I agree but it’s so hard when the kids love them? What are you to do. I just keep a safe distance. But I am concerned for the future and the things they may try and mold my kids into
@fabienne thats a BIG lie-- and I hope you not dumb enough to believe and teach a kid that just bc someone doesnt want to be bothered with you-- that its a reflection on how they feel about their g-baby.. I have 2 and I can not stand their trifling @$$ no good mammy but I love the absolute hell out of my grand kids, I'm always here for my grands and we have a beautiful relationship they know they're grannys baby dolls. lol your shit is all disfunctional you must be the problem bc aint nobody in their right mind dealing with these girls drama and dumb shit just to see no grand-- nope not going for the pawn games-- and I have made that very clear.. my kids are GROWN and it is an honor to be a grandma BUT come correct or move the hell on.. period
@@beatingallodds3357 my family on my dad's side didn't like my mum, my sisters and I either. I have really experienced it, they've been rude to us and rejected us, preferring my dad's mistress because she could afford to buy them. I have no kids, so please keep your unpleasant comment to yourself.
The son is discussing his dissatisfaction of the relationship with his mother, therefore she feels she has the right to interfere, because we all know mama’s are super heroes when it comes to those sons.
Thats not a superhero, that is horrible parenting. I don't care if the son comes with frustrations, he is an adult and as an adult if he was raised right he will be able to handle his own situation as an adult.
What women have to learn to accept in these type of situations is that if your “significant other” is allowing ANYONE, to interfere with the relationship; you’ve not captured their heart plain and simple. When a human being feels safe, especially a man, he will turn his back on his very best friend on behalf of that woman.
if he married a decent woman and he is a decent man then he shouldn't have to turn his back on anyone bc decent people attract and only fellowship with other decent people. so you can capture my heart all you want to-- BUT what you WON'T do is disrespect my parents, siblings or extended fam in any way-- and they will not disrespect my husband-- lets make that Clear.
I also don't think it's entirely the other persons fault (Ex: saying she doesn't have his heart) A lot of times, this is a character thing. Some men will act the same with every women.
Wow, this is crazy. I have 3 adult sons and I don't get into their relationships. I will give advice if I have to. But sons has to know how to lead. Thanks for sharing. Stay Bless and Safe.
Run lady run and protect your baby like a mama bear! I lived your exact story (minus the child) for 30 years...mama's boys are only good for one thing...their mamas! Let her have him and please protect your baby!
The mother raised him for herself..she raised a mommas boy. Some parents don't know when to let go. 42 years mama wanna do laundry. I'd leave him for his mother.
@@Cd2x123 it's true. Some just think that nonother woman can do a better job in their son or daughter lives than them. It's sad how some mothers cling to a their sons. Like mom, chill you made him for another. Others are so sad to see their son give love to another. They was it all. So much jealousy. Guess they want to have the son and eat him also. Had ot been me in the situation, I would tell her take all of him and have him..or put him back where he came from. Nonsense.
@@Cd2x123 she has a part to play in him becoming violent. That's what happens when they hold so tightly. She should start buying teddy bears to keep her company. Trust me I would leave him for her. I won't ask him to choose between us. He will get older but he won't grow into a man. I can't stand a mommas boy, and a clingy mom.
@@DD-mg2se She, being the Baby's mama would LOSE BIG TIME if she had made him choose. She didn't marry the MAMA'S BOY, which was good, but she knew long before the engagement he was a MAMA'S BOY. It didn't JUST HAPPEN after she had her daughter.🙁😧🙂
This is a VERY DANGEROUS situation for her. If she lives with that man too much longer and allows her daughter to consistently see that grandmother, eventually that grandmother will turn her granddaughter against her mother
@@Glamrocs I witnessed this myself. My toxic mother turned her grandson (my nephew) against his mom with manipulation and by belittling his mother to him.
@@Glamrocs if I have kids, my mother will never get to know them. Some people let disrespectful grandparents around their kids out of a sense of loyalty and because they’re family. I hope a lot of women see this video, stand up for themselves and say “no more”
I'm sittn here eatn fried chicken, coleslaw, & pineapple soda and Tony got me sittn here chokn and laughn at this this upside down book that he keep lookn around. Tony crazy. Lol!! 😁😆🤣
This thing just blessed me and I haven’t even given birth to my daughter yet. This is exactly the way I think. I tolerate no disrespect and I will do whatever I have to do to protect mine. Thank you Mr. Gaskins!
