I came here on 27th march ... trust me last one month was horrific .. on the first day, the officer was not in good mood and she gave e only 6 months of study permit as per that I am not eligible to work till I get a work permit, on the same day, when I entered federal hotel they charged me $1300 and only had that much cash. on the 7th day in my college quarantine, my phone turned off and didn't turn on all ways to connect with others. on the 8th day, at 4:20 am a random person knocked on my door and luckily I put the latch on the door. Otherwise, anything could have had with me. and when I called reception they said they are not liable to anything. on the very next day, somebody tried to unlock the door at 2:40am ..
Sorry, I disagree with this video. Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought! Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE. I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE. As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match. I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person. I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻 Some things to be understand here: ✔️ - if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country. - If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily. - You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job. - Build contacts. - don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻 People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!! Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
Man this is more like Adult life explained more than the dark side of Canada!! But you explained it like a pro!! Everything you said is totally applicable to anywhere you move to, literally even if you move to another Indian state you experience the same things!! Always remember guys to get some work done you got to sacrifice something!!
Things he discussed about friends, household chores, mental health & few more I've been through this since my childhood but it became deep in my teenage so that's okay for me and makes me feel like allowing myself
Love how you have kept it simple and not triggering at all there are people who talk about mental health issues without knowing they are triggering many. I appreciate the tone of you voice and how you have spoken about each point precisely.
Good job. We lack quality content. This is high time we valued emotional intelligence! People in general and students in particular are under a lot of pressure from various quarters. They need to be very very careful about their physical as well as mental health. ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਠੀਕ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਹਰ ਜਗ੍ਹਾ ਚੰਗੀ ਹੈ ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਹੀ ਖਰਾਬ ਹੋ ਗਈ ਤਾਂ ਕਨੇਡਾ ਵੀ ਨਰਕ ਹੈ!
The point about golden cage from 6:24 is absolutely true, and very few people comprehend this back in India. And that is applicable not only for people coming to Canada, but to any other foreign country.
Thank you a million times! We just lost our beloved last year to suicide. He was so outgoing, intelligent and blessed with good looks and height. But he was suffering from schizophrenia. Flunked out of University in 3rd year. Lost his job and credit. He was suffering since high school but we never knew that he was really sick. We thought he is just depressed and will be fine one day..unfortunately we lost him at a very young age of 29 due to suicide.😫😢😭😭 last year.
This content needs to be heard by all the international students who should know the reality before taking any wrong step🙃... And I request you to make videos lyk this which can aware and help struggling students❤️
I'm in class 12 and waiting for exams and my mother died in February and now I'm doing all household work and also studies.. I think I'm preparing myself for everything..
Yes sir!! Punjab toh meri jaan hai❤️❤️ I also want to go to Canada after my high school 🏫 but Punjab is incomparable with any other province in Canada. Punjab tah mere dil vich vsda hai❤️❤️
Reality of Canada. Each word said by you is very true. Strongly recommended to everyone one who are planning to come in Canada. Thanks Parul for such kind of informative video❤️❤️
Very true Parul , and its not just for international students , for other immigrants too , we came here as young family of 3 , and we too faced a lottt of stress and mental depressiveness, I seriously cried watching this one , as i could relive our past years through this, God bless
Along with giving information you are also motivating others .You are getting them prepared .This will make them strong so that they can face those situations.
Very well collated and a much needed conversation one needs to have!! Its the harsh realities of life which hit us hard and we break. Dont over expect things and go with the flow ... No regrets in life! Breakups and rejections are a part of life!!! Remember! you are all stronger than you think!!! Embrace life and keep smiling!!! Zindagi sab sikha deti hai🙏🙏🙏
Request please 1. aise videos aur bhi ek banao please on reality of Canada's depression, anxiety, homesickness, *isolation* and how to deal with it please 2. Ek video on reality of the health care system and medical 3. More on reality of work-life balance, emotional, social life. Brother I could feel the pain in your voice and see it in your eyes when you spoke about how much you miss parents and home.
I've lived and worked in a different state for two years, all my colleagues aka friends weren't there for me, and I felt lonely and I was stressed out throughout the time I lived there. I was already a diagnosed depressed and anxious person but somehow I survived and reached home during covid in one whole piece. Now I'm wondering if all that was training for Canada. Maybe I'll survive because I've already been through all that?
