This is profound. Some ladies may not like you for speaking about them this way, but I like it when you do you without trying to please anyone... Keep it up, Jessy. Thumbs 👍
I don't think women will be unhappy with this video, cos Jessica is actually helping women by helping men who're genuinely desirous of a qualitative relationship understand women, so they can relate with women better. Don't get me wrong, women too need to take time to understand men so they can relate with men better - 'tis a 2 way street!!
@@olaoluwaokewole1615 I love your contributions, though, but do you know the kind of women who wouldn't like things like this? Those ladies who toy with the hearts of responsible men want to be the better version of themselves. Think about it. That was why I used the word "SOME" and "MAY"... not all of them😊. Remember there will always be haters regardless. And It's not all about this video but the videos she's put together so far. This is the reason I'd always love JESSY for who she is... Thanks for the efforts you put to make us better beings❤.
I appreciate the fact that you not only kept it real but you weren't whining or even blaming anyone for the insecurities women face. You just told it as it is.
The earlier you realize the value of support for your loved ones, the better for you! Oh Jessica! How these contents of yours may be timeless!! Thank you for your good work! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It’s not about judging it’s about wanting your partner to live a healthy life style so they can live longer if u over weight and still eating junk and lazy to even do something about it then it’s a concern coz eventually it affects the whole relationship.she walk up stairs,she struggles to breathe and if h not honest to your partner about their health and access weight gaining then u certainly have no love for them.if u really care u will tell the truth no matter how much it hurts
You are the best Jessica and I personally appreciate your work❤️❤️ I'm glad I opened one of your video and I now I get to learn things and also stop taking somethings for granted Looking forward to the next video 📸
These insecurities are insightful. However, it’s hard for a man to invest in a woman or even bother caring when it seems like (as a man) your really of no importance in her life. The wife of a highly successful man may play a secondary role in his life but she more than likely gets treated like a princess. Never heard of a highly successful woman treating her husband like a prince rather than a house slave who’s lucky to have her attention. I’m all for women having the freedom to pursue whatever avenues of life they wish to, however these same women are expecting men to fit into roles they’re simply not meant for, even at a biological level. In the past, Men served queens not out of love, but out of forced servitude. It was servitude or death, you take the better of 2 opinions to survive. There is a pretty big difference between social stigma and literal slavery/ forced relationships.
Public comment. Love some one for being loving and caring and respectful. Trust is vital in any relationship. Thank you so much Jessica. You are a blessing.
Great tips! No matter how much you might like someone - it’s not going to work out in the long run, if they’re not the right type of people for you! If you want a happy life - consider someone that fits your personality, that matches well with you, and that is supportive of what you want to do - and actually wants to be part of it! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Hi Jessica 👋 This video was AWESOME !! Nothing to hide from women to man and vice-versa !! You did an amazing job with this one !! Thank you my friend Jessica Os ❤
Well, some of the insecurities need not be an issue. On body weight/image, I have always taken the position that men should go for women who have the bodies they desire. It's most unfair for a guy who loves slim women to start dating a plus size woman and then start berating her to lose weight. There's a body type for every man's taste; don't go for what you don't like and then destroy the woman's self-esteem with negative comments all the time. As far as career success is concerned, it's more of men's insecurities rather than the woman's. Indeed, many men are quite threatened by a woman's success but there are a few men who are attracted to that kinda woman and would never mind supporting the woman to achieve as much as she wants. Personally I have no time for a woman with zero ambition or achievements, that's a real deal-breaker for me. Just find the right person for you.
Wow,haven't seen her in a long time,but I don't understand why a gorgeous woman, looking so down in this video over the trust thing.🤔 been through some of the same things I been through.Glad to see you tho hun,stay up🙏😇
Useful information. Independent women in Jamaica are not shamed. The problem that arises grows from the attitude, arrogance and unwillingness to meet their partner half way.
I request to add 'experience' as point to their insecurity. I say experience because it may not only be thru past dates, but also from social cliché, their pals, family background, and other certain beliefs of fear.
For sure i like watching your videos cause they're of high degree and quality as matter relationship is concerned...keep going.. Only the sky be the limit
Great insight... Love your work, keep them coming. Very quickly just want to chip in on the issue of Ambition and Independence. Personally i like ladies who are ambitious. But i think you should address ambition and relationship as two parallel line that dont meet cos it is one thing to be ambitious and another thing to stay faithful in a relationship without each conflicting the other. Pursuing a career takes time, on the other hand creating a family is equally time consuming So i dont think the society is really biased on the fact that some ladies loose their job on maternity ground Cos reality is, either of them takes time and dealing with both at the same time will affect effeciency.
