Sneako going from shouting incoherently at a camera to using complete sentences to calmly win a debate is like watching a man have a stroke in reverse.
As someone in their 40's who led a playboy lifestyle for far too many years, I'll tell you this...sleeping with many many women did not help me in understanding what a good woman is. It led me to having good women and then letting them go to continue on with my fuckery. I look at my past and realize that I missed out on a good life with a good wife and now I get to run into these women and meet their lucky husbands. Be better, men. Don't listen to these red pill salesmen.
@@thedust850 choosing 100% chance of being single and lonely or 30% chance of a successful and happy marriage does not fall under “pick your poison”. speak for yourself, plenty of men are willing to take the risk for a chance of a happy and successful marriage
@@n1rvana_ I think you are being sarcastic lol. With the other 30% about 15% want to leave but its cheaper to keep her. Both are miserable. The truth is marriage with kids suck. Usually the kids are the only thing keeping you in the marriage. The kids may or may not grow up to be good people. Being a player sucks. It has amazing moments of hedonism and peace but its ultimately lonely. Like Chris Rock said we have only two choices "married and miserable or lonely and single". Pick one.
As a woman, I do not understand why other women voluntarily place themselves in that environment just to be berated by men with unfillable voids. Their body language shows they're trying to make themselves small and swallowable to these men and it's frankly disturbing. I'm glad Sneako is showing some change, however these women need to stop contributing to this rhetoric and being their Barbie dolls. It starts with them too.
I assumed they were being paid but apparently they’re not? It’s just so hard for me to believe anyone would willingly do that with literally nothing to gain
They were being paid to listen to these dumbasses talk about red pills. Why do you think some IG models go to Dubai to have sex with some Arab prince's underage cousins, camels, and horses? Well, they get paid.
@@blazaybla22 promotion. they're either doing OF or some form of social media. i bet if you go to these videos there would be somewhere where their tag is in description or somewhere else
My father was a cheater, slept around with a lot of women was never faithful to my mom. He was the worst father out there, because not only did he not take care of his children he had with his wife he didn't care of his children he had outside of his marriage. On top of that he was very narcisitic and psychotic as he thought he was god's gift to women. Yet he had no self control, was highly abusive, violent, controlling, and addicted to gambling. Men like that who have no self control, no discipline, only make excuses for their behavior. They never reflect on their own actions and faults, which is what fresh and fit remind me of. They never reflect on their own inadequacy, insecurity, and faults. Than have the nerve to have family with impressionable minds so they can raise little cheater with domestic violence 2.0.
@@ravemachin bruh…it was his choice to engage with the woman he had kids with. So even if you assumption is true (which you don’t know), he needs to take responsibility for that.
@@ravemachin You'd lose that bet as he wanted kids from my mother and they kept trying for a boy. Wanting kids and want to be responsible for kids is two different things. Also even if you have kids or don't want them but do nothing to prevent them, you still have a responsibility to raise those kids.
@@Roguenight863 sounds like the dude's mom sure picked a winner... Playing the smallest violin the world right now. If you date playboys then don't be surprised when they play with you... easy enough to understand for a semi intelligent person.
Promiscuity hurts both men and women, thank god people are taking this sentiment more seriously as time goes on. People are more lonely than ever and these ideologies keep us lonely and messes up the next generation.
The abandonment of logic and God has and will pave the way to destruction as evidenced by human history. There is no escape if we devalue the intrinsically valuable.
I’m glad you mentioned it I think we been infiltrated with this alpha beta talk red pill blue pill and now it’s focused on community cause people are more lonely then ever
I was raised by my grandfather. He was a family oriented man who always made sure his family was okay. On his birthday, he would always wish “wellness for everyone.” He was such an amazing father. I was very lucky, because my biological dad was a turd. When I see a lot of these “red pill dudes” who sought out toxic male figures, it makes me think that they never got to get what I did, which was an amazing father figure to step in and raise you/show you the way. My grandpa recently passed away, I’m now 23. It sucks to lose your father young. But I’m happy I got 23 years with him, because those 23 years will affect me for the rest of my life. He showed me the meaning of life.
Your grandfather sounds like he had great family values and morals. Unfortunately for women feminist has killed anything that has to do with family values or morals, and they have made today's men act more like women than women themselves. This is why "red pilled" men have started to get more traction. We are tired of feminist, the letter community, and feeling like males are second-rate humans. Men would rather be single than miserable with today's women, mainly Western women.
Yup, the redpill ecosystem is basically oozing a lack of proper father figures. The only people who fall for the con men are those that don't know what the real deal looks like. May your grandfather rest in peace, he clearly did right by you.
Eternal be his memory. I’m glad you had someone like that in your life. I noticed the same thing. It seems like a lot of these red pill dudes didn’t have a good male role model in their life and now their perception of masculinity is twisted.
just read this as i got news about an uncle of mine who is like a father to me in the hospital for stroke… literally had a breakdown in the car ride home from work.. lost my grandfather too in 2011 and these two men have been the only father figures in my life growing up with a single mother. i can’t lose my uncle back to the point; high value man is not a fucking playboy with a black card and a vasectomy- a high value man is a man the world cannot/shouldn’t lose, HVM is someone who lives and learns but also has the patience to teach and take care of, whatever and whomever, simply because it needs to be done. no ifs ands or buts.
I believe a high value man is not someone who is rich like a millionaire but someone who has principle and character, can sustain himself and provide for his family, stays loyal to his wife, is a stoic, a father figure, and a good role model for others.
Absolutely! Otherwise, high value men would be Musk, Bezos or Gates, which ugh they are not. A lot of money means nothing. Sure, there are people, men and women, who go after money, but honestly, they are in minority and they are usually quite honest and open about it.
As someone who married the first girl I dated, Aba and Preach are right. you don't need to mess around to find a wife. Still happily married 11 years in.
Don't sell men hopium just because you found your 'unicorn' (assuming you're even getting what you need) The numbers don't add up, best not to sell false hope
@@saltycat662 well said. A lot of times that is the issue. But @wtfdtreats no such thing as a unicorn. Marriage can be hard work. Men also don’t know what to look for sometimes and how to look.
Fresh attempting to form a thought is always my favorite part of this show, like i can almost see the steam coming off of him from the gears working overtime
I honestly can't believe people view FandF for anything other than the Jerry Springer like entertainment value. I listened to Tom Leykis, never took his advice though lol.
I work in a nursing home. I see the end of the road. I see the players and I see the true fathers. The players are just...existing. No one visits, no one spends time with them, no one cares. We take care of them the best we can, but there is nothing we can really do about their monumental depression. And when they die, they do so clawing at the bed in terror. Terror of a life wasted is my best guess. The fathers I see have kids come visit every week. Some every day. Their grandkids come to see them. They are told "I love you" all the time. When they die, they tend to be surrounded by their kids and go so much more peacefully. Usually what I've seen is they stare at the faces of each of their children one at a time for a long time. No words, just looking. Looking at them in the way only a parent can. I can't explain it, but its a good bye and I'll be waiting for you all at once. Its heart breaking and heart warming all at once. But more than anything, its peaceful.
Your comment is so important for people to hear. And you are not the first person I've heard say this. Narcissism leads to a road of loneliness and misery. You'll have years of isolation to think about how you treated people all those years...
My father was one of these Stray Dog Men, kids with different women and all us kids hated him and never wanted him around and then he ended up dying all alone, with no achievements or contributions. I guess that’s the life all these Red Pill guys want.
Not all. Some of us see the hypocrisy and choose to be sexually disciplined while we build ourselves up, rather than follow the advice of a grifter like Rollo Tomassi.
@@soaringeagle9597 but are you really red pill then? The term is associated to these exact type of men. Its the feminist equivalent for men, some might be reasonable but the vast majority is tarnishing the name
@Aryzo I don't consider myself "red pill" despite agreeing with some of the ideas they put forth. I agree with the idea that men should work hard to build themselves up to become the best they can be. The RP teachings that encourage men to be lying, cheating scumbags and to sleep with hundreds of women, I don't agree with.
Fr, like don't be down playing all the self improvement I've made all my years because you don't have anything to show for yours. They don't gotta drag down all men just because they fell short as a man themselves.
@@adorali727 As a woman, I don't know how men DON'T see this as an insult. What makes men so different then animals then? It's hard to imagine a self respecting man accepting something like this.
As the child of a playboy...I'm damaged. I have immense trust issues because of my father. I eventually got married, but my insecurities have not subsided, it's a constant battle. I always thought of it this way, if my own father, flesh and blood couldn't be faithful and be around for his kids, what's keeping anyone else from doing the same.
@Claude Von Riegan's Biggest Simp because you grow up and realize literally everyone has baggage. You can work on it while you're still married. The two aren't mutually exclusive. If you find the right person who's willing to support you and you support them, whats the issue?
My dad was a shitty husband/partner. Got my mom pregnant with me, left her and got married and had a whole family. Largely ignored me my whole life. Then he had an affair with another woman. Divorced his wife and married the other woman and had a kid, presumably the love child of the affair. Being a womanizer is just another form of selfishness that leaves a lot of destruction in its wake.
My ex’s dad was like that. One time he said, ‘what litter is that from?’ & laughed when asked about one of his kids. Also, my ex is super unstable because of him (& several other things) which is why she is my ex. She cheated & claimed she needed ‘obstacles’. 🤷♂️🫡
comes with the territory. Your father definitely learned some unforgiving hush truths abt women that he chose a different path for himself. it's sad though
I tried to turn a fboy into a husband. Let him be "the man, the alpha, etc." I was faithful and traditional. He cheated on me with a single mother, the money I needed for his actual kids was given to a sidepiece to live better and for a child from another man to have everything he needed. He met her at a bar, he treated me like a 304 and his kids like step children. When I got solid proof after he beat me infront of our kids for taking money for gas to pick them up from school and to get diapers. I found out everything. Left him for my mental health and to heal OUR children. He married her because she needed papers and uses our kids to tell me all the material things he's got w her....Its not HIS fault, its and always will be MY fault for leaving 2 careers I worked hard for to give a fboy a chance to be a husband/father/man. Women have to stop thinking they can change a man and start believing the only one that changes is the woman. After a man gets used to 304's he will always have that gravitational pull to them and only them. These Jezebels exist and love don't pay the bills, child care or diapers.
When I turned 25 it hit me that a lot of my goals were just social expectations (going to college, having a desk job career, getting women) and I decided that I’m living my life for my self. I stopped seeing the gym as a way to become desirable for women and instead see it as something to become a better me from yesterday. I also realised im more of an extrovert than I thought haha
I remember when my father-in-law died a couple years ago and my husband's reaction to it: ice cold. Not a single tear was shed for that man and for good reason. He constantly stole and cheated on his wife (we are still finding random half-siblings), stole from his kids for booze money a bunch of other horrible things I won't mention here. If your family's lives are better with you gone, you haven't earned the right to be called a father (or mother).
Getting a vasectomy so you can sleep around is a big red flag for me. When I was looking for a spouse, I was paying attention to not just men's actions but also their ongoing attitudes towards women, relationships, sex, dating, and kids. I wanted someone who's entire perspective matched mine in the sense of putting family first, wanting to build a family, and being committed long term to staying together and solving problems. I would never consider dating men with the attitudes that Fresh & Fit promote. And guess what... I got a man that has the priorities and attitudes I wanted. We can build wealth and health together. You can't make someone build commitment.
What a disrespect to your own body and divine creation too like damn either wear a condom or practice some self control don't get a surgery to be a man ho
Everyone that i know that got a vasectomy did so after their kids were grown and they didn't want slipups. In fairness most are police so they didn't want side baby on their wives. Lol
Is Sneako, like, improving from a dumb idiot to an actual person? Damn, that's so good. I mean, there are people who don't even self reflect but him actively putting himself in situations that forces growth of mindset and eventually accepting that growth is very wholesome to see.
Tbf had you seen the first videos from sneako? They are really clever and at the time they made me question a lot of stuff, that's sad knowing how he's now
Former Family Law attorney here. The amount of dudes I have had come to talk to me about their divorces and custody of their kids that are former players is insane. I had a younger family member who was advised by an older "player" in our family when he was younger. This young family member has been in 2 relationships over the past few years and has struggled being faithful, to behave like a good boyfriend or husband. He dearly loved the women he was in these relationships with, but that player shit is habit forming and he had a hard time breaking it. You can't just flip a switch and turn it off. Even when you do the temptation is still there. There are women from your past that text and contact you through social media as a temptation. We often talk about the effect not having a father or stable home life has on women and men. One of the reasons that matters is because as a child or young person you are introduced to concepts and behaviors that will become the foundation of your character, behavior, and psyche for the rest of your life. They will inform how you view relationships and/or the opposite sex even when you are not conscience of it. It's insanely hard to change those things the older you are. So starting out young listening to red pill players that use and treat women like garbage, that only care about material wealth and sleeping with random women, and have unresolved anger issues sets that template for the rest of your life. In some ways just as bad as an alcoholic father/mother or absentee dad. Back when people called this the PUA (Pickup Artist Community) I knew guys that took this advice in their early 20s and they have struggled tremendously.
I also think women increasingly being hesitant to date men is a result of this - it seems to be leading to men being unable to find relationships and stewing in frustration over it.
He can't dearly love her if he's sleeping around. Sleeping around isn't just a habit that fills the ego but it's also the reason that men can't connect emotionally with one woman and to actually love her. This is something that is a fact for men too but they don't want to accept it. Which is funny because the redpill is allegedly reality/logic/reasoning.
This is exactly true. That dude going on about "you need to sleep with 50 women before you settle down" Once you've slept with that many women, I don't think you'll automatically value any one woman, because you've gotten used to how replaceable they are. Especially for men, who can keep pulling women well into old age, that habit isn't just going to magically disappear if they're used to sleeping with everyone.
@@davidtube6582 Yes he fucking did. "Program your woman to be okay that you'll cheat on her"? Stop defending that misogynistic clown, simp. Grow your own brain.
Sneako is absolutely right. What is the point of being a “high value man” if you aren’t going to pass it on to the next generation? The most masculine thing you can be in this world is a good father.
The whole point of RP is to wake men up to the truth of hypergamy and female nature. THATS IT. Not to use and abuse women. Some women deserve to be called out and put in their place for using men but so do men who use GOOD women. This ideology was never meant to be destructive; it is also a testament to the type of man who can understand the REDPILL and allow it to change him for the BETTER. Becoming some angry, aimless playboy who’s only goal is to bang women is NOT the intended goal of RP. Only an actual loser sees that as the end result. Real men understand what RP is for and it’s NOT to bang chics. So while I get where this video is aiming, the title is not based in truth. There are tons of men who are RP who don’t hate women and by the way that’s a cheap excuse to dismiss the validity of RP. No different than claiming that you “hate gays” just because you disagree with their worldview🙄. In reality many of the men in RP are married with children. But the Internet wants to paint them all as basement dwelling masturbators who shoot up schools and hate women. That couldn’t be further from the truth. This is why the movement is so powerful because men from all demographics and walks of life could relate to the hardcore TRUTH of RP. So again only a real loser sees RP as something negative. The young boys who are misguided in the truth of RP are an entirely separate issue. They need help in different aspects of life but RP is not what’s destroying them.
Himself. He grew by a person as himself, I've done a lot of stupid shit, made lots of terrible mistakes and learnt from them, and I think sneako is learning from his own mistakes too.
@@Goat55786- It’s not really a 180 it’s more so of a 360. He’s reverting back to who he used to be before all this redpill bs. I literally went through that same metamorphosis 😭
@@tiktokatnight7364 which is why you shouldnt really mess with sneako, not saying he was wrong at any point, but he seems to say things at the most convient of times.
18:43 This was my thought process since high school. I ALWAYS thought if "I can't take you home to meet my family and I can't raise a kid with you if an "accident" happens don't risk it." NEVER had a pregnancy scare and I had my kids with the man I knew would be a great father and I intend to spend the rest of my life with.
That's what my uncle taught all the boys in the family. Sex is great but if you can't stand the idea of being a part of that person's life, for the rest of your life, reconsider having sex with em and at least use protection.
I've been saying for almost 2 years, that these 2 dudes are ruinning families and young men minds... They spend too munch time debating and yelling at 20 something young women, that they can't debate real men outside their studio. And their favorite sport is insulting and mocking black women. This is disgusting at any level !
@@Oh_So_Based Imagine if these young men follow their advice about "vasectomy"... ?!? This is not only entertainment. Words have wieght. I agree with Sneako who use t obe a hot red pill head... now he is maturing... Good !
They insult all women, not just black women. Why there is always one emphasizing “black injustice” when we can see that he is insulting all of them… white, latina, black, asian…
People can change quick once the veil is lifted and they realise their error. A humbling experience, growing in faith and committing to God for instance can have drastic changes. We have to encourage change be it someone like sneako or an ex crim. Self growth and learning from our past mistakes is what it's about and it's good to see.
