How Joy Mendoza Forgave The Seven Men Who Raped Her | A Forgiveness Story | Toni Talks
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If she was able to forgive the worst people, so can you.
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Kala ko sira cp ko. Dinownload ko pa yung video para lang mapanood pero ganon padin. Yung video pala talaga 🥺
Akala ko sira speaker phone ko nahulog pa naman to kenina
@@cindycarpio3516 Same here. Nirestart ko pa phone ko 😅
Akala ko kailangan ko na talaga palitan ang phone ko. Tsar! Kala mo naman may pera HAHAHAHA anyway, fire! 🌟
I need to check the audio from fb videos and then come back so yeahh
I am a rape victim as well, I was only 4 and 5 years old. I will never forget the trauma and fear I was going through. When you are told by your abuser not to tell anyone or else he is going to kill you, your whole body will be shaking, you feel frightened all the time. I was withdrawn, I was 9 years old and I still wet my bed, I learned later in life that bedwetting at that age is a sign that a child was molested. I remember vividly when I was at school I was always nervous, angry about little things. I wasn't friendly at all. I was carrying bitterness in my heart for many many years. I never told anyone what had happened to me. My parents split up when my siblings and I were very young which added injury to the trauma. Not until... I learned that there is God who can heal, restore and forgive. He allowed me to understand who He is and what His Son Jesus Christ had done for me. He washed me, He restored the broken spirit that I was able to let go of the past abuse and forgive the one who assaulted me. I was also able to tell my husband everything about my childhood and he was gracious to say that" no matter what I was going through that he'll give his unconditional love and support to help me healed completely. Thank you, God, for your amazing grace, and thank you that you chose me to be your daughter.
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Virtual hugs my dear... 🙏💚❤️🥺🥰
Prayers po 🙏
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"they can't touch my soul because that belongs to God!"
The only peace that she had. Grabe! Grabe, Lord! 😭😭🙌
But know that Jacob's and David's daughter got raped😢
Please don't be over confidence sister rather learn self defense 😊
I've read her book "When God allowed rape" and I cried so haaaard. What a strong woman! Praise God for your life! ❤😭😭
where did you buy the book po?
@@jhenylquindao4783 Oh my friend let me borrowed her book 😊 But i think it's from the NBS or PCBS.
Whats the title pls.
Yeah napaka inspiring nung book nya, maliit lang syang book kaya natapos ko isang upuan lang😭
@@rose-xt7ew mam san po mabibili yun book ni miss joy mendoza
As a victim of rape by my uncle I think what has made me feel comforted is what I learned that "Don't make your forgiveness conditional on how the person is going to be moving forward. If they choose to act in loving ways then you would just see it as a bonus. But not as something you are dependent on to have peace, to have joy."-Joy Mendoza
Let's normalize Godly vlogs. This is what we need. Let's raise a generation who loves God. Because definitely, they will be a better person. Lord, ikaw na bahala sa Pilipinas. We are lifting our country to you. Be with us.
Amen. ❣️
Amen. Yes to this 😊
Amen
Yassss...
Amen 🙏
She didnt cry when she talked about the incident. She cried when she told how her brother cried, how she was held overnight by her mother. We cannot control the things on earth, but it is how we handle the aftermath. Look at her now, she is still as pure as what she is wearing. Woman, you are my idol and I learn so much from you. God bless you and your family.
It's often just not possible to cry when talking directly about the incident. Trauma does that to people. You just switch off all emotions in order to survive.
wala ako pake
@@unkownplaying7621, wow you think you're so cool? read the room please.
@@unkownplaying7621 Aw. How touching! You care so much, taking your precious time to insist you “don’t care”. 😂😂😂
habang pinapanuod ko , tumutulo nalang luha ko 😢 Im also a Christian and Got molested by my own cousin , raped by myboyfriend and my uncle's boyfriend 😢 at galing ako sa broken family , kaya mula 5 years old tinago ko sa sarili ko lahat yon , ngayon 21 years old nako. si Lord lang nakakaalam ng lahat, kaya si Lord na ang bahala kung ano man ang will nya sa buhay ko. Alam ko Buhay ang Diyos at may plano ang Diyos sa buhay Ko ☝️🙏 Praised God ☝️
May fb ka po? Or instagram?
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Ang tagal tagal ko ng nadadaanan at inignore itong episode. Dko aakalain na ito pla magsasalba sa kin. Ive been struggling with acceptance and forgiveness. Finally, God unlocked it and I am truly in the process of healing and forgiveness...Thank you so much
When two quality women talk, You LEARN A LOT. Its like raining of wisdom.
True
When two women were bounded by The word of God theres wisdom because of God's word
Daming tsimosa dito samin nag uusap din no wisdom.
Always remember it is God who is the author of this wisdom and and the giver also.