This exactly. My aunt and mom even say this. When women move up the social ladder they tend to have this elitist mindset that respect is no longer valid for the folks who don't attract attention of the masses or the average folk or non family people who actually help them get to where they are.
Growing older can be a male's insecurity, too. Your comment is the support for ways that people of the opposite sex can get along without compromising from doing right to doing wrong.
can you please make a video about men dating younger girls... im 24 and i am dating a girl who is turning 18... she really looks young. i feel bad sometimes when meeting friends but honestly she is probably my best friend and we are in love.
A 6 yr age gap is not abnormal between folks both 18yrs old or up. Maybe the norm is 2 or 3 age gap that 5 or 6 kinda normal as well. And in my bestfriend since like 9th grade case. It's oddly in reverse his wife is around 6 or 7yrs older than him. Back when they was dating folks used to clown him & call him her lil brother. Yet now they still married with 3 kids oldest is I think 7 or 8 yrs old & youngest 4 or 5 yrs old.
Self realisation, many missed that point..A lot would be solved in life the day people,especially Africans wake up to self rather than a saviour somewhere,different and outside mentality.Africans religious believe of a lord and saviour somewhere and different from self created a judgemental mindset in most Africans,it's like becoming the house help instead of the lord and master in your own house(body) A self realised person changes self and self alone not others,appreciate others just as he/she would like to be appreciated. Brilliant topic jessy,welldone! Thank you.
I agree with 95% of this content. The only thing I don't agree with is that men look down on women with careers. I know majority of the time, when a woman becomes a boss she can't keep it at the office. She comes home and misbehave because she can. But besides that....great content.
This is true,,,with this error of technology- even us Men Jessica we have been made to believe that every woman shud have curves & hips ,,,, thank for D's one - let me go & correct my mistake & make her feel as," one in the million '
Jessica I do like your contents. Biology placed on women the duty of nurturing and child bearing. Nonetheless women are actually pursuing older men and more successful men.. hypergamy. Women and God make those choices for all it’s female creatures. Thanks for sharing
Great video as always. But if I may ask about ambitious women, is it really a stereotype, or is it a norm? Because I think, if you look at the flip side, what about a man who wants to be nurturing and stay at home while their wives work? I believe in the same vein that men are by norm expected to be providers, women are nurturers. And for good reason, these are tradeoffs that we all make, that we should more shrewd and calculative in the choices we make. It's a real insecurity, but it's not something to roll over of.
This is quite revealing. Jessica actually buys into the gender stereotypes and pushes them. Women need to take responsibility for themselves and be accountable for their choices. Men will not accept blame for a woman's struggles or insecurities. And when women are insecure and ashamed of their choices and situation, they need to own it, not accuse society of shaming them
Wenn du eine Frau liebst, dann ist es nicht nur ihr Aussehen . Zu einer Beziehung gehört mehr als nur das das wichtigste ist doch das man zusammen hält und sich auch von Neidern nichts kaputt reden lässt. Das sind oft die die ihr eigenes Leben gegen die Wand gefahren haben und es anderen nicht gönnen glücklich zu sein. Niemand ist perfekt und das macht das ganze Leben doch erst interessant und wichtig ist über kleine Fehler einfach lächeln.
I like women that are independent, she don’t need to dumb anything down with me, I’m not insecure about that at all…the only thing that I can say is be you girl, don’t change who you are to impress anybody
I think I pay too much attention to your vids. Your mole was on your right hand side and at 11:03 / 15:26 it flipped. Anyway, Great content and always spot-on. Thank you Jess
Wonderful.! Thank you for these profound insigths........Dont you think that successful and smart women should take the dating game in their hands.....they can easily look around and go after the mates they prefer...Man do not resist an assertive .intelligent and romantic woman if she can help him pass his own insecurity about A list women!!!!!
Emailed Jessica to see if I can get a private session but she doesn’t reply messages. It seems customers are not as profitable as advertisements. Seems these are commercials for her merchandise.