You're saying truth. No-one sees and talks this in front of their dreams but I think these topics should be in mind then achieve desires. Hope everyone gets what they dreamt about. 🙏
Hi this had happen to me Coming to canada with a wrong course which was out of my field given by my agent. And I continue that course till 4 semester it was so stressful. I was totally drained and couldn’t change it as fees were already paid so I did this to myself until the college suspended me from the course because of not having a good academic standing and after spending 33000 dollars to my course I didn’t graduate and I have to come back to india....the thing which I regret the most is if I had talked with someone in my family or someone who could guide me then things could be different today...this incident has broke me inside out..even though I started a new life in India currently working a reputed company I feel like a failure. Also I lost all the respect in my family 😭 So please guys talk to someone and don’t take course just for a sake of coming to canada...please...
This video has my heart! ❤️ Although I am not in Canada right now but adulthood is very difficult. Each and everything in this video is on point. 100% truth! Really appreciate such videos!
Bhai failures and stress toh india me bhi h . distract krne wale toh yha bhi bhot h aur ghr walo se battein toh bche yaha bhi kaha krte h they think that they are not friends they are only parents and they will not support us . and the main stress in india is jobless youth .so it is not about country it is mainly about the situation and your will power of facing the situation .❤️ btw very lovely video ❣️🤞
Trust me I m the one who moved to Canada after being lived in France for 3 years. Trust me I feel Canada is heaven compared to other European countries. So be fortunate if you're in an English speaking country.
@Skapk • 22 years ago If you're an average student and planning to get a full time field job after studies, then I won't recommend UK. To be frank, out of 100 students in UK, only 10 get the proper field job and others have to struggle. So the success rate is as low as 10-15%. You should be exceptional to be in that bunch. I'm telling you all this considering 2 yr stay back in UK and previously it was more worse.
Thank you so much Parul for this video, I recently came to Canada and I started to feel a little homesick and also felt a little weird. But you addressing this is a calmed me quite alot. Please continue to make videos in this subject as well. Thanks again.
Glad that still there are people who are showing the other perspective of living abroad. Be it Canada, Australia or any other foreign country, new immigrants gonna experience the same. So just stay positive and strong.
I really appreciate you for talking about these things on a bigger platform. I'd also like to suggest you to talk about professional help related to mental health issues available for international students in Canada, because I feel that not everyone can go on with a lil help from family and friends. Sometimes people need professional help and there's nothing wrong in seeking a therapist or a counselor. Apart from this, Your way of explaining topics with clear and sensible words is praise worthy. I specially want to point out the "apnapan" in your style of elucidating important things for students. Keep up the great work! Best of luck.
Every word held it's relevance. This video reminded my plight when i was working and living alone in Bangalore for 18 months before my family moved to the same town. I have already had a taste of this phase. Canada would just be another place to go through all that all over again.
Parul, this video was so informative and practical. I loved it. Prepping for the worst always helps. Thanks a lot for doing a video no one else would'hv done.
I am from Delhi. Every point you listed out in this video, I have lived through that when I moved to Mumbai for my college. I lived in Mumbai for 8 years and got my first job there, but I have had this feeling of being alone at one point, doing chores, Sunday's dedicated to sorting laundry. I think I am ready for Canada now.
It’s normal once you leave your mama’s lap. Indians don’t train their kids to live as an adult. Parents promise protection and over watch their kids until they die. Pretty bad ideology.
Out of all the videos I've watched on Parul TV before coming to study there, this by far seems to be the most important one to me. Thanks a lot for sharing such things.
Absolutely true whatever he say, but we have to remember that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, I had to face the same thing in my initial days in canada
Very thoughtful video mate!Full of positive vibes noted each things and advise precisely the way you explained these things very much positivity!Thanks for the video🙏
I think this is the most positive video 😉 because bro being fake optimistic is no way better than accepting the reality and squeezing the positivity out of it..... Thanks for your advices parul bhai
This is one of your best videos and these issues need to be discussed more, especially during this pandemic where folks are undergoing mental health issues and stress
Parul Bhai please keep talking on many such topics and concerns.. Its really helpful for students who are planning to come to Canada and for that matter anywhere abroad, leaving their friends and families behind.
Every one should listen to his message and then listen again. What an honest and truthful analysis and advice. This is pure Gold . Absolutely a service to humanity. I love your style. Everything is right on point.Keep it up !!!!