If you look at his response to the shit he said he is perfectly rational. He said he did it for attention, and it was his "online persona" Any attention is good attention if you want views.
Before i got married getting and having sex with multiple women was fun bc it filled my ego. I felt like i was wanted or I was a bigger man for my actions. Then i met the woman that became my wife and I realized i truly was wasting my time by putting all this effort and money into different women daily. Being married isnt for everyone, but the same can be said for being a bachelor. Hearing my wife and kids tell me they love me and loving them back is a joy that sex with random women could nvr fulfill.
One of my family member also said the same thing. He also said it just like collecting garbages, it doesn't how much you collect, it still a garbage. Collecting hundred or thousand piles of garbage relationship is not something you can be proud of. While a piece gold, no matter how tiny it is, it's still a gold, you couldn't even compare gold with garbage. Gold is rare, but garbage is everywhere. Congrats, you found a gold.
I met my wife after being with 2 other women. We've now been together for 14 years, have 2 sons, 2 cars, and are paying off our house and still living decently comfortably before we've hit 40. It was a result of working hard together and doing everything we could to get to where we are. So when I hear those guys talking about "you need to be with 50 women to know a good woman" all I hear are sad boy excuses from con-men. Learn to appreciate what you got and be ready to work on your goals, yourself, and each other. Also realize there is no one way to handle everyone's life. We all have our own path and it's up to you to pave it to the best of your abilities.
I'm confused at what people are calling redpill. I thought it was the opposite of bluepill, so you are doing things for yourself instead of to impress women. You don't have to believe in sleeping with 50 women to be redpill.
My problem is most people can only survive on 2 incomes, i wish it was made easier to live on one for those who don't want to be in a committed relationship.
Finally people are saying it. The women they see as the “good ones” do not want them and their problems. A guy said that I was a good woman compared to other woman and etc simply because I have only one partner who I am currently with. Then he tells me about his escapades and baby mama drama, only to ask if I was interested in ditching my man to be with a “high value” man like him because he has hundreds of thousands of dollars in investments. You mean the hundreds of thousands that’s supposed to be taking care all 6 of them kids and the one on the way. Hell nah😂, I will stick with my fiancé with no kids who makes under $100,000 thank you. We’ll work it out😂😂😂.
So if he had no kids nor baby mamas you would have considered his proposal?? That's what it sounds like. I thought u would have told him flat out you're in a serious committed relationship nd refused him. You've just proven the red pillers right😅😅
Right. These dudes that refer to themselves as “red pill” don’t understand that women who’s lives actually exhibit righteousness and want to be wives do not want promiscuity and don’t care about how much money they make. I told men before, I will marry a man making 30k a year over a man making over 100k a year if his life was one of a righteous man. How do you want to be a husband and a father but you can’t discipline yourself enough to control your sexual urges?
@@NoName-ug7rm Not really. The "high value" man brought up his money as an argument as to why she should drop her man and be with him. Instead of telling him she's in a relationship and she loves her man, she proceeded to tell him how doing that is not a good idea for her, because he doesn't seem to properly manage all the money that he has and there won't be much left for her (he has 6 kids, etc.), so her current fiance who makes less money would be a better option in the long run. You may say it was just her joking and playing along, but I know how I would feel about my woman even entertaining such conversation with other men at all.
@@Bl2EAKIN I think she used that to debunk him calling himself “high value”. This example right here shows that you don’t have to have a lot of money to be considered a high value man. High value is determined by what type of life you live, not how much money you make.
Not really I think it’ll make it better and expand. Because red pill is about truth not a certain way of living. there was always logic and common sense in the red pill but a lot of the information is just unorganized I realized early on in the red pill space some advice was applicable and useful and some advice was not. I think that for a long time a lot of fan boyism and red pill rage was going on causing certain information to go on unchallenged. I think that the red pill needs more of these deep conversations
@@regalcatnetwork8068 i see ur picture and I get why u r there. But pls run away. U r not a „high value man“ u‘ll probably never become one bc right now u r the sheep and red pill is the wolve
@@Ayommari That's false... Redpill teaches men that women dont want broke, fat, unmotivated, feminine men... thats logical... thats facts and it will never change
@@Ayommari maybe you just didn’t pay attention. because there is logic and common sense. The red pill taught that marriage is against men and will destroy a man. Red pill taught there are forces beyond us making our lives a living hell, the red pill did teach us to make do with what we have. The red pill taught a lot of things that people never looked at before. And it is foolish to say that there was never any logic and common sense. People who disagreed with the red pill more than likely were uncomfortable with the truths that red pill told and never wanted change in society. The red pill made more sense despite its flaws than 90% of society. People shit on the red pill because they want to stay in comfort and want foolishness to flourish in society. Sure there are a few bad eggs in the red pill community, but let’s not act as if the red pill didn’t help at all. Red pill taught critical thinking, red pill taught to seek truth, red pill is common sense, The red pill is reality as it happens. Hell Abba and preaches wouldn’t even exist or or have as many subscribers as it does if it wasn’t for the red pill. Because we wouldn’t be having these conversations without it. It’s not red pills fault it’s full of grifters and morons that are trying to make it a thing like religion. The red pill is to see the truth nothing more, nothing less. To challenge beliefs and ideas is red pill.
@@satnamathwal1467 says the little boy that still lives with the same mummy that emasculated him. 🤣🤣🤣 How is still being a virgin in your 40s going? Remember, if you don't use it you loose it. 🤣🤣🤣
@@IsaacLungu no. bcz men dont do this for women. men can say that wont even touch a girl whose had more than 3 bodies and its fine but when a woman says it she not supposed to worry about that? please
While I was in red pill mode I would often ask why these guys keep trying to get with and talking to the same type of women they be telling us to avoid. It was always mad weird to me
Other ways to get to know a woman outside of sex: 1. See how she reacts to hearing/seeing you sick. 2. See how she behaves when a problem comes up (does she complain about it or does she support you in fixing it). 3. Just let her talk for long enough. If there's something you won't like, it'll come out. 4. Watch how she interacts with her family. 5. Pay attention
Just a point about 2. See if she starts *nagging* you specifically when a problem comes up. If she is just complaining about the problem, like venting her frustration, without targeting you, that's probably OK.
First time I met my lady in person, she was coming over to bring me meds when I had a bad cold - and "nurse me" as she says. She checked one of those boxes off day 1 lol
I'm 46 now; i looked into getting a vasectomy in my 20s and none of the doctors i spoke too were willing to perform the procedure on a childless man in his 20s.
As the daughter of a womanizer it sucks because I don't trust my father to vet men properly. The only guy he approved of was an abusive, womanizing felon😂 I avoid him bc he spent his life making single moms instead of building wealth or a strong family. None of my siblings speak to him now.
FEMININITY-DEFINITION/MASCULINITY-DEFINITION/FEMINITY-MASCULINITY/FEMINITY-MASCULINITY-DYNAMICS/EVOLUTIONARY-FEMINITY/EVOLUTIONARY-MASCULINITY/EGO-SYMBIOSIS/FEMINITY-YING/MASCULINITY-YANG/YING-YANG-TEAMWORK/FEMINITY-MASCULINITY-TEAMWORK [They are states of mind, and both can be switched at a given notice; depending what a situation requires. A person's neuro-personality is what determines one's alignment to either masculinity or feminity, e.g. XNTJ is a 'largely' masculine neuro-personality type/brain-formation. INFJ is odd; the gender-focus (masculinity/feminity dynamics) is in reverse, depending on the gender and yet it is still [consciously] malleable (depending on the individual and the current situation; mirroring/personality adaptation can aid one to better adapt to a given situation with success, i.e. with little needles resistance). Evolutionarily speaking, the psychological dynamics of feminity-masculinity aids individual units (within the human colony) to better organise themselves within a 'team-structure', i.e. between support and leader (support-feminity[not mindless obedience, do not confuse the two or suffer geuine narcissit-abuse or borderline... masculinity-leadership or duty-bound. Both 'gendered-role' require intelligence and responsibility; gained/acquired experience and 'humanity for the group'). _______ At the core of 'femininity' (its essence) is "support". 'Masculinity' is to be "goal-driven" and "dutiful" (both necessitates intelligence and the absence of NPD; otherwise deranged animosity and cruelty is inevitable-both are counterproductive to 'teamwork/dualism/ying-Yang/feminity-masculinity'). This is the ying and Yang that makes the 'team work in harmony'. Feminity-masculinity psychological dynamics is needed to make a team of both genders, evolutionarily speaking (pertaining to the purpose of that psychological feature, i.e. feminity-masculinity). To be "supportive"/feminity one must be a cautious team-player. To be supportive does not excuse or imply "lacking a will of your own" (the INFP neuro-psychology/brain-formation is ideal for a supportive-role. INFJ brain-formation can freely alternate between both gendered-role, more so than any other). "Acting girly" is just an 'act'- a deceitful one. On masculinity, being overly [irrationally] aggressive, hypersensitive/insensitive (like a robot) is a [possible] sign of a mental disorder - it is toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is irrational animosity (thinking and behaving like a volatile neanderthal) and it destroys sustained teamwork. Narcissitic-personality disorder is the bane of 'humanity'/harmonic-symbiosis (in every context). Positive masculinity requires one to be intelligent/rational (not having a pathological disregard for rationality and reality), and to have sufficient levels of 'humanity'; humanity can be displayed/expressed intellectually or socially/emotionally. Positive-masculinity has no tolerance for geuine narcissitic-personality-disorder (NPD)/unfair abuse and unfair-cruelty. Positive-masculinity optimises whatever it does. Positive-feminity lessens hardship, it intellectually cultivates and inspires teamwork via harmony. Positive-feminity does not support narcissitic-personality-disorder (it supports the fight against it instead). Positive-feminity - it supports, it facilitates and it is guided by intelligence and maturity (not having a pathological disregard for rationality and reality).
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
[QUOTE] The poster is correct. Female are inherently narcissitic in their neuro-psychology. This is for evolutionary reasons. Like is attracted to like; as they see themselves in each other. And like narcissits, they are disgusted by humans with excessive humanity and care little for them (the extent they do is shallow as any truthful woman will attest to and 'feel’). ENFJ-females among many other narcissist-craving and loving “feelers" will often lose their virginity to narcissits. This is essentially a 'life-cycle’ for most females. How the narcissits makes the mentally undeveloped and narcissist woman feel is what draws and compels her mind, heart and 'clit’ to it. Consider your highschool experience for example; such occasions are cliche-i.e. essentially a 'life-cycle’ for females who often narcissitically believe their clit to be irresistible. Later in life, after “swallowing" and absorbing the narcissists/cluster-B sexual essence and narcissitic abuse… Only 'then' are these narcissitic little girl finally ready to “lower" and belittle themselves for a “good-man" (human with excessive humanity as an instinct). Most human female's are inherently wilful, narcissistic, hypersexual girls at their core essence. Get over yourselves! Too many females have a similar experience, i.e. spending their younger, beautiful years [secretly] having sex with narcissists for the emotional 'tingles’, before 'settling’ down for the “good man" (who they 'consistently’, and narcissitically perceive to be “lesser" in sexual attractiveness, compared to they multiple narcissit/cluster-B EX). This is the life-cycle of most women, especially the more “attractive" ones. Consider your life experiences, it is one such example of countless many. And it persists throughout human history, and certainly will into the future. Female's crave emotional-stimulus, because like narcissits, so many of them feel “empty" on the inside, and they instinctively look to a narcissist to 'fill’ them up with their sexual energy. Think about it…
I have said something similar to my kids (especially the teens) when they complain about chores/responsibilities. “Do you think when you turn 18 all the adult things magically manifest themselves in you? All the sudden you just clean the toilet, do the dishes, and pay your bills? You one day decide to fold your laundry right and not look like a hot mess?” The answer is no, obviously. Like anything in life it takes practice, discipline, and probably some hard lessons learned. Expecting to magically become a family man after years of calculating every interaction with with men and women alike to benefit you in some way is a recipe for disaster. I’m all about men’s rights, tossing out the radical feminist ideas that harm society, etc….but a lot of the red pill stuff is so freaking dumb. Like just factually fucking stupid.
I'm not completely filled in on the red pill ideas all I know is that it's saying men and women each have their own separate responsibilities in a relationship.
This is legit! As a boy who became a father, who grew up with a mother who did everything for me and totally allowed me to be a lazy little shit, 21 became a dad, I'm 28 now and I put my woman through years of heavy frustration with me because of my uselessness in domestic capabilities. Teach your kids young,let it become natural for them,your doing them a massive favour later in life.
I think teaching them young is wise however I don't think it's necessary , If a person is conscientious enough, they'll naturally take care of themselves . You wouldn't need to enforce strict rules to a person or kid that's naturally self aware and responsible. It depends on the kid or man.
Yes that's all apple and peaches do... React to other people's valuable content..... The fact THAT FnF embrace people with different viewpoints within their platform shows alot. Unlike apple and peaches who have no valuable content but just reacting.
@@thanksgivingdludla3445 The same F&F that couldn't mount a defense for their good old pal Rollo? People like Tate and Sneako denouncing the ideology tells you how questionable it is. I've said it before, they do well in calling out problems but absolutely suck in giving solutions. And also Aba & Preach are a reaction channel, it's what they primarily do.
@@poetjla7778 Well if you actually knew what you were talking about, you would see that there was a 4 hour podcast on fnf where they debunked eveything feat Rollo sneako sartain and destiny and it made sense. I personally don't see anything as redpill or blue pill I see it as male self improvement, in which FnF which their motto is helping men navigate through women fitness and finances, Tate stands for Masculinity... They alll stand for the same values at the end of the day. We'll you're absolutely wrong because solutions they are giving are working for majority. See i don't even agree with Vesectamy, I actually more agree with sneako, but you see what men do they sit in the table and have discussions that doesn't mean they have to hate each other... All that apple and peaches do is conjure up a theme that stirs negativity. Which is "Sneako and Tate are turning on the red pill" that already has an agenda which is anything negative or controversial that happens in that space we will report on it and gas light it but the positive nah no.
@@thanksgivingdludla3445 So when Myron says sleep with 50 women to gain experience, that's beneficial to you becoming better at commiting to one girl for life? This is short term gratification at best with long term damage to future relationships.
@@poetjla7778 Finally i can interact with people who disagree with Myron at his views cause now i see for myself that you guys really don't listen to understand, yall just want to either hate or disqualify what his saying without understanding the substance behind it. When a female hits puberty, she already gets hit on by men which is age 14 15 and up and by the time she's 22 she's already socially intelligent and knows what type of man she wants because of that experience, but a boy or a man no women absolutely hits on him so he is basically social retarded when it comes to women cause he has not experience and probably will get finessed. Women are more social intelligentthat men that's a scientifical FACT so when he says sleep with 50 women it's not about pleasure yourself, or be a sex addict. It's get adaquet experience from the opposite gender so that you can socially intelligent enough to pick a spouse. It's not 100% accurate for everyone but that advise would definitely help the majority. Second of all the average female of age 22 let's say has tripple the amount of body count than a 22 year old male. So if you're a guy and you want to take the old advise, in these modern times you will surely get finessed because women are fucking wayyyyy more than men, based on stats so to say men should atleast have slept with 50 women is good advise and i have substanciated myself and you've just made a claim with no thorough break down like I did, it shows im a myron fan and you're a apple and peaches fan.
They are coward betrayers of masculinity. True beta Male Feminists, can’t think of anything worse. Myron & Waller are toxic but everyone knows they have 3 brain cells combined. These two clowns in this video are worse, more damaging to men & society as a whole. Justifying feminism is the worst take possible. Blasting Red Pill & Feminism as basically the same thing is fine, but these guys are just pathetic omegas.
The red pill had its benefits for a lot of young men, but once a lot of grifters and losers with bad intent began to infiltrate the space that's when it got goofy. Telling young men to get the snip in their 20s is such dangerous advice because what if they want kids later down the line? These guys don't even live by what they preach to young men. 🤡
i said about a few years ago for the men who were so ingrained in the red pill movement , to read "aminal farm" by george orwell and give it a few years and that is what will happen to the redpill movements in all forms....and i am proven right
I would never have considered any of them apart of the RP. Tate, Sneako or FnF. The only thing they do is clown women for clips. They speak very little on actual substantial means to take to improve yourself.
If someone I was seeing intimately talked about using "leverage" over me or talked about partner relationships like that, I would feel completely and utterly betrayed and disgusted. I would think they had bad intentions for me and I would be afraid of them trying to control, manipulate and abuse me. It would be an immediate break up.
Aba, I know you probably get these all the time, but bro you really changed my outlook on a lot. Man family time is everything. There’s nothing better than those random weekdays where you can just take your mom out to lunch and just have a conversation or just spending time with your fam. I moved about 1,200 miles away because I thought that’s what I needed but that isolation just makes you value your family more. I have moved back to my hometown since and I absolutely do not take family time for granted. I appreciate you man.