Walk away!. If she was the one who hurts call her and tell her that you’ve forgiven her . It’s been 4 months for me too. I call her last week and told her that I’ve forgotten her and immediately deleted her number. Do yourself a favor to forgive those who hurt and you’ll be happy with yourself. Strong people don’t seek for revenge but allows karma to play the dirty works.😊
... try explaining to her why you do not like it if that's your issue; that they're not really her "friends" ;they're in fact orbiters biding the time & then ask her to cut them off.
Women who hold their own usually do not share their resources with men. The more successful a man is the less he is interested in a woman's accomplishments. The more successful a woman is the less she is likely to find a mate in consideration for a serious marriage.
We, women, should stop putting weight on people's biases. They are certainly entitled to their own opinions, because it's only their opinions...but it's not really what's defined women. We are born to be multitasking... stop listening to society's biases about us. Men play a big role in providing and also in helping the world multiply in numbers... but without women's ability to nurturing, validating, contributing, cheerleading, and managing alongside men... The world will be a total disaster! So Cheers ladies! You're worth it!
The point if this that some women want brag that they made achievement without selling their body. Nothing wrong with achieving without being a model or such but some of these women still expect chivalry/ males to be gentleman that pays for her expensive first dates that don't even guarantee that she will give the guy a chance at a relationship since once turns her off she will still expect him to pay and practically waste his money and time
Women shame one another way more then men will ever at least here where I'm from and personally I love this channel but don't need the advice but I do love the effort and the wisdom that you have. However I am a man here from Texas and women here are different they indulge in the disrespect and body shaming to the extreme so I don't act like they are victims. I act accordingly and treat people accordingly.
When I got pregnant I had to make the choice to leave school to take a break to be a mom husband didn’t have to sacrifice anything once my child was born I was the only care giver for my child yet we lived in the same home constantly cheated on me when I took care of home I lost myself as a women trying to please a man who really didn’t care about me or my child so I made the decision after wasting years to walk away for my sanity I wasn’t appreciated at all in that relationship
The ambitious part I don't agree with u as most women date up she doesn't have to hide her success just because she is well of financially, but Men date down or in between. Problems starts when they think they have options to date the few well off
If you are a man in shape, good job, nice car, home, emotionally available and a decent family background, do not let a women project her insecurities on to you and bring you down. I have had this many many times. Ladies: men love mum bods. I most certainly do. Big boobs, a fupa, stretch marks etc… it’s natural and I embrace it. Men embrace this!!!!!
Don't hurt her not even with words, be on her side always, even against your mom, don't be a mama's boy, don't allow anyone to talk down on her, not even your buddies, don't do it yourself to her, don't demean her, reassure her and support her instead, be honest with her, that protects her from pain through lies that come out, if you are completely honest that will make her trust you more, don't cheat, don't watch porn or other things that are meant to turn men on, save her from feeling heartbroken, betrayed and not good enough, be consistent and reliable to make her feel safe and secure, don't love her in one minute and hate her the next, be patient, be open, be supportive, listen to her needs, communicate..become her partner, don't treat her like an opponent or enemy. Interesting thing, the bible gives an interesting answer too in Genesis Chapter 2 Verse 25: "That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife and they will become one flesh." The important part is to stick to her and to prioritize her, if you want to become one with her and make it last. Better wait until you found someone you really want to marry, don't use women for your selfish needs and wants and then throw them away like garbage.
@@sandy2807 Thank you. All these points have sunk in. I really made some mistakes i can correct. One being that I always made her feel like she wasn’t enough. But I know deep down that she is. I’ll do much better. I appreciate this🙏
@Jesse Wright I am sure you can do it. You are already a good one for trying to become a better version of yourself and for caring about how to protect your woman from emotional pain as well as from physical pain. That is rare and i appreciate that in men/people cos there are too many out there not giving af about how they hurt others as long as it serves their wants and needs. I wish you all the best for your life/relationship. 🙂👍
This is profound. Some ladies may not like you for speaking about them this way, but I like it when you do you without trying to please anyone... Keep it up, Jessy. Thumbs 👍
They should better enjoy it lol..
I don’t know why women wouldn’t like stuff like this if guys take it seriously it will only work in the women’s favor
I don't think women will be unhappy with this video, cos Jessica is actually helping women by helping men who're genuinely desirous of a qualitative relationship understand women, so they can relate with women better. Don't get me wrong, women too need to take time to understand men so they can relate with men better - 'tis a 2 way street!!
