I'm married to a South African man, I'm a South African lady. I LOVE our man, they are so gentle, they have respect for women, I don't regret my decision
My sister is Namibian she is married to a Zulu guy. They are very happy he takes care of her and their Children, they don't starve at all. I'm confussed.
Don't worry 0.00003 % sa women marrying especially nigerian guys they bash SA men but you will never see SA men bashing their women. I don't know if it makes them feel better lol...
I know of a Mozambican guy who killed and burnt a South African woman in Limpopo, leaving her family traumatized, and then fled the country.. I just think it depends on the type of guy you meet, it has nothing to do with nationality..
Talk about a Zimbabwean man who butchered his three children and his girlfriend and fleed to the neighbouring town. Fortunately through the swift move of the police he was apprehended. Yes you find good and bad man everywhere.
@@legendaryfootballmedia721 Give us the stats. Show us the percentage of South African men that do not love their women. That's a nonsense stereotype and you know it.
Go to the malls ,go to the parks and also to the churches out will see huge numbers of South Africans families shopping together father mother and kids sharing love and happiness.
Nothing unique about SA women dating foreign guys. Same as Nigerian women will tell you that Ghananian or foreign men treat them better than Nigerian men. Same as American women making suggestions that European or foreign men treat them better. Same statement from Zambian women labelling their men lazy hence dating Congolese men become the best choice for them. This idea even goes beyond race lines where Black men feel more respected by White women and where Black women feel more respected and adored by White men. I guess it boils down to the concept of familiarity equating to taking one for granted.
@@tyali84 I think you missed the most important point here. Lack of opportunities and money turns a man into a beast. That's what the woman said in the end beatings, raping etc is a characteristic of a man that has turn into a beast and that's the reality for 30% of SA men. I also get your point especially with a foreign man who has to keep himself in check because he knows he is in a foreign land.
I am South African and happily married to a wonderful Nigerian man. We are based here in London. I fell in love with him, he takes good care of me in every aspect and is very hardworking. He also motivates and encourages me when needed. I never had that with South African guys and find that friends who are married to them are always complaining. This doesn’t mean all SA guys- just some.
I get you, I don't blame you for going where you're treated well...this would be natural for anyone. I've been with a Zimbabwean, totally different to most South Africans I've dated before. Women will go where they are appreciated and well taken care of.
I've never seen a SA men bashing SA women on TH-cam or Social media,I also doubt you dated the whole SA so why is it when you date outside of SA you see it fit to bash South African men, does it make you feel better?...I don't get understand what's this 5 minute hype about Foreign guys are you doing PR for them at the expense of SA men? What about the ladies who get arrested for being drug mules? Don't be foolish if you found happiness with a foreigner that's cool but that doesn't warrant you to bad mouth SA brothers,we protect you on social media when people call you brainless and loose yet you guys are busy bashing us out here.
I’m a black man from America. California to be exact and I’m in love with a South African woman. She is from Durban and she is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Hands down..
As a South African I want to marry out of South Africa. What I've learned is that our up bringing and apartheid has had an impact on us. Two toxic individuals cannot mix. We need love from someone with different frame of reference. The South African society is ill in some degree.
I'm south african and I can understand why sa women are across the border. These take care of their women. They take pride in taking care of their women. I traveled to uganda. It's alonst impossible to come across a female headed home. I pray our sa men will stop running away from responsibility. Too many women left with the burden of taking care of their children alone
Not all of them . don't generalize .most SA women have been played by non SA men.fake true love for citizenship .we are not all across the bother .very small percentage is .
The Body Lab guy interviewed at 0:24 seconds into the video is such a cool guy. I remember when I was still in tertiary back in Pretoria, mans used to brighten my depressed mornings with his all time enthusiastic energy and eagerness. I'd be going through the most, deep in my academic and newly found independency influenced stresses walking to varsity and I'd walk past them on Cnr Wessels and Park Street in Pretoria. Dude would greed enthusiastically and hit me with a random: "dintshang mfanak, omnate?" outtaf the blue and that would set a different tone and mood to my days.
I'm engaged to a Zimbabwean and his the first non south African I've dated. I've never felt this loved and just when people were starting with their "he wants papers" we both got employment as teachers overseas. We left SA with it "papers"😂😂😂
@Dude Chillin ngithi I'm happy with my Zimbabwean fiancè. No south African men can compare, south African men can make you normalize cheating and dumping their own kids.
@Dude Chillin teachers stick to the content and that exactly what I'm doing. If you want to know about subjects and teaching then you in the wrong platform lasikhuluma about foreign partners
@Dude Chillin You've got a creepy aggression thing going on, Dude. So the lady doesn't think she owes you the 'Hows' and 'Whys' about her teaching job, big deal. Suck it up! Where d'you get off calling someone an imbecile? Go get some manners!
Africans from other nations are foreigners? South Africans what is this about? I am in Jamaica, and I will never view an African from any nation as a foreigner. That is my family. Africans in the motherland, please, please, set an example for us in the diaspora. Reject and abandon the colonizers classification of our people. Surely we are mature enough to recognize the chains that still hold some of us back. I am not Rasta, but peace and love to all my people. Love blackness, dump the bleaching cream. Love Africa, regardless. Our future depends on this state of mind.
Africa is a continent so different countries are foreign. That’s like saying every country in North America is the same. There are 23 countries in North America including USA, Mexico, Jamaica, Nicaragua, Canada, Haiti, Honduras, Saint Lucia, etc. So you’re saying if a Jamaican goes to Mexico they wouldn’t be considered a foreigner? Or if someone from the USA goes to Honduras they wouldn’t be considered a foreigner? You don’t make sense. Although Africa is one continent, each country has different cultures, languages, values and economic status. That is the definition of foreigner...
Okay! now I understand this xenophobia against foreigners especially west africans. Nigerians in particular.. They are business oriented, they treat the women better plus take care of the kids of the runaway SA men, so now you are insecure about that, you turn to hate for solace. how pathetic.
Leslie D. Its not frustration bru it's all in the science of nature it's the same principal of telling humans that dinosaurs where killed by an asteroid while we have a huge number of diff species still existing on earth I don't entertain concepts I have a healthy South African Wife and kids that I'm taking care of love was there before foreigners came we just have better looking women than most African countries but not all are stupid to fall for that "concept"
Katleho 011Gauteng All the more reasons to see your closed mindset.. you don't think there are south africans in other African countries as foreigners, chasing after their women who apparently they believe are better looking than south african women. save your theory for the likes.
My husband to me is not a foreigner but an African man who is absolutely perfect. The best in every way imaginable. His not Nigerian, his from East Africa. They have so much values and morals and absolutely unconditional love and forgiveness is easy. I being a South African woman is proud to say almost 9 years together and God has truly Blessed us and Our union.
Is he somalian or Ethiopian these two countries are from East Africans who stays in SA i mean they are most of them there another countries but not too much dear sister
The love that I have for you is beyond so thank you for saying that and I don't believe in countries . which I believe is in love so thank you for saying that
We're all africans...it's so sad how the word foreign just means non-SA black. You wouldn't think this way about european foreigners would you? This divisive mentality is holding our continent back. We all need to do better.