There's a difference between a man who loves his momma and will always do what he can for her AND a MANchild who is a momma's boy. It's too late for this young woman, but ⚠️beware⚠️ of this type of man at all costs. Just Say No❗
Yeah, I HAD a mother in law who told me her son could have three wives, but only has one mother. Then when he mentioned he bought me a computer for a gift, she wanted him to buy her one, which he did. I knew what time it was after that and distanced myself from her. People are out of their minds. There’s absolutely no comparison and it really enlightened me on where he got his issues from. Just wished I knew it BEFORE taking vows. God restored me years ago from that though and I moved on. I Just learned a hard lesson because I never dated a man with a mother like that and knew after that experience how to test the spirit much more thoroughly.
My mother in law is the same way. She thinks everything that her son does for me, he has to do for her. It’s jealousy. I’ve never met a more envious person. She even told me “I envy you because you get all the things I use to get when I was younger.” Most jealous person I ever met. She can’t feel happy for others but wishes it was her.
This is going on now with my own mom She tries to be the queen of my castle She does a lot of push pull and I feel uneasy when she comes to my house She cooks and loves to provide food but sometimes I wonder if she’s trying to impress my husband My mother is a master manipulator Today I learned I don’t trust my mother or husband now
You need to have a talk with her and pray about it first. Talk to them both there and a trusted person. Set boundaries they were never set and now it’s her house and spouse.
If he wanna be with his mama he should have just said that. I wish I would. Yea Let them be sis. Keep an eye on your child too , YOU her mama. Yal ain’t together so this the time to put her in her place.
Sis, as TOXIC as your baby's grandmother is, there is no WAY IN HELL I would leave my daughter ALONE with GRANDMA and her DAD. Look how your daughter's dad turned out! NEED I SAY MORE?
Seriously! I would not let my baby be around her. Exactly Tony people place to many emphasis on kids interacting with Toxic family members. Like you said kids don't care, they are resilient.
I grew up with my grandparents ( my biological mother parents) . I left my daughter with my biological mother , and she was like the type of woman Tony describe... when I find out she punished my daughter in a way that still hurts to think about it..I decided to stay home and take care my kid until she went to school. My mother is a very negative woman that after I witnessed her talking bad about my kids I decided to stay away from her. I always put my head down to her comments but the day I heard her expressing the way she did about my daughter and son, I had enough...i looked at her straight to her eyes and I said to her my kids has a mother and if she wasn’t coming to my house with positive attitude, to never comeback. I know, many, believes I’m a bad daughter...but, it’s hard to have a mother who always says the worst can happen to a woman is to have kids....
If your partner cannot make their family treat you better and doesn't even try to correct the situation or tells you they don't see anything wrong with it, it simply means they don't love you, they don't care enough to choose your peace, respect and happiness over their family's. So keep your eyes open for signs from the beginning and don't let a situation perpetuate that you see is affecting you. Put pause on the relationship, explain what is bothering you and they will have to make a choice. Don't let the years go by while suffering in silence and being emotionally scarred by people who have the audacity to live with the wrong idea that it's their place to control, rob you of your joy and peace and have a saying in your own life.
I need this. My mother in law took temporary custody of our son in the past and let him see him even though there was a domestic violence order on him because he choked me. Now i know no matter what she will always step up against me even though she has 10 children in total and some she was still raising!!
This message is strong and I assume some people may not want to hear it, because it is a hard pill to swallow. Denial is really something potent and examples throughout history has shown this, also the saying, never say never. Any human has the potential to DO and THINK anything! I'm personally going through a battle myself, and I make it known that I am the primary protector for my child. Even against immediate family members! There is too many examples and information out there, from animated films to books, to TH-cam video's like Tony Gaskins, to be ignorant. Look further than what the eye see's people!
Yes Tony everything you said is spot on! I’ve experienced this first hand. My future mother law has went as far as manipulating my stepson against me, and his father. She speaks negatively about my fiancé and me to my stepson, and whoever will listen. She has brainwashed my fiancé own brothers against him. She even lived with us at one point, and would get upset if my fiancé bought me flowers or did something nice for me. It was so weird and toxic.
Once again a great confirmation! I completely agree with keeping your children around from whom ever is not going to be a positive influence family or friends. I’m sorry we will Love and Pray for you from a far. 🙏🏼
Exactly. Granny feels empowered since the lady just avoids her and doesn’t confront her. Very rarely do I have to check someone twice 💁🏾♀️ And if her fiancé doesn’t stand by her, then he needs to go
Sis, if you were with this now 42 year-old man for 6 years before having a child with him, his being a MAMA'S BOY was evident LONG BEFORE you decided to have a child with him. YOU MISTAKENLY thought that you having a baby with him would make him STOP being a MAMA'S BOY. You were SO WRONG. It only intensified and gave her more things to CRITICIZE YOU ABOUT.