@@olaoluwaokewole1615 I love your contributions, though, but do you know the kind of women who wouldn't like things like this?
Those ladies who toy with the hearts of responsible men want to be the better version of themselves. Think about it. That was why I used the word "SOME" and "MAY"... not all of them😊. Remember there will always be haters regardless. And It's not all about this video but the videos she's put together so far. This is the reason I'd always love JESSY for who she is... Thanks for the efforts you put to make us better beings❤.
Well said 👍🏼🎯
Thank you Jessica, now I understand the source of the issues in my home . This video is helpful as always .
Jessy, I remember your transformation days. I really miss your training session on TV. You are hitting the points right.
Thank you Jessica. it's been a good video. But most especially the aging insecurities are the most scary for women
I appreciate the fact that you not only kept it real but you weren't whining or even blaming anyone for the insecurities women face. You just told it as it is.
The earlier you realize the value of support for your loved ones, the better for you! Oh Jessica! How these contents of yours may be timeless!! Thank you for your good work! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Very relatable video ….
We’ll done Jessica ❤️
I love your content, you really have helped me and I'm sure others to understand women better. Somethings I didn't want to hear but needed too.
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I don’t have a problem with the way a woman looks, I’m the type of person who will accept you for how you look, I don’t like judging people
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It’s not about judging it’s about wanting your partner to live a healthy life style so they can live longer if u over weight and still eating junk and lazy to even do something about it then it’s a concern coz eventually it affects the whole relationship.she walk up stairs,she struggles to breathe and if h not honest to your partner about their health and access weight gaining then u certainly have no love for them.if u really care u will tell the truth no matter how much it hurts
@@generaldealing8132 ok you're right
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Tasteless you mean
You are the best Jessica and I personally appreciate your work❤️❤️
I'm glad I opened one of your video and I now I get to learn things and also stop taking somethings for granted
Looking forward to the next video 📸
These insecurities are insightful. However, it’s hard for a man to invest in a woman or even bother caring when it seems like (as a man) your really of no importance in her life. The wife of a highly successful man may play a secondary role in his life but she more than likely gets treated like a princess. Never heard of a highly successful woman treating her husband like a prince rather than a house slave who’s lucky to have her attention. I’m all for women having the freedom to pursue whatever avenues of life they wish to, however these same women are expecting men to fit into roles they’re simply not meant for, even at a biological level. In the past, Men served queens not out of love, but out of forced servitude. It was servitude or death, you take the better of 2 opinions to survive. There is a pretty big difference between social stigma and literal slavery/ forced relationships.
Public comment. Love some one for being loving and caring and respectful. Trust is vital in any relationship. Thank you so much Jessica. You are a blessing.
Great tips! No matter how much you might like someone - it’s not going to work out in the long run, if they’re not the right type of people for you!
If you want a happy life - consider someone that fits your personality, that matches well with you, and that is supportive of what you want to do - and actually wants to be part of it!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
You’re helping us dear sis keep up the good work
Hi Jessica 👋
This video was AWESOME !!
Nothing to hide from women to man and vice-versa !!
You did an amazing job with this one !!
Thank you my friend Jessica Os ❤
Interesting insights, especially around body image. Thanks for sharing this advice!
You are delightful to listen to.Keep on sharing that profound wealth of knowledge and insight.
Well, some of the insecurities need not be an issue. On body weight/image, I have always taken the position that men should go for women who have the bodies they desire. It's most unfair for a guy who loves slim women to start dating a plus size woman and then start berating her to lose weight. There's a body type for every man's taste; don't go for what you don't like and then destroy the woman's self-esteem with negative comments all the time. As far as career success is concerned, it's more of men's insecurities rather than the woman's. Indeed, many men are quite threatened by a woman's success but there are a few men who are attracted to that kinda woman and would never mind supporting the woman to achieve as much as she wants. Personally I have no time for a woman with zero ambition or achievements, that's a real deal-breaker for me. Just find the right person for you.
Appreciated hearing your insights.
@@Introvertedalpha You are welcome
No her scenario goes like this maybe you like a "chubby" woman but the woman herself does not like their own body
@@keamokolo8350 Yeah....
