If your sister did this to you, what in the hell do you think she’s going to do with your child🤦♀️ this is why children don’t tell things like this. Lord have mercy 🙏🏽
THIS pissed me off!! That " mother" threw her CHILD under the bus! 😡. After telling child she can tell HER ANYTHING! That makes" mom" a HYPOCRITICAL LIAR! 😡🤬.
@@dejafat6888 I wouldn't ever say to my child that she might be imagining that this kind of thing is happening. Kids rarely like about stuff like this.
"You don't call me a liar in my house" I dislike when parents want to have authority over their house when they're being called out on their wrongs. Such a pet peeve.
Yes, so sad too many parents abuse the fact they have authority over their youth and it is very wrong to use having any kind of authority get to your head and puff you up. Being the adult or elder adult ( or other authority ) does not mean you never can be wrong.
@@holyexperience1976 Absolutely I definitely agree with you. A lot of parents do that and throw that "This is my house" or "In my house phrase" it's such a pet peeve.
it depends on the situation, if I'm doing everything right as a parent I'll be damn if my child talks to me crazy especially in my house, and parents should take authority, I'm not trying to be your friend you gone do what I say and that's the bottom line, especially if I'm not leading down the wrong path, and paying the bills, and makes sure you have food and a roof, ain't no way
@@GamingWithjay1992 Well, guess what? This is different. The Mom was busy protecting the perpretraitor instead of victim. What was the daughter to do? Cover up for her mother and stay victimized when she had bravery to tell her mom, and her mom not listening to her tell the truth, and mom not listen so she called the ones who will listen? In that moment, the daughter was not wrong, the mom was. And being the one who owns the house, food, everything means nothing if your child is violated, and with you bruahing it off, so child had to call police. Mom lost everything she owned just to sweep things under the rug. Edit: I am my child's parent and not friend, and though I have authority over my child, there were times I had to humble myself even though I not liked it, because I had a few moments where I deserved my child calling me out. And it was not like my child swore at me or name called me or used wrong voice.
My older sister abused me too & right now to this day she acts as if she hates me or like I've done something to her. Ultimately I believe it's her internal guilt that's eating her up about what she did to me & she knows I remember what she did to me.
Sexual abuse is no joke & should ALWAYS be taken very seriously when it's reported. It takes a lot of courage for children to come forward & tell adults that they've been molested. Do not ignore or fail to believe them! That's the worst thing to do & makes you just as bad as the person who touched them inappropriately. Thank you for shining light on such an important topic, Vid Chronicles. Sexual abuse is a crime & should never be taken lightly. Even if it's difficult to believe, because many times it's a trusted family member or friend of the family, do not ever turn your back on a child who tells you that this has been happening to them. When you choose to be in denial, you are hurting your child, who is already a victim, and setting them up for a lifetime of pain & misery. Children need love & support, not betrayal & secrecy. No adult has the right to put their hands on a child in a way that makes them uncomfortable, that is a violation of their trust & their body. Please protect your children also by never trusting strangers around them alone & always be willing to let your child come to you about anything & everything.❤️
I had 5 beautiful girls and 2 handsome boys and If my child told me they're being touched, I'm going to believe them until (I Know) different, I didn't want the things that happened to me growing up to happen to my kids, I told them what happened to me and why they couldn't go to their friends houses, I told them if anybody touch them, it's ok to tell me it's not their fault. 🙏🏼Keep your kids safe from evil especially the evils in the family and talk to them everyday😇
Parents need to stop putting their workplace over their children. Always take the time to listen to your children. Whether they are lying or not, never ignore their cry for help 🙏🏽🙏🏽
While this is true a lot of ppl talk about women that don’t work or don’t work enough. They call them bums, welfare moms, section 8 recipients etc. it’s disgusting how ppl make other mothers feel when they don’t work yet these women have to make a choice
I can understand the pain the mother went through and agree she shouldn't have lied to the police and she should have believed her child. I understand she was scared, but that fear made her be quiet until it was too late.
@@beautifulwonderful4391 Unfortunately, child predators are not always men. Look at that female teacher that got 60 days in prison for doing bedroom stuff with a minor. It is disgusting, I agree.
For peace we must forgive and allow God to uplift us and make us strong. The person who has wronged us should only be around us if they change their ways and we can deal with their presence.