And here we are today in 2018 with the same tribal mind set! So sad! I use to want to save the world (Africa) but I grew up n realized that the world doesn’t want to be changed! So I’m working for my own individual freedom n independence!! Peace n Love
I am a SOUTH AFRICAN born. My woman is a Zimbabwean and i dated her from 2010 when we first met in Marondera, a town not so far from Harare, during my visit to Zimbabwe that year. And we married in 2013. We are happily married. We have two beatiful kids. She is Shona, i am a Zulu. And on yearly basis we visit Zimbabwe... so stop the arrogance and grow up. Africa ppl are the same, especially sub Sahara people. There are good and bad people in every society.
I most admit, I'm a Liberian and I honestly think this issue of love, care and affection is base on the individual, let not look down on south African guys as well, but as a west African, I can assure you, we know how to hustle to take care of women, I'm sure some south African men also do the same, it just depends on the individual who chooses to give love and be love, give care and be care for that's all.
thats very true. most foreign men are loving, caring and more responsible in marriage than most SA men. most SA men do not like to take care of their own kids even when they are working
wailer i You talk of men who left their wives and children in their foreign countries and gave love to you forgetting their kids back home,difference is SA men do it right here,the thing of not taking care of kids is a black problem,even in US,East Africa,West Africa and Central Africa,dont single out SA
Misconstrued perception,it has nthng to do with pussy (woman) bt it all has to do with the crimes committed by most of these foreigners n its nt xenophobia bt its citizen justice
They know how to take of women but not their countries ?if they can't take care of their countries thus resulting to most country men leaving their respective countries that means they don't care about their children and women . don't contradict yourself
@@mzwakhethenjwayo3618 big lie. Most foreigners don't commit crimes. Your local media may well blow it out of proportion. Black SAs need to deal with their demons i.e. post-apartheid trauma. You see a Nigerian brain surgeon (working hard to save lives in SA) and you pejoratively label him an immigrant. Whereas, a (White) Polish guy who has no job, no skill whatsoever is bestowed with the title of being an expatriate. Goes to show how warped and damaged the average Black SA's mind is. They even call ''foreign'' Black Africans ''Africans'' as if they are Whiter than snow.
@@solimeko7131 you are deluded. How many of these foreign men were married and/or had children back in their countries of origin? How many cases have you come across personally (rather than the ones you have heard through the media) of SA women married to African men who later discovered these African men were married in their original countries? One of the major problems of Black SAs is that they have unintentionally imbibed the White Supremacy i.e. the legacy of Apartheid. So, a Ghanaian (who speaks flawless English and is a Heart Surgeon working hard and paying tax in SA is classified to be an immigrant, whereas a Ukrainian who speaks no word of English, has no formal qualification and no skill whatsoever to help build and/or add value to the quality of life of the average SA gets conferred with the title ''expatriate all because his skin colour is white. This is a manifestation of Self-hatred on the part of Black SA. it is catastrophically tragic.
Plenty of dynamics at play when coming to making a choice on who to marry, hence some of our choices and preferences are informed by stereotypes not genuine facts based on personality, culture, intellect, religion etc.
i am a Kenyan and the thing i find sad is in every country in Africa you will find the women choosing to date foreigners over the local men because of the same thing. In Nigeria a woman dating a Ugandan will say i date foreigners because they are loving and caring and they provide for their women meanwhile In Uganda a woman dating a Nigerian will give the same reason why she doesn't date Ugandan men but prefers Nigerians. When will folks realize that its not where they are from it's how they grew up. Every man is different. Not every man from country A is good and not every man from country B is bad. There are South African men who are gentlemen and can make loving boyfriends and husbands. You just have to search and be patient. But if you really can't find and you are willing to date a Kenyan Man just leave your number or email in the comments and i will get back to you ;-)
Calebo wo. Tell me more. I have this Nigerian woman i talk to and I would like to know more about the women from there. Why don't they date foreigners?
Nigerians have a bad reputation in South Africa and that has created a stigma which makes women to have reservations when considering to develop any sort of relationship with a Nigerian man. It's an unfortunate reality. Good luck!
1stly: I don't condone xenophobic attacks. 2ndly: Let's not generalize anything about people any person from anywhere since there are good men and bad men everywhere. It has nothing to do with country's, more the psychology of a person rather.
I am a South African and married to a foreigner, I am very much happy in my marriage because foreign man knows how to take care of their woman including our own kids that we have with South African man
Even South African men do it . My uncle married a woman who had 2 children and he raised them and put them to university. There are good men in South Africa
My auntie is married by a zulu men with her namibian 3 children all of them residing in south africa so whats the big deal about south african men thats world wide mechanism
@Ferdie ortman 😂😂we are always at the receiving end of the bashing we nolonger care what they think about us anympre they generali2us based on their bad experiences
South African men are only males with backbones and resilience in the whole continent of Africa. Only the brave hearts who managed to stay in their country and fight for freedom of their children and women .I salute you South African men .God bless South African men and their families. Some had become lunch and breakfast of sharks as their boats wreck on their way to Europe simply because they runaway from their war of liberating their children and women from poverty and hunger.
I see the problem is every where in Africa, women blame their country men, and men blame their women about their relationship. Some people think the other side of the river is greener. It all comes down individuality.😎
Me personally I won't date a foreigner, but I have many foreign friends. These foreign guys are respectful, loving, caring and that woman is right, they don't beat women and they never leave you go hungry. Most are God fearing. They are good brothers, I call them. Well I know, not everyone is the same. We also have good South Africans, and there are those bad-bad foreigners.
it's is unfair to those good men in SA because there are lots of them, just like any country you get good people and the opposite...the world is like that,so it's so childish to hear such comments,i'm SA gentleman who is supporting a lady from Lesotho, this young girl she is going through rough patches.she is not working with small makes eve harder for,she is no relatives here no nothing,she needs to pay rent monthly, real burden over her shoulder but i took it upon myself to provide for her, until she is able to take care of herself and her baby...i hardly know her but i'll be there for this soul.now every country you get good people and the opposite group of people,so to hear such comments it's ridiculous!!!
Jurodah Gabriel my I am a Nigerian. Pls keep up the good work. Although some of the statements may be true but not applicable to all SA men. I feel same way when people say some negative things about Nigerians because I know I am not part of the negative Nigerians but that does stop me from living a positive life and impacting positively because I see my see as an instrument of change. Also see your self as an instrument of change by tryring to advice any SA man you come across who engages himself in such stereotypical activities condemned it this video.
I lived in South Africa for 3yrs and realized Most South African men don't respect women because there was alot rape cases. I think the government should do something about rapist.
Imagine being a Black American. We ALL get labeled for the negative actions of a few. I know the feeling, but we gotta keep being the best men we can be .
I am a Nigerian, but I still prefer the South African women as the best woman among all African. The South African women are carrying, loving and willing to help big a good and strong family. So they are the best woman in Africa. Wish I can just have one from there.
I was told xhosa men are different because they go for a kind of training on how to be men and leaders in society, i was told this by a Zulu lady who says the only south African men that impress her are the xhosa ones.
South African men are also fed up with most South African woman. I am a South African Guy an I am going to marry a Namibian woman because they are not so different from South African woman just they have the best manners.