Mr. Gaskins, i really can't get over how funny yet honest your are. I so agree with all that your saying in reference to trusting people as well as yourself with your children. And especially when your a first time parent. You said you don't trust yourself with your own child. Who admits to that? You are a real one!
Just saw a situation like this on Iyanla Fix My Life. The man's mother saw her son as her emotional husband and treated his wife with disdain for 19 years. I'm about to be sick. 🤮
I almost could not watch this video until the end because of the rage that welled up inside me. My husband allowed his mother to come and visit us for two weeks as our house guest. In that two weeks time, she completely took over my house and made snide remarks to me every single day that she was there. Criticized my house keeping skills and make mean comments about my family members. My husband and I are both 57 years old. She ordered us around and HE allowed this to happen. Cowering down in fear to his overbearing and controlling mother. Never standing up to her or defending me (his wife). This happened and year ago. I have never forgiven him and I now consider him to be the weakest man I have ever known. I am planning on leaving him and in the process of making arrangements.
I'm greatful I learned not to interfere with my two daughters marriages . One bought a house 5 minutes away from where I live. The other has a house about half hour away from me. Although they live very close I NEVER pop over unannounced. I mind my business. When I was married my father-in-law had a terrible drinking problem so did my ex !! He lived walking distance from us and he'd come over literally every day, sometimes twice a day. He was a prick to say the least.!! I believe there was some freaky stuff that went on in my ex husband's family because of behaviors I saw !! My ex didn't have any courage to speak up on my behalf at all !!
I am glad someone asked a question or dealing with this situation. I am already going to be watching over my children 24/7 just like Tony is showing us. I am giving too, but I don't play no games
Wow Tony; You like to give! Just be careful that ppl don’t take advantage Sometimes ppl take advantage of givers But I will say the more you give the more God will bless Godbless you Gaskins family Godbless you
Similar situation happened to me. His mom is his wife. You are a rival and they will always treat u as a mistress in ur own family ( sick I Kno). Move out. Put him on child support. Strap on ur seat belt because she will try to take ur child (to keep son-husband mother-wife dynamic) and GONE BOUT YA BUSINESS
Yes!!! The mother in law will try to take your children just to keep her son happy. She does not even like your children but she will try to take them.
Great advice on this video here. Life application skills. There is power in the tongue and words. As Christians we should not live afraid lives but empowered lives. You doing Gods work Tony Gaskins. God bless you.
Right. A guy I was in the Army with left his child to be cared for by a so-called friend during deployment. The “friends” ended up killing the child. The baby was only four. We have to be very careful of who we leave our kids with. People are crazy. That situation was tragic.
This is my reality a monster-in-law. Master manipulator. My husband (narcissist) and I are going through a divorce, she even encourages my husband to cheat. Yup! I won’t let anywhere near our 4 year old daughter. She really has no care for our daughter she just wanted the title Grandmother. She knows not to play with me, I put her in her place. I beg her to say something to me 🤣 She can only give her devious commentary from afar. She’s 69 years old and as evil as can be.
lol.. well if she's a true narcissist she doesn't give a damn what you do with the kid.. so I hope she's not because the only one missing out will be the kid
Ladies when you see the toxic dynamic between a mother and her son or sons run for your life, do not pass go, do not collect 200£ run....it never ends well. Some of this men have oedipus complex that their mothers fostered and enjoys the dividends of that sick complex. This started before a child came in the picture, it should've been nipped in the bud, nows she's tied to the family for life cos of the baby. I believe she knows what to do, the only reason she's entertaining this mother in her home to see her grandchild is bcos she knows how much influence she wields over her son and she's still hoping for some sort of reconciliation with him. The woman knows it too, hence her milking it bcos ain't no way... Like Tony said, I don't start nothing, but if you start something with me or anyone I hold dear I'm going to finish it one time, forever and for always, so they know never to try me again, protect ur energy, home and kids ladies, dont wait till sthng horrible happens.
Tony is hilarious. I cracked up looking at him peeping around that upside down book. But he's telling the gospel truth. Evil and manipulative people like this grandmother who doesn't like you will hurt your child especially when she realizes she is losing control. Be watchful and beware. Even better...be gone. 💯
Tony, u plays no games. He goin say, I'm fitna give this business 1 star and contact the better business bureau. U are just like me. I do the same thing. We dont let nobody get away with nothn. We be on they butts.
