Sa mga nag dedefend kay kit dito and sinasabing dahil sa selos at pag mamahal, NO. Love is not selfish, pag mahal mo hindi mo sasaktan at di mo kayang makitang nasasaktan. Any kinds of abuse is not justifiable lalo na kung nakakasakit at nakkapinsala kana ng ibang tao. To Ana, I hope you take time to heal and to get checked kase grabe yung trauma na inabot mo.. always be safe and guard your heart the next time. No one deserves this. To kit, you badly need help. Fix your self, love yourself and get checked as well. Kailangan mo managot sa batas at kailangan mo harapin yung ginawa mo.
Nakakabilib! Hindi lang siya basta bastang babae napaka strong niya she can take care of herself, and so independent. She don’t deserve that treatment man. No one does. Keep fighting Ana! You’re so inspiring.
Ana, God heard your prayers when you prayed: "sana may dumating.. sana may dumating.." At may dumating na tulong..Rest in the fact that God loves you and you survived the near-death experience for a reason, for an even higher mission. There are many women who are quietly allowing themselves to be abused and unable to free themselves. Sana you can use your own pain and testimonies to inspire them. You can use your brutal experience to be a strong advocate for abused women. It's one if not the best way to heal yourself and draw good out of this rather horrendous experience. It's an opportunity to be a real-life action star and heroine - which you mentioned is your dream role. This can be a beginning of a bigger purpose in your life.
Nag stay sila sa abusive dahil sa financial situation nila. Kung wala kang pera . Mahirap talaga makawala sa tao kasi wala silang pera. At ano din trauma bonding.
Grabe.This interview changed my perception on Ana.Napakagenuine ng interview na to.I also cried.Especially the part where she said nung pinoposasan na si Keith sa hotel na parang gusto pa rin nya puntahan at yakapin si Keith but at the same time, naisip din nya na no!This man hurt me.Kailangan unahin nya sarili nya.Napakatraumatic.
To all the people who said they want to hear Kit’s side because they’re “skeptic” w/ this poor woman’s testimony just basing the part 1. Imagine being in this situation, being questioned or invalidated just because they can’t believe on you yet. The bottom line is NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED, PHYSICALLY, VERBALLY, OR EMOTIONALLY. To all the people who asks for the guy’s side, shame on you.
true...on the first day of this news halos lahat lalo na mga kababaihan c Ana pa ang sinisisi. nkakahiyang mga kababaihan, sana lang matikman nila kahit isang suntok pra alam nila ang pakiramdam ng maabuse.
No need to explain kits side. Kung may kasalanan si Ana di dapat niya sasakktan. Naku!! Kith dapat saiyo ipadala sa Ukraine at ipanglaban kay Putin tiknan natin ang tapang mo. Sana wag ng ilabas sa kulungan ang ganyan klaseng Tao forever na siya diyan baka may mabiktima na naman pag nakalaya. 😡😡😡😡😡
Yes. Shame on them. Pwede Naman sya interview after he will serve his verdict o Baka pwede ma interview sa kulungan na. Or else kit not deserve to have air time interview Kay Tito boy. Ito lang 🖕sa lahat na gusto marinig si kit to justify his actions.
So ayos lang nagpapabayad ka sa ibang lalaki ng 250K kapalit sex kahit may karelasyon ka talaga? I can't stand the hypocrisy coming out of your mouths!
Maraming luha lumabas sa mga mata ko while watching this interview, sobra ako naawa sa kanya😭 Laban lang Ana.🙏 Thanks God na nasave ka niya that time. Yong trauma matagal yan mawaglit sa isipan mo. Be strong & keep on praying. Hindi mo deserve masaktan ng ganyan.
I watched this because I was also physically abused by my ex boyfriend even while I was pregnant to our son and I realized how silent I have become about it. Because like Ana andun yung love, I still want to protect him and makapagsimula siya ulit. Because he shared his childhood traumas to me. I was able to understand. Sadly, he acted pa na parang siya yung victim when I broke up with him. I just had the courage na umalis sa relationship it's because I don't want our son na maexperience din yon. Nung kahit after nanganak ako at di siya nagbago. It was only God also who saved me and my child. Now I'm still sufferring with the trauma he gave me, I am now seeing a counseling therapist and still on the process on seeing my worth and value again. The scars, mga pasa pwedeng mawala pero may naiiwan pa din emotionally and mentally. I just realized also after watching this video kung gaanong women should not stay silent about this. I pray for all women who are experiencing domestic violence to have the courage to leave that relationship and speak up for themselves. God will surely save and redeem us.
Hindi man tayo magkakilala I want you to know I am so proud of you.. Sobrang bilib ako sa mga single parents na mas pinili harapin ang laban mag isa para sa welfare ng mga anak nila.. ❤️
I was literally shaking as I was watching this interview.. and was crying specially when Ana was telling Kit's assault.. sending love, strength and prayers to Miss Ana.. please know that you are beautiful and strong. And nobody can ever make you feel otherwise.. you deserve all the love and respect this world has to offer..
This interview is heartbreaking. Stay strong Ana. Don’t ever forget what Kit did to you and remain firm in seeking justice for the crime committed against you. Keep fighting and empowering women who are silent victims of domestic violence. Praying for strength, courage and healing for you. God be with you.🙏
Ang hirap ang trauma same ko grabe din ang pinag daanan ko sa husband ko sa pag bobog sa akin bago cya namatay kaya ayaw kuna mag asawa talaga muntik din ako patayin ng asawa ko dati pati mga anak ko hinde naka ligtas sa kamay ng asawa ko.. kaya mahirap talaga kalimutan buti ang mga police at city hall stuff kinuha kami at tinago habang kinakaso ang nanyari sa amin ng mga anak ko noon.. 11 years na ang nakaraan until now walang pag babago ang trauma grabe minsan parang baliw narin ako sa sarili ko hirap paupain kaya iyak nalang ako at dasal punta sa dagat iiyak at sisigaw o kaya sa bundok iiyak at sisigaw para lumowak ang pakiramdam ko pero pray at maging maayos ang buhay…
Pure love never hurts, no one will go through a point hurting someone they love. Obsession is mistaken to love and this should be stopped. This is not just Anna's fight but a fight for all the unheard women. Courage has no gender and Anna proved it in this Interview.
Oo hindi pananagit ng asawa, obsession never hindi yan parte ng pagmamahal kung ang isang tao nagmamahal hindi nananakit at namimisikal or nagbeberbal. Ang pagmamahal ay nagaaruga at malawak ang paunawa. Yung mga nagsasabing kahit nasasaktan na sila e mahal parin sila, hay nako magising kayo hindi yan pagibig kundi obsession walang diyos ang taong yan.
Thats pure obsession & kit doesn't only have an anger issue but is also a psycho, like he has a bipolar disorder. Sana mpagamot c kit. He really needs help
okay lang no walker making money naman di many times na nya ginawa gusto kasi nyan babae yumaman gold digger ika nga hahaha wag kami ana alam nnamin galawan mo
this is so true. we need to stop thinking that obsession is equal to love. it is not love anymore it's pure evil. i hope all survivors and those who still in their fight find their justice and peace.
Kit is so much obsessed to Ana to the point that he wants to destroy nor kill Ana rather than seeing Ana on the hands of others. Kit might not have experienced being loved much and taken good care from his childhood to early adulthood. Ganyan din ako noon, sobramg seloso at possesive and I admit na madalas kong masampal yung ex ko noon. Umabot yung kademonyohan ng utak ko to the point na inaway ko pati parents nia and then tinawag nila ung tatay ko at binugbug ako ng tatay ko during that time sa harap nila mismo. Nagsisigaw ako habang umiiyak. Inuwi nila ako. After a week, hindi na ngrereply sa akin ung ex ko and then nagpamanila pala xa. Binantahan ko na bubugbugin ko yung tatay nia. Nalungkot ako until bumagsak yung katawan ko. Nadepress ako ng sobra (hndi ko pa alam ang depression noon). Gabi gabi ako umiiyak at halos hndi na ako nakakatulog. Umabot ako sa point na magpapakamatay na lan un nsa isipan ko. One time, about 2-3 AM, pinagmumura ko si Lord na kasalanan nia lahat dhil hndi nia manlang ako binibiyayaan ng blessings. Bandang 5 AM, malakas ang ulan, ngtali na ako ng lubid sa may bintana sa kwarto ko para magbibigti na ako, pgkatapak ko sa bintana, nadulas ako dhil nabasa ng ulan ung bintana. Nahulog ako sa baba. Pagkagising ko nasa hospital na ako. Sakto umuwe nman ung best friend ko since childhood galing Canada na isa na palang ganap na psychologist. Kinausap nia ako at sinamahan buong araw at gabi na nandun ako sa hospital. Pinamukha nia sa akin ang mga maling pinaggagawa ko sa huhay ko kaya ako nahanting sa napakadilim na mundo. Sinabihan nia din ako na mgdasal. Pagkauwe nmin sa bahay after ko makalabas sa hospital, triny ko magdasal then naiyak ako ng sobra, naalala ko ung time na oinagmumura ko si Lord. But after praying, nakatulog ako ng mahimbing, kakaiba, yun ung first time ko na nakatulog ng 8-10 hours after ako iwan ng ex ko. Kinabukasan, nagulat na lang ako na ngsidatingan mga brkada at oinsan ko at kinukumusta ako. Hiyang hiya ako sa knila kc narealized ko na mali ko lahat ung nangyare sa amin ng ex ko, na masyado na akong possessive, at ako pa ung tinutulungan nila imbes na layuan at ikahiya. After a week, dumating dn si ate at kuya ko tas pinagsabihan ako about life and adulting, ineducate nila ako kc alam nilang ung parents nmin ay masyadong marahas kung hindi ko cla sinusunod. Narelized ko lahat ng kamalian ko, nagisip ako ng mabuti at naisip kong magaral ng isa pang kurso na sa tingin ko kailangan ko sa buhay, hndi ung puro business na lang. Nagaral ako ng psychology at ang dme kong natutunan about disorders and shits. Naisip ko na bka may APD ako. Triny ko lahat para maiwasan ko na dti kong mga gawain gaya ng pagiinom at pagyoyosi para hndi na masyadong magulo isioan ko. After ko mkpagtapos at pumasa sa board. Nagapply ako then nagwork ako sa dswd. Madme akong naexperience sa field. After 4 years sa dswd, naisip ko kung kumusta na ung ex ko. Hinanap ko friends niya at tinanong ung number and address niya, gusto ko syang kausapin at mgsorry sa lahat. Nagkita kme at inexplain ko lahat sa knya ung pagkakamali ko 11 years ago, inadmit ko na mali ko lahat un at very childiah pa ung pagiisip ko compared sa knya na laki sa hirap at pagpupursigi sa buhay. Naiyak kmeng dalawa. Humingi ako ng chance kong pwedeng bumalik ako s piling niya para bumawi ako sa lahat lahat. Sabe nia pagiisipan nia dw ng 1 taon. Napangiti ako at sinabe kong mghihintay ako. After a year and 2 months, nagpynta siya sa condo ko at gulat na gulat ako kc bglaan yun pabgyayare, kagigicing ko pa lang un. Sayang saya siya na umiiyak (tears of joy), sabe nia sa akin, I will always choose you. Then yun naging kme ulet. Natutu naman na ako sa nakaraan, then after 2 years in a relationship, kinasal kme. And now we are happily married with 2 kids. Maayos na maayos na kme at wala ng away. Wala na din ung demonyong isipan ko na mapanakit. Isa ng ganap na engineer yung asawa ko at natutunan kong sportahan siya sa gusto niyang makamit na achievements sa buhay. Narealized ko lahat lahat na ang pagmamahal pla is natutunan, hindi bsta bstang naramdaman mo e un na yun. It takes time to love someone, courtship is the first process. Para sa mga babae jan, magpaligaw muna kau ng isang taon bago nio sagutin ung lalake para mas makilala nio. Sa mga lalake nman na bayulente na kagaya ng past me, darating ang karma nio and i hope na malagpasan nio at maisipan niong si Lord ang daan para maisalba niyo ang mga sarili nio sa madilim naisipan. God bless us all❤🙏✌
The most traumatic part of this interview for me was when Ana said she hated/scared looking at her face in the mirror now because she still see her face during the assault, that’s the most painful part of abuse; not when it was happening but when the trauma comes back every time something triggers it. I hope Ana continue to fight for herself because that will be part of her healing and she’s right, regardless of how broken the guy is, her priority is herself and how she will heal from it. If she has to do 100’s of interviews about what she’d been through, then do it if that helps her heal… and I’m going to watch it to support her healing as a woman. Nobody deserves this kind of abuse regardless of any situation.