Sorry, I disagree with this video. Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought! Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE. I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE. As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match. I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person. I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻 Some things to be understand here: ✔️ - if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country. - If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily. - You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job. - Build contacts. - don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻 People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!! Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
@@harryweird8807 You need to read the TITLE and listen video carefully. The title is "Dark Side of CA" firstly & he is talking about depression in video. Canada is luxurious country. Yes, obviously u r away from ur family/friends ppl who aren't emotionally strong they will feel home sick/lonely. Or those ppl who don't save money or do hard work. Only in those cases not only Canada any part of world is hard for such ppl will be hard. My comment is absolutely right.
Do survival jobs first and then later after full time job, pay 50% taxes?..lol..the people who go there are struck up nd then there is self-image factor in family..so even though they want to return..they cant..
Langley, BC has tons of survival jobs right now. Dollar Tree, Safeway, A&W etc. God Bless You Parul!! By the way, just curious why you chose to settle in Montreal as opposed to Toronto, Calgary, Surrey ... Keep up the great work Parul 👍🙏
I live in canada more then five year. Easily settled with good job . Ok . I never feel like that you give negative feed back in all video. Conclusion is that just your video give me stress 😀. Hi folks take it easy . If you are intelligent, hardworking, well organised then definitely get good life in canada .
Summary of video Take care mental health Ready to finding jobs Train your mind set worst for preparation the best improvement performance Daily management financial issues calculations Handling management emotions control management Make search real honest friends circle Training mindset learning positive thinking daily routine improvement productivity efficiency effectiveness goals skills
Parul bhai you are the reason why student's are motivated!! You are the one who practically depicts the typical difference between expectations and reality!! Hat's off to you!
Very true!!! Thanks for creating this video bhaiya! Every aspirant needs to watch this video before making Canada or any country as their dream destination... A few moments in this video were very heart touching, like being away from family, talking to parents, etc... Once again, thanks for posting this video!
Thank you for this wonderful message!❤ I've lived in Mumbai during my Engineering days and have been in similar situations as an Undergraduate student. Although I lived in 2 hostels, but I used to cook my own dinner on weekends because both my hostels didn't provide me dinner and cleaned my room in the former hostel because of an inefficient worker, but now I realise that it made me prepared for challenges in life. :) I also chose to stay away from people who are dangerous and toxic for my well being and I developed that self control and the art of saying "NO" to things which put you down. Meanwhile, I networked extensively and always observed people and some of them are now really close confidants! Although it wasn't an easy journey and my partner inspired me to never give up, I always feel that I became stronger in that set up. I ain't braggin' about myself but I feel positive about my ability to adapt to circumstances now.
Parul, you are gem of a person :) I believe since you have faced failure at a pretty young age, you realise the importance of relationships & success. Thank you for guiding all of us. Though I am 30 and planning to move to Canada for my MBA, your thoughts are relatable to me as well. Keep up the good work.
I know i would be lonely and have a harsh life out there but i am prepairing myself for it i broke up too so that i would not have any mental stress🥂best of luck guyss may u be successful and you’re dreams will be the reality one day ;)
Dear Parul, all Indian Student owe something to India , I appeal to you and other bloggers to come together to raise fund for India during Covid surge, Indian needs support every Penny matters.
Amazing video 👏🏻👏🏻 the content, the way you presented and the learnings from this are invaluable.. keep up the great work! ✨✨ keep making more such videos please!
It was one of the best videos you made, I recently came to Canada and i was feeling stressed about all the topics you covered, Great job. I think you should make more videos covering such problems faced by students. Thank you for your videos and you are doing great job
GOOD VIDEO...I would always say that come to Canada with a Backup financial state for at least 1 year.....Even, if it takes you 6 or 7 months to get a job..All the backup money will not finish...I guess 4000- 5000 CAD per month is needed that amounts to 50000-60000 CAD as backup money..M planning and preparing for immigration to Canada next year....that's why researching everything about Canada beforehand...so that I shall be prepared mentally.......THANK GOD I HAVE MY CLOSE COUSINS LIVING IN ONTARIO ALREADY
This is one of the fewest videos I can't stop myself from commenting. First of all, being a relegious student of Psychology, I am thankful of Mr. Parul for talking about it. I personally want to humbly request, start meditating. It is nothing complex, but just like sitting with oneself, talking with oneself like the way you would have talked to your best friend. Its good if you find someone else, but with my personal experience of 8 years of Solitude, i would say that do not depend on anyone else but yourself. There will be no relation as yours with yourself. And for the difficult times, always imagine the heroes you have always looked upto. This is the time YOU become hero in real life. When tired, try to think of your Mother who had worked without vacation. Even worked more on vacations. You are her child, beloved child, you will do it. And lastly, focus less on what you are going through, rather focus on what you are going to!! ✌
Sahi gall hai bhai expectations na leke ayo india to koi v jana. Mai paji pura prepare hoke aya c india to k menu bhut problems aniya ethe. But fir v mai hill gya hone sickness bhut hundi.