Love the composed, calm and pertinent attitude ❤😊
Thanks for helping out with your content. I guess i am the first person to comment. 😃
This opened my eye a lot I have been ignoring a lot of things lately. Thank you
You have so much useful knowledge God bless you I love your videos
Wow,haven't seen her in a long time,but I don't understand why a gorgeous woman, looking so down in this video over the trust thing.🤔 been through some of the same things I been through.Glad to see you tho hun,stay up🙏😇
Very Edifying and full of substance !!!!!!
Love this content Keep soaring higher.I do really admire your personality.♥️👍👌💥🔓💯
That’s for sharing a few things you mention I never thought about
Cheers Jessica! You're so good at it!
You are full of experience my sister. I have been following you for quite sometime and you are always spot on. Great advice to men.
Perfectly delivered and insightful as always Jesi, bless sharing great content with us always👌🏽😊
Jessica is truly amazing.. She's insightful
Great video Jess... Keep the content coming...
Thanks so much for always educating us
Thank you for sharing all these, very deep and meaningful!!
Solid 👌 and spot on as always. Jessy does it best 💯💟
Very nice video, with the issues well explained. Thank you.
She is just speaking facts 💯
Thanks Jessica all your videos are helpful..🌹♥️
I’m learning so much from your channel thanks Queen 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Useful information. Independent women in Jamaica are not shamed. The problem that arises grows from the attitude, arrogance and unwillingness to meet their partner half way.
This video is rather quite remarkable as always Jessica!
I request to add 'experience' as point to their insecurity.
I say experience because it may not only be thru past dates, but also from social cliché, their pals, family background, and other certain beliefs of fear.
This was very informative
Sister Jessica is good. Her IQ is somewhere in the genius range. Absolutely amazing. I salute you Jessie/Jessy, whichever works.
Hi Jessica,love your video’s,was just wondering which camera do you use? It’s awesome
Great analysis, thanks Jess.
Your is always appreciated Jessica ...
For sure i like watching your videos cause they're of high degree and quality as matter relationship is concerned...keep going..
Only the sky be the limit
🔥😎✨️ Great content as always Jess
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Thanks Jessica, my lady exhibit some of these symptoms especially with the career and age. It has been a very serious challenge I had to deal with.
Staying young forever is like trying to fight against nature.....in the end nature will win
That's the real truth many women go through
Tnx alot 😊 now I get certain things In my relationship.
Great insight...
Love your work, keep them coming.
Very quickly just want to chip in on the issue of Ambition and Independence.
Personally i like ladies who are ambitious. But i think you should address ambition and relationship as two parallel line that dont meet cos it is one thing to be ambitious and another thing to stay faithful in a relationship without each conflicting the other. Pursuing a career takes time, on the other hand creating a family is equally time consuming
So i dont think the society is really biased on the fact that some ladies loose their job on maternity ground
Cos reality is, either of them takes time and dealing with both at the same time will affect effeciency.
It’s not about women being ambitious, it’s when they’re belittling and saying disrespectful stuff towards people they make more money than.
This exactly. My aunt and mom even say this. When women move up the social ladder they tend to have this elitist mindset that respect is no longer valid for the folks who don't attract attention of the masses or the average folk or non family people who actually help them get to where they are.
I guess you should do a video on top 5 male insecurities as well. Would really appreciate.
The ambition part you addressed only happens in Africa. Women in the western world are not stopped from being ambitious.
I your work piece Jessy. Looking good 👍
Love 💕 your work piece. Doing well
Always on point as usual but must confess your accent and pronounciation are what make me stick around first😍😍😍. Keep it up
Growing older can be a male's insecurity, too. Your comment is the support for ways that people of the opposite sex can get along without compromising from doing right to doing wrong.
can you please make a video about men dating younger girls... im 24 and i am dating a girl who is turning 18... she really looks young. i feel bad sometimes when meeting friends but honestly she is probably my best friend and we are in love.
A 6 yr age gap is not abnormal between folks both 18yrs old or up. Maybe the norm is 2 or 3 age gap that 5 or 6 kinda normal as well. And in my bestfriend since like 9th grade case. It's oddly in reverse his wife is around 6 or 7yrs older than him. Back when they was dating folks used to clown him & call him her lil brother. Yet now they still married with 3 kids oldest is I think 7 or 8 yrs old & youngest 4 or 5 yrs old.