This is my 1st time seeing this video, when I read the title I assumed by "foreigner", They met non African. To my great shock, and quite frankly sadness, I'm watching a video of Africans calling other Africans foreigners? This video demonstrates, very clearly, how to and why we blacks are so easily divided and conquered. However in hindsight, I will say that i do understand that we have been purposly divided for hundreds of years and have mentally been reprogram in Western ways of thinking in regards to values and belief. Africans, brothers and sisters, we must regain our identities and understand that no matter where we are, unlike any other ethnicity on Earth, we are ONE PEOPLE!
Good and bad men can be of any nationality. You might not be lucky enough to find a good man among your country men but it does not mean they are all bad.
I love my foreign man, what I have found in him I didn't find in a South African man. In the end nationality doesn't matter. I would love him no matter where he is from.
I have tried and still trying, to date a lady from countries like Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana, Congo, Tanzania and Uganda but I can't find. Not because they are not there. They are plenty here in south Africa, but its hard because they only prefer guys from their own countries. Us south Africans, we are not considered men by those ladies. But their brothers are finishing our sisters here. Wake up ladies from other African countries, wake up in your slumber. We love you as well. When your brothers are marrying our sisters here, we should be marrying you as well. I think that way, we will be promoting unity amongst ourselves as Africans
I am sure you have settled down with a very good SA woman by now. If not, you need to travel to some of those African countries and familiarise yourself with the people.
This is sad. I'm African my ancestors were brought to the Caribbean as slaves it hurts when I see how we are still treating each other generations later we are all one.
We not afraid to date other African women, the problem is we don't really find them that attractive and that is coming from people who absolutely LOVE women as you know, I'm not trying to be funny but that is the truth just be honest with yourselves how many African women get approached by South African men rich/poor compared to African men approaching SA women??? our women are just better looking it's not even that deep...by the way I don't really care about some women here dating other Africans I don't see any problem because this happens all over the world plus I am married to a beautiful woman so yeah but honestly speaking this thing of thinking ALL South African women are into Foreign guys is just going to end in tears especially if you have no quick money to offer.
Foreigners themselves tell that it's easier to get laid in SA even with little to no money because they are more attracted to West-Central African men on average. It happens because southern features are seen as more feminine(soft) so women are more wanted than the men and western features are seen as more maculine(rough) so men from there are more wanted than their women. The same sex biased dynamic happens between Wafr men and East African women or also between White men and Asian women
When i was workimg for Sadc all these SA men would go after me. And most of them were married too. They would think i am SA because of the tone of my skin and my eyes not knowing Lubas have very light skin ans small eyes. And they have high positions. When i go to SA i cant go out without these men wanting to get my number. And they are the creme de la creme of black SAns
I am an Ethiopian who has visited S A. S A blacks have been isolated from the rest of Africa and the World during Apartheid, they did not have access to education and Information. You can hear the damage inflicted on them when they refer to their fellow Africans as foreigners.
When SA was in isolation you were busy fighting Eritrea.that demaged you to be all over the world trying to make ends .when we were in isolation what were you doing instead of developing your country you were busy enjoying to leave in starvation in horrible houses and infrastructure and .even when we in isolation we supported you in 80 buy CD we are the world by Americans to help you from starvation . Ethiopia is still starving even TB is the order of the day instead of saying thank SA for allowing you to make money here you are demanding not to be called a foreigner .yes you are a foreigner if you understand the dictionary meaning of the word .stop beating your women .you are no 1 in Africa for beating women .stop tribal and religious intolerance in your country .Tigrinya people are hums as well .it is not only Amharic who are humans
“They don’t ‘RAPE’ their own kids “ that’s heavy ?! It’s disturbing to contemplate, evil to carry out such heinous crime against anyone, talk less of your own kid .
To the 1st woman...thank God you married a nice man with probably a nice family. West African men also do horrible things to their wives and kids. However, for African women, I think our values are more appreciated by foreigners.
Wouldn't totally agree with the stereotype that lingers in the video as personal experience seems to drive it though. We are all Africans and should learn to move in one direction together. ☮️ one love
We are all African people we should treat our african women with dignity and respect provide for them with humility and love this is a advice to all African brother we are Godly people
I'm a foreign women living in South Africa and I date men based on the the connection I have with them not their nationality. In my experience, South African men have not treated me well, most lack respect for women, believe in degrading women and can be abusive ... which is why I try to stay away from them.
These are some of the same sentiments many SA women also have about SA men. If a foreign national woman has observed similar things in our men, then there we have it. A lot of these guys ain't about anything.
@@solimeko7131you're such a nasty person. Victim blaming says a lot about you. Trying so hard to defend people who wouldn't even spit on you if your ass was on fire. What a joke!
My sister they don't do what? Paul down the road from Uganda beats his South African wife weekly , He killed Tshepo . They feed women with drugs, traffic women, so which foreigners are you talking about? The other 1 threw a woman from 8th floor balcony. So speak for your self .The toxicness that you have with your previous relationships eith South Africans needs counselling.
I was just turned of by this word "foreigner". You are an African, How do you call yourself/ a fellow African a foreigner in Africa? Surprisingly, whites from other countries are hardly called foreign.
How many white foreigners do you see in the township. The problem is that public health is taking strain and it directly affects township dwellers. The types of jobs which are given illegally to foreign national are mostly low end jobs and that's what creates the frustrations. South Africa has many foreign professionals and they are great appreciated. The problem is when they are given jobs that would primarily be required by law to be filled by locals these include retail, entry level construction, domestic etc.
what about those foreigners who left their kids here and went home? you can't Say South African man can't take care of their woman just because you met the wrong person. Why are South African man not attracted to foreign woman.
haibo we are happy yaz...so many women they have dated foreigners for love its really an individual choice..Most south African men they are easily influenced by their parents especially mom's..Andizi😂😂😂
Just ask our own gospel recording artist, sister Deborah Fraizer about her so called loving and caring Nigerian husband..she found out very late that he had 3 other wives and children and he was so abusive physically towards her...so its just a matter of peoples opinions.
Even there own women’s are scared of them. Meaning Black South Africans men have no mercy, love to even within themselves. I love Africa but our West Africa is the best . Interns of hospitality , respect and loves we have for each other
It’s a stigma that’s all. People like people that are different so that we can learn from each other. My wife was born in Kenya and I’m from the United States. We are different from each other that’s all. They say opposites attract, like magnets.
we all Africans lets celebrate it. The system of whte monoply through media and socioeconomic isolation, make South Africa men look bad lets unite and celebrate our diversity,no black is a foreign in Africa. Im Mozambican blessed with two handsome boys by a later Zulu woman. Jah bless Afrika the continent of the most beautiful black women
@@TheNaijaboy007 that's the question you should actually ask SA women who bashing SA men on TH-cam and doing PR for foreigners if they dated the whole SA!
If South Africans start look to another africans as brothers apart from cultture and other stuff, South Africa would be a better country, because I was myself student in South Africa for 6 years, and I faced more descrimination from black people than white people. I'm from Angola I had opportunity to date South Africa women but I avoided because of backlash from South Africa men. Because of lack of information of many South Africans think we foreigns came South Africa to destroy the country instead of share information from the foreigns. The sigma of Apartheid still live inside of many South Africans unfortunately.
