He CHEATED because I did not Satisfy him...It BROKE Me

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  • @SotySpecial
    @SotySpecial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Loved our energy in this video!! Thanks for having me ❤️

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I relate so well with that time when u just bring out everything the kids love for them and beg them not to bother you. I literally beg and tell them mummy needs a break. Neso is so good with that, she would serve me drinks, cover me with blanket and take everyone to her room.

  • @NazorEzeh
    @NazorEzeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Recurring conflicts are too annoying!🤣🤣. I filter my words ooo because my own hubby will take them to heart.
    Exactly! They fling chairs at each other in the house of reps🤣

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When one married earlier than mid twenties, I don’t think they are referred to as ever being in-waiting sha.

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will come low with you and raise up from there Nelo won't wound somebody 😊. When trust is lost, it's hard even for me . But divorce is deep when kids are involved

  • @xo_ijay
    @xo_ijay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please we need more of this collab… The reactions to the questions were are on point😊

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God you put a disclaimer before some people will go open their mouth waaaa and talk anymore and see themselves in their fathers house🤣🤣🤣🏃🏃🏃🏃but lesson learnt talk about issues then allowing it linger for long.

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes humiliation isn’t the problem for me but it is the fact I can’t trust you again. I can be very vindictive so I will get you back.

  • @victoriaobidegwu2208
    @victoriaobidegwu2208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this video, I’m Nelo in this regard. Most times I ignore actually, till it gets too much or if what he did really pissed me off. Once everyone is in bed i will just go and meet him downstairs and hit him with the line “do you have a moment?” That’s when he knows gbege don occur.

  • @christabelonitiri6522
    @christabelonitiri6522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the vibe of this video and how different your opinions are...

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    See if someone cheats, it's going to be hard for the other person to forgive

  • @misskalonge2932
    @misskalonge2932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last question the other lady is absolutely correct. This days a lot of people don’t have the patience to wait for someone to change or work on themselves. Also working on yourself before getting into a relationship helps you to know yourself and worth the benefit of doing this is, you can’t be treated less. You know when to walk away when the other person doesn’t appreciate you or treat you right. So find you while waiting you know what you want in a pattern.

  • @ellanomba1587
    @ellanomba1587 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I didn’t know I had bad character”😂😂

  • @NgoziPeter1
    @NgoziPeter1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The part of sleep to relieve stress works well.... Kudos guys. This was so nice 😍

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just finished watching the collab on her channel . Very long video but super interesting. Totally enjoyed 🥰🥰🥰. Plus it was my first time on her channel and I subbed instanta🌹🌹

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nelo is super self aware 🌹🌹

  • @callygram9236
    @callygram9236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly there are things you can't take back. When my ex husband said I was his biggest mistake" gooosh that was my breaking point.

  • @stephnieogbonna7070
    @stephnieogbonna7070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nelo is just me in settling conflict in marriage but sadly my husband doesn’t understand me and things have really gon left

  • @NenyeTheBrand
    @NenyeTheBrand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol the both of you are really similar! She doesn’t sugarcoat anything just like you I likeeee! I can so relate with getting angry and saying shit! Sometimes my mouth lose control when I and my husband gets into argument.
    I don’t believe in cheating back too! To think that I’ve been in the shoes of being cheated! And now it’s like a daily reminder! Cheating breaks a person so so much.

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes you have to bring something to the table when marriage is concerned. You can also do that while in marriage but don’t just be there without getting something done I mean developing. Yes I know someone though a younger friend she is waiting and doing the baby girl thing.

  • @alheri_ebenezer
    @alheri_ebenezer ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed watching this video
    I love your conversation

  • @DominicaTraditionalWear
    @DominicaTraditionalWear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You TH-camrs and Your View are really trying to empower your viewers. Good job.
    It would be interesting to hear a man's point of view on those topics especially on the issues of domestic violence.

  • @amygraceysdiary007
    @amygraceysdiary007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed every part of this! Learned alot too!! Thanks so much Ladies❤️❤️❤️

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many things learnt in this video👌👌👌❣❣thanks for sharing your opinions and honest answers.

  • @blessingkcndeka
    @blessingkcndeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I reckoned one improve on self while waiting, I enjoy watching

  • @ZIKKIESWORLD
    @ZIKKIESWORLD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting and entertaining too.
    Thanks beautiful ladies

  • @TinaIsoa
    @TinaIsoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmmm cheat I leave period

  • @Giniwonders1
    @Giniwonders1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watched this to the end and learnt a lot! Seriously, for me … Don’t just Cheat.

  • @florenceonuoha9631
    @florenceonuoha9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same with me ooo, if am upset I will Start cleaning and cooking, but more especially cleaning up my house 🏠 like tomorrow no dey 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Toksgg
    @Toksgg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your straight from the heart answers.

  • @olamideafolabi5961
    @olamideafolabi5961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh! I just love you Nelo😍. I love the vibe of this video, thank you❤️❤️

  • @JenniferAnidu
    @JenniferAnidu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Q&A I really enjoyed this video so much!

  • @nazomumoh93
    @nazomumoh93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear husband if you cheat on me, we will both pig each other out, and we will baff after, kpichikom 😆🤣😂 Nelo me I've sha taken your advice. Cheating and abuse (domestic and emotional) are my deal breakers in relationships, I might forgive you, but best believe I'll never forget

    • @AbisadeAdedayo
      @AbisadeAdedayo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ellanomba1587
      @ellanomba1587 ปีที่แล้ว

      You aren’t supposed to forget. Even the Bible didn’t say forget. But despite the pain, you rise above it and do the opposite of how you feel.

