'90 Day Fiancé’s Sheila Admits She’s Embarrassed to Ask David For Money (Exclusive)

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  • @DoItWithThema
    @DoItWithThema ปีที่แล้ว +847

    For people who think she's after his money, don't you think she would've been gotten hefty amount of money from him prior? TLC needs to pay for the house since them and their heavy equipment went up the stairs that was already feeble to begin with and the poor mother dropped straight through. Somebody need to at least help her and the family. We've seen bad conditions before but this is probably one of the worst

    • @Steven-tl8fs
      @Steven-tl8fs ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lol you saying tlc killed her monther!? Get real dude.

    • @DoItWithThema
      @DoItWithThema ปีที่แล้ว +234

      @@Steven-tl8fs I am saying, with all their equipment and the amount of people they have following around these folks, their heavyweight contributed to the further deterioration of the already feeble wood. Comprehension is truly not this hard you know. It would not be this hard for them to contribute to an already issue. If I wanted to say TLC killed her mother, I would’ve said that

    • @mid_century_me
      @mid_century_me ปีที่แล้ว +141

      I had the same thoughts. The house is in really bad shape. All those people and their cameras being in there, it's not hard to imagine that it could possibly cause damage.

    • @tinasepulveda1895
      @tinasepulveda1895 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Agree with you

    • @neeren777
      @neeren777 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@Steven-tl8fsobviously TLC did not purposefully killed her mother, that would be crazy to suggest, it was just an awful condition and circumstance that no one would ever imagine. TLC might have just sped up what was going to happen sooner or later and her mom was sadly unlucky

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld ปีที่แล้ว +391

    She seems geniune. She didn't misrepresent herself and catfish him. She didn't seem to ask for help for her family or her son. She needs help and David also seems hardworking. They have to work together to make it work. I will say this is one of the most real couples on 90 day Finance i've seen in a minute. I really like them!!

    • @thepusherwoman
      @thepusherwoman ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree with you too. I just feel like TLC is making unnecessary drama and exploiting this wholesome couple. The sex life details? TLC could've left that out given that both have some sort of language barriers. Sheila being jealous of David's interpreter? I think it's very natural that someone gets insecure only because she wishes she could've communicated with him better. I'm giving this couple a chance.

    • @julief2830
      @julief2830 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she genuinely needs help. If she were a gold digger, she would be living better. Like Pedro's mom/sister. When they were first on the show, they didn't have a lot but had better conditions than Sheila. The more Pedro was on the show, the nicer they looked every time you saw them. They wanted the $$ and that puzzles me because his mom is a so called lawyer.

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The most likable so far by a country mile!

    • @asabovesobelow7981
      @asabovesobelow7981 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DesertBluebells I concur!!

    • @loredanadincu4300
      @loredanadincu4300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@julief2830Both she and David admitted he sent her money before he got there. She asked for money. How much she got or how much he was able to send her , they didn't said exactly. But she recognized in the early episodes that he sent her money.

  • @csong9940
    @csong9940 ปีที่แล้ว +927

    I think this couple is genuine and that Sheila is not a gold digger. David seems like a good guy too. I hope they work out.

    • @SeminarioMAE
      @SeminarioMAE ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She literally asks for money, how is she not a gold digger?

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@SeminarioMAE Because she only asks for necessities, not luxurious items... Compare her to what Jasmine asks from Gino.

    • @jamesberry7827
      @jamesberry7827 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@azazello1784 She poor with no job of course she wants his money lol but i don't blame her she has to do what she has to do

    • @MelaniaRose
      @MelaniaRose ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@hi-qw5py The Phillipines is not conservative and it’s very hypersexual. Look at the out of wedlock children and sex work rife in the country.

    • @MelaniaRose
      @MelaniaRose ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She’s not a gold digger but she doesn’t work and lives in poverty. Asking for money is gold digging.

  • @ImaPeach
    @ImaPeach ปีที่แล้ว +261

    This is the only couple this season that I think is genuinely loving and respectful to each other. I hope they make it.

    • @mikeyteladoo5230
      @mikeyteladoo5230 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel like this is a genuine loving couple struggling and the first I've seen in a while on 90dag

    • @zythr9999
      @zythr9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stanika and Nouradenne(?)

  • @cristina4449-t9h
    @cristina4449-t9h ปีที่แล้ว +323

    I hope shiela will be able to learn david's language. Little by little is ok, so long as they will be able to understand each other more even without the help or presence of the interpreter.

    • @davicool4284
      @davicool4284 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I like looking at the interpreter

    • @lavernelesznik6750
      @lavernelesznik6750 ปีที่แล้ว

      So typical. Always trying to scam American men to give them money . Find an American woman

    • @jacquiandp-dog7755
      @jacquiandp-dog7755 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They communicated through video chat for years, but now they require an interpretor? That is strange.