@@japhethmendoza4545 couldn't agree more
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Totoo.
She didn’t cry sharing what happened to her, she started crying when she shared the pain of her family
Read her story years ago when i was just a teenager..ngayon 30, Grabi parin iyak ko whenever i hear her story..sobrang lakas niya talaga..😭 i admire her! In my eyes, She's the epitome of a Godly woman.
and to think she has bashers saying she's lying or just doing this for attention and some women commented she should have kept this as a secret. Grabi noh? How these bashers are inline with those rapists. Kaya triggered ako kapag may nagbabash kay Mrs.Joy...
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 grabe mga bashers 😔😔😔
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 Those people don't have a relationship and commitment w/ God, that's why they don't understand where she's coming from
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 IGNORE the bashers. They do not deserve even a second of attention from God's believers. Thank you. Hanap pansin lang ang mga yan.
I am not bashing her if that’s what you’re trying to imply. In fact, I admire her selflessness. What I’m trying to say is, she was able to take all the pain of her own abuse but breaks down whenever she remembers the pain it brought her loved ones.
26:27 “Don’t make your forgiveness conditional on how the person is going to be moving forward.”
Very eye opening! I used to think like “hihingi sya ng sorry tas di rin naman magbabago edi useless din kung papatawarin ko sya”
Hindi pala dapat ganun dahil forgiveness is a choice. Kung talagang gusto mong magpatawad, magpapatawad ka no matter what. Magbago man sya o hindi papatawarin mo sya. Thank you for this! ❤️
IS RAF DAVIS PART OF THE 7 MEN?
pero mali talaga na hindi niya pinaresto ang mga suspects ! how many more people did they hurt AFTER this incident ? its 100% correct to fully trust God, pero, its BAD na WALA KANG GAGAWIN and 'leave it all to God' ... Remember God GAVE US BRAIN AND WISDOM to know what the RIGHT thing to do ... its HER RESPONSIBILITY to TELL the Society about these people ...
True! Dapat magpapatawad ka pero may justice parin dahil pano nalang kung hindi kasing swerte nya yung susunod na mabibiktima? Pano kung patayin na? Pero wala na nangyari na. Desisyon nya yun. Wala na tayong magagawa dun. Lesson nalang ang makukuha naten sa story nya.
Pero kailangan pa rin justice di biro ang raped kung pagnanakaw pa siguro mapapalampas pa ang kaso may raped nangyari pito pa ang nag raped pa sa kanya
Huwag na lang magpatawad; MAGPASALAMAT na lang kaya sa mga kriminal para lumampas ka na sa langit dahil sa sobrang pagpapakabanal.
This video is so powerful, the enemy even tried to mess up its audio. But it nevertheless reached and will reach many souls for God. Thank you for your testimony Ms Joy.. you inspire many
Joy: "Who is the ultimate justice-giver? And when God says vengeance is mine and I will repay. I have to believe that God is bigger than the justice system".
Wow! These are the words that captured me.
"They can touch my body, they can do all things to my body but they can't touch my soul because it belongs to God." -Joy
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Amen!!!!!💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
Napaiyak din akong namg sinabi niya yan 🤧🤧🤧🤧
😭😭This made me cry when u think the truth that our body is just corruptible that we most valued compare to our soul that are mostly important to God and it belongs to Him that no one snatch or destroy it🙌🙏. #powerfulstatement
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That hits me. #saveyoursoul
Those people don't deserve forgiveness.
you are using your feelings char. hahaha
@@justgowtheflow101hahahaha
I still can't accept to forgive the people who intend to rape the victims. This is sick. The punishment must be deserved it.
Matthew 6 (KJV)
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¹⁴ For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
¹⁵ But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
I'm also a victim, but I choose to forgive and let the Lord serve the justice for me. Month's ang lumipas he was imprisoned. And I thank God.
I am sorry to hear that, but you are such a brave God who like Joy in the interview fully trusted in the justice that God Himself will bring.
I pray for your healing..
At this MOMENT na iyak ako sa sinabi mo bigla lang nag karon ng luha ang mata ko. Kasi ako yong babae na talagang ang HIRAP TANGGAPIN ang SALITANG forgiveness. I will try to be like JESUS and you and to other PEOPLE who had a forgiving HEART.
I pray for you healing
I pray for your healing 🙏 God bless you
In Toni talks, Toni listens more than she talks. She lets her guests talk and she let them shine. Her vlog shows the glory of God manifested in the lives of these people.
She listens more than she talks, I noticed that as well. I think that's what separates her from other interviewers.
Agreed! Toni is a good listener .
better than tito interview
It should be toni listens ,, lol. 😂
I can't imagine forgiving people who sinned you like that.
