So true. I was in shock when my ex wife of 10 years and the mother of 2 kids rides her Facebook "friend" the same week after separation. Healthy people don't do that
Yep. Quickest way to lose a cluster B.. Set boundaries with social media. They’ll be gone so fast like roadrunner in the cartoon with a dust trail onto the next supply
💯 Facts. The narcassist you are dealing with is almost always intimately connected to the ex baby momma or baby daddy who are usually in a friend's with benefits arrangement. I discovered that my ex narc girlfriend was sleeping with her ex husband behind my back.throughout the relationship. They all cheat
So true. Says he is still 'friends' with his ex. Even took her to a concert for her birthday. He knows i love concerts. When my birthday came, i got nothing. Just players
So accurate Yaz! He was full of ‘oh we have each other now, my ex was awful! You’re everything I need!’ Only to find 2 years later he was still always with 2 exes!! He made out he worked really long hours and saw his kids a lot!! Literally lied the whole time!! Really dishonest yuck 🤮
It was literally the worst relationship you can imagine .. he had a load of different women on the go behind my back. Exes and new supply!! Yet he was begging for a key to my house and saying he wanted to live with me. It was all lies!!! They are terrible men!!
Yess he had his grown daughters mother in his phone labeled as my soul mate my baby an I caught it wen his phone rang one day an it was mint for me to see because it was a part of him doing it on purpose.. meanwhile he was with me … block an delete these people 💯
Plenty of his exes on his Facebook. They were all his cousins according to him. 😂 Not one male cousin on his Facebook. In fact the only cousin I know of is a male NOT on his Facebook.
I’m the ex of the narc and we’ve remained friends for YEARS. Now I know why🙄. He’s always stayed in my life somehow but now I’m seeing all the lies pour out and it’s disturbing to say the least
The last chick I dated had single on her fb and she absolutely was NOT. Longer we were together longer I could see she was always in comms with other guys. Narcs are just devious.
This is why I cut off all communication with her and everyone associated with her. I caught her in so many lies, false story's and fake tears faking that she cared. I saw right through the crap, I'm much more at peace with myself and my health is improving again. I don't care what she does anymore, worst thing I ever did was meeting her in the first place, let alone getting married to her. There's a good woman out there who will appreciate what I have to offer.
My ex has multiple supplies and his status is single. He hides them from fb. Still Come’s to play with me cuz we share a child claims he’s still single. These monsters!
It's so pathetic. I wish I could warn his new supply. He moved on to a person right across the street from me. She has money I heard. Sad, very sad. Married 3 x and still cheating!! It's still very hard to move on. I have a new church, new bible study people. Starting a new life. Moving to a new state. He's trashing me and I never cheated on him. Loser!
This is so spot on ,Triangulation, gaslighting and BS and repeat! Took me so long to fully understand, stupid me ! Oh and they will put that they are in a relationship as their status and each supply thinks it’s them 😂
My last narc ex told me that he will never stop communicating with two very specific exes, Jennifer and Liza. He would always tell me how well they got along and what great "gals" they were. I don't think either of these women will wake up. He's very charming, and if you have low self esteem, he is the perfect guy to fool you. He just tried to get me to meet with him this past weekend. I'm sure he has many new women as supply in addition to the old standbys. No thanks.
YAZZ YOU KNOW YOUR SHIT,AND HOW DO I KNOW YOU KNOW YOUR SHIT BECAUSE I LIVED IT JUST AS YOU STATED IN YOUR PODCAST,THESE CLOWNS ARE NEVER SINGLE AND THERES ALWAYS AN X THERE SECRETLY TALKING TO BEHIND YOUR BACK
Today my narcissist wife of 17 years.. left. I caught her sleeping with 3 maybe 4 different guys. I have her on recorder and my 6 year old is in the house while entertaining the other men. And she lied professionaly.. make me believe we are all good.. but while on the phone with me be touching him..help me Lord
You really nailed it! You have just described my ex... he has exactly all these red flags, and I always knew he was still in communication with his exes, and obviously he always denied everything, what a jerk🙄.
I am so glad I am free from my last narcissistic relationship. I am so blessed and I don’t take it for granted that I was able to ease myself out of that situation. Not everyone is as lucky. 🙏🏼
The phone of the last ex-narc was set to both Singapore time and San Diego time zones, which were apart by virtually 12 hours at least! I asked once, "Your phone has San Diego time too?" This was asked as a kind of testing. The reaction? Phone set face down. I am sure that ex narc could not get past an ex who is probably way way older.....daddy issues and emotional unavailability....ewwww
So true! Red flag: The ex-wife lived on the second level of his apartment sharing the kitchen. She was super friendly with me and always involved with the adult children and their partners. It was so weird, I thought I ended up with a Mormon family. He was always in communication with her via text. Every little problem…..she was consulted. When she got re-married his daughter became the constant texting confidant….