I feel so lucky with my husband, umiinom sya pero mas nagiging sweet at parang maamong tupa pag nalalasing, at matutulog na. Sometimes hindi ko na appreciate at nagagalit pa rin ako but this just made me realized something. Praying for your healing Ms Ana.
From 30:05 naiyak na naman ako dahil na enlightened ako sa faith ni Ana at thankful ako kay Our Lord God Jesus Christ at dininig niya yung dalangin ni Ana at sinave niya si Ana. Thank You Our Lord God Jesus Christ. 🎤🎼❤️🙏😇
Dami kong beses naiyak habang nagnanarate sia...ramdam mo talaga ang sakit takot at kawalan ng pag asa..but God answers prayers kaya naman nasagip ka sa tiyak na kamatayan..laban lang Ana! At sana wagla na makipgbalikan sa knya...
Domestic Violence, physical and emotional abuse is such a NO, NO here in America. Watching from Dallas, Texas. I just came across this video. I’m praying for you that you may heal emotionally, physically and spiritually. If this guy can do this to you now, he will do it again! There are soo many fishes in the sea. Remember you are beautiful!❤️
It's given that she's not the best storyteller; pls don't slander her through your "she sounds shady, I need to hear kit's side of the story." She was physically abused regardless of what happened; no backstory or event could justify violence. Please be kind with your words. Ana, you are very brave for sharing your story. May your heart and your mind heal also.
You can tell her trauma by the way she recalls what happened. Evey details from the moment they were happy and the mood swings of Kit and how his mentally unstable.
oo nga ewan ba sa ibang nga nagcocomment dito.. kala mo parang binayaran ni kit na mapanakit para kondenahin si Ana.. i hope wala ni isa dito sa comment section na toh na makaranas ng naranasan nya.. God moves in mysterious ways kaya nakaligtas si miss ana.. and maybe it is time for kit to seek professional help na.. para darating ung time na kapag may minahal na sya at mamahalin sya eh di na maulit ang nangyari..
A broken man will end up breaking you. Love alone is not enough to fix it. Salute to you ms. Ana for staying brave & for doing what must be done to protect yourself. You didn't deserve any of this, I hope you get all the help you need. I hope you heal from this eventually. 🥺🤗 Sending love and hugs ❤️
no, youre wrong, dont generalize. Not all broken man will break others, there are those who are broken that just need love and light to change into good. look at baron geisler, he found his love and he change into a very calm and loving person.
@@cripags7765 how can you give an entire assurance that Baron already changed??? Ikaw ba asawa nya??? No matter what, you do not know what's happening behind closed doors. Let's just hope and pray na nagbago na talaga sya.
Pinanood ko yung part 1 and 2 kahit na mahaba because I want to understand what and why those things happened to her. Walang tao o babae na deserve ma experience or malagay sa ganoong sitwasyon. May dalawang side ng story syempre but regardless, there is no enough reason to hurt someone especially yung taong sinasabi mong mahal mo. Kit obviously needs help for him to control his anger and his emotions. Anna also need help to get over it. Hindi ko ma imagine yung pain na naramdaman nya nung mga oras na yon. She felt helpless. But then, the Lors is good. She saved her. To Anna, I pray that the Lord continue to heal you emotionally, physically and mentally. You don't deserve that. Thank you for being a voice for the women out there who experienced the same thing and for those who are still in that situation. God bless you.
Laban lang Ms. Ana! Walang sino mang lalaki ang may karapatan na manakit ng babae, Swerte mo Kit at marunong magpatawad ang ginawan mo ng masama. Darating ang araw na makakahanap ka ng katapat mo, sana bago mangyari yon may pagbabago na sa buhay mo. Kinailangan pang may masirang buhay at matrauma ka bago mo makita pagkakamali mo
Sa lahat nang nagsasabi na baka may valid reason si Kit kaya niya nagawa 'to, mahiya naman kayo. Ano pang rason niya, hindi dapat sya manakit. No to physical abuse. No to victim blaming!
Grabe parang feel mong nasa shoes ka ni Ana nung kinikwento niya yung pangyayari..mabuti tong interview kasi lesson learned to sa mga babae..go with ur gut feeling..na vibes mo yan kung parang may iba sa guy..mabuti ng buhay ka at single kesa mapatay ka.. Ana you’re so brave and strong kasi naka pag call for help kapa that time 🙌🏼
My heart goes out to you Ana. It's been 6 years since the day I got out of an abusive relationship and to this day, I can still feel the effects of the trauma and pain that I received from that person. I can't explain the joy of knowing that you survived and is finally out of that relationship for good. I can't say that things will be better, there are days that it will hurt more. I wish you healing and confidence to look in the mirror and feel beautiful again. xo
I feel sorry for you Ana :-(, i don’t know you until the news came out and knew more by watching this. I can see how you are matured , understanding, and patience towards Kit and the ongoing relationship. God heard your prayer to save you in Kit’s hands, thank God! Praying that your traumatic experienced will be gone by undergoing to a counseling and the Ana you said before a happy and friendly will be back again. To Kit find help for your anger and jealousy problem 🙏🏼. And avoid drinking wine if this causing you to be out of control in your anger.
Grabe ang sakit 😭😭😭 Ana, damang dama ko ang hirap na pinagdaanan mo. Di ko man dinanas pero grabe story mo akala ko sa teleserye lang nangyayari. Sobrang strong mo! 💖 God bless, alam ko madaming mapupulot na idea kaming mga babae, lalo na yung mga may similarity na case kagaya ni Kit. Stay strong. Sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My anxiety level just went up halfway through. But the fact that you still think of his welfare despite what you went through in his hands, I just want to keep hugging you virtually. I'm praying for your healing, physically and emotionally.
Not all women are strong enough or even still alive to tell their story and fight their abusers. We pray for you, Ana, and to all women struggling against abuse. May your strength be a catalyst for change. And to parents, teach your children to respect others. Life is a constant learning.
Nakakaiyak naman, dami luha at sipon ko dito. God is really Almighty and heard Ana’s prayer. She was saved from the claws of an evil lover. Go with your fight Ana. You are an inspiration for battered women.
MASAKIT MASAKTAN, PERO ANG PINAKA MAHIRAP NA PART IS UNG SAKIT NA DINANAS MO AY GALING SA TAONG MINAHAL AT PINAGKATIWALAAN MO, HOPING FOR YOUR FAST RECOVERY, STAY STRONG ANA..
Naiyak ako sa kwento ni Ana. She don't deserve that kind of man. Yes, loving a person is accepting who he is pero pag sinasaktan ka na ay iba na yun. Di ka mahal nun. Be strong Ana, God will heal your pain.
This made me cry a lot.😭 I really felt her pain, I experienced the same (being physically abused by the man you love the most - to the point I almost got killed by him) --- the trauma never goes away.😥 But, I thanked God He saved me from that dreadful relationship. You don't deserve to be treated that way Ana! Fight.💪
@@allaboutspiritualaspects1313 I am totally okay na naman. That was my past, I already forgave him and had move forward. Hope you're okay na din po.♥️ God bless.
Honestly, I was crying while watching. God is always good He saved her life. big lesson again after the tragic death of a PAL flight attendant months ago. Be strong. You are a very smart woman.
Buti nga matapang cya na nag sasabi sa ganyang trauma ang hirap gamotin din yan same me …ang pinag daanan ko hirap gamotin ang trauma bogbog sarado din ako sa husband ko pati mga anak at muntikan na ang buhay namin ng anak ko.. buhat nangyari sa akin hated ko na ang lalaki sa buhay ko hirap gamutin kung paano mo e relax at paupahin ang mga nangyayari buti may anak na ako kaya ngayon no need ng man sa buhay ko …
Ms. Ana you are one of the bravest soul for letting everyone know about what happened to you. Isang awareness para sa mga taong malimit idownplay ang abuse. This will be a long journey sana magpagkatatag ka at magpagaling, nawa'y basabasan ka na makamit mo ang hustisya. I truly hope na katulad ni Ms. Ana magkaroon ng lakas ng loob ang ibang mga biktima ng violence. Lalo pa netong pandemic na tumaas ang violence sa loob ng pamamahay. Kagaya ni Ana may iilan na nakaligtas sa ganitong nakakalungkot at nakakagalit na pangyayari. But there were others who never survived. Kitang-kita kung gaano siya katraumatize, hindi ito gawain ng taong may maayos na psyche. Para naman sa mga victim blamers, may this situation will not happen to you or anyone you know before you even realize that it's not the victim's fault why it happens.
Basta sa pag kakaalam natin lahat na kaht anung uri ng babae pa sila hindi tama ang manakit ng tao yun n nga lalo na nga mga kababaihan … wala sa klase ng uri o trabaho para saktan mo kaht sino pang gao kaharap mo galangin mo at mahalin mo
Sir Boy, I experienced po more than what she painfully experienced, in 1985. The way Ms. Ana detailed how she was beaten up for no reason by the man who lost his senses and suddenly turned into a dangerous stranger was so horrifying. I still want to shut down my brain every time that painful memory returned. It took several years for me to recover from terrifying experience who haunted me every time I was alone or when the night came. There were no nights I was not weeping silently in bed, til the weeping turned into dreadful desire to take some revenge. The thought of even his chopped flesh cannot quench my anger and pain, I even felt the satisfaction by burning him alive, if I could. A state of mind to commit a murder started to set in my head to meet the level of pain I was suffering. I wanted to go crazy but I could not. I suffered a state of shock and severe insomia. I only had two hours of sleep everyday or worst 24 hours without sleep because the moment I closed my eyes, the painful night how I was brutally beaten and his hand chocked my throat in bed, and how he picked me up from bed and dropped me down the stairs and he lit the gas lamp and he threw it on the stairs, he nearly burned me to death. All these started to play in my head, I stayed every night fighting my tears and the burning anger. I lost the joy of living and my heart turned into a man-hater. It was my father who received and encountered my anger for men. Thanks be to GOD, I feared HIM most, I could not afford to throw my anger and do evil things to other people, most specially my own father and brothers. I turned to GOD all my sufferings and started to read the Bible. One day, I decided to change my life. I prayed to the LORD to heal me. I was emotionally and mentally drained. No strength at all. I closed myself from my family and friends for so many years even they were just around me. So one day I said to the LORD in my prayer, please change my heart to forgive even in his absence, so that I will be healed and give me peaceful heart. Slowly, I started to have life inside my heart. It was from travelling alone and I communed with the word and the presence of the Holy Spirit, I find myself again. It is only through reaching out to GOD for healing and forgiveness that we can be healed from pains and learn to live again. Living abroad for 20 years, I'm still alone at 58 but I never felt lonely. I kept the Holy Bible with me, my daily comfort with the LORD. My name is Jennifer.