My older brother went through the same. He used to play video games instead of going out to restaurants with us, then when he moved abroad he regretted every moment he wasted away. He now calls daily because he's homesick and gets mad at my other brothers when they don't want to go out as well. Some people will never truly feel the value of family until they're away from them. I'm glad you now are making every moment worth it 👍
Most men of my generation, about 25 -35 are going to miss out on a family because the entire time they were dating most dating took place online because feminists conditioned women to treat men approaching them in person as predators that only want sex. The truth is half of the women you meet in person are totally open to having sex with a guy they just met, but 0% of them are going to say yes to a stranger approaching them in person. So it stands to reason that if all dating takes place online you basically have to become an Andrew-Tate like figure in order to even date online. Most men want more than casual sex with a bunch of different women, so most men drop out early when they realize they have to be on a constant treadmill in order to get sex.
I was once a hardcore red piller when i was 19. I would wake up and the first thing i would do is to listen to red pill contents and try to work on myself but as months went on , i found myself hating women. My friends, my brother and sister noticed how i used to talk crap and degrade women and they pointed out that i never used to hate anyone based on gender but on personality instead and i never used to generalize people or stereotype them. I had to calm down and find out what was causing it and it was the red pill. I came to it because the message i got was not focusing on women but instead focusing on your goals but what i began to see later was "delusional woman" , "useless 304" , woman does this and woman does that. With this i felt so stupid and i began to understand how the hatred of the opposite genders with feminism was created... The same way of the red pill. Once you get soaked into any of these movements, you'll find yourself despising the opposite gender and if you are too far gone, i am sorry. I'm just glad i got out when i could.
Same man. I was around the same age. Hindsight shows that I was just angry at being ignored by women and wanted an outlet for it. It was unhealthy. I don't listen to RP content anymore, I listen to people who can keep themselves accountable and criticize wrong behavior NO MATTER what gender, ideology, age, or race they may be.
Went through the same thing. Fell hard into the red pill stuff but slowly realized it was making me a hateful and miserable. Once I left with some of the more positive messaging my life became so much better. Hope it’s going the same way for you.
I followed red pill creators for a while and the only real advice they could offer is to respect yourself. The issue is they don't really make a difference between respecting yourself and valuing others. They always gave me the feeling of egocentrics that can't have a relathionship because being vulnerable is the most beta thing out there. Man, I swear being reasonable should not come that hard
I look at them like men who knows they have nothing to offer except eventually money and a fake masculine image. And I say eventually because most of them are broke and insecure. The average alpha social media man live with their parents and pay tones of onlyfans subscriptions. I’m not against men knowing their value and trying to achieve financial success but they need to learn the difference between value and money. High earning men are not always high value and vice versa
The whole redpill thing actually started as something completely different in online forums and was more focused on overall life improvement, these days it seems like men grouping most women into one bubble then proceeding to behave like the specific women they criticize.
"You're sterilizing half your audience" -- Destiny. OMG, guys, Destiny's figured it out. This man's been playing a double agent the whole time. He infiltrates the red pill community, and convinces them to get a vasectomy, meaning they won't procreate. This is what we call a pro-gamer move.
Making fewer children is good for the environnement, the planet's future and my offsprings. If other men want to give up on building a family I would encourage them wholeheartedly
@@Ludoovik im sorry but that just leads to the idiocracy problem. smart people realize that they need to make less kids but dumb people gonna have 10 kids
I was friends with this black girl in HS who had a womanizer dad and had kids with countless women. She told me a story of going to church and seeing this guy she thought was cute and then finding out at the family reunion it was her cousin. That shit fucking crushes kids. She saw her father on occasion, but he would usually just come around if he needed something or was trying to get with her mom again.
@Past_Tense154 dude... that's gross af Maybe you didn't take in the fact that she was devastated her father slept around the community so much that she didn't know who was family and who wasn't.
I mean the kid is young. The fact he's even vocalizing different beliefs shows that he's still learning and open to new ideas. There's hope for him. I wish him the best no matter how improbable I believe it is
@@autumnburton2091 Yeah back in the day 24 was considered an adult. You got married and had a stable job. I see people calling 30 year olds "kids" now. We're headed for arrested development.
19:40 Some solid life advice 1: watch who they are when they drive 2: assemble furniture with them 3: go on a trip together 4: go to a restaurant and see how they treat the workers
We're watching an early 20-year old man navigate his self-identity... and honestly it's entertaining and interesting to watch him go through these conflicts internally and externally
Besides the meltdowns and shit for views, it's kind of refreshing to see how vulnerable and transparent his character development has been, if it's at all genuine.
People like this look like authorities because they have a platform. Bad choices take time to manifest as life results. Let's see how this looks in a few years for fresh and fit.
A real high value man: can control himself sexually, holds integrity for his words and actions, has mental fortitude, loyal to his commitments (such as wife/family/work), holds himself accountable to his expectations, and attractive (subjectively). Guess what. The same goes for a high value woman - aka wifey material. Its not about money, it's not about body counts, its not about sex appeal. It's about honor, loyalty, responsibility, accountability. That's sexy, period.
These clips feel so surreal. Sneako went from being the thoughtful NYC filmmaker to a basement-dwelling blackpill streamer with anger issues, and yet nothing he says in these clips is unreasonable. His pushback is wise. I don't understand how he reversed the spiral he was going down, but I'm glad he did.
@@marvin2678 Moist made fun of him because Sneako was dumb. Sneako sort of threatened Moist waving a little gun around in a video. Moist said you are using the wrong words. That is not a clip. This is called a magazine and pulled out an AR or something similar. Basically, lowkey saying roll up with your pea shooter I'm ready.
These guys : ''Avoid family creation...'' Also these guys : ''...so you can be a good father and have a family'' I see no flaw in that logic whatsoever.
Feminists. Men won't join the Matriarchy it's been 15 years now and society is seeing the shift in men. They must do away with red pill MRAs. MGTOW going nowhere we grow daily
As a woman, I certainly would not be prone to look for a serious relationship with a guy who used to sleep around. It's true, people can change, but it would be extremely hard for me to trust someone who once had a f-boy mindset. It's funny that they preach against a woman with a high bodycount because she won't make a good partner, but they expect their future "good" woman/wife to accept them with a bodycount higher than a small village... 🤣
What you are missing is that you are comparing two guys of the same caliber to each other, one with a high BC and one with an average one. You are dismissing information, which is that the guy with the high BC was able to attract a bunch of woman to give him c*sual s*x, indicating his attractiveness. What are women willing to tolerate more: exchanging chastity for high quality, or high quality for chastity? Most women will prefer quality to chastity, by magnitudes. Here's a nice thought experiment: you meet the love of your life, he's handsome, athletic, tall, a doctor and you have good chemistry. You guys are 3 years into the relationship, and you are about to get married. One week before your marriage, someone anonymous sends you a link. It's a bunch of amateur "prom" from about 8 years ago, and you see your husband having a few threesom*s, having one woman here and there. It's an entire folder of private & leaked "prom" by an ex-girlfriend who is jealous, which was recorded over a span of 3 years with about 15 different women. Will you call off the wedding?
I never had a Fboy mindset. I just enjoyed beautiful women’s company. I was always honest. Anyway, I ended up meeting my wife at 24 and marrying her a year later lol (I’m now 34. Never cheated. Can’t box us all in).
Watching Sneako and Destiny team up like a recurring comic book villain teaming up with the protagonist to dunk on Fresh and Fit is by far the funniest thing I have seen all year
Destiny doesn’t even belong at that table. All he has is money. And he thinks women attest his worth to other things. Dunno if he realizes this, but a guy getting his hair dyed blue will and has always been a little boy to women on the planet.
The whole point of RP is to wake men up to the truth of hypergamy and female nature. THATS IT. Not to use and abuse women. Some women deserve to be called out and put in their place for using men but so do men who use GOOD women. This ideology was never meant to be destructive; it is also a testament to the type of man who can understand the REDPILL and allow it to change him for the BETTER. Becoming some angry, aimless playboy who’s only goal is to bang women is NOT the intended goal of RP. Only an actual loser sees that as the end result. Real men understand what RP is for and it’s NOT to bang chics. So while I get where this video is aiming, the title is not based in truth. There are tons of men who are RP who don’t hate women and by the way that’s a cheap excuse to dismiss the validity of RP. No different than claiming that you “hate gays” just because you disagree with their worldview🙄. In reality many of the men in RP are married with children. But the Internet wants to paint them all as basement dwelling masturbators who shoot up schools and hate women. That couldn’t be further from the truth. This is why the movement is so powerful because men from all demographics and walks of life could relate to the hardcore TRUTH of RP. So again only a real loser sees RP as something negative. The young boys who are misguided in the truth of RP are an entirely separate issue. They need help in different aspects of life but RP is not what’s destroying them.
@@scottanstine379 the hypergamy shit applies to maybe 3-5% of women. What you and the RP have to understand is that not all minds work the same. Of course you need to call them out on it if you catch them thinking like that. Doesn’t mean that you can just call it „the hypergamy of women“ just because there are a few rotten apples in the basket. Same as you and I both know that there is a certain percentage of men rotten to the core.
Yeah that’s because their both blue pill fruitcakes . And both of them like to watch their girlfriends get banged by other men. So of course they would be friends.
Ah yes, in a world where less and less people are getting married, more and more people are getting divorced, and more and more women are hitting their 40s without a husband or children. Yes, the passport bro is the last redpill.
It only took Sneako getting relentlessly cooked by the entire internet to make strides as a person but it seems like it worked. He was truly lost in the sauce but he's seen the light. The cooked has become the cook
I was part of the ultra-redpill movement but I understood that I was basically being a degenerate who is a rich playboy. Thanks to my parents I have found out that a real man is goal oriented but disciplined in every aspect of life, including relationships. I think this is why the self improvement movement is slowly trying to split away from the red pill movement
I think the self improvement movement needs to be more brick and mortar and less online. Lots of the controversy comes from bad actors grifting both sides for coins and likes.
@@MrJoeylj Your stupid comment reeks of jealousy and insecurity. Maybe he is rich. Some people are. If he's lying, then he is only hurting himself. If he's telling the truth, then good for him.
Watching Fake and Fit talk themselves into a corner, then tie themselves into a knot, then trip over themselves and fall on their faces is actually quite funny
Really digging these longer videos. Also this sounds like SNEAKO maturing as a person more than anything. Sometimes people need to experience mistakes to learn from them rather than learn from others.
Nah he just follows whatever daddy tate says. Let's not forget that he also recommends that we all let men run through our women in front of us. Taking anything he says seriously is a mistake. His character is as shallow as his integrity.
@@munky342you could say that for literally anyone who’s had a bad past and genuinely wanted to change then again it is pretty hard to tell with sneako pretty much meat riding tate
He got exposed as a fake alpha or whatever so of course he talks different now to stay relevant. 🤣🤣 It's not maturing he's just adapting. Sneako maturing that's a laugh.
I really appreciate that you guys are talking about this. I’m in my early 20s and I dated a guy who was very red pill and even tho he had a lot of values I did like he was also super hypocritical. He said it was ok if he cheated, if he has a high body count but didn’t want his girl to be like that. He was also always wanting to sleep with me on the first night we met and super persistent(I never let him) Thank God but I just realized all of those guys are just like feminists but on the other side. It’s so gross and sad, that so many boys look up to these men. That’s why my relationship with that guy didn’t work out, it could have if he was willing to be a real man with real values and not red pill values. I just needed to rant and I appreciate what you guys are doing. Thanks to Jesus I am healing and I am grateful for this video and that their is quality men who still support one man and one women relationships and real masculinity
same girl same... and the one i dated absolutely HATED when it wasn't his turn to talk or when he felt like i was "interrupting" even though conversations happen like that sometimes.. it was odd. he could interrupt me and cut me off whenever he got bored and i couldnt give him the same energy, and honestly i wouldnt want to reflect someone like that.
Oh my days, this is exactly what I thought after watching red pill and radical feminist videos.... Male and female versions of each other, but acting like the other is worse.
Preach’s tips about seeing a person drive (great one that isn’t highlighted often enough), how they treat service workers, how they are on a trip, literally building something together, ect are great advice. Thank you for those!
Hey could u elaborate abit about the driving bit? I was abit lost on that, in my mind it was “road rage?, see how impatient ur partner is when behind other cars, tailgating other cars, speeding in 30 km areas”.
@@moonknight4053 I felt like it did focus on possible road rage. But I wouldn’t be able to date a person who was purposefully reckless behind the wheel, texts and drives or is a distracted driver, drives drunk or under the influence, shoot even how they would respond hitting an animal on the road. 🫤
@@brib6046 Oh hell that’s what u and preach meant, lucky I don’t do any of that then ay. The odd text I will if I’m at a red light, or I’ll pull over to make a call or long paragraph. I accidentally ran over a duckling a few months back and I cried, I kinda hate driving due to shit like that. I hated myself for that ay, still do. I didn’t judge my driving properly that day
I'm the product of a father like the ones Fresh & Fit are promoting. My father had me at 24, my mum had me unplanned, my father told her he couldn't have children so she didnt use protection believing him. She knew I had to be born, so she kept me. My father, was barely around as a child, dated strippers only, spent all his time trying to be rich. He became rich by the time I was 15/16. Married a stripper who spends all his money. Our relationship is fractured as he didn't help my mum much at all financially or physically with me, he just cared about his money and women. I fully hold all of this against him. He's not changed much at 54. Those behaviours don't go away, they may calm down with age as he's more tired but he still cheats on his wife with strippers all the time. He still only cares about money. I don't believe these type of men, get to 40 and suddenly want to be different. It's too settled in their character by that point. Also, men my like father are highly belittling towards women. As their daughters you experience that sexism. You're not immune to it.
Also you are one hell of a human being for retaining your sanity after all of that. Your reflection shows you are wise and I hope you have a wonderful life because you deserve it!
So crazy how people aspire to be Hugh Hefner... especially after he died and all the girls came out of the woodwork talking about how much he disgusted them.
But yet those women all stood around anyway. They weren’t hostages. They could’ve left anytime they wanted, and they weren’t complaining while living the life. They’re hardly the victims they portray themselves as. Especially waiting until after his passing
I'm so grateful that I found your page. I really appreciate this post and the Pearl One because I've been saying for a year now all these people are psychopaths and losers who can't obtain women and don't have direction in their lives and overall just hate women. I'm so glad that the red pill is falling apart i will promote you all so much because more men need this type of conversation in their inner circle not the bulletin from fresh and bullshit those idiots who have never had experience
My dad was a womanizer, has 4 baby mamas and 5 kids. All of us grew up apart, abandoned, without him being present at all and that made my childhood and youth really miserable. I made sure to find a good man for myself, he was "pure" when we met and got married and he's the best dad and the best husband. He is patient, dedicated, respectful, fun and hardworking. He's a great man and never in a thousand lifetimes I'd ever thought I'd find someone like that. He's never been a playboy, he's never needed to try 50 "whores" to find a good wife. These red pillers always say that men don't bond with women like women do but that's a lie. It's true that women bond more emotionally when having sex but men have gone to war for the women they love. Redpill is shit and harmful for the community. I'm a Muslim revert and I understand everyone's perspective, including people that don't want to have families and be childless. I've been in both sides, religious and non religious, and I can empathise with both sides of the fence. I'd never impose myself or my beliefs on others but promiscuity is wrong and it destroys lives. Edit: Talking about my conversion to Islam in this context doesn't serve any purpose other than stating that even though I have more traditional values and I would advice everyone to have a family and faith, I also know the other side because I've been there and thought that way. I can talk from a non religious and a religious perspective, basically.
"Prepare for that this woman could be the mother of your children." Is pretty much how I chose my sexual partner for my first time, because I was extremely scared of getting a girl pregnant so I wanted to be with a woman that I would stand by and would want to stand by. Its a way I have tried to live my life when in relationships because its a real possibility and like you said you get to know people more outside of the bedroom.
@@IYeleven That as well was a concern and still is. Lol I got sore throat once that was just a seasonal flu symptoms, but I called someone I was seeing up that they might want to get themselves checked out, because we recently had been intimate and she told me she thought I probably just had a sore throat, but really appreciated that I would be responsible enough to notify her right away. I think what scares me the most is hearing from friends how people with STDs go around having sex without notifying the people. That actually terrifies me.
Yup and for women it's this could,be the father of your child. West isn't the only place that has the issue of youth not seeing sex in that manner nor the fact that if you have a kid, they are your responsibility not others and that there's a reason they say it takes a village to raise a kid.