I got a car loan within 4 months coming to canada with yeah i will work extra for it attitude. It was the worst decision of my life. Focused less on studies, worked more and saved nothing. Now after 2 and a half years, i sold the car for good, got rid of loan and now i have an old camry with no car payments and low insurance and am focused on my goals. Better late than never. I still see people around me making bad financial decisions. The system allows you to do it does not mean you deserve it. Well said bro .!!! Also i tried youtube vlogs before lockdown. Just couple of videos . Open to suggestions . Peace :)
Thank u so much for sharing such sensitive subject n for your genuine style to present i m sending my daughter to canada for studies n now i have enough knowledge to make her comfortable with all this canada thing❤️👍
Some of the points I have experienced in India and few not. I had a lot of time before when I had experienced so I can stand up in this situation. Yes I will require some time
hey saurav, I been watching your videos from last one and a half years and, are you also planning for canada? I also want to study film making. can we discuss this topic in detail? thank you.
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Loved the video sir can you please make a video for BCA graduates please sir its a humble request. Scope for BCA graduates please sir
Outro plz😬
Why he didn't get work permit?
bai aurr videos bnao ess topic par pls.
Mental Health is no joke 👍. Well done parul bhai 👊
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I came here on 27th march ... trust me last one month was horrific .. on the first day, the officer was not in good mood and she gave e only 6 months of study permit as per that I am not eligible to work till I get a work permit, on the same day, when I entered federal hotel they charged me $1300 and only had that much cash. on the 7th day in my college quarantine, my phone turned off and didn't turn on all ways to connect with others. on the 8th day, at 4:20 am a random person knocked on my door and luckily I put the latch on the door. Otherwise, anything could have had with me. and when I called reception they said they are not liable to anything. on the very next day, somebody tried to unlock the door at 2:40am ..
I think everybody was able to connect with this video😇
Of course ! Parul bhai has a lot of audience of international student and a students those who want to come canada
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Sorry, I disagree with this video.
Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought!
Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE.
I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple
If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE.
As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match.
I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person.
I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻
Some things to be understand here: ✔️
- if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country.
- If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily.
- You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job.
- Build contacts.
- don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻
People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!!
Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
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Man this is more like Adult life explained more than the dark side of Canada!! But you explained it like a pro!! Everything you said is totally applicable to anywhere you move to, literally even if you move to another Indian state you experience the same things!!
Always remember guys to get some work done you got to sacrifice something!!
Kudos to your parents for raising a child with VALUES. ❤️
Really
Things he discussed about friends, household chores, mental health & few more I've been through this since my childhood but it became deep in my teenage so that's okay for me and makes me feel like allowing myself
Love how you have kept it simple and not triggering at all there are people who talk about mental health issues without knowing they are triggering many. I appreciate the tone of you voice and how you have spoken about each point precisely.
Good job. We lack quality content. This is high time we valued emotional intelligence! People in general and students in particular are under a lot of pressure from various quarters. They need to be very very careful about their physical as well as mental health. ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਠੀਕ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਹਰ ਜਗ੍ਹਾ ਚੰਗੀ ਹੈ ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਹੀ ਖਰਾਬ ਹੋ ਗਈ ਤਾਂ ਕਨੇਡਾ ਵੀ ਨਰਕ ਹੈ!
The point about golden cage from 6:24 is absolutely true, and very few people comprehend this back in India. And that is applicable not only for people coming to Canada, but to any other foreign country.
Thank you a million times! We just lost our beloved last year to suicide. He was so outgoing, intelligent and blessed with good looks and height. But he was suffering from schizophrenia. Flunked out of University in 3rd year. Lost his job and credit. He was suffering since high school but we never knew that he was really sick. We thought he is just depressed and will be fine one day..unfortunately we lost him at a very young age of 29 due to suicide.😫😢😭😭 last year.
So sad for him.
This content needs to be heard by all the international students who should know the reality before taking any wrong step🙃...