    • @revinaque1342
      @revinaque1342 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@jacquiandp-dog7755I think they used text chat, not video chat

    • @babygurll7
      @babygurll7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They seemed to be communicating fine the first few days and then all of a sudden she required a translator, not sure why that is

  • @preyn49
    @preyn49 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Sheila needs help. It's not a matter of what her motivation is. He's in a relationship with her for the purpose of marrying her and she needs help. If he doubts then perhaps he needs to decide if she is the person for him. I say help her anyway because she needs it.

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree with you 100%
      She seems very genuine and sincere. And like someone said she is not asking for luxuries. When I saw Annie (from Thailand) and David I thought she was in for the wrong reasons, but she proved me wrong. And I think Sheila is the same.

    • @gatestimonymiracle1302
      @gatestimonymiracle1302 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes he purposely chooses a women who will need him

    • @vellabella1
      @vellabella1 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​​@@gatestimonymiracle1302Agreed, the reason why many, many men chose the Phillipines. He would not be refused and even have many options. It is because of poverty and dire financial desperation.

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@vellabella1 I don’t know if ALL of these men are thinking that these women’s poverty will work to their advantage. I do think they’re just going where they feel wanted. These men are desperate too.

    • @loredanadincu4300
      @loredanadincu4300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He doesn't have to do anything if they broke up. He helped her brother he got there . She even said that in the earlier episodes that he sent her money before to help her. She didn't said how much but she said he was already helping her and her family by sending money.

  • @This_handle_is_tak3n
    @This_handle_is_tak3n ปีที่แล้ว +222

    The interpreter is trying her best but I don’t think she is getting across the exact sentiments. Tough situation for them; hope they will make it through!

    • @kishahelena5312
      @kishahelena5312 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      you can't trust the words on screen either, direct word translation are always that good even networks with bigger budgets get them wrong. It was throwing me off, but my guess is her translation was closer than the words on screen. But I could be wrong, but people a have said, that captions aren't always good translations for this show.

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Whoever translated what Sheila is saying to english for TLC is a really professional. The translator in Philippines is not as competent. Yes she is translating the essential ideias of the conversation but in this situations is very critical what words are used and the way things are expressed and she is not doing a very good job....

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kishahelena5312yes it can also be the case. Based on her behavior and tone of voice I kind of feel that the translation os screen is more accurate... 🤷‍♀️

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's Exactly what I was saying, Why isn't She Translating Word For Word??? Maybe Because She Said She learned ASL in a Month and An ASL Teacher Commented band Said that's BS. I Think She Doesn't know it as Well as She Says. They need a better One!!

    • @anonymousanon9056
      @anonymousanon9056 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@SimonesanderssI thought so too. Why can't she just say exactly what he is signing to her. Instead of interpreting her own perspective or understanding. The context of her understanding is not exactly genuine

  • @indiamitchell9833
    @indiamitchell9833 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    The problem is that when they are on the phone they have a fantasy relationship. When they are together in person it becomes real. Especially losing her mother while he was there, so sad.

    • @veronicaguyader9997
      @veronicaguyader9997 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Its only a fantasy depending on what tge people put out. Not all long distance and global couples live in fantasy. Some are genuine and are fully real about their lives. My parents were thay way, so was I

    • @ROCEMPOWERMENT
      @ROCEMPOWERMENT ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯👍

    • @burnerbaby26
      @burnerbaby26 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was extremely hard to watch and I kind of wish it wasn’t on TV. My heart was absolutely breaking.

  • @bethyu2715
    @bethyu2715 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I speak Tagalog and the translator is not translating correctly or completely. For example, he is asking “you seem upset” and her translation is “how are you feeling”?

    • @Dirk-Diggler77
      @Dirk-Diggler77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought this to. Maybe she was trying to see if she was upset but I feel don’t try and second guess. Just translate what was said verbatim unless they are speaking to you to express a view.

  • @Blobbyrob54
    @Blobbyrob54 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I don’t think the interpreter is doing a good job of portraying Sheila’s embarrassment of asking for more money

    • @Lizbeth7799
      @Lizbeth7799 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I thought the same!.. but I feel David is perceptive enough to undesirable how she feels

    • @LittleCatLisa
      @LittleCatLisa ปีที่แล้ว +11

      yeah, it's a bit frustrating to watch, she's obviously doing her best but she's not really getting their feelings and emotions across well

    • @camillechavez998
      @camillechavez998 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought the same. She made it sounds like she is upset and that she is forcing him to help her when she is not. She interprets what she said in a completely different context.

  • @curry1263
    @curry1263 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    People think she is after his cash, but are they serious? They just showed that her mother died because OF THE HOUSE and its poor state. It's a valid concern and if she is leaving her family behind to be with him, then they have an obligation as a couple to make sure her family is safe before that make that decision to move forward.

