This Has Been a Stressful Week | A Major Rant (ASMR)

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  • @ASMRer
    @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Needed to vent...
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  • @Ackb1004
    @Ackb1004 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    Keep you head up. I'm 54 and have been through many ups and downs with the economy. Find little things that make you happy. Keep working hard and be thanful for what you do have. Things will get better.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Thanks

  • @devinadebnath6257
    @devinadebnath6257 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I hope things work out for you guys. We love what you do for us

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      😀

  • @TheRubyrawr
    @TheRubyrawr 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    We are the same in England, everything is too expensive and nothing is built to last or to be owned. My partner and I are both professionals and own our flat but it’s still really hard for us. Sending love x

  • @oppositeblue9377
    @oppositeblue9377 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I feel your pain Tony, I’m so terribly sorry :( we’re all here for you❤
    ignore the comments saying “think of everyone else’s problems” kinda vibe:/ comes off as inconsiderate even if not intended:( Everyone has their own gripes and you may vent all you want! It’s your channel!
    Yes, ofc, be grateful, we all should be as we’re sitting here on our 100$+ phones, but do NOT let those comments INVALIDATE your problems as well!! I don’t doubt for a second that you are grateful,. You’re just painstakingly aware of the world and how everything you hold could turn to ash (literally😞 in these days)

  • @christineellis531
    @christineellis531 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I totally understand. My rent went up $1200 a month. The complex did upgrades to our apartments to justify it. I moved, but am still paying $1200/month more at my new apartment. Good luck. It will be ok. 🙏🏻❤️🍀

  • @AveyAsmr
    @AveyAsmr 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I hope you’re okay Tony. I’m Canadian and I am feeling it bad. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have at least 2 jobs here just to stay afloat. At least know that you aren’t alone.

  • @mystiquefemme
    @mystiquefemme 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yessss you quite literally have a voice and a platform to talk about these kinds of things and I’m glad you’re using them !

  • @silversun1203
    @silversun1203 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The thing about it is that everyday life necessities increased in cost, but rarely does paychecks increase accordingly, so its a lose\lose situation for most people.

  • @laceyzembles9799
    @laceyzembles9799 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Omg Tony love you! Thanks for the amazing content--so glad you feel comfortable venting to your poopsie family! Prayers this works out!!!

  • @CatchThatFlyBernard
    @CatchThatFlyBernard 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Times are tough here in Australia too.
    Im turning 30 this year, have been working since I was 16 and I'm no where near to buying a home yet. Its genuinely so upsetting.
    Hope things start looking up for you soon 🙏

  • @mandywilson5004
    @mandywilson5004 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    The gas and electric prices in the uk are extremely expensive...honestly theyre literally squeezing the life out of everyone...❤

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Gosh I’m so sorry

  • @esmusc1
    @esmusc1 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm sorry for your pain😢, Poopsie. I have felt the freezing cold in SC too. And I live near the coast too. It's awful. You look very handsome in the button up! Praying that you find balance and happiness living with your partner. I believe you will enjoy it!!!

  • @BudgetingDoll
    @BudgetingDoll 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Prices here in Scotland UK are so bad too Tony. I hope everyone gets through this and is safe, warm and has enough food 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🤍❤️xx

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hope you’re alright

    • @BudgetingDoll
      @BudgetingDoll 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ASMRer Thank you for all your videos xx

    • @kaicat
      @kaicat 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i know wtf?! it’s so shocking rent prices now it’s absolutely crazy

  • @cheryllann_
    @cheryllann_ 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    My husband & I both work full time jobs and sometimes we struggle to meet ends meet.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      :-(

  • @hooooi24
    @hooooi24 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tony I love you and have been following you for over 10 years. I'm a financial journalist and let me tell you this; if you are not gonna own you are gonna be at the mercy of these landlords for the rest of your life. Waiting for them to fix the things that they should, always uncertain about rent increases. Struggeling to fill THEIR pockets. I know owing isnt the dream either but at least you'll be the one in power. Much love

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s just temporary until I’m ready to own again. With such a quickly changing world who knows what will be available soon.