They should interview SA women, this video only has one SA woman the one who was left by her man & got married to a foreigner, so what else can she say, what if the video was made to character assassinate SA men in the first place
SouthAfrican men your women needs love and attention, most of them are not dating foreigners for finical aid, I am currently dating the most beautiful lady I've ever set my on, she is SouthAfrican, and she is not dating me because am rich, I know because am broke as hell.
West African men are the most caring individuals I’ve ever come across they’ll never approach you to waste your time or deceive you when it comes to their intentions for you. They make great providers. They are respectful. And their work ethic and hustle mentality is to die for. I’m a young South African lady who hadn’t been in a relationship only up until my 20’s simply because South African men are intimidated by me, are not serious in terms of relationships and just seek to sleep with everyone’s child to impregnate them. As for “papers” OUR MEN (yes I said it) Our West African men❤️ work so hard that burdening a women with his own life issues is never an option so they sort them selves as a man should. We are treated like queens 👸 and are appreciated.
I think foreigner is more attractive perhaps by culture, because those men when they come to other women as foreigner they treat them as good too, like those foreigner treat the South Africa women, and those foreigner men when come to their women in their own country they don't treat those women the way they do in South African women. I see it in my Country some men don't know how to treat women, but if they marry with a foreigner, they know how to treat her as women. Sometime I can say perhaps they try to impress them or her he's good guy. This is the reason maybe marry with foreigner is better.
South African women managed to find love from outside south africa and that great am happy for them love is always good the only problem I've noticed is that South African women like to talk shit about their brothers from here once they fall in love with someone from outside, something like they don't rape, beat their women all sort of things that makes me wonder how they feel about their brothers and fathers at home, you call them all these names because you found love from outside?
Its possible that the kids were being used to manipulate the father until he couldn't take untill he left. No she found a Senegalese simp to take care of her children...and all that disappointment and trauma is a foult of every South African men
Wow, I am happy for you and your husband, may you continue to have a joyful marriage filled with love. By the way, do you have a sister, I need to find one like you ?
From India . You can't blame all SA men are not respect SA women , in every country some people are good thinking and some are bad thinking . Its depends who is in relationship with you
Stop justifying your dating out of the country by bad-mouthing South African men as if you've dated the whole SA. And don't tell me you're in your relationships because South African men are poor, your reasoning is wrong.
Kiss Mlungu ,yeah brother we have to balance. Look,we always check both sides when we want to cross the road. Even we know that the traffic is going one direction there is no any traffic coming opposite direction,still we have fear that makes us to make sure check the other direction for just incase. Then why don't we incase too discuss about poor dating?
Point is people date each other for various reasons and that should not be an issue. As for the woman who says foreigners don't leave their wives hungry needs to do her research first. People all have different characters regardless of where they were born, it is videos like these that divide Africans more.
I'm married to a South African man, I'm a South African lady. I LOVE our man, they are so gentle, they have respect for women, I don't regret my decision
My sister is Namibian she is married to a Zulu guy. They are very happy he takes care of her and their Children, they don't starve at all. I'm confussed.
Saggeus Hingab
I'm confused also. 😕
Don't get confused human beings are human beings in every country in the world you will find good and bad people
Don't worry 0.00003 % sa women marrying especially nigerian guys they bash SA men but you will never see SA men bashing their women.
I don't know if it makes them feel better lol...
@@ferdykeyz4583 It's the bitter ones.
Thanks.
I know of a Mozambican guy who killed and burnt a South African woman in Limpopo, leaving her family traumatized, and then fled the country.. I just think it depends on the type of guy you meet, it has nothing to do with nationality..
They do it all the time and we have to keep quiet about it .when we complain it is called Xenophobia
Talk about a Zimbabwean man who butchered his three children and his girlfriend and fleed to the neighbouring town. Fortunately through the swift move of the police he was apprehended. Yes you find good and bad man everywhere.
These ladies know that foreigners are heartless and evil,but since they are after money they don't care or mind getting killed!
I am a Zimbabwean lady dating a South African guy I am enjoying my love life . South African men got love and care
A large majority don’t they got hella problems and don’t know how to care for their women
Thanks. Stay blessed.
@@legendaryfootballmedia721 Give us the stats. Show us the percentage of South African men that do not love their women. That's a nonsense stereotype and you know it.
Wonderful!❤I wish you all the best 👍
Go to the malls ,go to the parks and also to the churches out will see huge numbers of South Africans families shopping together father mother and kids sharing love and happiness.
I'm a Pakistani also living in south Africa and not all south Africans are bad only few of them and there's good and bad people everywhere
I'm a south african and i love Pakistan's, i wish i can marry one of them
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True!
So true
Thanks brother you must stop calling yourself Pakistani your South African
The senegalese guy married her and took care of her south african children. This bro is a gentleman
Nothing unique about SA women dating foreign guys. Same as Nigerian women will tell you that Ghananian or foreign men treat them better than Nigerian men. Same as American women making suggestions that European or foreign men treat them better. Same statement from Zambian women labelling their men lazy hence dating Congolese men become the best choice for them. This idea even goes beyond race lines where Black men feel more respected by White women and where Black women feel more respected and adored by White men. I guess it boils down to the concept of familiarity equating to taking one for granted.
@@tyali84 typical broad-minded South African . thanks Charlotte
ahmadou diouf he is a simp.
@@tyali84
I think you missed the most important point here. Lack of opportunities and money turns a man into a beast. That's what the woman said in the end beatings, raping etc is a characteristic of a man that has turn into a beast and that's the reality for 30% of SA men. I also get your point especially with a foreign man who has to keep himself in check because he knows he is in a foreign land.
@@tyali84 here is one exposed and travelled woman . Thanks Sissy.
I am South African and happily married to a wonderful Nigerian man. We are based here in London. I fell in love with him, he takes good care of me in every aspect and is very hardworking. He also motivates and encourages me when needed. I never had that with South African guys and find that friends who are married to them are always complaining. This doesn’t mean all SA guys- just some.
I get you, I don't blame you for going where you're treated well...this would be natural for anyone. I've been with a Zimbabwean, totally different to most South Africans I've dated before. Women will go where they are appreciated and well taken care of.
I married a Ghanaian woman best man I ever had.
Enjoy my sister's
I've never seen a SA men bashing SA women on TH-cam or Social media,I also doubt you dated the whole SA so why is it when you date outside of SA you see it fit to bash South African men, does it make you feel better?...I don't get understand what's this 5 minute hype about Foreign guys are you doing PR for them at the expense of SA men?
What about the ladies who get arrested for being drug mules?
Don't be foolish if you found happiness with a foreigner that's cool but that doesn't warrant you to bad mouth SA brothers,we protect you on social media when people call you brainless and loose yet you guys are busy bashing us out here.
I blame that Nigeria guy
Not all them, my friend’s aunt who is originally from Congo is married to a SA guy and they’ve been together for more than years now.
I’m a black man from America. California to be exact and I’m in love with a South African woman. She is from Durban and she is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Hands down..
As a South African I want to marry out of South Africa. What I've learned is that our up bringing and apartheid has had an impact on us. Two toxic individuals cannot mix. We need love from someone with different frame of reference. The South African society is ill in some degree.
I'm south african and I can understand why sa women are across the border. These take care of their women. They take pride in taking care of their women. I traveled to uganda. It's alonst impossible to come across a female headed home. I pray our sa men will stop running away from responsibility. Too many women left with the burden of taking care of their children alone
Not all of them . don't generalize .most SA women have been played by non SA men.fake true love for citizenship .we are not all across the bother .very small percentage is .