And I request you to make videos lyk this which can aware and help struggling students❤️
I'm in class 12 and waiting for exams and my mother died in February and now I'm doing all household work and also studies..
I think I'm preparing myself for everything..
Yes you are strong
Harman stay strong, god will bless you and stay safe please. I hope you have an euphoric and chauvinistic journey !
Thanks guys
Sorry to ask? Is she passed away by covid-19?
@@jagjit_7 no she had breast cancer
After all, India is real home. Punjabis can't live without Punjabi culture and people etc. Excellent video.
Yes sir!! Punjab toh meri jaan hai❤️❤️ I also want to go to Canada after my high school 🏫 but Punjab is incomparable with any other province in Canada. Punjab tah mere dil vich vsda hai❤️❤️
Yeah dude but iam cming here
Yeah very stubborn people. Hard to change their lifestyle.
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Canada has Brampton mini Punjab of Canada.
Reality of Canada. Each word said by you is very true. Strongly recommended to everyone one who are planning to come in Canada. Thanks Parul for such kind of informative video❤️❤️
Very true Parul , and its not just for international students , for other immigrants too , we came here as young family of 3 , and we too faced a lottt of stress and mental depressiveness, I seriously cried watching this one , as i could relive our past years through this, God bless
Felt like a one on one conversation😌
Along with giving information you are also motivating others .You are getting them prepared .This will make them strong so that they can face those situations.
Very well collated and a much needed conversation one needs to have!! Its the harsh realities of life which hit us hard and we break. Dont over expect things and go with the flow ... No regrets in life! Breakups and rejections are a part of life!!! Remember! you are all stronger than you think!!! Embrace life and keep smiling!!! Zindagi sab sikha deti hai🙏🙏🙏
Request please
1. aise videos aur bhi ek banao please on reality of Canada's depression, anxiety, homesickness, *isolation* and how to deal with it please
2. Ek video on reality of the health care system and medical
3. More on reality of work-life balance, emotional, social life.
Brother I could feel the pain in your voice and see it in your eyes when you spoke about how much you miss parents and home.
I've lived and worked in a different state for two years, all my colleagues aka friends weren't there for me, and I felt lonely and I was stressed out throughout the time I lived there. I was already a diagnosed depressed and anxious person but somehow I survived and reached home during covid in one whole piece. Now I'm wondering if all that was training for Canada. Maybe I'll survive because I've already been through all that?
You're saying truth. No-one sees and talks this in front of their dreams but I think these topics should be in mind then achieve desires. Hope everyone gets what they dreamt about. 🙏
Hi this had happen to me
Coming to canada with a wrong course which was out of my field given by my agent. And I continue that course till 4 semester it was so stressful. I was totally drained and couldn’t change it as fees were already paid so I did this to myself until the college suspended me from the course because of not having a good academic standing and after spending 33000 dollars to my course I didn’t graduate and I have to come back to india....the thing which I regret the most is if I had talked with someone in my family or someone who could guide me then things could be different today...this incident has broke me inside out..even though I started a new life in India currently working a reputed company I feel like a failure. Also I lost all the respect in my family 😭
So please guys talk to someone and don’t take course just for a sake of coming to canada...please...
Mera course khtm hogya h ... Or mujhe pta tak nhi h ki krwaya kya h .. na hi mujhe future dikh rha h apna ...🙈
This video has my heart! ❤️ Although I am not in Canada right now but adulthood is very difficult. Each and everything in this video is on point. 100% truth!
Really appreciate such videos!
Bhai failures and stress toh india me bhi h . distract krne wale toh yha bhi bhot h aur ghr walo se battein toh bche yaha bhi kaha krte h they think that they are not friends they are only parents and they will not support us . and the main stress in india is jobless youth .so it is not about country it is mainly about the situation and your will power of facing the situation .❤️ btw very lovely video ❣️🤞
Same problems exist everywhere
Felt like our own elder brother explaining us 🤗🥺❤
Trust me I m the one who moved to Canada after being lived in France for 3 years. Trust me I feel Canada is heaven compared to other European countries. So be fortunate if you're in an English speaking country.
I trust you bro!
Can you please share experience in Germany?
European hell? What exactly did you meant 🙄
@@sauravsingh-mu9ib corrected, it might go offensive.
