That dilemma 🤯 I think false allegations like that destroy people and they make it difficult for genuine cases to be believed. If she was trying to build a life with someone new, she should have told him rather than the surprise 5+ years into the relationship. The way it came out was horrendous. The man ain't the asshole because the care he showed by letting her cry on his shoulder and even call her parents to pick her up was kind. Everyone needs therapy after that one. You 3 make my day. Love you ❤️
I fully agree with you. The friend was horrible. She's horrible for not having told him already, even worse that she did that to that poor boy. No wonder she and that friend are friends. They're terrible people.
Y'all look do pretty ❤. Sharon's top giving everything. Hair & make up slayed as per usual. The man in the dilemma was definitely in his rights to end the engagement.
in the dilemma, if sis was with this man for 5 years and she never mentioned the SA incident at any point, she probably is not sorry about it, just sorry she got caught. She would have mentioned it as one of her biggest regrets or something to her partner. She has been sleeping ok at night and was planning on doing so forever... Also Becky is ops 😂😂
Awww, Sharon's "wilderness" story resonated with me. I'm that friend that feels I would be inconveniencing my friends in that situation. I'd also try to sort it out on my own. It was so heartwarming to hear Tammy and Beatrice emphasize that they're there for their friend no matter the time. Us overthinker friends need that.😅☺
Ding ding ding!!! Y'all hit the nail on the head! Something of that magnitude that can be found out, she absolutely should have said something!! And I'm with Sharon "I think you need to ask Anna again!" 🤣🤣
That dilemma was heinous!! For anyone that watched the Steve Harvey Show, Merlin Santana was murdered for something similar. He was lied in by a teenage girl at the time who claimed Santana SA'd her. Her boyfriend rolled up on Santana and shot him in his car .
There is an edit to the dilemma she actually accused him of domestic violence and hitting her after he would not get back with her and the ex killed himself at 22 cause someone found out at this job and reported it.
On the Dilemma story. I don't think Becky wanted the guy..from how I look at it, that SA story was so crazy that some people/ including Becky still feel offended that she got away with it when the ex's life was flipped upside down. Maybe the way she brought it up was wrong. Also Anna tried to stop Becky from speaking about it. she knew that's what Becky was going to say which means they have had this conversation and Anna did not want to tell her man. The fact that Anna had never told him about it was wrong. That story would have come out eventually. It's sad that this is how he found out.
You girls are always a joy to watch, thank you guys so much for your time, with content you guys express, so much to learn from in our daily lives, keep on going strong ladies we love you❤️
In regards to the dilemma... i feel like any man or woman who says that something like that has happened them and its a lie, should go to jail or have the same sentence as their supposed offender. Because if it didnt happen and theyre gone for 5yrs because of it. They need to have 5yrs of their life taken away as well. But thats just my opinion.
Honestly that dilemma is deep but I think as much as we want mercy we should extend mercy to others. Everyone makes mistakes, bad bad mistakes if God still loves them so should we. It wouldn’t be easy but I think as someone who loves her, I think he went too far breaking up with her, love forgives. Love isn’t all bed of roses, it means sacrifice, it means forgiveness, it means trying again. But anyways it’s his life so better knowing now than later. All love tho❤
After a break up or you’ve been hurt by someone you tend to do frivolous things……That was how many years ago, she has grown, matured and even learnt from her mistake(which we all make) since she confessed.
as a guy, yes i would be a bit upset, but i would be moreso scared because now im wondering if she would do something like that to me if i do something to get her upset
I think the friend did the right thing especially with the fact that she was still lying about the regret situation…… the guy dodged a bullet however it came out is not our concern…. Anna should have been transparent from the onset especially with the fact that other people knew….. if they got married and the news popped that’s a wrecked marriage already.
No I felt that Sharon! Don’t come callin me bout the same ishhh! 😫😭 It’s kinda like the people who get online having the same debates every year 😂🤦🏾♀️
Also in the first dilemma I would say homegirl also was in the wrong bc not only is false accusing someone serious, but it damages the integrity of actual victims. It takes a lot for women to point out their abusers and we’ve come a long way, but things like this set the whole thing back sometimes.