Omg, why is this my first sons dad and grandma. It was so weird after cutting her off years at a time I finally became feed up when c19 hit and got gone and man it’s been peaceful. I cut my sons only auntie off his granny and father...listen here play boy pay that back child support court ordered up then we can’t sit at the same table. I have protect my household other children and my peace. Be blessed!
Actually Freud created those Complex theories to cover up the reality of abuse happening within society. He did research with women who clearly displayed a connection between trauma/"hysteria" and abuse they claimed to experience from men(many of higher ranks of society). He never ended up publishing all of his research on these studies and instead created those two theories which essentially avoid the reality of abuse and blame the child for having sexual feelings for his or her parent. It's actually quite scandalous and political....yet Psych 101 teaches these theories to students in universities. The doctors of the Victorian era also made up a lie that women are prone to "hysteria" due to (some made up "science" of) having a uterus, and their treatment was to not work and just be bed ridden. This was based on MIDWIVES BEING A THREAT TO MALE DOCTORS OCCUPATION. Also recall that doctors in the 50's would advertise CIGARETTES as being healthy. Much of what we call science is simply corruption, the love of money, abuse of power, attempts of controlling certain populations. Just think of all the things Dr. Mengele did under Hitler's reign in the name of "science".
Biden should put Tony on the payroll as the nation’s life coach.
TUH 🙌🏽 I agree
Yes Lord! The sooner the better!!
Yessss ohhhhh! 🙏🏽 This man is saving lifes.
I’m British so I’ll start petitioning our prime minister 😉
No cap, this man sone. Hanged my life in every area ! This new knowledge hit different!
She's not an in-law, she's an out-law. Runnnn!!!! It does not get better.
I agree but it’s so hard when the kids love them? What are you to do. I just keep a safe distance. But I am concerned for the future and the things they may try and mold my kids into
Does anyone else hit like before they even watch the video? I just be happy to get another video. I am never disappointed.
I DO
Every time.
That part😂
I DO!!
I do!
When your in-laws don't like you, they don't like your kids either! Sad but true.
@fabienne thats a BIG lie-- and I hope you not dumb enough to believe and teach a kid that just bc someone doesnt want to be bothered with you-- that its a reflection on how they feel about their g-baby.. I have 2 and I can not stand their trifling @$$ no good mammy but I love the absolute hell out of my grand kids, I'm always here for my grands and we have a beautiful relationship they know they're grannys baby dolls. lol your shit is all disfunctional you must be the problem bc aint nobody in their right mind dealing with these girls drama and dumb shit just to see no grand-- nope not going for the pawn games-- and I have made that very clear.. my kids are GROWN and it is an honor to be a grandma BUT come correct or move the hell on.. period
@@kaleema1987 thats bc sick and weird asf to even say that
@@beatingallodds3357 my family on my dad's side didn't like my mum, my sisters and I either. I have really experienced it, they've been rude to us and rejected us, preferring my dad's mistress because she could afford to buy them. I have no kids, so please keep your unpleasant comment to yourself.
The son is discussing his dissatisfaction of the relationship with his mother, therefore she feels she has the right to interfere, because we all know mama’s are super heroes when it comes to those sons.
Thats not a superhero, that is horrible parenting. I don't care if the son comes with frustrations, he is an adult and as an adult if he was raised right he will be able to handle his own situation as an adult.
Yes, They weren’t raised right, which is why they are mommas boys 😂
What women have to learn to accept in these type of situations is that if your “significant other” is allowing ANYONE, to interfere with the relationship; you’ve not captured their heart plain and simple. When a human being feels safe, especially a man, he will turn his back on his very best friend on behalf of that woman.
These are facts
Amen love this
THIS IS the TRUTH
if he married a decent woman and he is a decent man then he shouldn't have to turn his back on anyone bc decent people attract and only fellowship with other decent people. so you can capture my heart all you want to-- BUT what you WON'T do is disrespect my parents, siblings or extended fam in any way-- and they will not disrespect my husband-- lets make that Clear.
I also don't think it's entirely the other persons fault (Ex: saying she doesn't have his heart) A lot of times, this is a character thing. Some men will act the same with every women.
Wow, this is crazy. I have 3 adult sons and I don't get into their relationships. I will give advice if I have to. But sons has to know how to lead. Thanks for sharing. Stay Bless and Safe.
" when male are raised by single mother often their partners are like the mistress, while mothers are like the wife "
Run lady run and protect your baby like a mama bear! I lived your exact story (minus the child) for 30 years...mama's boys are only good for one thing...their mamas! Let her have him and please protect your baby!