@Skapk • 22 years ago If you're an average student and planning to get a full time field job after studies, then I won't recommend UK. To be frank, out of 100 students in UK, only 10 get the proper field job and others have to struggle. So the success rate is as low as 10-15%. You should be exceptional to be in that bunch. I'm telling you all this considering 2 yr stay back in UK and previously it was more worse.
Thank you so much Parul for this video, I recently came to Canada and I started to feel a little homesick and also felt a little weird. But you addressing this is a calmed me quite alot. Please continue to make videos in this subject as well. Thanks again.
Glad that still there are people who are showing the other perspective of living abroad. Be it Canada, Australia or any other foreign country, new immigrants gonna experience the same. So just stay positive and strong.
I promise i'll try to make a joyful environment around me and influence others with my positivity as my Best friends always told me to do ✨
There you go!
Thank You Bhavya! Rise and Shine 💫
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I really appreciate you for talking about these things on a bigger platform. I'd also like to suggest you to talk about professional help related to mental health issues available for international students in Canada, because I feel that not everyone can go on with a lil help from family and friends. Sometimes people need professional help and there's nothing wrong in seeking a therapist or a counselor.
Apart from this, Your way of explaining topics with clear and sensible words is praise worthy. I specially want to point out the "apnapan" in your style of elucidating important things for students.
Keep up the great work! Best of luck.
Indeed brother , these thoughts nearly take away you from yourself .
Every word held it's relevance. This video reminded my plight when i was working and living alone in Bangalore for 18 months before my family moved to the same town. I have already had a taste of this phase.
Canada would just be another place to go through all that all over again.
You are doing a great work. You talk about issues anyone rarely talks about and I am thankful to you for that.
This problem is not related just to international students but a part of everyone's regular life.
Thank you for discussing this with the viewers❤️
100% true. I underwent all this 17 years ago in Aus. It worked out well for me after studies.
Parul, this video was so informative and practical. I loved it. Prepping for the worst always helps. Thanks a lot for doing a video no one else would'hv done.
So True, I'm currently dealing with the same situation. 😊
I am from Delhi. Every point you listed out in this video, I have lived through that when I moved to Mumbai for my college. I lived in Mumbai for 8 years and got my first job there, but I have had this feeling of being alone at one point, doing chores, Sunday's dedicated to sorting laundry.
I think I am ready for Canada now.
It’s normal once you leave your mama’s lap. Indians don’t train their kids to live as an adult. Parents promise protection and over watch their kids until they die. Pretty bad ideology.
Out of all the videos I've watched on Parul TV before coming to study there, this by far seems to be the most important one to me. Thanks a lot for sharing such things.
I just wanna know dark side of India too 🙂…. It’s not just Canada which breaks heart … it’s India too 🙂
Bhai India m family ha . Canada m nhi ha 😇
@@ravidhull8724 jab india mai totally fail ho jaoge to faamily ki upar tum burden hi laagte ho :)
@@ravidhull8724 nah bruv i aint got fam in india, heck I wasn't even born or brought up there
India mein toh jyada Dil tootta hai mujhe b pharm Karke Canada mein masters Karna hai but my parents want me to become doctor in India
@@pratikchaudhari2142 vo इसलिए क्योंकि तेरा मन कनाडा m atka हुआ ha
great video. thanks u. Loneliness is the worst enemy
The best lesson i got from this video, "Always be prepared for the worst in life not for the best"💯💯
Absolutely true whatever he say, but we have to remember that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, I had to face the same thing in my initial days in canada
A pure therapy session for a person who just came to Canada. Thanks man. By far the best video
yes banda sach bolta hai. dil se baat karta hai. honest man. love you brother!
Thanks for making this video. In short everyone has to be optimistic and avoid unnecessary expenses with the credit card initial phase of education.
Very thoughtful video mate!Full of positive vibes noted each things and advise precisely the way you explained these things very much positivity!Thanks for the video🙏
I think this is the most positive video 😉 because bro being fake optimistic is no way better than accepting the reality and squeezing the positivity out of it..... Thanks for your advices parul bhai
This is one of your best videos and these issues need to be discussed more, especially during this pandemic where folks are undergoing mental health issues and stress
Thx a lot.....I will come soon....everyone told me abt positive aspects but no one told me about these things....Thx for infornation.
Feels like a big brother giving valuable advice🙌🏻 Thanks for the video!
Parul Bhai please keep talking on many such topics and concerns.. Its really helpful for students who are planning to come to Canada and for that matter anywhere abroad, leaving their friends and families behind.