It’s funny how you lot are calling what she did a “mistake “ . She only confessed after he un-alived himself but she did nor said nothing when he left school or was admitted to the hospital That is never a mistake
So what if the friend had to hold it in as long as she told her. Maybe the friend knew about the allegation obviously but she didn’t know that it was false. So there could be a possibility that she found out later while she’s with this man(before the engagement) and thought he knew or they wouldn’t be engaged. At times some people have the guilt for the other person of holding that in. Genuinely how do you hide that and live ur life but ruined someone else. What if that was the friends way of getting justice in a way, having guilt for the boy that was caused by her friend? Idk just thoughts, because how can you live with something like that ? Or she assumed he knew and tried to make a joke of it because that’s how I deal with trauma it has to be funny I have to make a jokey joke
This dilemma is crazy and I don’t think there is any excuse for her doing what she did . The only thing I would say is if she really cared about this relationship she would have known and definitely should have brought it up to him especially being 5 yrs in she should have told him and 2nd!!!!! Her friend was out of place for saying that tho she could have been a better friend and encouraged her to tell him and not just blurt it out on a drunk night I would never do that to my best friend and I wouldn’t chance ruining her relationship I would encourage her to tell him her self !!! She sounded spiteful and malicious and not a real friend even though it’s not her secret she just should’ve went about it in a different way as a “best friend” maybe she was feed up with her ignorance of the situation but still NOT OKAY and he NOT WRONG FOR ENDING THE RELATIONSHIP ❤
I think you guys were too harsh towards the girl and so was her partner. (He’s been looking for a way out and his prayers were answered) we have all done something in our past that we are not proud of and that is her demon to live with. We don’t know if she has apologised to the accused and made her amends with it. To even think “am I next” is totallly silly because you have been with her for years and she hasn’t indicated on doing anything as such until this secret came out. She is better off without him. And I hope she has forgiven herself. Shame and guilt will make you do stupid things when you are young. I hope she forgives and forgets that “friend”. You do not need to reveal every past thing to your partner, it’s in the past for a reason. Unless it follows you today such as “I have been to jail” ask for what, “I have a pending debt” etc because these affect the present and future you. Anyways, I hope this made sense and nobody come at me harshly please x
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That dilemma 🤯 I think false allegations like that destroy people and they make it difficult for genuine cases to be believed. If she was trying to build a life with someone new, she should have told him rather than the surprise 5+ years into the relationship. The way it came out was horrendous. The man ain't the asshole because the care he showed by letting her cry on his shoulder and even call her parents to pick her up was kind. Everyone needs therapy after that one.
You 3 make my day. Love you ❤️
I fully agree with you. The friend was horrible. She's horrible for not having told him already, even worse that she did that to that poor boy. No wonder she and that friend are friends. They're terrible people.
Y'all look do pretty ❤. Sharon's top giving everything. Hair & make up slayed as per usual. The man in the dilemma was definitely in his rights to end the engagement.
in the dilemma, if sis was with this man for 5 years and she never mentioned the SA incident at any point, she probably is not sorry about it, just sorry she got caught. She would have mentioned it as one of her biggest regrets or something to her partner. She has been sleeping ok at night and was planning on doing so forever... Also Becky is ops 😂😂
Becky was definitely the ops!!!! 😂 But I'm glad the truth got told
Awww, Sharon's "wilderness" story resonated with me. I'm that friend that feels I would be inconveniencing my friends in that situation. I'd also try to sort it out on my own. It was so heartwarming to hear Tammy and Beatrice emphasize that they're there for their friend no matter the time. Us overthinker friends need that.😅☺
the only person that knows any information is the BEAVER AHAHAHAHAH
i love that Sharon said silver when Tammie mentioned Renaissance 😭😭
Ding ding ding!!! Y'all hit the nail on the head! Something of that magnitude that can be found out, she absolutely should have said something!! And I'm with Sharon "I think you need to ask Anna again!" 🤣🤣
BRAPP - hallelujah, my Monday prayers have been answered!
Jeeeez I haven’t heard brap since msn lmao
I think the friend did the right thing. It’s better it came out now than when they’re married
Yall are serving lewksss in this one 🥰🤌🏾
That dilemma was heinous!! For anyone that watched the Steve Harvey Show, Merlin Santana was murdered for something similar. He was lied in by a teenage girl at the time who claimed Santana SA'd her. Her boyfriend rolled up on Santana and shot him in his car .
Not me finding this podcast & now listening to it 24/7. Love you girlies sm !!
