I can relate to that so much...I dated boys until half a year ago and faking being in love and faking wanting to get close to them was the hardest shit ever.
Seems like the men who commented on this only see it one way. "maybe you haven't meet the right guy yet. " " you're just selfish. " But the fact is she has been hiding it simply because she didn't want things to change. I'm a Lesbian myself and dating a whole bunch of guys is not going to change that you're not attracted to them. That's all she was really trying to say. And maybe these guys on this video should try and date guys since all they say is " you haven't met the right guy yet. " You get so much shit especially from guys about being a lesbian and it's so unnecessary
I'm still trying to work out what I wrote! It makes no sense so please don't waste your time trying to make sense . PS you have pretty lips and eyes says my gf.
There are always labels on you. You are a talented, creative, outgoing smart person. Those are all labels. You are also an athletic, lesbian, entrepreneur. There go some more labels, how about a sister, daughter and a friend, once again labels. The trick is not to let others define your labels. Own them, define them and make them stand out. Eventually people got no choice but to accept what you are telling them about yourself.
I definitely understand how that can make things tough, it can be really difficult. Sometimes it can feel easier when your away from your parents, like when you live on your own. If you have any questions for me to help, let me know. I might not have the best advice in the world but I could help make you feel good about who u r! Goodluck!!
My coming out was easy. Me: Snuck girlfriend in room Mom knocks on my bedroom door. Mom: Who's in here with you?! Me: Opens doors slightly Mom: Pushes door open and finds my girlfriend hiding in my closet Mom: OMG kehau you're gay!!??!! Me: 😳 Mom: You guys hungry? Me: Yes Mom: Grabs us McDonald's Mom thought it was just a phase but this was me a freshman in high school. My girlfriend at the time is now my wife. We've been together for 14 years and married for 5. ❤️
I love this video , this hit me hard . I know im gay for sure .But im so scared to come out . My family is so anti gay , I dont want people to judge me beacause im gay in school, im in track , and everyone knows me .I want to be myself but Its so hard to come out right now . I feel like im living two lives
I am the same way. I don't say anything about my sexuality because I am afraid of what will happen. My parents would completely stop talking to me but I think I would have the support of friends
Man I was so sheltered as a kid. You definitely took a much shorter time to come out than I did (and I have yet to come out). I was 100% oblivious to my sexuality until freshman year in college. Like I had no idea when I was younger. It's been 4 years since I've realized a piece of me that I did not know about and I'm halfway in and halfway out of the closet. But mostly in.
I love this video Good for you! All my best friends are gay I'm bi, it's harder in England I think people are more ashamed but I never regretted coming out. ♡
+Priscilla Watson Fellow Brit here and I agree. Us lot are more reserved and have that stiff upper lip. xD I never regretted coming out either. lol As long as we accept ourselves and we are happy, that's all that matters. :)
+HardcoreHamster33 Haha I'm in Essex :) I absolutely agree! When you've found yourself, are truly confident and aren't doing any harm then that's all that matters. Anyone who has a problem with that has their own issues to still deal with, but You are the only person you spend your entire life with so who cares what other people think, just do YOU! ♡ much love xxx
For me this was a completely different experience.I'm lesbian but I've always sucked at mostly every sport,I like dressing up,and I love cute animals such as cats and dogs.I haven't come out to my parents cause I'm too lazy and I'm trying to get a gf before telling them but once I figured out that I'm gay I didn't really worry about it. So for me the hard part is getting a date cause I'm pretty damn shy.
Really dig your coming out story. So many times I hear about girls being peer pressured into sleeping with dudes, to find out who they are and regreting it later. I can tell you are a strong woman. I give you props dude.
Omg, I relate to this so much. I was always more emotionally intimate with my female friends then I was with the guys that I dated. I could never get that close or that comfortable with guys.
I'm so fucking proud of people like you and You help me so many times even if we never see each other. I am from Poland and trust me I hate live here. People are like crazy if some one start conversation about gay etc. But any way Amber I'm so so proud to be lesbian because of you and this is a lot for me for this moment in my life so thank you :*! (Sorry for my english)
Oh and i need to say that i am the only one lesbian in my town. It's fucking disaster. I have frends and they akcept me for who i am but they don't understand every stuff, and here we don't have even tv seriel with lesbian just NOTHING, I feel like politics and most of people just pretend that gay, lesbians don't exsist and even if they exsist they don't have right to exsist. SOO sorry for this terrible english, i still learn.