The mother raised him for herself..she raised a mommas boy. Some parents don't know when to let go. 42 years mama wanna do laundry. I'd leave him for his mother.
@@Cd2x123 it's true. Some just think that nonother woman can do a better job in their son or daughter lives than them. It's sad how some mothers cling to a their sons. Like mom, chill you made him for another. Others are so sad to see their son give love to another. They was it all. So much jealousy. Guess they want to have the son and eat him also. Had ot been me in the situation, I would tell her take all of him and have him..or put him back where he came from. Nonsense.
@@Cd2x123 she has a part to play in him becoming violent. That's what happens when they hold so tightly. She should start buying teddy bears to keep her company. Trust me I would leave him for her. I won't ask him to choose between us. He will get older but he won't grow into a man. I can't stand a mommas boy, and a clingy mom.
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@@DD-mg2se She, being the Baby's mama would LOSE BIG TIME if she had made him choose. She didn't marry the MAMA'S BOY, which was good, but she knew long before the engagement he was a MAMA'S BOY. It didn't JUST HAPPEN after she had her daughter.🙁😧🙂
Grandma should be ashamed of her toxic behavior😢
This is a VERY DANGEROUS situation for her. If she lives with that man too much longer and allows her daughter to consistently see that grandmother, eventually that grandmother will turn her granddaughter against her mother
Exactly
@@Glamrocs I witnessed this myself. My toxic mother turned her grandson (my nephew) against his mom with manipulation and by belittling his mother to him.
@@Azizajewelry This is so disrespectful
@@Glamrocs if I have kids, my mother will never get to know them. Some people let disrespectful grandparents around their kids out of a sense of loyalty and because they’re family. I hope a lot of women see this video, stand up for themselves and say “no more”
I lost it when Tony peeked around the book. 🤣🤣
& upside down🤔🤣😁
😂😂😂😂...I was dead right there
I'm sittn here eatn fried chicken, coleslaw, & pineapple soda and Tony got me sittn here chokn and laughn at this this upside down book that he keep lookn around. Tony crazy. Lol!! 😁😆🤣
This thing just blessed me and I haven’t even given birth to my daughter yet. This is exactly the way I think. I tolerate no disrespect and I will do whatever I have to do to protect mine. Thank you Mr. Gaskins!
When Mr. Tony pauses tho’ 🤣😬
Classic
Girl, I started pausing with him😆
Right 😃✅
Literally in tears. Somebody understands me 😢
So sick of my husband letting them walk all over me. I WILL NEVER TRUST HIM OR THEM.
I would never let my child alone with such a grandparent.
if someone dosent like me my kids not going..my child with me 90% of the time i dont want no abuse or touching..people are crazy these days
THEY are TOXIC PEOPLE
STAY AWAY from THEM
There's a difference between a man who loves his momma and will always do what he can for her AND a MANchild who is a momma's boy. It's too late for this young woman, but ⚠️beware⚠️ of this type of man at all costs. Just Say No❗
Tony, you are such a Character! You should get an Emmy, a Grammy, an Oscar and a Tony for your Acting Skills!!!
That's right we have to speak up for our children safety.
Yeah, I HAD a mother in law who told me her son could have three wives, but only has one mother. Then when he mentioned he bought me a computer for a gift, she wanted him to buy her one, which he did. I knew what time it was after that and distanced myself from her.
People are out of their minds. There’s absolutely no comparison and it really enlightened me on where he got his issues from. Just wished I knew it BEFORE taking vows. God restored me years ago from that though and I moved on.
I Just learned a hard lesson because I never dated a man with a mother like that and knew after that experience how to test the spirit much more thoroughly.
My mother in law is the same way. She thinks everything that her son does for me, he has to do for her. It’s jealousy. I’ve never met a more envious person. She even told me “I envy you because you get all the things I use to get when I was younger.” Most jealous person I ever met. She can’t feel happy for others but wishes it was her.
This is going on now with my own mom
She tries to be the queen of my castle
She does a lot of push pull and I feel uneasy when she comes to my house
She cooks and loves to provide food but sometimes I wonder if she’s trying to impress my husband
My mother is a master manipulator
Today I learned
I don’t trust my mother or husband now
See.....I can't....Im living my life how I see fit...
You need to have a talk with her and pray about it first. Talk to them both there and a trusted person. Set boundaries they were never set and now it’s her house and spouse.