  • @treearoha
    @treearoha 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Inflation is evil considering wages aren’t going up. I just had to move out of my apartment and back in with my dad with my son at 28 because they wanted to increase my rent nearly double what I was paying. Times are tough Tony and you’re not alone!!! I think moving in with your partner will be a good move financially. Hope all goes well for you ❤

  • @mswaney81
    @mswaney81 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    My rent has gone up $2400 a year for the last 3 years... I'm not making $7,200 a year more than i was 3 years ago... :( It's awful.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yess exactly

  • @sweetbabyrae2024
    @sweetbabyrae2024 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is why I decided as a Florida city girl to buy in Plant City, a new 3 bed duplex for $299k and I'm moving this month. It's going to be a long drive to work in Tampa, but I can't afford Tampa house prices, and tbh I've been renting too long and tired of that lol. Best of luck to you, Tony!

    • @charliedays
      @charliedays 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It’s the best you can do right now. The only way they’ll lower the outrageous prices of real estate is to leave to another place. If all people do it at once, believe me that they’ll have no choice.🤷‍♂️

  • @AB-em7vw
    @AB-em7vw 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m glad we’re a safe space for you to rant. ❤
    The same thing is happening to me. I live in a suburb, 30-45 minutes outside of a major city, and I’m not interested in paying city prices with this new rent increase. My rent jumped from $2,000 to $2,900 for a one bedroom, not renovated apartment. I literally have a white refrigerator and carpet. 😢

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dang!!!!!

  • @E.W.
    @E.W. 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Totally not related to the content of the video but I love love love you in these button up shirts.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Awe thanks!!! 🙏 glad you noticed lol

  • @kimperseghin9273
    @kimperseghin9273 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I feel your pain. Both my husband I work and barely make it at times. Groceries cost so much now. We live in Maryland, and the cost of living here is very high as well. And it’s soooo cold here right now. I’m not looking forward to getting our heating bill. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It sounds like you have a wonderful partner, though. Together, you can get through this tough time. Your poopsie, Kim

  • @loops49
    @loops49 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ¡Gracias!

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!!

  • @aliScot
    @aliScot 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. You have a good, sensible outlook and are well grounded. Perhaps one way to look at it is that the universe is moving to reposition you and bring better things in your direction. I hope for everything good for you in the coming weeks and months❤

  • @kuhlgirl3586
    @kuhlgirl3586 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m so glad this week is over and tomorrow is a new day. This week was ROUGH. I also live in Florida so I understand how awful the cold was 🤦🏻‍♀️. This was my first week of valencia classes, and I’m not exaggerating, they LOADED ME UP. So I get it 😭. Like I said, I’m glad this week is over 🙌

  • @Jamie-hn2xf
    @Jamie-hn2xf 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Watchin' this now, Tony...and YES it sure has been a crazy week for us too ! So many crazy things have happened but at least I got some SNOW here in Georgia...been wanting to see it and it snowed a lot on Friday morning & I just happened to be off work...yayyy ! So sorry they jacked your rent up...that's awful. We are stuck in a tiny apartment because houses are outrageous in cost. I hope it works out perfectly for you & your sweetie living together. We lived together a few years first then married & it's wise to try that out these days, lol. Well, I hope this coming week is MUCH better for us all !! Hang in there... 😊🙏✝️

  • @tugzsurf
    @tugzsurf 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I feel the same! I hope it gets better

  • @nrs318
    @nrs318 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    These landlords are out here raising rent every year but providing no additional amenities to justify it. I had to move out of south Florida because I could no longer afford the rising cost of living there. It’s a struggle for sure.

  • @thomasspicer4130
    @thomasspicer4130 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s the same all over the west quality in every area of life is going down house prices just keep rising wages are stagnant everything is expensive and everything in society just keeps getting more dangerous and dirty.