@@lynpearl3166 Thank you po sa mensahi nyo. But there's no real happiness po. The most important thing in life for me is to have a peaceful mind in the presence of the Almighty God po.
@@lynpearl3166 Thank you po sa mensahi nyo. But there's no real happiness po. The most important thing in life for me is to have a peaceful mind in the presence of the Almighty God po.
Listening to the conversation here, it's really evident that Keith is a troubled, possessive and abusive man. He may even have a personality disorder. Ganyan kc mga abusive sorry ng sorry pero ganun pa din, hindi yan nagbabago. The relationship is so toxic na pero kc hindi ganun kadali makawala dahil nandyan na ung attachment eh. But be strong Ana, dahil someday you will look back and realize how fool you've been for staying with him. Just be glad na nakawala ka ng buhay dahil kung hindi malamang bangkay ang kahihinatnan mo. I can totally relate, because hindi man ganyan kalala at hindi man ako nabugbog physically pero ilang beses na muntik na. Pero emotionally, verbally at financially, hindi marami ang nakaka-alam nito pero bogbog na bogbog din ako at nandyan ang trauma kung kaya't nawalan na din ako ng trust sa mga lalaki. Deep inside iba na naiisip ko, nandyan na ang takot kung kaya't I decided just to stay single forever because what if mas malala pa abutin ko, di ba? Masaya ako na kasama ko lang mga anak ko...
Maraming filipina nag stay sa mga lalaki na hinuthutan sila ng pera. I am also one of that person and yes nawalan na ako ng trust sa mga lalaki. Cus like nagiging pattern na kasi sya . Yung mga lalaki na gusto ko is may heavy baggage sila kaya nag give up na ako.
I don't even have to hear Kit's side of the story. There is no reason great enough to validate physical abuse. It's sickening how he says he loves Ana very much and yet, was continuously abusing her physically and verbally. That's sick! Stay brave, Ana. We are with you.
Thank you Tito Boy for interviewing Ana, and letting her narrate all the behavioral patterns ni Kit, beginning from their start of relationship up to this major incident that happened. Obvious na may pattern of behavior si Kit simula pa lang, at dahil nga nag so-sorry at mahal pa din ni Ana, binu-brush off lang ung ganung red flags. I admire her deep level of understanding of Kit's situation, pero it sure taught her, and us as well, na pwedeng maging understanding, pero hindi natin pwede i-tolerate at pagtiyagan ang ganung klaseng relationship. Moreover, hindi rin tayo si God na kayang baguhin ang tao kagaya ng nakikita, nababasa, or napapanood sa romance novels or series. I think, at some point, tayo ding kababaihan ay dapat aminin sa sarili natin na wala tayong kakayahan na baguhin ang tao. Although we can give them encouragement or be of some support. It's also humbling na we need to be aware of ourselves din bakit may desire tayo to change a person. Is it because, deep down, we love the feeling of being needed or feeling heroic? Or perhaps it's something else..etc etc Now that these incidents are being uploaded in social media, it's time to educate ourselves, and the other young women, about psychology and the beginning of abusive manner of a person.
Be strong Ana, paglaban mo, madaling magpatawd, pero nd madaling makalimot at mahirap talaga. Kahit humilom man ang sugat my piklat na sa puso mo masakit. Makinig ka sa mga taong concerned sau. Once na sinaktan ka ng umpisa, sunod sunod na yan. Kahit how many times pa sya magpakaawa at umiyak never ever ka ng bumalik sa taong nd ka nirespeto. Hanga pa nmn ako ky Kit gwapo, kaso ng marinig ko ang nangyari sau sa mga ginagawa nya super sakit yan, bad na sya. Kc nagawa nya nong una next ulit ulitin nya. Para naka relate ako. Basta paglaban mo wag mong pairalin ang awa at naramdaman mo sa kanya. Ang isipin mo yong sakit, mura at nd ka nya nerespito ang ginawa nya para nd mo maramdaman ang awa. Itoy payo lang. God bless
I don’t understand why other people are throwing rude words on her, blaming her, saying she deserves what happened to her. Labeling her as “Martir” for still loving the guy despite what he did to her. You will never understand, until you’re in the same situation as her. And if you’re too unlucky to experience this kind of abuse in the future, i hope people won’t judge you the same way you judged her! And for Ana, you’re so strong girl! It’s not easy to leave an abusive relationship especially when you love the abuser so dearly. You tend to extend your limits, hoping that your love will be enough to change them. It’s a good thing that, you chose yourself first Ana. I know in time all of your wounds will heal. And remember that you are beautiful and you are loved ❤️
Can't imagine the trauma she's going through. Girls, may this be a lesson to identify the red flags. Know when to get out of the situation. He hit you once, he can do it again more aggressively.
Thank you for this interview… i hope bashers will be enlightened and may compassion run into theirs nerves. Ana Jalandoni may not be as educated as others, but this lady has the kindest heart. She is a smart girl! She knows when to stop and when to keep going. She worked hard to be where she is right now. For Ana… it does’nt matter how you started and where you came from. What matters is where are you leading on. You came a long way! Keep dreaming and chase your dreams. Focus on the lessons you learned in every obstacle that you’ve gone through. Love yourself and trust GOD’s plan for you. You are instrumental now in opening people’s mind especially those of the battered women and the abusers as well. God guide you on your journey for Justice. 🙏
This detailed narrative of Ms. Ana brought up a loooot of ugly memories of battered women. Thank you so much for speaking up for inspiring women to get out of the relationship. God bless you
😭😭😭Bumalik ang nakaraan ko... Pareho kami ni Ana narasan bogbog din ako noon.. Pero naging matatag ako sa buhay, . . Go go go Ana Kaya mo yan... Makahap Karin ng lalaki na magmamahal sayo. 💪
Same sis. Grabe ang trauma no? Tapos napapatawad mo lagi kht nasasaktan ka. Ung araw2 knkbahan ka na baka masaktan ka pag hnd nya gusto ung snabe o gnawa mo. Haaayy Thank God nakalaya na tau
My tears keep falling till end😭...I felt so broken while watching ANA😢😭sobrang nakakatrauma ung takot nah naranasan nia sa kamay ng taong mahal nia😢😭May God guidance always be with u till u heal emotionally physically spiritually🙏stay strong Ms Ana💪❤u will be okay in Godswill🙏🙏
grabe! kinikilabutan ako habang tumutulo ang luha ko, sana mag heal ka Anna, di madali pero kakayanin mo yan with the help of your friends, family and God.
I like what Atty. said "The good thing that might come up from this is that you will be the face of women rising up against violence." Keep your head up Ana. You are strong and brave.
You are so brave to tell your story and inspire women who suffered violence. It's very important to be aware of red flags and maybe it's better someone can give us an advice what to do as soon as you recognize those actions.
Thank you so much Tito Boy for featuring cases like this there are lots of lessons to be learned. More power to you and your program. I always love watching your blogs, true stories, debates etc.😄♥️
I was feeling so much tension and panic the whole time simula sa part 1 palang. Kahit yung mga side comments lang nya na “happy na naman, labyu” awang awa ako. There is no way na may side si kit dito na majujustify sya. Kahit “anger management issue” o mental illness. Pano naman yung physical at mental health ni ana na nag-adjust ng nag-adjust para sa kanya?
Ana, thousands of comments here saying they.. we will pray for you... Laban to ng kapwa mo, di mo lang laban to.. this interview has million of views now, some of them may have been experiencing the same with yours or worst, na sana sila din lumaban at makawala din sila. Ana, this is no longer your battle alone.. this is God's battle... ❤️ He will never leave nor forsake you.
Nahirapan ako huminga habang kinukwento ni Ana yung nangyari. 😭😭😭 The trauma🥺🥺🥺 Ana please be strong, we’re with you. Salamat sa paglaban! God bless you! 🙏🥺❤️
Grabe, after all, she still understands Kit's situation. This case will actually ruin her but will be the first part of healing and by doing this it could actually of help for Kit also. She really needs to do this. Sadly this needs to be publicized for both are in the entertainment biz. It will be alright soon. Trust the process. Stay strong Ana. May Kit really would reflect on his actions too and seek help.
Grabe. Ang toxic ni Kit. Puro red flags talaga. Nakaka trauma.nakakaiyak sobra. And sobrang nakakahanga since ang lakas lakas ni Ana harapin yung gantong sitwasyon. Stay strong, girl. True na hindi mo deserve ang mabugbog. Praying for you 🙏
Ang swerte ni Kit dahil Si Anna yung tipo ng babae na handang tanggapin ng buong-buo yung pagkatao mo. Grabe hindi ko maimagine ung pain at takot ni Anna nung time na yun. Thank God na dininig ang prayers niya. At nasave sya. Stay strong anna madaming nagmamahal sayo. One day you will find a man who will love you unconditionally because u are a great woman. You deserved better.
Stay strong Ana! You’re so brave! Keep fighting! Napaka ganda mong tao, at busilak pa ang kalooban mo. May God bless you more strength, courage and hope na makukuha mo ang justice! I salute you! Laban lang! 💪💪💪
"Gusto ko sya habulin".I feel u.I was in this kind of relationship,imagine mayuyupi ang door knob sa pagkakapukpok sakin,bugbog sarado lagi tinatapakan tinatadyakan ako, ulo ko.I wasnt brave enough to tell the police, I was blaming myself,his family blames me, "ikaw kc ganito ka ganun"...it took 2 years before i fought back & to realize it wasnt my fault.Nabubulag ka sa katotohanan kc mahal mo ng sobra and u just take in the abuse.
@@thebeginner1936 i know the feelings. takot ako sa mga ganyang pangyayari. paranoid ako pagdating jan. single ako pero happy naman ako. hindi ko kelangan ng lalake para masabing happy ako o may makakasama ako sa buhay.
akala ko ako lang di pala ako nag iisip.ung imbes na makuha sympathy ng ibang tao mas lalo lang nila ako sinisisi bcoz tama ka after kng sinaktan naawa kapa. khit gusto ko kumawa ako pa natatakot na bka may madamay pang ibang tao kapag gagawa ako ng desisyon na kumawa. Nakakapagsisi na may pagkakataon na sana akong kumawala pero inatras ko pa dahil sa gusto kong protektahan mga taong pdeng madamay at masaktan.
A lot of people will never understand what it's like to have a good heart. Being a person who believes in goodness no matter what the situation may be is something you cannot just command to leave something behind. Ana had hopes for Kit because of love and she stayed despite having small doubts because love forgives and it understands. Ana knew what was going on but she also knew that she wanted to help Kit. It is just unfortunate that she had to go through this even when we as the audience knew from the beginning of the story that it did sound really weird and odd how everything went too fast and a lot of red flags were already shown. We will never know what she really feels inside and the trauma that she experienced so please everyone, be careful with your words and take care of yourselves. Never tolerate abuse and while you still have a chance, and never defend an abuser. She's not the best storyteller but one thing is for sure...recalling ones trauma and horrifying experience is already like experiencing it again one more time.
Di porket nagsacrifice ka sa gago eh you have a good heart na. Madami may mas good heart na gumagamit din muna ng utak bago puso. Mas madami good heart ang hindi nagpapaapi. Parehas sila may mental problem. Dapat sa ex husband plang nya natuto na sya. Ang dami red flags pero di sya umiwas na. I believe walang mabububog if walang papabugbog. Nakakawa si Anna pero pls sana sa una plng minahal nya sarili nya muna!