I would always encourage a child to tell someone--hopefully their parents but if you can't get your parents to listen to you, then go outside the family and tell an adult that you trust--a friend's parent, a pastor, a teacher. Keep telling someone until you're believed, and the appropriate action is taken against the person who is molesting you. And always know that it isn't your fault, you did nothing wrong and that you didn't ask for them to bother you.
that's correct you can't tell your arm you know if you just can't talk to your pain your your mother cuz you can tell your father when you get to him until your pastor of the church or the first lady of the church or go to number tell you baby who going to handle you the mothers oh baby they don't play cuz they going to take it to the authorities and they going to have that child removed out that house see that's what her mama mad about she a pretty girl too probably going to stay with her grandmother or Aunt or something because her mother maybe just not in a mental state to listen I think she's listening but she is something going on first time my child come tell me something like that like girl hold up hold up hold up babies let me get your daddy let me get your daddy don't have that cuz I'm going to be head somebody let him take care of that
At first, I was disgusted at the mother's behavior and thought she was stupid for protecting the aunt. Now I understand why she did what she did, but it still doesn't excuse her behavior. April deserves better, which hopefully she gets from the dad.
I understand the pain that her mother has been through. Her mom didn't have the right to let her daughter go through it. I am glad she is suffering the consequences. If someone is hurting you in any way speak up and stand up for yourself.
Yup. My daughter ran away and went to my sisters house. Instead of calling me to let me know. She took her to purchase underwear from Victoria secret. I flipped. It was both inappropriate and devious. You have to look out for the signs no matter who it is. Your children are your most prized possessions. Keep them safe. They are a gift from God.
This is horrible for any child/person to go through. If someone is strong enough to tell you their being hurt, believe and do something immediately to protect them!!!
I am so thankful for the mother I've been blessed with and when I have children, I'm following in her footsteps. Believe your child when they come to you and protect them, it's your job!
What a twist in this episode her older sister is a predator for sure, she completely abuses her sister & now her daughter that’s really disturbing! In the beginning of the video, it really piss me off that the mother should’ve never let her daughter’s aunt inside the house!! Remember always listen to your children no matter what & when they are in trouble they need you 💯
@@lordybelance3410 It is not always about workaholics. Some people, especially single moms, cannot afford to get fired, and employers are not kind to women being moms first. But in this case, it is much more important to risk getting fired than for the child to stay unsafe.
I have a huge trust system built with my child. My son tells me every single thing because he feels safe to come to me about anything! I am very spiritually connected to him I can sense things right before he addresses them. Also emotionally available for my son.
usually when a parent was touched as a kid they want to make sure that never happens to their children and they wouldn't want their abuser anywhere near their kids
Sadly in families things are more complex. Those blood ties are strong. Most people want the abuse to stop but don't want to see their abuser in trouble. Many people go around their family but don't allow the abuser alone space with their children. Most abused people who hear that their abuser has now moved on to others in the family would confront and threaten the abuser with exposure if this behaviour continues. They would then monitor making it very difficult for this to continue.
Necessary perspective to be expressed to the world. This powerful story sheds a light on the unfortunate reason there is so much silence in the world when it comes to sexual assault on a child or an adult. We must all stand up speak out and support
If a kid confesses something to you you should definitely take them seriously but Kids do lie. It has happened and it still does to this day the appropriate thing to do is cancel the babysitter and call in the work one day won’t matter
If you went through the exact same thing, why TF would you trust the person who abused you, to care for your child? And why would you not believe your child when she tells you the same monster who hurt you, is touching her? You tell her that she's imagining things??? Crazy!
Also the moral of the story is if your child says that their family member is touching them or messing with them always believe them even if they’re lying or telling the truth always keep surroundings around you kids
Wait let me get this straight so not only the mother was molested by her own sister which is disgusting by the way but allowed her sister to do the samething to her own daughter? wow I'm sorry but the mother should be ashamed of herself because how is that she knew about the abuse but did nothing? Smh.
Yes women do this shit too. That is why I tried my hardest to keep a close eye on my daughter's and didn't really let them go with many people. However stuff like this can still happen.
She was dismissive after being told she was uncomfortable being left with her aunt! That is why kids don't tell a lot of the time! The mom is in denial because she doesn't want to believe her sister is a predator! She knows her daughter is telling the truth because she was preyed upon too...by that same sister! Finally she takes up for her daughter and kicks out her sister and reports to the authorities!
Or should we say it goes all ways…No family is perfect but I’d say it starts from the leadership at the top in order to creative a great environment. But it isn’t easy and takes knowledge, wisdom, and experience to pull off. At the root we must be the change we’d like to see and give our best 💯
Wow this is one of your most thought provoking nuanced videos ever at first it seemed like the mother didn't care but she was actually a victim as well but the way she took responsibility was amazing she made her daughter feel helpless like her mother didn't care about her convinced the police that she was lying it was like a psychological Thriller but she called the officers again because she knew that this lie can hurt her daughter even more in the future and make her afraid to speak up if she ends up in danger again if your child says they're in danger take it seriously
This is a difficult one. The child was right in telling. However, I have also known cases where children make up stories about this, because they were angry with a parent or family member. The best thing is to ALWAYS be HONEST with your children.