Thank you for sharing I love how it took you a while to realize you are gay. I'm going thru the same situation right now. I realized that I am completely gay like a year ago. I've dated men before but when my ex and I broke up I met a women and it was kind of like a slap on the face (in a good way). It's really hard for people around me to accept that i don't like men. I was bummed out but now I realize that it does happen. 😊
this is such an inspirational video, and it's the first video i've seen of yours. You have no idea how much this video has helped me! This is the first video of yours ive ever seen i stumbled across it, and after this i'm definitely watching all of your other videos and subscribing! i can relate sooo much to what you you were saying, you have such a way with words and its great to not feel alone! Your confidence with yourself and your sexuality shows in this video and it empowers me a lot! thankyou so much for opening up and sharing your journey with the public! I'm not fully out yet, and this video is honestly AMAZING its inspiring me to come out to absolutely everyone! i like how you said that after your first true love for a girl, although it shattered your heart at first, it made you into a stronger person and helped you develop yourself as a person so that you attracted the people into your life that you wanted! Because right now i'm facing such a femme struggle haha im out to everyone except for my mum, but i still keep being mistaken as "the straight girl"...ugh!! apart from maybe wearing a rainbow bracelet, do you have any ideas on what else can i do? its soo frustrating! please keep making videos they're great and soo helpful! :) XXX
I love how blunt you are!! I saw my story a lot in yours but mines has a twist so big ppl are left in awe. Congrats on doing something for yourself and not trying to please others expectations on hat you should be.
You born, you live and you die, no second chances, no do-overs! Good for you for living your life & accepting yourself. All about what makes you happy honey. Your just all around amazing! Nothing but love for you xx
I came out as bisexual not that long ago (im a girl) to a few people. At the start of the year, i started a new school that was all girls, thinking i was straight. But, i met this girl, first just being friends, but then we fell for eachother. She is my girlfriend and since the 2nd this month she has been my princess for a month. In such short time we spent so much together and call me stupid but i hope one day I can call her my queen qnd keep hee forever. Theres three yeae age difference but i dont care. She is so amazing and beautiful and i have never been so happy in my whole life
I definitely identify with this being a girl basketball player and being pretty good you always get that. I didn't realize or even think twice about liking girls until I would start changing and found myself not checking the competition but checking them out period so then I realized I liked both sides of the fence lol
I respect how open, honest and comfortable in your own skin you are ... That in itself is a powerful quality to posses as a woman! Regardless of sexual orientation. I'm happy 'lesbian' doesn't define :)
Omg i'm not gay but I do love this story I know what it is like to have to tell somebody something really hard.... The cancer thing was dramatic tho but I understand why you did it. Love your videosAmber especially story time
This video was really great. It was really nice to see you open up and show us this side of you that we didn't know anything about. So basically...we love you even more
Thanks for sharing your story, Amber. I am glad to know you thru your videos and am glad that you are who you are! I wish you much happiness and love in life! Thank you again!
Wow..I'm almost 30yrs older than you, and this story is one of the first that I completely relate to! I was 9yrs old when I first messed with a girl, and then again at 14, then 19, but I felt like there where too many parts of my life I needed to protect because there would be too much to lose if I "came out"(don't know that I even understood what that meant)... I even got married, and had a kid!! Anyway...appreciate your story, and wish you all the best!
hi im 31 and i wanna come out to my parents but its really really hard for me just because my parents are religious orthodox jews. i told my mother but she thinks that i am bi just because i was married and had kids. i only got married because i am the only child and from the orthodox jewish community. i dont know how to tell them that i have a girlfriend and i love her and wanna be with her for the rest of my life...HELP!!!
I'm 31 too. I came out to my mom when I was 29, but after I told her she completely ignored it until about six months ago. Six months ago, I decided that I had a lot to say, but every time I tried to tell her, the emotions were too much. So, I decided to write her a letter. Writing the letter allowed me to put every single thing down that I wanted her to know. After she read the letter, she let me know that she loves me, but that she couldn't "condone my lifestyle." I allowed her to get all of her feelings out and from there things have been better for me because I was able to get a weight off of my shoulders. We still speak, but she's still weird about everything. So, my advice to you is to just get it out because it's not about them, it's about you. You want her to know about you and how you feel. As long as you keep that it, you can't be the best you. So whether it's a letter, face-to-face or on the phone, get it out girl because it's time for you to enjoy your life with your new girl.