    • @sookie4195
      @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If she gets a K1 visa her 12 year old son will surely follow. I seriously doubt that she will leave her elderly father alone. I don’t think she would come to the states now that her mother is dead.

    • @talkback6094
      @talkback6094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sookie4195 or she wil leave her son behind? when her mom died,she went to the hotel,with this gloomy looking man and left behind her son!
      this woman need have dignity and shame,leave this man if he has non $$ and go arrange her life

    • @ceehaychh
      @ceehaychh ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@talkback6094She won’t leave her son behind. This is Sheila, not Jasmine. Sheila grew up in poverty and poor conditions and these people are always more humble and kind.
      You are not talking from experience but pure one sided judgement

    • @jacquiandp-dog7755
      @jacquiandp-dog7755 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes i agree!

    • @josierosie100
      @josierosie100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sookie4195she should take father with her…these cultures always support their families (not a bad thing) however if they’re not contributing it’s quite difficult for new spouse to have to look after another family in a different country…

  • @blondiee4017
    @blondiee4017 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This translator is missing all the key points

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 she really is doing a sh*t job. They probably would be better off with some random translation app!!!

  • @TedieZumochachki
    @TedieZumochachki ปีที่แล้ว +86

    TLC should start a fundraiser or something for Shelia’s home condition I’m sure fans of the show would love to help her out.

  • @JeepForFun
    @JeepForFun ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I really like Sheila. She’s very sweet and humble. And I hope they make it, because they work together with everything.

    • @froggylegspeople
      @froggylegspeople ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish they would have another interpreter

  • @lookyloo5875
    @lookyloo5875 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The least TLC can do is fix this home. You pray on these poor people and put them out there.

  • @QueenMel_
    @QueenMel_ ปีที่แล้ว +55

    this is a couple i definitely like! they both seem sweet & genuine ❤

  • @paulaquino2759
    @paulaquino2759 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Shiela is not a golddigger.
    Her poverty and destitution is real.
    I believe Sheila and her family are grateful for any assistance David can provide.
    I hope this works out for both of them.

  • @magdasanon5469
    @magdasanon5469 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tlc messed up the stairs with those heavy equipment and all the crew fixed the place for her as humanitarian should

  • @skontheroad
    @skontheroad ปีที่แล้ว +58

    TLC should chip in if not pay for all of it! They were partially to blame for the accident with the constant up and down on the stairs with heavy camera equipment!
    Hopefully someone mentions this to them!

    • @historyloveriii2949
      @historyloveriii2949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one cares about the Philippines!

    • @paulwehrlesr4825
      @paulwehrlesr4825 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re right on point 💯

    • @lisykawaii
      @lisykawaii ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes exactly what you said and how we can point this out to TLC ?

    • @miryamamar9471
      @miryamamar9471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TLC probably views the Filippinos as disposable.

    • @PurposelyObtuse
      @PurposelyObtuse ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No they shouldn’t. They should let her see exactly who David is. He is only a man that’s come to take from her without even making sure her basic needs are provided. She shouldn’t have to convince him she’s not after his money. He should be convincing her he just isn’t there to use her.

  • @shannonwilliams773
    @shannonwilliams773 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The translator was making me a little mad lol like girl that’s not what she said 😂

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

    • @gigibo4865
      @gigibo4865 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. I’m filipino she’s giving a different meaning to it

    • @adriasorensen2249
      @adriasorensen2249 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right? Translator being so catty to early and bragging about how it took her 2 months to learn asl. Interprets what Sheila says poorly by twisting the message to make shiela look bad. I'm not happy with the interpreter and feel bad that shiela has to deal with being around this interpreter on top of her mom's death.

  • @isaidwhatisaidsis
    @isaidwhatisaidsis ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don't be because he's not afraid to ask you for a**

  • @jazzjazzy5063
    @jazzjazzy5063 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She’s definitely using him for money she’s living in extreme poverty and does need help. But she also seems like someone who would appreciate it and actually try to build a solid relationship.

  • @guttenaug947
    @guttenaug947 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    TLC is making millions off this show, they can’t help her build a home for Pennies there? Please this is straight up exploitation and free labor.

  • @awesomemaria69
    @awesomemaria69 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The translator is not translating right

  • @Cindy-vl7xj
    @Cindy-vl7xj ปีที่แล้ว +98

    TLC gotta do a fund raising for Sheila so we can help her as we can

    • @afroforeskin
      @afroforeskin ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@ladywed2699Who hurt you?

    • @habibahmad6658
      @habibahmad6658 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You wouldn’t give a dollar stop the 🧢

    • @TheMariemarie16
      @TheMariemarie16 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh she does not work? I did not know this. What has been her reason for not working? Is it confirmed that Sheila does not work?