"How would you know if you've never experienced it?" Foresight truly is dead. It's called being friends with them before dating them. That is where you get your experience of what women can be like without having to be romantically involved and avoid all the drama that comes along with that romantic attachment. Are people really not capable of taking information, behaviors, reactions and ques and using that information to be able to assess the qualities their date/partner has? Are we this unsocialized and dumbed down that we cannot recognize patterns by observing others interactions and applying them to our own by noticing similar traits? It's called critical analysis i.e. common sense.
Literally no. People under 20 have no experience of life without screens that fit in their pocket. They don't actually know how to talk to other humans half the time; let alone a boy/girl they're interested in. Common sense is not common, it's a taught/learned/acquired skill and it's not guaranteed that you will learn/be taught. Common sense _requires_ critical thinking, which is an even rarer acquired skill.
Logical observation helps you process so much without having to go through every bad experience to understand what's good for you or who's good for you. It's simple common sense. I really like your comment bro 🤝
Kind of wild seeing Tristan say he doesn’t want to be associated with people who advocate slavery and then he gets convicted for human trafficking like it isn’t the same thing.
Sneako is seeing the writing on the wall. He sees the downfall of Pearl. He got embarrassed in debates. Had his own breakdown. He's getting ahead of the fall of this genre.
@@bobithasmitherson The grift isn't ending because both sides dump on each other to create their communities. Saying the grift is ending is like saying our two political parties are going to stop shitting on each other. Never going to happen they will say what one group wants to hear and continue to make money by shitting on the other group. Also that tate clip is from "your moms house" and is almost 2 years old.
There's no "fall of this genre." With tinder, onlyfans, and other websites making it easy for women to get ran through or to sell themselves, and the nonstop simping, more and more women are going to end up alone and childless. While their biological clock runs out, all of those men who couldn't find a wife will be in their 40s/50s+ with money saved up to go find themselves a nice 20 year old wife from a third world country. The only ones losing this "battle" are the women who whored themselves out until they ran out of eggs.
My uncle who’s probably the most prominent father figure in my life (other than my 3 older brothers) is the man I respect the most (at 27 years old) for his sheer dedication and pride in his family. He’s what I look up to when raising my two young sons. My dad (the womaniser) walked so that Nick Cannon could run and only now wants to (mildly) invest in me now (as he’s getting older and inevitable more guilty). It is my uncle who is going to be walking me down the aisle next year. My dad thought he’d be the one to do it automatically. I laughed in his face.
Sadly, there's a good likelihood that the only he's mildly interested now is because he's getting on and knows he needs for you to care in order for him to have someone take care of him when he becomes infirm.
Preach's list of ways to see if a partner is a good match was so solid: 1. Watch who they are when they drive. 2. Put together IKEA furniture 3. Trip 4. Restaurant
As a parent married and with my family under one roof I want to say that I feel sorry for our young men who listen to these buffoons when it comes with these topics , they are completely detach from reality and none of them practice what they preach , no wife no family no kids , the way these guys talk about treating women is disgusting to say the least
@@pep-d7d but he was talking about men. Why rebuttal with "but women, but women" that's the issue. It's like some men can't take accountability, yet having to place blame somewhere else. There is a issue with women that needs to be talked about from the eyes of men. However, to combat what he's saying in order for you make your point isn't the way to change what happening. Look within yourself and heal that before pointing fingers. Stay on topic.
Marlon has never had a relationship! I have no idea why anyone would listen to any of these clowns on any topic aside from how to make money via a popular podcast being embarrassing. They are experts at that.
this whole thing is the reason why i've been telling women to go find a hobby or have interest, it'll help narrow down the low quality men. It's also another reason why it's important for men to form strong positive friendships where they hold themselves accountable.
It's true! I was on a 3rd date with a girl I thought had some potential to build with. She treated the waitress where we ate like something off the bottom of her shoe. She was disgusting. Needless to say, I didn't have to sleep with her to know that she wasn't suitable to build a family with.
Thank you for this. It’s honestly the worst feeling when a guy still sleeps with us even tho they didn’t see any potential in a future. They straight up lie!! That’s why I have been celibate from now when I go on dates. If I don’t do this I feel preyed on and used 😖
Good for you. Because what many guys don’t know. Sex is an energy transfer. She clearly has issues and that would’ve slowly shown up in your character too.
As a woman I’ll answer your question: if I found out a man was acting whatever way he acted to me because he wanted “leverage” over me, I would end the relationship. I’m looking for a partner, not a boss. Not a master.
Preach is 100% on take a trip together. A long trip and not a luxury trip. See how you guys handle hotel mistakes, car problems, bringing water and snacks. Navigating a new place… It shows you everything if you’re looking. Ive had at least 3 decent relationships ruined by long trips to new places. I also know that luxury, all inclusive places dont count.
If a man was acting a certain way to have leverage over me, I'd be out of there. That tells me it's all about control for him, and he will never be genuine and vulnerable with me.
@@foetusdeletus6313 feminists and red pillers have similar claims but different "facts".... For example.. both can claim there is institutional sexism against their gender. One of them have to prove their claim..
I think the big issue with the idea of “Being a player makes you a better family man” is this: being a player and sleeping with many women is a hedonistic, pleasure-oriented, self-centered mode of being. You’re thinking primarily of yourself and your own gain. On the other hand, being a good parent is exactly the reverse; you have to put aside your own wants to nurture and provide for your family. I think F&F are desperately trying to justify what’s ultimately a selfish and empty lifestyle.
Exactly. It's an attempt to put those who live that hedonistic lifestyle on a pedestal, call them "high-value" and still give them the happy ending by saying they'd be better fathers.
I just think it's really sad when some people think life is all about partying, f***ing, and making/spending money. I understand that may be all some people want... but hearing Aba talk about seeing his niece take her first steps, that's what life is about for me. To me personally, being able to see that and pursue that (family, community, enriching experiences) is what can make this life "rich" and worth living.
It's better than being a "savior" to some modern woman who in her 20s hook up and get dCk down by a bunch of "bad/fCk boy's" and realized that it doesn't fulfill her and then wants to settle down with a "nice guy".
Nothing in red pill stops you from doing that. Red pilled just means aware of female nature. Or from the female perspective aware of male nature. Not believing the "blue pill" lies like men and women are the same. You can have a healthy family and be red pilled, you could also be a womanizer and be blue pilled. What people do with the information is their choice. Its not even really supposed to be a "movement" its a philosophy
Eh, I don't care for either hedonism, "ultragrindset" at work or traditional family/community. Give me solitude and some more hours of sleep and I'm good.
Ah, Fresh and Fit, the true masters of selective wisdom. It's impressive how they've managed to transform their '50-women rule' into a virtuous quest, while keeping their judgment hats ready for women who dares to take a similar path. Truly a modern marvel of double standards!
I’ve noticed that even in cultures that are more traditional driven, there’s been more and more adults refusing to care for their elderly parents (more specifically their elderly fathers) because their fathers were: 1) never around for them 2) Had multiple families 3) Was either abusive or emotionally neglected them 4) treating their mothers very poorly. 5) Alcoholics In the past for a lot of cultures it didn’t matter how badly parents treated their children, at the end of the day it was always expected of their children to take care of them when their old regardless of what they had done. Im glad more and more people are growing out of that idea.
Lol my parents were trash to me. My youth fucking sucked so bad. They fed me and clothed me and housed me. I can pay THAT back either I like it or not. I know they didn't like doing it for me
It’s also partly due to demographics, most countries even a lot of developing countries now have demographics in which there are more elderly then their are kids. Most couples can’t take care of 4 grandparents and their children, it’s why In a-lot of Asian confucian societies even if they are more traditional compared to the west their birth rates have been suppressed. It was easy to take care of 1 grandparent back in the 50’s because most people didn’t live that long😊, now it’s system that doesn’t work for most.
I think both are true. Young people neglect the elderly for superficial reasons but also because they sometimes don’t deserve the attention. I think that as someone who spends a lot of time with the elderly young people need to learn to appreciate those who came before.
Only in the West. Most part of the world (most of the time) see elderly in high regard. And see as a moral and religious duty to take care of them, and not as a burden
I'm loving it. I was red pill for a moment, but it felt like it was the male version of feminism. So I let that ideology go, and now I'm glad to see these influencers change their perspectives. U don't have to degrade women to predominate urself as a man of value. Just vet through and find a partner that has similar understandings and values as u and build off of that
Bingo. It's a lot contradiction. Rp can be good for knowing truthful facts about women and our society but this energy towards all women or bs from "leaders" is cringe and truly stupid to the core. It's content algo game. Lonely men getting played for course fix your life lies annoying AF. You can be rp ie being waking up to the injustices men face and rp on society lies told to men masked as advice and not go to the extreme. Rp got bump from algo boost but it will never die because men will always be waking up to the lie society and old school traditional gentlemen lies told to men for 5 decades.
It’s sad I used to actually watch his videos when he’d just talk about life and shit. Hopefully he drops this persona and goes back to what he used to do.
Sneako had a whole character arc before our eyes lol
Pre SneakoREBORN? He waking up now, follow GOD
was it really though, after seeing tate in the 1 minute, this just kinda feels like getting out before it gets worse
This isn't sneako. This is just reverse sneako... From a better time line
Charlie humbled his ass for sure
only on youtube fam
Sneako going from shouting incoherently at a camera to using complete sentences to calmly win a debate is like watching a man have a stroke in reverse.
Dwllllllll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes true but honestly I love to see the growth
Sneako is a convert to Islam who supports child marriage. He is a messy man who has a cunning nature
😂😂😂😂 Guide on how to sleep with 100 girls...
Redpill dumbs men down.
He's back on his meds
As someone in their 40's who led a playboy lifestyle for far too many years, I'll tell you this...sleeping with many many women did not help me in understanding what a good woman is. It led me to having good women and then letting them go to continue on with my fuckery. I look at my past and realize that I missed out on a good life with a good wife and now I get to run into these women and meet their lucky husbands. Be better, men. Don't listen to these red pill salesmen.
@@thedust850 he's talking about the 30% that don't. The good women 😂
@@thedust850 choosing 100% chance of being single and lonely or 30% chance of a successful and happy marriage does not fall under “pick your poison”. speak for yourself, plenty of men are willing to take the risk for a chance of a happy and successful marriage
@@thedust850I think you missed the point entirely
@@n1rvana_ I think you are being sarcastic lol. With the other 30% about 15% want to leave but its cheaper to keep her. Both are miserable.
The truth is marriage with kids suck. Usually the kids are the only thing keeping you in the marriage. The kids may or may not grow up to be good people.
Being a player sucks. It has amazing moments of hedonism and peace but its ultimately lonely.
Like Chris Rock said we have only two choices "married and miserable or lonely and single". Pick one.
@@thedust850 just get a prenup
As a woman, I do not understand why other women voluntarily place themselves in that environment just to be berated by men with unfillable voids. Their body language shows they're trying to make themselves small and swallowable to these men and it's frankly disturbing. I'm glad Sneako is showing some change, however these women need to stop contributing to this rhetoric and being their Barbie dolls. It starts with them too.
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I assumed they were being paid but apparently they’re not? It’s just so hard for me to believe anyone would willingly do that with literally nothing to gain
They were being paid to listen to these dumbasses talk about red pills. Why do you think some IG models go to Dubai to have sex with some Arab prince's underage cousins, camels, and horses? Well, they get paid.
@@blazaybla22 promotion. they're either doing OF or some form of social media. i bet if you go to these videos there would be somewhere where their tag is in description or somewhere else
What rhetoric? Red pill is filled with nothing but facts and statistics
My father was a cheater, slept around with a lot of women was never faithful to my mom. He was the worst father out there, because not only did he not take care of his children he had with his wife he didn't care of his children he had outside of his marriage. On top of that he was very narcisitic and psychotic as he thought he was god's gift to women. Yet he had no self control, was highly abusive, violent, controlling, and addicted to gambling. Men like that who have no self control, no discipline, only make excuses for their behavior. They never reflect on their own actions and faults, which is what fresh and fit remind me of. They never reflect on their own inadequacy, insecurity, and faults. Than have the nerve to have family with impressionable minds so they can raise little cheater with domestic violence 2.0.
Willing to bet he never wanted kids
@@ravemachin bruh…it was his choice to engage with the woman he had kids with. So even if you assumption is true (which you don’t know), he needs to take responsibility for that.
They're also women like this
@@ravemachin You'd lose that bet as he wanted kids from my mother and they kept trying for a boy. Wanting kids and want to be responsible for kids is two different things. Also even if you have kids or don't want them but do nothing to prevent them, you still have a responsibility to raise those kids.
@@Roguenight863 sounds like the dude's mom sure picked a winner...
Playing the smallest violin the world right now. If you date playboys then don't be surprised when they play with you... easy enough to understand for a semi intelligent person.
Promiscuity hurts both men and women, thank god people are taking this sentiment more seriously as time goes on. People are more lonely than ever and these ideologies keep us lonely and messes up the next generation.
So true. Sex ain't love and isn't a substitute for love.
The abandonment of logic and God has and will pave the way to destruction as evidenced by human history.
There is no escape if we devalue the intrinsically valuable.
Nope, you're saying men and women are the same, we are not. S*x is completely different for men and women.
I’m glad you mentioned it I think we been infiltrated with this alpha beta talk red pill blue pill and now it’s focused on community cause people are more lonely then ever
@@Seeker7257 We don't need god. That only makes things worse for most people.
I was raised by my grandfather. He was a family oriented man who always made sure his family was okay. On his birthday, he would always wish “wellness for everyone.” He was such an amazing father. I was very lucky, because my biological dad was a turd. When I see a lot of these “red pill dudes” who sought out toxic male figures, it makes me think that they never got to get what I did, which was an amazing father figure to step in and raise you/show you the way. My grandpa recently passed away, I’m now 23. It sucks to lose your father young. But I’m happy I got 23 years with him, because those 23 years will affect me for the rest of my life. He showed me the meaning of life.
Stay strong man and may he rest in peace and as we say in my country may he witness the light
Your grandfather sounds like he had great family values and morals. Unfortunately for women feminist has killed anything that has to do with family values or morals, and they have made today's men act more like women than women themselves. This is why "red pilled" men have started to get more traction. We are tired of feminist, the letter community, and feeling like males are second-rate humans. Men would rather be single than miserable with today's women, mainly Western women.
Yup, the redpill ecosystem is basically oozing a lack of proper father figures.
The only people who fall for the con men are those that don't know what the real deal looks like.
May your grandfather rest in peace, he clearly did right by you.
Eternal be his memory. I’m glad you had someone like that in your life. I noticed the same thing. It seems like a lot of these red pill dudes didn’t have a good male role model in their life and now their perception of masculinity is twisted.
just read this as i got news about an uncle of mine who is like a father to me in the hospital for stroke… literally had a breakdown in the car ride home from work.. lost my grandfather too in 2011 and these two men have been the only father figures in my life growing up with a single mother. i can’t lose my uncle
back to the point; high value man is not a fucking playboy with a black card and a vasectomy- a high value man is a man the world cannot/shouldn’t lose, HVM is someone who lives and learns but also has the patience to teach and take care of, whatever and whomever, simply because it needs to be done. no ifs ands or buts.
I believe a high value man is not someone who is rich like a millionaire but someone who has principle and character, can sustain himself and provide for his family, stays loyal to his wife, is a stoic, a father figure, and a good role model for others.
True my friend!
Agreed
Absolutely! Otherwise, high value men would be Musk, Bezos or Gates, which ugh they are not. A lot of money means nothing. Sure, there are people, men and women, who go after money, but honestly, they are in minority and they are usually quite honest and open about it.
Yes! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
That’s it ? Lol
As someone who married the first girl I dated, Aba and Preach are right. you don't need to mess around to find a wife. Still happily married 11 years in.
Don't sell men hopium just because you found your 'unicorn' (assuming you're even getting what you need)
The numbers don't add up, best not to sell false hope
Same with me. 18 years and still happy.
@@DTreatz Because there are men who know how to behave like good partners. Unlike the majority.
Eveey man that's been dumped is because he wasn't a good enough partner?
@@saltycat662 well said. A lot of times that is the issue. But @wtfdtreats no such thing as a unicorn. Marriage can be hard work. Men also don’t know what to look for sometimes and how to look.
Fresh attempting to form a thought is always my favorite part of this show, like i can almost see the steam coming off of him from the gears working overtime
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I honestly can't believe people view FandF for anything other than the Jerry Springer like entertainment value. I listened to Tom Leykis, never took his advice though lol.