Every one should listen to his message and then listen again. What an honest and truthful analysis and advice. This is pure Gold . Absolutely a service to humanity. I love your style. Everything is right on point.Keep it up !!!!
Bhai you present harsh truth about Canada. I Literally felt that when I came to Canada. This is the reality of Canada. Thanks, Bhai.
Good genuine thoughts. If this prepares and saves even 1 child,it's worth it!!
Sorry, I disagree with this video.
Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought!
Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE.
I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple
If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE.
As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match.
I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person.
I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻
Some things to be understand here: ✔️
- if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country.
- If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily.
- You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job.
- Build contacts.
- don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻
People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!!
Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
❤️❤️❤️dear can you tell me that How did you find a accommodation there
I would better start a business in my home country than doing a survival job abroad, no matter how that country treats survival jobs.
@@rightlibertarian8355 Well said bro.
@@harryweird8807 You need to read the TITLE and listen video carefully. The title is "Dark Side of CA" firstly & he is talking about depression in video. Canada is luxurious country. Yes, obviously u r away from ur family/friends ppl who aren't emotionally strong they will feel home sick/lonely. Or those ppl who don't save money or do hard work. Only in those cases not only Canada any part of world is hard for such ppl will be hard.
My comment is absolutely right.
Do survival jobs first and then later after full time job, pay 50% taxes?..lol..the people who go there are struck up nd then there is self-image factor in family..so even though they want to return..they cant..
Langley, BC has tons of survival jobs right now. Dollar Tree, Safeway, A&W etc. God Bless You Parul!! By the way, just curious why you chose to settle in Montreal as opposed to Toronto, Calgary, Surrey ...
Keep up the great work Parul 👍🙏
I live in canada more then five year. Easily settled with good job . Ok . I never feel like that you give negative feed back in all video. Conclusion is that just your video give me stress 😀.
Hi folks take it easy . If you are intelligent, hardworking, well organised then definitely get good life in canada .
Summary of video
Take care mental health
Ready to finding jobs
Train your mind set worst for preparation the best improvement performance
Daily management financial issues calculations
Handling management emotions control management
Make search real honest friends circle
Training mindset learning positive thinking daily routine improvement productivity efficiency effectiveness goals skills
Thank you sooo much fr summary in English... as I dnt know hindi..
Parul bhai..you should start a podcast. Your voice is magical. 🙏
I m preparing for Canada just 2 years from going. Thanks for informing this in advance!
Super effective video... Need more such videos to mentally prepare myself.. Thank you so much Parul bhai...🤩🇨🇦
Can relate all points. Kudos for opening up 👍
Parul bhai you are the reason why student's are motivated!! You are the one who practically depicts the typical difference between expectations and reality!! Hat's off to you!
Paaji, I can relate to everything you spoke about. Informative video for newcomers. It's actually good that you spoke of this dark side.
Very true!!!
Thanks for creating this video bhaiya!
Every aspirant needs to watch this video before making Canada or any country as their dream destination...
A few moments in this video were very heart touching, like being away from family, talking to parents, etc...
Once again, thanks for posting this video!
Excellent excellent way to explain. GOD BLESS.
Keep continuing this, everyone should know the worst about this also....
Appreciation..
Nice Video. Please make a video on canadian healthcare system.
Keep up the good work...
Thank you for this wonderful message!❤
I've lived in Mumbai during my Engineering days and have been in similar situations as an Undergraduate student. Although I lived in 2 hostels, but I used to cook my own dinner on weekends because both my hostels didn't provide me dinner and cleaned my room in the former hostel because of an inefficient worker, but now I realise that it made me prepared for challenges in life. :)
I also chose to stay away from people who are dangerous and toxic for my well being and I developed that self control and the art of saying "NO" to things which put you down. Meanwhile, I networked extensively and always observed people and some of them are now really close confidants!
Although it wasn't an easy journey and my partner inspired me to never give up, I always feel that I became stronger in that set up.
I ain't braggin' about myself but I feel positive about my ability to adapt to circumstances now.
Please turn this into a series!!! Awesome content!!
Parul, you are gem of a person :) I believe since you have faced failure at a pretty young age, you realise the importance of relationships & success. Thank you for guiding all of us. Though I am 30 and planning to move to Canada for my MBA, your thoughts are relatable to me as well. Keep up the good work.