  • @CiaofCleburne
    @CiaofCleburne 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hang in there Tony. You’re not alone in this. We are all feeling it❤😢

  • @MtlGirl
    @MtlGirl 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sometimes it's okay to offer yourself a reset and re-evaluate your expenses. Some of us are literally living 😢 to pay bills. If you could perhaps go back to living with your parents or taking in a roommate? Good luck Tony ❤ don't get discouraged.

  • @flowercatsmeowmeow4744
    @flowercatsmeowmeow4744 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm a realtor in Tampa and that is a crazy hike! I've been encouraging owners to keep tenant increases under 5% or less. I'm sorry...

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      yessssssssss

  • @sweetbabyrae2024
    @sweetbabyrae2024 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Relatable! Sorry it's stressing you. Support for however you decide to manage it all

  • @Lex-up6mg
    @Lex-up6mg 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tony Bomboni the man with the name.

  • @cbgmp
    @cbgmp 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Floridian here too. Rent has gone up 3 times in the last 2 years here. Wages are not following suit. Had to take up another job and still underwater. Not sure where you are in Florida but maybe try Melbourne? I hear it's a cheaper area.

  • @rotru4977
    @rotru4977 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If you end up getting another place i highly recommend learning the renters laws in your area/state first.
    I live in Ontario Canada, we have a law that if a building/home is built before 2018 Landlords are only allowed to raise your rent 2.5% but if its after they can raise how much they want. Stuff like that is crucial to know. Like if i ever move thats the 1st question Im asking: when was this place built 😂

    • @mr.grumpy
      @mr.grumpy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yep, Ontario has rent caps and you can't be evicted except under very specific criteria.

    • @rotru4977
      @rotru4977 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @mr.grumpy yes. So important to really learn how the rental system works. How evictions work. The rights and responsibilities of both landlord and renter.

  • @patbartee763
    @patbartee763 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do some door dashing on the side.. that’s why always helps me out!

  • @tinamakesthings
    @tinamakesthings 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Tony. Watched this video the other day and I've been thinking about you. I don't know what but I have a feeling like this change that's ahead of you will actually be super positive. Move you in the direction you actually want to know. I know it's probably very frustrating now but I just wanted to pop on here and tell you. I know you also get these intuitive insights that often turn out to be true (and share them with all of us) so I just wanted to return the favour :)
    Wishing you all the best, and I hope I'm right on this one!

  • @user7061
    @user7061 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i feel you on this, rent has been going up like crazy where i live. lucky to not have mine increase yet, hoping it wont because i am a broke uni student 😭 sending love your way, i hope you figure everything out! ❤

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      gosh i was just talking with someone about how costly even cost of living in unis are even ten years ago

  • @essieparagioudakis9218
    @essieparagioudakis9218 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I’m not buying $18.00 eggs either forget that I’m wishing you well and for things to straighten on out soon

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      🥚

  • @c6dbes932
    @c6dbes932 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello Tony, I honestly feel very sorry for my friends who live in the US. Between insurances, morgages, student loans, rents, and now, the price of food and goods in general, it sounds crazy and scary. Not that everything is heavenly and smooth right now in Europe (where I live) but they indeed sound worse in the US. Please, believe that you're entirely entitled to have a rant moment with everything that is going on. Remaining silent, sucking it up without ever complaining only keeps us stuck in this status quo anyway (while only benefiting those who are profiting off our backs...). Hold on, and take care 🙏

  • @Kerry34
    @Kerry34 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The top flips up on the Herbal Essences shampoo, Tony! I love that one too.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Figured that out afterward haha thanks

  • @xHBearx
    @xHBearx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I used ogx shampoo for years and then when people said it makes your hair fall out, I was like omg 😱. I hope you and your partner figure out your living situation. Good luck

  • @marcuslewis3080
    @marcuslewis3080 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HEYYY LOVE YOUU SOO MUCH. ❤

  • @mecutetoo64
    @mecutetoo64 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Just think of the people of California and North Carolina… things get hard… be thankful for what you have. Tomorrow it could be gone! I think many people and families have had it hard! Ever since Covid… things have sucked! Companies have taken advantage of of it all!