Hi saba you look so familiar have we meet before?
So you need someone from UGANDA
I hope you also found love across the border. Don't waste time around useless men
The Body Lab guy interviewed at 0:24 seconds into the video is such a cool guy. I remember when I was still in tertiary back in Pretoria, mans used to brighten my depressed mornings with his all time enthusiastic energy and eagerness. I'd be going through the most, deep in my academic and newly found independency influenced stresses walking to varsity and I'd walk past them on Cnr Wessels and Park Street in Pretoria. Dude would greed enthusiastically and hit me with a random: "dintshang mfanak, omnate?" outtaf the blue and that would set a different tone and mood to my days.
They are respectful, thoughtful, patient, willing to teach and very loving.
I'm engaged to a Zimbabwean and his the first non south African I've dated. I've never felt this loved and just when people were starting with their "he wants papers" we both got employment as teachers overseas. We left SA with it "papers"😂😂😂
@Dude Chillin ngithi I'm happy with my Zimbabwean fiancè. No south African men can compare, south African men can make you normalize cheating and dumping their own kids.
@Dude Chillin teachers stick to the content and that exactly what I'm doing. If you want to know about subjects and teaching then you in the wrong platform lasikhuluma about foreign partners
@Dude Chillin You've got a creepy aggression thing going on, Dude. So the lady doesn't think she owes you the 'Hows' and 'Whys' about her teaching job, big deal. Suck it up! Where d'you get off calling someone an imbecile? Go get some manners!
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Africans from other nations are foreigners? South Africans what is this about? I am in Jamaica, and I will never view an African from any nation as a foreigner. That is my family. Africans in the motherland, please, please, set an example for us in the diaspora. Reject and abandon the colonizers classification of our people. Surely we are mature enough to recognize the chains that still hold some of us back.
I am not Rasta, but peace and love to all my people. Love blackness, dump the bleaching cream. Love Africa, regardless. Our future depends on this state of mind.
Africa is a continent so different countries are foreign. That’s like saying every country in North America is the same. There are 23 countries in North America including USA, Mexico, Jamaica, Nicaragua, Canada, Haiti, Honduras, Saint Lucia, etc. So you’re saying if a Jamaican goes to Mexico they wouldn’t be considered a foreigner? Or if someone from the USA goes to Honduras they wouldn’t be considered a foreigner? You don’t make sense. Although Africa is one continent, each country has different cultures, languages, values and economic status. That is the definition of foreigner...
Jamaica is the place that finds it hard to admit nigerians. I travelled there with visa and waa denied entry for no justifiable reason.
Steven barret Amen🙌🏾💪🏾
this is stupid
Technically, they're right.
Me i am proudly south African married with four ci lhildren guess what my husband is a south African we respect each other ,
Okay! now I understand this xenophobia against foreigners especially west africans. Nigerians in particular.. They are business oriented, they treat the women better plus take care of the kids of the runaway SA men, so now you are insecure about that, you turn to hate for solace. how pathetic.
Katleho 011Gauteng Its okay.. I get your frustration. let it all out.
Leslie D. Its not frustration bru it's all in the science of nature it's the same principal of telling humans that dinosaurs where killed by an asteroid while we have a huge number of diff species still existing on earth I don't entertain concepts I have a healthy South African Wife and kids that I'm taking care of love was there before foreigners came we just have better looking women than most African countries but not all are stupid to fall for that "concept"
Nikki Moore are you black or white cause this make no sense if you black no one chose to be poor colonial offsprings created poverty for black people
Katleho 011Gauteng All the more reasons to see your closed mindset.. you don't think there are south africans in other African countries as foreigners, chasing after their women who apparently they believe are better looking than south african women. save your theory for the likes.
The only people who are pathetic are you foreigners. That's why you are running to my country and I am not in yours.
My husband to me is not a foreigner but an African man who is absolutely perfect. The best in every way imaginable. His not Nigerian, his from East Africa. They have so much values and morals and absolutely unconditional love and forgiveness is easy. I being a South African woman is proud to say almost 9 years together and God has truly Blessed us and Our union.
Wendy spot on cutie, I am glad you appreciate us.
Is he somalian or Ethiopian these two countries are from East Africans who stays in SA i mean they are most of them there another countries but not too much dear sister
@@abdishakourdahir9280 His Eritrean..
@@listening3536 that is good dear sister ereterian are my neighbours he is from asmara even I'm Somalian 🇸🇴 i wanna married SA women if allah says
The love that I have for you is beyond so thank you for saying that and I don't believe in countries . which I believe is in love so thank you for saying that
This is the true reason behind the hate and jealousy. SHAME!!
We're all africans...it's so sad how the word foreign just means non-SA black. You wouldn't think this way about european foreigners would you? This divisive mentality is holding our continent back. We all need to do better.
Ekanem Ukpong well said
Ekanem Ukpong
That's what has been taught. That word didn't fall from the sky.
White controlled SA media.
And here we are today in 2018 with the same tribal mind set! So sad! I use to want to save the world (Africa) but I grew up n realized that the world doesn’t want to be changed! So I’m working for my own individual freedom n independence!! Peace n Love
PressurebussPipes & makesDiamonds that’s actually the best thing you can do to your life brother! I strongly support you 👊🏿
Well said
Wow this video made my day. The comments and engagements are even more interesting. Bottom line is we are all African 👌🏿
This is just stereotyping, even in foreign countries the same thing happens. Even to a larger scale
I am a SOUTH AFRICAN born. My woman is a Zimbabwean and i dated her from 2010 when we first met in Marondera, a town not so far from Harare, during my visit to Zimbabwe that year. And we married in 2013. We are happily married. We have two beatiful kids. She is Shona, i am a Zulu. And on yearly basis we visit Zimbabwe... so stop the arrogance and grow up. Africa ppl are the same, especially sub Sahara people. There are good and bad people in every society.
I most admit, I'm a Liberian and I honestly think this issue of love, care and affection is base on the individual, let not look down on south African guys as well, but as a west African, I can assure you, we know how to hustle to take care of women, I'm sure some south African men also do the same, it just depends on the individual who chooses to give love and be love, give care and be care for that's all.
How is giving money the same as showing love problem is too many women have the same mentality as prostitutes.
thats very true. most foreign men are loving, caring and more responsible in marriage than most SA men. most SA men do not like to take care of their own kids even when they are working
Unfortunately, BW voice the same problems with bm in America.
wailer i You talk of men who left their wives and children in their foreign countries and gave love to you forgetting their kids back home,difference is SA men do it right here,the thing of not taking care of kids is a black problem,even in US,East Africa,West Africa and Central Africa,dont single out SA
South Africa
Your mad.
they should stop dating most men.