Tammy is so beautiful. Love the dark hair this week, sis! ♥️
There is an edit to the dilemma she actually accused him of domestic violence and hitting her after he would not get back with her and the ex killed himself at 22 cause someone found out at this job and reported it.
Sharon's hair looks so good !!!
You all look beautiful! Tammmyyy!! This all black look from the hair to the outfit is eating😍
The Sharon getting locked out segment was too funny 😭😭😭
Yeah I’m not lying for people and the truth is the truth
Waka Flocka Flame- No Hands 😂😂😂that's the song they said Americans love 😂😂😂 WE DO!!
Found you guys from TikTok... this is now my obsession to watch while I work
On the Dilemma story. I don't think Becky wanted the guy..from how I look at it, that SA story was so crazy that some people/ including Becky still feel offended that she got away with it when the ex's life was flipped upside down.
Maybe the way she brought it up was wrong. Also Anna tried to stop Becky from speaking about it. she knew that's what Becky was going to say which means they have had this conversation and Anna did not want to tell her man.
The fact that Anna had never told him about it was wrong. That story would have come out eventually. It's sad that this is how he found out.
What happened to reading the dilemma first you guys i miss that sequence lol. However you guys look gorgeous as usual
change is good! 💕
people used to just listen to the dilemma then leave so this is probably better
Tammy, idk if its the buss down, the black on black, the make up....i don't know what is girl but you are looking GOODT!
9:22 it was Shxtsngigs and they talked about South Africans 😂
You girls are always a joy to watch, thank you guys so much for your time, with content you guys express, so much to learn from in our daily lives, keep on going strong ladies we love you❤️
In regards to the dilemma... i feel like any man or woman who says that something like that has happened them and its a lie, should go to jail or have the same sentence as their supposed offender. Because if it didnt happen and theyre gone for 5yrs because of it. They need to have 5yrs of their life taken away as well. But thats just my opinion.
Tammy the hair is givinggggg
Honestly that dilemma is deep but I think as much as we want mercy we should extend mercy to others. Everyone makes mistakes, bad bad mistakes if God still loves them so should we. It wouldn’t be easy but I think as someone who loves her, I think he went too far breaking up with her, love forgives. Love isn’t all bed of roses, it means sacrifice, it means forgiveness, it means trying again. But anyways it’s his life so better knowing now than later. All love tho❤
After a break up or you’ve been hurt by someone you tend to do frivolous things……That was how many years ago, she has grown, matured and even learnt from her mistake(which we all make) since she confessed.
“The only person who would know any information is the beaver”😂😂😂😂😂😂
29:50 I agree with Sharron I think setting the scene was very necessary 😂
18:42 Now that’s a dilemma… 😳 I had to pause the show to gather my thoughts. Lol. You ladies covered every thought I had too.
There was an update to this dilemma and if the update is real, he has every right to leave her. She didn’t change
I love how protective you all are of each other💜💜💜💜💜
as a guy, yes i would be a bit upset, but i would be moreso scared because now im wondering if she would do something like that to me if i do something to get her upset
Ouuu tammyyy you looking quite cheeky. The hair and makeup atteee 😍😍
I think the friend did the right thing especially with the fact that she was still lying about the regret situation…… the guy dodged a bullet however it came out is not our concern…. Anna should have been transparent from the onset especially with the fact that other people knew….. if they got married and the news popped that’s a wrecked marriage already.
Kudos to that man. Karma always comes back and get you
Sharon is EAATINGGGG as usuallllll. so pretty pretty
8:10 Beatrice 😂 Beatriceeeeeeeee
The way I’ve been CACKLING throughout this one😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tammy’s makeup😍😍
Watching you ladies from the US and absolutely love your podcast! Keep up the great content. Greater things are on the horizon for BTS 💕
Yooo Beatrice is gorgeous man
AYYYYEEEE HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MARCH BABES💜🌻💜🌻
Tammy’s laugh and beauty makes me day😂
No I felt that Sharon! Don’t come callin me bout the same ishhh! 😫😭
It’s kinda like the people who get online having the same debates every year 😂🤦🏾♀️
Y’all look so pretty
Jail immediately for at least 5 years for false allegations. You can literally ruin someone’s life and image permanently.
"Imma call you back!" Hahahaaaa Y'all are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣 So sorry that happened to you Sharon but what a great story!