Be strong and keep praying, Ana. You don't deserve what you went through. Yes, you will serve as a good example to those women who experienced physical and verbal abuse to their partners. I feel your sincerity and honesty as you had narrated your story. At naiyak ako habang kinukuwento mo. Honestly, I don't really know who Ana Jalandoni and do not even know that you are Kit Thompson's girlfriend. Napakaganda at sexy mo pala. Hindi nakakasawa ang ganda mo. May God bless you. Thank you also tito Boy dahil nalaman ng mga tao ang buong kuwento. At right decision on the part of Miss Ana Jalandoni that you were the first one who interviewed her.
Ito ang isa sa pinaka masakit na mangyayare sa isang kababaihan😭😭😭 nakakadurog ng puso na may mga ganto tao...sana wag kang pang hihinaan ng loob anna para lumaban hanggang dulo..sana mag patuloy ka kahit anu man ang mangyre ....salamat sa pag bahagi ng kwento mo..salamt at lumaban ka..napaka tapang mong babae....godbless you and god will guide you🥺🥺🥺🥺
I admire your strength ang courage, Ana. Sa lahat ng pinagdaanan mo. Napakastrong mo po. Thank God at naisave ka. Laban lng po at praying for your fast healing physically emotionally psychologically Ana. God bless you po. 🙏
Sobrang hanga ako sa tapang mo. You did the right thing Ana. May you continue to spread awareness sa mga ganto. Para mabawasan na dn mga abusers sa mundo. Kulong kau lahat subukan nyo.
tinamaan ako sa sinabi ni Ana na after ng nangyari nawalan sya ng confidence, nawala na yung dating Ana na masayahin, that’s what abuse does to you and yun din talaga ang goal ng abuser, yung mabura ang pagkatao mo at mapalitan ng takot. They will break you and then try to fix you pero you’re not the same as before and then the cycle begins again, walang katapusang cycle of abuse. I hope Ana heals and Keith gets the help he needs.
Married a Covert narcissist in 2016 and the physical/emotional abuse started after we got married. Sa side ko naman, madalas manakit pero iilan ang pasa, dugo, madalas aksidente pa nalalagay kc he usually chooses the body part na di nakikita like ung natatakpan ng damit or iuuntog ang ulo so natatakpan ng buhok. Advise ko sa mga babae, be wary of red flags especially gaslighting and get out ASAP. Narcissists never change. Kung di makaalis, read the book written by Dr Ramani "Should i stay or should i go?" or kung gusto na tlg umalis pero wala pang motivation, read the book by Colleen hoover "It ends with us"
Thank you sa book recommendations. May katrabaho ako na nasa abusive relationship na ilang beses nang na ospital dahil sa bugbog pero bumabalik pa din sya sa husband niya. Her sister force her to leave her husband and she blocked and move away from her sister. Hindi namin alam kung paano sya namin macoconvince na lumayo sa husband niya. We're afraid na sa susunod na bugbugin sya ng husband niya, baka..
that's true ana, you don't deserve what kit did to you. no one deserves to be physically & verbally abused by anyone. that's the right thing to do as humans. ana needs healing to overcome the trauma. it's gonna be a long & hard process and i truly pray that ana will completely heal from this and regain her confidence & old happy self. by pursuing this case against kit, you are not only helping yourself ana but also all the other women who are still in this dark situation of an abusive relationship. may you inspire others and be the face of a strong and courageous woman against violence. God bless you ana and be strong!
This kind of experience is very traumatizing. I experienced the same and it took me a long time to get out. Be brave and rebuild yourself. If you get into another relationship, the trauma is still there. You'll always be scared if your partner will shout or raise his voice. Be strong Ana.
Ohh, Kit NEEDS help! It's not just his personality, but he has a condition/disorder. On top of him being insecure, controlling, and jealous. And Ana actually has everything. She has money, job, assets, mabait, mapagmahal, mapasensya, and considerate. Masyado nyang mahal and hopeful kay Kit na iniignore nya lahat. Hope she heals faster and remembers her worth.
I know there is no right to hurts anyone. She keep her self as a victim. Have you heard the guy side none its not only woman there law is always go to women against violence how about guys. There is a lot of women always pa victim but it's women's fault. Its both of them fault she should break up with him long time a go if you see the person not worth it. How many interviews she git but the other side still quite
Listening to this interview makes me feel that I have the same situation with Ms. Ana because of love you can forgive the person eventhough he/she hurts you. I have also bruises in mine like her but I am still in silent. I thought I was the only one suffering being battered without any mistake but listening to this interview I realize that hindi pala ako nag-iisa 😢
You shouldn't keep being silent, wag mong hayaan na sinasaktan ka. Hindi ka pinanganak sa mundo para gawin punching bag. It's not clear in your post if you are still with than man though or not?
Girl, you'll get through this. ☺️ May family din akong ganyan nanakit. mahirap talaga bumitaw dahil mahal mo. Chaka after ka saktan may Love Bombing na ginagawa ang mga abusers para maforgive mo. Hanggang nag eescalate na pala yung ginagawa sayo. Ganon talaga sila. Hindi mo kasalanan yun. Abusers ang problema hindi ikaw. Natanong pa ni Kit kung papakulong mo sya pero di nya natanong kung kailangan mo na padala sa ospital ba talaga. Iniisip lang nila sarili nila. I pray for your healing physically, emotionally and spiritually. You're a smart and loving woman it's apparent. You'll be more usefull to God in the future. Use it to help other women and encourage them to let go abusers.
that´s a big red flag kapag seloso ang partner ng isang tao lalo pa kapag umiinom ito. there are lessons to be learned here. no one deserve what she went through, but things happened for a reason . sometimes we have to experience bad things in life para magising sa katutuhanan. usually and most of the time, God gives us signs or warnings before na kailangan tayo kumalas sa isang sitwasyon, pero karamihan sa atin ay ini ignore natin ang sign na yon because we are afraid at dahil mahal natin ang isang tao at wala tayong lakas para lumayo. the best thing she did in that situation is to PRAY. only God the father can save us , but we have to ask for his help. ana needs a lot of time for healing from this trauma. thank you tito boy for this video and ana for her strenght sharing her story. this is an experience that will make her more stronger. thanks the Lord for saving her and God bless
Kit is ineligible for a relationship when his still lost and broken himself. Love is not enough! Stay strong Ana and keep fighting this battle! You deserve to love and to be loved! Godbless you, Sending hugs 🤗
Physically & emotionally damage 😭 this is a long process of healing that needs medical and spiritual help. but take it as positive Ana it might be a breakthrough to a life change. God is good and He is the only one knows why it happened . Praying for your fast healing and recovery. 🙏🏻☝️❤️🙏🏻
Ms Ana i will pray you will heal in God's time... With all the traumatic experience you had, I hope and pray you will regain your strength and your old self. Hearing your story is such an uncomfortable feeling... Thank God you were able to get away from that traumatic experience...may God bless you constantly 🙏🙏🙏
My heart goes to Ana. Such a strong woman to go thru that trauma, hurt and violence in the hands of the person she thought loves her but is a mentally unstable man. Obviously Kit needs help mentally but at the same time should pay for his crime so that this won't happen again to anyone under his hands. Ana you are one brave WOMAN. You are rising not just for yourself but for every woman out there by telling your story so that they may feel that they are not alone and there is hope! God is good, your faith saved you! We will pray for your recovery.
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Sa mga nag dedefend kay kit dito and sinasabing dahil sa selos at pag mamahal, NO. Love is not selfish, pag mahal mo hindi mo sasaktan at di mo kayang makitang nasasaktan. Any kinds of abuse is not justifiable lalo na kung nakakasakit at nakkapinsala kana ng ibang tao.
To Ana, I hope you take time to heal and to get checked kase grabe yung trauma na inabot mo.. always be safe and guard your heart the next time. No one deserves this.
To kit, you badly need help. Fix your self, love yourself and get checked as well. Kailangan mo managot sa batas at kailangan mo harapin yung ginawa mo.
I. Agree Po di ibigsbhi Ng selos is mahal n mhal k db wlang ganung pgmmahal pag mhal m Ang Isang tao d m xa sasakyan emotionally and physically
Well said!
Pbb days palang ni kith ung personality niaiba. Mainitin ulo
may bipolar disorder yung lalaki kaya ganyan ang mode nya pero baka magamit para maka lusot sa kaso
Buang ng mulaban aning lakiha mayrag masumbagan pod. Ahws .. kaulit
you can never fix a man who does not want to be fixed. always remember ladies that we are not a rehabilitation centers for badly raised men.
Preach!! True words!!
Very well said..
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Well said..👍
Grabe I can’t imagine the trauma sobrang detailed ng story nya 😭 stay strong po Miss Ana 🙏
Nakakabilib! Hindi lang siya basta bastang babae napaka strong niya she can take care of herself, and so independent. She don’t deserve that treatment man. No one does.
Keep fighting Ana! You’re so inspiring.
Ana, God heard your prayers when you prayed: "sana may dumating.. sana may dumating.." At may dumating na tulong..Rest in the fact that God loves you and you survived the near-death experience for a reason, for an even higher mission. There are many women who are quietly allowing themselves to be abused and unable to free themselves. Sana you can use your own pain and testimonies to inspire them. You can use your brutal experience to be a strong advocate for abused women. It's one if not the best way to heal yourself and draw good out of this rather horrendous experience. It's an opportunity to be a real-life action star and heroine - which you mentioned is your dream role. This can be a beginning of a bigger purpose in your life.
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Nag stay sila sa abusive dahil sa financial situation nila. Kung wala kang pera . Mahirap talaga makawala sa tao kasi wala silang pera. At ano din trauma bonding.
Grabe.This interview changed my perception on Ana.Napakagenuine ng interview na to.I also cried.Especially the part where she said nung pinoposasan na si Keith sa hotel na parang gusto pa rin nya puntahan at yakapin si Keith but at the same time, naisip din nya na no!This man hurt me.Kailangan unahin nya sarili nya.Napakatraumatic.
To all the people who said they want to hear Kit’s side because they’re “skeptic” w/ this poor woman’s testimony just basing the part 1. Imagine being in this situation, being questioned or invalidated just because they can’t believe on you yet. The bottom line is NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED, PHYSICALLY, VERBALLY, OR EMOTIONALLY. To all the people who asks for the guy’s side, shame on you.
true...on the first day of this news halos lahat lalo na mga kababaihan c Ana pa ang sinisisi. nkakahiyang mga kababaihan, sana lang matikman nila kahit isang suntok pra alam nila ang pakiramdam ng maabuse.
No need to explain kits side. Kung may kasalanan si Ana di dapat niya sasakktan. Naku!! Kith dapat saiyo ipadala sa Ukraine at ipanglaban kay Putin tiknan natin ang tapang mo. Sana wag ng ilabas sa kulungan ang ganyan klaseng Tao forever na siya diyan baka may mabiktima na naman pag nakalaya. 😡😡😡😡😡
Yes. Shame on them. Pwede Naman sya interview after he will serve his verdict o Baka pwede ma interview sa kulungan na. Or else kit not deserve to have air time interview Kay Tito boy. Ito lang 🖕sa lahat na gusto marinig si kit to justify his actions.
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So ayos lang nagpapabayad ka sa ibang lalaki ng 250K kapalit sex kahit may karelasyon ka talaga? I can't stand the hypocrisy coming out of your mouths!
Maraming luha lumabas sa mga mata ko while watching this interview, sobra ako naawa sa kanya😭 Laban lang Ana.🙏 Thanks God na nasave ka niya that time. Yong trauma matagal yan mawaglit sa isipan mo. Be strong & keep on praying. Hindi mo deserve masaktan ng ganyan.
She seems to be a very level headed, street smart and mature woman. Laban, Ana! Naniniwala ako sa lahat at buong kwento mo.