Amber you are thee most emotional intelligent human out there. I love your caring meticulously way you express your self. you are someone people should espire to be.
I'm 22 and bisexual and still most of the way in the closet.. I finally opened up with one of my best friends and told her that I like girls too and amazingly enough, she said she's been attracted to a lot of girls before too and it was a huuge weight off my shoulders.. since that I told a couple other friends and they didn't make a big deal out of it and still treat me the same. Really I'm just terrified to tell some of the girls I was really close with.. There were drunken nights where I made out and fooled around with my close girl friends and in the morning we all just blamed it on being drunk but I know I enjoyed it and didn't regret what happened and I'm afraid that if they know, they're going to be creeped out or disgusted or treat me differently because of our past together.. I haven't told anyone in my family either because I know if I tell one person, my entire family will know by the end of the day and I don't want that to happen.. It's kind of hurtful too because my mom always makes these rude or mean comments about gays and bis and it always seems to happen right around the times when I finally feel comfortable enough to tell her and it always makes me continue to keep it a secret..
Wow!!! You must be a really strong person to go through all of that and then be so proud of yourself now. I'm really glad that you have your family and closest friends with you to support your decisions. 😃
oh my god I literally love you!!! of all the coming out stories on youtube, yours is the one that I can relate to the most, thank you for sharing, thank you so much (I also went to a catholic school) you're brilliant literally xxxxx
***** I really don't understand your story,but if I do why comment if its going to be negative towards us in her video she specificly said comment ifu hav or want to express your self to someone besides your parents or anyone else that really can't understand or agree with there children.
i just resently told my mom im bisexual and she loved it and was happy i finally came out and i play basketball to i told all my friends and they execpt it im soo happy
so right. High school really does put you in a box. I knew i was gay for a while but didn't feel comfortable being myself or coming out until i got out college. I still didn't come out to my home friends and family until junior year in college but all of my college friends and mentors knew.
You are so real and so inspiring. It's because of open people like you that so many others are comfortable with coming out. Thank you for this video! Keep up the good work girl!!1 :)
Omg I'm so hapy I saw your video's tbh u you helped me in so many ways I don't know what I'll do without these videos like everybody around me pixel me or they say I'm going to hell and they make fun of me and tell me no its not right to be like this and you're sick or something
this video was vary inspiring! I'm 15 and I'm lez and all of my friends know but the one person that doesn't know is my mom and I'm scared that she isn't gonna except me for who I am so I decided to tell her when I get a lil older but even then like she completely against it...
Can you please please PLEASE make a video talking about straight girls and how to deal with them,falling for them, the really friendly ones. Ps. I'm a stem too and I love your videos👌
I can relate to this so much although I'm only a sophomore in highschool. I feel exactly the same way with the gf I have now. she's my bestfriend, & our bond is crazy. not everyone knows I'm talking to a girl & I wouldn't say I'm officially "gay" but I feel like I'm not attracted to boys anymore ever since I started talking to girls. idk what I am honestly lol. my family thinks it's a "phase" and that's the most irritating thing I swear. they're super religious and don't support it. but this girl makes me more than happy so I guess they'll learn to except it sooner than later right? but I love your channel and this video is amazing. felt like I could relate to everything you said.