Different pastors explained that to forgive means to not seek revenge; and to seek justice or bring someone to justice does not mean that you failed to forgive. In fact, the Bible commands justice -- to bring someone to justice does not contradict God's Word that "vengeance" is His. God judges the heart -- when you bring someone to justice, what's your motivation? It's important to study the Bible in order to stay close to God and be able to spot true teachings and teachers. 1John 4:1 "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
This is really a powerful message not only to women who went through a tragedy but to everyone who has bitterness in their hearts. It's true that when you keep it to yourself, you're already the one who's victimizing yourself the second time and this bitterness will show even in small situations. My name has a "Joy" on it but I never really feel like using it but seeing Joy and knowing her story makes me see that she is indeed a Joyful person.
Toni is really a good listener, you would always see that whenever she interviews someone, it feels like she's also literally seeing situation, empathy is there, she is rational and almost knows what her interviewee would say.
"Bitterness makes us ugly on the inside, and then it translates to the outside."
-Joy Mendoza
Hebrews 12:25
Matthew 12:34
You brood of vipers! How can you speak good things, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks
“They can touch my body, but they cannot touch my soul because that belongs to God.”
This made me cry. Whatever struggle, pain or hurt you’re going through, know that you are in the hands of the Lord and nothing or no one can snatch you out of His hands, not even the devil.
Amen! This true and personally experienced it in many difficult moments in my life. God the Holy Spirit and my Angels always protect me from harm.
Amen.
I cried too .
I couldn’t even put into words how this interview made its impact on me as a person. As Miss Joy is telling her story, I just cried. But in the end, her strength is truly amazing! Not everyone can forgive the way she did. I, for sure will not be able to do that. But, to just know that someone like her was able to do so is just... amazing! Its very brave! It made me see forgiveness in a whole different way. I hope you continue to inspire people esp Women, Miss Joy. How you overcame this challenge in your life is unbelievable! God bless you more!
Hi.. You know what? It's true that it's hard to forgive. Because we need to have deep relationship with God in order to do such an amazing thing. Inner healing needs strong spiritual life in order to do that. And God is the one who will do it for us. We just need to allow Him because It is a process where in we need guidance from Him to take control over everything. And when we allow the Holy Spirit to help us, He will do it 360 degrees.
A friend of mine told me to watch this. I’m glad she did. Joy’s faith in God is so inspiring. I learned so much from this. Thank you for this beautiful interview.
When I first heard this from Pastor Peter, I felt his pain as a Parent. But now hearing it from Joy, it felt different! It’s not a story of rape but testimony of forgiveness! You are amazing Joy! Thank you for sharing your story!
True
Agree..
Meron din Testimony sila Pastor Peter and Maam Deonna... It was so hard for them too.. I remember Pastor Tan-chi said.. If they run away from the Lord, Where are they going...
Praise God talaga sa buhay nilang lahat who experienced the tragedy. Sister Joy was God's masterpiece to reach out those who are victim of raped. ❤️
I was raped when I was 13 by my own father,i hated him for so many years.If my mind can kill,?I killed him million times,I was hurt and broken,I blamed him for everything that happened to me,I ran away at 13 ,didn’t finish school,I ruined myself because my FATHER ruined me first.I was so young and so broken,And all I can do was to pray,I prayed to God to heal me and teach me to forgive..it took me 11 years to finally forgive My Dad..I don’t know what happened,I woke up
One day,the pain and anger wasn’t there anymore.That’s when I started telling my story and surprisingly it was not hard.When I forgave my father things started to get easy on me.God prepared me for the GREAT!I may not have the best childhood but He gave me greater things in Life!!!
Praying for you...this is a beautiful miracle, your life.
It must have taken so much courage to forgive your father. Praying for you. You are an inspiration and a blessing to others who are going through something dark and still could not come out.
i hope you're in a better place now
God bless you.. Praying for you..
U are loved❤️🙏
Thank God you choose to forgive and have joy in your heart now. You are free in the bondage of evil thought in Jesus name.Amen
This vid was recommended to me and wrong night to watch it. I am bawling my eyes and tearing my heart out. So touched, heartbroken and inspired at the same time - cant believed these feelings are happening all at once. Kudos to your braveness and kind kind heart Miss Joy! Virtual hugs.💕❤
I cried so hard. I've been keeping my emotions to myself and this helps it to be released once and for all. Thank you very much for this inspirational talk. I might cry for a while, but this gave me an idea on how to finally move forward and live my life. 😊
This episode taught me that when you forgive, you release the burden of shame, hatred and judgment. Thus, forgiveness is a form of love. Not necessarily a love to the offender, but a love to yourself.
Can i post this? 🙏🏻
Can I share this too?it is worth to share
I love this
ISA PO AKONG BASURERO NA NANGANGARAP PO MAGING TH-camR PO PARA SA PANG ARAW-ARAW PO NAMIN, NITONG PANDEMIC BAWAL NA PO KAMI UMAKYAT SA TAMBAKAN PO 🥺 SALAMAT PO SA MAY MABUTING KALOOBAN. . 🥺🙏
I used to work in one of Ms. Joy's family businesses. Her brother, Sir Peter, used to pray with us every single day. What an amazing relationship with the Lord they have that I definitely admire.