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This is one of main reason of xenophobia attack in SA, the foreigners no how to take care women while the SA men can not and is as a result of jeolous
Misconstrued perception,it has nthng to do with pussy (woman) bt it all has to do with the crimes committed by most of these foreigners n its nt xenophobia bt its citizen justice
They know how to take of women but not their countries ?if they can't take care of their countries thus resulting to most country men leaving their respective countries that means they don't care about their children and women . don't contradict yourself
@@mzwakhethenjwayo3618 big lie. Most foreigners don't commit crimes. Your local media may well blow it out of proportion. Black SAs need to deal with their demons i.e. post-apartheid trauma. You see a Nigerian brain surgeon (working hard to save lives in SA) and you pejoratively label him an immigrant. Whereas, a (White) Polish guy who has no job, no skill whatsoever is bestowed with the title of being an expatriate. Goes to show how warped and damaged the average Black SA's mind is. They even call ''foreign'' Black Africans ''Africans'' as if they are Whiter than snow.
@@solimeko7131 you are deluded. How many of these foreign men were married and/or had children back in their countries of origin? How many cases have you come across personally (rather than the ones you have heard through the media) of SA women married to African men who later discovered these African men were married in their original countries? One of the major problems of Black SAs is that they have unintentionally imbibed the White Supremacy i.e. the legacy of Apartheid. So, a Ghanaian (who speaks flawless English and is a Heart Surgeon working hard and paying tax in SA is classified to be an immigrant, whereas a Ukrainian who speaks no word of English, has no formal qualification and no skill whatsoever to help build and/or add value to the quality of life of the average SA gets conferred with the title ''expatriate all because his skin colour is white. This is a manifestation of Self-hatred on the part of Black SA. it is catastrophically tragic.
Plenty of dynamics at play when coming to making a choice on who to marry, hence some of our choices and preferences are informed by stereotypes not genuine facts based on personality, culture, intellect, religion etc.
i am a Kenyan and the thing i find sad is in every country in Africa you will find the women choosing to date foreigners over the local men because of the same thing. In Nigeria a woman dating a Ugandan will say i date foreigners because they are loving and caring and they provide for their women meanwhile In Uganda a woman dating a Nigerian will give the same reason why she doesn't date Ugandan men but prefers Nigerians. When will folks realize that its not where they are from it's how they grew up. Every man is different. Not every man from country A is good and not every man from country B is bad. There are South African men who are gentlemen and can make loving boyfriends and husbands. You just have to search and be patient. But if you really can't find and you are willing to date a Kenyan Man just leave your number or email in the comments and i will get back to you ;-)
Richard Ray No that's not true, you barely find a Nigerian woman married to a foreigner . if you have ever lived in Nigeria you will understand why.
I would rather them date black "foreigners" than White people
calebo wo you are on point.. I laughed at his statement. Nigerian women seldom marry foreigners
Calebo wo. Tell me more. I have this Nigerian woman i talk to and I would like to know more about the women from there. Why don't they date foreigners?
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Am a foreign man and it was hard to get a south african women, all mostly thought am nigerian, but from US, then they block for no reason.
Nigerians have a bad reputation in South Africa and that has created a stigma which makes women to have reservations when considering to develop any sort of relationship with a Nigerian man. It's an unfortunate reality. Good luck!
1stly: I don't condone xenophobic attacks.
2ndly: Let's not generalize anything about people any person from anywhere since there are good men and bad men everywhere. It has nothing to do with country's, more the psychology of a person rather.
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I'd love to see South Africa!
Thanks for the video!
Where you from?
@@ntsikadzingwe5764 Vancouver, Canada.
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Hi
I am a South African and married to a foreigner, I am very much happy in my marriage because foreign man knows how to take care of their woman including our own kids that we have with South African man
Even South African men do it . My uncle married a woman who had 2 children and he raised them and put them to university. There are good men in South Africa
My auntie is married by a zulu men with her namibian 3 children all of them residing in south africa so whats the big deal about south african men thats world wide mechanism
@Ferdie ortman 😂😂we are always at the receiving end of the bashing we nolonger care what they think about us anympre they generali2us based on their bad experiences
South African men are only males with backbones and resilience in the whole continent of Africa. Only the brave hearts who managed to stay in their country and fight for freedom of their children and women .I salute you South African men .God bless South African men and their families. Some had become lunch and breakfast of sharks as their boats wreck on their way to Europe simply because they runaway from their war of liberating their children and women from poverty and hunger.
I see the problem is every where in Africa, women blame their country men, and men blame their women about their relationship. Some people think the other side of the river is greener. It all comes down individuality.😎
It is in the nature of women they live adventure and mysterious things .
Its everywhere, USA, UK, China. Everywhere we just can't live amongst our country women.
True.
I am a soo- called south African,and I would date guys from outside SA
Hi I am senegalese 35 years old how old are you send me a message then we will see is it possible make a dating and try to know each other
Martin Luterking r u single?
Yes I am single.
Martin Luterking great!
How old are you
Me personally I won't date a foreigner, but I have many foreign friends. These foreign guys are respectful, loving, caring and that woman is right, they don't beat women and they never leave you go hungry. Most are God fearing. They are good brothers, I call them.
Well I know, not everyone is the same. We also have good South Africans, and there are those bad-bad foreigners.
Tsepiso you just plain stupid
@MrThuglife404 😂😂😂😂just forget about land is past😂😂😂
@MrThuglife404 you are south african 😂😂😂😂sare ratele dilo😂😂😂😂
Your right just fuck all these haters
You are right. Fuck off to all the haters.
Then why don't they move to those countries after marriage ??
it's is unfair to those good men in SA because there are lots of them, just like any country you get good people and the opposite...the world is like that,so it's so childish to hear such comments,i'm SA gentleman who is supporting a lady from Lesotho, this young girl she is going through rough patches.she is not working with small makes eve harder for,she is no relatives here no nothing,she needs to pay rent monthly, real burden over her shoulder but i took it upon myself to provide for her, until she is able to take care of herself and her baby...i hardly know her but i'll be there for this soul.now every country you get good people and the opposite group of people,so to hear such comments it's ridiculous!!!
Jurodah Gabriel my I am a Nigerian. Pls keep up the good work. Although some of the statements may be true but not applicable to all SA men.
I feel same way when people say some negative things about Nigerians because I know I am not part of the negative Nigerians but that does stop me from living a positive life and impacting positively because I see my see as an instrument of change. Also see your self as an instrument of change by tryring to advice any SA man you come across who engages himself in such stereotypical activities condemned it this video.
I lived in South Africa for 3yrs and realized Most South African men don't respect women because there was alot rape cases. I think the government should do something about rapist.
@@Deggoo me I respect my wife she not South African but i have never laid my hands on her in any violent way
@@itsusi3259 I never said all south African men dear but most of them don't value women.
Imagine being a Black American. We ALL get labeled for the negative actions of a few. I know the feeling, but we gotta keep being the best men we can be .
I am a Nigerian, but I still prefer the South African women as the best woman among all African. The South African women are carrying, loving and willing to help big a good and strong family. So they are the best woman in Africa. Wish I can just have one from there.
Hope you havent changed ater this recent attack its sad.
I have been married for 15 years to my Xhosa Husband and i'm still happy. And are Stop hore our south african men haba hantle monna ke monna maHn
Thank You, Ouma. Maybe your comment here would put an end to this generalization.
so sorry about this
@Xhosa Queen is not any first option to date foreigners most gals they date them because they decieve by south African guys
They raised kids alone
Hi miya you look so familiar have we meet before?
I was told xhosa men are different because they go for a kind of training on how to be men and leaders in society, i was told this by a Zulu lady who says the only south African men that impress her are the xhosa ones.