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      yep agreed. i always think about the people in NC

    • @mecutetoo64
      @mecutetoo64 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ … Tony… its ok to rant! We understand the frustration! To me there is no reason to raise rent! Families are having a tough time also! Prayers for you and everyone else that things will turn around and get better! Continued prayers for the people in California and Western NC! Hugs and love as well!♥️

  • @JoMarieFazio1935
    @JoMarieFazio1935 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is why I moved out of Florida. I was paying $1800 and I asked to move out early and asked if they can dismiss the extra charges for moving out. I had to deal with raccoons in my walls and yes even a baby bat over my door. I have photos and videos. This is why I moved back to family and leasing office didn’t give a flying F--$&@. ❤❤ I feel ya 😮

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      OMG IN TEH WALLS???

    • @JoMarieFazio1935
      @JoMarieFazio1935 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ASMRer Yep. If I could show you pictures I would

  • @DailyDoseOfCaseyy
    @DailyDoseOfCaseyy 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tony can I ask a question? Why are eggs so expensive in USA? In Ireland they’re like €3 for 8 eggs in a box. Is there gold dust in yours? Blows my mind!

    • @LoveAngelMusicLady
      @LoveAngelMusicLady 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bird flu caused a bunch of chickens to die so low supply of eggs and high demand

    • @1081Swan
      @1081Swan 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tony, I don't know why eggs would range from $6 -18 per dozen in Florida. I live in Ohio and my expensive eggs (pasture-raised chickens, organic) are $3/dozen. What is going on in Florida that they are so expensive?

  • @Pari-maa
    @Pari-maa 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Jobless since oct 2024, depressed , 😢 life is pain

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      gosh... :(

    • @MorganDC420
      @MorganDC420 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don’t give up. You got this

  • @jettatonka
    @jettatonka 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Move to Texas. I get eggs from my neighbors' hens. $10 for 2 dozen. I don't live in the country; I live 30 minutes from Dallas. :D. we would love to have you!!!

  • @emmawilkins5755
    @emmawilkins5755 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A similar thing happened to me ( the landlord sold the house so I had to move) so I get how stressful and frustrating it is. However, often something better comes out of these bad situations. You might end up living in a better house or living with your partner sooner than you planned. Sending positive vibes!

  • @laurastutt3442
    @laurastutt3442 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry you’re having a tough time Tony :( random question - how’s Paco? Miss seeing him in your videos

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He’s doing well!

  • @Flemulina
    @Flemulina 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Crazy times..

  • @h.nicolejorgensen2077
    @h.nicolejorgensen2077 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry Tony. That must have been such a painful sticker shock! With all the natural disasters and inflation I’m beginning to think we’ll have to start tent cities!!! Or live in a camper. Hope you find affordable housing or a solution.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      camping for the win lol.

  • @TB-zj4sp
    @TB-zj4sp 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMG ! That is crazy they raised your rent that much. 😮

  • @MissAlla67
    @MissAlla67 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Best wishes for you and your partner! It really will help finances, it is crazy how much stuff cost. I just remember Revelations 6:6. God Bless us all.

    • @ASMRer
      @ASMRer  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Awe yes may Jesus save us all

  • @lestermatos2989
    @lestermatos2989 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woww havent seen you in soo long

  • @Kerrviii
    @Kerrviii 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @Manhattan_
    @Manhattan_ 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Its not for nothing this was one of the many reasons why i voted for Donald Trump. It will get better tony 🙏

    • @amybedner3253
      @amybedner3253 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aw babe. I’m so sorry you were under that impression. :( it’s only going to get worse..

  • @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279
    @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a Canadian, thank you for your sympathy. The cost of living here is INSANE. Now that our Prime Minister * cough * dictator, is about to step down, there may be a small temporary glimmer of hope in this country! 🍁😭