hearing your story gives me more hope to someday come out to my family. i live in the type of area where being gay lesbian or bi is completely sinful and forbidden in my family...but i cant help how i feel or who im attracted to. so thank you for sharing your story
Like that sterotype you was talkin bout that how I'm feelin' but then I was just like bump this so what I'ma do me . A few friends know, my sister knows & my brother found out on his own, but I'm planning on telling my parents & other brother on my bday on 10/6 . I'm super nervous b/c I know she may not be accepting of my life style but you know what it may knock me down but its only going to bring me back stronger . Btw the cancer part got me yo . lol
I Feel Yah On The Not Working With Guys Part Cause I Been Through The Same Shit Like It Never Works Out Between Me & A Guy !! But With Females On The Other Hand Things Are Just Great ❤
I haven't officially came out but I told my best friend I was a lesbian and he told me he was bi. That made me feel good but the only reason I gathered up the courage to tell him is because the night before I planned to drug myself up with cough syrup so that the next day I'd still be a little drowsy....I just wish it was easier done than said (coming out the closet that is)
I can agree I play basketball, softball, and track and field and I honestly don't want to labeled the Lesbian one my teams. I've already been bullied for being who I got notes in my locker saying " your a walking sin" etc.. And it's hard I'm not even all the way out yet so it mad it harder
hey Im almost 18 and I am bisexual I came out when I was 16 and my parents still don't get it they think its a phase idk what to do cuz every time I talk about a girl being sexy as hell. They tell me stop ur not supposed to say that AMBER WHAT SHOULD I DO... HELP ME!!!
Thank you for sharing your story. It really helped. Im not ready to come out...yet. Its just a little bit more challenging. My mother is Jamaican and my father is African Im more so afraid of the embarassment that I might cause them. I don't have that "Im out and Im proud" atittude (I wish I did) Im using YT as a way to make my coming out journey a little bit more easier Hopefull when I do "come out" I can get it on camera so that I could remember that moment, wheather the outcome is good or bad
Great story. Glad you came into your own. I'm still trying to figure out where I fit in with the gay community. But then again I don't live in West Hollywood either. lol. It took me a while to come out as well. But, every day I feel more comfortable with myself. And I'm to the point now were I just don't give a damn.
"Sometimes its just none of anybody's fucking business to know my shit." Could not agree with you more and I mean across the board
I agree
I agree !
I can relate to that so much...I dated boys until half a year ago and faking being in love and faking wanting to get close to them was the hardest shit ever.
Seems like the men who commented on this only see it one way. "maybe you haven't meet the right guy yet. "
" you're just selfish. "
But the fact is she has been hiding it simply because she didn't want things to change. I'm a Lesbian myself and dating a whole bunch of guys is not going to change that you're not attracted to them.
That's all she was really trying to say.
And maybe these guys on this video should try and date guys since all they say is " you haven't met the right guy yet. "
You get so much shit especially from guys about being a lesbian and it's so unnecessary
Only because she's dating guys . Nobody would give her shit if they didn't sense something wasn't right.
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What exactly are you saying ? Amber isn't dating guys
I'm still trying to work out what I wrote! It makes no sense so please don't waste your time trying to make sense . PS you have pretty lips and eyes says my gf.
"I was a hoe, little hoe. I loved collecting boys." LMAO favorite part😭.
i died😅😅😅
I like how this is happening in a closet :)
its rlly iconic
You kinda look like ciara lol idk if it's just me
agree 100%
Yea
I said the same thing 😝
There are always labels on you. You are a talented, creative, outgoing smart person. Those are all labels. You are also an athletic, lesbian, entrepreneur. There go some more labels, how about a sister, daughter and a friend, once again labels. The trick is not to let others define your labels. Own them, define them and make them stand out. Eventually people got no choice but to accept what you are telling them about yourself.
This made me almost cry, love your comment! Nice to see good people
Anthony Rizzo I know it's been awhile but may I quote you on this?
You are literally so fucking gorgeous it hurts 😩
Lmfaoooo you told them you had cancer xD #DEADDD 'wait no no no no I just gay'
Hilarioussss
LMAOOOOO I WAS DYING
When i heard that i was dyyyiing ,Damn LMAOOO
"My ass was fucking dumb." love this yoo😂.
I definitely understand how that can make things tough, it can be really difficult. Sometimes it can feel easier when your away from your parents, like when you live on your own. If you have any questions for me to help, let me know. I might not have the best advice in the world but I could help make you feel good about who u r! Goodluck!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 "I told them I had cancer, then say I'm joking, I'm gay" I hollered when I heard that 😂😂😂😂 whyyyyyyyyy Amberrrr
My coming out was easy.
Me: Snuck girlfriend in room
Mom knocks on my bedroom door.
Mom: Who's in here with you?!
Me: Opens doors slightly
Mom: Pushes door open and finds my girlfriend hiding in my closet
Mom: OMG kehau you're gay!!??!!