Naniniwala din ako sa kwento nya. Pero she is not level headed at all. Hindi nya kasalanan pero red flags were all over the place before the event.
Totoo. Wlang ksinungalingan
True. Hindi siya yung typical pabebe. I admire her for that. Matapang.
God is good
please enlighten me, ako lang ba ung nakapansin sa part na wala daw signal nung gabi tapos nakapag chat sya para humingi ng tulong 🙏
I watched this because I was also physically abused by my ex boyfriend even while I was pregnant to our son and I realized how silent I have become about it. Because like Ana andun yung love, I still want to protect him and makapagsimula siya ulit. Because he shared his childhood traumas to me. I was able to understand. Sadly, he acted pa na parang siya yung victim when I broke up with him. I just had the courage na umalis sa relationship it's because I don't want our son na maexperience din yon. Nung kahit after nanganak ako at di siya nagbago. It was only God also who saved me and my child. Now I'm still sufferring with the trauma he gave me, I am now seeing a counseling therapist and still on the process on seeing my worth and value again. The scars, mga pasa pwedeng mawala pero may naiiwan pa din emotionally and mentally. I just realized also after watching this video kung gaanong women should not stay silent about this. I pray for all women who are experiencing domestic violence to have the courage to leave that relationship and speak up for themselves. God will surely save and redeem us.
Hindi man tayo magkakilala I want you to know I am so proud of you.. Sobrang bilib ako sa mga single parents na mas pinili harapin ang laban mag isa para sa welfare ng mga anak nila.. ❤️
This is what interview is! Without editing the words!💯👏
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I was literally shaking as I was watching this interview.. and was crying specially when Ana was telling Kit's assault.. sending love, strength and prayers to Miss Ana.. please know that you are beautiful and strong. And nobody can ever make you feel otherwise.. you deserve all the love and respect this world has to offer..
Thanks God He save you🙏
Kit needs Healing, maybe He has past happened to him in past.
This interview is heartbreaking. Stay strong Ana. Don’t ever forget what Kit did to you and remain firm in seeking justice for the crime committed against you. Keep fighting and empowering women who are silent victims of domestic violence. Praying for strength, courage and healing for you. God be with you.🙏
Umpisa pa Lang ng kwento alam mo agad toxic.
I feel the pain. It's difficult for her to tell the truth against her lover.
Ang hirap ang trauma same ko grabe din ang pinag daanan ko sa husband ko sa pag bobog sa akin bago cya namatay kaya ayaw kuna mag asawa talaga muntik din ako patayin ng asawa ko dati pati mga anak ko hinde naka ligtas sa kamay ng asawa ko.. kaya mahirap talaga kalimutan buti ang mga police at city hall stuff kinuha kami at tinago habang kinakaso ang nanyari sa amin ng mga anak ko noon.. 11 years na ang nakaraan until now walang pag babago ang trauma grabe minsan parang baliw narin ako sa sarili ko hirap paupain kaya iyak nalang ako at dasal punta sa dagat iiyak at sisigaw o kaya sa bundok iiyak at sisigaw para lumowak ang pakiramdam ko pero pray at maging maayos ang buhay…
I remember kit role Sa teleseryeng Pamilya ko!!Ganyan din sya Sa totoong buhay.kakatakot
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Pure love never hurts, no one will go through a point hurting someone they love. Obsession is mistaken to love and this should be stopped. This is not just Anna's fight but a fight for all the unheard women. Courage has no gender and Anna proved it in this Interview.
Oo hindi pananagit ng asawa, obsession never hindi yan parte ng pagmamahal kung ang isang tao nagmamahal hindi nananakit at namimisikal or nagbeberbal. Ang pagmamahal ay nagaaruga at malawak ang paunawa. Yung mga nagsasabing kahit nasasaktan na sila e mahal parin sila, hay nako magising kayo hindi yan pagibig kundi obsession walang diyos ang taong yan.
Thats pure obsession & kit doesn't only have an anger issue but is also a psycho, like he has a bipolar disorder. Sana mpagamot c kit. He really needs help
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okay lang no walker making money naman di many times na nya ginawa gusto kasi nyan babae yumaman gold digger ika nga hahaha wag kami ana alam nnamin galawan mo
this is so true. we need to stop thinking that obsession is equal to love. it is not love anymore it's pure evil. i hope all survivors and those who still in their fight find their justice and peace.
Kit is so much obsessed to Ana to the point that he wants to destroy nor kill Ana rather than seeing Ana on the hands of others. Kit might not have experienced being loved much and taken good care from his childhood to early adulthood. Ganyan din ako noon, sobramg seloso at possesive and I admit na madalas kong masampal yung ex ko noon. Umabot yung kademonyohan ng utak ko to the point na inaway ko pati parents nia and then tinawag nila ung tatay ko at binugbug ako ng tatay ko during that time sa harap nila mismo. Nagsisigaw ako habang umiiyak. Inuwi nila ako. After a week, hindi na ngrereply sa akin ung ex ko and then nagpamanila pala xa. Binantahan ko na bubugbugin ko yung tatay nia. Nalungkot ako until bumagsak yung katawan ko. Nadepress ako ng sobra (hndi ko pa alam ang depression noon). Gabi gabi ako umiiyak at halos hndi na ako nakakatulog. Umabot ako sa point na magpapakamatay na lan un nsa isipan ko. One time, about 2-3 AM, pinagmumura ko si Lord na kasalanan nia lahat dhil hndi nia manlang ako binibiyayaan ng blessings. Bandang 5 AM, malakas ang ulan, ngtali na ako ng lubid sa may bintana sa kwarto ko para magbibigti na ako, pgkatapak ko sa bintana, nadulas ako dhil nabasa ng ulan ung bintana. Nahulog ako sa baba. Pagkagising ko nasa hospital na ako. Sakto umuwe nman ung best friend ko since childhood galing Canada na isa na palang ganap na psychologist. Kinausap nia ako at sinamahan buong araw at gabi na nandun ako sa hospital. Pinamukha nia sa akin ang mga maling pinaggagawa ko sa huhay ko kaya ako nahanting sa napakadilim na mundo. Sinabihan nia din ako na mgdasal. Pagkauwe nmin sa bahay after ko makalabas sa hospital, triny ko magdasal then naiyak ako ng sobra, naalala ko ung time na oinagmumura ko si Lord. But after praying, nakatulog ako ng mahimbing, kakaiba, yun ung first time ko na nakatulog ng 8-10 hours after ako iwan ng ex ko. Kinabukasan, nagulat na lang ako na ngsidatingan mga brkada at oinsan ko at kinukumusta ako. Hiyang hiya ako sa knila kc narealized ko na mali ko lahat ung nangyare sa amin ng ex ko, na masyado na akong possessive, at ako pa ung tinutulungan nila imbes na layuan at ikahiya. After a week, dumating dn si ate at kuya ko tas pinagsabihan ako about life and adulting, ineducate nila ako kc alam nilang ung parents nmin ay masyadong marahas kung hindi ko cla sinusunod. Narelized ko lahat ng kamalian ko, nagisip ako ng mabuti at naisip kong magaral ng isa pang kurso na sa tingin ko kailangan ko sa buhay, hndi ung puro business na lang. Nagaral ako ng psychology at ang dme kong natutunan about disorders and shits. Naisip ko na bka may APD ako. Triny ko lahat para maiwasan ko na dti kong mga gawain gaya ng pagiinom at pagyoyosi para hndi na masyadong magulo isioan ko. After ko mkpagtapos at pumasa sa board. Nagapply ako then nagwork ako sa dswd. Madme akong naexperience sa field. After 4 years sa dswd, naisip ko kung kumusta na ung ex ko. Hinanap ko friends niya at tinanong ung number and address niya, gusto ko syang kausapin at mgsorry sa lahat. Nagkita kme at inexplain ko lahat sa knya ung pagkakamali ko 11 years ago, inadmit ko na mali ko lahat un at very childiah pa ung pagiisip ko compared sa knya na laki sa hirap at pagpupursigi sa buhay. Naiyak kmeng dalawa. Humingi ako ng chance kong pwedeng bumalik ako s piling niya para bumawi ako sa lahat lahat. Sabe nia pagiisipan nia dw ng 1 taon. Napangiti ako at sinabe kong mghihintay ako. After a year and 2 months, nagpynta siya sa condo ko at gulat na gulat ako kc bglaan yun pabgyayare, kagigicing ko pa lang un. Sayang saya siya na umiiyak (tears of joy), sabe nia sa akin, I will always choose you. Then yun naging kme ulet. Natutu naman na ako sa nakaraan, then after 2 years in a relationship, kinasal kme. And now we are happily married with 2 kids. Maayos na maayos na kme at wala ng away. Wala na din ung demonyong isipan ko na mapanakit. Isa ng ganap na engineer yung asawa ko at natutunan kong sportahan siya sa gusto niyang makamit na achievements sa buhay. Narealized ko lahat lahat na ang pagmamahal pla is natutunan, hindi bsta bstang naramdaman mo e un na yun. It takes time to love someone, courtship is the first process. Para sa mga babae jan, magpaligaw muna kau ng isang taon bago nio sagutin ung lalake para mas makilala nio. Sa mga lalake nman na bayulente na kagaya ng past me, darating ang karma nio and i hope na malagpasan nio at maisipan niong si Lord ang daan para maisalba niyo ang mga sarili nio sa madilim naisipan. God bless us all❤🙏✌
Wow its a very inspiring testimony. God bless your family
Congratulations kuya. Continue being the best person you can be. God bless!
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The most traumatic part of this interview for me was when Ana said she hated/scared looking at her face in the mirror now because she still see her face during the assault, that’s the most painful part of abuse; not when it was happening but when the trauma comes back every time something triggers it.
I hope Ana continue to fight for herself because that will be part of her healing and she’s right, regardless of how broken the guy is, her priority is herself and how she will heal from it. If she has to do 100’s of interviews about what she’d been through, then do it if that helps her heal… and I’m going to watch it to support her healing as a woman.
Nobody deserves this kind of abuse regardless of any situation.
pag bipolar ba alam ba nila yung abuse na ginawa nila s ibang tao?
I'm with you!
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Ang mg llaking gnyan dapat bigyan nang lection,,pakulong yan pra di na tularan nang iba
Actually the scariest part, walang tumulong. Hindi man lang tumulong mga staff tumawag ng police.
I cannot imagine what she went through... May God heal you physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, Ana.
Wag kang susuko laban anjn c god para sau...
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I feel so lucky with my husband, umiinom sya pero mas nagiging sweet at parang maamong tupa pag nalalasing, at matutulog na. Sometimes hindi ko na appreciate at nagagalit pa rin ako but this just made me realized something. Praying for your healing Ms Ana.
Same makulet pa hehe
From 30:05 naiyak na naman ako dahil na enlightened ako sa faith ni Ana at thankful ako kay Our Lord God Jesus Christ at dininig niya yung dalangin ni Ana at sinave niya si Ana. Thank You Our Lord God Jesus Christ. 🎤🎼❤️🙏😇
Dami kong beses naiyak habang nagnanarate sia...ramdam mo talaga ang sakit takot at kawalan ng pag asa..but God answers prayers kaya naman nasagip ka sa tiyak na kamatayan..laban lang Ana! At sana wagla na makipgbalikan sa knya...
Amen🙏🙏🙏
Eme eme nya, kung di sya nakipaglandian sa iba, di sana sya masasaktan! Mali si kit dun sa ginawa nya..
@@madolorecortez5214 ha? Lumandi ba sya...