Self realisation, many missed that point..A lot would be solved in life the day people,especially Africans wake up to self rather than a saviour somewhere,different and outside mentality.Africans religious believe of a lord and saviour somewhere and different from self created a judgemental mindset in most Africans,it's like becoming the house help instead of the lord and master in your own house(body) A self realised person changes self and self alone not others,appreciate others just as he/she would like to be appreciated. Brilliant topic jessy,welldone! Thank you.
Your so beautiful in this video.I enjoyed the content thanks 🇧🇸⚓❤️
Your doing great GOD bless
I agree with 95% of this content. The only thing I don't agree with is that men look down on women with careers. I know majority of the time, when a woman becomes a boss she can't keep it at the office. She comes home and misbehave because she can. But besides that....great content.
Thank you, sis!
Hi pretty
Would you mind if I talk with you
A woman will only answer this question: "Can I trust you", if she do NOT trust you and she never will.
This is true,,,with this error of technology- even us Men Jessica we have been made to believe that every woman shud have curves & hips ,,,, thank for D's one - let me go & correct my mistake & make her feel as," one in the million '
Jessica I do like your contents. Biology placed on women the duty of nurturing and child bearing. Nonetheless women are actually pursuing older men and more successful men.. hypergamy. Women and God make those choices for all it’s female creatures. Thanks for sharing
Nice one 🙏🏾
I think this for all men to be their women keeper
Great video as always. But if I may ask about ambitious women, is it really a stereotype, or is it a norm? Because I think, if you look at the flip side, what about a man who wants to be nurturing and stay at home while their wives work? I believe in the same vein that men are by norm expected to be providers, women are nurturers. And for good reason, these are tradeoffs that we all make, that we should more shrewd and calculative in the choices we make.
It's a real insecurity, but it's not something to roll over of.
This is quite revealing. Jessica actually buys into the gender stereotypes and pushes them. Women need to take responsibility for themselves and be accountable for their choices. Men will not accept blame for a woman's struggles or insecurities. And when women are insecure and ashamed of their choices and situation, they need to own it, not accuse society of shaming them
As a man, I have concerns about all of the same issues. I don't make 100K , I don't look like a body builder, etc
Wenn du eine Frau liebst, dann ist es nicht nur ihr Aussehen .
Zu einer Beziehung gehört mehr als nur das das wichtigste ist doch das man zusammen hält und sich auch von Neidern nichts kaputt reden lässt.
Das sind oft die die ihr eigenes Leben gegen die Wand gefahren haben und es anderen nicht gönnen glücklich zu sein.
Niemand ist perfekt und das macht das ganze Leben doch erst interessant und wichtig ist über kleine Fehler einfach lächeln.
It really tough questions..
I like women that are independent, she don’t need to dumb anything down with me, I’m not insecure about that at all…the only thing that I can say is be you girl, don’t change who you are to impress anybody
"Seem to have all their ducks in a row" 🤣🤣..yea..a row to get shot
I think I pay too much attention to your vids. Your mole was on your right hand side and at 11:03 / 15:26 it flipped.
Anyway, Great content and always spot-on. Thank you Jess
The aging trend is what scares the ladies the most in my opinion.
I fear the cheating most..age just adds to this cos it makes women think that he has now another possibly reason to cheat on her with younger women.
Miss Jessy I'm really enjoying your channel but seriously this your eyes hmm I wish I had same
Wonderful.! Thank you for these profound insigths........Dont you think that successful and smart women should take the dating game in their hands.....they can easily look around and go after the mates they prefer...Man do not resist an assertive .intelligent and romantic woman if she can help him pass his own insecurity about A list women!!!!!
On point
Emailed Jessica to see if I can get a private session but she doesn’t reply messages. It seems customers are not as profitable as advertisements. Seems these are commercials for her merchandise.
If it's been 4 months since your break up , do u just move on or reach out if u haven't spoken for awhile any advice would be appreciated thanks!
Walk away from your ex's. Plenty fish in the ocean.
Walk away!. If she was the one who hurts call her and tell her that you’ve forgiven her . It’s been 4 months for me too. I call her last week and told her that I’ve forgotten her and immediately deleted her number. Do yourself a favor to forgive those who hurt and you’ll be happy with yourself. Strong people don’t seek for revenge but allows karma to play the dirty works.😊
How do you deal with a lady who derives joy in having male friends when in a relationship with her ?
... try explaining to her why you do not like it if that's your issue; that they're not really her "friends" ;they're in fact orbiters biding the time & then ask her to cut them off.