@@ARaebow It's hard to, but even if it does sound unbelievable, check into it. The reason it may sound unbelievable is because either the child doesn't know how else to explain it or they are being blackmailed into being quiet.
this hits home, my brother abused me i also witnessed him abusing other family members !!! i did what i was suppose to do TOLD!!! no one. protected me!! instead i was labeled a liar an pushed away by my family members that’s why i don’t allow no one to babysit my grandkids and communicate with them on a regular pay attention to the the kids and listen I will sacrifice my life for mine and will do whatever to protect them
This is so sad if her sister did that to you why would she leave her daughter with her. But the truely sad part is this happens in real life. Prayers for those that are a victim. We will survive
Even after she told her mother she left her heartbreaking! Ughhhh then parents wonder why kids don't talk to them! I'm sick of the police not intervening when they should have!!
Amen, I told mine the same thing, and I made sure they knew I would listen to anything they had to tell me and not be afraid to tell me because I will believe them over anybody
This is a very powerful play because this has happened so many times. Most of the time in the Black and Hispanic communities and it has to be swept under the rug because family members are too ashamed to allow others to know that they have pedophile family members. I'm glad that eventually the mother decided to believe her , Simply because it happened to her when she was a child. And she did not realize that she put her child in the hands of the same predator that prayed on her when she was a child. Same thing happened to me with my big brother and I told my mother but she didn't believe me. He went on to molest me for 7 years after that. And to top it off molested other family members, and grew up to be a molester and did 5 years in prison and now is currently a registered sex offender living in the state of Georgia. Where people don't know what he really is because his case was in California and he hangs around women with alternative Lifestyles that have children, he pretends he's their friends and he prays on their children. And what do you know his father my father is also a pedophile!! And it has been swept under the rug my whole life come my father told me once that my brother paid his debt to society. I told him the things he did to me and other people his others that his debt would never be paid. Not even when he go in the ground. This makes me angry because people don't want to face the truth! Your child is your blood their word is the only word that matters. Parents often sacrifice their children for jobs, boyfriend's girlfriend's relationships no place to stay Etc! And those people that they live with in the touching their children. Family members especially My ex brother also has an alternate lifestyle I'm not saying this because he was molested because he said he never was. But I sure wonder where he got all of the things that he decided to do to me and others from. It takes a lot of therapy and healing to heal from something like this. Parents have you can spare your children this expense please do.
No it happens in all cultures. Rich, poor, it don't matter. It's a sickness in the world. The adults wanna tell you it didn't happen, you don't know anything. Be a good child, go sit on so n so's lap and smile. That's a good kid right. Don't upset the adult. It happens generation after generation and every generation says shut your mouth, you didn't have it half as bad as we did... And later in your life, they say ohh that never happened we agreed it was all a miss understanding. Father's selling kids to there friends. Wife's don't want to be alone so they turn their head. The richer family's just don't say it as often because they don't wanna lose money and reputations. It's a sick world
This short story is inspiring and I think it can help a lot of kids .share share share❤❤ mom messed up but she redeemed herself by taking accountability ❤
I feel so sorry for the little girl . It's a horrible thing to keep telling the truth - only to keep getting blown off . The frustration can do terrible things to the human mind and body . Validation is so very important to the truth - teller ...
Screw that. If my child ever told me something like that was happening, I would believe them 100% and never allow that person back around them - family or not.
The woman was no better than the sister. I understand that the sis did the same thing to her but I would've let the police take the sister instead of lying to their face. My mom did the same thing and protected my abuser instead of calling the police to have him arrested so this video really struck a nerve. My child will always come first before anyone else especially during these circumstances
Watching this is letting me learn.not to trust people but to tell your parents everything about your life to all of you children I hope you guys learn as well !😊
The first 2 minutes of this video pissed me off when this poor girl is being voilated by this creep! Listen and protect our children from these monsters! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I’m a living witness of similar happenings .. And how some parents don’t listen don’t believe or just ignore the child … that caused major issues as I grew up and issues with relationships but now I’m a healthy minded adult with no bitterness and heart of forgiveness for the people who did this to me .. and RIP to my mom … who didn’t listen 😢
I love this I was molested at the age of 6 by my step grandfather and that was 40 something years ago and if my cousin did not see what was going on back then I don't know if I would have ever told anybody I even wrote a book about my story 95% of pedophiles is somebody that you know so please talk to your children and listen to them they are our future💜💜💜💜
Her MOTHER let her down massively!!!!
That is truly unforgivable!!!
True. Least she set things right in the end
All the way down smh
SMH🤬😡😥🙏🏽
The mom should've listened to her daughter, and questioned the Aunt.