I know i would be lonely and have a harsh life out there but i am prepairing myself for it i broke up too so that i would not have any mental stress🥂best of luck guyss may u be successful and you’re dreams will be the reality one day ;)
Dear Parul, all Indian Student owe something to India , I appeal to you and other bloggers to come together to raise fund for India during Covid surge, Indian needs support every Penny matters.
Mental Health is a vicious circle. One thing leads to another and it never seems to end.
Just arrived last month in canada and going through same problems you discussed in this video
@@hemantaneja8467 hey...u are in every video ..aap itne sad kyo ho
Thats amazing content which I am seeing on the net.
Its the time to discuss about mental health !
Amazing video 👏🏻👏🏻 the content, the way you presented and the learnings from this are invaluable.. keep up the great work! ✨✨ keep making more such videos please!
this guy speaks the core truth.... about life in Canada
It was one of the best videos you made, I recently came to Canada and i was feeling stressed about all the topics you covered, Great job. I think you should make more videos covering such problems faced by students. Thank you for your videos and you are doing great job
Thanks for making this video. This issue was really needed to be talked upon.
The same thing happens in INDIA , but the difference is we get hot rooti . ❤️
GOOD VIDEO...I would always say that come to Canada with a Backup financial state for at least 1 year.....Even, if it takes you 6 or 7 months to get a job..All the backup money will not finish...I guess 4000- 5000 CAD per month is needed that amounts to 50000-60000 CAD as backup money..M planning and preparing for immigration to Canada next year....that's why researching everything about Canada beforehand...so that I shall be prepared mentally.......THANK GOD I HAVE MY CLOSE COUSINS LIVING IN ONTARIO ALREADY
we can expect u as our friend in every situation. You are really nice bro really to help students by making these kinds of videos
Great work Parul!
Two things what I felt to discuss more is on Rejection is all around! Deal with it!
This is one of the fewest videos I can't stop myself from commenting.
First of all, being a relegious student of Psychology, I am thankful of Mr. Parul for talking about it.
I personally want to humbly request, start meditating. It is nothing complex, but just like sitting with oneself, talking with oneself like the way you would have talked to your best friend.
Its good if you find someone else, but with my personal experience of 8 years of Solitude, i would say that do not depend on anyone else but yourself.
There will be no relation as yours with yourself.
And for the difficult times, always imagine the heroes you have always looked upto. This is the time YOU become hero in real life.
When tired, try to think of your Mother who had worked without vacation. Even worked more on vacations. You are her child, beloved child, you will do it.
And lastly, focus less on what you are going through, rather focus on what you are going to!!
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Totally relatable .. this is what I am experiencing these days. Thanks for this video ❤️
Would love to see the other parts as well. Thes hard truths would really shape prospective students.
Sahi gall hai bhai expectations na leke ayo india to koi v jana.
Mai paji pura prepare hoke aya c india to k menu bhut problems aniya ethe.
But fir v mai hill gya hone sickness bhut hundi.
Thanks bro ..ur videos are really helpful for me as i'll come to Canada in fall 2021
I got a car loan within 4 months coming to canada with yeah i will work extra for it attitude. It was the worst decision of my life. Focused less on studies, worked more and saved nothing. Now after 2 and a half years, i sold the car for good, got rid of loan and now i have an old camry with no car payments and low insurance and am focused on my goals. Better late than never. I still see people around me making bad financial decisions. The system allows you to do it does not mean you deserve it.
Well said bro .!!!
Also i tried youtube vlogs before lockdown. Just couple of videos . Open to suggestions .
Peace :)
Parul , you are like the elder brother i never had
Thanks a ton about opening up on this topic.. Very few people do!
Thank u so much for sharing such sensitive subject n for your genuine style to present i m sending my daughter to canada for studies n now i have enough knowledge to make her comfortable with all this canada thing❤️👍
All the best
Some of the points I have experienced in India and few not. I had a lot of time before when I had experienced so I can stand up in this situation. Yes I will require some time
Amazing Video Parul, would be looking forward for such more sessions like these. Absolutely Amazing
Very honest video. Every single person migrating should watch this.
Reality, that 99% students face. You tried to show the real face of canada.God bless you. Make more videos like this one
Wow! We all need this thank you Parul, keep focus on these type of videos we need more as I’m also new international student here.
Thanks for this video Parul. Bohot jarurat thi is video ki
thank you Saurav
hey saurav, I been watching your videos from last one and a half years and, are you also planning for canada? I also want to study film making. can we discuss this topic in detail? thank you.