other people doing it but just thinking about how that would make me feel and just knowing that, yeh I could make money but … it was not going to make me happy.
I really resonated when you were talking about sharing your intimacy, that is really vulnerable and divine, and .. should that be shared with random weirdos searching around on the internet?! Dunno
Well done for reclaiming your power and making that decision. And thank you for your insights and kind of solidifying my own perspective! Not sure I’ve watched a video like it before.
All the best
Xxxxxx
Omg hey Jess!!! How are you doing 🩷❤️🩷❤️
Wow thank you for commenting, so interesting hearing your thoughts. Well first of all that’s definitely not all you’re good for, you have lots of talents and skills which you can easily use to persue whatever you want in life so don’t listen to those people… but I totally get how you consider doing it because it’s always portrayed as “quick cash”
Another thing I noticed from being a creator was people assuming that I had thousands of pounds from doing it, they would just be super intrusive and it always made me laugh bc we don’t go around and ask people with ‘normal jobs’ how much they make.
Anyway I think the people saying “you should do it” maybe are just saying that cause it’s exciting to them and they would never do it, but the reality of doing it is. A lot of emotional and time consuming work which can also be amazing! Especially if you earn thousands a month but it is hard as well - the people that make a lot of money in my eyes are genuinely business bosses and 👏👏👏 bc it’s not easy!!
But I think we are allowed to persue what we want, reinvent ourselves and allow ourselves to change, grow and go on a journey so listen to your gut and do what feels right 💚💚💚 sending hugs 😘
@@drewwyllie ❤ love this!! Thank you for taking some time to reply. Wish you the best in pursuing your dreams xxx
It seems like you're just lurching from one extreme to the next.
I think it’s total normal to start a new chapter and want to change your mind
except.. you’re still on onlyfans?😩
Ok Nancy Drew…. Who hired you 😭
I’m not posting now and my account is closed FYI 📝
@@drewwyllie you were “last seen 1h ago” on onlyfans when i posted the comment 🤫
I know you’ve mentioned a couple of times that you have respect for people who still do it and you don’t judge them and stuff… But… like… there’s this one thing i always stumble upon on yt these days: people (especially within the 🌈 community) express opinions like “we’re tired of objectification and &exualization…”, “we’re more than our bodies”… 😶🌫️ You know… it’s as though the &exual revolution is going backwards these days.
In my opinion (which I don’t want all people to accept), there’s nothing bad about &exualization and it doesn’t stop us from being an author, say. I currently identify as a hook 🪝 up ⬆️ enthusiast (i kinda coined this term lol) - I’m writing a book about my discoveries of various bodies. And I’m also thinking of starting the of career
Hey! I totally support your career and being a hook up enthusiast ect…. I’m actually a date and seggs writer so I totally get it. I guess what this video is getting at is my personal experience of how my thoughts and opinions changed whilst doing it. It went from being so fun and empowering at the beginning to being an absolute chore. So by all means go for it but you’re gonna go on a wild emotional ride 🤪 which isn’t necessarily a bad or negative thing!
@@drewwyllie thanks, Gorgeous =^-^=