Me: 😳
Mom: You guys hungry?
Me: Yes
Mom: Grabs us McDonald's
Mom thought it was just a phase but this was me a freshman in high school. My girlfriend at the time is now my wife. We've been together for 14 years and married for 5. ❤️
Nicole Apana ❤️
Goodluck! she'll always luv u, just show her that it makes u the happiest...
I love this video , this hit me hard . I know im gay for sure .But im so scared to come out . My family is so anti gay , I dont want people to judge me beacause im gay in school, im in track , and everyone knows me .I want to be myself but Its so hard to come out right now . I feel like im living two lives
I am the same way. I don't say anything about my sexuality because I am afraid of what will happen. My parents would completely stop talking to me but I think I would have the support of friends
How do you feel and live right now after 10 years?
Man I was so sheltered as a kid. You definitely took a much shorter time to come out than I did (and I have yet to come out). I was 100% oblivious to my sexuality until freshman year in college. Like I had no idea when I was younger. It's been 4 years since I've realized a piece of me that I did not know about and I'm halfway in and halfway out of the closet. But mostly in.
I love this video Good for you! All my best friends are gay I'm bi, it's harder in England I think people are more ashamed but I never regretted coming out. ♡
+Priscilla Watson Fellow Brit here and I agree. Us lot are more reserved and have that stiff upper lip. xD I never regretted coming out either. lol As long as we accept ourselves and we are happy, that's all that matters. :)
+HardcoreHamster33 Haha I'm in Essex :) I absolutely agree! When you've found yourself, are truly confident and aren't doing any harm then that's all that matters. Anyone who has a problem with that has their own issues to still deal with, but You are the only person you spend your entire life with so who cares what other people think, just do YOU! ♡ much love xxx
Priscilla Watson Nice! XD I'm in Norfolk. :D Exactly! I agree completely! :D Much love! :3 How do you do the heart? o: xxx
Thank you.,..I really appreciate it!
For me this was a completely different experience.I'm lesbian but I've always sucked at mostly every sport,I like dressing up,and I love cute animals such as cats and dogs.I haven't come out to my parents cause I'm too lazy and I'm trying to get a gf before telling them but once I figured out that I'm gay I didn't really worry about it. So for me the hard part is getting a date cause I'm pretty damn shy.
"I have Cancer!" ... I'm so chocked I can't stop laughing! :P
Really dig your coming out story. So many times I hear about girls being peer pressured into sleeping with dudes, to find out who they are and regreting it later. I can tell you are a strong woman. I give you props dude.
Omg, I relate to this so much. I was always more emotionally intimate with my female friends then I was with the guys that I dated. I could never get that close or that comfortable with guys.
Is anyone else being recommended Amber's old videos
I'm so fucking proud of people like you and You help me so many times even if we never see each other. I am from Poland and trust me I hate live here. People are like crazy if some one start conversation about gay etc. But any way Amber I'm so so proud to be lesbian because of you and this is a lot for me for this moment in my life so thank you :*!
(Sorry for my english)
Oh and i need to say that i am the only one lesbian in my town. It's fucking disaster. I have frends and they akcept me for who i am but they don't understand every stuff, and here we don't have even tv seriel with lesbian just NOTHING, I feel like politics and most of people just pretend that gay, lesbians don't exsist and even if they exsist they don't have right to exsist.
SOO sorry for this terrible english, i still learn.
Your English is excellent. You have nothing to apologize for.
Thank You :)
You are very welcome. I hope things get much better very soon for gay and bisexual people in Poland.