@@carlajeanfritz2663 bat sya aakyat sa 3rd floor at dun matutulog.. samantalang si kit nasa baba
Domestic Violence, physical and emotional abuse is such a NO, NO here in America. Watching from Dallas, Texas. I just came across this video. I’m praying for you that you may heal emotionally, physically and spiritually.
If this guy can do this to you now, he will do it again!
There are soo many fishes in the sea. Remember you are beautiful!❤️
Amber heard made a game of it though.
I am at awe at how strong Ana is for being able to tell her story to the public. May God heal you, Ana! Fighting!
It's given that she's not the best storyteller; pls don't slander her through your "she sounds shady, I need to hear kit's side of the story." She was physically abused regardless of what happened; no backstory or event could justify violence. Please be kind with your words.
Ana, you are very brave for sharing your story. May your heart and your mind heal also.
You can tell her trauma by the way she recalls what happened. Evey details from the moment they were happy and the mood swings of Kit and how his mentally unstable.
oo nga ewan ba sa ibang nga nagcocomment dito.. kala mo parang binayaran ni kit na mapanakit para kondenahin si Ana.. i hope wala ni isa dito sa comment section na toh na makaranas ng naranasan nya.. God moves in mysterious ways kaya nakaligtas si miss ana.. and maybe it is time for kit to seek professional help na.. para darating ung time na kapag may minahal na sya at mamahalin sya eh di na maulit ang nangyari..
correct
Huwag ka ng babalik sa kanya kahit anong hingi ng sorry sa iyo may mentally desorder iyan at sadesta klaseng tao sa susunod baka mapatay ka pa 😭
Exactly
A broken man will end up breaking you. Love alone is not enough to fix it. Salute to you ms. Ana for staying brave & for doing what must be done to protect yourself. You didn't deserve any of this, I hope you get all the help you need. I hope you heal from this eventually. 🥺🤗 Sending love and hugs ❤️
no, youre wrong, dont generalize. Not all broken man will break others, there are those who are broken that just need love and light to change into good. look at baron geisler, he found his love and he change into a very calm and loving person.
@@cripags7765 Nope. I'm not entirely wrong. I speak from experience so I know what you mean. Also, I was not generalizing 👌☺️
@@cripags7765 how can you give an entire assurance that Baron already changed??? Ikaw ba asawa nya??? No matter what, you do not know what's happening behind closed doors. Let's just hope and pray na nagbago na talaga sya.
Pinanood ko yung part 1 and 2 kahit na mahaba because I want to understand what and why those things happened to her. Walang tao o babae na deserve ma experience or malagay sa ganoong sitwasyon. May dalawang side ng story syempre but regardless, there is no enough reason to hurt someone especially yung taong sinasabi mong mahal mo. Kit obviously needs help for him to control his anger and his emotions. Anna also need help to get over it. Hindi ko ma imagine yung pain na naramdaman nya nung mga oras na yon. She felt helpless. But then, the Lors is good. She saved her.
To Anna, I pray that the Lord continue to heal you emotionally, physically and mentally. You don't deserve that. Thank you for being a voice for the women out there who experienced the same thing and for those who are still in that situation. God bless you.
Laban lang Ms. Ana! Walang sino mang lalaki ang may karapatan na manakit ng babae, Swerte mo Kit at marunong magpatawad ang ginawan mo ng masama. Darating ang araw na makakahanap ka ng katapat mo, sana bago mangyari yon may pagbabago na sa buhay mo. Kinailangan pang may masirang buhay at matrauma ka bago mo makita pagkakamali mo
This is one of the best interviews with Ana smart and straightforward with a heart pa sa kabila ng nangyayari...
Sana makarecover kana po Miss Ana Jalandoni 😭😭😭
Sabi nga nila, “You can’t fix a broken person, you’ll only end up breaking yourself…” Based on my own experience, this is 💯 true.
Sa lahat nang nagsasabi na baka may valid reason si Kit kaya niya nagawa 'to, mahiya naman kayo. Ano pang rason niya, hindi dapat sya manakit. No to physical abuse. No to victim blaming!
Wag mong babalikan yan! Ipaglaban mo yang karapatan mo please wagka makipag ayos diyan. Stay strong anna 🙏🙏
Grabe parang feel mong nasa shoes ka ni Ana nung kinikwento niya yung pangyayari..mabuti tong interview kasi lesson learned to sa mga babae..go with ur gut feeling..na vibes mo yan kung parang may iba sa guy..mabuti ng buhay ka at single kesa mapatay ka..
Ana you’re so brave and strong kasi naka pag call for help kapa that time 🙌🏼
My heart goes out to you Ana. It's been 6 years since the day I got out of an abusive relationship and to this day, I can still feel the effects of the trauma and pain that I received from that person. I can't explain the joy of knowing that you survived and is finally out of that relationship for good. I can't say that things will be better, there are days that it will hurt more. I wish you healing and confidence to look in the mirror and feel beautiful again. xo
Very well said.. I am glad that you got out of that abusive relationship. ❤
I feel sorry for you Ana :-(, i don’t know you until the news came out and knew more by watching this. I can see how you are matured , understanding, and patience towards Kit and the ongoing relationship. God heard your prayer to save you in Kit’s hands, thank God! Praying that your traumatic experienced will be gone by undergoing to a counseling and the Ana you said before a happy and friendly will be back again. To Kit find help for your anger and jealousy problem 🙏🏼. And avoid drinking wine if this causing you to be out of control in your anger.
Grabe ang sakit 😭😭😭 Ana, damang dama ko ang hirap na pinagdaanan mo. Di ko man dinanas pero grabe story mo akala ko sa teleserye lang nangyayari. Sobrang strong mo! 💖 God bless, alam ko madaming mapupulot na idea kaming mga babae, lalo na yung mga may similarity na case kagaya ni Kit. Stay strong. Sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My anxiety level just went up halfway through. But the fact that you still think of his welfare despite what you went through in his hands, I just want to keep hugging you virtually. I'm praying for your healing, physically and emotionally.
Panuorin nio palabas nila ni bella Padilla yung sino may sala may anxiety dun si bella in real life gnun pala si kit
Not all women are strong enough or even still alive to tell their story and fight their abusers. We pray for you, Ana, and to all women struggling against abuse. May your strength be a catalyst for change. And to parents, teach your children to respect others. Life is a constant learning.
Nakakaiyak naman, dami luha at sipon ko dito. God is really Almighty and heard Ana’s prayer. She was saved from the claws of an evil lover. Go with your fight Ana. You are an inspiration for battered women.
MASAKIT MASAKTAN, PERO ANG PINAKA MAHIRAP NA PART IS UNG SAKIT NA DINANAS MO AY GALING SA TAONG MINAHAL AT PINAGKATIWALAAN MO, HOPING FOR YOUR FAST RECOVERY, STAY STRONG ANA..
Naiyak ako sa kwento ni Ana. She don't deserve that kind of man. Yes, loving a person is accepting who he is pero pag sinasaktan ka na ay iba na yun. Di ka mahal nun. Be strong Ana, God will heal your pain.
Hello po maraming salamat po sa'inyo sa pav support nyo sa pinsan ko God bless po ingat po kayo lagi ❤️❤️❤️
Umiiyak ako sa buong interview 😭 nobody deserves that pain. Laban Ms. Ana I will keep praying for you.
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Apaka oa mo nman
thanks God ligtas siya kawawa naman
This made me cry a lot.😭 I really felt her pain, I experienced the same (being physically abused by the man you love the most - to the point I almost got killed by him) --- the trauma never goes away.😥 But, I thanked God He saved me from that dreadful relationship. You don't deserve to be treated that way Ana! Fight.💪
same here
@@allaboutspiritualaspects1313 I am totally okay na naman. That was my past, I already forgave him and had move forward. Hope you're okay na din po.♥️ God bless.
same here 😭😭😭😭
Honestly, I was crying while watching. God is always good He saved her life. big lesson again after the tragic death of a PAL flight attendant months ago. Be strong. You are a very smart woman.
Same here..nkksad..
mee to i cried
Wow. Cried. O.a nyo naman.
Buti nga matapang cya na nag sasabi sa ganyang trauma ang hirap gamotin din yan same me …ang pinag daanan ko hirap gamotin ang trauma bogbog sarado din ako sa husband ko pati mga anak at muntikan na ang buhay namin ng anak ko.. buhat nangyari sa akin hated ko na ang lalaki sa buhay ko hirap gamutin kung paano mo e relax at paupahin ang mga nangyayari buti may anak na ako kaya ngayon no need ng man sa buhay ko …
@@lauritamorikawa5524 same po Maam pano po kau nakaalis?
Ms. Ana you are one of the bravest soul for letting everyone know about what happened to you. Isang awareness para sa mga taong malimit idownplay ang abuse. This will be a long journey sana magpagkatatag ka at magpagaling, nawa'y basabasan ka na makamit mo ang hustisya. I truly hope na katulad ni Ms. Ana magkaroon ng lakas ng loob ang ibang mga biktima ng violence. Lalo pa netong pandemic na tumaas ang violence sa loob ng pamamahay. Kagaya ni Ana may iilan na nakaligtas sa ganitong nakakalungkot at nakakagalit na pangyayari. But there were others who never survived. Kitang-kita kung gaano siya katraumatize, hindi ito gawain ng taong may maayos na psyche. Para naman sa mga victim blamers, may this situation will not happen to you or anyone you know before you even realize that it's not the victim's fault why it happens.
Basta sa pag kakaalam natin lahat na kaht anung uri ng babae pa sila hindi tama ang manakit ng tao yun n nga lalo na nga mga kababaihan … wala sa klase ng uri o trabaho para saktan mo kaht sino pang gao kaharap mo galangin mo at mahalin mo
@@48lhon Tama po.
Sir Boy, I experienced po more than what she painfully experienced, in 1985. The way Ms. Ana detailed how she was beaten up for no reason by the man who lost his senses and suddenly turned into a dangerous stranger was so horrifying. I still want to shut down my brain every time that painful memory returned. It took several years for me to recover from terrifying experience who haunted me every time I was alone or when the night came. There were no nights I was not weeping silently in bed, til the weeping turned into dreadful desire to take some revenge. The thought of even his chopped flesh cannot quench my anger and pain, I even felt the satisfaction by burning him alive, if I could. A state of mind to commit a murder started to set in my head to meet the level of pain I was suffering. I wanted to go crazy but I could not.
I suffered a state of shock and severe insomia. I only had two hours of sleep everyday or worst 24 hours without sleep because the moment I closed my eyes, the painful night how I was brutally beaten and his hand chocked my throat in bed, and how he picked me up from bed and dropped me down the stairs and he lit the gas lamp and he threw it on the stairs, he nearly burned me to death. All these started to play in my head, I stayed every night fighting my tears and the burning anger. I lost the joy of living and my heart turned into a man-hater. It was my father who received and encountered my anger for men. Thanks be to GOD, I feared HIM most, I could not afford to throw my anger and do evil things to other people, most specially my own father and brothers.
I turned to GOD all my sufferings and started to read the Bible. One day, I decided to change my life. I prayed to the LORD to heal me. I was emotionally and mentally drained. No strength at all. I closed myself from my family and friends for so many years even they were just around me. So one day I said to the LORD in my prayer, please change my heart to forgive even in his absence, so that I will be healed and give me peaceful heart. Slowly, I started to have life inside my heart. It was from travelling alone and I communed with the word and the presence of the Holy Spirit, I find myself again. It is only through reaching out to GOD for healing and forgiveness that we can be healed from pains and learn to live again.
Living abroad for 20 years, I'm still alone at 58 but I never felt lonely. I kept the Holy Bible with me, my daily comfort with the LORD. My name is Jennifer.
