I just left a Narcissist. He took me all the way through the ringer. I helped him get his self together. Start a business and the whole time he was sleeping with my neighbor. Now he lives with her and I have to see them everyday. I don’t give them any energy. I’m winning in the end. He don’t even look happy. I’m gonna keep my head high and keep being great because he will get his karma.
Mines tried to get me to start a business with him or for him because he wanted me to do all the work. I was like we not married I can't start no business for you not like that because soon you do it boom they gone. Nope not me. I did start 2 businesses myself and he was shitty and did not support me well only to a limit.
Mine is doing that now with a jealous neighbor. Exactly next door. The word said vengeance is mine! My best is payback! I won’t say it doesn’t hurt, but God allowed it to see Evil at its highest. He already robbed me of my car payment in my own home! Can it get worst?
Diamonds sought after!! We must beware of these wolves in sheep's clothing appearing as something they're not! Cunning. Deceptive. Divisive. On a mission from their father whether they claim him as such or not!! We have to choose who we will serve and obey our master, Savior, and the lifter of my head, your head! Look unto the Lord, he is all of your help!!!👑⚓😇. My help. My safe place. He knows how to hide you!😉💎💎💎
They do NOT miss you because they love you or care about you. They miss what you GAVE them. They don't miss you as the love they lost, it's the supply. You are an appliance. Hear that. Appliance. Object. Not a person. You are just an appliance that they got fuel from. Don't ever, ever go back. You are so much better than settling for being used and unloved.
They don't reflect like humans do about messing up things. They relect on "Now who's gonna make my dinner". If they ever reflected they'd never "Do it again". And they always do it again, & again, & even again. And repeating something that never worked, yet expecting a different outcome, is the Narcissists handbook. Shampoo, rinse, repeat.
My ex narc actually faked tears. I’ve never seen someone gather themselves together so quick. I knew he was Satan’s spawn when I met him but I did not listen to my gut.
Yes and that's what my husband is doing now since I left him a few days ago. Even calling certain family members telling them he doesn't know why I left, because he was good to me. 🙄
They always come back! Block, block, block!!! Even if you’re in the most excruciating emotional pain you’ve ever experienced or levelling up and glowing up, keep them blocked. Karma is a patient gangsta! I told him, God was offering you a gift and you abused it… I was your Karma baby 💣 then cut off all contact 🙏🏼 I’m enjoying my peace 🕊️ now 😊
One of the best lessons in my life is learning how God will watch over u when pure evil try too take u out. A narcissistic was the worst mistake of my life so glad its over
Say it again god is great i pray for protection in peace it eaiser now the dude i was dealing with was so much in competition i dont no why i delt so long liar in dont let me try to leave he like to act like he madder funny part is i felt something wasnt right from jump silly me smh but again moving alone thankful
His new supply (who is a Wiccan escort btw) convinced him I am the narcissist. Just found out they’re getting married and she’s about to find out who’s the real narcissist lol.
❤️❤️❤️Narcissist control through fear. They lose control once you NO longer fear losing them, or standing up to them. Healing is ALL about learning to overcome your OWN fear of rejection, abandonment, low self-esteem, neglect, etc... It's not that we love the narcissist intimately (subconsciously, we don't because of the emotional abuse they spew on us). But... It's the fear of us facing OUR past childhood or young adult traumas, emotions, situations, etc... should we leave the relationship which keeps us connected to them (NOT love). They have a grip on us because WE fear facing our OWN emotional insecurities and weaknesses, so we begin to place more focus and energy on what they are doing/did to us, rather than what we are doing/did to OURSELVES (meaning accepting/allowing physical or emotional abuse from them), which is why empaths binge watch narcissist videos instead of the co dependency ones (your focus is on THEIR toxic behavior and NOT your OWN emotional unbalances to heal properly). When you were NO longer afraid of the darkness as a child; you were NO longer concerned about the monster hiding under your bed. The monster was ONLY relevant to you because of your fear of the darkness (not the monster). FACE your unaddressed fears, issues, abuses, etc... and I PROMISE you, just watch how irrelevant the narcissist will become in your life. May The Lord Jesus Christ bless you all on your journey... Much healing❤️ One last thing. This is why this behavior is on the rise ALL over the world: (1 Timothy 3:1-7) This know also, that in the LAST DAYS perilous (dangerous) times shall come. (2) For men shall be lovers of their own selves (narcissistic), covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, (3) Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, (4) Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; (5) Having a form (appearance) of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. (6) For of this sort are they which CREEP into houses, and LEAD captive silly women laden (burdened) with sins, led away with divers LUST (7) Ever learning, and NEVER able to come to the knowledge of the TRUTH
I can’t lie...I’m pretty sure he will do anything at all to show he misses me. I know I should be happy about that, but it’s still fresh so I’m still hurting after being devalued and now discarded. But even though he won’t show that he lost a real one, I know for a fact I’m a real one. Everyone who knows me knows I have a pure heart and I gave him my all and didn’t deserve his mistreatment and abuse. Pray for me please.
I know this may sound too Christian but pray for strength and literally read about Rachel, Rebekah and Ruth. My babies sperm donor is a narcissist so be glad you didn’t make any babies with the mean men we decided to be with. It takes time dear don’t worry
You got this honey! Plz keep your head high and know what you deserve. I'm dealing with the same thing and it's not easy cuz I miss him and the things we did and how much we laughed but he's not a good person for me and I deserves more. We have to stand strong cuz God know we are better than that. I'm praying for us girl! ❤️
The female narc is worse than AL CAPON! THEY ARE DEMON LED, BEST THING FOR YOU IS BE GONE, NO COMMUNICATION. GOD IS GUIDING YOU OUT OF THIS DEMON RELATIONSHIP. GOD WONT ALLOW YOU TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH EVIL. BEWARE OFCTHE FEMALE NARC IN TULLAHOMA, TN. IT APPEARS TN IS FULL OF NARCS. I KNOW OF 3 NOW. I USE TO CONSIDER TN AS A SOUTHERN STATE, NO MORE. NARCS THINK THEY ARE SMART, THEY JUST SET THEMSELVES UP FOR THE FALL. WHEN THEY SEE, YOU KNOW, THEY GET UP TO DEFENSIVE MOVES, TO PROTECT THEM FROM EXPOSURE OF WHO THEY REALLY ARE. EVERYONE WILL EVENTUALLY WHAT THEY ARE, DEMON LED ALIENS. RUN!
Their deep dysfunctional narc very toxic unhealthy longer you remain with narc. I see now why took me 4 years heal with first narc ex husband . He was prince charming know now first sign try real hard get you. They will be determined narc free good place be in 2021. Like AA meeting never attended being addicted alcohol you just was addicted to narc. When you get healing you are just like serenity prayer everyday you get stronger .
@@prittibrowneyes yess been time. Time isn't waiting on NO ONE . Thee Only ONEZ can do it IS US (THEE EMPATHZ ) Thru Thee help of ABBA OUR FATHER, JESUS (SON) & Thru Holy Spirit help / strengthens. We owe it to ourselves. NOW !!! Not tomorrow!! Now PERIOD. Be blessed Beloved . U can do it!!!
I left my covert narcissist a little over a month ago. I spent 4.5 months living in the basement of our home, being ignored, gaslighting, yelled at and you name it. I lost over 30 pounds and anxiety was through the roof. Needless to say I filed for divorce and the house is for sale. I moved into my parents house until I can get back on my feet. I'm now less stressed, my dog is happy and I'm ready to live again and put this behind me. God showed me the path and I am following it. I will never stray from him, ever. God bless you all ♡♡♡♡
The next girl really isn’t an upgrade babe. The narc purposely picks weak and vulnerable people. You are the one who left, therefore you are growing as a person and finding your worth. You said enough is enough, and that is very powerful. Good for you!
@@cheyennedavis8605 I agree! He broke up with me. For something stupid, especially after the things he had just got caught doing. I had to remind myself.. he didn’t leave for better because he’s not better. He fell all the way off for whatever reason he decided to do that. He found somebody more easily manipulated. Cause I finally woke up. I don’t even know how I fell asleep...
I ghosted him 2 days ago. He drained all my energy & I just couldn't do it anymore. Just surrender & let go. Not worth keeping them in your life. You must disappear 😊 Your mental & emotional health is #1
My ex narcissist of eleven years discarded me a year ago. He just married his new supply this week. I have a great job, own my own home and car and I have my act together. The new supply has absolutely nothing. She doesn't even have her own kids. She gave them away. The downgrade is beyond my understanding
I feel you. The narc had the audacity to discard me , six figure income, grown child, great personality, inner and outer beauty, bought and gave him the world because I loved him and thought he was my forever for someone who does not work nor wants to, loves her section 8, lives off fraudulent credit cards, drinks alot, sleeps until noon, a hypocritical fake Christian, curses him out, leaves her kid at the drop of a dime, and trust me there’s a lot more. I can’t wrap my head around it.
I have had calls from family members. This back burner supply didn't supply nothing but sex. I am a jack of all trades. That narcissist lost a sho nuff real one.
Big sis is the truth! I went over and beyond to please this broke, insecure, no identity having bird. The harder I tried, the more he reminded me I was not enough. He started to treat me like a bum when I was the one giving. I feel used and abused, but I’m pushing!
@@rileysmiley9585 what did she say wrong when she said she wants a king every woman wants to be treated like a queen, you think too far about God being king he's beyond king. She is speaking in general. Relax.