If your sister did this to you, what in the hell do you think she’s going to do with your child🤦♀️ this is why children don’t tell things like this. Lord have mercy 🙏🏽
Yeah, i totally agree with you. My sister wouldn’t be nowhere near me or my child if she messed with me when we was little.
Speak from experience that no one else listen to me
Exactly amen
Umhmm...😢
That part! 🤬😭💔👎
I firmly believe that if your child comes to you for help, then you need to trust and believe what they are saying.
Absolutely Right!!!!
Yes, don't just brush it aside without looking into it. If you do that, you break that child's trust and they'll never trust you again.
Absolutely
Especially when the child is talking about your former abuser & you know that that they are capable of doing it…
Amen
The daughter said enough is enough. Good for her!
YES, TRUE TALK 🙏❤️🎉💯
If A Child Says Someone Is Touching Him ( Or Her ) Inappropriately, It's The Adult's Job To Confront The Person; Whether They're Family Or Not
Your absolutely right
Enough said....
ℝ𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥
damn right they should
Absolutely. The aunt was very messed up but the mother was definitely in the wrong for not helping her daughter.
The real crime is the parents who don’t listen to their own kids 🤦🏾♂️
Exactly!!! Sometimes, the REAL crime isn't what has been done, but what HASN'T been done!!!
That's soooooooooo sad 😭😭😭
Exactly!!!
@jspurs22 . Believe what she is saying! That your child stop and listen! It’s to must thing happening in this world.
Absolutely!🤨
This is why children don't tell their parents nothing. If your children is telling you that someone is doing something to them. Believe them.
Exactly
That's the truth
Exactly! I can't believe parents like her are still like this to this day.
@@missebone right they either don't believe them or put the blame on them that's not right
Yes I agree 💯
THIS pissed me off!! That " mother" threw her CHILD under the bus! 😡. After telling child she can tell HER ANYTHING! That makes" mom" a HYPOCRITICAL LIAR! 😡🤬.
Ohbhh me toooo!
Pissed me off too🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Right
@@dejafat6888 I wouldn't ever say to my child that she might be imagining that this kind of thing is happening. Kids rarely like about stuff like this.
No
"You don't call me a liar in my house" I dislike when parents want to have authority over their house when they're being called out on their wrongs. Such a pet peeve.
Exactly because she should have listened to her child, especially because she abused her too when she was a child.
Yes, so sad too many parents abuse the fact they have authority over their youth and it is very wrong to use having any kind of authority get to your head and puff you up. Being the adult or elder adult ( or other authority ) does not mean you never can be wrong.
@@holyexperience1976 Absolutely I definitely agree with you. A lot of parents do that and throw that "This is my house" or "In my house phrase" it's such a pet peeve.
it depends on the situation, if I'm doing everything right as a parent I'll be damn if my child talks to me crazy especially in my house, and parents should take authority, I'm not trying to be your friend you gone do what I say and that's the bottom line, especially if I'm not leading down the wrong path, and paying the bills, and makes sure you have food and a roof, ain't no way
@@GamingWithjay1992
Well, guess what? This is different. The Mom was busy protecting the perpretraitor instead of victim. What was the daughter to do? Cover up for her mother and stay victimized when she had bravery to tell her mom, and her mom not listening to her tell the truth, and mom not listen so she called the ones who will listen? In that moment, the daughter was not wrong, the mom was. And being the one who owns the house, food, everything means nothing if your child is violated, and with you bruahing it off, so child had to call police. Mom lost everything she owned just to sweep things under the rug.
Edit: I am my child's parent and not friend, and though I have authority over my child, there were times I had to humble myself even though I not liked it, because I had a few moments where I deserved my child calling me out. And it was not like my child swore at me or name called me or used wrong voice.
My older sister abused me too & right now to this day she acts as if she hates me or like I've done something to her. Ultimately I believe it's her internal guilt that's eating her up about what she did to me & she knows I remember what she did to me.
I'm so sorry this happened to you 😢 🙏🏽
Omg, sister, I'm so sorry to hear that! R Kelly's sister molested him too
That's what it is everytime she sees you it reminds of her what she did to you the guilt and the shame she can not face😮
Yeah she is guilty and is reminded by her evil everyday.
Vengeance is mine saith the LORD I will repay.
I would never leave my kid with someone who abused me as a kid.
Ditto
Hell to the no!!
Right!!!!
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Right exactly, same here 💯💯💯
The fact that she’s gaslighting her kid is a clear sign she did not want to accept that reality.