Bruh I felt for the longest I was the only one jamming that song Rihanna! It had me in a chokehold 🤣
I really enjoy watching you guys sending love from Houston Tx❤
Morning all the way from D.C.
I love Sharon’s top 😍
Morning from Louisiana yall!!! ❤❤
Also in the first dilemma I would say homegirl also was in the wrong bc not only is false accusing someone serious, but it damages the integrity of actual victims. It takes a lot for women to point out their abusers and we’ve come a long way, but things like this set the whole thing back sometimes.
Lmao 😭 Tammy's "I don't know"
She was asking for a “legion” senttt meeee
You guys are funny 😂
You always make me laugh my Monday blues away!
The guy is right , it's hard to rebuild trust. The way I hollering and crying with Sharon's potential kidnap dilemma AHAHAHAHAHA
The song is No Hands by Waka Flocka
It’s funny how you lot are calling what she did a “mistake “ . She only confessed after he un-alived himself but she did nor said nothing when he left school or was admitted to the hospital
That is never a mistake
So what if the friend had to hold it in as long as she told her. Maybe the friend knew about the allegation obviously but she didn’t know that it was false. So there could be a possibility that she found out later while she’s with this man(before the engagement) and thought he knew or they wouldn’t be engaged. At times some people have the guilt for the other person of holding that in. Genuinely how do you hide that and live ur life but ruined someone else. What if that was the friends way of getting justice in a way, having guilt for the boy that was caused by her friend? Idk just thoughts, because how can you live with something like that ? Or she assumed he knew and tried to make a joke of it because that’s how I deal with trauma it has to be funny I have to make a jokey joke
Sharon was too funny this episode
This dilemma is crazy and I don’t think there is any excuse for her doing what she did . The only thing I would say is if she really cared about this relationship she would have known and definitely should have brought it up to him especially being 5 yrs in she should have told him and 2nd!!!!! Her friend was out of place for saying that tho she could have been a better friend and encouraged her to tell him and not just blurt it out on a drunk night I would never do that to my best friend and I wouldn’t chance ruining her relationship I would encourage her to tell him her self !!! She sounded spiteful and malicious and not a real friend even though it’s not her secret she just should’ve went about it in a different way as a “best friend” maybe she was feed up with her ignorance of the situation but still NOT OKAY and he NOT WRONG FOR ENDING THE RELATIONSHIP ❤
Sharon looks like AD from love is blind season 6
You all are just too funny, love your alls content 💗
TAMMY… BABY YOU LOOOOOOKKKK TF GOOOOOOODDDDD ❤❤❤❤❤❤
The thai sweet chilli dress 😂 iykyk
This episode had me dyingggg omg
Becky did ask to talk to her privately n she refused sooooo 🤷🏾♀️
They called it the chili pepper dress I think lool
Do we not get straight into the dilemma anymore? 😅
False allegations just hurts everyone. Let's hope she never actually becomes a victim cause now whose gonna believe her?
Believe her?
I love yall ❤
becky girl you did her dirty
FINEEEE BABESSSSS❤
yall look absolutely SICKENING honey my edges are gone
It’s her biggest regret. She’s remorseful. Living with that guilt is enough punishment. The guy should forgive
The fact that she deliberately kept it from him though, that’s not the kind of thing you should be hiding from your partner
Forgive?? If your bro or son un-alive himself due to false allegations, you forgive her cos she’s remorseful??
Lol
I'm just a girrrrl 😂😂
OMG i hope the ex got serious reparations. And nothing can make it better honestly
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I think you guys were too harsh towards the girl and so was her partner. (He’s been looking for a way out and his prayers were answered) we have all done something in our past that we are not proud of and that is her demon to live with. We don’t know if she has apologised to the accused and made her amends with it. To even think “am I next” is totallly silly because you have been with her for years and she hasn’t indicated on doing anything as such until this secret came out. She is better off without him. And I hope she has forgiven herself. Shame and guilt will make you do stupid things when you are young. I hope she forgives and forgets that “friend”. You do not need to reveal every past thing to your partner, it’s in the past for a reason. Unless it follows you today such as “I have been to jail” ask for what, “I have a pending debt” etc because these affect the present and future you. Anyways, I hope this made sense and nobody come at me harshly please x
You girls look absolutely gorgeous 🥰🤎🔥loved the episode so much, I swear it felt too short 🥲❤️
Thank you so much
ASOS
Tammy’s makeup😍😍