Errol, please take it easy with Swaggy. Don’t tell her that she can’t even decorate herself, or ask her if she’s looking somebody because she put on some makeup. Each pregnancy is different and can have a different effect on the new mother. She still wants to be the perfect mom, but even so, she appears to be feeling overwhelmed, so go easy on her❤
She wants to look good for herself and maybe Errol. Swaggy a good wife Errol have nothing to worry about. Swaggy should ask him why he working out building his body 😂😂
She feels stuck! It's fine for her to get away by herself every once in awhile. Errol gets to leave the house and go to work. They ALWAYS go together as a family which is fine, but maybe she just wants some "quiet time" for herself. Even if Errol drops her off at the library for a little while. Geesh.
Errol please be attentive to your wife. Listen to her when she’s feeling down. When she’s not herself, lift her up instead to complaining and adding to her stress. Having a baby is not easy, your emotions be all over the place.! Come on, try to be the husband of the year. 😊
Swaggys mum having diabetes is not the reason she is anorexic which is a whole different thing. Think you should encourage her to talk to a therapist or counsellor to help her find out the reason behind behind her anorexic as another underlying problem. This can be dangerous to her health, causing her organs to fail.
Really like meself had diabetes since 11 years old completed primary high school University reached Head of Department at age 22 years old now 47 years old Diabetes is simply addiction to sweet food drinks Just eat in moderate amount and sleep well and exercise regularly diabetes finish Russians are petite females because of 4 seasons they never over eat her weight goes with her height perfectly So her diabetes is well finished Once you control your weight to be in correspondence with your height your diabetes is finished You do not know that?????????? Meaning you just bullshiting a lot
Errol. Swaggy is NOT a punk. If she can actually take the road test AND PASS with a license, that's not fear or being scared. ENCOURAGE her, sit in the car with her...Drive somewhere close and let her drive back. Share the driving so she gets her road confidence. That's how you do it. SHARE THE DRIVING!!!! It works! Do not criticize! Be SUPPORTIVE!
Swaggy fear is more so trying to match Errol standards if driving. Like for me my gf had licence but when I was in de car it was pressure in her words. I left out the island and she was moreso able to move at her pace. Trust when I got back I sat in the car and was so impressed by her able to do road. Which met my standards and from that I realize I was the pressure in the situation.
To add swaggy have to short distance to get familiar with the road and build confidence for a period and move on. Errol ya going have to hold it and put the calm in the situation.
She used to drive in Jamaica check her videos it is just she just gave birth and like they Russians her and her mother so she feels safer if the husband drives because he from Jamaica Have you seen Russians drive they be zooming and drifting it and the Jamaicans going to drive same way hahahahahahaha
Swaggy continue to take care of your sweet self and your family. Errol please be more understanding of your wife’s mood. Compliment her and be patient with her. God bless your family.
How rude that is their first baby Princess she is carried everywhere whether you break your backbone or what she is always carried around hahahahahahaha respect
I've had a license for 20 yrs in Canada and im so nervous driving in Jamaica. Its rough driving here! Its no joke. I find myself always getting rushed when I have to go out with someone here and thats why I'm trying to learn to drive so I can shop at my pace. Big up Steven's family❤
Errol pay her mind ❤because postpartum depression is real. Help her as much as possible and be there for her emotionally. Whenever she expresses her feelings validate them and find ways to help her feel better 💐 ❤happy new year to you all.
@@SwaggyPonDiIsland Thank you. I am so happy that she is finally in Jamaica. I was so glad to see her deboard. I do not want anything bad to happen to her whilst here.
Errol you need to take it a little more easy with Swaggy. It takes a lot out of a woman giving birth. Post Parton depression is no joke and you have to be more sensitive in how you talk to her. I must say without judgement it sounds a little harsh to me the way you spoke to her 😢asking her if she a look sombody ? 😮I can’t even finish this message because I was upset and embarrassed for her 😢
Go to church then have a small picnic on the beach.If you cant make it for Christmas day do so for the New Year.Go church next Sunday morning or evening then find the beach on New Year Day.
Please Swaggy and Errol are no dummies! They know Mom is too thin and I'm sure they're taking it serious and have her seeing a medical professional!! Not EVERYTHING they must share. Let's not make assumptions!!!
She can also drink glucerna it is for people with diabetes to Increase their calories without increasing the AIC for people with diabetes. It is right there on the shelf next to the ensure that you were looking at.