Greetings! Believe it or not..... They're the spirit of Lucifer and the 1/3 of brethren (Sons of God/Fallen Angels) that rebelled against their Heavenly Father, Simp-athizing with their brethren Lucifer instead. Who wanted the worship, Praise and attention directed on him. Instead of the Most High God. There you have your Narcissist. The Males opposite of the 12 Friends/Disciples of Jesus/Yahushua. The Lowered Vibrations of the 12. Except Lucifer/Satan is their teacher instead. He does not say as Jesus said to the Heavenly Father.... Thy will be done. No....That person possessed with the spirit of Lucifer says, Do as though wilt. Its the letter of their Law. Direct opposite of the Commandment/Laws & Statues of The Most High God. Their Holy Place isn't as a man who enters tbe Temple/Body/Heavens/Doors of Heaven of his wife.... Their Unholy place is Sodomy. The very things that their Heavenly Father detest. Is what Lucifer and those of this worldly system will deceive you into practicing. the word of God says study to show yourselves approved a worker needing not to be ashamed rightly dividing the word of Truth. scripture also says know no man by the flesh. Scripture also says be slow to speak and quick to listen. Watch what you tell everyone. Do not trust every Spirit. That's the spirit by the spirit that you suspected of to see if it be of God. Make everyone earn the right to be in your inner courts. There is a thing that I've always said since I was a child out of court in a quart holy of holies and behind the veil. some people are attacked because they gave too much information to the devil when he approached them. Do you know that you are a temple of church a sanctuary. That you are symbolic of the temple of God the temple that Solomon King Solomon was allowed to build? yes you are symbolic of a temple Five gates five senses Five Doors. Your holy of holies and behind the veils... Women I'm talking to you. Only your husband that you made Covenant vows with should be allowed to go inside of you you should only be opening the doors of your heaven to your husband only no one else only the priest of your household your husband should enter your holy of holies and behind the veil behind the veil of your virginity should be given only to your husband that you pledged. Remember when y'all shua Jesus was crucified. The scripture said and the veil and the temple ripped and Twain straight down the temple. Yahshua Jesus married to church broke the virginity of her. When they pierced him in the side what came out of his side was blood and water wasn't that the same area that the Holy Spirit came out of. Was not that the same area that Eve was taken out of Adam that a rib was taken out of Adam to form Eve. Yahushua Jesus consecrated his marriage to the church. To the woman. The holy spirit that came out of his side when the veil ripped in Twain ripping the temple straight down the middle. This is another story about Demon Possession (Medical Term: Modern Day Narcissist) True repentance is not merely eliminating the negative but replacing it with positive attitudes and actions. As Jesus traveled through the cities and villages of Galilee performing miracles, a man who was possessed with a devil was brought to Him; the man was also blind and unable to speak. Jesus healed him, causing many to be amazed and wonder if He was the promised Messiah (see Matt. 12:22-23). When certain Pharisees heard that Jesus had done this, they said, “This fellow doth not cast out devils, but by Beelzebub the prince of the devils” (Matt. 12:24). Jesus dismissed their ridiculous logic and taught, “All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men who receive me and repent: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven unto men” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:26). A group of scribes challenged this teaching, saying, “Master, it is written that, Every sin shall be forgiven; but ye say, Whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven. … How can these things be?” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:37). Jesus then gave what has become known as the parable of the empty house: “When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none; but when a man speaketh against the Holy Ghost, then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth him empty, swept and garnished; for the good spirit leaveth him unto himself. “Then goeth the evil spirit, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there; and the last end of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:38-39). True Repentance A person who commits sin without repenting does not have the protective influence of the Holy Ghost. Therefore, an evil spirit enters and dwells therein, thus leaving him “unto himself.” The spiritual danger pointed out by this parable is real. Elder Bruce R. McConkie (1915-85) has explained: “When a man is baptized for the remission of sins … by the power of the Holy Ghost; when he becomes clean, and pure, and spotless before the Lord; … if he then sins against the Holy Ghost and loses the Spirit of the Lord as his companion, he is left in a fit condition to be swallowed up in every form of evil and iniquity. The house that was once swept and garnished, that was once a fit habitation for the Holy Spirit of God-that house is now vacant. The Spirit of the Lord will not dwell there longer, and the spirit of evil returns-returns to a vacant house, with a force and vigor exceeding anything of the past.”1 President Spencer W. Kimball (1895-1985) has explained how this principle applies to the process of repentance: “The devil knows where to tempt, where to put in his telling blows. He finds the vulnerable spot. Where one was weak before, he will be most easily tempted again. “In abandoning sin one cannot merely wish for better conditions. He must make them. … He must eliminate anything which would stir the old memories. “Does this mean that the man who has quit smoking or drinking or had sex pollutions finds life empty for a time? The things which engaged him and caught his fancy and occupied his thoughts are gone, and better substitutions have not yet filled the void. This is Satan’s opportunity. The man makes a start but may find the loss of the yesterday’s habits so great that he is enticed to return to his evil ways, and his lot thus becomes infinitely worsened. … “Many who have discontinued bad habits have found that substitution is part of the answer, and have conquered a bad habit by replacing it with a good or harmless one.”2 True repentance, then, is not merely eliminating the negative in our lives; it also must involve replacing the negative with positive attitudes and actions. I used voice command I apologize in advance for the typos. May The Heavenly Father continue to bless you! ~Shalom~
I Broke - up with my ex Narc for 10 yrs. On April 2019, I pack my Sh** and left him with everything. All I had was $50.00 on my card, but that's ok. I felt a Relief and moved back with my parents. Now, I don't have to deal with his Narc family and his Emotional Abused. I'm now a Miss A!
I'm with you. I left in December to another state. I only had gas money. The only one's I feel sorry for is his children. I basically raised them but I didn't have any legal rights. Both of their parents are narcs. I pray for them daily. I am happy I left him though!! Relief!!
One thing I've learned in life is that you cannot do people wrong and expect to thrive in life. What goes around comes around in many different forms💯 I just thank God I'm free 🦋
Honestly I disagree. Four years ago met two people who are both narcissist that man became my boyfriend who then dated my roar enemy ( that girl) she would bump me evrytime she saw me but she what a big group of friends and they all hated me ( I’m shy) so I never said anything. Guess who got together ? Yeap they both did. She is now a model and he is going to be a lawyer
I felt this &, that's why God keeps blessings us right in front of the ones that was sent to attack &, destroy us. The more you ignore, move on, live your life more, block them &, be more silence to them that will always get them out of character &, deep under their skin. Like they say, never argue with a fool. Because, a fool got everything solution for everything &, everyone except themselves.
Yeah he gave me the silent treatment after I called him out on his ish. Now he’s trying to come back. Nope, keep that same energy. #imSilentnowAndForever
He didn't even read my text so I could know he had read it after I called him out, he pulled down the phone screen and read it thinking I would know he had read it ... smh
The narcissist just popped up...(like nothing ever happened)...I let him in for 2 seconds, just to let him see, one last time, who ain't paying him no mind. Let him see my beautiful house & how I was just chilling in my house on a Friday night...with zero worries. Then, after two seconds, I politely took his boney elbow & escorted him out. Turned my TV back up & smiled. #GotEm
I'm so addicted to your videos!! The energy when she gets mad is so appropriate! "BIRD!" " I SAID IT AND I MEANT IT!" Is literally what I said with my ACTIONS when he was on a third round of silent treatment in 3 weeks. He was going on another week of disappearance and silent treatment after completely Disrespecting and cussing me out and blaming his rage on me, and I told him I wasn't going to tolerate it. He finally decided to come back home after 8 days just to see half the house gone and me literally packing my things. I MOVED out of MY OWN apartment I allowed him to move into with me. I left his stuff and the puppy he tried to stick me with in an empty home and told him he had 5 days before the landlord would take over the property! Gave him no energy or conversation about it. I had to leave so he couldn't find me if he tried. We have no kids, no business. GoodBYE!
Anyone reading this leave! This isn’t just for romantic relationships, this also included narcissist family members. You deserve better and to be at peace!
All my family members are narcissist I don't speak to them at all it's been years...From nieces to nephews, I cleanse my hands from those wicked people
@@crystalphillip588 Same here! its a freeing feeling that is amazing. Finally able to live and not just strive. Only those who been there will understand. Sending Love. 🥰
@@crystalphillip588 I get it and I have given all my family and friends, if that’s what you wanna call them, a deadline of May 1, and I mean it. Just wanna see what it feels like to be free of all forms of a narc for years to come
I just got done talking to a narcissist 3 days ago. 1 of the most stressful, and mentally abusive things I’ve ever been though. I thought he was gonna be my 1st everything. I thank God so much I didn’t sleep with him. It was my 1st and last Most Toxic Situation-ship I every been in my life. I talked to this boy EVERY SINGLE DAY from July 26th until Feb. 23rd. 😭 I am so happy my sister sent me this video. I am healing for sure by the grace of God. Please pray for me. 💙
After the narcissist left he aged 10 years.Im grade A supply.He had the nerve to try to hoover me back.."Old man I dont want you back".All I lost was a problem..Kick rocks!!!!!
Narcissist hits his head real hard when they see they cannot manipulate you and control you. It's like fighting the hell for them, fighting their own demons, him vs him
36 years of abuse! I had no idea he was a Narcissist until I started getting educated. I have been through the stages many times. But now he knows that I knows I know, he had to come clean. He plays the victim of course with the back burner, his new supply. Lol. He told me he is moving on with his life and I gave him my blessing. Just stay away from me! Good luck to the new supply because she chose to sleep with a married man.
When a narc realizes you have high self-esteem and high self-worth and you leave them, they go bonkers. They show them true colors real quick and will try to send spirutual attacks your way but you have to cut them ties and show them you not the one to be played with 😎💅🏾.
He totally underestimated me... Stronger smarter and happier than i ever was with him... Whoever he is...no one truly knows... every stranger I meet for the first time is so much Kinder more of a gentleman and know what they bring to the table. It's not a crock of Lies bulshit cheating whores p*** gambling excetera excetera excetera... would have been gone years ago but my mother became bedridden and I took care of her. I was pinned down and felt like I was in prison. She passed away December of 19. She is in glory and I am free. Finally after losing absolutely everything being evicted from my entire life. Even my pets these evil monsters are a whole sick toxic breed of Their Own. You can't save him. Save yourself
"Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm." Psalm 105:15 “Sit at My right hand, Till I make Your enemies Your footstool.” Psalm 110:1 🙌🏼🙏🏼 I live by these 2 scriptures & allow the Most High to fight my battles for me.
Amen these are demonized persons jezebelic narcissists... its all rebellion unto witchcraft. Repent, learn and move on. Run to the Father God. He has our true and best spouses and our best destiny all prepared for us but we must purge these parasitic devils out. Cut the UnGodly soulties off forever and be healed and delivered. There was purpose in the pain. A testimony in the test. So God allowed it. Praise God n thank Him daily. Pray n prepare for your proper mate. Trust only in the Lord. He has us covered. Stop engaging in dating n fornication with UnGodly men n this entire satanic plot fails because the standard against the devil is lifted up. The bar of love, self esteem and worthiness is too high and any disgusting, disloyal, filth bag bums cannot cross it. GET DELIVERANCE from these demonic attachments, break their evil enchantments, charms and negative holds and cycles over your life and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Live your REAL best life ever not their fakebook rubbish. People better start focusing on their eternal salvation n that the world system we are living in and this temporary illusion we are existing in is almost completely over. The Almighty Creator has all my answers His love is what I need and He will provide a man on Earth ordained to reflect His love to me in Holy Matrimony not in whoredom, casual sin, prostitution, shacking up or some back alley sex. 1 bad relationship or even a few should all be dead in the past. They were just temporary experiences. False promises and false starts to the real love on its way. Do not let these destroyers hinder our mind's view because there is a whole eternity lay before us and there is a wonderful man or lady out there for each us called to marry. I co-create with my Father God... evil, negative n toxic people, places n things must Go. My vibes are too high for all that lowness. Those kind of people are not our kind, they are iniquitous and unrepentant evil, so therefore it wasn't meant to go well or work out properly with these contrary ones or else it would have. It was a lesson of empowerment now we must let it and them go! We must forward gratefully into our Kingdom marriages and divine destiny purposes in Jesus Mighty name. HALLELUJAH 🤴🏿💍👰🏻AMEN
This just recently happened to me. I started doing my research early. I gave it a year. My time, money, energy, and love. But listening to your content and others, I was able to walk away guilt free and confident and unscathed.
Amen and Hallelujah!! God will show you the truth and he will guide you and help you away from these devils! He did it for me he will surely do it for you!!