Yaz ...very good ..i love your videos ...so how to spot a narc ...metalic voice / dead fish eyes / maniac for cleaning &order ... so since I had so many narc women I guess I am a BPD empath ...
Spot on! The narcissist I was involved with had exes on the side he was dealing with. He spoke negatively about 1 of them (his main source of supply), but praised another one whom he said he missed and would like to return to. Either way, the emotional abuse has taken its toll on me. I was never enough, and like he told me on more than one occasion, “you’re better than nothing”. I’m so glad to be free from him now while he obsesses over the past and the main supply who doesn’t want him anymore either 😂
The narc that I was seeing told me she was married and he was in jail on a murder charge. The only thing I believe is that he was in jail because she constantly made visits to the prison. When he called she ran her ass to the prison. He was also a narc that was controlling everything she did every decision she made came from him. This relationship is base on fear and control she is petrified of him and he controls her entire life. He permits her to sleep around as long as he can control who she sleeps with and how long she can sleep with that person. She constantly told me she was not in love with her husband and planned on divorcing him. What found out is they were both in on her meeting men and sleeping with them for money and gifts. The bottom line is narc attract narc and they are very loyal to each other. These people are discussing and have no moral compass.
The one thing I couldn’t stand. I can tolerate a lot and let things go. Couldn’t let go being triangulated by exes and always secretly having something to do with them
He would tell people when we were on a break...we just not seeing eye to eye...the other exs you can't be mean cause you never know when you will need people 😂
And if you are the mother of their kids If they got a baby mother or multiple… you just should run 😂 because they are still involved unless their bm got someone else
I Pray that he changes and gets tied to God. I don't want heath to be tied to me. I don't want to be tied to heath but God. We are not cool but we are not friends, I do not have any contact nor want any contact with him. He is on triple Blocked no he was seeing someone the whole time I am over him
After a breakup, the healthy person stays single and deals with the damages until healed!
The toxic ones are already in another relationship‼️
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Exactly, precisely, 100%.
Exactly !
Absolutely!
So true. I was in shock when my ex wife of 10 years and the mother of 2 kids rides her Facebook "friend" the same week after separation. Healthy people don't do that
God, what a CIRCUS…flying monkeys, clowns, freaks, escape artists…
💯
Yesss 😂😂😖
Bit time nut jobs!
A whole barrel of.....was going to say monkeys......but I'll say crazy. Their motto As much supply as possible.
I don't miss the circus
Some live it secretly and you ll never find out, ultra covert
So during his last hoover attempt I told him he'll need to post himself as in a relationship with me. 🤣 I knew he wouldn't.
Mine tells me he still cares about me, love's me and misses me but he won't even add me to his Facebook 😂
Yep. Quickest way to lose a cluster B.. Set boundaries with social media.
They’ll be gone so fast like roadrunner in the cartoon with a dust trail onto the next supply
💯 Facts. The narcassist you are dealing with is almost always intimately connected to the ex baby momma or baby daddy who are usually in a friend's with benefits arrangement. I discovered that my ex narc girlfriend was sleeping with her ex husband behind my back.throughout the relationship. They all cheat
So true. Says he is still 'friends' with his ex. Even took her to a concert for her birthday. He knows i love concerts. When my birthday came, i got nothing. Just players
So accurate Yaz! He was full of ‘oh we have each other now, my ex was awful! You’re everything I need!’ Only to find 2 years later he was still always with 2 exes!! He made out he worked really long hours and saw his kids a lot!! Literally lied the whole time!! Really dishonest yuck 🤮
Sounds like my ex gf!
This is true! They call them ‘friends’, who help them out during hard times
woooooooow!!!!
It was literally the worst relationship you can imagine .. he had a load of different women on the go behind my back. Exes and new supply!! Yet he was begging for a key to my house and saying he wanted to live with me. It was all lies!!! They are terrible men!!
Baaaby when I tell you I Laughed The Entire Video Because this is SPOT ON!! They Think they are Doing something But they are SOOOO CORNY!!😂😂😂
Yeah they say things like ‘you were never committed, you were never available at weekends ‘ yet that’s exactly what they were doing!!
Yeah, they're always trying to work it out with the ex... so true
Yess he had his grown daughters mother in his phone labeled as my soul mate my baby an I caught it wen his phone rang one day an it was mint for me to see because it was a part of him doing it on purpose.. meanwhile he was with me … block an delete these people 💯
Plenty of his exes on his Facebook. They were all his cousins according to him. 😂 Not one male cousin on his Facebook. In fact the only cousin I know of is a male NOT on his Facebook.