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I cringe every time he talks and I like the guy a lot 😂😂😂
"Tink 'bout dis"
I work in a nursing home. I see the end of the road. I see the players and I see the true fathers. The players are just...existing. No one visits, no one spends time with them, no one cares. We take care of them the best we can, but there is nothing we can really do about their monumental depression. And when they die, they do so clawing at the bed in terror. Terror of a life wasted is my best guess. The fathers I see have kids come visit every week. Some every day. Their grandkids come to see them. They are told "I love you" all the time. When they die, they tend to be surrounded by their kids and go so much more peacefully. Usually what I've seen is they stare at the faces of each of their children one at a time for a long time. No words, just looking. Looking at them in the way only a parent can. I can't explain it, but its a good bye and I'll be waiting for you all at once. Its heart breaking and heart warming all at once. But more than anything, its peaceful.
Damn, that's the scary side of of life. We all get old and die eventually.
Your comment is so important for people to hear. And you are not the first person I've heard say this. Narcissism leads to a road of loneliness and misery. You'll have years of isolation to think about how you treated people all those years...
I wish I could favorite comments. this is beautiful.
@@Lachronix screenshot it and share it whenever you can. This is golden advice for people
Beautiful message, but I couldn't help chuckling when I realized it was posted by Necroticus. Seems to hit the nail on the head a little _too_ well!
My father was one of these Stray Dog Men, kids with different women and all us kids hated him and never wanted him around and then he ended up dying all alone, with no achievements or contributions. I guess that’s the life all these Red Pill guys want.
Thats what I always wondered. I can't imagine kids from an uncontrollable father would ever see him in a good light!
Not all. Some of us see the hypocrisy and choose to be sexually disciplined while we build ourselves up, rather than follow the advice of a grifter like Rollo Tomassi.
@@soaringeagle9597 but are you really red pill then? The term is associated to these exact type of men. Its the feminist equivalent for men, some might be reasonable but the vast majority is tarnishing the name
@Aryzo I don't consider myself "red pill" despite agreeing with some of the ideas they put forth. I agree with the idea that men should work hard to build themselves up to become the best they can be. The RP teachings that encourage men to be lying, cheating scumbags and to sleep with hundreds of women, I don't agree with.
hated him? i dont understand, my father could die tomorrow a man I have seen like twice in my life, and I would care less, but hate the man?
“Generally most men can’t control their urges”
This is such a projection
Exactly. We aren't literal DOGS. We built skyscrapers....saying you can't control your urges makes you sound like you have literal mental handicaps.
they are the same people who openly say they see no point in giving the women they are with orgasms
its literally an insult.
Fr, like don't be down playing all the self improvement I've made all my years because you don't have anything to show for yours. They don't gotta drag down all men just because they fell short as a man themselves.
@@adorali727 As a woman, I don't know how men DON'T see this as an insult. What makes men so different then animals then? It's hard to imagine a self respecting man accepting something like this.
As the child of a playboy...I'm damaged. I have immense trust issues because of my father. I eventually got married, but my insecurities have not subsided, it's a constant battle. I always thought of it this way, if my own father, flesh and blood couldn't be faithful and be around for his kids, what's keeping anyone else from doing the same.
grow up and realize not all men are the same
Why the heck did you get married with all that baggage? I never understand why people do this, but you do you, I guess.
@Claude Von Riegan's Biggest Simp because you grow up and realize literally everyone has baggage. You can work on it while you're still married. The two aren't mutually exclusive. If you find the right person who's willing to support you and you support them, whats the issue?
@srta. Munoz look up attachment styles! It will speed up your healing!
@@nadiasaurusrex Point.
My dad was a shitty husband/partner. Got my mom pregnant with me, left her and got married and had a whole family. Largely ignored me my whole life. Then he had an affair with another woman. Divorced his wife and married the other woman and had a kid, presumably the love child of the affair. Being a womanizer is just another form of selfishness that leaves a lot of destruction in its wake.
My ex’s dad was like that. One time he said, ‘what litter is that from?’ & laughed when asked about one of his kids. Also, my ex is super unstable because of him (& several other things) which is why she is my ex. She cheated & claimed she needed ‘obstacles’. 🤷♂️🫡
comes with the territory. Your father definitely learned some unforgiving hush truths abt women that he chose a different path for himself. it's sad though
@@mafamac4069 Okay but what does their relationship have to do with being a father, he still needs to take care of his kid, married or not
@@mafamac4069 ah is that why you chose to be gay?
Cheaters cheat. That's the fatal flaw when you get it on with a cheater. If you think you'll be their one, you're in for a shock.
I tried to turn a fboy into a husband. Let him be "the man, the alpha, etc." I was faithful and traditional. He cheated on me with a single mother, the money I needed for his actual kids was given to a sidepiece to live better and for a child from another man to have everything he needed. He met her at a bar, he treated me like a 304 and his kids like step children. When I got solid proof after he beat me infront of our kids for taking money for gas to pick them up from school and to get diapers. I found out everything. Left him for my mental health and to heal OUR children. He married her because she needed papers and uses our kids to tell me all the material things he's got w her....Its not HIS fault, its and always will be MY fault for leaving 2 careers I worked hard for to give a fboy a chance to be a husband/father/man. Women have to stop thinking they can change a man and start believing the only one that changes is the woman. After a man gets used to 304's he will always have that gravitational pull to them and only them. These Jezebels exist and love don't pay the bills, child care or diapers.
You didn’t deserve this I’m sorry hun ❤
Dn't blame the woman, he made the vow. I'm sorry that he was so toxic. Thank God you're safe.
A man can change, but only if HE wants to. I'm sorry you experienced that, no one deserves that.
Women out here trying to play beast Tamers like its Pokemon
@@Aryzo True insanity
When I turned 25 it hit me that a lot of my goals were just social expectations (going to college, having a desk job career, getting women) and I decided that I’m living my life for my self. I stopped seeing the gym as a way to become desirable for women and instead see it as something to become a better me from yesterday. I also realised im more of an extrovert than I thought haha
Good for you my brother, keep on keeping on
Sounds gay
W, my brother. We gonna make it!
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I went through some similar revelations. Men learn to live life with self love it’s liberating 🙏🏾❤️
I remember when my father-in-law died a couple years ago and my husband's reaction to it: ice cold. Not a single tear was shed for that man and for good reason. He constantly stole and cheated on his wife (we are still finding random half-siblings), stole from his kids for booze money a bunch of other horrible things I won't mention here. If your family's lives are better with you gone, you haven't earned the right to be called a father (or mother).
Ain’t that the truth
Damn, neither would I
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Yo …. This‼️‼️
Best example ever
Getting a vasectomy so you can sleep around is a big red flag for me. When I was looking for a spouse, I was paying attention to not just men's actions but also their ongoing attitudes towards women, relationships, sex, dating, and kids. I wanted someone who's entire perspective matched mine in the sense of putting family first, wanting to build a family, and being committed long term to staying together and solving problems. I would never consider dating men with the attitudes that Fresh & Fit promote. And guess what... I got a man that has the priorities and attitudes I wanted. We can build wealth and health together. You can't make someone build commitment.
AMEN 🙏🏾
What a disrespect to your own body and divine creation too like damn either wear a condom or practice some self control don't get a surgery to be a man ho
Depopulation agenda
And the losers who follow them are still single
Everyone that i know that got a vasectomy did so after their kids were grown and they didn't want slipups. In fairness most are police so they didn't want side baby on their wives. Lol
Is Sneako, like, improving from a dumb idiot to an actual person? Damn, that's so good. I mean, there are people who don't even self reflect but him actively putting himself in situations that forces growth of mindset and eventually accepting that growth is very wholesome to see.
Tbf had you seen the first videos from sneako? They are really clever and at the time they made me question a lot of stuff, that's sad knowing how he's now
I hope you dont mind my curiosity as i enjoy guessing, are you from the UK?
fast forward to a year later, and Sneako is back to being his usual brain-dead self again
Former Family Law attorney here. The amount of dudes I have had come to talk to me about their divorces and custody of their kids that are former players is insane. I had a younger family member who was advised by an older "player" in our family when he was younger. This young family member has been in 2 relationships over the past few years and has struggled being faithful, to behave like a good boyfriend or husband. He dearly loved the women he was in these relationships with, but that player shit is habit forming and he had a hard time breaking it. You can't just flip a switch and turn it off. Even when you do the temptation is still there. There are women from your past that text and contact you through social media as a temptation. We often talk about the effect not having a father or stable home life has on women and men. One of the reasons that matters is because as a child or young person you are introduced to concepts and behaviors that will become the foundation of your character, behavior, and psyche for the rest of your life. They will inform how you view relationships and/or the opposite sex even when you are not conscience of it. It's insanely hard to change those things the older you are. So starting out young listening to red pill players that use and treat women like garbage, that only care about material wealth and sleeping with random women, and have unresolved anger issues sets that template for the rest of your life. In some ways just as bad as an alcoholic father/mother or absentee dad. Back when people called this the PUA (Pickup Artist Community) I knew guys that took this advice in their early 20s and they have struggled tremendously.
I also think women increasingly being hesitant to date men is a result of this - it seems to be leading to men being unable to find relationships and stewing in frustration over it.
He can't dearly love her if he's sleeping around. Sleeping around isn't just a habit that fills the ego but it's also the reason that men can't connect emotionally with one woman and to actually love her.
This is something that is a fact for men too but they don't want to accept it. Which is funny because the redpill is allegedly reality/logic/reasoning.
@@sofistacy4176 at leats they have half the truth unlike many progressives
This is exactly true. That dude going on about "you need to sleep with 50 women before you settle down" Once you've slept with that many women, I don't think you'll automatically value any one woman, because you've gotten used to how replaceable they are.
Especially for men, who can keep pulling women well into old age, that habit isn't just going to magically disappear if they're used to sleeping with everyone.
@@marvin2678 Redpillers and bluepillers have the least of the truth.
Andrew: "Yeah, going out of your way to get women under your control is cringe."
Anakin: _"Hold on,_ this whole operation was _your_ idea!"
He never said to control women.
@@davidtube6582 Yes he fucking did. "Program your woman to be okay that you'll cheat on her"? Stop defending that misogynistic clown, simp. Grow your own brain.
@@davidtube6582 Ohh yes he did lmao
@@davidtube6582 he literally gives tips on how to manipulate women all the time
@@chickennugger6029 Where?
Sneako is absolutely right. What is the point of being a “high value man” if you aren’t going to pass it on to the next generation? The most masculine thing you can be in this world is a good father.
The whole point of RP is to wake men up to the truth of hypergamy and female nature. THATS IT. Not to use and abuse women. Some women deserve to be called out and put in their place for using men but so do men who use GOOD women. This ideology was never meant to be destructive; it is also a testament to the type of man who can understand the REDPILL and allow it to change him for the BETTER. Becoming some angry, aimless playboy who’s only goal is to bang women is NOT the intended goal of RP. Only an actual loser sees that as the end result. Real men understand what RP is for and it’s NOT to bang chics.
So while I get where this video is aiming, the title is not based in truth. There are tons of men who are RP who don’t hate women and by the way that’s a cheap excuse to dismiss the validity of RP. No different than claiming that you “hate gays” just because you disagree with their worldview🙄. In reality many of the men in RP are married with children. But the Internet wants to paint them all as basement dwelling masturbators who shoot up schools and hate women. That couldn’t be further from the truth. This is why the movement is so powerful because men from all demographics and walks of life could relate to the hardcore TRUTH of RP. So again only a real loser sees RP as something negative. The young boys who are misguided in the truth of RP are an entirely separate issue. They need help in different aspects of life but RP is not what’s destroying them.
@@scottanstine379 damn bro I didn’t know I was gonna get a whole ass publication out of you
@@MattWaller04 You mean most simp thing gonna do to be your woman's slave lmao
👏 answers inside of you all along 😊
This is what I’ve been telling people.
10 months later and Aba and Preach inviting the baby mamma🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't
Aba trying to get the baby named ABA PREACH DAISY 😂😂
I would like to give a medal to whoever smacked some sense into Sneako.
He became a muslim.
@@ahmedabdal9678 alhamdulillah brother. I just hope he's not one of those McMuslims who pick and choose.
Himself. He grew by a person as himself, I've done a lot of stupid shit, made lots of terrible mistakes and learnt from them, and I think sneako is learning from his own mistakes too.
@@ahmedabdal9678 and supports a prophet who banged a 9 yo child at 54.
GOD DID. HE IS MUSLIM NOW
hearing sneako make sense in a lot of his points and actually challenge his own previous ideals feels like a fever dream
Right it’s fascinating to see this 180
Like, I'm waiting for him to go psyche!! I'm still an idiot
@@Goat55786 is it safe to say that he did all of that "screaming man tate dick riding red pill" shtick on stream just for views and money?
@@Goat55786- It’s not really a 180 it’s more so of a 360. He’s reverting back to who he used to be before all this redpill bs. I literally went through that same metamorphosis 😭
@@tiktokatnight7364 which is why you shouldnt really mess with sneako, not saying he was wrong at any point, but he seems to say things at the most convient of times.
18:43 This was my thought process since high school. I ALWAYS thought if "I can't take you home to meet my family and I can't raise a kid with you if an "accident" happens don't risk it." NEVER had a pregnancy scare and I had my kids with the man I knew would be a great father and I intend to spend the rest of my life with.
Wise lady 💞
More should be like that, it really isn't respectable in any shape form or way to just be a hoe and have a bunch of kids and blame men for it.
"Intended." Sounds like something happened.
Aba face said it all 😂😂
That's what my uncle taught all the boys in the family. Sex is great but if you can't stand the idea of being a part of that person's life, for the rest of your life, reconsider having sex with em and at least use protection.
When *Sneako* is the wisest voice in the room, you know it's a room of idiots😂
😂😂😂if you didn’t know they were idiots then , you know they are idiots now
I've been saying for almost 2 years, that these 2 dudes are ruinning families and young men minds... They spend too munch time debating and yelling at 20 something young women, that they can't debate real men outside their studio. And their favorite sport is insulting and mocking black women. This is disgusting at any level !
It's just entertainment fam
Sad
They're psy ops sent by the CIA to destroy the foundational black American
@@Oh_So_Based Imagine if these young men follow their advice about "vasectomy"... ?!? This is not only entertainment. Words have wieght. I agree with Sneako who use t obe a hot red pill head... now he is maturing... Good !
They insult all women, not just black women.
Why there is always one emphasizing “black injustice” when we can see that he is insulting all of them… white, latina, black, asian…
Never thought I would be siding with Sneako after his last meltdown. Good for him for actually being a rational dude.
It’s a grift. He’s done getting his fame from being ridiculous on the internet so now when he changes he can become the good guy
@@coolguy-qu2su yeah, what i learn from logan paul is that redemption arcs mostly happens in fiction
Idk. Not long ago he was wielding a pistol while streaming like a lunatic.
People can change quick once the veil is lifted and they realise their error. A humbling experience, growing in faith and committing to God for instance can have drastic changes.
We have to encourage change be it someone like sneako or an ex crim. Self growth and learning from our past mistakes is what it's about and it's good to see.
If you look at his response to the shit he said he is perfectly rational. He said he did it for attention, and it was his "online persona" Any attention is good attention if you want views.
Sneako in his 20s, it’s not strange that he’s still finding out exactly who he wants to be. Especially as a young man with money.
Being young with money, time, and popularity can be really toxic
@@aubreysong Yh but when you have the money problem out the way you have a lot more time to figure out who you are.
Yes but he’s putting his advice out to others which is the danger
He’s the only one who I cut slack for things he’s said because of that. He’s still young and still forming his ideals
20s.not very young tbh that grown as man bro
I like that my husband never gave his body away to meaningless interactions. We have a strong bond and I respect him so much.
Mine too. We kept ourselves for each other. So much respect for him.
Genuinely impressed with Sneako. Good on him for finally seeing the double standards and pointing them out
@Queen Bey while that is true you should always give credit were it due
@Queen Bey so are you saying that a clock cannot be repaired?
He found Islam
I'm gonna quote another person: Sneako is drifting and grifting the other way. he goes where the money smells
@@jaylee7165 that's just describing most of the current RP community/creators
Before i got married getting and having sex with multiple women was fun bc it filled my ego. I felt like i was wanted or I was a bigger man for my actions. Then i met the woman that became my wife and I realized i truly was wasting my time by putting all this effort and money into different women daily. Being married isnt for everyone, but the same can be said for being a bachelor. Hearing my wife and kids tell me they love me and loving them back is a joy that sex with random women could nvr fulfill.
Good for you!
One of my family member also said the same thing. He also said it just like collecting garbages, it doesn't how much you collect, it still a garbage. Collecting hundred or thousand piles of garbage relationship is not something you can be proud of.
While a piece gold, no matter how tiny it is, it's still a gold, you couldn't even compare gold with garbage. Gold is rare, but garbage is everywhere.
Congrats, you found a gold.
You said it well
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Amazing testimony
I met my wife after being with 2 other women. We've now been together for 14 years, have 2 sons, 2 cars, and are paying off our house and still living decently comfortably before we've hit 40. It was a result of working hard together and doing everything we could to get to where we are. So when I hear those guys talking about "you need to be with 50 women to know a good woman" all I hear are sad boy excuses from con-men. Learn to appreciate what you got and be ready to work on your goals, yourself, and each other. Also realize there is no one way to handle everyone's life. We all have our own path and it's up to you to pave it to the best of your abilities.