I thought I have experienced the worst in life after I have to overcome financial problems and difficulties mid life. But NO, that's nothing compared to what this amazing lady had gone through (both physically and emotionally) and still manage to forgive and love.
I heard her stories before during an interview. This is one story that made me ask the question 'Why...?' and it is heartbreaking still as an audience and as a woman knowing what she went through. Her resilience and her character in a general is just stunningly amazing. Brave and beautiful lady.
What an amazing character!
I’m also a victim of rape when I was a kid. I grew up thinking my life will be falling apart and became miserable. I was diagnosed having an HIV when I was just turning 21 years old. I had steven johnson syndrome after taking my treatment. I thought that was the end of my life. Life is a life long journey until such time I found Jesus in my life who saved me from these all brokenness. God who forgives and provides me grace to accept the fact that I am also a sinner. God allows me to experience all these things to see how faithful He is over my life. I have surrendered my life to Jesus and now continue serving His purpose - to glorify Him, to worship Him and to tell the world how faithful He is as always. 🌻
are u a guy?
Mannn..this is just so sad and so empowering at the same time. You're a survivor! Though I have never experienced such horrifying experience, I've learnt from your story to forgive those that may have wronged me in any way. ❤️
I've watched this whole interview 3x already and it makes me cry everytime.
She conquered all of her fears by surrendering it to God. And now, this brave and strong woman is a living testimony to everyone.
Imagine the devil was trying to destroy this video by destroying audio quality but God's power prevails...so please be patient use your earphone as much as possible. This is a life changing story from the Author of Life and the Devil doesn't want you to hear it
OO NGA NO. LIKE NGAYON PA PARANG DI MALINAW YUNG AUDIO SA VIDS NI TONI
@@sundaewithfries yes.. Sa lahat ng na post na videos nya ito lng ang nagka problem.
@@jhonalynpenaflor5910 hindi lahat meron Bluetooth speakers, if you try to watch using your speaker phone aakalain mong may sira ang phone mo.
@@jhonalynpenaflor5910 mamaya na lng kasi mag work muna ako.. hihihi
Done watching in my phone not using a headset. Ok naman po ang audio, actually malakas pa nga. Baka ok na din sainyo. Thanks for the inspiring message Ms. Joy and Toni. ❤️❤️❤️
Crying and at the same time comforted by inspiring words from Joy while watching this video 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥺 Thank you Toni for featuring videos like these.🥺🥺🥺
The feeling just watching this purifies me. It makes your life such a blessing to many. You're such an inspiration. You make my afflictions seem little. God bless you abundantly and thank you Tony for having such a channel.
I could relate to Joy's older brother who cried because he couldn't protect his younger sister. My younger brother was robbed & stabbed and I wasn't there to protect him like I always did ever since he was young. He would always call me, magsusumbong pag may nangaaway sa kanya or nambbully sa kanya. Doesn't matter kung mas malaki sakin or lalake ung nang api sa kapatid ko, aawayin ko talaga. Hindi ako titigil hangga't di ako makaganti kahit papano for my brother. So when he died, I was so affected. Sama talaga ng loob ko. At one point I even blamed myself. I also blamed my parents for sending him to that school where he went to sabi ko sa kanila delikado dun pero walang choice kase wala kaming pera that time eh. My brother got a scholarship there eh. Pero praise God for his goodness & faithfulness. All things work together for good talaga. He healed our family after the tragedies that happened to us. Praise God parin!
I have read her book years ago. It's amazing how strong she was, how strong she is. I cried my eyes out. Her faith is really inspiring.
This was such an amazing interview with an amazing woman. I am so proud of you, Ms. Joy 🙏🏻
I'm a Christian and it's been a month since the last time that I went to Church because of my health issues that I have to take meds forever, nagtatampo ako kay Lord but while watching her I felt ashamed for being weak.. I'll continue to fight and forgive myself na.. Thanks
It’s hard but continue to be strong
God loves you.
True po everytime naririnig ko testimony nya nahihiya ako kay God konting problema nagtatampo na at nanghihina but look at her despite sa laki ng bagyo pinagdaanan nya she remain faithful and strong
Keep pressing on! Fight the good fight of faith! 🙏🙌
I have bilateral cleft palate scars in my face. I hated God of the Bible when I was high school because I experience a lot of discrimination and bullys, verbal abuse from my dad and other people. I tried many times to kill myself b4, I summoned the devil. Etccc but Christ of the Bible still love me and save me from myself. 😂🤣😁 Praise the name of Jesus christ of the Bible
"They can touch my body, they can do all these things to my body, but they cannot touch my soul because that is belong to God." 🥺🥺❤️❤️
Goosebumps! 🤘🏻🧡💥
Yes God said it so for Job!!!!