    • @Curious_KJ
      @Curious_KJ ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@TheMariemarie16 She said in the video she doesn't work. She lives in the Philippines where jobs are not always as easy to find as in the USA and even the jobs that are available are very low paying. Plus she has (had) two elderly parents and a 12 year old son she has been taking care of. Him giving her money won't help her find a job, and she still has her dad and son that need at least some care from her. It's not like she can afford a caretaker while she is working. Maybe if her son was a little older he could look after himself and her dad, but that isn't the case right now. I feel for her, she is in a rough situation.

    • @TheMariemarie16
      @TheMariemarie16 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Curious_KJ Yes I understand the nature of getting a job in the Philippines but her parents were mostly self sufficient as far as staying home by themselves during the day. They weren't infirm, just poor and older as far as I could tell.
      Her son is 12. Many people go to work with much younger children. I don't want to judge her not knowing the intimate specifics of her reasons and work history but I would do almost anything other than literally selling my body on the street rather than life destitute without working and if it meant my child not dying of starvation then I would even remove that final barrier in order to get money. Everyone is different so I dunno.
      It depends what you are willing to do but there are some jobs in the Philippines.

  • @safaa9654
    @safaa9654 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It seems to me like she doesnt want to work

    • @tamramkhel4806
      @tamramkhel4806 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      it may seem so but the reality is in some countries its extremely difficult to find work. She said she was working before the pandemic. Sometimes people wait years before landing a simple job

    • @kevoncox
      @kevoncox ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@tamramkhel4806 People think everywhere is like America. That's why all the Americans are shocked when they see how others live.

    • @Curious_KJ
      @Curious_KJ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tamramkhel4806 Plus a 12 year old kid and elderly father that need at the very least some care.

    • @yanzulyfx9887
      @yanzulyfx9887 ปีที่แล้ว

      She needs to date older guys. Young men don't help.

    • @kerstin_eryel
      @kerstin_eryel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kevoncox Exactly. For people outside America, it's a huge culture shock when they find out that Americans with little to no credentials can get at least a job in retail. It's the opposite in the Philippines. You need at least a high school diploma or finished sophomore year in college to get a low paying job in a fastfood joint or in the mall. If all else fails, you use your connections.

  • @MsIsrael48
    @MsIsrael48 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Much cheaper to simply rent a simple apartment in Phillipines which can be as cheap as $200/month rather than try to re-build a slum apartment. Surely David can afford $200/month for simple apartment.

    • @findpurpose6300
      @findpurpose6300 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah but her father needs a place also when she leaves. That's probably the reason she wants the home fixed.

    • @boosqueezy2418
      @boosqueezy2418 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      $200 a month? costs more than that to park my car

    • @sookie4195
      @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@findpurpose6300 I don’t think she will leave her dad and her little boy alone now that her mother is gone.

    • @MsIsrael48
      @MsIsrael48 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@findpurpose6300 They can get a 2 bedroom apartment

    • @MsIsrael48
      @MsIsrael48 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sookie4195 They can get a 2 bedroom apartment and have dad and boy live with her.

  • @nataliem2494
    @nataliem2494 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm impressed with the translator listening and translating simultaneously into English and ASL. Doing this and being around a couple for hours a day would be interesting, as she gets to try to help them navigate the communication barriers. Having a translator creates a different dynamic then using a translating device; it's interesting.
    Of course, things get lost in translation either way

  • @meelarno
    @meelarno ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hhai no🤦🏽‍♂️, the interpreter seems to be making things worse with her somewhat inaccurate translation, both ways.

    • @maric6451
      @maric6451 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not a very good interpreter

    • @meelarno
      @meelarno ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@maric6451 true🤞

  • @sookie4195
    @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I’m not sure where she has gotten money for her and her family to survive if she wasn’t working. Hopefully she can find a job. I was wondering who was going to pay for the funeral? David is a big guy and went up the steps and so did TLC. TLC needs to step in and help. David and Sheila both get paid to be on this show. I really don’t think that house is worth fixing. Sheila has skills on the phone and a lot of customer service representatives are from that area now. I talked to one young lady, and could hear a rooster in the background.

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah Unfortunately Only the American Person gets paid, But Of Course if they are a good decent person no matter what happens they Should Share it with the Foreign person

    • @MelodyEspinoza-v1y
      @MelodyEspinoza-v1y ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dave was sending her money

    • @tabbyc3970
      @tabbyc3970 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I also believe they broke that house with those heavy cameras!

    • @mainelypinay3962
      @mainelypinay3962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a Filipino so I know this. Basing on the coffin of Sheila's mother looks like it was provided by the government. In the Philippines very low income families are illegible to seek help in their local government if they can not afford funeral expenses, government may supply them with very cheap coffin, like what Sheila's mom is in. Then we have a concept of "bayanihan" this means in the neighborhood your live in people start fundraising to help out neighbors in time of needs. Like unexpected funeral service. Relatives and family also send money to help out for the rest of funeral expenses, sometimes gambling is promoted during the funeral vigil to raise fund for the family.