I believe you! It takes true faith in God! That's where I'm at now, praying God will come through for me. God is Good, His ways are not our ways. I need to be patient and wait on the Lord. 🙏
I just broke up with my narcissist on our anniversary, which was Valentines day. I didn't even cry bc I am tired. 5 years and no change. I help him and his family. I was there when no one wanted to be there for him. I decided to pick me and not go back.
I can personally relate to everything you just said. 20 years of abuse... The peace I've experienced since I gave him back to his mother as an early Xmas gift is priceless😌
Tea I used to want revenge because I couldn't see the karma but now that I have my power back Its like having 7 black belts you just know from discipline what damage you can do so you leave them to destroy themselves...Karma is punishment Thank you ...🤜💥🤛
If your blessed enough you will see their karma one day. I’ve been there happened right in my face. Your right you don’t have to do anything. But best believe if you don’t see it, don’t mean they don’t get it 😂 Stay strong sister ✊🏿
Terri that was me but know Narc would destroyed him didn’t stand a chance when went Supernova. I mirrored him back went back the time before discarded him for revenge. Because thoughts he was thinking while talking to me thinking sleeping with him said no plus let him know. I’m a woman of God can’t be doing things dishonor me or God. They spirit of lust on him captivated me in first place during lovebombing. I’m going be wise now more because always discern people analyze theirs words while talking to me so at end put off any card love treated like was chamleon. I’m glad back to me don’t want nothing cold no empathy love people hard. Guard your hearts what God told me in first place he put platinum lovebombing anything less would stood chance.
if you were bitten once by a narcissists you should never be bitten again & that should be an eye opener for you, watch those red flags that they pose.
These dam women are so desperate and lonely for relationship and refuse to heal and do their inner work So they are easy prey. One time should be enough.....but it's not for a lot of these women.
My mother is a narcissist who has brainwashed my sisters to dislike me she has groomed them since we were small kids to hate me! I also believe she is jealous too , there’s a lot of that going on! Parents being jealous of their children, fathers and mothers! I’ve seen that quite frequently!
My mum is the same turned my brothers sisters every one against me then I got a bf who was a narcissist who just wud not stop cheating always playing games talking to other women I warned him I will go been a week now im away from him so far not heard from him but I know he will come back he won't ever get another me hope he realises he lost a diamond a real one
Oh i feel that my sister and my mom are currently giving me the silent treatment. My mom was my first bully and my sister use to also participate in it fir her approval, after all they’ve done i taught i could have a relationship with them. Now after their last stunt im done, i dont care. Im going to therapy working in me, its hard because my dad is dead and i only have a sister& mom
The point of them discarding you is to attempt to control you and get you to chase them. I love it because I keep laughing, enjoying life and not caring, plus cut off all ways for them to contact me. They will show up at places you go to socially to be nosey because they are very jealous individuals. I don't even look in their direction.
I've been in the same repetitive cycle for 17 years. 6 kids with the narcissist husband. Just learned last week how narcissists purposely get their supply pregnant so they can never leave. PLEASE, don't be like me. Let go or your child will get caught in the narcs cycle as well. Being pregnant is already an emotional roller-coaster, you don't need that in your life. Leave before you get too far in the cycle he wants to keep you in. He'll cheat and then make you seem like you're losing your mind, as I learned my husband was cheating and his family knew about it. He did the cheating 3 weeks after I gave birth to our last child. Please, get out while you can.
Ended the narc relationship a few days ago and his true colors came out by calling me names, blaming for everything and calling me crazy. It sucks that we have an apartment together. Both of our names are on it... I'm currently desperately looking for a new apartment to rent even if its just a room. But the rent prices these days are ridiculous so I feel stuck. I'm praying I get some good news soon.
It’s been two years since I first heard this video. It came on my feed as I was driving to evict my narcissist.. no contact!! He’s been gone for two years!!!! I’m healed !!!
Happily in a 12yr relationship with with the mother of my kids. But at first when we met I was a jerk and lost her for a year and oh boy I was going crazy seeing her live her best life. Then suddenly two years later I got a 2nd chance to be with her and I made sure to never ever do her bad like I used to and I have been happy ever since. Happy wife, happy home. 💐❤️💯💯💯💯💯💯
Congratulations 🎊🍾🎉🎈 and blessings my dude🙏🏽 I’m currently in repair trying to reconstruct a foundation with the “one who got away” because I knew better but I was a d**n fool
@@Maestro4Mayor that's wassup bro, you repairing your relationship with your partner that got away will reap rewards of everlasting love. Your efforts and patience will pay off because you are showing your partner you really want to do this.
@@bighomiehydro1422 Thank you for the encouragement my dude I appreciate that🙏🏽 My whole heart is in love with this woman’s every being and I just need her back in my world gracing me.
I appreciate that bad relationship now because I had to be pulled away from my faith and God in order for me to have a deeper realization of how much more I need God in my life. I’ve always believed in God, but never put the work into knowing his word and because of the amount of pain I had from my previous, bad narcissistic relationships; it pushed me into God’s arms and finding comfort in God.
Yes Celia!!! Same here lady!!! I knew he was teaching me and calling me home and protecting me! You're words are exactly how I feel and what I know as well. Wow 👏🙏
Praise the lord for giving me the eyes too see and cut off this evil spirit, 3 years of lies, déception and fear wrapped up as love, but started praying so deep with my broken heart that father saved me and give me the strength for walking away and heal myself, god bless you all 🙏
Yes he thought I didn’t know that he was still cheating and out there with that burn bird but I knew all along but it was OK because I had something else in store for him getting away from him divorcing him with the best thing I ever did
I had to get a protective order because he would not leave me alone! I blocked him on everything and he would call from different phone numbers. Like wat a loser.. He just couldn’t stop stalking until authorities got involved. But I’m gone for good I’ve moved on. It’s just pathetic cause I broke up with him even years later he just couldn’t wrap his head around the fact that I was really gone. Like boy bye I have a whole new Man, and a real one. Bloop!
You're so right. The most painful discard came just as I had a big crisis in my life. I'm still reeling from this. And I was absolutely his Grade A supply. They never know what they've lost until it's gone!
Same here, I had just lost my job, was depressed and he left me when I needed him most, to be with his nasty drug addict coworker 10 years younger. Oh well, one day he will realize what he lost.
Same here, at the worst time of my life he up and left, because although it was the worst time, I called him out on his deception anyway. I was ready to go through it and get it all over with Pronto, because I couldn't deal with that too. No more. I had enough. Still healing and probably won't get in another relationship because what God wants, I don't think exists on this earth anymore 😕. Staying single and putting myself first, which I have never done and is challenging, but needed. Makes me realize where I went wrong really. I'll always be able to spot a 🐍now. They expose themselves early. Pay attention to your intuition.
Amen! His mom cried for 2 days and still contacted me until I unfriended all social media with his Friends and familys. I also changed my phone number too. Everyone knows I was grade A. His loss. I'm soooo happy I lefted and going ghost. Ssh, I'm going away like I died, like I don't exist anymore. I'm currently working on not being on any social media for what how long it takes for me to heal and until I want to be seen, lol. Best thing is to leave and go dead, lol. I'm working out again and working on myself more. I'm happier now. Its been about 6 weeks. It's getting better by the day.
12 years married to one he told me to my face that he didn’t want to be married to me anymore and he is going to spend his life with the 3rd party. He divorced me is September 2020 and now He wants to get back with me. I told he if you don’t get your narcissistic, egotistical, prideful, devil self outta here.....I AM FREEEEEE✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
Can you give me some advice my wife for 4yrs decided she wanted to get a divorce took my ring while driving we were in vehicle and threw it out the window, heart broke, next 3 months no speech from her I slept in the laundry room studio music area, no cooking total cut me off her door closed I finally moved out gave her the house she emailed me about wifi password, and if I want my taxes done 😃 whatttt really sounds like Nar action to me.
Seriously though! He contemplated on discarding me for a whole ass week and wanted to prolong the process even longer! He started doing whatever he wanted and I caught him in a lie and left him! Blessing disguise because I swear I wanted the relationship to end so badly anyways! I was tired as hell!
Yea after 5 yrs I realized that was not a relationship AT ALL. I my wasted time and energy on a person who was an actor. I had no business being with him from the beginning. You live and learn and I thank God for rescuing me.
"You ARE the narcisstist's karma." 👐 exactly what I needed to hear! I NEVER thought of it that way...spot on and right. Now to sit back and watch. You reap what ya sow!
I needed to hear this. This is my relationshit. I was 320lbs now 160lbs with a great job holding down my fort. He constantly tried to break me because he was intimidated by my potential. Go do inventory in his apartment. I bought 95% of everything in there including the specific toilet seat he just had to have. It's been a week since I told him bye and fighting to stay away from his manipulation.
Way to go 👏 🙌 👍 💪 so u bought everything nhis apartment do yall stay n a separate household now ? If you bought everything did you let me have everything u paid for
@@jadesulton8700 I did. I let him keep everything. I currently have my own apartment and purchased all my stuff but most of all I have peace of mind now.
Oooohhh God!!! You said everything I feel. I nought my own car and he had the nerve to give our old car to a friend and it was valued at 10,000 and then he drives mine and wrecked it. 🙃
Just a few weeks ago he reached out to me trying to comeback , I told him no , a day later people coming to me telling me he posted a picture with a girl who used to be my bf , how sway all I could do was laugh , he lost a real one I was grade a supply , ten years in a hellship !!
You hit The Bullseye with "taking care" of them. It's so true. Even when you try to explain you got your own responsibilities, they "hear" but they don't "listen" and make you feel like they are a burden when they ask you because they have nobody else but they don't try to change for the better. They are the biggest liars and fraudsters in the world;.
If you can, collect evidence (for your protection) no matter how small. It will help you in the end. Every text, every pic, everything you caught them in. Dnt let them know. If you can, move like a ninja. Brush up on ur acting skills, but dnt lose urself. Only do this when u really ready to leave. Cause it's hard. Cause you are trauma bonded.
Man this was a WORD lol everything was right on point. From the family lying, covering up stuff for her, to her son reaching out saying he miss me around. Had got to the point where I blocked the whole family. Let me heal in peace. People have to cherish you while they have you around.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Yes this is how these families operate completely dysfunctional. Be encouraged and be strengthened.🌟💖
Another accurate video sis. I left my narc over a year ago because he got someone pregnant. I felt so insignificant because after he got caught he never attempted to make amends or even have a conversation with me. He continued on in the other relationship. I assumed he was happy and often envied him because I took time to heal and he already had someone else. Then my social media started getting stalked. I started hearing through the grapevine that he was hacing sex with every woman he could find, that he was verbally abusing his new baby momma. Then I heard someone else was accusing him of rape. All of this made me question the original belief I had of him living a happy life. Then someone pointed out to me how his life took a different direction once I departed and how he's currently operating out of pain. Your video was definitely confirmation.