What the Bible says about our body?
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 - “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” ... Genesis 1:26-27 - “Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. (The rapists disrespected her body and other women's bodies. Therefore, they disrespected God and broke the law. They should have gotten the death penalty. It is FINE TO FORGIVE but it is NOT fine to let rapists go so they can rape again and again. )
Wow. This was the most humbling episode of Toni Talks so far. Two wonderful women with beautiful characters in one frame. I will forever remember this interview. This has so many life lessons. Thank you Ms. Toni and Ms. Joy for blessing us with your truth. Continue to have faith in the Lord, Everyone!
She’s (Joy) an amazing woman. I was touched by all her words. Thank you also Toni for bringing amazing life stories and wisdom to inspire people. It makes life more meaningful.
"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. " - LB Smedes
Mrs.Toni Gonzaga-Soriano doesn't need big stars to get views, she cares about the lesson content of the video, that makes people cry and get inspire.
Amen. 🙏
Her vlog set the bar high. One would seek to watch for foundational inspiration.
Ms Joy never fails me to be amazed by her strength everytime she shares her story. You are incredibly strong woman.
Thank you, Toni, for this very inspirational interview. I am sure, this is an eye opener for all of us and would somehow help us have some self-realization. Your interviews are all meaningful. Job well done. Keep up the good work.
Imagine she has to relive the moment over and over again when she gives testimonies.
All for the sake of enlightening people. That's very selfless.
Amen! And you can sense her healing from God! That was so amazing!
True,, then Its God's story in her life
Indeed. I heard she's a excellent counselor to women who experienced trauma.
Read her story years ago when i was just a teenager..ngayon 30, Grabi parin iyak ko whenever i hear her story..sobrang lakas niya talaga..😭 i admire her! In my eyes, She's the epitome of a Godly woman.
and to think she has bashers saying she's lying or just doing this for attention and some women commented she should have kept this as a secret. Grabi noh? How these bashers are inline with those rapists. Kaya triggered ako kapag may nagbabash kay Mrs.Joy...
True... I can't imagine how hard it is for her but she's very strong. God really made her strong. 💕
"When you bring things to light, it loses its power." - Joy Mendoza
Such a powerful statement
caught this too.. such powerful words from once a wounded person. cried a lot when she uttered these words. and it's really true, what we feel and experience inside, translates outside.
I was being molested and the trauma wont go away real easily. I hate the person and always pray not to see him again. Forgiving wasnt easy for me. It takes a golden heart to forgive those kind of people.
With God all things are possible🙏🏼
14 "For if you forgive men their trespasses , your heavenly Father will also forgive you. [Matthew 6:14]
15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses , neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. [Matthew 6:15]
I cried watching this video. I had a quite similar experience with her and it's so hard to let go of all the bitterness caused by pain, trauma, and self-pity.. I'm so happy I found this video to teach me to let go, choose to forgive and trust GOD.
"If you learn to forgive, you'll slowly recover"
"If you want to be happy, you have to learn to forgive" - Toni G
If you learn to forgive you'll slowly recover ,if you want to be happy you have to learn to forgive
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Ms. Joy Mendoza is the owner of Homeschool Global Roces where my son is enrolled, she is really full of wisdom and I really like listening to her. It never shows to her that she went thru something horrible. God bless you Ms. Joy. May God always bless you and your family. 💖
the healing interview when in silence.i admired how the parents mold her to be a God fearing one for choosing joy and forgiveness afterall.❤️
Ms Joy went to a very rough experience in her life, there is no reason for me to complain. Thank you for sharing her story.
She and her husband have always been invited in our company’s events and they’ve always been the best speakers I’ve ever listened to. Very inspiring.
I'm also in the process of healing right now. My father was assaulted by our neighbors using a gun in front of me and my PWD mom. I'm so broken and in pain and we are really longing for justice. To think that our case was dismiss by the fiscal office and that made me more broken. I even questioned God's justice. But this story lift my spirit up, "God's justice is wider than our justice's system." I choose to trust you now Lord. You are in control. We will see your goodness in the land of the living.
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He is JUST . And he will surely give you justice. God bless you 🙏
I pray for your healing and total freedom from the past. There is real joy in God's presence. God has a better plan in your life.
I will pray that you find your peace. 💖
May God fill your heart and mind with His peace and hope. You are seen, heard and valued. God is near you.
So much respect for Ms. Joy, Pastor Tan -Chi and the whole family. Glory to God! I learned a lot. Thank you!