  • @aboutbusinessknowledge5675
    @aboutbusinessknowledge5675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nelo you're a vibe - I just love your authenticity and I'm pretty that is one of top 3 reasons papa Adanna loves you. Thank you for another engaging video.

  • @DominicaTraditionalWear
    @DominicaTraditionalWear 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There needs to be more interaction with men as most often they are the perpetrators. It would be interesting to hear the views from persons in the rural areas.

  • @NenyeTheBrand
    @NenyeTheBrand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a stay at home mum yet I caught my house help beating the shit out of my daughter when she was 9 months old! I blamed myself for a long time. But will I say because of that I won’t have a life or get a break from the kids because I want to be there always and watch how house help is taking care of the kids? nahhhh I had to learn to give myself break for my own sanity! Coz I was almost losing it it can be overwhelming. I really enjoyed this video! Thanks for sharing🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @AbisadeAdedayo
      @AbisadeAdedayo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh God!
      That's so wicked

    • @NazorEzeh
      @NazorEzeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heeey God!!!😯😯 I hope you removed her teeth

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NazorEzeh the sad thing that annoys me till today is that I didn’t beat her to my satisfaction 😢 ☹️☹️

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AbisadeAdedayo people can be very wicked dear

  • @Chinesefires
    @Chinesefires 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She says lets just take it that "Nigerians we are animals" 😀

  • @StellaSylvesterr
    @StellaSylvesterr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is so informative. learnt a lot

  • @irenedarkwah6329
    @irenedarkwah6329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just to appreciate you ladies for all you do. God bless you.

  • @momoftriplets4392
    @momoftriplets4392 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dish it out, we are taking notes

  • @thethrivespace7743
    @thethrivespace7743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are beautiful and I enjoyed this video …love you

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this, nah I cannot
    Even imagine cooking as a form of destresser , chilling or sleeping is how I de-stress lol

  • @victorychinazaveee_naz1718
    @victorychinazaveee_naz1718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love sote mama 😍 beautiful video

  • @AmytSpace
    @AmytSpace 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also think that in waiting, one should try improving on oneself. This was so much fun watching

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sotonye I like when you said nails. I get my nails done because it helps me with stress. I feel like I leave my stress on the nails tech chair when am done with my nails.

  • @yummykitchendirect4528
    @yummykitchendirect4528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sote, you make me laugh that some they just sit down and be waiting, as for me to release the stress l listen to gospel music the volume will be high, l will be cleaning and eat, then l feel ok.

  • @naimasvlogs
    @naimasvlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sotenye gives me Adaezes vibes

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get mehn.... I feel bad about missing out on some things also

  • @enyojo707
    @enyojo707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nelo here with a very beautiful face

  • @Mubislifestyle
    @Mubislifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Q&A👏🏾👏🏾😍😍

  • @mercysoschristopher
    @mercysoschristopher 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aunty Nelo's facial expression 😂😂😂😂

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is oga Francis you Dey try for me.

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's the I don't want that public display of madness for me 🤣🤣
    This is an interesting video ma'am

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lemme head over to sote's channel

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish the video is longer than this 🥰

  • @stephnieogbonna7070
    @stephnieogbonna7070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear
    After pigging together we will bath
    We have so many things in common nelo

  • @HealthyVeemai
    @HealthyVeemai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much to learn from this video ✅

  • @Favourkikelomo
    @Favourkikelomo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed it 🤩.

  • @lucyemmanueltv1238
    @lucyemmanueltv1238 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so lovely I love it 💝😍❤️❤️😍❤️ thank you

  • @ezinneokereke4660
    @ezinneokereke4660 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interested watching

  • @ihuomachinda8834
    @ihuomachinda8834 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soty feel free to come visit me when ever you are stressed. I want have bathrooms😁

  • @jessiekeya
    @jessiekeya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lot of facts in this video 👍

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I found man 🤣🤣

  • @ijeunachukwu8925
    @ijeunachukwu8925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fav❤️

  • @PrisTvv
    @PrisTvv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice one as always ❤

  • @Adeosun_Temitope
    @Adeosun_Temitope 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The walk of shame

  • @karinawari2864
    @karinawari2864 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love love this

  • @faithbriltv
    @faithbriltv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video I enjoyed it and learnt a lot.

  • @juniesiaka1141
    @juniesiaka1141 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video

  • @ella.j
    @ella.j 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content

  • @jessiekeya
    @jessiekeya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jeez.. you people are vexing here o. See internet speed 😂😂

  • @adycyn
    @adycyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who else thinks that Soty and Adaeze has this resemblance like real sisters

  • @momoftriplets4392
    @momoftriplets4392 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me I do sandwich approach

  • @oluwaseyiamadu9869
    @oluwaseyiamadu9869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely

  • @tosanogis4166
    @tosanogis4166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🙌🏾

  • @marymartin2770
    @marymartin2770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the lady with you your mom

  • @enyojo707
    @enyojo707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm very revengy I got it

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nelo o... 😂

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂 😂

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @Toksgg
    @Toksgg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please know that there is no perfect marriage. Some husband's cheat because their spouse create the atmosphere. They tell friends/colleagues how wonderful, generous, kind etc their husband is and before you know it somebody is calculating how to replace you. They achieve this by even going diabolical to corner the unsuspecting husband. Wives should learn to keep their marriage private. Also, please decide to forgive your partner either way no matter the offence, it actually makes your union stronger. Marriage is a school which we never graduate and we keep aspiring to get better grades.

  • @Tallsylvia
    @Tallsylvia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Third ☺️

  • @Gloriousnurse
    @Gloriousnurse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Third 💃💃💃💃

  • @zainabgimba6372
    @zainabgimba6372 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First