Listen to the kids and get those scotch-tape sideburns off
Lol
Sexual abuse is no joke & should ALWAYS be taken very seriously when it's reported. It takes a lot of courage for children to come forward & tell adults that they've been molested. Do not ignore or fail to believe them! That's the worst thing to do & makes you just as bad as the person who touched them inappropriately. Thank you for shining light on such an important topic, Vid Chronicles. Sexual abuse is a crime & should never be taken lightly. Even if it's difficult to believe, because many times it's a trusted family member or friend of the family, do not ever turn your back on a child who tells you that this has been happening to them. When you choose to be in denial, you are hurting your child, who is already a victim, and setting them up for a lifetime of pain & misery. Children need love & support, not betrayal & secrecy. No adult has the right to put their hands on a child in a way that makes them uncomfortable, that is a violation of their trust & their body. Please protect your children also by never trusting strangers around them alone & always be willing to let your child come to you about anything & everything.❤️
I'm glad I never experienced being molested growing up😢
I had 5 beautiful girls and 2 handsome boys and If my child told me they're being touched, I'm going to believe them until (I Know) different, I didn't want the things that happened to me growing up to happen to my kids, I told them what happened to me and why they couldn't go to their friends houses, I told them if anybody touch them, it's ok to tell me it's not their fault. 🙏🏼Keep your kids safe from evil especially the evils in the family and talk to them everyday😇
You had?
Parents need to stop putting their workplace over their children. Always take the time to listen to your children. Whether they are lying or not, never ignore their cry for help 🙏🏽🙏🏽
While this is true a lot of ppl talk about women that don’t work or don’t work enough. They call them bums, welfare moms, section 8 recipients etc. it’s disgusting how ppl make other mothers feel when they don’t work yet these women have to make a choice
Shame on that mother! Her daughter deserves better.
I can understand the pain the mother went through and agree she shouldn't have lied to the police and she should have believed her child. I understand she was scared, but that fear made her be quiet until it was too late.
Her auntie? I can see it being her uncle which is still very disgusting. But I didn't know women did that sick sh!+ too
@@beautifulwonderful4391 it don't matter what Gender, it's still dead wrong.
@@demochris1786 I agree. I just can't even imagine an aunt doing that to her niece
The mom went to jail for making a false report to the police at the end making it so she has too live with her dad.
@@beautifulwonderful4391 Unfortunately, child predators are not always men. Look at that female teacher that got 60 days in prison for doing bedroom stuff with a minor. It is disgusting, I agree.
I can not believe that mother left her daughter with this woman after what she told her. Poor baby!
After she done same way as child WTH you still left her
This mother is the BIG reason why kids don't confide in them when something happens. Kids don't trust them. I was messed with and was not believed.
Wow. I'm so sorry. I hope things work out in the end. I do
Children resent their parents if they are not listening to their kids about how they feel.
The good news is at the end the mom went to jail for making a false report to the police and is also now paying the price for her inactions.
@@benmunn7593 I forgave him. It was my Father, he's gone now it's in God's hands now.
For peace we must forgive and allow God to uplift us and make us strong. The person who has wronged us should only be around us if they change their ways and we can deal with their presence.
I would always encourage a child to tell someone--hopefully their parents but if you can't get your parents to listen to you, then go outside the family and tell an adult that you trust--a friend's parent, a pastor, a teacher. Keep telling someone until you're believed, and the appropriate action is taken against the person who is molesting you. And always know that it isn't your fault, you did nothing wrong and that you didn't ask for them to bother you.
that's correct you can't tell your arm you know if you just can't talk to your pain your your mother cuz you can tell your father when you get to him until your pastor of the church or the first lady of the church or go to number tell you baby who going to handle you the mothers oh baby they don't play cuz they going to take it to the authorities and they going to have that child removed out that house see that's what her mama mad about she a pretty girl too probably going to stay with her grandmother or Aunt or something because her mother maybe just not in a mental state to listen I think she's listening but she is something going on first time my child come tell me something like that like girl hold up hold up hold up babies let me get your daddy let me get your daddy don't have that cuz I'm going to be head somebody let him take care of that
At first, I was disgusted at the mother's behavior and thought she was stupid for protecting the aunt. Now I understand why she did what she did, but it still doesn't excuse her behavior. April deserves better, which hopefully she gets from the dad.
That's the exact experience I had in middle school. Thank god I got out the school by graduating from it, I hate that school more than serial killers.
Sadly even when you are believed, nothing still is done to protect us. That's my story.
I am so sorry❤ I pray that is all behind you guys now and you're doing well. God bless and protect you both.
Tell a teacher at school.
I understand the pain that her mother has been through. Her mom didn't have the right to let her daughter go through it. I am glad she is suffering the consequences. If someone is hurting you in any way speak up and stand up for yourself.
Betrayed by her own mother, that's brutal. Exactly what typically happens in these matters and why no one says anything. Times are changing!