I admire your courage Joy to tell your story and the strength you have to move forward and forgive which is so difficult to do thank you for sharing. Goodness and compassion always prevail over evil. God Bless you and your entire family. ❤
I admire her for being strong. I cried when she said, they can touch my body but they cannot touch my soul. I'm also a victim and it's my first time too. Like her I didn't filed a case I leave it to God and that man received his punishment after 8 months. I didn't prayed for it kc ayaw ko mag dasal ng masama like sana magdusa yung gumawa saken non. It's true when you forgive you find peace through God's mercy and grace. I'm glad Joy find her husband who respect her and accepted her past she is blessed to have him. Kc yung ibang lalaki nagagawa pa nilang ibalik yung trauma ng partner nilang babae.
..God bless you dear
Yep our soul is our treasure..It should be pure and full of love and forgiveness cos it consist of energy that is only connected to God..
I admire you for being strong too! Godbless You!😇
Because victims tend to go for abusers. Abusers are usually good with words and manipulation. If the abused women don’t have a relationship with the Lord like she does, they would end up getting victimized over and over again. That’s why everyone needs to have a deep relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ so they can heal from their past, move forward, and learn to discern the Godly people that they need in their lives. Only Jesus can help them know who the wrong people are. God bless you, sis!
God bless you. ❤️
"Forgiveness is a choice"
I remember years ago when I decided to forgive the people who killed my father. I remember doing it in a prayer then decide to surrender the justice my family deserves. I decided to forgive them because I wanted to have peace. To be free. To be happy.
I was only 12 when this happened I got my peace 8 years after my father died. 2017 we finally got the justice my family deserve.
I'm a living example that forgiveness is a choice. And I hope that if whoever's reading this will have the courage to forgive the people who gave so much pain in your life. It may take a while, but it will be worth it. 💕
And no one can take that joy from forgiving away from you. Hugs bebi! 🥺
@@theBoorishDude omg. Thank you mommy Jem!! I miss you!!!
Nope Parang trabaho Yan 😁 obligation Yan dahil Kung dika magpapatawad di ka Rin patatawarin Ng lumikha
Diba lahat Tayo gusto mapatawad
Sabi Nita magpatawad din Tayo
Basta ako Ito ang pinaka paborito ko sa lahat ng na interview ni Toni. Ilang beses ko inulit ulit Ito.
This is one of the most heartbreaking interviews I've ever watched so far. :'(
“God is bigger than the justice system” That is so true.
Yesss indeed tinood gud kaau 😭😭💔
This is such an eye opener for people who’s been struggling to forgive someone. I myself took 15 years to forgive my parents who abandoned me at 8 years old. Our family reunion happened during my father’s funeral and that’s the only time we’ve met after almost 2 decades. Looking back, it was a painful reconciliation but I made a Decision to let go of my grudge so I can continue pursuing my dreams without a baggage. Now that I am already an engineer, most of the people who knew my childhood journey are questioning why I am supporting my mom and her new family, they’d say “They never helped you in your success”. The only reason I could think of is because I have forgiven them even before they asked for it. What an awesome God! He took my heart and made it new.
I agree
What a blessing😇
But please don’t let them used you. You can help but not to the extent they will encourage them not to work anymore.
you passed the test, Matthew 6 (KJV)
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¹⁴ For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
¹⁵ But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
A very powerful and life-changing testimony. Thank you, Ms. Joy.
Thank you Toni and joy for sharing this wonderful message.
"Not all men are like that, just the lost ones" - Ms. Joy
Glimpse of hope for humanity 😇
Very humble po. 😊
May pag-asa po. 🙏
My sister who have an intellectual disability got raped also. And you know what is more painful, the rapist is my best friend's father. I cannot forget the pain, the guilt I felt when I think na wala ako sa tabi niya. I really blamed myself for that. What more painful is that she couldn't express her own emotions, her own pain. How can a human do such thing? I was crying in watching this whole video, I salute you Ma'am Joy for being strong and share your story with us. Someday justice will prevail. God is always have the best plans for us, trust him. Have faith in him. Right now I can't offer that forgiveness but somehow someday, i can.
May the Lord heal your heart ♥️🙏
I feel your pain Kristha! We are praying with you as you seek to trust the Lord who is sovereign and who causes ALL things for good Romans 8:28. That same God who loves you and your sister.
haha wawa naman iyak
@@paulalenarabang-chavez8773 another stupid bible qoute
@@shichilaofa To each their own. I understand that you have different beliefs. But the way you show your disagreement speaks volume of your character. If you don't believe in God, at least be kind. It's not a hard thing to do.
I really like Ms Tony’s style handling interviews. She shows respect by not interrupting her guest while talking, she can be classy or jolly but still can connect to her guest. You earned a subscriber here💛
She can manipulate a conversation well, allowing the person to talk more. Because anyway, it’s not about Toni but the person giving the tesimony.
@@rheycabuloy2012 exactly!
She listens every time.