"Let'em sleep with his momma then" they both old enough to know better ijs...🥴
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If a man can't stand up to his mom he's weak and can't lead in a marriage imo
As parents we have a DIVINE ORDER AND MANDATE TO PROTECT OUR CHILDREN.
“My son will never do time for my crime.” TG
If he wanna be with his mama he should have just said that. I wish I would. Yea Let them be sis. Keep an eye on your child too , YOU her mama. Yal ain’t together so this the time to put her in her place.
Sis, as TOXIC as your baby's grandmother is, there is no WAY IN HELL I would leave my daughter ALONE with GRANDMA and her DAD. Look how your daughter's dad turned out! NEED I SAY MORE?
I appreciate this logic!
Seriously! I would not let my baby be around her. Exactly Tony people place to many emphasis on kids interacting with Toxic family members. Like you said kids don't care, they are resilient.
Yes Tony! I don't play about my kids going around any negativity I don't care who you are, anybody can get cut off.
I grew up with my grandparents ( my biological mother parents) . I left my daughter with my biological mother , and she was like the type of woman Tony describe... when I find out she punished my daughter in a way that still hurts to think about it..I decided to stay home and take care my kid until she went to school. My mother is a very negative woman that after I witnessed her talking bad about my kids I decided to stay away from her. I always put my head down to her comments but the day I heard her expressing the way she did about my daughter and son, I had enough...i looked at her straight to her eyes and I said to her my kids has a mother and if she wasn’t coming to my house with positive attitude, to never comeback. I know, many, believes I’m a bad daughter...but, it’s hard to have a mother who always says the worst can happen to a woman is to have kids....
Damn....
If your partner cannot make their family treat you better and doesn't even try to correct the situation or tells you they don't see anything wrong with it, it simply means they don't love you, they don't care enough to choose your peace, respect and happiness over their family's. So keep your eyes open for signs from the beginning and don't let a situation perpetuate that you see is affecting you. Put pause on the relationship, explain what is bothering you and they will have to make a choice. Don't let the years go by while suffering in silence and being emotionally scarred by people who have the audacity to live with the wrong idea that it's their place to control, rob you of your joy and peace and have a saying in your own life.
I need this. My mother in law took temporary custody of our son in the past and let him see him even though there was a domestic violence order on him because he choked me. Now i know no matter what she will always step up against me even though she has 10 children in total and some she was still raising!!
This message is strong and I assume some people may not want to hear it, because it is a hard pill to swallow.
Denial is really something potent and examples throughout history has shown this, also the saying, never say never. Any human has the potential to DO and THINK anything!
I'm personally going through a battle myself, and I make it known that I am the primary protector for my child. Even against immediate family members! There is too many examples and information out there, from animated films to books, to TH-cam video's like Tony Gaskins, to be ignorant.
Look further than what the eye see's people!
I am never disappointed with Mr. Gaskins, also I always hit like button before watching too 🤍 Have a great rest of the day or night 🕊️ God Bless
Everytime he picks up that book 🤣...but seriously, everything Tony said is on point.
Yes Tony everything you said is spot on! I’ve experienced this first hand. My future mother law has went as far as manipulating my stepson against me, and his father. She speaks negatively about my fiancé and me to my stepson, and whoever will listen. She has brainwashed my fiancé own brothers against him. She even lived with us at one point, and would get upset if my fiancé bought me flowers or did something nice for me. It was so weird and toxic.
Once again a great confirmation! I completely agree with keeping your children around from whom ever is not going to be a positive influence family or friends. I’m sorry we will Love and Pray for you from a far. 🙏🏼
HOLLERIN!!!!! Mr. Tony Gaskins, Jr., the INCOMPARABLE, Sit-Down Comedian/Life Coach!!!
I am definitely learning the benefits of speaking my mind. When something is wrong, I call it out.
These older women need to find a boyfriend/husband 😩🤦🏾♀️
That's exactly what my mother said! She needs to find a man.
Or a hobby
She the type of person that just gotta be checked one good time...but since she scared she just keep getting ran over by both of them
Exactly. Granny feels empowered since the lady just avoids her and doesn’t confront her. Very rarely do I have to check someone twice 💁🏾♀️ And if her fiancé doesn’t stand by her, then he needs to go
Sis, if you were with this now 42 year-old man for 6 years before having a child with him, his being a MAMA'S BOY was evident LONG BEFORE you decided to have a child with him.
YOU MISTAKENLY thought that you having a baby with him would make him STOP being a MAMA'S BOY. You were SO WRONG. It only intensified and gave her more things to CRITICIZE YOU ABOUT.