Happened to me and wasnt even a SA. Just was a hater and bad to me and my kids.
How could a mom let a predator who abused her watch her own daughter? Wtf!!!
Her mother wouldn't believe her own daughter.
@@neshamojanay9423 I don’t mean to be a jerk but what a dumb mother. 🤦♂️
They do it all the time. My mother was one of those mothers. She allowed her bf to SA and abuse me for years.
@@ChosenGemInEye I'm sorry about what had happened to you. God bless your heart ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@ChosenGemInEye I’m so sorry
Yup. My daughter ran away and went to my sisters house. Instead of calling me to let me know. She took her to purchase underwear from Victoria secret. I flipped. It was both inappropriate and devious. You have to look out for the signs no matter who it is. Your children are your most prized possessions. Keep them safe. They are a gift from God.
"Some of the hardest people to cut off are "family" members. But sometimes they are the "main" ones that need to go."
This is horrible for any child/person to go through. If someone is strong enough to tell you their being hurt, believe and do something immediately to protect them!!!
As a parent, you should listen to your kids, especially if they come to you with information like this, pay close attention
Right always believe your kids
@@neshamojanay9423 Right…👍👍👍
Always!
@@heatherpierce9123 exactly
Always do no matter what
I am so thankful for the mother I've been blessed with and when I have children, I'm following in her footsteps. Believe your child when they come to you and protect them, it's your job!
Parents listen to your children because they know exactly what they are going through
Parents please listen to your children. Stop protecting the guity.
agree with you i never ever leave my daughter with nonone not even my family I do not trust noone with my daughter noone
What a twist in this episode her older sister is a predator for sure, she completely abuses her sister & now her daughter that’s really disturbing! In the beginning of the video, it really piss me off that the mother should’ve never let her daughter’s aunt inside the house!! Remember always listen to your children no matter what & when they are in trouble they need you 💯
Exactly. It doesn't hurt to take ONE day off from work to watch your kids. I can't stand workaholics who put their careers over their families.
@@lordybelance3410
It is not always about workaholics. Some people, especially single moms, cannot afford to get fired, and employers are not kind to women being moms first.
But in this case, it is much more important to risk getting fired than for the child to stay unsafe.
That's right!
So a lot of people and she truly needs to get help because she's not done
😮😢
Generational curses we have to break them...
AMEN. EXACTLY. HALLELUJAH. AMEN. THANKS FOR SHARING THAT. GOD BLESS YOU. I PRAY YOUR STRENGTH IN THE LORD IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN.
Your past doesn't define you, ACTIONS DO!!!!
It's really More common than I ever knew for a Mother to just not believe you when you try to do right and tell her what is going on!!!
I have a huge trust system built with my child. My son tells me every single thing because he feels safe to come to me about anything! I am very spiritually connected to him I can sense things right before he addresses them. Also emotionally available for my son.
usually when a parent was touched as a kid they want to make sure that never happens to their children and they wouldn't want their abuser anywhere near their kids
Sadly in families things are more complex. Those blood ties are strong.
Most people want the abuse to stop but don't want to see their abuser in trouble.
Many people go around their family but don't allow the abuser alone space with their children.
Most abused people who hear that their abuser has now moved on to others in the family would confront and threaten the abuser with exposure if this behaviour continues. They would then monitor making it very difficult for this to continue.
This video made so mad. If my child told me someone was touching her, I guaranteed it would be the last time
The mother was a let down and the police were too😢 Sad April couldn't trust in anyone to protect her.
Necessary perspective to be expressed to the world. This powerful story sheds a light on the unfortunate reason there is so much silence in the world when it comes to sexual assault on a child or an adult. We must all stand up speak out and support
If a kid confesses something to you you should definitely take them seriously but Kids do lie. It has happened and it still does to this day the appropriate thing to do is cancel the babysitter and call in the work one day won’t matter
My thing is this: if you knew how your sibling was towards you growing up, why would you allow them to watch your child in the first place
Exactly 💯
My sentiments exactly
Like .y thing is if you went through the same thing you should have told the police because like
The little girl is so mature and respectful. Bless her!!!
You should never mess around like that, especially with blood family, that’s incest, it’s sickening…🤢🤢🤢
Fr
I agree it's Incest and pedophilia all in one. 🤢😡
Yep, it's not just men that touch kids inappropriately, even females too. Parents pls, listen to your kids.
What an adorable little mite - I hope she goes far in life....
always listen to your child especially when it's a serious issue
She will never tell her mom anything again....great job, MOM!
If you went through the exact same thing, why TF would you trust the person who abused you, to care for your child? And why would you not believe your child when she tells you the same monster who hurt you, is touching her? You tell her that she's imagining things??? Crazy!