"STOP THE PROPAGANDA"
"WE ARE ONE AFRICA"
South Africans doesn't know that bro... I've been here for 15 years nd I hv their scars
@@maduabuchivitalis5909 we also have scars.,our children are on drugs ,not to mansion scams ,fraud ,crime pls
We are all Africans let's share love that's all❤❤❤❤❤
South African men are also fed up with most South African woman. I am a South African Guy an I am going to marry a Namibian woman because they are not so different from South African woman just they have the best manners.
We don't care, tsamaya 😂
This is my 1st time seeing this video, when I read the title I assumed by "foreigner", They met non African.
To my great shock, and quite frankly sadness, I'm watching a video of Africans calling other Africans foreigners?
This video demonstrates, very clearly, how to and why we blacks are so easily divided and conquered.
However in hindsight, I will say that i do understand that we have been purposly divided for hundreds of years and have mentally been reprogram in Western ways of thinking in regards to values and belief.
Africans, brothers and sisters, we must regain our identities and understand that no matter where we are, unlike any other ethnicity on Earth, we are ONE PEOPLE!
What is a foreigner ?
Good and bad men can be of any nationality. You might not be lucky enough to find a good man among your country men but it does not mean they are all bad.
I love my foreign man, what I have found in him I didn't find in a South African man. In the end nationality doesn't matter. I would love him no matter where he is from.
Eliznah Smal can I know more about you?
In the end its your choice👀
I have tried and still trying, to date a lady from countries like Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana, Congo, Tanzania and Uganda but I can't find. Not because they are not there. They are plenty here in south Africa, but its hard because they only prefer guys from their own countries. Us south Africans, we are not considered men by those ladies. But their brothers are finishing our sisters here.
Wake up ladies from other African countries, wake up in your slumber. We love you as well. When your brothers are marrying our sisters here, we should be marrying you as well. I think that way, we will be promoting unity amongst ourselves as Africans
I am sure you have settled down with a very good SA woman by now. If not, you need to travel to some of those African countries and familiarise yourself with the people.
Great Video loved hearing the ladies opinions and their expectations
"Let's go to West Africa" she wouldn't last 2hrs in West Africa
She can. There is nothing wrong with West Africa lol. Please travel a bit more.
This is sad. I'm African my ancestors were brought to the Caribbean as slaves it hurts when I see how we are still treating each other generations later we are all one.
I think you should have interviewed South African women more.
We not afraid to date other African women, the problem is we don't really find them that attractive and that is coming from people who absolutely LOVE women as you know, I'm not trying to be funny but that is the truth just be honest with yourselves how many African women get approached by South African men rich/poor compared to African men approaching SA women??? our women are just better looking it's not even that deep...by the way I don't really care about some women here dating other Africans I don't see any problem because this happens all over the world plus I am married to a beautiful woman so yeah but honestly speaking this thing of thinking ALL South African women are into Foreign guys is just going to end in tears especially if you have no quick money to offer.
Foreigners themselves tell that it's easier to get laid in SA even with little to no money because they are more attracted to West-Central African men on average. It happens because southern features are seen as more feminine(soft) so women are more wanted than the men and western features are seen as more maculine(rough) so men from there are more wanted than their women. The same sex biased dynamic happens between Wafr men and East African women or also between White men and Asian women
When i was workimg for Sadc all these SA men would go after me. And most of them were married too. They would think i am SA because of the tone of my skin and my eyes not knowing Lubas have very light skin ans small eyes. And they have high positions. When i go to SA i cant go out without these men wanting to get my number. And they are the creme de la creme of black SAns
We should all marry within each other to make Africa stronger. Africa is ONE. #SayNoToXenophobia
I am an Ethiopian who has visited S A. S A blacks have been isolated from the rest of Africa and the World during Apartheid, they did not have access to education and Information. You can hear the damage inflicted on them when they refer to their fellow Africans as foreigners.
When SA was in isolation you were busy fighting Eritrea.that demaged you to be all over the world trying to make ends .when we were in isolation what were you doing instead of developing your country you were busy enjoying to leave in starvation in horrible houses and infrastructure and .even when we in isolation we supported you in 80 buy CD we are the world by Americans to help you from starvation . Ethiopia is still starving even TB is the order of the day instead of saying thank SA for allowing you to make money here you are demanding not to be called a foreigner .yes you are a foreigner if you understand the dictionary meaning of the word .stop beating your women .you are no 1 in Africa for beating women .stop tribal and religious intolerance in your country .Tigrinya people are hums as well .it is not only Amharic who are humans
Someone should tell me why can't I marry my own African sister or brother?
“They don’t ‘RAPE’ their own kids “ that’s heavy ?! It’s disturbing to contemplate, evil to carry out such heinous crime against anyone, talk less of your own kid .
Nonsense 99% of South African women marry home . Otherwise there wouldn't be any Local families
To the 1st woman...thank God you married a nice man with probably a nice family. West African men also do horrible things to their wives and kids. However, for African women, I think our values are more appreciated by foreigners.
Wouldn't totally agree with the stereotype that lingers in the video as personal experience seems to drive it though. We are all Africans and should learn to move in one direction together. ☮️ one love
We are all African people we should treat our african women with dignity and respect provide for them with humility and love this is a advice to all African brother we are Godly people
I'm a foreign women living in South Africa and I date men based on the the connection I have with them not their nationality. In my experience, South African men have not treated me well, most lack respect for women, believe in degrading women and can be abusive ... which is why I try to stay away from them.
These are some of the same sentiments many SA women also have about SA men. If a foreign national woman has observed similar things in our men, then there we have it. A lot of these guys ain't about anything.
They treat you the way you are
Hi sibanda you look so familiar have we meet before?
@@solimeko7131you're such a nasty person. Victim blaming says a lot about you. Trying so hard to defend people who wouldn't even spit on you if your ass was on fire. What a joke!
We are all Africans 💪💪💪❤🇬🇲🇬🇲
I don't a gree with anyone in this video who refers to a brother and sister within AFRICA as a foreigner.
I am a south african man.we are few man here with huge woman so don't blame us.I take care of my wife only then many womans around want to distroy her
Tshimangadzo Nemalale it's only natural that women outnumber men... I think most are against it merely because they're incels or dumb unfounded hatred
They must stop criticism against you my South African Brothers lol
My sister they don't do what? Paul down the road from Uganda beats his South African wife weekly , He killed Tshepo . They feed women with drugs, traffic women, so which foreigners are you talking about? The other 1 threw a woman from 8th floor balcony. So speak for your self .The toxicness that you have with your previous relationships eith South Africans needs counselling.
Foreign men know how to treat women. They RESPECT women and that's why I adore them
Greetings from Nairobi. 😊
South African black men will have to visit other countries to date, a matter of time.
I was just turned of by this word "foreigner". You are an African, How do you call yourself/ a fellow African a foreigner in Africa?
Surprisingly, whites from other countries are hardly called foreign.
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How many white foreigners do you see in the township. The problem is that public health is taking strain and it directly affects township dwellers. The types of jobs which are given illegally to foreign national are mostly low end jobs and that's what creates the frustrations. South Africa has many foreign professionals and they are great appreciated. The problem is when they are given jobs that would primarily be required by law to be filled by locals these include retail, entry level construction, domestic etc.