Absolutely agree. Straight facts👏🏾👏🏾
Mr. Gaskins, i really can't get over how funny yet honest your are. I so agree with all that your saying in reference to trusting people as well as yourself with your children. And especially when your a first time parent. You said you don't trust yourself with your own child. Who admits to that? You are a real one!
Just saw a situation like this on Iyanla Fix My Life.
The man's mother saw her son as her emotional husband and treated his wife with disdain for 19 years. I'm about to be sick.
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It’s the peeking from behind the upside down book for me 😂😂😂
I almost could not watch this video until the end because of the rage that welled up inside me. My husband allowed his mother to come and visit us for two weeks as our house guest. In that two weeks time, she completely took over my house and made snide remarks to me every single day that she was there. Criticized my house keeping skills and make mean comments about my family members. My husband and I are both 57 years old. She ordered us around and HE allowed this to happen. Cowering down in fear to his overbearing and controlling mother. Never standing up to her or defending me (his wife). This happened and year ago. I have never forgiven him and I now consider him to be the weakest man I have ever known. I am planning on leaving him and in the process of making arrangements.
Happened with my soon to be ex and his mother. She acted like his first wife and I was the handmaid.
Yes!! Tony dropping in back to back 🙏🏾
That whole situation sounds like my dysfunctional evil in laws. This is sooo true ladies BEWARE!!!
“My life is blesses but I don’t put up with no mess”.. yes Sir! Borrowing/Stealing that line but I will give you your credit when using 💯🙌🏾👌🏾
"Four-T-Two? Four-T-Two? He need to be in the back-hand line!" 😂😂 I absolutely HOLLER when Tony enunciates his T's! 🗣😁
Wow tuned in thinking it wouldn't have any connection to me - absolutely learned something. I loved when Tony had to reboot though! LoL
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the security guard part. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 God bless this man and his family. You just made my whole weekend with this scene! 🙏🏽
Mr, Gaskins is speaking the truth!! Be blessed Sir!
Watching you on my way to work and finishing it up on my break. Hilarious way to start my day at the hospital 🙏🏾🤣
Oh and of course informative.
I rushed to get to 1st period at 17yrs old and got it a wreck 😔 I wish we had Coach Tony back them
Wow!
Please people.....use the bathroom before you watch this one!!!! 😂😂
You are so correct Tony!!!!
I'm greatful I learned not to interfere with my two daughters marriages . One bought a house 5 minutes away from where I live. The other has a house about half hour away from me. Although they live very close I NEVER pop over unannounced. I mind my business. When I was married my father-in-law had a terrible drinking problem so did my ex !! He lived walking distance from us and he'd come over literally every day, sometimes twice a day. He was a prick to say the least.!! I believe there was some freaky stuff that went on in my ex husband's family because of behaviors I saw !! My ex didn't have any courage to speak up on my behalf at all !!
Yes Toni Shut It Down
🤣😂🤣 Tony, you need to get with Tyler Perry for a series, because you are funny. It was the walk around for me, LOL
Tony!!! Boi you are ANOINTED!!! It comes through in the best way. Wow! GOD Bless you for walking TALL in your purpose. 🙏🏾❤️
I am glad someone asked a question or dealing with this situation. I am already going to be watching over my children 24/7 just like Tony is showing us. I am giving too, but I don't play no games
Wow Tony;
You like to give! Just be careful that ppl don’t take advantage
Sometimes ppl take advantage of givers
But I will say the more you give the more God will bless
Godbless you Gaskins family
Godbless you
Lots of great content tonight!
This video is on point! I love it!
Whew 😰 forty-twoooo!
Similar situation happened to me. His mom is his wife. You are a rival and they will always treat u as a mistress in ur own family ( sick I Kno).
Move out. Put him on child support. Strap on ur seat belt because she will try to take ur child (to keep son-husband mother-wife dynamic) and GONE BOUT YA BUSINESS
Yes!!! The mother in law will try to take your children just to keep her son happy. She does not even like your children but she will try to take them.
Great advice on this video here. Life application skills. There is power in the tongue and words. As Christians we should not live afraid lives but empowered lives. You doing Gods work Tony Gaskins. God bless you.
When he did the security guard stand 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
I'm with you Tony 💯 about my children! We're paying them, private or public. Some of the policies are out of order
We even see that complex in Toni Morrison’s book “song of Solomon “ with her son
So funny but so true. Yes sir, thank you.
Listening.
Be Blessed 😊
Amen. You said a message within your initial message. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.