I am a 53 year old lady, been with this bird since I was 16. Oh my dear God the bizarre things I have been through with this “ Bird”. Over the years, Is beyond comprehension! This man is a complete nut, full blown narc. A hell bent demon! Along with his family, they’re crazy as hell... I’m finally able to get out of this mess. Thanking God for it.
i met mine at 17...I broke it off when he went to prison, he married the supply while incarcerated..now 30 yrs later he hoovering, sending phone tracking apps to my cell??
The one thing I always noticed when people effed up they come after yours don't let everybody in your space learning who you are and don't change when they're not going nowhere with their life they usually want to try to control yours I never had anyone that I allow to control me I know how to make good choices it don't take long relationships to figure it out ask the right questions and pay attention to his actions if you've made plans don't let him change them you waste too much time trying make something work when it's not Let Let It Go and don't look back
I swear you spot on I went to the same thing with my ex wife of 13 years. Its as if you knew us from the neighborhood 🤣🤣. I survived and met a real WOMAN who show me narc videos and been abused too. Now we love all that pain we endured away from each other EVERYDAY. YOU CAN AND WILL GET PAST THEIR ABUSE IM LIVING PROOF. PRAISE GOD I AM!!!!
Your statement that a Narcissist doesn't live in reality is so true. I've been mentioning that the Narcissist that I know actually lives in the future, before the future even comes.
13:31 after you said when the narcissist is alone after losing a real one like you, their mind is 'tormented', you can see an orb fly near your head. This message is powerful. It's for me. Wow. I receive it.
I'M SO AGREEING WITH YOUR COMMENT. I JUST LEFT MY NARC EX LAST WEEK. AFTER THE FIRST NIGHT I LEFT HIM, I SAW A SHOOTING STAR, THE NIGHT AFTER THAT, I SAW ANOTHER ONE AND IT JUST MADE ME HAVE A GOOD FEELING. IT'S IRONIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN A SHOOTING STAR IN ALMOST FIFTEEN YEARS. BUT I MADE SURE TO MAKE MY WISHES🤗
Fasting (detoxing) is not only from food but from ppl too, stay away from them , block them their friends and family, change your number, seek positive counseling, remember the story in the Bible what happened to Lott’s wife when she looked back at sodom and Gomorrah , don’t go back , don’t look back, look up and move forward. Be strong in the Lord and in the power of HIS might
You said everything that I been thru with this person. I never wanted anything in return but his audacity was just out of control. They feel entitled to have access to you and once they realize they don’t have you anymore they start showing fake love
Yesssss he would go to laundromat at 5am to religiously wash his spicey a&% clothes every week. He tried to get me to join in on his reindeer games but I declined.
She’s gorgeous! She spilled the damn tea! They lost a good one! That Narc insulted me ONCE, no apology, no remorse. HELL NO, I was DONE! And that was the FIRST conversation. If we had ‘dated’ it would of got WORSE! BLOCK DELETE!
I just left a Narcissist. He took me all the way through the ringer. I helped him get his self together. Start a business and the whole time he was sleeping with my neighbor. Now he lives with her and I have to see them everyday. I don’t give them any energy. I’m winning in the end. He don’t even look happy. I’m gonna keep my head high and keep being great because he will get his karma.
Mines tried to get me to start a business with him or for him because he wanted me to do all the work. I was like we not married I can't start no business for you not like that because soon you do it boom they gone. Nope not me. I did start 2 businesses myself and he was shitty and did not support me well only to a limit.
Girl, keep your head up! Unbelievable! Smh
He will try to come back please don't allow him access to you.
Omg i just went through a similar situation
Mine is doing that now with a jealous neighbor. Exactly next door.
The word said vengeance is mine!
My best is payback! I won’t say it doesn’t hurt, but God allowed it to see Evil at its highest. He already robbed me of my car payment in my own home! Can it get worst?
Just remember when you fall in love with a narcissist you’re actually falling in love with yourself!!
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Woh so sad but true!
Love this!
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How so please explain ❤️❤️❤️
Its game over for these clowns once we awaken.
Speak Sis yes yes yes!!!🌟💖
Diamonds sought after!! We must beware of these wolves in sheep's clothing appearing as something they're not! Cunning. Deceptive. Divisive. On a mission from their father whether they claim him as such or not!! We have to choose who we will serve and obey our master, Savior, and the lifter of my head, your head! Look unto the Lord, he is all of your help!!!👑⚓😇. My help. My safe place. He knows how to hide you!😉💎💎💎
@@patriciawilliams5519 Amen !
Thank God Almighty, I'm woke!
I woke up!
“A person that loves you doesn’t wanna control you but add to you.“ 💯💕
So very true
Absolutely 😂
They do NOT miss you because they love you or care about you. They miss what you GAVE them. They don't miss you as the love they lost, it's the supply. You are an appliance. Hear that. Appliance. Object. Not a person. You are just an appliance that they got fuel from. Don't ever, ever go back. You are so much better than settling for being used and unloved.
#FACTS✨💖
They don't reflect like humans do about messing up things. They relect on "Now who's gonna make my dinner". If they ever reflected they'd never "Do it again". And they always do it again, & again, & even again. And repeating something that never worked, yet expecting a different outcome, is the Narcissists handbook. Shampoo, rinse, repeat.
Boom 🔥
@@LisaCorleone you said something right there
Facts
They try to tear you down and play victim to the world
Yes Sis it’s the truth.🌟💖
Do they ever!! They create their own mess and change gears to victim mode🤯
@Saneisha Graham they love playing victim. It's a classic bait and switch.
My ex narc actually faked tears. I’ve never seen someone gather themselves together so quick. I knew he was Satan’s spawn when I met him but I did not listen to my gut.
Yes and that's what my husband is doing now since I left him a few days ago. Even calling certain family members telling them he doesn't know why I left, because he was good to me. 🙄
“Let Karma, the patient gangster, have its way.” - Best quote ever
Facts.💯💯💯
This!
For real
YES ❤️❤️
Just saw this quote today. That karma can deal them a blow that they’re not prepared for.
They always come back! Block, block, block!!!
Even if you’re in the most excruciating emotional pain you’ve ever experienced or levelling up and glowing up, keep them blocked. Karma is a patient gangsta!
I told him, God was offering you a gift and you abused it… I was your Karma baby 💣 then cut off all contact 🙏🏼
I’m enjoying my peace 🕊️ now 😊
Facts we are a gift!!! Idiots fr
Lost 60 lbs and dude came back 2 years later I told him do not bother my peace . I have a new man now
Welcome to the Tribe. This part right here! Yes Sis!🌟💖
The nerve of him
Good work
Good for you! 2 years later.. that’s crazy.. I guess he can’t get over you!
Good for you Jessica T! It's better to stop him in his tracks to protect your peace.
It's a relationshit , not a relationship
This.
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🤣🤣🤣 thanks for this, gurrl!!! ❤💯
@Sharon Campbell I love that phrase.
Relationshit,..........(LAUGHIN').....I....LIKES...... DAT'!!!!
You don't mistreat a child of the king ❤️
This!!! Yes.✨💖💯💯💯
ahhhh...nope...whomever blesses us, WILL BE BLESSED. Whomever curses us, WILL BE CURSED!
@ Phelicia Wiss That part!!
@@msladylibra8373 facts!💯💯💯
They better fear the Lord.
You can discard them first by simply knowing the signs of a narcissist. I learned to beat them at their own game.
FACTS ‼️
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Same ☺️ third times the charm!
All player's get played and then "THEY PLAY OUT!!!!!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS
One of the best lessons in my life is learning how God will watch over u when pure evil try too take u out. A narcissistic was the worst mistake of my life so glad its over
Me too
Praise the Lord you got out. Amen
Say it again god is great i pray for protection in peace it eaiser now the dude i was dealing with was so much in competition i dont no why i delt so long liar in dont let me try to leave he like to act like he madder funny part is i felt something wasnt right from jump silly me smh but again moving alone thankful
Girl say this again 🗣🗣🗣🗣♥️♥️♥️
Yes GODus good I was married to one twoGOD gave me a way of escape
The narc sent me a message stating the he would never forget me. He needs to. Please!
Mine too, please forget...then come a slew of more text messages that are abusive
Block them...NO CONTACT!!! He doesn’t deserve an ear from u!!! Disappear on that demon!
@@LChap-if5sl keep firm...It Is A Demon!
Congratulations on leaving! Wishing you continued healing and love. 💕 They are THE worst!
Say it again sis,he needs to!💯💯💯
What is sad is a Narcissist will even call you a Narcissist because they refuse to realize they are the toxic ones.
His new supply (who is a Wiccan escort btw) convinced him I am the narcissist. Just found out they’re getting married and she’s about to find out who’s the real narcissist lol.
Facts
Both sides are toxic in a toxic relationship
That’s their projection - I had the same thing.
Problem is; A narcissist think your supply is easily replaceable…
Never is😅
HA 😂😂😂
I disagree I think they know from the start you can’t be replaced but their pride is too large so they will take the chance
@@yamomma5053 100%
@@yamomma5053 yes. They're masters of lies even to themselves and don't know it.
❤️❤️❤️Narcissist control through fear. They lose control once you NO longer fear losing them, or standing up to them. Healing is ALL about learning to overcome your OWN fear of rejection, abandonment, low self-esteem, neglect, etc... It's not that we love the narcissist intimately (subconsciously, we don't because of the emotional abuse they spew on us). But... It's the fear of us facing OUR past childhood or young adult traumas, emotions, situations, etc... should we leave the relationship which keeps us connected to them (NOT love). They have a grip on us because WE fear facing our OWN emotional insecurities and weaknesses, so we begin to place more focus and energy on what they are doing/did to us, rather than what we are doing/did to OURSELVES (meaning accepting/allowing physical or emotional abuse from them), which is why empaths binge watch narcissist videos instead of the co dependency ones (your focus is on THEIR toxic behavior and NOT your OWN emotional unbalances to heal properly). When you were NO longer afraid of the darkness as a child; you were NO longer concerned about the monster hiding under your bed. The monster was ONLY relevant to you because of your fear of the darkness (not the monster). FACE your unaddressed fears, issues, abuses, etc... and I PROMISE you, just watch how irrelevant the narcissist will become in your life. May The Lord Jesus Christ bless you all on your journey... Much healing❤️
One last thing. This is why this behavior is on the rise ALL over the world:
(1 Timothy 3:1-7) This know also, that in the LAST DAYS perilous (dangerous) times shall come. (2) For men shall be lovers of their own selves (narcissistic), covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, (3) Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, (4) Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; (5) Having a form (appearance) of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. (6) For of this sort are they which CREEP into houses, and LEAD captive silly women laden (burdened) with sins, led away with divers LUST (7) Ever learning, and NEVER able to come to the knowledge of the TRUTH
Amen. Well received
Who sent u, cuz whewwwww!!! 🙏🏽
@@sagewaleed762 ❤️
@@Bigmama_B Just something The Lord revealed to me through prayer. So I would say He sent the message, and just used me to deliver it lol. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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I can’t lie...I’m pretty sure he will do anything at all to show he misses me. I know I should be happy about that, but it’s still fresh so I’m still hurting after being devalued and now discarded. But even though he won’t show that he lost a real one, I know for a fact I’m a real one. Everyone who knows me knows I have a pure heart and I gave him my all and didn’t deserve his mistreatment and abuse. Pray for me please.