Godbless you po
I hope you're happy na po .God bless you po🙏
@@lynpearl3166 Thank you po sa mensahi nyo. But there's no real happiness po. The most important thing in life for me is to have a peaceful mind in the presence of the Almighty God po.
@@lynpearl3166 Thank you po sa mensahi nyo. But there's no real happiness po. The most important thing in life for me is to have a peaceful mind in the presence of the Almighty God po.
Ay pasensya po ♥️ pero hangad ko po kung ano makakabuti po sa inyo ♥️
No to violence, no to verbal and physical abuse ‼️Stay strong Ana
Listening to the conversation here, it's really evident that Keith is a troubled, possessive and abusive man. He may even have a personality disorder. Ganyan kc mga abusive sorry ng sorry pero ganun pa din, hindi yan nagbabago. The relationship is so toxic na pero kc hindi ganun kadali makawala dahil nandyan na ung attachment eh. But be strong Ana, dahil someday you will look back and realize how fool you've been for staying with him. Just be glad na nakawala ka ng buhay dahil kung hindi malamang bangkay ang kahihinatnan mo. I can totally relate, because hindi man ganyan kalala at hindi man ako nabugbog physically pero ilang beses na muntik na. Pero emotionally, verbally at financially, hindi marami ang nakaka-alam nito pero bogbog na bogbog din ako at nandyan ang trauma kung kaya't nawalan na din ako ng trust sa mga lalaki. Deep inside iba na naiisip ko, nandyan na ang takot kung kaya't I decided just to stay single forever because what if mas malala pa abutin ko, di ba? Masaya ako na kasama ko lang mga anak ko...
Maraming filipina nag stay sa mga lalaki na hinuthutan sila ng pera.
I am also one of that person and yes nawalan na ako ng trust sa mga lalaki. Cus like nagiging pattern na kasi sya . Yung mga lalaki na gusto ko is may heavy baggage sila kaya nag give up na ako.
I don't even have to hear Kit's side of the story. There is no reason great enough to validate physical abuse. It's sickening how he says he loves Ana very much and yet, was continuously abusing her physically and verbally. That's sick!
Stay brave, Ana. We are with you.
For sure si kit naabuso yan nong bata..nde yan magkakaroon ng ganyang attitude kung may kinikimkim na galit yan
Thank you Tito Boy for interviewing Ana, and letting her narrate all the behavioral patterns ni Kit, beginning from their start of relationship up to this major incident that happened. Obvious na may pattern of behavior si Kit simula pa lang, at dahil nga nag so-sorry at mahal pa din ni Ana, binu-brush off lang ung ganung red flags. I admire her deep level of understanding of Kit's situation, pero it sure taught her, and us as well, na pwedeng maging understanding, pero hindi natin pwede i-tolerate at pagtiyagan ang ganung klaseng relationship.
Moreover, hindi rin tayo si God na kayang baguhin ang tao kagaya ng nakikita, nababasa, or napapanood sa romance novels or series. I think, at some point, tayo ding kababaihan ay dapat aminin sa sarili natin na wala tayong kakayahan na baguhin ang tao. Although we can give them encouragement or be of some support. It's also humbling na we need to be aware of ourselves din bakit may desire tayo to change a person. Is it because, deep down, we love the feeling of being needed or feeling heroic? Or perhaps it's something else..etc etc
Now that these incidents are being uploaded in social media, it's time to educate ourselves, and the other young women, about psychology and the beginning of abusive manner of a person.
No matter how strong your personality is wala talagang pinipili ang violence.
Prayers for you Ms. Ana. Mahigpit na yakap💕
True pero kung my mga signal warnings na alam mo..beware
Be strong Ana, paglaban mo, madaling magpatawd, pero nd madaling makalimot at mahirap talaga. Kahit humilom man ang sugat my piklat na sa puso mo masakit. Makinig ka sa mga taong concerned sau. Once na sinaktan ka ng umpisa, sunod sunod na yan. Kahit how many times pa sya magpakaawa at umiyak never ever ka ng bumalik sa taong nd ka nirespeto. Hanga pa nmn ako ky Kit gwapo, kaso ng marinig ko ang nangyari sau sa mga ginagawa nya super sakit yan, bad na sya. Kc nagawa nya nong una next ulit ulitin nya. Para naka relate ako. Basta paglaban mo wag mong pairalin ang awa at naramdaman mo sa kanya. Ang isipin mo yong sakit, mura at nd ka nya nerespito ang ginawa nya para nd mo maramdaman ang awa. Itoy payo lang. God bless
I don’t understand why other people are throwing rude words on her, blaming her, saying she deserves what happened to her. Labeling her as “Martir” for still loving the guy despite what he did to her. You will never understand, until you’re in the same situation as her. And if you’re too unlucky to experience this kind of abuse in the future, i hope people won’t judge you the same way you judged her!
And for Ana, you’re so strong girl! It’s not easy to leave an abusive relationship especially when you love the abuser so dearly. You tend to extend your limits, hoping that your love will be enough to change them. It’s a good thing that, you chose yourself first Ana. I know in time all of your wounds will heal. And remember that you are beautiful and you are loved ❤️
Indeed
Yng mga ngppanib ky Keith walang alam ang ibig sabihin Ng domestic violence..Ang alam nila ang kapogian nya..
Can't imagine the trauma she's going through. Girls, may this be a lesson to identify the red flags. Know when to get out of the situation. He hit you once, he can do it again more aggressively.
It's going to be cumulative
YES...
True
Ladies use your head than your heart.
true....
Thank you for being so brave, Ms. Ana. You are so strong for overcoming this. May the Lord heal you.
Thank you for this interview… i hope bashers will be enlightened and may compassion run into theirs nerves. Ana Jalandoni may not be as educated as others, but this lady has the kindest heart. She is a smart girl! She knows when to stop and when to keep going. She worked hard to be where she is right now. For Ana… it does’nt matter how you started and where you came from. What matters is where are you leading on. You came a long way! Keep dreaming and chase your dreams. Focus on the lessons you learned in every obstacle that you’ve gone through. Love yourself and trust GOD’s plan for you. You are instrumental now in opening people’s mind especially those of the battered women and the abusers as well. God guide you on your journey for Justice. 🙏
This detailed narrative of Ms. Ana brought up a loooot of ugly memories of battered women. Thank you so much for speaking up for inspiring women to get out of the relationship. God bless you
😭😭😭Bumalik ang nakaraan ko... Pareho kami ni Ana narasan bogbog din ako noon.. Pero naging matatag ako sa buhay, . . Go go go Ana Kaya mo yan... Makahap Karin ng lalaki na magmamahal sayo. 💪
Same sis. Grabe ang trauma no? Tapos napapatawad mo lagi kht nasasaktan ka. Ung araw2 knkbahan ka na baka masaktan ka pag hnd nya gusto ung snabe o gnawa mo. Haaayy Thank God nakalaya na tau
You don't deserve it rin po. I hope for healing & life-long happiness sa mga katulad nio po na nakaexperience ng violence.
I hope ur ok now.God is good.
My tears keep falling till end😭...I felt so broken while watching ANA😢😭sobrang nakakatrauma ung takot nah naranasan nia sa kamay ng taong mahal nia😢😭May God guidance always be with u till u heal emotionally physically spiritually🙏stay strong Ms Ana💪❤u will be okay in Godswill🙏🙏
grabe! kinikilabutan ako habang tumutulo ang luha ko, sana mag heal ka Anna, di madali pero kakayanin mo yan with the help of your friends, family and God.
I like what Atty. said "The good thing that might come up from this is that you will be the face of women rising up against violence." Keep your head up Ana. You are strong and brave.
You are so brave to tell your story and inspire women who suffered violence. It's very important to be aware of red flags and maybe it's better someone can give us an advice what to do as soon as you recognize those actions.
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Naiyak ako 😭 laban lang Ana! Never mind those negatrons, marami kaming naniniwala saiyo. Thank you tito Boy for this interview. Kit sana you seek help
Thank you so much Tito Boy for featuring cases like this there are lots of lessons to be learned. More power to you and your program. I always love watching your blogs, true stories, debates etc.😄♥️
I was feeling so much tension and panic the whole time simula sa part 1 palang. Kahit yung mga side comments lang nya na “happy na naman, labyu” awang awa ako. There is no way na may side si kit dito na majujustify sya. Kahit “anger management issue” o mental illness. Pano naman yung physical at mental health ni ana na nag-adjust ng nag-adjust para sa kanya?
Grabe story nya. Hindi nya talaga deserve ung pananakit ,unang attempt hanggang sa end. Hayss.
A woman with substance. May she get the justice she deserve. 🙏
Hello po ma'am maraming salamat po sa'inyo pag support sa pinsan ko God bless ma'am ingat po kayo lagi❤️❤️❤️
Ana, thousands of comments here saying they.. we will pray for you...
Laban to ng kapwa mo, di mo lang laban to.. this interview has million of views now, some of them may have been experiencing the same with yours or worst, na sana sila din lumaban at makawala din sila.
Ana, this is no longer your battle alone.. this is God's battle... ❤️ He will never leave nor forsake you.
Good Job, tito boy. nahimay himay lahat ng details. galing ng interview👍🏼
Nahirapan ako huminga habang kinukwento ni Ana yung nangyari. 😭😭😭 The trauma🥺🥺🥺 Ana please be strong, we’re with you. Salamat sa paglaban! God bless you! 🙏🥺❤️
Grabe, after all, she still understands Kit's situation. This case will actually ruin her but will be the first part of healing and by doing this it could actually of help for Kit also. She really needs to do this. Sadly this needs to be publicized for both are in the entertainment biz. It will be alright soon. Trust the process. Stay strong Ana. May Kit really would reflect on his actions too and seek help.
Grabe. Ang toxic ni Kit. Puro red flags talaga. Nakaka trauma.nakakaiyak sobra. And sobrang nakakahanga since ang lakas lakas ni Ana harapin yung gantong sitwasyon. Stay strong, girl. True na hindi mo deserve ang mabugbog. Praying for you 🙏
Ang swerte ni Kit dahil Si Anna yung tipo ng babae na handang tanggapin ng buong-buo yung pagkatao mo. Grabe hindi ko maimagine ung pain at takot ni Anna nung time na yun. Thank God na dininig ang prayers niya. At nasave sya. Stay strong anna madaming nagmamahal sayo. One day you will find a man who will love you unconditionally because u are a great woman. You deserved better.
Stay strong Ana! You’re so brave! Keep fighting! Napaka ganda mong tao, at busilak pa ang kalooban mo. May God bless you more strength, courage and hope na makukuha mo ang justice! I salute you! Laban lang! 💪💪💪
"Gusto ko sya habulin".I feel u.I was in this kind of relationship,imagine mayuyupi ang door knob sa pagkakapukpok sakin,bugbog sarado lagi tinatapakan tinatadyakan ako, ulo ko.I wasnt brave enough to tell the police, I was blaming myself,his family blames me, "ikaw kc ganito ka ganun"...it took 2 years before i fought back & to realize it wasnt my fault.Nabubulag ka sa katotohanan kc mahal mo ng sobra and u just take in the abuse.
same...un anak nila may mali .pero nasa akin pa din sisi😓
Madami po ang nasa sitwasyon n ganito, we just need to be brave and fight🙏
Eto kinatatakutan ko sakali mg Asawa ako, yung dadating s point n mararanasan ko to, Kya cguro until now takot s relationship.