100%. Dual income helps increase value really quickly.
How old were you when you met her??
I'm confused at what people are calling redpill. I thought it was the opposite of bluepill, so you are doing things for yourself instead of to impress women. You don't have to believe in sleeping with 50 women to be redpill.
@Callum Fisher I met her at 20. I'm 34 now.
My problem is most people can only survive on 2 incomes, i wish it was made easier to live on one for those who don't want to be in a committed relationship.
"When you are playboy you gonna be better at raising a family" 🤣 I didn't know they were capable of telling jokes
Finally people are saying it. The women they see as the “good ones” do not want them and their problems. A guy said that I was a good woman compared to other woman and etc simply because I have only one partner who I am currently with. Then he tells me about his escapades and baby mama drama, only to ask if I was interested in ditching my man to be with a “high value” man like him because he has hundreds of thousands of dollars in investments. You mean the hundreds of thousands that’s supposed to be taking care all 6 of them kids and the one on the way. Hell nah😂, I will stick with my fiancé with no kids who makes under $100,000 thank you. We’ll work it out😂😂😂.
So if he had no kids nor baby mamas you would have considered his proposal??
That's what it sounds like.
I thought u would have told him flat out you're in a serious committed relationship nd refused him. You've just proven the red pillers right😅😅
@@kingkevin442 You are projecting. That is not implied at all.
Right. These dudes that refer to themselves as “red pill” don’t understand that women who’s lives actually exhibit righteousness and want to be wives do not want promiscuity and don’t care about how much money they make. I told men before, I will marry a man making 30k a year over a man making over 100k a year if his life was one of a righteous man. How do you want to be a husband and a father but you can’t discipline yourself enough to control your sexual urges?
@@NoName-ug7rm Not really. The "high value" man brought up his money as an argument as to why she should drop her man and be with him. Instead of telling him she's in a relationship and she loves her man, she proceeded to tell him how doing that is not a good idea for her, because he doesn't seem to properly manage all the money that he has and there won't be much left for her (he has 6 kids, etc.), so her current fiance who makes less money would be a better option in the long run.
You may say it was just her joking and playing along, but I know how I would feel about my woman even entertaining such conversation with other men at all.
@@Bl2EAKIN I think she used that to debunk him calling himself “high value”. This example right here shows that you don’t have to have a lot of money to be considered a high value man. High value is determined by what type of life you live, not how much money you make.
It's like we're finally watching logic and common sense infiltrate their community as it begins to implode on itself. It's beautiful to watch
Not really I think it’ll make it better and expand. Because red pill is about truth not a certain way of living. there was always logic and common sense in the red pill but a lot of the information is just unorganized I realized early on in the red pill space some advice was applicable and useful and some advice was not. I think that for a long time a lot of fan boyism and red pill rage was going on causing certain information to go on unchallenged. I think that the red pill needs more of these deep conversations
@@regalcatnetwork8068 i see ur picture and I get why u r there. But pls run away. U r not a „high value man“ u‘ll probably never become one bc right now u r the sheep and red pill is the wolve
@@regalcatnetwork8068 There was never any logic or common sense there if it is unorganised it can't be logical.
@@Ayommari That's false... Redpill teaches men that women dont want broke, fat, unmotivated, feminine men... thats logical... thats facts and it will never change
@@Ayommari maybe you just didn’t pay attention. because there is logic and common sense. The red pill taught that marriage is against men and will destroy a man. Red pill taught there are forces beyond us making our lives a living hell, the red pill did teach us to make do with what we have. The red pill taught a lot of things that people never looked at before. And it is foolish to say that there was never any logic and common sense. People who disagreed with the red pill more than likely were uncomfortable with the truths that red pill told and never wanted change in society. The red pill made more sense despite its flaws than 90% of society. People shit on the red pill because they want to stay in comfort and want foolishness to flourish in society. Sure there are a few bad eggs in the red pill community, but let’s not act as if the red pill didn’t help at all. Red pill taught critical thinking, red pill taught to seek truth, red pill is common sense, The red pill is reality as it happens. Hell Abba and preaches wouldn’t even exist or or have as many subscribers as it does if it wasn’t for the red pill. Because we wouldn’t be having these conversations without it. It’s not red pills fault it’s full of grifters and morons that are trying to make it a thing like religion. The red pill is to see the truth nothing more, nothing less. To challenge beliefs and ideas is red pill.
As the daughter of an abusive womanizer, "playboy", etc. he has done more damage to me than anyone/thing in my entire life. In every aspect.
nobdy cares
@@satnamathwal1467 is that what your mummy told you?
So sorry for that Jesspie
@@carloslebron2226 simp hahahaha
@@satnamathwal1467 says the little boy that still lives with the same mummy that emasculated him. 🤣🤣🤣 How is still being a virgin in your 40s going? Remember, if you don't use it you loose it. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm female, and a virgin. I refuse to even touch a guy who has been with more than 3 girls.
You're pure and you deserve purity sister.
That's pretty silly. Just don't-ask-don't-tell and go by personality, intergirty and how they make you feel ...
Same, 23 years old virgin her. I’d rather die alone.
Same for me
@@IsaacLungu no. bcz men dont do this for women. men can say that wont even touch a girl whose had more than 3 bodies and its fine but when a woman says it she not supposed to worry about that? please
While I was in red pill mode I would often ask why these guys keep trying to get with and talking to the same type of women they be telling us to avoid. It was always mad weird to me
Looks like a self fulfilling prophecy to me
red pill isnt about women , these people like fresh and fit are PUA's. not red pill.
I have said the exact same thing, they hate the hoes but also want to have as much casual sex with the hoes as they possibly can. Makes no sense.
Ez pussy LOL
Cause they're hypocrites lol
Other ways to get to know a woman outside of sex:
1. See how she reacts to hearing/seeing you sick.
2. See how she behaves when a problem comes up (does she complain about it or does she support you in fixing it).
3. Just let her talk for long enough. If there's something you won't like, it'll come out.
4. Watch how she interacts with her family.
5. Pay attention
How good is she at managing finances & her emotions, especially, anger. Is she forgiving or revengeful?
Just a point about 2. See if she starts *nagging* you specifically when a problem comes up. If she is just complaining about the problem, like venting her frustration, without targeting you, that's probably OK.
See how she treats animals and pets!
Great points
First time I met my lady in person, she was coming over to bring me meds when I had a bad cold - and "nurse me" as she says. She checked one of those boxes off day 1 lol
I'm 46 now; i looked into getting a vasectomy in my 20s and none of the doctors i spoke too were willing to perform the procedure on a childless man in his 20s.
Same thing as women. I just learned something.
i lied to get one at 21
I had no idea men go through this too!
Just tell them ur trans and ur solid
I had no clue men were denied access to vasectomies. Definitely changes my view on that subject.
Lmao Preach said “that was the young him”
Aba “That was 9 months ago.”
*Silence* Lmao 😂
Deceased 😂😂😂
As the daughter of a womanizer it sucks because I don't trust my father to vet men properly. The only guy he approved of was an abusive, womanizing felon😂 I avoid him bc he spent his life making single moms instead of building wealth or a strong family. None of my siblings speak to him now.
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[They are states of mind, and both can be switched at a given notice; depending what a situation requires. A person's neuro-personality is what determines one's alignment to either masculinity or feminity, e.g. XNTJ is a 'largely' masculine neuro-personality type/brain-formation. INFJ is odd; the gender-focus (masculinity/feminity dynamics) is in reverse, depending on the gender and yet it is still [consciously] malleable (depending on the individual and the current situation; mirroring/personality adaptation can aid one to better adapt to a given situation with success, i.e. with little needles resistance).
Evolutionarily speaking, the psychological dynamics of feminity-masculinity aids individual units (within the human colony) to better organise themselves within a 'team-structure', i.e. between support and leader (support-feminity[not mindless obedience, do not confuse the two or suffer geuine narcissit-abuse or borderline... masculinity-leadership or duty-bound. Both 'gendered-role' require intelligence and responsibility; gained/acquired experience and 'humanity for the group').
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At the core of 'femininity' (its essence) is "support". 'Masculinity' is to be "goal-driven" and "dutiful" (both necessitates intelligence and the absence of NPD; otherwise deranged animosity and cruelty is inevitable-both are counterproductive to 'teamwork/dualism/ying-Yang/feminity-masculinity'). This is the ying and Yang that makes the 'team work in harmony'. Feminity-masculinity psychological dynamics is needed to make a team of both genders, evolutionarily speaking (pertaining to the purpose of that psychological feature, i.e. feminity-masculinity).
To be "supportive"/feminity one must be a cautious team-player. To be supportive does not excuse or imply "lacking a will of your own" (the INFP neuro-psychology/brain-formation is ideal for a supportive-role. INFJ brain-formation can freely alternate between both gendered-role, more so than any other). "Acting girly" is just an 'act'- a deceitful one. On masculinity, being overly [irrationally] aggressive, hypersensitive/insensitive (like a robot) is a [possible] sign of a mental disorder - it is toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is irrational animosity (thinking and behaving like a volatile neanderthal) and it destroys sustained teamwork. Narcissitic-personality disorder is the bane of 'humanity'/harmonic-symbiosis (in every context).
Positive masculinity requires one to be intelligent/rational (not having a pathological disregard for rationality and reality), and to have sufficient levels of 'humanity'; humanity can be displayed/expressed intellectually or socially/emotionally. Positive-masculinity has no tolerance for geuine narcissitic-personality-disorder (NPD)/unfair abuse and unfair-cruelty. Positive-masculinity optimises whatever it does.
Positive-feminity lessens hardship, it intellectually cultivates and inspires teamwork via harmony. Positive-feminity does not support narcissitic-personality-disorder (it supports the fight against it instead). Positive-feminity - it supports, it facilitates and it is guided by intelligence and maturity (not having a pathological disregard for rationality and reality).
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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The poster is correct. Female are inherently narcissitic in their neuro-psychology. This is for evolutionary reasons. Like is attracted to like; as they see themselves in each other. And like narcissits, they are disgusted by humans with excessive humanity and care little for them (the extent they do is shallow as any truthful woman will attest to and 'feel’).
ENFJ-females among many other narcissist-craving and loving “feelers" will often lose their virginity to narcissits. This is essentially a 'life-cycle’ for most females. How the narcissits makes the mentally undeveloped and narcissist woman feel is what draws and compels her mind, heart and 'clit’ to it.
Consider your highschool experience for example; such occasions are cliche-i.e. essentially a 'life-cycle’ for females who often narcissitically believe their clit to be irresistible. Later in life, after “swallowing" and absorbing the narcissists/cluster-B sexual essence and narcissitic abuse… Only 'then' are these narcissitic little girl finally ready to “lower" and belittle themselves for a “good-man" (human with excessive humanity as an instinct).
Most human female's are inherently wilful, narcissistic, hypersexual girls at their core essence. Get over yourselves! Too many females have a similar experience, i.e. spending their younger, beautiful years [secretly] having sex with narcissists for the emotional 'tingles’, before 'settling’ down for the “good man" (who they 'consistently’, and narcissitically perceive to be “lesser" in sexual attractiveness, compared to they multiple narcissit/cluster-B EX). This is the life-cycle of most women, especially the more “attractive" ones. Consider your life experiences, it is one such example of countless many. And it persists throughout human history, and certainly will into the future. Female's crave emotional-stimulus, because like narcissits, so many of them feel “empty" on the inside, and they instinctively look to a narcissist to 'fill’ them up with their sexual energy. Think about it…
That's rough! Understandable but rough!
That's so rare, a deep thinking woman
I have said something similar to my kids (especially the teens) when they complain about chores/responsibilities. “Do you think when you turn 18 all the adult things magically manifest themselves in you? All the sudden you just clean the toilet, do the dishes, and pay your bills? You one day decide to fold your laundry right and not look like a hot mess?” The answer is no, obviously. Like anything in life it takes practice, discipline, and probably some hard lessons learned. Expecting to magically become a family man after years of calculating every interaction with with men and women alike to benefit you in some way is a recipe for disaster. I’m all about men’s rights, tossing out the radical feminist ideas that harm society, etc….but a lot of the red pill stuff is so freaking dumb. Like just factually fucking stupid.
All redpill shit is
I'm not completely filled in on the red pill ideas all I know is that it's saying men and women each have their own separate responsibilities in a relationship.
Well said.
This is legit!
As a boy who became a father, who grew up with a mother who did everything for me and totally allowed me to be a lazy little shit,
21 became a dad, I'm 28 now and I put my woman through years of heavy frustration with me because of my uselessness in domestic capabilities.
Teach your kids young,let it become natural for them,your doing them a massive favour later in life.
I think teaching them young is wise however I don't think it's necessary , If a person is conscientious enough, they'll naturally take care of themselves . You wouldn't need to enforce strict rules to a person or kid that's naturally self aware and responsible. It depends on the kid or man.
“That was him 9 months ago”😂😂😂😂😂 I love how brutally honest you guys are! And I love that you’re calling out FnF’s hypocrisy🙌🏻
Yes that's all apple and peaches do... React to other people's valuable content..... The fact THAT FnF embrace people with different viewpoints within their platform shows alot. Unlike apple and peaches who have no valuable content but just reacting.
@@thanksgivingdludla3445 The same F&F that couldn't mount a defense for their good old pal Rollo? People like Tate and Sneako denouncing the ideology tells you how questionable it is. I've said it before, they do well in calling out problems but absolutely suck in giving solutions. And also Aba & Preach are a reaction channel, it's what they primarily do.
@@poetjla7778 Well if you actually knew what you were talking about, you would see that there was a 4 hour podcast on fnf where they debunked eveything feat Rollo sneako sartain and destiny and it made sense. I personally don't see anything as redpill or blue pill I see it as male self improvement, in which FnF which their motto is helping men navigate through women fitness and finances, Tate stands for Masculinity... They alll stand for the same values at the end of the day. We'll you're absolutely wrong because solutions they are giving are working for majority. See i don't even agree with Vesectamy, I actually more agree with sneako, but you see what men do they sit in the table and have discussions that doesn't mean they have to hate each other... All that apple and peaches do is conjure up a theme that stirs negativity. Which is "Sneako and Tate are turning on the red pill" that already has an agenda which is anything negative or controversial that happens in that space we will report on it and gas light it but the positive nah no.
@@thanksgivingdludla3445 So when Myron says sleep with 50 women to gain experience, that's beneficial to you becoming better at commiting to one girl for life? This is short term gratification at best with long term damage to future relationships.
@@poetjla7778 Finally i can interact with people who disagree with Myron at his views cause now i see for myself that you guys really don't listen to understand, yall just want to either hate or disqualify what his saying without understanding the substance behind it. When a female hits puberty, she already gets hit on by men which is age 14 15 and up and by the time she's 22 she's already socially intelligent and knows what type of man she wants because of that experience, but a boy or a man no women absolutely hits on him so he is basically social retarded when it comes to women cause he has not experience and probably will get finessed. Women are more social intelligentthat men that's a scientifical FACT so when he says sleep with 50 women it's not about pleasure yourself, or be a sex addict. It's get adaquet experience from the opposite gender so that you can socially intelligent enough to pick a spouse. It's not 100% accurate for everyone but that advise would definitely help the majority. Second of all the average female of age 22 let's say has tripple the amount of body count than a 22 year old male. So if you're a guy and you want to take the old advise, in these modern times you will surely get finessed because women are fucking wayyyyy more than men, based on stats so to say men should atleast have slept with 50 women is good advise and i have substanciated myself and you've just made a claim with no thorough break down like I did, it shows im a myron fan and you're a apple and peaches fan.
I'm glad you guys are out here educating people about the sickness of the red pill community.
They are coward betrayers of masculinity. True beta Male Feminists, can’t think of anything worse. Myron & Waller are toxic but everyone knows they have 3 brain cells combined. These two clowns in this video are worse, more damaging to men & society as a whole. Justifying feminism is the worst take possible. Blasting Red Pill & Feminism as basically the same thing is fine, but these guys are just pathetic omegas.
The red pill had its benefits for a lot of young men, but once a lot of grifters and losers with bad intent began to infiltrate the space that's when it got goofy. Telling young men to get the snip in their 20s is such dangerous advice because what if they want kids later down the line? These guys don't even live by what they preach to young men. 🤡
What are the benefits?
i said about a few years ago for the men who were so ingrained in the red pill movement , to read "aminal farm" by george orwell and give it a few years and that is what will happen to the redpill movements in all forms....and i am proven right
I would never have considered any of them apart of the RP. Tate, Sneako or FnF. The only thing they do is clown women for clips. They speak very little on actual substantial means to take to improve yourself.