Komm doch rüber. :)
she has A YMCMB HAT YESSSSS AMBER!! btw I love your story I just had to say that bc I love YMCMB merch
Thank you for sharing I love how it took you a while to realize you are gay. I'm going thru the same situation right now. I realized that I am completely gay like a year ago. I've dated men before but when my ex and I broke up I met a women and it was kind of like a slap on the face (in a good way). It's really hard for people around me to accept that i don't like men. I was bummed out but now I realize that it does happen. 😊
This girls story is literally me. Like every detail is basically the same lmao
yes like fr kmsl
The cancer part had me Freaking dying 😂😂
this is such an inspirational video, and it's the first video i've seen of yours. You have no idea how much this video has helped me! This is the first video of yours ive ever seen i stumbled across it, and after this i'm definitely watching all of your other videos and subscribing! i can relate sooo much to what you you were saying, you have such a way with words and its great to not feel alone! Your confidence with yourself and your sexuality shows in this video and it empowers me a lot! thankyou so much for opening up and sharing your journey with the public! I'm not fully out yet, and this video is honestly AMAZING its inspiring me to come out to absolutely everyone! i like how you said that after your first true love for a girl, although it shattered your heart at first, it made you into a stronger person and helped you develop yourself as a person so that you attracted the people into your life that you wanted! Because right now i'm facing such a femme struggle haha im out to everyone except for my mum, but i still keep being mistaken as "the straight girl"...ugh!! apart from maybe wearing a rainbow bracelet, do you have any ideas on what else can i do? its soo frustrating! please keep making videos they're great and soo helpful! :) XXX
I love how blunt you are!! I saw my story a lot in yours but mines has a twist so big ppl are left in awe. Congrats on doing something for yourself and not trying to please others expectations on hat you should be.
I want to tell my mom that I'm lez but I'm afraid that she'll hate me or reject me what should I do? ?
My coming-out experience is very similar to yours. Loved listening! Thanks for sharing!
You born, you live and you die, no second chances, no do-overs! Good for you for living your life & accepting yourself. All about what makes you happy honey.
Your just all around amazing!
Nothing but love for you xx
Thank you, I really appreciate it
I came out as bisexual not that long ago (im a girl) to a few people.
At the start of the year, i started a new school that was all girls, thinking i was straight. But, i met this girl, first just being friends, but then we fell for eachother. She is my girlfriend and since the 2nd this month she has been my princess for a month. In such short time we spent so much together and call me stupid but i hope one day I can call her my queen qnd keep hee forever. Theres three yeae age difference but i dont care. She is so amazing and beautiful and i have never been so happy in my whole life
I definitely identify with this being a girl basketball player and being pretty good you always get that. I didn't realize or even think twice about liking girls until I would start changing and found myself not checking the competition but checking them out period so then I realized I liked both sides of the fence lol
I respect how open, honest and comfortable in your own skin you are ... That in itself is a powerful quality to posses as a woman! Regardless of sexual orientation. I'm happy 'lesbian' doesn't define :)
Omg i'm not gay but I do love this story I know what it is like to have to tell somebody something really hard.... The cancer thing was dramatic tho but I understand why you did it. Love your videosAmber especially story time
This video was really great. It was really nice to see you open up and show us this side of you that we didn't know anything about. So basically...we love you even more
Thanks for sharing your story, Amber. I am glad to know you thru your videos and am glad that you are who you are! I wish you much happiness and love in life! Thank you again!
Your story is going to help a lot of young ppl feel confident with coming out so bravo to you on being so honest with your story. Stay blessed :-)
Everything you said is what I'm going through right now I'm starting Highschool in August so you gave me hope in myself.
Girl, Thank you for existing.
maybe, depending on what type of modeling
Wow..I'm almost 30yrs older than you, and this story is one of the first that I completely relate to! I was 9yrs old when I first messed with a girl, and then again at 14, then 19, but I felt like there where too many parts of my life I needed to protect because there would be too much to lose if I "came out"(don't know that I even understood what that meant)... I even got married, and had a kid!! Anyway...appreciate your story, and wish you all the best!
"My ass was fucking dumb." lol 😂
hi im 31 and i wanna come out to my parents but its really really hard for me just because my parents are religious orthodox jews. i told my mother but she thinks that i am bi just because i was married and had kids. i only got married because i am the only child and from the orthodox jewish community. i dont know how to tell them that i have a girlfriend and i love her and wanna be with her for the rest of my life...HELP!!!
Do it. Life is too short to be concerned about other interests towards one's life.
I'm 31 too. I came out to my mom when I was 29, but after I told her she completely ignored it until about six months ago. Six months ago, I decided that I had a lot to say, but every time I tried to tell her, the emotions were too much. So, I decided to write her a letter. Writing the letter allowed me to put every single thing down that I wanted her to know. After she read the letter, she let me know that she loves me, but that she couldn't "condone my lifestyle." I allowed her to get all of her feelings out and from there things have been better for me because I was able to get a weight off of my shoulders. We still speak, but she's still weird about everything. So, my advice to you is to just get it out because it's not about them, it's about you. You want her to know about you and how you feel. As long as you keep that it, you can't be the best you. So whether it's a letter, face-to-face or on the phone, get it out girl because it's time for you to enjoy your life with your new girl.