Women who hold their own usually do not share their resources with men. The more successful a man is the less he is interested in a woman's accomplishments. The more successful a woman is the less she is likely to find a mate in consideration for a serious marriage.
What's up Jessica, how's it going.
Interesting...
We, women, should stop putting weight on people's biases. They are certainly entitled to their own opinions, because it's only their opinions...but it's not really what's defined women. We are born to be multitasking... stop listening to society's biases about us. Men play a big role in providing and also in helping the world multiply in numbers... but without women's ability to nurturing, validating, contributing, cheerleading, and managing alongside men... The world will be a total disaster! So Cheers ladies! You're worth it!
I've always heard that these strong, independent women "don't need a man" So which is it?
The point if this that some women want brag that they made achievement without selling their body. Nothing wrong with achieving without being a model or such but some of these women still expect chivalry/ males to be gentleman that pays for her expensive first dates that don't even guarantee that she will give the guy a chance at a relationship since once turns her off she will still expect him to pay and practically waste his money and time
Women shame one another way more then men will ever at least here where I'm from and personally I love this channel but don't need the advice but I do love the effort and the wisdom that you have. However I am a man here from Texas and women here are different they indulge in the disrespect and body shaming to the extreme so I don't act like they are victims. I act accordingly and treat people accordingly.
When I got pregnant I had to make the choice to leave school to take a break to be a mom husband didn’t have to sacrifice anything once my child was born I was the only care giver for my child yet we lived in the same home constantly cheated on me when I took care of home I lost myself as a women trying to please a man who really didn’t care about me or my child so I made the decision after wasting years to walk away for my sanity I wasn’t appreciated at all in that relationship
Me I like women of your type of body maybe bcos I'm slim myself and I want to ask can you marry someone you are older than if he loves you Jessica.
I go for character not appearance.
The ambitious part I don't agree with u as most women date up she doesn't have to hide her success just because she is well of financially, but Men date down or in between. Problems starts when they think they have options to date the few well off
I’m here first
If you are a man in shape, good job, nice car, home, emotionally available and a decent family background, do not let a women project her insecurities on to you and bring you down. I have had this many many times. Ladies: men love mum bods. I most certainly do. Big boobs, a fupa, stretch marks etc… it’s natural and I embrace it. Men embrace this!!!!!
If you ask most of the Oriental guys such as Chinese, Japanese and Korean they prefer skinny Asian girl with long legs.
Speak for yourself my brother... not all men are into your preferences
If I can work on myself to look good, then she should be able to do same
@@benjaminowolabi6891 exactly
Hey BBWs these days have ALL the cushion for the pushin and WINNING! Skinny and petite women are just 🤢🤮
I think lot’s of this is victim mentality, both have struggles, and the moment someone takes more than they give it will be troubles
Women need or want PROTECTION!!! I’d like to know. How do we protect them?
I really need answers!
Don't hurt her not even with words, be on her side always, even against your mom, don't be a mama's boy, don't allow anyone to talk down on her, not even your buddies, don't do it yourself to her, don't demean her, reassure her and support her instead, be honest with her, that protects her from pain through lies that come out, if you are completely honest that will make her trust you more, don't cheat, don't watch porn or other things that are meant to turn men on, save her from feeling heartbroken, betrayed and not good enough, be consistent and reliable to make her feel safe and secure, don't love her in one minute and hate her the next, be patient, be open, be supportive, listen to her needs, communicate..become her partner, don't treat her like an opponent or enemy. Interesting thing, the bible gives an interesting answer too in Genesis Chapter 2 Verse 25: "That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife and they will become one flesh." The important part is to stick to her and to prioritize her, if you want to become one with her and make it last. Better wait until you found someone you really want to marry, don't use women for your selfish needs and wants and then throw them away like garbage.
@@sandy2807 Thank you. All these points have sunk in. I really made some mistakes i can correct. One being that I always made her feel like she wasn’t enough. But I know deep down that she is.
I’ll do much better. I appreciate this🙏
@Jesse Wright I am sure you can do it. You are already a good one for trying to become a better version of yourself and for caring about how to protect your woman from emotional pain as well as from physical pain. That is rare and i appreciate that in men/people cos there are too many out there not giving af about how they hurt others as long as it serves their wants and needs. I wish you all the best for your life/relationship. 🙂👍
@@sandy2807 Thanks a lot for making out time and will to help me out. I wish you all the best and more