    • @sookie4195
      @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mainelypinay3962Thank you.

  • @MamiTT237
    @MamiTT237 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Girl! Stop! He had enough money to drag his ass over there! And I bet he ain’t embarrassed to ask for some 🐱!!! Deaf OR NOT! A man is a man! And closed mouths don’t get fed!!! Your 🐱is sacred, money comes and goes honey!

  • @musingwanderer2765
    @musingwanderer2765 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is such a hard conversation with so many emotions through the screen. I really can feel Sheila is embarrassed to ask for help and has a lot of pride. David is also very hesitant to help, perhaps due to his own finance limitation or doubts about Sheila. This is just tough and I feel their rs won’t survive cos Shiela may really need someone who can help more.

  • @mandlas.4305
    @mandlas.4305 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This translator can be corrupt. She's not translating exactly what David says or asks sometimes.

  • @leigh7507
    @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why dont they just text each other if she doesnt speak deaf people language? They can both write.

  • @countrygirlxo7188
    @countrygirlxo7188 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s different when you WANT money vs NEEDING money. She’s at a low point in her life right now and she’s hoping he will be a rock for her. She just better remember and appreciate his sacrifices he’s making for her and not leave him later on.

  • @Patty5825
    @Patty5825 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sheila just assumed that David would financially assist with home repairs. At the beginning, I didn't think she saw anything, but love for David; now, I'm not so sure. She's making him feel obligated to help her. I'm not understanding why she can't get a job. Any job will do for now.

    • @Kalamolng
      @Kalamolng ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the 3rd world. Jobs are usually handed via recommendation especially meanial jobs.

    • @PurposelyObtuse
      @PurposelyObtuse ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, this is shocking. Who searches for a womb with extreme poverty and doesn’t provide her necessities? David needs to find someone else. He isn’t an asset even for her basic needs, shelter.

    • @Patty5825
      @Patty5825 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PurposelyObtuse That's not his responsibility. She's no asset to him either. She has a child to provide for; why isn't she working, instead of looking for a man to take care of her? She's irresponsible! That house has been dilapidated for many years; her mother's accident isn't anyone's fault, but their own. Anyone could have fallen, including her son.

  • @Jinx4you
    @Jinx4you ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i actually like this couple and i hope they make it

  • @joan92763
    @joan92763 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They need a male interpreter. The one they have now is twisting the words. I don’t trust her.

  • @tu41358
    @tu41358 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sheila really needs to work, David is not stupid at all. My god, she does not have a job, and she cannot have time to learn his language to save some money on the translator?, she is not taking care of David's money

  • @biancajade728
    @biancajade728 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Considering tlc were likely the ones who weakened the stairs more with their weight they should be paying for it. Her mom just died , so it's not her being lazy and why she is upset . If some fat people broke your stairs killing your mom and did not offer to pay and were filming this and not paying you , sure you would be ticked off too. People are sure fast to call her a golddigger but look past this explotive crap coming from America. Should watch the Cost of Fashion.

  • @linthoi6456
    @linthoi6456 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The translator is leaving some details out !! Shiela seems to be too embarrassed to meet David’s eyes when she asked for the money !!

  • @hanzdoingthings847
    @hanzdoingthings847 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There are little nuances that the interpreter missed, and while I know it would have been way harder without her .. I do think it's important to not skip over, or add your own words, to some of the things that are being said. I wish them luck!

  • @caribbeanteacher4810
    @caribbeanteacher4810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why then did u sleep with her if u have your doubts? Now shè needs your help sir, fix 1 room at a time.

  • @px2387
    @px2387 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Camera crew shud help her after her mum pass n they all up in there with the cameras yooo

  • @UserName-iq7uu
    @UserName-iq7uu ปีที่แล้ว +29

    If he has 2 jobs, then she should get 1 🤨

    • @rachelflower8826
      @rachelflower8826 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree! Does anybody know why she doesn't have a job? I'm just curious.

    • @im.vanessa.santos
      @im.vanessa.santos ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In countries like Philippines, there are more job seekers than jobs available. That's why many who have jobs are underemployed. For instance, to be a cashier in a clothing store, one has to be an accountant. Those bank tellers are also either Certified Public Accountant or at least accounting graduates. Cashiers and sales ladies in malls have to be college graduates too. Most jobs have age requirement of late 20s or early 30s because they consider that people at this age range are less likely to get sick and miss work. Many companies also prefer hiring singles without kids because of lesser likelihood again to miss work when child gets sick or other stuff. It's very competitive and has fewer opportunities, unlike here in the U.S. where there are job opportunities for anyone.