Grifters, losers, incels, simps, 🦝s , N%zis, Pick Me Chameleons 🦎 and Cyphers.
Stay off the plantation.Thats my bottom line.
If someone I was seeing intimately talked about using "leverage" over me or talked about partner relationships like that, I would feel completely and utterly betrayed and disgusted. I would think they had bad intentions for me and I would be afraid of them trying to control, manipulate and abuse me. It would be an immediate break up.
Ive been through it. It’s scary. I ran as fast as I could. Never looked back.
Big facts! I have never tried to have any leverage over my wife I been together with 22 years. All we do is work together and look out for each other.
Aba, I know you probably get these all the time, but bro you really changed my outlook on a lot. Man family time is everything. There’s nothing better than those random weekdays where you can just take your mom out to lunch and just have a conversation or just spending time with your fam. I moved about 1,200 miles away because I thought that’s what I needed but that isolation just makes you value your family more. I have moved back to my hometown since and I absolutely do not take family time for granted. I appreciate you man.
Family is everything, legit the most fulfilling thing you can do in life, along with fostering a true loving relationship with a partner.
My older brother went through the same. He used to play video games instead of going out to restaurants with us, then when he moved abroad he regretted every moment he wasted away. He now calls daily because he's homesick and gets mad at my other brothers when they don't want to go out as well.
Some people will never truly feel the value of family until they're away from them. I'm glad you now are making every moment worth it 👍
Most men of my generation, about 25 -35 are going to miss out on a family because the entire time they were dating most dating took place online because feminists conditioned women to treat men approaching them in person as predators that only want sex. The truth is half of the women you meet in person are totally open to having sex with a guy they just met, but 0% of them are going to say yes to a stranger approaching them in person.
So it stands to reason that if all dating takes place online you basically have to become an Andrew-Tate like figure in order to even date online. Most men want more than casual sex with a bunch of different women, so most men drop out early when they realize they have to be on a constant treadmill in order to get sex.
I gotta say Tate really out done himself with the hypocrisy just from the first clip alone
I was once a hardcore red piller when i was 19. I would wake up and the first thing i would do is to listen to red pill contents and try to work on myself but as months went on , i found myself hating women. My friends, my brother and sister noticed how i used to talk crap and degrade women and they pointed out that i never used to hate anyone based on gender but on personality instead and i never used to generalize people or stereotype them.
I had to calm down and find out what was causing it and it was the red pill. I came to it because the message i got was not focusing on women but instead focusing on your goals but what i began to see later was "delusional woman" , "useless 304" , woman does this and woman does that. With this i felt so stupid and i began to understand how the hatred of the opposite genders with feminism was created... The same way of the red pill. Once you get soaked into any of these movements, you'll find yourself despising the opposite gender and if you are too far gone, i am sorry.
I'm just glad i got out when i could.
So refreshing to hear you admitting this I wish you a great life
Same man. I was around the same age. Hindsight shows that I was just angry at being ignored by women and wanted an outlet for it. It was unhealthy. I don't listen to RP content anymore, I listen to people who can keep themselves accountable and criticize wrong behavior NO MATTER what gender, ideology, age, or race they may be.
Went through the same thing. Fell hard into the red pill stuff but slowly realized it was making me a hateful and miserable. Once I left with some of the more positive messaging my life became so much better. Hope it’s going the same way for you.
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It's beyond me to call this red pill. Trad wifes and self-reliant family men is red pill. This is more black pilling than anything else....
I followed red pill creators for a while and the only real advice they could offer is to respect yourself. The issue is they don't really make a difference between respecting yourself and valuing others. They always gave me the feeling of egocentrics that can't have a relathionship because being vulnerable is the most beta thing out there.
Man, I swear being reasonable should not come that hard
I look at them like men who knows they have nothing to offer except eventually money and a fake masculine image. And I say eventually because most of them are broke and insecure. The average alpha social media man live with their parents and pay tones of onlyfans subscriptions. I’m not against men knowing their value and trying to achieve financial success but they need to learn the difference between value and money. High earning men are not always high value and vice versa
Facts
For real.
The whole redpill thing actually started as something completely different in online forums and was more focused on overall life improvement, these days it seems like men grouping most women into one bubble then proceeding to behave like the specific women they criticize.
No idea where you got the vulnerable thing from. One of their key messages is that you can be vulnerable around male friends.
"You're sterilizing half your audience" -- Destiny.
OMG, guys, Destiny's figured it out. This man's been playing a double agent the whole time. He infiltrates the red pill community, and convinces them to get a vasectomy, meaning they won't procreate. This is what we call a pro-gamer move.
Making fewer children is good for the environnement, the planet's future and my offsprings. If other men want to give up on building a family I would encourage them wholeheartedly
Destiny won’t procreate either, he’ll raise his wife’s boyfriend’s kids.
@@idolsrule4678 Destiny literally has a kid that's his own lmao
@@Ludoovikthere’s also tons of people who aren’t fit to be parents so win win i guess
@@Ludoovik im sorry but that just leads to the idiocracy problem. smart people realize that they need to make less kids but dumb people gonna have 10 kids
I was friends with this black girl in HS who had a womanizer dad and had kids with countless women. She told me a story of going to church and seeing this guy she thought was cute and then finding out at the family reunion it was her cousin.
That shit fucking crushes kids. She saw her father on occasion, but he would usually just come around if he needed something or was trying to get with her mom again.
Cousins getting married doesn’t tend to cause any deformities it’s actually not a bad thing
@Past_Tense154 dude... that's gross af
Maybe you didn't take in the fact that she was devastated her father slept around the community so much that she didn't know who was family and who wasn't.
I mean the kid is young. The fact he's even vocalizing different beliefs shows that he's still learning and open to new ideas. There's hope for him. I wish him the best no matter how improbable I believe it is
He is not a kid. He’s a grown man. I don’t understand why people insist on infantilizing adults
@@autumnburton2091 Yeah back in the day 24 was considered an adult. You got married and had a stable job. I see people calling 30 year olds "kids" now. We're headed for arrested development.
Kid? That’s a fully grown Neanderthal.
@@autumnburton2091 u never looked back at ur 20s n cringed a lil?
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19:40 Some solid life advice
1: watch who they are when they drive
2: assemble furniture with them
3: go on a trip together
4: go to a restaurant and see how they treat the workers
We're watching an early 20-year old man navigate his self-identity... and honestly it's entertaining and interesting to watch him go through these conflicts internally and externally
Besides the meltdowns and shit for views, it's kind of refreshing to see how vulnerable and transparent his character development has been, if it's at all genuine.
yeah
People like this look like authorities because they have a platform. Bad choices take time to manifest as life results. Let's see how this looks in a few years for fresh and fit.
But Rollo it's outdated as well . My advice it's whatever works for you ... Kevin Samuels make more sense to me .
That all that matters to you people if your entertained or not . Shut the hell up
A real high value man: can control himself sexually, holds integrity for his words and actions, has mental fortitude, loyal to his commitments (such as wife/family/work), holds himself accountable to his expectations, and attractive (subjectively).
Guess what. The same goes for a high value woman - aka wifey material.
Its not about money, it's not about body counts, its not about sex appeal. It's about honor, loyalty, responsibility, accountability. That's sexy, period.
These clips feel so surreal. Sneako went from being the thoughtful NYC filmmaker to a basement-dwelling blackpill streamer with anger issues, and yet nothing he says in these clips is unreasonable. His pushback is wise. I don't understand how he reversed the spiral he was going down, but I'm glad he did.
Sneako turned into a vatnik who is brainwashed by Russian State-controlled media. He's much worse now. He was cooler before. He wasn't black pilled.
Probably his beef with moistcritickal,if you watch that whole saga you literally see his personality change
@@LD-bj4xc Sneakos's audience on Rumble is psychotic. If they're not a white supremacist, they're an antisemite or a Z war pig bot.
@@LD-bj4xc what did i miss ?
@@marvin2678 Moist made fun of him because Sneako was dumb. Sneako sort of threatened Moist waving a little gun around in a video. Moist said you are using the wrong words. That is not a clip. This is called a magazine and pulled out an AR or something similar. Basically, lowkey saying roll up with your pea shooter I'm ready.
These guys : ''Avoid family creation...''
Also these guys : ''...so you can be a good father and have a family''
I see no flaw in that logic whatsoever.
Feminists. Men won't join the Matriarchy it's been 15 years now and society is seeing the shift in men.
They must do away with red pill MRAs. MGTOW going nowhere we grow daily
Avoid Family Creation was When They were Irreligious Now they Both Are Muslims Now they Despise that Godless Lifestyle
As a woman, I certainly would not be prone to look for a serious relationship with a guy who used to sleep around. It's true, people can change, but it would be extremely hard for me to trust someone who once had a f-boy mindset. It's funny that they preach against a woman with a high bodycount because she won't make a good partner, but they expect their future "good" woman/wife to accept them with a bodycount higher than a small village... 🤣
What you are missing is that you are comparing two guys of the same caliber to each other, one with a high BC and one with an average one. You are dismissing information, which is that the guy with the high BC was able to attract a bunch of woman to give him c*sual s*x, indicating his attractiveness. What are women willing to tolerate more: exchanging chastity for high quality, or high quality for chastity? Most women will prefer quality to chastity, by magnitudes. Here's a nice thought experiment: you meet the love of your life, he's handsome, athletic, tall, a doctor and you have good chemistry. You guys are 3 years into the relationship, and you are about to get married. One week before your marriage, someone anonymous sends you a link. It's a bunch of amateur "prom" from about 8 years ago, and you see your husband having a few threesom*s, having one woman here and there. It's an entire folder of private & leaked "prom" by an ex-girlfriend who is jealous, which was recorded over a span of 3 years with about 15 different women. Will you call off the wedding?
Fr 😂
Same. One of the most appealing things about my husband is that he didn't sleep around in college
I never had a Fboy mindset. I just enjoyed beautiful women’s company. I was always honest. Anyway, I ended up meeting my wife at 24 and marrying her a year later lol (I’m now 34. Never cheated. Can’t box us all in).
Agree 😂
Myron: "Here's the thing, when you're a playboy, you're going to be better raising the family!"
Nick Canon enters the chat.....
😂😂😂😂
Watching Sneako and Destiny team up like a recurring comic book villain teaming up with the protagonist to dunk on Fresh and Fit is by far the funniest thing I have seen all year
Destiny doesn’t even belong at that table. All he has is money. And he thinks women attest his worth to other things. Dunno if he realizes this, but a guy getting his hair dyed blue will and has always been a little boy to women on the planet.
One of the best crossover arcs of 2023
The whole point of RP is to wake men up to the truth of hypergamy and female nature. THATS IT. Not to use and abuse women. Some women deserve to be called out and put in their place for using men but so do men who use GOOD women. This ideology was never meant to be destructive; it is also a testament to the type of man who can understand the REDPILL and allow it to change him for the BETTER. Becoming some angry, aimless playboy who’s only goal is to bang women is NOT the intended goal of RP. Only an actual loser sees that as the end result. Real men understand what RP is for and it’s NOT to bang chics.
So while I get where this video is aiming, the title is not based in truth. There are tons of men who are RP who don’t hate women and by the way that’s a cheap excuse to dismiss the validity of RP. No different than claiming that you “hate gays” just because you disagree with their worldview🙄. In reality many of the men in RP are married with children. But the Internet wants to paint them all as basement dwelling masturbators who shoot up schools and hate women. That couldn’t be further from the truth. This is why the movement is so powerful because men from all demographics and walks of life could relate to the hardcore TRUTH of RP. So again only a real loser sees RP as something negative. The young boys who are misguided in the truth of RP are an entirely separate issue. They need help in different aspects of life but RP is not what’s destroying them.
@@scottanstine379 the hypergamy shit applies to maybe 3-5% of women. What you and the RP have to understand is that not all minds work the same. Of course you need to call them out on it if you catch them thinking like that. Doesn’t mean that you can just call it „the hypergamy of women“ just because there are a few rotten apples in the basket. Same as you and I both know that there is a certain percentage of men rotten to the core.
Yeah that’s because their both blue pill fruitcakes . And both of them like to watch their girlfriends get banged by other men. So of course they would be friends.
The final redpill is the realization that a loyal wife and children are more important than the bag
Ah yes, in a world where less and less people are getting married, more and more people are getting divorced, and more and more women are hitting their 40s without a husband or children. Yes, the passport bro is the last redpill.
As long as the passport bros stay in whatever country they move to it's all good.
@@TyrianHaze I got married to woman from Russia. We good now✌🏾
1 good girl is worth a thousand bitches
There is no such thing as a loyal woman. Clown take. 🤡
It only took Sneako getting relentlessly cooked by the entire internet to make strides as a person but it seems like it worked. He was truly lost in the sauce but he's seen the light. The cooked has become the cook
Bullying works
Shaming works
Sneako is the definition of fragile masculinity, he still doesn't know wtf is going on
Only cos he's following the Tates, he's a yes man to them after all so of course he's agreeing with what they say.
Actually you are wrong, he just converted to Islam and thats why you see him changed.
This is the first time I've seen destiny so quiet on a podcast. Sneako is holding it down for both of them😂😂😂
I was part of the ultra-redpill movement but I understood that I was basically being a degenerate who is a rich playboy. Thanks to my parents I have found out that a real man is goal oriented but disciplined in every aspect of life, including relationships. I think this is why the self improvement movement is slowly trying to split away from the red pill movement
Nice ace combat pfp
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I think the self improvement movement needs to be more brick and mortar and less online. Lots of the controversy comes from bad actors grifting both sides for coins and likes.
@@MrJoeylj Your stupid comment reeks of jealousy and insecurity. Maybe he is rich. Some people are. If he's lying, then he is only hurting himself. If he's telling the truth, then good for him.
Lmao
Watching Fake and Fit talk themselves into a corner, then tie themselves into a knot, then trip over themselves and fall on their faces is actually quite funny
*Fake and Tit
Yeah i dont recall tate ever claiming to be redpill.
Fake & Flip 😂
Really digging these longer videos. Also this sounds like SNEAKO maturing as a person more than anything. Sometimes people need to experience mistakes to learn from them rather than learn from others.
Nah he just follows whatever daddy tate says.
Let's not forget that he also recommends that we all let men run through our women in front of us. Taking anything he says seriously is a mistake. His character is as shallow as his integrity.
@@munky342you could say that for literally anyone who’s had a bad past and genuinely wanted to change then again it is pretty hard to tell with sneako pretty much meat riding tate
He got exposed as a fake alpha or whatever so of course he talks different now to stay relevant. 🤣🤣 It's not maturing he's just adapting. Sneako maturing that's a laugh.
His change is too drastic it's not genuine at all
No y’all just don’t watch his content he been converted to Islam
I really appreciate that you guys are talking about this. I’m in my early 20s and I dated a guy who was very red pill and even tho he had a lot of values I did like he was also super hypocritical. He said it was ok if he cheated, if he has a high body count but didn’t want his girl to be like that. He was also always wanting to sleep with me on the first night we met and super persistent(I never let him) Thank God but I just realized all of those guys are just like feminists but on the other side. It’s so gross and sad, that so many boys look up to these men. That’s why my relationship with that guy didn’t work out, it could have if he was willing to be a real man with real values and not red pill values. I just needed to rant and I appreciate what you guys are doing. Thanks to Jesus I am healing and I am grateful for this video and that their is quality men who still support one man and one women relationships and real masculinity
same girl same... and the one i dated absolutely HATED when it wasn't his turn to talk or when he felt like i was "interrupting" even though conversations happen like that sometimes.. it was odd. he could interrupt me and cut me off whenever he got bored and i couldnt give him the same energy, and honestly i wouldnt want to reflect someone like that.
Feminism is backed by corporations and lawmakers, red pill is grass roots and an adaptation
Oh my days, this is exactly what I thought after watching red pill and radical feminist videos.... Male and female versions of each other, but acting like the other is worse.
Preach’s tips about seeing a person drive (great one that isn’t highlighted often enough), how they treat service workers, how they are on a trip, literally building something together, ect are great advice. Thank you for those!
Hey could u elaborate abit about the driving bit? I was abit lost on that, in my mind it was “road rage?, see how impatient ur partner is when behind other cars, tailgating other cars, speeding in 30 km areas”.
@@moonknight4053 I felt like it did focus on possible road rage. But I wouldn’t be able to date a person who was purposefully reckless behind the wheel, texts and drives or is a distracted driver, drives drunk or under the influence, shoot even how they would respond hitting an animal on the road. 🫤
@@brib6046 Oh hell that’s what u and preach meant, lucky I don’t do any of that then ay. The odd text I will if I’m at a red light, or I’ll pull over to make a call or long paragraph.