My heart wasn't ready.... But I fought that feeling and finished the entire talk. And I'm glad I did.
Normally, on cases like this, people focus on sharing how they moved on, how it affected them and how their life was ruined after it. But, this episode is so so different. From the start to the end it was very clear that she wanted to teach us how to forgive and acknowledge God in every aspect of your life.
Thank you for this wonderful episode! ❤❤❤
But mine i couldn't move on. Attempted rape😢😢
@@jetlag0971 i hope you find the courage and peace in God so you'll finalllyyyy be set free. 💚 My prayers.
I had the same experience like yours. 😊 God bless dear.
Iba po ang religion ko, pero pinapanood ko mga testimony niya about the Lord. Thank you for sharing your story.
Amen!!! We're different religion but we are the same God.
It's not about the religion, it's our relationships with the Lord that truly matters 🙏
I kinda know how you feel. 4 years ago, before I heard her story, I thought I knew God since I was born into a religion. when I heard her story I was really confused kasi bakit parang hindi ko kilala ung God niya. Hindi ba iisa lang ung God natin kahit iba iba ang religion? Bakit yung God niya, parang napaka personal, ung God niya allowed the bad thing to happen and then turned it into something great? By God's grace, after many years, I now KNOW the God who she is talking about! The great Lord who restores who redeems, who is sovereign! My Lord who LOVES me. Napakagandang journey to be in a relationship with a very personal and loving God. Thanks to her testimony.
Hi Kris, having a true relationship with Jesus is the only key, not our race, not our religion, the Holy Bible will reveal it to you.
@@graciebaguing3093 Yes it's not the religion that save us it is our relationship with God that we must be born again in Spirit and in truth like in John 3:3 to 7 na, "Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
Na sabi po jaan kung ang isang tao hindi maipanganak muli sa Espiritu at katotohanan ay hindi sya makakapasok sa kaharian ng Diyos. Kaya ang born again, Christian sabi ng karamihan it is religion yun yung paniniwala po natin nuon pero it is our encounter to Jesus that we must be born again in Spirit and in truth. Dahil nung nagkasala ang tao sina Eve and Adan nawala yung relasyon natin saating Diyos at namana natin yung kasalanan dahil sa pagkain ni Eve at ni Adan ng bungang ipinagbabawal ng ating Diyos. Kaya para ang relasyon na maikabit muli parang sa communication process kung walang channel na nagsisilbing koneksyon sa receiver sa sender malabo yung nasasagap na impormasyon. Ganon rin sa ating Diyos kailangan tayong maipanganak muli in Spirit in truth that we must be baptized in water and be baptized in the Holy Spirit. At ang Christian sa born again, Christian ay ito lang ay pagkakatawag sa mga tagasunod ni Kristo noon na unang tinawag sa Antioquia sa panahon ni Apostol Pablo (na Saulo ang ngalan dati na dating umuusig kay Kristo)at Apostol Bernabe dahil marami na ang nakakakilala at nababahagian ng mabuting balita ang Biblia. In Acts o Gawa sa tagalog chapter 11: 25 to 26 na sabi duon, "25Nagpunta si Bernabe sa Tarso upang hanapin si Saulo(na Apostol Pablo na ang bagong ngalan)26at nang kanyang matagpuan ay isinama niya ito sa Antioquia. Isang taon silang nanatili roon na kasa-kasama ng iglesya, at nagtuturo sa maraming tao. Doon sa Antioquia unang tinawag na Cristiano ang mga tagasunod ni Jesus.
Kaya kahit anong sekta pa dati ang ating kinagisnan o mga relihiyon dahil ang tao lang naman ang gumawa ng mga relihiyon kaya marami ngayon kung pagmamasdan natin dahil nga binulag tayo ng mga ilan sa kinagisnan nating sekta. Na hindi maikakaila dahil na sa Bible din naman iyon na may mga huwad na guro sa 2 Pedro 2:1 sabi duon, "Noong una, may mga huwad na propetang lumitaw sa Israel. Gayundin naman, may darating sa gitna ninyo na mga huwad na guro. Lihim silang magtuturo ng mga maling aral na ang dulot ay kapahamakan. Pati ang Panginoong tumubos sa kanila ay kanilang itatakwil, kaya't di magtatagal at sila'y mapapahamak.
Kaya kung tutuusin mapagmamasdan natin na bakit relihiyoso naman sila pero bakit ganon yung pamumuhay nila. May ganyang katanungan saating kaisipan diba. Kasi nga relihiyon ang isa din nagbibigay dahilan upang maging mailap ang tao sa Diyos dahil nabulag na nga sa mga katuruang gawa ng tao.