  • @MichelleLeon-m8o
    @MichelleLeon-m8o ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is such a good caring understanding man

  • @ifykyehh9500
    @ifykyehh9500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So is she getting a job after he sends her the money to help her?? She didn’t answer that lol

  • @rafaelrotellini7141
    @rafaelrotellini7141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why no help that women?? Is just 1000 us dollars

  • @evaivvy2950
    @evaivvy2950 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What money? He said he got no money.

  • @saradostal3076
    @saradostal3076 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    After listening to the sign language translator, I'm lost for words. She bumbled what was really said, and also i blame TLC for what looks like it sounds like a poor attempt at an edit to give viewers the wrong impression of them.

  • @madpharmtech
    @madpharmtech ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It would be nice if Sheila would try signing along with the translator to help her learn.

  • @lauren4078
    @lauren4078 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Sheila needs to make efforts to contribute also. David is willing to help, so she needs to be willing to do her part as well.

    • @Nono38-jj1tk
      @Nono38-jj1tk ปีที่แล้ว +4

      After he and the heavy film crew walked up and down the stairs, the staircase loosened and the mother is now deceased. The least he can do is help her fix the home. She had a job before they kept large giant corporations and str1p clu bs open but wouldn't allow any one else to work. She should find a non dusty and get provided for. Her life hasn't been easy at all.

    • @notsureiL
      @notsureiL ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​​@@Nono38-jj1tkDamn TLC should pay for the expenses if it is the case :/ They should know better. The film crew, all the equipment.

    • @Vintagestylewins
      @Vintagestylewins ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Asking a woman in poverty to put in more work??? That doesn’t make sense mate

    • @soahsmith1995
      @soahsmith1995 ปีที่แล้ว

      or find ED 😂 I'm sure he"ll pay for it
      @@Nono38-jj1tk

  • @dsolis9470
    @dsolis9470 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is already doing so much for her and her family... These people are under the misconception that Americans are rich.

  • @AuntieFairy
    @AuntieFairy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s literally $500 to fix all of the house issues. $500! I think they can manage

    • @Lizbeth7799
      @Lizbeth7799 ปีที่แล้ว

      She must be really poor!

    • @AuntieFairy
      @AuntieFairy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lizbeth7799 in the Philippines 🇵🇭 a place like hers is $60 a month for rent. Sixty dollars.

  • @katherinezp
    @katherinezp ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No jobs asking poor guy for money. Ridiculous 😅

  • @dollliebush8512
    @dollliebush8512 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Shelia is nothing like Jasmine milking Gino

  • @Lizza777x
    @Lizza777x ปีที่แล้ว +5

    omg leave that broke and dusty man haha

    • @jking-
      @jking- ปีที่แล้ว

      Who?

  • @tfpauliina
    @tfpauliina ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like the couple, not gold-digger or fame-digger couple.

  • @WendyRichards-uq3cu
    @WendyRichards-uq3cu ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She knew from the beginning of their friendship/relationship that when he saw the condition of her house; he would offer to fix it for them. He didn't... so now she's asking him.

    • @joerudnik9290
      @joerudnik9290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He had already sent her $3000 to help her with the house/expenses.

    • @biljanacvjetinovic6204
      @biljanacvjetinovic6204 ปีที่แล้ว

      She needs to get a job,and help him to fix the house!!!

  • @nancyayala2217
    @nancyayala2217 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t believe her at all

  • @dollparts4918
    @dollparts4918 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sheila is in a rough situation. It isn’t easy in the Phillipines. I really feel for her.

  • @sherryjennings9542
    @sherryjennings9542 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think TLC should help fix her situation, they most likely will be a couple on the next season. If not it's just nice to be nice. A little help can go a long way.ijs❤

  • @juliadeangelio1261
    @juliadeangelio1261 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think Sheila and David are perfect, it's just a bad situation that she has no money, and he has not enough to help, especially when he saw the house in such a disray she went she would, she really needs a go fund me play to help her because he can't do it all. Himself I'm sure he would if he could.

  • @eebeth1
    @eebeth1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Literally just asked for money and then says “I don’t want his money”….🤨 but she does and when he brought up the topic of her getting a job so she can contribute THEN she doesn’t wanna talk about it 😂. Seems legit 😂😂😂

  • @helenm4574
    @helenm4574 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Action speak louder than words .. you look very disappointed bcoz he cant afford ...

  • @Djozze1
    @Djozze1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate when people tell me they got no job but are sitting in front of me sipping a beer. 🤣 jaja bro

  • @anne19777
    @anne19777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I genuinely think that if the situation didn't take place as it did, she wouldn't really be asking this of him. She didn't come across as a gold digger, she just really genuinely needed help financially to make sure another similar accident doesn't take place. I'm sure if she was only doing it for the money then she would've already been asking/demanding it of him prior to meeting him. David seems like a really level headed and kind guy and I'm sure he's smart enough to see which is which.