Who doesn't call them foreigners ,they are foreigners .if you haven't met them to call them foreigners it is anyone's fault
But they are foreigners. All countries have national borders, and this has been thus since time immemorial.
@@m2ranojaholo79 shut up Mr kwerekwere
what about those foreigners who left their kids here and went home? you can't Say South African man can't take care of their woman just because you met the wrong person. Why are South African man not attracted to foreign woman.
I wish these foreigners they can take all of these girls who are dating with them and go back to their countries, so that we can start afresh
Because after getting to know foreigners they find out they are also normal human beings.
haibo we are happy yaz...so many women they have dated foreigners for love its really an individual choice..Most south African men they are easily influenced by their parents especially mom's..Andizi😂😂😂
If they are dating our people,nothing is wrong with it.
Thank you wise man, it jealousy that is worrying them
Just ask our own gospel recording artist, sister Deborah Fraizer about her so called loving and caring Nigerian husband..she found out very late that he had 3 other wives and children and he was so abusive physically towards her...so its just a matter of peoples opinions.
Darel Matsh you are right
Even there own women’s are scared of them. Meaning Black South Africans men have no mercy, love to even within themselves. I love Africa but our West Africa is the best . Interns of hospitality , respect and loves we have for each other
Oh ja I love my South African brothers
Lilly Tom what’s your instagram bae
So clean , intelligent,and smell nice .just love them
It’s a stigma that’s all. People like people that are different so that we can learn from each other. My wife was born in Kenya and I’m from the United States. We are different from each other that’s all. They say opposites attract, like magnets.
im somali guy i dated many SA girls but financial was not the first thing they dated me.
Meaning you are a player guy wooooow many many girls why dude???
we all Africans lets celebrate it. The system of whte monoply through media and socioeconomic isolation, make South Africa men look bad lets unite and celebrate our diversity,no black is a foreign in Africa. Im Mozambican blessed with two handsome boys by a later Zulu woman. Jah bless Afrika the continent of the most beautiful black women
All men are the same everywhere.it depends on the condition of the heart. Morals and upbringing. Ubuntu
'...are they the same'? Have you dated everyone?
@@TheNaijaboy007 that's the question you should actually ask SA women who bashing SA men on TH-cam and doing PR for foreigners if they dated the whole SA!
@@TheNaijaboy007 yes Bond I dated ever all the man in the world
The end of the video woiwoiwowowooo
This lady is feeling so lucky.
She getting served that west African sausage the proper way lol
She is for real,her fellow brothers have little john and pot bellies wat CN yu expect 😂
If South Africans start look to another africans as brothers apart from cultture and other stuff, South Africa would be a better country, because I was myself student in South Africa for 6 years, and I faced more descrimination from black people than white people. I'm from Angola I had opportunity to date South Africa women but I avoided because of backlash from South Africa men. Because of lack of information of many South Africans think we foreigns came South Africa to destroy the country instead of share information from the foreigns. The sigma of Apartheid still live inside of many South Africans unfortunately.
I love your country.
I faced the same problems in South Africa. South African men don't like other Africans.
@@Deggoo I'm a south African man I like foreigners I'm married to a beautiful Nigerian woman
@@itsusi3259 a south african married to a nigerian women,,that must be rare
@@entertainmentnews5355 jus me and my cousin
They should interview SA women, this video only has one SA woman the one who was left by her man & got married to a foreigner, so what else can she say, what if the video was made to character assassinate SA men in the first place
SouthAfrican men your women needs love and attention, most of them are not dating foreigners for finical aid, I am currently dating the most beautiful lady I've ever set my on, she is SouthAfrican, and she is not dating me because am rich, I know because am broke as hell.
U are dating her for citizenship,we know yo type n after u got citizenship u will drop her lyk a hot potato
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Ana Xhosa queen a South Africa woman married to A Ghana woman how the hell did that happen
Once you get apers you leave her with children and proceed to the Ist world country
We’re all Africans and all blacks. ❤
West African men are the most caring individuals I’ve ever come across they’ll never approach you to waste your time or deceive you when it comes to their intentions for you.
They make great providers. They are respectful. And their work ethic and hustle mentality is to die for.
I’m a young South African lady who hadn’t been in a relationship only up until my 20’s simply because South African men are intimidated by me, are not serious in terms of relationships and just seek to sleep with everyone’s child to impregnate them.
As for “papers” OUR MEN (yes I said it) Our West African men❤️ work so hard that burdening a women with his own life issues is never an option so they sort them selves as a man should.
We are treated like queens 👸 and are appreciated.
We are very good at loving,sis.
I don't think this should even be a topic. We date anyone we love
I think foreigner is more attractive perhaps by culture, because those men when they come to other women as foreigner they treat them as good too, like those foreigner treat the South Africa women, and those foreigner men when come to their women in their own country they don't treat those women the way they do in South African women. I see it in my Country some men don't know how to treat women, but if they marry with a foreigner, they know how to treat her as women. Sometime I can say perhaps they try to impress them or her he's good guy. This is the reason maybe marry with foreigner is better.
South African women managed to find love from outside south africa and that great am happy for them love is always good the only problem I've noticed is that South African women like to talk shit about their brothers from here once they fall in love with someone from outside, something like they don't rape, beat their women all sort of things that makes me wonder how they feel about their brothers and fathers at home, you call them all these names because you found love from outside?
Let's love and be loved.South African women are beautiful........
Its possible that the kids were being used to manipulate the father until he couldn't take untill he left. No she found a Senegalese simp to take care of her children...and all that disappointment and trauma is a foult of every South African men
That's what you call responsible and caring men nowadays... "simps". Grow up.
I rely don't know why they doing this it's not about money I am a South African Women I have 4 kids with my husband please guys stop what you doing 🙏
lol kunzima
Wow, I am happy for you and your husband, may you continue to have a joyful marriage filled with love. By the way, do you have a sister, I need to find one like you ?
From India . You can't blame all SA men are not respect SA women , in every country some people are good thinking and some are bad thinking . Its depends who is in relationship with you
@Thabiso Maila okay and good
🙏🏿🙌🏿 a American Queen👑👑 I never experienced this kind of love it's so beautiful I'm so grateful 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 thank you Jesus glory glory glory ❤️💚🖤💛
Stop justifying your dating out of the country by bad-mouthing South African men as if you've dated the whole SA. And don't tell me you're in your relationships because South African men are poor, your reasoning is wrong.
That woman interviewed has neither pedigree nor family value and honour period.
I got to get to South Africa
the first comment , Financial reasons , enough said...
@Black to Grace, they do make money ...
now for you
WHEN THE MONEY comes illegally, when the money is no longer there, when the money is too much?
What about the one's that dates poor?
hehehe... Muhammad,
Kiss Mlungu ,yeah brother we have to balance. Look,we always check both sides when we want to cross the road. Even we know that the traffic is going one direction there is no any traffic coming opposite direction,still we have fear that makes us to make sure check the other direction for just incase. Then why don't we incase too discuss about poor dating?
+Muhammad Ibrahim axactly.
Point is people date each other for various reasons and that should not be an issue. As for the woman who says foreigners don't leave their wives hungry needs to do her research first. People all have different characters regardless of where they were born, it is videos like these that divide Africans more.
I love this 🙏thank you sister from south African man