Exactly!!
Period
Also the moral of the story is if your child says that their family member is touching them or messing with them always believe them even if they’re lying or telling the truth always keep surroundings around you kids
Absolutely!!!!
It’s really good to get this information out so that as many people can hear this. Awesome video and message!
Wait let me get this straight so not only the mother was molested by her own sister which is disgusting by the way but allowed her sister to do the samething to her own daughter? wow I'm sorry but the mother should be ashamed of herself because how is that she knew about the abuse but did nothing? Smh.
Nah fr this is sad n disgusting
Thank you for teaching and sharing to the world about abusers and the concinqence of of the criminal act. Please keep up the great work.
This is irresponsible at its finest, why would you allow someone who touched you inappropriately to that to your child, that's ridiculous
Yes women do this shit too. That is why I tried my hardest to keep a close eye on my daughter's and didn't really let them go with many people. However stuff like this can still happen.
She was dismissive after being told she was uncomfortable being left with her aunt! That is why kids don't tell a lot of the time! The mom is in denial because she doesn't want to believe her sister is a predator! She knows her daughter is telling the truth because she was preyed upon too...by that same sister! Finally she takes up for her daughter and kicks out her sister and reports to the authorities!
real Cops would've asked more questions
Females can be sa by females
Males can be sa by males
Males can be sa by females
Females can be sa by males
It goes both ways 😢
Or should we say it goes all ways…No family is perfect but I’d say it starts from the leadership at the top in order to creative a great environment. But it isn’t easy and takes knowledge, wisdom, and experience to pull off. At the root we must be the change we’d like to see and give our best 💯
Much respect! Save our children.
The kid is a brave courageous girl...❤
Wow this is one of your most thought provoking nuanced videos ever at first it seemed like the mother didn't care but she was actually a victim as well but the way she took responsibility was amazing she made her daughter feel helpless like her mother didn't care about her convinced the police that she was lying it was like a psychological Thriller but she called the officers again because she knew that this lie can hurt her daughter even more in the future and make her afraid to speak up if she ends up in danger again if your child says they're in danger take it seriously
Listen to the entire story
This is a difficult one. The child was right in telling. However, I have also known cases where children make up stories about this, because they were angry with a parent or family member. The best thing is to ALWAYS be HONEST with your children.
How can you tell the difference though?
@@ARaebow That's why it is difficult. They have to investigate every call.
@@LadyDragonsblood Every call such as pay attention to the things the child is telling you?
@@ARaebow It's hard to, but even if it does sound unbelievable, check into it. The reason it may sound unbelievable is because either the child doesn't know how else to explain it or they are being blackmailed into being quiet.
@@RockDay-wv8jq Thank you for breaking that down to me 👌
The ONLY thing I can say is "at least" she gave a proper apology.
this hits home, my brother abused me i also witnessed him abusing other family members !!! i did what i was suppose to do TOLD!!! no one. protected me!! instead i was labeled a liar an pushed away by my family members that’s why i don’t allow no one to babysit my grandkids and communicate with them on a regular
pay attention to the the kids and listen
I will sacrifice my life for mine and will do whatever to protect them
This is so sad if her sister did that to you why would she leave her daughter with her. But the truely sad part is this happens in real life. Prayers for those that are a victim. We will survive
Parents please listen to your kids and pay attention and don't leave them with the abuser !!!
Even after she told her mother she left her heartbreaking! Ughhhh then parents wonder why kids don't talk to them! I'm sick of the police not intervening when they should have!!
Moral of the story: Family doesn't ever abuse family.
Some people act like they don't know what it means to be family, or even care. *smh*
I'm so glad I always instilled in my daughters that there was nothing they could not tell me no matter what
Amen, I told mine the same thing, and I made sure they knew I would listen to anything they had to tell me and not be afraid to tell me because I will believe them over anybody
That's so wrong on every level!!!! I don't care if it's a family member or friend, leave the kids alone and let them grow up normal.
That's a fact 💯
This is a very powerful play because this has happened so many times. Most of the time in the Black and Hispanic communities and it has to be swept under the rug because family members are too ashamed to allow others to know that they have pedophile family members. I'm glad that eventually the mother decided to believe her , Simply because it happened to her when she was a child. And she did not realize that she put her child in the hands of the same predator that prayed on her when she was a child.
Same thing happened to me with my big brother and I told my mother but she didn't believe me. He went on to molest me for 7 years after that. And to top it off molested other family members, and grew up to be a molester and did 5 years in prison and now is currently a registered sex offender living in the state of Georgia. Where people don't know what he really is because his case was in California and he hangs around women with alternative Lifestyles that have children, he pretends he's their friends and he prays on their children.