  • @tapiocamango
    @tapiocamango ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Genuine intentions or not, it doesn’t make David a bad person if he were to turn her down in money. David may or may not have the money. For the sake of continuing the relationship, he doesn’t have to give money to “keep” her love and respect.

    • @Vintagestylewins
      @Vintagestylewins ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what is the purpose of marrying someone out of poverty??? Quickly answer

    • @tapiocamango
      @tapiocamango ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Vintagestylewins For love.

  • @TheLovelysavage
    @TheLovelysavage ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He’s useless. The new men from this age are not providers. It’s sad.

    • @sookie4195
      @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is barely supporting himself, and he certainly can’t support an entire family in another country

  • @mindflowmotivations6575
    @mindflowmotivations6575 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He suggests : “ I am working two jobs now and paying all I can . Maybe you can get a job and help me “
    She dismisses him with “ we can discuss that later “
    Sits on other side of the table not close to him at all :(

    • @PurposelyObtuse
      @PurposelyObtuse ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course because work isn’t available in every country. Maybe he can get a better paying job…

    • @mindflowmotivations6575
      @mindflowmotivations6575 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PurposelyObtuse maybe she could put some effort in herself or learn how to fix it if he bought her the tools

  • @tomiko2683
    @tomiko2683 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i cant stand when translators dont translate and seem to just interpret their understanding of what is being said.. if you are going to translate then translate or these shows should at least provide a translator that actually translates word for word but i guess if they did that then the issues that arise from miscommunication issues would cause them drama points 🤔

  • @MaryJaneBluntkevinalvizurez
    @MaryJaneBluntkevinalvizurez ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like women looking for financial security is not gold digging, gold digging is when the girl is planning to get the money and leave, financial security means she just wants a man who can provide for a family and isn’t that the ultimate goal

  • @debbyvibbert3177
    @debbyvibbert3177 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needs to ask translator about locating more honest carpenter that doesn't double cost because he's an American.

  • @shelleycollins7390
    @shelleycollins7390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He shouldn't have to pay for it

  • @hannambailey
    @hannambailey ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The interpreter is sneaky. I don’t trust her .

    • @LicaM
      @LicaM ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why

    • @cee_el
      @cee_el ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How? Can you understand sign language to tell she’s sneaky?

    • @LicaM
      @LicaM ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cee_el i don’t understand sign language

  • @claudiacamama3623
    @claudiacamama3623 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I hope I’m wrong, my concern is the interpreter. She’s not really interpreting what Sheila is trying to tell David. It lacks the genuine emotion coming from Sheila that if David doesn’t have the money it’s ok and that she doesn’t want to force it. Sheila should find a male interpreter. I have a feeling that the interpreter is falling for David 😢.

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't think the interpreter is falling for him, I just think She doesn't know ASL as Well as She Says or Should and I Agree a Male and One that Knows ASL to a Tee would Be 💯 Percent better

  • @sandymorado4430
    @sandymorado4430 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    No offense but one has his own problems who would want to meet somebody just newly and already feel the weight of the relationship NO GOOD RUN FAST!

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But she seems worthy though... 🙃

    • @lounisepierre2080
      @lounisepierre2080 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then he should go be with someone who’s not struggling in a village. It’s not her fault and she’s not even asking him for money. He just sucks

  • @defense-debate4682
    @defense-debate4682 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just get her a house it wuld be cheaper

  • @Trinidancr
    @Trinidancr ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Translator is leaving a lot out

  • @CarolLayad
    @CarolLayad ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She may seem genuine, but they always have an agenda. She definitely needs some money from him. Its not his responsibility to fix her house. Not at all.

  • @DavidPhelan-w3w
    @DavidPhelan-w3w ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The classic line "I don't want your money". However she keeps crying about how desperately needs money. That is asking and wanting money. He's going to give you money because he feels bad for you. She definitely does want him for money.

    • @AquaPisces1
      @AquaPisces1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely. She sought out someone who could help her, nothing more. Imo.

    • @DavidPhelan-w3w
      @DavidPhelan-w3w ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AquaPisces1 There's lots of handsome filipino guys where she's at but they're all broke. They don't have 2₱ to rub together.

    • @Pepsian
      @Pepsian ปีที่แล้ว

      there are no "handome filipinos"

  • @cindiaervin8599
    @cindiaervin8599 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She don't want to work

  • @Travis-pv8vj
    @Travis-pv8vj ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why was she on a dating site for deaf Americans?
    She isn't deaf, doesn't know anyone thats deaf, and doesn't know sign language??? What does she see in him?

    • @sookie4195
      @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is hearing impaired they said in the beginning.