.... I'm watching this just now.... she is LITERALLY telling my life story omg.... Amber you're fucking awesome
Amber you are thee most emotional intelligent human out there. I love your caring meticulously way you express your self. you are someone people should espire to be.
I'm 22 and bisexual and still most of the way in the closet.. I finally opened up with one of my best friends and told her that I like girls too and amazingly enough, she said she's been attracted to a lot of girls before too and it was a huuge weight off my shoulders.. since that I told a couple other friends and they didn't make a big deal out of it and still treat me the same. Really I'm just terrified to tell some of the girls I was really close with.. There were drunken nights where I made out and fooled around with my close girl friends and in the morning we all just blamed it on being drunk but I know I enjoyed it and didn't regret what happened and I'm afraid that if they know, they're going to be creeped out or disgusted or treat me differently because of our past together.. I haven't told anyone in my family either because I know if I tell one person, my entire family will know by the end of the day and I don't want that to happen.. It's kind of hurtful too because my mom always makes these rude or mean comments about gays and bis and it always seems to happen right around the times when I finally feel comfortable enough to tell her and it always makes me continue to keep it a secret..
Wow!!! You must be a really strong person to go through all of that and then be so proud of yourself now. I'm really glad that you have your family and closest friends with you to support your decisions. 😃
You inspire me so much!! You've achieved so much already in your age
oh my god I literally love you!!! of all the coming out stories on youtube, yours is the one that I can relate to the most, thank you for sharing, thank you so much (I also went to a catholic school) you're brilliant literally xxxxx
"I have cancer...Just kidding, i'm gay" I thought it was hilarious!! i might use it lololol
Thank You...I appreciate it!
I am so super proud of what you're doing Amber :-)
Thank You Dee, that means a lot to me! :D
***** I really don't understand your story,but
if I do why comment if its going to be negative towards us in her video she specificly said comment ifu
hav or want to express your self to someone besides
your parents or anyone else that really can't understand
or agree with there children.
Thank You sweetheart! your amazing!!
I love that she came out. If her being gay makes her happy I'm all for it man doesn't always make girls happy . Sometimes u have u switch it up
Thank you! and tell her thank you as well!
i just resently told my mom im bisexual and she loved it and was happy i finally came out and i play basketball to i told all my friends and they execpt it im soo happy
so right. High school really does put you in a box. I knew i was gay for a while but didn't feel comfortable being myself or coming out until i got out college. I still didn't come out to my home friends and family until junior year in college but all of my college friends and mentors knew.
You are so real and so inspiring. It's because of open people like you that so many others are comfortable with coming out. Thank you for this video! Keep up the good work girl!!1 :)
I'm so happy you're happy sis! Love these type of vids ❤❤ You're an inspiration faaaa sho tho
Omg I'm so hapy I saw your video's tbh u you helped me in so many ways I don't know what I'll do without these videos like everybody around me pixel me or they say I'm going to hell and they make fun of me and tell me no its not right to be like this and you're sick or something
Thank you for making this video. I really relate to all that pressure stuff in high school.
this video was vary inspiring! I'm 15 and I'm lez and all of my friends know but the one person that doesn't know is my mom and I'm scared that she isn't gonna except me for who I am so I decided to tell her when I get a lil older but even then like she completely against it...
Can you please please PLEASE make a video talking about straight girls and how to deal with them,falling for them, the really friendly ones. Ps. I'm a stem too and I love your videos👌
Hell yeah, girl! Love who you are. You're inspiring!
I can relate to this so much although I'm only a sophomore in highschool. I feel exactly the same way with the gf I have now. she's my bestfriend, & our bond is crazy. not everyone knows I'm talking to a girl & I wouldn't say I'm officially "gay" but I feel like I'm not attracted to boys anymore ever since I started talking to girls. idk what I am honestly lol. my family thinks it's a "phase" and that's the most irritating thing I swear. they're super religious and don't support it. but this girl makes me more than happy so I guess they'll learn to except it sooner than later right? but I love your channel and this video is amazing. felt like I could relate to everything you said.