I hate that I be laughing when he talking about something so serious!!! I can’t with the upside down book 😂😂😂😂
WELL SAID Tony Gaskins.
Hit it right on the nail tony, mother n law # JACK OF ALL TRADES
Right. A guy I was in the Army with left his child to be cared for by a so-called friend during deployment. The “friends” ended up killing the child. The baby was only four. We have to be very careful of who we leave our kids with. People are crazy. That situation was tragic.
This is my reality a monster-in-law. Master manipulator. My husband (narcissist) and I are going through a divorce, she even encourages my husband to cheat. Yup! I won’t let anywhere near our 4 year old daughter. She really has no care for our daughter she just wanted the title Grandmother. She knows not to play with me, I put her in her place. I beg her to say something to me 🤣 She can only give her devious commentary from afar. She’s 69 years old and as evil as can be.
lol.. well if she's a true narcissist she doesn't give a damn what you do with the kid.. so I hope she's not because the only one missing out will be the kid
My last relationship was like this. Emotional Incest.
I took my child and we left the whole side of him and his family. Aht aht
Another one!!!
Ladies when you see the toxic dynamic between a mother and her son or sons run for your life, do not pass go, do not collect 200£ run....it never ends well. Some of this men have oedipus complex that their mothers fostered and enjoys the dividends of that sick complex. This started before a child came in the picture, it should've been nipped in the bud, nows she's tied to the family for life cos of the baby.
I believe she knows what to do, the only reason she's entertaining this mother in her home to see her grandchild is bcos she knows how much influence she wields over her son and she's still hoping for some sort of reconciliation with him. The woman knows it too, hence her milking it bcos ain't no way...
Like Tony said, I don't start nothing, but if you start something with me or anyone I hold dear I'm going to finish it one time, forever and for always, so they know never to try me again, protect ur energy, home and kids ladies, dont wait till sthng horrible happens.
Thanks, be blessed!
Tony is hilarious. I cracked up looking at him peeping around that upside down book. But he's telling the gospel truth. Evil and manipulative people like this grandmother who doesn't like you will hurt your child especially when she realizes she is losing control. Be watchful and beware. Even better...be gone. 💯
Tony, u plays no games. He goin say, I'm fitna give this business 1 star and contact the better business bureau. U are just like me. I do the same thing. We dont let nobody get away with nothn. We be on they butts.
I’m the same way
So on point Tony ...on point.....we have to teach others not how to treat us that's for sure ..
😅😅😅a swear to God ,you made my Saturday 🙏🤩
Tony said, we goin have sycquinized swimming. Lol! 😆🤣 I know that's right. We would never be home.
That was my first thought also, he was giving his mother “favours”.
ooh I'm here!!
Who else found themselves laughing during a serious conversation when coach is peering over top the book - then the upside down book 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony with the upside down book.... im hollering crying laughing! Ohmygoodness! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The upside down book thou😂😂😂😂😂😂
This deep. But real Tony.
Can you say.....LEAVE AND CLEAVE....or don't get married !
Omg, why is this my first sons dad and grandma. It was so weird after cutting her off years at a time I finally became feed up when c19 hit and got gone and man it’s been peaceful. I cut my sons only auntie off his granny and father...listen here play boy pay that back child support court ordered up then we can’t sit at the same table. I have protect my household other children and my peace. Be blessed!
The "backhand line" getting longer and longer.....
Superrr long tonight!
🤣🤣 right!
You JUMP FROGGY....! AMA be a LILY-PAD! Yes SIR... TONY! Yes SIR!
Actually Freud created those Complex theories to cover up the reality of abuse happening within society. He did research with women who clearly displayed a connection between trauma/"hysteria" and abuse they claimed to experience from men(many of higher ranks of society). He never ended up publishing all of his research on these studies and instead created those two theories which essentially avoid the reality of abuse and blame the child for having sexual feelings for his or her parent. It's actually quite scandalous and political....yet Psych 101 teaches these theories to students in universities.
The doctors of the Victorian era also made up a lie that women are prone to "hysteria" due to (some made up "science" of) having a uterus, and their treatment was to not work and just be bed ridden. This was based on MIDWIVES BEING A THREAT TO MALE DOCTORS OCCUPATION.
Also recall that doctors in the 50's would advertise CIGARETTES as being healthy. Much of what we call science is simply corruption, the love of money, abuse of power, attempts of controlling certain populations. Just think of all the things Dr. Mengele did under Hitler's reign in the name of "science".
I know men in.their 50s who put there mom's first. I know Tony not surprised 💖