When we are smarter we saw all the signs I was so in love with mine since i was 17 but i was prepared God helped me
You are very beautiful and he lost big. I pray for you and know God will send you a real man.
I know this may sound too Christian but pray for strength and literally read about Rachel, Rebekah and Ruth. My babies sperm donor is a narcissist so be glad you didn’t make any babies with the mean men we decided to be with. It takes time dear don’t worry
I'm in the same boat with you. I know leaving him had to be done but my heart sure doesn't wanna let go.
You got this honey! Plz keep your head high and know what you deserve. I'm dealing with the same thing and it's not easy cuz I miss him and the things we did and how much we laughed but he's not a good person for me and I deserves more. We have to stand strong cuz God know we are better than that. I'm praying for us girl! ❤️
I didn’t need closure, I needed this message.
Yes indeed I appreciate her and others that can relate
Right
This video is golden
Yes!! Exactly 💯!!
Yes indeed. Couldn’t be at a better time for me
EVERYBODY BENEFITED FROM ME !!!
Felt this on a personal level !
I’m truly UNFORGETTABLE AND IRREPLACEABLE 🤞🏽
That resonated with me, too...scapegoat of my family. never thought of it like that before
The female narc is worse than AL CAPON! THEY ARE DEMON LED, BEST THING FOR YOU IS BE GONE, NO COMMUNICATION. GOD IS GUIDING YOU OUT OF THIS DEMON RELATIONSHIP. GOD WONT ALLOW YOU TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH EVIL. BEWARE OFCTHE FEMALE NARC IN TULLAHOMA, TN. IT APPEARS TN IS FULL OF NARCS. I KNOW OF 3 NOW. I USE TO CONSIDER TN AS A SOUTHERN STATE, NO MORE. NARCS THINK THEY ARE SMART, THEY JUST SET THEMSELVES UP FOR THE FALL. WHEN THEY SEE, YOU KNOW, THEY GET UP TO DEFENSIVE MOVES, TO PROTECT THEM FROM EXPOSURE OF WHO THEY REALLY ARE. EVERYONE WILL EVENTUALLY WHAT THEY ARE, DEMON LED ALIENS. RUN!
Me too! Like damn now that I thunk about it!
Narcs end up being the living dead once they realise that they had someone real.
Say that - yes!!
Their deep dysfunctional narc very toxic unhealthy longer you remain with narc. I see now why took me 4 years heal with first narc ex husband . He was prince charming know now first sign try real hard get you. They will be determined narc free good place be in 2021. Like AA meeting never attended being addicted alcohol you just was addicted to narc. When you get healing you are just like serenity prayer everyday you get stronger .
@Worships Cats Yes! No narcs everything false about them.
Preachhh
They're dead anyway.
“These people are not deep enough to enjoy anything thoroughly. They aren’t whole. They are broken”
Wow 💕
I love the way you Think. Its Sweet.
Exactly! Broken.
Yes very broken and need help I actually feel sad for them
You said it!!!!
Hunny I didn’t know some1 can be that broken until I met my ex omg broken is an understatement
Sooo true . Im 48 he was 60 & still playing games. My my my . My grandmother uses to say UR Age DONT MAKE U GROWN. !! Now i see what she meant.
It's a lot of old birds out there too Grandma aint never lied
@@jesuswilljudge7296 ur so right GROWN boy.
60😞 Wth that’s too damn old
I can relate. I'm 50 he's 65. He still playing games. Tired of this bird for real
@@prittibrowneyes yess been time. Time isn't waiting on NO ONE . Thee Only ONEZ can do it IS US (THEE EMPATHZ ) Thru Thee help of ABBA OUR FATHER, JESUS (SON) & Thru Holy Spirit help / strengthens. We owe it to ourselves. NOW !!! Not tomorrow!! Now PERIOD. Be blessed Beloved . U can do it!!!
I left my covert narcissist a little over a month ago. I spent 4.5 months living in the basement of our home, being ignored, gaslighting, yelled at and you name it. I lost over 30 pounds and anxiety was through the roof. Needless to say I filed for divorce and the house is for sale. I moved into my parents house until I can get back on my feet. I'm now less stressed, my dog is happy and I'm ready to live again and put this behind me. God showed me the path and I am following it. I will never stray from him, ever. God bless you all ♡♡♡♡
I discarded him this time! I had enough of being treated like a booty call while he kept shopping on social media for upgrades!
That’s what I’m talking about!!🙌🏽🙌🏽
Same here two months ago..six weeks long after that making my life hell on earth
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The next girl really isn’t an upgrade babe. The narc purposely picks weak and vulnerable people.
You are the one who left, therefore you are growing as a person and finding your worth. You said enough is enough, and that is very powerful. Good for you!
@@cheyennedavis8605 I agree! He broke up with me. For something stupid, especially after the things he had just got caught doing. I had to remind myself.. he didn’t leave for better because he’s not better. He fell all the way off for whatever reason he decided to do that. He found somebody more easily manipulated. Cause I finally woke up. I don’t even know how I fell asleep...
I doubt my ex will ever realize anything true. He will live his entire life in a delusion.
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly they are delusional point blank and the period.🌟💖
I agree mine is so self centered
@Rachel Zamstein they never learn new things.
They can't call, text, email, smoke signal or call.me..be blessed and be blocked.
They usually do
I ghosted him 2 days ago. He drained all my energy & I just couldn't do it anymore. Just surrender & let go. Not worth keeping them in your life. You must disappear 😊 Your mental & emotional health is #1
Testify Sis you are speaking facts here.💯💯💯
Surrender and let go. I felt that.
How r u doing now?
Absolutely
Absolutely. I just told another woman on Facebook to "Thanos" that narc. Act like that person has disappeared into vapor.
My ex narcissist of eleven years discarded me a year ago.
He just married his new supply this week.
I have a great job, own my own home and car and I have my act together.
The new supply has absolutely nothing. She doesn't even have her own kids.
She gave them away.
The downgrade is beyond my understanding
They enjoy looking like the hero and savior to people. Calling themselves “helping”.
I feel you. The narc had the audacity to discard me , six figure income, grown child, great personality, inner and outer beauty, bought and gave him the world because I loved him and thought he was my forever for someone who does not work nor wants to, loves her section 8, lives off fraudulent credit cards, drinks alot, sleeps until noon, a hypocritical fake Christian, curses him out, leaves her kid at the drop of a dime, and trust me there’s a lot more. I can’t wrap my head around it.
I have had calls from family members. This back burner supply didn't supply nothing but sex. I am a jack of all trades. That narcissist lost a sho nuff real one.
I pray you are recovering in peace.
Amen to that
Oh yes💕
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Yesss!
Big sis is the truth! I went over and beyond to please this broke, insecure, no identity having bird. The harder I tried, the more he reminded me I was not enough. He started to treat me like a bum when I was the one giving. I feel used and abused, but I’m pushing!
Same exact thing I went through.
I know exactly how you feel...
I felt the same way and even though I'm gone I still feels that same not good enough...
Hold your head up. You are the prize and the winner.
You are a blessing! Always have been and always will be.
He too busy w his new supply we dont exist but I'm better she can keep him n provide for him bless them both I deserve a KING
Yaaaas! Let him be the next person's problem.
How long you been free ? What's your updates on this ..
@@rileysmiley9585 what did she say wrong when she said she wants a king every woman wants to be treated like a queen, you think too far about God being king he's beyond king. She is speaking in general. Relax.
Let him WRECK THE TRAIN on their path50 years -50 of abuse from my sibling -eek! Now he lies to a Niece-!
Greetings!
Believe it or not.....
They're the spirit of Lucifer and the 1/3 of brethren (Sons of God/Fallen Angels) that rebelled against their Heavenly Father, Simp-athizing with their brethren Lucifer instead.
Who wanted the worship, Praise and attention directed on him. Instead of the Most High God.
There you have your Narcissist. The Males opposite of the 12 Friends/Disciples of Jesus/Yahushua.
The Lowered Vibrations of the 12. Except Lucifer/Satan is their teacher instead.
He does not say as Jesus said to the Heavenly Father....
Thy will be done.
No....That person possessed with the spirit of Lucifer says, Do as though wilt. Its the letter of their Law.
Direct opposite of the Commandment/Laws & Statues of The Most High God.
Their Holy Place isn't as a man who enters tbe Temple/Body/Heavens/Doors of Heaven of his wife....
Their Unholy place is Sodomy.
The very things that their Heavenly Father detest. Is what Lucifer and those of this worldly system will deceive you into practicing.
the word of God says study to show yourselves approved a worker needing not to be ashamed rightly dividing the word of Truth.
scripture also says know no man by the flesh.
Scripture also says be slow to speak and quick to listen. Watch what you tell everyone. Do not trust every Spirit. That's the spirit by the spirit that you suspected of to see if it be of God. Make everyone earn the right to be in your inner courts. There is a thing that I've always said since I was a child out of court in a quart holy of holies and behind the veil. some people are attacked because they gave too much information to the devil when he approached them. Do you know that you are a temple of church a sanctuary. That you are symbolic of the temple of God the temple that Solomon King Solomon was allowed to build?
yes you are symbolic of a temple Five gates five senses Five Doors. Your holy of holies and behind the veils... Women I'm talking to you. Only your husband that you made Covenant vows with should be allowed to go inside of you you should only be opening the doors of your heaven to your husband only no one else only the priest of your household your husband should enter your holy of holies and behind the veil behind the veil of your virginity should be given only to your husband that you pledged.
Remember when y'all shua Jesus was crucified. The scripture said and the veil and the temple ripped and Twain straight down the temple. Yahshua Jesus married to church broke the virginity of her. When they pierced him in the side what came out of his side was blood and water wasn't that the same area that the Holy Spirit came out of. Was not that the same area that Eve was taken out of Adam that a rib was taken out of Adam to form Eve. Yahushua Jesus consecrated his marriage to the church. To the woman. The holy spirit that came out of his side when the veil ripped in Twain ripping the temple straight down the middle.
This is another story about Demon Possession (Medical Term: Modern Day Narcissist)
True repentance is not merely eliminating the negative but replacing it with positive attitudes and actions.
As Jesus traveled through the cities and villages of Galilee performing miracles, a man who was possessed with a devil was brought to Him; the man was also blind and unable to speak. Jesus healed him, causing many to be amazed and wonder if He was the promised Messiah (see Matt. 12:22-23). When certain Pharisees heard that Jesus had done this, they said, “This fellow doth not cast out devils, but by Beelzebub the prince of the devils” (Matt. 12:24). Jesus dismissed their ridiculous logic and taught, “All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men who receive me and repent: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven unto men” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:26).