@@thebeginner1936 i know the feelings. takot ako sa mga ganyang pangyayari. paranoid ako pagdating jan. single ako pero happy naman ako. hindi ko kelangan ng lalake para masabing happy ako o may makakasama ako sa buhay.
akala ko ako lang di pala ako nag iisip.ung imbes na makuha sympathy ng ibang tao mas lalo lang nila ako sinisisi bcoz tama ka after kng sinaktan naawa kapa. khit gusto ko kumawa ako pa natatakot na bka may madamay pang ibang tao kapag gagawa ako ng desisyon na kumawa. Nakakapagsisi na may pagkakataon na sana akong kumawala pero inatras ko pa dahil sa gusto kong protektahan mga taong pdeng madamay at masaktan.
It breaks my heart. Crying while watching this 😭 prayers for your healing Ms. Ana..
its so hard breaking..thank you Lord for saving Ms Ana. May you also bless her and heal her completely emotionally physically and spiritually..
A lot of people will never understand what it's like to have a good heart. Being a person who believes in goodness no matter what the situation may be is something you cannot just command to leave something behind. Ana had hopes for Kit because of love and she stayed despite having small doubts because love forgives and it understands. Ana knew what was going on but she also knew that she wanted to help Kit. It is just unfortunate that she had to go through this even when we as the audience knew from the beginning of the story that it did sound really weird and odd how everything went too fast and a lot of red flags were already shown. We will never know what she really feels inside and the trauma that she experienced so please everyone, be careful with your words and take care of yourselves. Never tolerate abuse and while you still have a chance, and never defend an abuser. She's not the best storyteller but one thing is for sure...recalling ones trauma and horrifying experience is already like experiencing it again one more time.
We believe everything you say, Ana. Justice will prevail. Tatagan mo ang loob mo.
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This is what you call battered wife syndrome, it is not love.
Ang tawag dyan kabobohan
Di porket nagsacrifice ka sa gago eh you have a good heart na. Madami may mas good heart na gumagamit din muna ng utak bago puso. Mas madami good heart ang hindi nagpapaapi.
Parehas sila may mental problem. Dapat sa ex husband plang nya natuto na sya. Ang dami red flags pero di sya umiwas na.
I believe walang mabububog if walang papabugbog. Nakakawa si Anna pero pls sana sa una plng minahal nya sarili nya muna!
Be strong and keep praying, Ana. You don't deserve what you went through. Yes, you will serve as a good example to those women who experienced physical and verbal abuse to their partners. I feel your sincerity and honesty as you had narrated your story. At naiyak ako habang kinukuwento mo. Honestly, I don't really know who Ana Jalandoni and do not even know that you are Kit Thompson's girlfriend. Napakaganda at sexy mo pala. Hindi nakakasawa ang ganda mo. May God bless you. Thank you also tito Boy dahil nalaman ng mga tao ang buong kuwento. At right decision on the part of Miss Ana Jalandoni that you were the first one who interviewed her.
Ito ang isa sa pinaka masakit na mangyayare sa isang kababaihan😭😭😭 nakakadurog ng puso na may mga ganto tao...sana wag kang pang hihinaan ng loob anna para lumaban hanggang dulo..sana mag patuloy ka kahit anu man ang mangyre ....salamat sa pag bahagi ng kwento mo..salamt at lumaban ka..napaka tapang mong babae....godbless you and god will guide you🥺🥺🥺🥺
I admire your strength ang courage, Ana. Sa lahat ng pinagdaanan mo. Napakastrong mo po. Thank God at naisave ka. Laban lng po at praying for your fast healing physically emotionally psychologically Ana. God bless you po. 🙏
Sobrang hanga ako sa tapang mo. You did the right thing Ana. May you continue to spread awareness sa mga ganto. Para mabawasan na dn mga abusers sa mundo. Kulong kau lahat subukan nyo.
tinamaan ako sa sinabi ni Ana na after ng nangyari nawalan sya ng confidence, nawala na yung dating Ana na masayahin, that’s what abuse does to you and yun din talaga ang goal ng abuser, yung mabura ang pagkatao mo at mapalitan ng takot. They will break you and then try to fix you pero you’re not the same as before and then the cycle begins again, walang katapusang cycle of abuse. I hope Ana heals and Keith gets the help he needs.
tama, itong ito tlg un.
ang linaw ng explanation ni Ana di nga sya nag ba bucke mag salita ,straight to the point..
Nobody deserves to be abused. Salute to you Ana for being a fighter. Prayers for your healing ❤️
thanks for sharing your truth. nakaka-raise rin ng awareness sa violence against women. stay strong. wag ka na bumalik kay kit. God bless. kaya mo yan
Akin n LNG c kit,ang sarap Kaya ni kit
Married a Covert narcissist in 2016 and the physical/emotional abuse started after we got married. Sa side ko naman, madalas manakit pero iilan ang pasa, dugo, madalas aksidente pa nalalagay kc he usually chooses the body part na di nakikita like ung natatakpan ng damit or iuuntog ang ulo so natatakpan ng buhok.
Advise ko sa mga babae, be wary of red flags especially gaslighting and get out ASAP. Narcissists never change. Kung di makaalis, read the book written by Dr Ramani "Should i stay or should i go?" or kung gusto na tlg umalis pero wala pang motivation, read the book by Colleen hoover "It ends with us"
Thank you sa book recommendations. May katrabaho ako na nasa abusive relationship na ilang beses nang na ospital dahil sa bugbog pero bumabalik pa din sya sa husband niya. Her sister force her to leave her husband and she blocked and move away from her sister. Hindi namin alam kung paano sya namin macoconvince na lumayo sa husband niya. We're afraid na sa susunod na bugbugin sya ng husband niya, baka..
Are you still with him, npakahirap nian, c Dr. ramani din pinapanood q
Gaslighting gingwa ayon sa kwento ni Ana
Praying for your healing. Being in a toxic cycle with someone who doesnt seek help is never good.
Wag na wag ka na makipagbalikan pa sa ganyang klaseng tao... You deserve better Ana! 🥺🥺🥺
that's true ana, you don't deserve what kit did to you. no one deserves to be physically & verbally abused by anyone. that's the right thing to do as humans. ana needs healing to overcome the trauma. it's gonna be a long & hard process and i truly pray that ana will completely heal from this and regain her confidence & old happy self. by pursuing this case against kit, you are not only helping yourself ana but also all the other women who are still in this dark situation of an abusive relationship. may you inspire others and be the face of a strong and courageous woman against violence. God bless you ana and be strong!
This kind of experience is very traumatizing. I experienced the same and it took me a long time to get out. Be brave and rebuild yourself. If you get into another relationship, the trauma is still there. You'll always be scared if your partner will shout or raise his voice. Be strong Ana.
Ohh, Kit NEEDS help! It's not just his personality, but he has a condition/disorder. On top of him being insecure, controlling, and jealous. And Ana actually has everything. She has money, job, assets, mabait, mapagmahal, mapasensya, and considerate. Masyado nyang mahal and hopeful kay Kit na iniignore nya lahat. Hope she heals faster and remembers her worth.
Diba may trabaho din si kit?
@@noexcuses5524 Right, but not the point. My point is she's financially stable so she doesn't need his money.
Have you heard the other side?
@@rizadiscaya6462 NO one deserves to be physically abused regardless of the reason. Unless she actually hurt her ownself but that's very unlikely*
I know there is no right to hurts anyone. She keep her self as a victim. Have you heard the guy side none its not only woman there law is always go to women against violence how about guys.
There is a lot of women always pa victim but it's women's fault.
Its both of them fault she should break up with him long time a go if you see the person not worth it. How many interviews she git but the other side still quite
Listening to this interview makes me feel that I have the same situation with Ms. Ana because of love you can forgive the person eventhough he/she hurts you. I have also bruises in mine like her but I am still in silent. I thought I was the only one suffering being battered without any mistake but listening to this interview I realize that hindi pala ako nag-iisa 😢
I also endured this I was granted an annulment bec of the same incident. Be strong
dont allow guy do that to u,be strong.mahalin ang sarili.
You shouldn't keep being silent, wag mong hayaan na sinasaktan ka. Hindi ka pinanganak sa mundo para gawin punching bag. It's not clear in your post if you are still with than man though or not?
Naku po hwag niyo hayaan gaganyanin kayo.kung di niyo kaya lumaban at least man lang matutulumayo sa ganyan tao.
I hope you can get out of that relationship soon. Until then, stay safe.
Girl, you'll get through this. ☺️ May family din akong ganyan nanakit. mahirap talaga bumitaw dahil mahal mo. Chaka after ka saktan may Love Bombing na ginagawa ang mga abusers para maforgive mo. Hanggang nag eescalate na pala yung ginagawa sayo.
Ganon talaga sila. Hindi mo kasalanan yun. Abusers ang problema hindi ikaw. Natanong pa ni Kit kung papakulong mo sya pero di nya natanong kung kailangan mo na padala sa ospital ba talaga. Iniisip lang nila sarili nila.
I pray for your healing physically, emotionally and spiritually. You're a smart and loving woman it's apparent. You'll be more usefull to God in the future. Use it to help other women and encourage them to let go abusers.
Ang dami luha ko sa episode na to
Be strong ana kaya mo yan…
Nakakaiyak namn subrang selos lng ata ni kit sana ngayun magsisi xa
mee too
nakakaiyak nman talaga, grabeh! be strong Ana.
that´s a big red flag kapag seloso ang partner ng isang tao lalo pa kapag umiinom ito. there are lessons to be learned here. no one deserve what she went through, but things happened for a reason . sometimes we have to experience bad things in life para magising sa katutuhanan. usually and most of the time, God gives us signs or warnings before na kailangan tayo kumalas sa isang sitwasyon, pero karamihan sa atin ay ini ignore natin ang sign na yon because we are afraid at dahil mahal natin ang isang tao at wala tayong lakas para lumayo. the best thing she did in that situation is to PRAY. only God the father can save us , but we have to ask for his help. ana needs a lot of time for healing from this trauma. thank you tito boy for this video and ana for her strenght sharing her story. this is an experience that will make her more stronger. thanks the Lord for saving her and God bless
Kit is ineligible for a relationship when his still lost and broken himself. Love is not enough! Stay strong Ana and keep fighting this battle! You deserve to love and to be loved!
Godbless you, Sending hugs 🤗
Be strong Ana. Thank you for sharing what you went through. Even it was probably hard to relieved all the things that happened.
Physically & emotionally damage 😭 this is a long process of healing that needs medical and spiritual help. but take it as positive Ana it might be a breakthrough to a life change. God is good and He is the only one knows why it happened . Praying for your fast healing and recovery. 🙏🏻☝️❤️🙏🏻
Ms Ana i will pray you will heal in God's time... With all the traumatic experience you had, I hope and pray you will regain your strength and your old self. Hearing your story is such an uncomfortable feeling... Thank God you were able to get away from that traumatic experience...may God bless you constantly 🙏🙏🙏
My heart goes to Ana. Such a strong woman to go thru that trauma, hurt and violence in the hands of the person she thought loves her but is a mentally unstable man. Obviously Kit needs help mentally but at the same time should pay for his crime so that this won't happen again to anyone under his hands.
Ana you are one brave WOMAN. You are rising not just for yourself but for every woman out there by telling your story so that they may feel that they are not alone and there is hope! God is good, your faith saved you!
We will pray for your recovery.
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MANDATORY SELF DEFENSE TRAINING FROM HIGH SCHOOL TO COLLEGE FOR WOMEN!!! Ang taas ng kaso ng violence against women sa Pinas.
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Tama kailangan talaga ng mga babae yan,based on my experience kahit malaki ka na babae wala talaga tayong kalaban laban sa lalaki.
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Ang pinaka masakit sa lahat is yung alam mong mahal mo pa yung taong kailangan mong ipakulong.. Ouch be strong Ana..
I can feel her pain. No women deserve what she went through. 😢