Oh yes the cousins 😂
This was exactly my experience...and why I ended it.
So true.. you are better off alone to focus on yourself and your family.
I’m the ex of the narc and we’ve remained friends for YEARS. Now I know why🙄. He’s always stayed in my life somehow but now I’m seeing all the lies pour out and it’s disturbing to say the least
The last chick I dated had single on her fb and she absolutely was NOT. Longer we were together longer I could see she was always in comms with other guys. Narcs are just devious.
This is why I cut off all communication with her and everyone associated with her. I caught her in so many lies, false story's and fake tears faking that she cared. I saw right through the crap, I'm much more at peace with myself and my health is improving again. I don't care what she does anymore, worst thing I ever did was meeting her in the first place, let alone getting married to her. There's a good woman out there who will appreciate what I have to offer.
My narcissistic wife threatened to unalive herself when I tried to break up with her when we were engaged
My ex has multiple supplies and his status is single. He hides them from fb. Still Come’s to play with me cuz we share a child claims he’s still single. These monsters!
It's so pathetic. I wish I could warn his new supply. He moved on to a person right across the street from me. She has money I heard. Sad, very sad. Married 3 x and still cheating!!
It's still very hard to move on. I have a new church, new bible study people. Starting a new life. Moving to a new state.
He's trashing me and I never cheated on him. Loser!
I’ve done it a fun or funny it is not !
@@TanyaRae777what?
This is so spot on ,Triangulation, gaslighting and BS and repeat!
Took me so long to fully understand, stupid me !
Oh and they will put that they are in a relationship as their status and each supply thinks it’s them 😂
Yup. Still friends. Still logged into their Netflix on her TV, calling her with every disagreement then eventually I was threatened by the ex 🤣
Triangulation
My last narc ex told me that he will never stop communicating with two very specific exes, Jennifer and Liza. He would always tell me how well they got along and what great "gals" they were. I don't think either of these women will wake up. He's very charming, and if you have low self esteem, he is the perfect guy to fool you.
He just tried to get me to meet with him this past weekend. I'm sure he has many new women as supply in addition to the old standbys. No thanks.
I bet my life savings that Jennifer and Liza want nothing to do with that 👿
Run from the narcissist you’re not gonna get anywhere 😢
@@LLMC968 And I hate running in place.😾
As long as your in the game your part of the problem.
Very true, my narcissistic wife reached out to 3 guys she slept with before I found out she committed adultery
She asked me if we could still be friends and keep sleeping with each other after the divorce
R u serious? Damn
@@TheDarkWorldEXPOSED diabolical
Yes he told me he was still friends with his.
YAZZ YOU KNOW YOUR SHIT,AND HOW DO I KNOW YOU KNOW YOUR SHIT BECAUSE I LIVED IT JUST AS YOU STATED IN YOUR PODCAST,THESE CLOWNS ARE NEVER SINGLE AND THERES ALWAYS AN X THERE SECRETLY TALKING TO BEHIND YOUR BACK
Thank u ☺️
Yaz thank you !!! Just got out of that relationship !!!!
Yes Yaz its totally that, as usual!! And these person r so mad that they believe their own lies.
Yes!
Yes !!!!!! She used to speak about her ex a lot and she still followed him and all his friends and even after the discard she went back to him lol
every demon wants an Angel but Angels don't live in Hell
Truth. This is exactly the way it is w narcs. Get out while you still can.
Today my narcissist wife of 17 years.. left. I caught her sleeping with 3 maybe 4 different guys. I have her on recorder and my 6 year old is in the house while entertaining the other men. And she lied professionaly.. make me believe we are all good.. but while on the phone with me be touching him..help me Lord
This is a GREAT SITE, you guys!!
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You really nailed it! You have just described my ex... he has exactly all these red flags, and I always knew he was still in communication with his exes, and obviously he always denied everything, what a jerk🙄.
ABUSED HURT CHILDREN ABUSED IN CHILDHOOD. THEY NEVER GET BETTER
Everything you said is so true...he did this to me for six years
I am so glad I am free from my last narcissistic relationship. I am so blessed and I don’t take it for granted that I was able to ease myself out of that situation. Not everyone is as lucky. 🙏🏼
My ex female narcissist always referred to all of ex's are gay now all 10 of them,lol.
So be it ! I trust myself and I rusty what I can do . Good podcast today thdnk you .
FACTS!!!
So Accurate And So True!!!🎉❣️
Yes❤. I knew it.