So glad I found your channel you're so down-to-earth make me so comfortable in my own skin I just subscribe
Lmao theres so many haters on here, I'm so weak you called him a troll! lol I luv it....
I love ur videos especially this one . I'm in that position right now ND this video helped alot thanks so much . ND I LOVE UR HAIR
i laughed at the cancer thing lol you're crazy
Loved it I luv how your open and sure about u and your a person that's not ashamed for what they are and I luv it and I luv all your vids
This really inspired me and Im greatfull there people's like u in this world
You created the term "stem?" I just started watching your videos today. :)
ME TOO MY GOD THEY NEED TO STOPING ASKING THAT IM NOT GAY I LIKE DAMN BOYS GOSHHHHHHH
i cant agree more i think people shouldnt be judged on who they date but on who they are ps. amber your BEAUTIFUL
hearing your story gives me more hope to someday come out to my family. i live in the type of area where being gay lesbian or bi is completely sinful and forbidden in my family...but i cant help how i feel or who im attracted to. so thank you for sharing your story
Totally understand where your coming from....goin through the same phase a of now with my parents and I'm only a junior in high school
Like that sterotype you was talkin bout that how I'm feelin' but then I was just like bump this so what I'ma do me . A few friends know, my sister knows & my brother found out on his own, but I'm planning on telling my parents & other brother on my bday on 10/6 . I'm super nervous b/c I know she may not be accepting of my life style but you know what it may knock me down but its only going to bring me back stronger . Btw the cancer part got me yo . lol
you remind me of ciara in a way
I came here to say that !
lol " I have cancer .... NO IM KIDDING IM JUST GAY" lmfao that's classic I love it
I appreciate u sharing such a personal subject. You're so real. Loved it.
I Feel Yah On The Not Working With Guys Part Cause I Been Through The Same Shit Like It Never Works Out Between Me & A Guy !! But With Females On The Other Hand Things Are Just Great ❤
You have a very postive attitude ! Love it & you are a very strong person. Love you ♥♥
Now offically looking up to this girl....im not gay but she speaks a lot of truth:) I LOVE IT!!!
lol oh my God I can not believe you told people you had cancer I'm lmbo!!!! But I'm glad people accepted you because you are a beautiful person.
You're so pretty.
I haven't officially came out but I told my best friend I was a lesbian and he told me he was bi. That made me feel good but the only reason I gathered up the courage to tell him is because the night before I planned to drug myself up with cough syrup so that the next day I'd still be a little drowsy....I just wish it was easier done than said (coming out the closet that is)
I can agree I play basketball, softball, and track and field and I honestly don't want to labeled the Lesbian one my teams. I've already been bullied for being who I got notes in my locker saying " your a walking sin" etc.. And it's hard I'm not even all the way out yet so it mad it harder
I love how the way tht u take up how u r and things like u love being tht way I love it
Those snapbacks though.. :D
Really enjoyed listening to your story, thanks for sharing! :)
hey Im almost 18 and I am bisexual I came out when I was 16 and my parents still don't get it they think its a phase idk what to do cuz every time I talk about a girl being sexy as hell. They tell me stop ur not supposed to say that AMBER WHAT SHOULD I DO... HELP ME!!!
Thank you for sharing your story. It really helped. Im not ready to come out...yet. Its just a little bit more challenging. My mother is Jamaican and my father is African Im more so afraid of the embarassment that I might cause them. I don't have that "Im out and Im proud" atittude (I wish I did) Im using YT as a way to make my coming out journey a little bit more easier Hopefull when I do "come out" I can get it on camera so that I could remember that moment, wheather the outcome is good or bad
You are amazing I'm currently a sophmore and I'm confused on what I am and you helped me out a lot thank you soo much
Great story. Glad you came into your own. I'm still trying to figure out where I fit in with the gay community. But then again I don't live in West Hollywood either. lol. It took me a while to come out as well. But, every day I feel more comfortable with myself. And I'm to the point now were I just don't give a damn.
i look up to you now because you admitted to everyone that you are a lesbian you are sooo brave!!!!!!!!!!
You literally are my inspiration I came out because of you, thank you amber xox stay amazing!