A group of scribes challenged this teaching, saying, “Master, it is written that, Every sin shall be forgiven; but ye say, Whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven. … How can these things be?” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:37). Jesus then gave what has become known as the parable of the empty house:
“When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none; but when a man speaketh against the Holy Ghost, then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth him empty, swept and garnished; for the good spirit leaveth him unto himself.
“Then goeth the evil spirit, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there; and the last end of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation” (Joseph Smith Translation, Matt. 12:38-39).
True Repentance
A person who commits sin without repenting does not have the protective influence of the Holy Ghost. Therefore, an evil spirit enters and dwells therein, thus leaving him “unto himself.”
The spiritual danger pointed out by this parable is real. Elder Bruce R. McConkie (1915-85) has explained: “When a man is baptized for the remission of sins … by the power of the Holy Ghost; when he becomes clean, and pure, and spotless before the Lord; … if he then sins against the Holy Ghost and loses the Spirit of the Lord as his companion, he is left in a fit condition to be swallowed up in every form of evil and iniquity. The house that was once swept and garnished, that was once a fit habitation for the Holy Spirit of God-that house is now vacant. The Spirit of the Lord will not dwell there longer, and the spirit of evil returns-returns to a vacant house, with a force and vigor exceeding anything of the past.”1
President Spencer W. Kimball (1895-1985) has explained how this principle applies to the process of repentance:
“The devil knows where to tempt, where to put in his telling blows. He finds the vulnerable spot. Where one was weak before, he will be most easily tempted again.
“In abandoning sin one cannot merely wish for better conditions. He must make them. … He must eliminate anything which would stir the old memories.
“Does this mean that the man who has quit smoking or drinking or had sex pollutions finds life empty for a time? The things which engaged him and caught his fancy and occupied his thoughts are gone, and better substitutions have not yet filled the void. This is Satan’s opportunity. The man makes a start but may find the loss of the yesterday’s habits so great that he is enticed to return to his evil ways, and his lot thus becomes infinitely worsened. …
“Many who have discontinued bad habits have found that substitution is part of the answer, and have conquered a bad habit by replacing it with a good or harmless one.”2
True repentance, then, is not merely eliminating the negative in our lives; it also must involve replacing the negative with positive attitudes and actions.
I used voice command I apologize in advance for the typos. May The Heavenly Father continue to bless you!
~Shalom~
Love it ! Karma… That Patient Gangster! Wow! That phrase speaks volumes!!😉😄
I Broke - up with my ex Narc for 10 yrs. On April 2019, I pack my Sh** and left him with everything. All I had was $50.00 on my card, but that's ok. I felt a Relief and moved back with my parents. Now, I don't have to deal with his Narc family and his Emotional Abused. I'm now a Miss A!
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m happy you got away. Stay strong and be encouraged.🌟💖
I'm with you. I left in December to another state. I only had gas money. The only one's I feel sorry for is his children. I basically raised them but I didn't have any legal rights. Both of their parents are narcs. I pray for them daily. I am happy I left him though!! Relief!!
Good for you, God blessed you!
One thing I've learned in life is that you cannot do people wrong and expect to thrive in life. What goes around comes around in many different forms💯 I just thank God I'm free 🦋
Yup. Absolutely. You reap what you sow
Yes!! 💯💯💯
Honestly I disagree. Four years ago met two people who are both narcissist that man became my boyfriend who then dated my roar enemy ( that girl) she would bump me evrytime she saw me but she what a big group of friends and they all hated me ( I’m shy) so I never said anything. Guess who got together ? Yeap they both did. She is now a model and he is going to be a lawyer
I felt this &, that's why God keeps blessings us right in front of the ones that was sent to attack &, destroy us. The more you ignore, move on, live your life more, block them &, be more silence to them that will always get them out of character &, deep under their skin. Like they say, never argue with a fool. Because, a fool got everything solution for everything &, everyone except themselves.
They try to lie their way back and when rejected they just move on to the other ppl they been hiding from you - they do t care
Exactly always have many in jars for later
Truuu
Bingo
No more Grade A narcissist supply from
Me! Thank you Jesus!
Yeah he gave me the silent treatment after I called him out on his ish. Now he’s trying to come back. Nope, keep that same energy. #imSilentnowAndForever
That’s what I dealing with now!!
@@TheShawnteira stay strong, stay busy and move on.
I am thank you Queen you as well 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Yep mines do the silent treatment all the time
He didn't even read my text so I could know he had read it after I called him out, he pulled down the phone screen and read it thinking I would know he had read it ... smh
The narcissist just popped up...(like nothing ever happened)...I let him in for 2 seconds, just to let him see, one last time, who ain't paying him no mind. Let him see my beautiful house & how I was just chilling in my house on a Friday night...with zero worries. Then, after two seconds, I politely took his boney elbow & escorted him out. Turned my TV back up & smiled. #GotEm
Rite on ✌
Loveee this! ❤️❤️❤️
@@daniellenikole8787 Ladies, we Must Level Up...even if it's simply in our own space.
I got weak at that boney elbow comment because I’m about to do just that
@@ladybugjones76 I hope that it went well🔥
They don’t care about losing you because you were nothing but an object to be used. There was no love there.
Feeling that right now
I'm so addicted to your videos!! The energy when she gets mad is so appropriate! "BIRD!" " I SAID IT AND I MEANT IT!" Is literally what I said with my ACTIONS when he was on a third round of silent treatment in 3 weeks. He was going on another week of disappearance and silent treatment after completely Disrespecting and cussing me out and blaming his rage on me, and I told him I wasn't going to tolerate it. He finally decided to come back home after 8 days just to see half the house gone and me literally packing my things. I MOVED out of MY OWN apartment I allowed him to move into with me. I left his stuff and the puppy he tried to stick me with in an empty home and told him he had 5 days before the landlord would take over the property! Gave him no energy or conversation about it. I had to leave so he couldn't find me if he tried. We have no kids, no business. GoodBYE!
Wow!!!! True Tyler Perry movie 😢. I'm so happy for you that you found your inner strength and value. Your glow up is amazing ❤ keep pushing girl 🎉
"Karma the patient gangsta" wow I love it!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis says that’s exactly what it is. I’m happy you enjoyed the video.🌟💖
I loved that too, I’ve been sharing it with my friends
It can’t come quick enough
Karma! The patient Gangster! I like that!😆
Anyone reading this leave! This isn’t just for romantic relationships, this also included narcissist family members. You deserve better and to be at peace!
🗣Speak on it Sis!✨💖
All my family members are narcissist I don't speak to them at all it's been years...From nieces to nephews, I cleanse my hands from those wicked people
@@crystalphillip588 Same here! its a freeing feeling that is amazing. Finally able to live and not just strive. Only those who been there will understand. Sending Love. 🥰
@@crystalphillip588 I get it and I have given all my family and friends, if that’s what you wanna call them, a deadline of May 1, and I mean it. Just wanna see what it feels like to be free of all forms of a narc for years to come
@@crystalphillip588 I feel this.
I just got done talking to a narcissist 3 days ago. 1 of the most stressful, and mentally abusive things I’ve ever been though. I thought he was gonna be my 1st everything. I thank God so much I didn’t sleep with him. It was my 1st and last Most Toxic Situation-ship I every been in my life. I talked to this boy EVERY SINGLE DAY from July 26th until Feb. 23rd. 😭 I am so happy my sister sent me this video. I am healing for sure by the grace of God. Please pray for me. 💙
It's been only one month for me but the rollercoaster of emotions I've been put through felt like years. I'm done. 2 days in and forever to go💪🏽
After the narcissist left he aged 10 years.Im grade A supply.He had the nerve to try to hoover me back.."Old man I dont want you back".All I lost was a problem..Kick rocks!!!!!
ikr i told mine ( he hitting 60 looking 70)....you need viagra now u no good to me lol
Lmao! Old man, I don’t want you back! Lol!
My ex has aged in dog years
@@mskelundy512 😆
🤣
Narcissist hits his head real hard when they see they cannot manipulate you and control you. It's like fighting the hell for them, fighting their own demons, him vs him
I like this sister😂😂😂
“Karma, the patient gangsta!” LOL! I needed this one today
Yes indeed. I’m happy you enjoyed the video.✨💖
Yep
36 years of abuse! I had no idea he was a Narcissist until I started getting educated. I have been through the stages many times. But now he knows that I knows I know, he had to come clean. He plays the victim of course with the back burner, his new supply. Lol. He told me he is moving on with his life and I gave him my blessing. Just stay away from me! Good luck to the new supply because she chose to sleep with a married man.
When a narc realizes you have high self-esteem and high self-worth and you leave them, they go bonkers. They show them true colors real quick and will try to send spirutual attacks your way but you have to cut them ties and show them you not the one to be played with 😎💅🏾.
He totally underestimated me... Stronger smarter and happier than i ever was with him... Whoever he is...no one truly knows... every stranger I meet for the first time is so much Kinder more of a gentleman and know what they bring to the table. It's not a crock of Lies bulshit cheating whores p*** gambling excetera excetera excetera... would have been gone years ago but my mother became bedridden and I took care of her. I was pinned down and felt like I was in prison. She passed away December of 19. She is in glory and I am free. Finally after losing absolutely everything being evicted from my entire life. Even my pets these evil monsters are a whole sick toxic breed of Their Own. You can't save him. Save yourself
very true 💯💯
Exactly giirrll
True words amen 🙏
When the rabbit has the gun...Boom💯
"Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm." Psalm 105:15
“Sit at My right hand, Till I make Your enemies Your footstool.” Psalm 110:1 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I live by these 2 scriptures & allow the Most High to fight my battles for me.
This. 🗣🗣🗣Speak this unadulterated Word of God yes indeed!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽✨💖🎁💕
Amen these are demonized persons jezebelic narcissists... its all rebellion unto witchcraft. Repent, learn and move on. Run to the Father God. He has our true and best spouses and our best destiny all prepared for us but we must purge these parasitic devils out. Cut the UnGodly soulties off forever and be healed and delivered. There was purpose in the pain. A testimony in the test. So God allowed it. Praise God n thank Him daily. Pray n prepare for your proper mate. Trust only in the Lord. He has us covered. Stop engaging in dating n fornication with UnGodly men n this entire satanic plot fails because the standard against the devil is lifted up. The bar of love, self esteem and worthiness is too high and any disgusting, disloyal, filth bag bums cannot cross it. GET DELIVERANCE from these demonic attachments, break their evil enchantments, charms and negative holds and cycles over your life and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Live your REAL best life ever not their fakebook rubbish. People better start focusing on their eternal salvation n that the world system we are living in and this temporary illusion we are existing in is almost completely over. The Almighty Creator has all my answers His love is what I need and He will provide a man on Earth ordained to reflect His love to me in Holy Matrimony not in whoredom, casual sin, prostitution, shacking up or some back alley sex. 1 bad relationship or even a few should all be dead in the past. They were just temporary experiences. False promises and false starts to the real love on its way. Do not let these destroyers hinder our mind's view because there is a whole eternity lay before us and there is a wonderful man or lady out there for each us called to marry.