💯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯🎯 Fact's
Thanks for this episode,you are describing my life again,I feel as is I was spied by you 🤣Cheers❤️
The phone of the last ex-narc was set to both Singapore time and San Diego time zones, which were apart by virtually 12 hours at least! I asked once, "Your phone has San Diego time too?" This was asked as a kind of testing. The reaction? Phone set face down. I am sure that ex narc could not get past an ex who is probably way way older.....daddy issues and emotional unavailability....ewwww
Very informative
Thanks
You described exactly what happened!
Still friends; with benefits 🎉
They are always on the make! Talk about multitaskers!!!
So so true 👏
So true! Red flag: The ex-wife lived on the second level of his apartment sharing the kitchen. She was super friendly with me and always involved with the adult children and their partners. It was so weird, I thought I ended up with a Mormon family. He was always in communication with her via text. Every little problem…..she was consulted. When she got re-married his daughter became the constant texting confidant….
Yaz ...very good ..i love your videos ...so how to spot a narc ...metalic voice / dead fish eyes / maniac for cleaning &order ...
so since I had so many narc women I guess I am a BPD empath ...
Mine would sleep all weekend😂
Among the many men that she was contacting, mine was communicating, sexting, and even STAYING NIGHTS with her exes while we were long distance!
Never all in. Some of these creatures study the obituaries to see if any of there X's spouses have passed.
The "friend" he introduced me to.
I believe that a narcissist created the joint checking account.
BPD would threaten to end themselves post breakup.
For sure !
I dont know how they have any friends. Plus they are mean individuals.
Facts
YOUR CORRECT
I was told the ex ran up all the credit cards and the narcissist lost his car oh and btw this is a army guy
FACTS !!! 💯
Spot on! The narcissist I was involved with had exes on the side he was dealing with. He spoke negatively about 1 of them (his main source of supply), but praised another one whom he said he missed and would like to return to.
Either way, the emotional abuse has taken its toll on me. I was never enough, and like he told me on more than one occasion, “you’re better than nothing”.
I’m so glad to be free from him now while he obsesses over the past and the main supply who doesn’t want him anymore either 😂
The narc that I was seeing told me she was married and he was in jail on a murder charge. The only thing I believe is that he was in jail because she constantly made visits to the prison. When he called she ran her ass to the prison. He was also a narc that was controlling everything she did every decision she made came from him. This relationship is base on fear and control she is petrified of him and he controls her entire life. He permits her to sleep around as long as he can control who she sleeps with and how long she can sleep with that person. She constantly told me she was not in love with her husband and planned on divorcing him. What found out is they were both in on her meeting men and sleeping with them for money and gifts. The bottom line is narc attract narc and they are very loyal to each other. These people are discussing and have no moral compass.
Sad. 😢
Their #1 flying monkey is an ex.
It’s disturbing to think about. Just glad she’s out of my life.
The one thing I couldn’t stand. I can tolerate a lot and let things go. Couldn’t let go being triangulated by exes and always secretly having something to do with them
I found out this before I left him I no this is true
Always has someone on the back burner.
Thanks!
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Nailed it
Yep said he hadn't spoke to her in years. Lier I caught him. God's ole GPS
In my narc family they were all tied to each other. At work place as well.
Great talk
With his ex ,but hes either on line or asleep.
Oh, I was used alright. But she got mad when she realized am on to the game. She went beast mode and ended it all, like taking the lead before I do
He would tell people when we were on a break...we just not seeing eye to eye...the other exs you can't be mean cause you never know when you will need people 😂
Always !!!
That’s a fact
Single = Parked cars still get hit... it's what I learned from my narcissistic ex.
hes a friend and i will be friends with him .. former lover and you are jealous if you complain
Yessssss! My 🤮
Hahahaha! His ex (whom he still communicated with during our relationship(?). She cheated on him with his BFF/flying monkey). Too bad, so sad.
She called this dude to tell me they were not hooking up!!! Shes known this dude since 1999!!!!!!!!
Yes mam
It now now clear my ex tried to make me another ex she is “still friends” with
Hi yaz😊♥️🇬🇧
More connected to his stepdaughter. 😮
And if you are the mother of their kids
If they got a baby mother or multiple… you just should run 😂 because they are still involved unless their bm got someone else
I Pray that he changes and gets tied to God. I don't want heath to be tied to me. I don't want to be tied to heath but God. We are not cool but we are not friends, I do not have any contact nor want any contact with him. He is on triple Blocked no he was seeing someone the whole time I am over him
Since high school inflation
Hi Yaz.. :)
Lady at work was always doing this..would tell about her so called male friends etc.
New International Version
Evil will never leave the house of one who pays back evil for good. Prov 17:13