Hindi pa huli ang lahat nawa'y hayaan nating mas makilala natin nang lubusan ang Diyos na huwag nating isarado ang ating puso at isip sa kanya. Dahil apart from Him we can do nothing kaya tayo napapahamak at nabibigyan ng gulo saating isipan sa dami nating katanungan. Testify ko nalang sarili ko dati akong may identity crisis nuon pero nang hinayaan kong makilala ko ang Panginoon, ako'y binago niya dahil sa sarili nating lakas wala tayong magagawa katulad nalang sa mga kaugaliang new years resolution ng mga tao na hindi na magiging ganto, hindi na ko babalik sa dating ako. Kaya kafaithtid hindi pa huli ang lahat nawa'y hayaan mong makilala mo nang lubusan si Kristo nang hindi lamang kilala sya sa kung sino sya kundi ano pa yung kaya niyang gawin sa buhay ng bawat-isa. Sa Diyos ang papuri, magpakailanman. Amen😊
This episode continues to inspire me more. I am still in the healing process though my sad experiences happened mnay years ago. It was totally painful. But because i believe in God , i was able to carry on and i know HE is with me to head on and still be a God fearing person.
It’s really heartbreaking listening to Joy, I couldn’t stop crying and feel her emotions too! She is amazing. May the Lord continue to bless you more and more 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
You can’t have a “TESTIMONY ” without a “TEST” Thank you Toni for using your platform to bring Glory and Honor to our Heavenly Father! 🙏🏽☀️🙏🏽
Amen to that
Kahit ilang beses ko na napanood yung story ni sister Joy Mendoza, hindi ko pa din mapigilan na maiyak. 😢 She's truly a woman of God.
Thanks, Toni for this segment, it really helps me more to understand myself. I have not been healed until now.
I watched this again to remind myself that I should learn to forgive. Thank you Toni and Joy ❤
I admire Toni for using her popularity for sharing people's stories about how good God works in our lives.
sino ka ba?
Despite of her gruesome experience, God is still good for He placed her where she stands today. Thank you for this testimony.
God loves you. You have such a forgiving heart. I can't even imagine how were you able to cope up with all the trauma. You are truly God's child.
Dami ko natutunan sa bawat guest na nakakausap mo Ms.Toni. Buong night shift ko dito ako tumambay sa channel mo while working. More people to interview and more lessons to learn on how God’s is working in every situation that we have.❤️
"HUWAG KANG MAGTANIM NG GALIT SA IYONG PUSO.MASISIRA KA AT SISIRAIN MO DIN ANG MGA TAO SA PALIGID MO.KAPAG PUNO NG GALIT AT HINANAKIT ANG IYONG PUSO DOON PUMAPANGIT ANG ISANG TAO" - on point 🙏💗
Hindi ko pa napapanood naiiyak na ko kasi si Ms. Joy yung guest sa Toni Talks!! Ms. Joy, you have no idea how God directed me to your book When A Good God Allows Rape which helped me so much of my recovery and forgiveness. It always reminds me so much of His Grace in the midst of everything. Your testimony is truly a blessing to others.
Proud of you for being brave too! Godbless😇
@@gelinepal3748 thank you!!! This means a lot 🥺
Ms. Joy’s past is so heartbreaking. I’m crying while she’s sharing.
Thank you so much for this, you just don't know how much this means to me.
Wow. This interview was so heartbreaking and inspiring.
You can tell Ms. Joy is such a selfless person, she didn't even cry recounting her rape; she only cried when she talked abt her brother and her parents.
To all those people who experienced abuse, rape, and trauma, I pray healing for you. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen.
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Amen. 🙏
Amen
Amen ❤️❤️❤️
Amen
Glad I encountered this on my watch recommendations. I actually read a book about it a long time ago. I cried reading it. But I applaud her for being strong.
I am a fan of Toni from Malaysia. You inspire and uplift and these videos speak deeply, touch deeply and minister goodness. Thank you Toni. You are a blessing. May GOD be good to you.
"Sometimes God will put a Goliath in your life ,for you to find the David within you. "
- Pastora Tel Journal
"And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don't be troubled or afraid.” (John 14:27, NLT).
We need to remember that peace is a free gift for those who walk with the Lord.🙏
A very inspiring story, thank you so much Joy for sharing with us how to stop worrying and start trusting God. 🙏
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Amen. Thank you lord.
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It really make me cry! 😭 I can't stopped it
I've read her book before.. and it really inspires and help me a lot.. i cried a lot reading her book and watching her here telling her stories again and testimony i cried again.. but i'm really inspired by her..
i also went through in the same situation.. once a victim of abused and part of me really hard to choose to forgive.. but like what toni said, "if want to be happy, let's start to forgive.." i'm learning now bits by bits by God's grace.. thank you Lord.
I heared her stories several times, but it's only in this interview na bumuhos luha ko. What a powerful message for forgiveness! 'I don't want to block His blessings..." Thank you Lord for the assurance.
relate here 🥺🙏🙏