I co-create with my Father God... evil, negative n toxic people, places n things must Go. My vibes are too high for all that lowness. Those kind of people are not our kind, they are iniquitous and unrepentant evil, so therefore it wasn't meant to go well or work out properly with these contrary ones or else it would have. It was a lesson of empowerment now we must let it and them go! We must forward gratefully into our Kingdom marriages and divine destiny purposes in Jesus Mighty name.
HALLELUJAH 🤴🏿💍👰🏻AMEN
Amen!
Amen!!! Praise Him we faithfully serve... 🙏💙🙏
@@sophiachin1262 🙏
You don’t mistreat a child of the king! 🙌🏽 God said not my child and broke every chain!! Thank you God 💙🙏🏽
Amen say that Sis!!✨💖💕💕🙏🏽
Amen sister 🙏
Amen 🙏🏼
Amen, not my child!
GOD MAKES THE IMPOSSIBLE POSSIBLE! GO ON WITH YOUR BAD SELF SISTER! NOT GODS CHILDREN BABY! NOT US! 🥰😘😍
This just recently happened to me. I started doing my research early. I gave it a year. My time, money, energy, and love. But listening to your content and others, I was able to walk away guilt free and confident and unscathed.
How do you feel now?
I feel like I’m living for the first time in 17 YEARS!!! That’s a long time! Praise GOD 🔥🔥
That’s is awesome. Praise God.✨💖
GOALS!!!!!
It’s an AMAZING ✨ feeling. Blessings ♥️
Me too. I allowed that vampire to get rid of all of my friends and anything that made me happy. Now I feel so free and I'm living. She can't stand it!
💕💕💕💕💕 I'm here for you girl
Amen and Hallelujah!!
God will show you the truth and he will guide you and help you away from these devils!
He did it for me he will surely do it for you!!
I believe you! It takes true faith in God! That's where I'm at now, praying God will come through for me. God is Good, His ways are not our ways. I need to be patient and wait on the Lord. 🙏
Amen to that god did the same for me il be honest I couldn't walk away so god took me out of the situation god bless
Rebekah Lawal Amen
💪💜🙏💜💪
He did it for me!!!
I just broke up with my narcissist on our anniversary, which was Valentines day. I didn't even cry bc I am tired. 5 years and no change. I help him and his family. I was there when no one wanted to be there for him. I decided to pick me and not go back.
That’s just how it is at the end Sis when you are just sick and tired of being sick and tired. I’m happy you got away.✨💖
Stop it u left him cuz u had a backup man n u kno it
@@888job what?? N what's wrong with that? Is she not suppose to be happy??
888job... Sounds like YOU might be a narc
@@terryannechepchumba9147 having a back up is more likely to be a narc. What's wrong with it is that it is disloyal
I can personally relate to everything you just said. 20 years of abuse... The peace I've experienced since I gave him back to his mother as an early Xmas gift is priceless😌
Amen. Peace is priceless!💗💯🙏🏽
Priceless 🙏😇💜
Yes I did the same! 68 and with his mother!
I love this! I gave mine back in time for Christmas too 😂🤣😂🤣
@@Mymymissmisty 🤣😭😂
Yesss "KARMA" The Patient Gangster😂😂...The ex narc sitting somewhere sulking w/his bag of DRUGS his real Girlfriend🙄
Welcome to the Tribe. I believe every bit of it this is what they do.🌟💖
Big facts, better believe their drug use has increased.
@@bxndo5ive The ex narc needs to just say NO for his sake looking like a live episode of the walking DEAD 😵
Aint that the truth.....freaking stanking cokehead... never again
@@lolapatton5444 Dammmm! Yo Ex Too😒
He makes it seem like he's doing big things out here!
Cos they're fake
They all do! Lol it’s sad af
Couch/bed hopping from supply to supply. Using their mishaps with them to try and lure you in to help. Predators.
🤣🤣🤣
They be lying they ass off!.....
I like that..." Wash,rinse and repeat". The devil is a liar!!!--
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis that is exactly what it is. That’s their cycle.🌟💖
“You are the narcissist’s karma”…I felt that 👀👀
Tea I used to want revenge because I couldn't see the karma but now that I have my power back Its like having 7 black belts you just know from discipline what damage you can do so you leave them to destroy themselves...Karma is punishment Thank you ...🤜💥🤛
Ooohhhhh weeeeeee!!!! Yes indeed saaayyyy that. I mean it never looses and address either.🌟💖
If your blessed enough you will see their karma one day. I’ve been there happened right in my face. Your right you don’t have to do anything. But best believe if you don’t see it, don’t mean they don’t get it 😂 Stay strong sister ✊🏿
Terri that was me but know Narc would destroyed him didn’t stand a chance when went Supernova. I mirrored him back went back the time before discarded him for revenge.
Because thoughts he was thinking while talking to me thinking sleeping with him said no plus let him know. I’m a woman of God can’t be doing things dishonor me or God. They spirit of lust on him captivated me in first place during lovebombing. I’m going be wise now more because always discern people analyze theirs words while talking to me so at end put off any card love treated like was chamleon. I’m glad back to me don’t want nothing cold no empathy love people hard. Guard your hearts what God told me in first place he put platinum lovebombing anything less would stood chance.
@@hippyju7522I don’t want to see Karma just happy 😊 be the one got away staying away no contact blackout.
@@angeliquechronicles3579 Guard your heart amen sister Amen.. Thank you 🙏🙏
if you were bitten once by a narcissists you should never be bitten again & that should be an eye opener for you, watch those red flags that they pose.
Truth..
These dam women are so desperate and lonely for relationship and refuse to heal and do their inner work So they are easy prey.
One time should be enough.....but it's not for a lot of these women.
My mother is a narcissist who has brainwashed my sisters to dislike me she has groomed them since we were small kids to hate me! I also believe she is jealous too , there’s a lot of that going on! Parents being jealous of their children, fathers and mothers! I’ve seen that quite frequently!
Oh my goodness thank you have seen it in its rawest form. God bless you.✨💖
My mum is the same turned my brothers sisters every one against me then I got a bf who was a narcissist who just wud not stop cheating always playing games talking to other women I warned him I will go been a week now im away from him so far not heard from him but I know he will come back he won't ever get another me hope he realises he lost a diamond a real one
Yes this is true!
Same story as mine
Oh i feel that my sister and my mom are currently giving me the silent treatment. My mom was my first bully and my sister use to also participate in it fir her approval, after all they’ve done i taught i could have a relationship with them. Now after their last stunt im done, i dont care. Im going to therapy working in me, its hard because my dad is dead and i only have a sister& mom
The point of them discarding you is to attempt to control you and get you to chase them. I love it because I keep laughing, enjoying life and not caring, plus cut off all ways for them to contact me. They will show up at places you go to socially to be nosey because they are very jealous individuals. I don't even look in their direction.
You don’t mistreat the child of the king and get away with it 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Facts.💯💯💯
My husband is a narcissist and I’m now pregnant. He goes days without talking to me then try to talk like nothing happened. I’m done wasting my time .
My goodness Sis I’m praying for you and the baby bless you. That is some serious stress.✨💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Praying for you sis
leave his sorry ass
I've been in the same repetitive cycle for 17 years. 6 kids with the narcissist husband. Just learned last week how narcissists purposely get their supply pregnant so they can never leave. PLEASE, don't be like me. Let go or your child will get caught in the narcs cycle as well. Being pregnant is already an emotional roller-coaster, you don't need that in your life. Leave before you get too far in the cycle he wants to keep you in. He'll cheat and then make you seem like you're losing your mind, as I learned my husband was cheating and his family knew about it. He did the cheating 3 weeks after I gave birth to our last child. Please, get out while you can.
Ended the narc relationship a few days ago and his true colors came out by calling me names, blaming for everything and calling me crazy. It sucks that we have an apartment together. Both of our names are on it... I'm currently desperately looking for a new apartment to rent even if its just a room. But the rent prices these days are ridiculous so I feel stuck. I'm praying I get some good news soon.
I'm in the same predicament!!
Keep praying God will make a way.
Gm! Did u get ur peace?
They love calling you crazy 🤪
Cut off all contact and completely ignore them. Don't even react to them. Just live, laugh and enjoy other ppl in your life.
It’s been two years since I first heard this video. It came on my feed as I was driving to evict my narcissist.. no contact!! He’s been gone for two years!!!! I’m healed !!!
Happily in a 12yr relationship with with the mother of my kids. But at first when we met I was a jerk and lost her for a year and oh boy I was going crazy seeing her live her best life. Then suddenly two years later I got a 2nd chance to be with her and I made sure to never ever do her bad like I used to and I have been happy ever since. Happy wife, happy home. 💐❤️💯💯💯💯💯💯
Congratulations 🎊🍾🎉🎈 and blessings my dude🙏🏽 I’m currently in repair trying to reconstruct a foundation with the “one who got away” because I knew better but I was a d**n fool
@@Maestro4Mayor that's wassup bro, you repairing your relationship with your partner that got away will reap rewards of everlasting love. Your efforts and patience will pay off because you are showing your partner you really want to do this.
@@bighomiehydro1422 Thank you for the encouragement my dude I appreciate that🙏🏽 My whole heart is in love with this woman’s every being and I just need her back in my world gracing me.
Amen
Thank you for realising your faults it goes a long way
I appreciate that bad relationship now because I had to be pulled away from my faith and God in order for me to have a deeper realization of how much more I need God in my life. I’ve always believed in God, but never put the work into knowing his word and because of the amount of pain I had from my previous, bad narcissistic relationships; it pushed me into God’s arms and finding comfort in God.
Yes Celia!!! Same here lady!!! I knew he was teaching me and calling me home and protecting me! You're words are exactly how I feel and what I know as well. Wow 👏🙏
Amen sis 🌸 same
Incredibly accurate
I had this same experience. It pulled me far away from God just to bring me closer.
I relate to this so much
Praise the lord for giving me the eyes too see and cut off this evil spirit, 3 years of lies, déception and fear wrapped up as love, but started praying so deep with my broken heart that father saved me and give me the strength for walking away and heal myself, god bless you all 🙏
Amen to that!!🙏🏾
Wow only 3 months for me to figure this devil out I cannot image 3 years
Try 10 (yrs) Sad but true. Wanting 2 seek the best of an individual
Yes God is so good🙌🏽❤️ I thank him so much for freeing me from that bondage....
I’ve been praying to release my narcissistic!! This helped me understand it’s not me it’s him.
Hope you are healing and in a better place now. 🙌🏽
I still can’t get my head around this even tho everyone has told me even his own family.. yet I still feel so down about myself
Yes he thought I didn’t know that he was still cheating and out there with that burn bird but I knew all along but it was OK because I had something else in store for him getting away from him divorcing him with the best thing I ever did
I had to get a protective order because he would not leave me alone! I blocked him on everything and he would call from different phone numbers. Like wat a loser.. He just couldn’t stop stalking until authorities got involved. But I’m gone for good I’ve moved on. It’s just pathetic cause I broke up with him even years later he just couldn’t wrap his head around the fact that I was really gone. Like boy bye I have a whole new Man, and a real one. Bloop!