And what do you know his father my father is also a pedophile!!
And it has been swept under the rug my whole life come my father told me once that my brother paid his debt to society. I told him the things he did to me and other people his others that his debt would never be paid. Not even when he go in the ground. This makes me angry because people don't want to face the truth! Your child is your blood their word is the only word that matters. Parents often sacrifice their children for jobs, boyfriend's girlfriend's relationships no place to stay Etc! And those people that they live with in the touching their children. Family members especially
My ex brother also has an alternate lifestyle I'm not saying this because he was molested because he said he never was. But I sure wonder where he got all of the things that he decided to do to me and others from. It takes a lot of therapy and healing to heal from something like this. Parents have you can spare your children this expense please do.
No it happens in all cultures. Rich, poor, it don't matter. It's a sickness in the world. The adults wanna tell you it didn't happen, you don't know anything. Be a good child, go sit on so n so's lap and smile. That's a good kid right. Don't upset the adult. It happens generation after generation and every generation says shut your mouth, you didn't have it half as bad as we did... And later in your life, they say ohh that never happened we agreed it was all a miss understanding. Father's selling kids to there friends. Wife's don't want to be alone so they turn their head. The richer family's just don't say it as often because they don't wanna lose money and reputations. It's a sick world
Hurt People, Hurt People
You are brave to share your story and your story deserves to hold truth through courage and dignity.
Always believe your children, even if it's a lie we will deal with it later, I'm believing my child/children first period.
Yes!!!!!!
This short story is inspiring and I think it can help a lot of kids .share share share❤❤ mom messed up but she redeemed herself by taking accountability ❤
*We Love U Vid Chronicles!!! Your Stories Are So Inspiring... Keep Up The Amazing Work!! God Bless!!* 💯💯🥰🥰
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I Went through the same thing with My momma ex husband trash for 12 years and She took his Side as usual I Would Never Never to do this to my Child
I’m sorry
Always let love lead the way ♥️
Always♥️
I feel so sorry for the little girl . It's a horrible thing to keep telling the truth - only to keep getting blown off . The frustration can do terrible things to the human mind and body .
Validation is so very important to the truth - teller ...
I'm sorry but the mom is just as bad as the aunt🙄
I agree
You're exactly right
I agree with you!!
Agreed she is crazy.
NAHHH I DISAGREE. THE AUNT IS A CRAZY LESBIAN KID TOUCHING MONSTER.
Screw that. If my child ever told me something like that was happening, I would believe them 100% and never allow that person back around them - family or not.
The woman was no better than the sister. I understand that the sis did the same thing to her but I would've let the police take the sister instead of lying to their face. My mom did the same thing and protected my abuser instead of calling the police to have him arrested so this video really struck a nerve.
My child will always come first before anyone else especially during these circumstances
0:50 that is literal gaslighting! Makes me so sick and angry.
Oh really womp womp
This video shows us if we had children and something happened to them we should listen and not turn a blind eye.
SAD, THIS REALLY HAPPENS IN REAL LIFE🙏🏽
Yes yes it does
The aunt should have been arrested also.
Great message. Thanks for sharing. God bless. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN.
She should have stood up and protected herself and her daughter. You should always believe what your child is telling you.
This should be played in every middle, and high school!
This happens way too often. Children aren’t believed and sometimes flat out called a liar about the abuse.
Watching this is letting me learn.not to trust people but to tell your parents everything about your life to all of you children I hope you guys learn as well !😊
That will never happen to my baby girl cuz I'm her daddy and those people be damned if that ever happened
I have learned how to deal with the pain,,,frustration and sadness with this stress ❤
The moral of the story is do not lie to any body or you will get in trouble
The first 2 minutes of this video pissed me off when this poor girl is being voilated by this creep! Listen and protect our children from these monsters! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I’m so glad I am subscribed to you guys channel because you never disappoint us. Keep them coming. Much love 💙💙🔥🔥
I’m a living witness of similar happenings .. And how some parents don’t listen don’t believe or just ignore the child … that caused major issues as I grew up and issues with relationships but now I’m a healthy minded adult with no bitterness and heart of forgiveness for the people who did this to me .. and RIP to my mom … who didn’t listen 😢
I love this I was molested at the age of 6 by my step grandfather and that was 40 something years ago and if my cousin did not see what was going on back then I don't know if I would have ever told anybody I even wrote a book about my story 95% of pedophiles is somebody that you know so please talk to your children and listen to them they are our future💜💜💜💜
Wow
Exactly
Damn this video really hit me hard even in 7 minutes and 42 seconds. Good job vid chronicles 👍
I always like it when Vid Chronicles makes awesome and fun videos like this :)
I feel you this is very serious! 🙏🏾☝🏾🙌🏾