    • @teresesegura1128
      @teresesegura1128 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She also said eventually she will lose all her hearing.

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is Hard of Hearing and has a Hearing Aide She Showed it. And You didn't see her Yelling in her Mother's Ear?? Her Mother seemed almost Deaf herself

  • @kimmcpadden5371
    @kimmcpadden5371 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's not after his money she wants now to fix the house cause her mother got killed walking down stairs and it collapsed the stairs ,she want it safe now for her sin and father

  • @happysweetpotato6971
    @happysweetpotato6971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The interpreter is frustrating me. She didn't translated it all 🙄

  • @LukeDaDrifter-lj2nh
    @LukeDaDrifter-lj2nh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because he can't afford to fix your shack of a house now you question if he can support you and your son?😳

  • @Magginoodle
    @Magginoodle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It would be understandable if she has no money because she lives in poverty and is asking her boyfriend to help out. But when a woman asks for money because she says she has no job but then is not so willing to look for work and chip in the near future, then that’s a red flag. Then she’s not poor because of unfortunate circumstances, but merely a choice to be that way… definitely not so innocent at that point.

  • @jacquelynn2051
    @jacquelynn2051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh puhLEASE. I can’t with these people.

  • @luxuryhomes8889
    @luxuryhomes8889 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GIVE ME MONEY!!!! NOW!!!!!!!

  • @boosqueezy2418
    @boosqueezy2418 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    can she get a job?

  • @spiritedaway99
    @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    she can't get a job? what were she doing before she met him? or while speakin to each other, how did she afford a phone and internet cnx and clothes nd that straight her even I can't afford a hairstraightener 😅!! frankly i doubt the fact he didn't send her money.. she genuine? i don't think so..

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her Hair is Naturally Straight

  • @FionaChandoll
    @FionaChandoll ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man it's tough. Not only does she need to get a good grasp of the English language she also needs to learn ASL.

  • @royharper2003
    @royharper2003 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why doesn't she use some of her payment from the show to fix up the house?

  • @soahsmith1995
    @soahsmith1995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    SO WAIT ! she let him hit and she can't get no MONEY !!! SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 🤑

  • @aliengranpa
    @aliengranpa ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've never seen this show but that woman looks like she would kill you in your sleep

    • @KatharinaK117
      @KatharinaK117 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMEN! The dude cnt find a decent woman in the States or in his culture range? Ridiculous! They are only after visa n money n you marry a whole bunch!

    • @Simonesanderss
      @Simonesanderss ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is very serious and it seems that she has living a tough life. But I feel that she is a good person.

    • @kimberlylewis2185
      @kimberlylewis2185 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤔 I really think it is so interesting that you said that.

  • @DarkHairedCurlyOne
    @DarkHairedCurlyOne ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why are we fixing a house if she's leaving for the u.s to be with him. And it seems like she doaent wanna work

  • @sheiscrystalmichelle1014
    @sheiscrystalmichelle1014 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m rooting for them and I have only seen short clips ! So that speaks volumes

  • @AngelViews
    @AngelViews ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what with these hats, I seen another couple with the same ones 🤔

  • @chikkachinijohannady
    @chikkachinijohannady ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She seems like she can only get at best a minimum wage job. She doesn’t seem to have a college degree based on her poor English. I doubt that the money she’ll make from getting a job will do any significant repairs for the house. She can probably just buy a few supplies like wood after all the other living expenses. I think that’s why she’s like NVM because he doesn’t seem to understand how little her income, if she gets one can actually do. It’s probably hard for her to explain all this without causing misunderstanding and conflict. Many of the houses in slums are just made of scrap materials the residents find precisely because it is even difficult for those people even to buy enough food. Also, unfortunately, it’s very common to be paid less than minimum wage in the Philippines if you don’t have a college degree. She can just get around 88USD to 176USD a month. 176USD a month is already really pushing it. That’s only if she gets really lucky 😭 it’s even possible to get much less than 88USD a month 😢 while I sympathize with David, it seems like he didn’t learn much about her background.

  • @Steven-tl8fs
    @Steven-tl8fs ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey when you get a Filipino lady you get her family too.

    • @Curious_KJ
      @Curious_KJ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's kinda how marriage works anywhere imo. Idk why some men think they can separate a woman from her family. In marriage, two families become one for better or worse.

    • @Steven-tl8fs
      @Steven-tl8fs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @keith2368 Not everywhere. Mostly Filipino females. An American man will marry the Filipino lady and bring her to the US but she will want her whole family to come also.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Steven-tl8fsin a way, that’s kinda true. My uncle married a lady from Guam and built her parents a home there. Her sister couldn’t afford to take care of her three sons so he adopted them as his own; they live in USA and all serve in different branches of the military. He later returned to Guam and built himself his own home with his wife. He’s retired and living there now. They have been married for over 30+ years.