That 🍑 must have been 🔥
You're so right. The most painful discard came just as I had a big crisis in my life. I'm still reeling from this. And I was absolutely his Grade A supply. They never know what they've lost until it's gone!
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you Sis this abuse can take us to some low places. It’s the truth they really don’t know that’s the truth Sis.🌟💖
Same here, I had just lost my job, was depressed and he left me when I needed him most, to be with his nasty drug addict coworker 10 years younger. Oh well, one day he will realize what he lost.
They always bolt when you have needs.. A pattern like the lies and cheating.. Addictions... It is there loss... Doubt Not
Same here, at the worst time of my life he up and left, because although it was the worst time, I called him out on his deception anyway. I was ready to go through it and get it all over with Pronto, because I couldn't deal with that too. No more. I had enough. Still healing and probably won't get in another relationship because what God wants, I don't think exists on this earth anymore 😕. Staying single and putting myself first, which I have never done and is challenging, but needed. Makes me realize where I went wrong really. I'll always be able to spot a 🐍now. They expose themselves early. Pay attention to your intuition.
Amen! His mom cried for 2 days and still contacted me until I unfriended all social media with his Friends and familys. I also changed my phone number too. Everyone knows I was grade A. His loss. I'm soooo happy I lefted and going ghost. Ssh, I'm going away like I died, like I don't exist anymore. I'm currently working on not being on any social media for what how long it takes for me to heal and until I want to be seen, lol. Best thing is to leave and go dead, lol. I'm working out again and working on myself more. I'm happier now. Its been about 6 weeks. It's getting better by the day.
You had me at “ You’re probably Grade A supply!” - YES 🙌🏽
12 years married to one he told me to my face that he didn’t want to be married to me anymore and he is going to spend his life with the 3rd party. He divorced me is September 2020 and now He wants to get back with me. I told he if you don’t get your narcissistic, egotistical, prideful, devil self outta here.....I AM FREEEEEE✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you you are one strong soul 12 years with that bird. I know you have stories for days. Thank God for the discard.🌟💖
Indeed!
AMEN
Can you give me some advice my wife for 4yrs decided she wanted to get a divorce took my ring while driving we were in vehicle and threw it out the window, heart broke, next 3 months no speech from her I slept in the laundry room studio music area, no cooking total cut me off her door closed I finally moved out gave her the house she emailed me about wifi password, and if I want my taxes done 😃 whatttt really sounds like Nar action to me.
The discard is okay with me because I'm tired. His words over the years have told me how he feels about me.
Thank you for sharing you knowledge.
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True 👍 and he continued to tell me he loved me and his words and actions were always different...yup he had to get the eff away from me
His actions or lack of them show you more.
Actions lol I was so over him like dude Go away u keep trying to stay around
Seriously though! He contemplated on discarding me for a whole ass week and wanted to prolong the process even longer! He started doing whatever he wanted and I caught him in a lie and left him! Blessing disguise because I swear I wanted the relationship to end so badly anyways! I was tired as hell!
Yea after 5 yrs I realized that was not a relationship AT ALL. I my wasted time and energy on a person who was an actor. I had no business being with him from the beginning. You live and learn and I thank God for rescuing me.
"You ARE the narcisstist's karma." 👐 exactly what I needed to hear! I NEVER thought of it that way...spot on and right. Now to sit back and watch. You reap what ya sow!
Welcome to the Tribe. Absolutely!🌟💖
Amen 🙏
I needed to hear this. This is my relationshit. I was 320lbs now 160lbs with a great job holding down my fort. He constantly tried to break me because he was intimidated by my potential. Go do inventory in his apartment. I bought 95% of everything in there including the specific toilet seat he just had to have. It's been a week since I told him bye and fighting to stay away from his manipulation.
🗣🗣🗣Speak on it!!
Way to go 👏 🙌 👍 💪 so u bought everything nhis apartment do yall stay n a separate household now ? If you bought everything did you let me have everything u paid for
@@jadesulton8700 I did. I let him keep everything. I currently have my own apartment and purchased all my stuff but most of all I have peace of mind now.
Stay strong
Oooohhh God!!! You said everything I feel. I nought my own car and he had the nerve to give our old car to a friend and it was valued at 10,000 and then he drives mine and wrecked it. 🙃
Just a few weeks ago he reached out to me trying to comeback , I told him no , a day later people coming to me telling me he posted a picture with a girl who used to be my bf , how sway all I could do was laugh , he lost a real one I was grade a supply , ten years in a hellship !!
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh my goodness. These birds are always up to something. Bless you 10 years you need an award. I’m so happy you got away.🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I’m happy I got away to , that was my reward !!
You hit The Bullseye with "taking care" of them. It's so true. Even when you try to explain you got your own responsibilities, they "hear" but they don't "listen" and make you feel like they are a burden when they ask you because they have nobody else but they don't try to change for the better. They are the biggest liars and fraudsters in the world;.
“Like they snatched the rug from under you.!!!” Yeessss it sure did!! And Yah(God) showed up last minute and saved me!!!
@@Mea_Culpa1 I pray a safe recovery for you.🤍🥺
I walk on eggshells on a daily. Hate it, he's such an abusive liar.
Facts.✨💖
Leave him
GET OUT ‼️💯
If you can, collect evidence (for your protection) no matter how small. It will help you in the end. Every text, every pic, everything you caught them in. Dnt let them know. If you can, move like a ninja. Brush up on ur acting skills, but dnt lose urself. Only do this when u really ready to leave. Cause it's hard. Cause you are trauma bonded.
@@hotttapeppa totally true so glad I got out
Man this was a WORD lol everything was right on point. From the family lying, covering up stuff for her, to her son reaching out saying he miss me around. Had got to the point where I blocked the whole family. Let me heal in peace. People have to cherish you while they have you around.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Yes this is how these families operate completely dysfunctional. Be encouraged and be strengthened.🌟💖
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Hit it spot on!!
Whew... 🙌🏾
I love It when u say I said it and i mean it!
Another accurate video sis. I left my narc over a year ago because he got someone pregnant. I felt so insignificant because after he got caught he never attempted to make amends or even have a conversation with me. He continued on in the other relationship. I assumed he was happy and often envied him because I took time to heal and he already had someone else. Then my social media started getting stalked. I started hearing through the grapevine that he was hacing sex with every woman he could find, that he was verbally abusing his new baby momma. Then I heard someone else was accusing him of rape. All of this made me question the original belief I had of him living a happy life. Then someone pointed out to me how his life took a different direction once I departed and how he's currently operating out of pain. Your video was definitely confirmation.
I am a 53 year old lady, been with this bird since I was 16. Oh my dear God the bizarre things I have been through with this “ Bird”. Over the years, Is beyond comprehension! This man is a complete nut, full blown narc. A hell bent demon! Along with his family, they’re crazy as hell... I’m finally able to get out of this mess. Thanking God for it.
i met mine at 17...I broke it off when he went to prison, he married the supply while incarcerated..now 30 yrs later he hoovering, sending phone tracking apps to my cell??
@@peacefaith560 what that means
The one thing I always noticed when people effed up they come after yours don't let everybody in your space learning who you are and don't change when they're not going nowhere with their life they usually want to try to control yours I never had anyone that I allow to control me I know how to make good choices it don't take long relationships to figure it out ask the right questions and pay attention to his actions if you've made plans don't let him change them you waste too much time trying make something work when it's not Let Let It Go and don't look back
Same situation glad to be free
Lmao your comment have cracking the up !
I swear you spot on I went to the same thing with my ex wife of 13 years. Its as if you knew us from the neighborhood 🤣🤣. I survived and met a real WOMAN who show me narc videos and been abused too. Now we love all that pain we endured away from each other EVERYDAY. YOU CAN AND WILL GET PAST THEIR ABUSE IM LIVING PROOF. PRAISE GOD I AM!!!!
Thats amazing, praise God.
Thx you!
Amen!!
Your statement that a Narcissist doesn't live in reality is so true. I've been mentioning that the Narcissist that I know actually lives in the future, before the future even comes.
13:31 after you said when the narcissist is alone after losing a real one like you, their mind is 'tormented', you can see an orb fly near your head. This message is powerful. It's for me. Wow. I receive it.
I'M SO AGREEING WITH YOUR COMMENT. I JUST LEFT MY NARC EX LAST WEEK. AFTER THE FIRST NIGHT I LEFT HIM, I SAW A SHOOTING STAR, THE NIGHT AFTER THAT, I SAW ANOTHER ONE AND IT JUST MADE ME HAVE A GOOD FEELING. IT'S IRONIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN A SHOOTING STAR IN ALMOST FIFTEEN YEARS. BUT I MADE SURE TO MAKE MY WISHES🤗
When? She said it alot. I wanna see. She said she giving us a revelation. Shes speaking facts
Her words were extremely powerful at this time stamp. Thank you
That was a bug 🤭
Same here auntie is spitting bars
Brought me to tears sis , I needed this the healing is real......
God bless you my Sister I’m happy you enjoyed the message.✨💖💕💕💯
Me too
I just found you sis. Sending you Ethiopian love ❤ from Montreal . Mmmwaàhhh. Thank you darling 😘
You got this! Sending you prayers 🙏 .. I’m going through my healing now. It’s a blessing to be out. 💯
Fasting (detoxing) is not only from food but from ppl too, stay away from them , block them their friends and family, change your number, seek positive counseling, remember the story in the Bible what happened to Lott’s wife when she looked back at sodom and Gomorrah , don’t go back , don’t look back, look up and move forward. Be strong in the Lord and in the power of HIS might
You said everything that I been thru with this person. I never wanted anything in return but his audacity was just out of control. They feel entitled to have access to you and once they realize they don’t have you anymore they start showing fake love
I love this I really need to hear this ❤️🥰
This message is power full!! Big respect for that woman!! You will be REWARDED!!!
“Wash, rinse, and repeat!” Well that explains why he is only consistent with doing his laundry every week.
Him too? 😂
Oh my for real every Sunday
Yesssss he would go to laundromat at 5am to religiously wash his spicey a&% clothes every week. He tried to get me to join in on his reindeer games but I declined.
This comment 🙌😂🤣🤣🤣 every week same day . Same time.
Trying to wash all the uncleanliness from the soul. Because they are dirty and feel dirty
Every time she says “that bird over there.” 🤣
Lol! I’m happy you enjoyed the video and got a great laugh.✨💖🤣🤣
GIRRRRL I SCREAMED EVERY TIME SHE SAID IT!!!!!!
She’s gorgeous! She spilled the damn tea! They lost a good one! That Narc insulted me ONCE, no apology, no remorse. HELL NO, I was DONE! And that was the FIRST conversation. If we had ‘dated’ it would of got WORSE! BLOCK DELETE!
Welcome to the Tribe. Siiiissss!!! Yes I mean these Narcs gots to go! I’m spilling all the tea on these birds. I’m happy you enjoyed the video.🌟💖
Whew you’re speaking it right now.