I accidentally ran over a duckling a few months back and I cried, I kinda hate driving due to shit like that. I hated myself for that ay, still do. I didn’t judge my driving properly that day
I'm the product of a father like the ones Fresh & Fit are promoting. My father had me at 24, my mum had me unplanned, my father told her he couldn't have children so she didnt use protection believing him. She knew I had to be born, so she kept me. My father, was barely around as a child, dated strippers only, spent all his time trying to be rich. He became rich by the time I was 15/16. Married a stripper who spends all his money. Our relationship is fractured as he didn't help my mum much at all financially or physically with me, he just cared about his money and women. I fully hold all of this against him. He's not changed much at 54. Those behaviours don't go away, they may calm down with age as he's more tired but he still cheats on his wife with strippers all the time. He still only cares about money. I don't believe these type of men, get to 40 and suddenly want to be different. It's too settled in their character by that point.
Also, men my like father are highly belittling towards women. As their daughters you experience that sexism. You're not immune to it.
Your father is not red pill he’s just a morally bankrupt loser.
Also you are one hell of a human being for retaining your sanity after all of that. Your reflection shows you are wise and I hope you have a wonderful life because you deserve it!
@@lynnespinoza4736 thank you x
So crazy how people aspire to be Hugh Hefner... especially after he died and all the girls came out of the woodwork talking about how much he disgusted them.
But yet those women all stood around anyway. They weren’t hostages. They could’ve left anytime they wanted, and they weren’t complaining while living the life. They’re hardly the victims they portray themselves as. Especially waiting until after his passing
@@vme1111 my point is, men aspire to be like him. But his life was really pretty shitty and all his girls were disgusted by him.
Men are genetically programed to spread seed to multiple host. If they didn't, lineage would have died out
Exactly. Goes to show much much of a low IQ most these redpillars and their followers have. Losers and idi@ts in a nutshell.
@@vme1111missing the point.
I'm so grateful that I found your page. I really appreciate this post and the Pearl One because I've been saying for a year now all these people are psychopaths and losers who can't obtain women and don't have direction in their lives and overall just hate women. I'm so glad that the red pill is falling apart i will promote you all so much because more men need this type of conversation in their inner circle not the bulletin from fresh and bullshit those idiots who have never had experience
Red pill won't fall apart because its a reactionary adaptation to the flawed system. As long as daddy government exists, RedPill will be here to stay
My dad was a womanizer, has 4 baby mamas and 5 kids. All of us grew up apart, abandoned, without him being present at all and that made my childhood and youth really miserable. I made sure to find a good man for myself, he was "pure" when we met and got married and he's the best dad and the best husband. He is patient, dedicated, respectful, fun and hardworking. He's a great man and never in a thousand lifetimes I'd ever thought I'd find someone like that. He's never been a playboy, he's never needed to try 50 "whores" to find a good wife. These red pillers always say that men don't bond with women like women do but that's a lie. It's true that women bond more emotionally when having sex but men have gone to war for the women they love. Redpill is shit and harmful for the community. I'm a Muslim revert and I understand everyone's perspective, including people that don't want to have families and be childless. I've been in both sides, religious and non religious, and I can empathise with both sides of the fence. I'd never impose myself or my beliefs on others but promiscuity is wrong and it destroys lives.
Edit: Talking about my conversion to Islam in this context doesn't serve any purpose other than stating that even though I have more traditional values and I would advice everyone to have a family and faith, I also know the other side because I've been there and thought that way. I can talk from a non religious and a religious perspective, basically.
Welcome to Islam sister!❤
@@EB-gt1pq Jazakallah, I've been a revert for 6 years alhamdulillah
As Andrew Tate once said, Islam fixes all this shit that western societies suffer from
Welcome back darling 💖
Guess you like your own story and are going to ignore all the people's story who have suffered under Islam. Just a tip you better not leave.
@@AB-fv8qm Dude Don't bring that idiots name here as a born muslim that guy is like a stain
"Prepare for that this woman could be the mother of your children." Is pretty much how I chose my sexual partner for my first time, because I was extremely scared of getting a girl pregnant so I wanted to be with a woman that I would stand by and would want to stand by. Its a way I have tried to live my life when in relationships because its a real possibility and like you said you get to know people more outside of the bedroom.
People should also be afraid of contracting std
@@IYeleven That as well was a concern and still is. Lol I got sore throat once that was just a seasonal flu symptoms, but I called someone I was seeing up that they might want to get themselves checked out, because we recently had been intimate and she told me she thought I probably just had a sore throat, but really appreciated that I would be responsible enough to notify her right away. I think what scares me the most is hearing from friends how people with STDs go around having sex without notifying the people. That actually terrifies me.
Yup and for women it's this could,be the father of your child. West isn't the only place that has the issue of youth not seeing sex in that manner nor the fact that if you have a kid, they are your responsibility not others and that there's a reason they say it takes a village to raise a kid.
Are you and that sexuall partner still together?
@@Ashguy733
I don’t understand why more people don’t think about the STD you could possibly get because condoms don’t stop everything.
"How would you know if you've never experienced it?" Foresight truly is dead. It's called being friends with them before dating them. That is where you get your experience of what women can be like without having to be romantically involved and avoid all the drama that comes along with that romantic attachment. Are people really not capable of taking information, behaviors, reactions and ques and using that information to be able to assess the qualities their date/partner has? Are we this unsocialized and dumbed down that we cannot recognize patterns by observing others interactions and applying them to our own by noticing similar traits? It's called critical analysis i.e. common sense.
A wise man learn from the mistake of others.
See that involves critical thinking, and they will say tLDR :(
As the wise oracles Chumbawamba once said 'i get knocked down, but i get up again'
Literally no. People under 20 have no experience of life without screens that fit in their pocket. They don't actually know how to talk to other humans half the time; let alone a boy/girl they're interested in.
Common sense is not common, it's a taught/learned/acquired skill and it's not guaranteed that you will learn/be taught. Common sense _requires_ critical thinking, which is an even rarer acquired skill.
Logical observation helps you process so much without having to go through every bad experience to understand what's good for you or who's good for you. It's simple common sense. I really like your comment bro 🤝
Kind of wild seeing Tristan say he doesn’t want to be associated with people who advocate slavery and then he gets convicted for human trafficking like it isn’t the same thing.
Show me the conviction?
Sneako is seeing the writing on the wall. He sees the downfall of Pearl. He got embarrassed in debates. Had his own breakdown. He's getting ahead of the fall of this genre.
Exactly lol they see the grift is almost over so they’re jumping ship before it all crashes down
@@bobithasmitherson The grift isn't ending because both sides dump on each other to create their communities. Saying the grift is ending is like saying our two political parties are going to stop shitting on each other. Never going to happen they will say what one group wants to hear and continue to make money by shitting on the other group. Also that tate clip is from "your moms house" and is almost 2 years old.
Pearl is fine... She's famous receiving famous hate rituals
There's no "fall of this genre." With tinder, onlyfans, and other websites making it easy for women to get ran through or to sell themselves, and the nonstop simping, more and more women are going to end up alone and childless. While their biological clock runs out, all of those men who couldn't find a wife will be in their 40s/50s+ with money saved up to go find themselves a nice 20 year old wife from a third world country. The only ones losing this "battle" are the women who whored themselves out until they ran out of eggs.
He hasn't changed in any way lol. He's just jumping ship.
“That was the young him”
“That was 9 months ago”😂😂😂😂😂😂 we appreciate sneako changing but I dieddddd right there
9 months is a whole baby. 9 months for a 24 year old is a whole lot 😅
When Aba and Preach are at a loss of words , the floor squeaking says it all. 😂
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I’m soo glad there are still some sensible men out here. You guys are giving hope. Thank you 🙏🏽💖
My uncle who’s probably the most prominent father figure in my life (other than my 3 older brothers) is the man I respect the most (at 27 years old) for his sheer dedication and pride in his family. He’s what I look up to when raising my two young sons. My dad (the womaniser) walked so that Nick Cannon could run and only now wants to (mildly) invest in me now (as he’s getting older and inevitable more guilty). It is my uncle who is going to be walking me down the aisle next year. My dad thought he’d be the one to do it automatically. I laughed in his face.
Congrats. I’m happy you had a great role model in your life.
Your father still gave you life though let's be real
Sadly, there's a good likelihood that the only he's mildly interested now is because he's getting on and knows he needs for you to care in order for him to have someone take care of him when he becomes infirm.
@@hugh2hoob668nah, he just rawdogged someone. That’s not being a father.
@@Ineverusemychannel yep 👍
Preach's list of ways to see if a partner is a good match was so solid: 1. Watch who they are when they drive. 2. Put together IKEA furniture 3. Trip 4. Restaurant
And her period
@@TheGreySage0 Wym her period ?
@@asianboi000001 If she is a psycho it will become pretty obvs after seeing her during her period
Add watch how she acts with her family & how she acts with children.
On her period should be #1. It's definitely a game changer. During her period she'd be most emotional. If she can control it well that's a huge plus.
As a parent married and with my family under one roof I want to say that I feel sorry for our young men who listen to these buffoons when it comes with these topics , they are completely detach from reality and none of them practice what they preach , no wife no family no kids , the way these guys talk about treating women is disgusting to say the least
Just like how women talk about treating men. But we won't talk about that.
@@pep-d7d how are women talking about men? Are you talking about those bimbo IG models that you’re after lol?
@@pep-d7d it goes both ways
@@pep-d7d but he was talking about men. Why rebuttal with "but women, but women" that's the issue. It's like some men can't take accountability, yet having to place blame somewhere else. There is a issue with women that needs to be talked about from the eyes of men. However, to combat what he's saying in order for you make your point isn't the way to change what happening. Look within yourself and heal that before pointing fingers. Stay on topic.
Marlon has never had a relationship! I have no idea why anyone would listen to any of these clowns on any topic aside from how to make money via a popular podcast being embarrassing. They are experts at that.
this whole thing is the reason why i've been telling women to go find a hobby or have interest, it'll help narrow down the low quality men. It's also another reason why it's important for men to form strong positive friendships where they hold themselves accountable.
It's true! I was on a 3rd date with a girl I thought had some potential to build with. She treated the waitress where we ate like something off the bottom of her shoe. She was disgusting. Needless to say, I didn't have to sleep with her to know that she wasn't suitable to build a family with.
Thank you for this. It’s honestly the worst feeling when a guy still sleeps with us even tho they didn’t see any potential in a future. They straight up lie!! That’s why I have been celibate from now when I go on dates. If I don’t do this I feel preyed on and used 😖
@@susangarza3203I'm celibate too! Not for religious reasons but that I don't want sex to interfere with relationships like it has before.
Good for you. Because what many guys don’t know. Sex is an energy transfer. She clearly has issues and that would’ve slowly shown up in your character too.
Plain and simple logic
True!
As a woman I’ll answer your question: if I found out a man was acting whatever way he acted to me because he wanted “leverage” over me, I would end the relationship. I’m looking for a partner, not a boss. Not a master.
No one cares what u want 🤡
Then dont be with a man.
Man are leaders who have responsiblity over you and equally authority.
Marriage is not a partnership
@Guitarzen what is blud waffling about
@guitarszenHow did you come to this conclusion..Just because she said I want a husband not boos doesn't mean she wants the position.
@Guitarzen You're tripping bruv
Preach is 100% on take a trip together. A long trip and not a luxury trip. See how you guys handle hotel mistakes, car problems, bringing water and snacks. Navigating a new place… It shows you everything if you’re looking. Ive had at least 3 decent relationships ruined by long trips to new places. I also know that luxury, all inclusive places dont count.
If a man was acting a certain way to have leverage over me, I'd be out of there. That tells me it's all about control for him, and he will never be genuine and vulnerable with me.
"Vasectomy is reversible" is the male version of "I'll do IVF when I'm 40+"..... feminism and red-pill are the same damn coin.
Not really
@@AndresPrez cope
@@foetusdeletus6313 feminists and red pillers have similar claims but different "facts"....
For example.. both can claim there is institutional sexism against their gender. One of them have to prove their claim..
@@AndresPrez cope
That's good!
I think the big issue with the idea of “Being a player makes you a better family man” is this: being a player and sleeping with many women is a hedonistic, pleasure-oriented, self-centered mode of being. You’re thinking primarily of yourself and your own gain. On the other hand, being a good parent is exactly the reverse; you have to put aside your own wants to nurture and provide for your family. I think F&F are desperately trying to justify what’s ultimately a selfish and empty lifestyle.
Hedonism is so repulsive and ironically leads to a failed and unhappy life
Exactly. It's an attempt to put those who live that hedonistic lifestyle on a pedestal, call them "high-value" and still give them the happy ending by saying they'd be better fathers.
I just think it's really sad when some people think life is all about partying, f***ing, and making/spending money. I understand that may be all some people want... but hearing Aba talk about seeing his niece take her first steps, that's what life is about for me. To me personally, being able to see that and pursue that (family, community, enriching experiences) is what can make this life "rich" and worth living.
They don't realize that they make money their God that way and it dehumanizes them.
It's better than being a "savior" to some modern woman who in her 20s hook up and get dCk down by a bunch of "bad/fCk boy's" and realized that it doesn't fulfill her and then wants to settle down with a "nice guy".
Exactly a high value man should be someone who contributes to their community and has fulfilling relationships with their friends and family
Nothing in red pill stops you from doing that. Red pilled just means aware of female nature. Or from the female perspective aware of male nature. Not believing the "blue pill" lies like men and women are the same. You can have a healthy family and be red pilled, you could also be a womanizer and be blue pilled. What people do with the information is their choice. Its not even really supposed to be a "movement" its a philosophy
Eh, I don't care for either hedonism, "ultragrindset" at work or traditional family/community. Give me solitude and some more hours of sleep and I'm good.
@19:13 its crazy that people actually take advice about women from men like these 2
Ah, Fresh and Fit, the true masters of selective wisdom. It's impressive how they've managed to transform their '50-women rule' into a virtuous quest, while keeping their judgment hats ready for women who dares to take a similar path. Truly a modern marvel of double standards!
I’ve noticed that even in cultures that are more traditional driven, there’s been more and more adults refusing to care for their elderly parents (more specifically their elderly fathers) because their fathers were:
1) never around for them
2) Had multiple families
3) Was either abusive or emotionally neglected them
4) treating their mothers very poorly.
5) Alcoholics
In the past for a lot of cultures it didn’t matter how badly parents treated their children, at the end of the day it was always expected of their children to take care of them when their old regardless of what they had done. Im glad more and more people are growing out of that idea.
Ppl have realized how entitled some of these awful parents were because of that culture
Lol my parents were trash to me. My youth fucking sucked so bad. They fed me and clothed me and housed me. I can pay THAT back either I like it or not. I know they didn't like doing it for me
It’s also partly due to demographics, most countries even a lot of developing countries now have demographics in which there are more elderly then their are kids. Most couples can’t take care of 4 grandparents and their children, it’s why In a-lot of Asian confucian societies even if they are more traditional compared to the west their birth rates have been suppressed. It was easy to take care of 1 grandparent back in the 50’s because most people didn’t live that long😊, now it’s system that doesn’t work for most.
I think both are true. Young people neglect the elderly for superficial reasons but also because they sometimes don’t deserve the attention. I think that as someone who spends a lot of time with the elderly young people need to learn to appreciate those who came before.
Only in the West. Most part of the world (most of the time) see elderly in high regard. And see as a moral and religious duty to take care of them, and not as a burden
I'm loving it. I was red pill for a moment, but it felt like it was the male version of feminism. So I let that ideology go, and now I'm glad to see these influencers change their perspectives. U don't have to degrade women to predominate urself as a man of value. Just vet through and find a partner that has similar understandings and values as u and build off of that
Thx
Dude you can barely spell as a grown man, probably wasn't hard at all to convince you to become a red pill.
Bingo. It's a lot contradiction. Rp can be good for knowing truthful facts about women and our society but this energy towards all women or bs from "leaders" is cringe and truly stupid to the core. It's content algo game.
Lonely men getting played for course fix your life lies annoying AF. You can be rp ie being waking up to the injustices men face and rp on society lies told to men masked as advice and not go to the extreme.
Rp got bump from algo boost but it will never die because men will always be waking up to the lie society and old school traditional gentlemen lies told to men for 5 decades.
It's not about degrading anyone, it's just about acknowledging the truth, and if people don't like the truth, that's their problem. 🤷
Yup. It became repackaged victim consciousness.
Sneako is in his Zuko arc, you love to see it.
agreed
LMFAO that's really fitting
It’s sad I used to actually watch his videos when he’d just talk about life and shit. Hopefully he drops this persona and goes back to what he used to do.
@@wee535 Me to that's part of the reason I was a tate fan boy I think.
Tate ruined him. He saw how successful the guy was and completely removed his personality for the opinions of Tate.
Old man who already has kids of his own telling young men to get Vasectomies....these jokes write themselves