Hi Stevens:Happy Holidays Swaggy hoping your mom is slowly adapting to life in Jam,hoping she'll be with you a while,and will gain some weight in due time. I'm sure you both will take good care of her.Switching gears,baby Mila is growing so nicely,so adorable,and the boys are to be proud of Wishing you'll a very happy 12/25 and a prosperous New Year,filled with ❤❤ much joy,a world of happy good health,and continued success in all you do.😊😊
Errol; you'll have to get her driving brother. There are only so many daylight hours in a day any remember also that you are now a family of five. Get her to start some driving lessons through a driving school. I know it's cheaper for you to do so within your spare time by yourself but, from personal experience not advisable. Right now you guys are having a time challenge. Good luck brother and, Happy New Year when it comes. Cheers.
Does the place you gave birth have a postpartum group? I think that will help with feeling overwhelmed. You need more time to you and not feel guilty, you will be a better mother when you have your alone time. Take care of your mind and your body will respond. Take care.
Swaggy you are wonderful be confident and drive.I have my license since I am 17 yrs driven everywhere by myself all over Canada and even US. Swaggy You Can Drive Everywhere too. You have your license be confident You Can Do Anything Swaggy you smart,loving,intelligent,wonderful lady and so funny lol. I understand why you cannot stop holding Mila she is adorable Blessings come to you & family I will keep you in my prayers☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
Greeting in Jesus mighty name Swaggy and family and merry Christmas just want to say I’m praying for your mother it’s really playing on my mind to pray 🙏🏾 for her and pray against anorexia in Jesus name 🙌🏾 your really doing good by helping her find things to eat ! But I think it’s more psychological with this condition, it attacks their mind as well ! because as the people with this condition start to put’s on weight they don’t like it. so she needs to pray to God in the name of Jesus against it and pray that she starts to want to eat and put on weight and want’s to have a healthy appetite towards food in Jesus mighty name. 💯❤️ God bless you all . 🕊️🕊️your a wonderful daughter. I salute you . 🫡
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I was late to watch this video but Hope you all had a Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year!!🎉 🎄Praying for much health , wealth and joy for your family🙏🏼 I hope Santa brought Errol some empathy for his wife this Christmas!🤣🤣Swaggy you are a beautiful young Mother and doing such an amazing job! May God continue to bless you 💛
Happy Holidays to Errol & Family. Holidays can be frustrating especially X Mas I personally feel it's lost it's fizz as Xmas use to be about Family, every one would bring a dish We played music no toys that was it..I agree with Errol to be open and honest when TEACHING his children rather than let other forces Before School Both of you are your Childrens prime educators .I'm also observing Swaggy that your a bit territorial when it comes to Mila again Errol is right If her DAD( Errol)has her who is her PROVIDER & PROTECTOR tries to hold Mila you say Mila needs rescuing from who and what When Errol has his Daughter use this time to do what you have to do ,by now Mila should have a daily set routine, which includes alone time herself which will help her development and creativity I know having a daughter is daunting and overwhelming but your just going to frazzle out remember you have other children too
I can't understand how we really feel the need to lie to our children and call it all kinds of names , parents just tell lies to suit themselves , but we tell children to speak the truth , they are Confused.
Errol, Chill down on calling names, Swaggy is a good wife and mother, be gentle, none of that Jamaican men ruff ruff. Merry Christmas and a happy new year to both of you & family.
Errol, swaggy. Your daughter is an extra beautiful addition to your family. Would help babysit if we were neighbors. She is very quiet not fussy either. Good move to have extend the family. You know that swaggy love to take care of herself. We women if it's even some lipstick or lip gloss we have to find time for it. Listen you telling your wife she doesn't need makeup is for me the most beautiful words a man could tell his already beautiful wife. Good luck and happy new year to all need
Errol please don’t put the dirty ball on the baby, remember babies are delicate you have to be careful. Also women goes through emotional roller coaster so take it easy with your wife. Don’t call her youth or rush when you go supermarket I take a long time food shopping. If you watch the price you don’t eat. It’s expensive all over the world.
Merry Merry Christmas and happy new year when it comes guys I think makeup is a mindset thing never wear it 40 years later still feel pretty and yeah no Christmas spirit over here in USA at least not for me
Hopefully Errol gets to read this: Swaggy needs more emotional support, plain and simple. Post partum depression is a real thing and we don't want to it develop. All Swaggy wanted was a moment of escape. In moments where she is expressing that she needs a break, validate her feelings. Errol you have this way of speaking to Swaggy where you say something good then immediately degrade her by saying something bad. Swaggy expressed that when you all do get to go out, she always feels rushed. When she said she's tired of it, in order to validate her feelings you could of said " I understand, I'll try to be in the moment and go at a slower pace". Instead you telling her to learn how to drive. Errol acknowledged that he is aware of her anxieties towards driving yet tells her to just be brave and calls her a punk in front of the kids. It may not seem like much but you can see the her feeling were hurt. Just because driving comes easy to you Errol doesn't means it's that way for everyone. You telling her to learn how to drive so she can go out by herself defeats the emotional fulfillment she'd get by spending quality time with her family. Tell her that you'll take her to practice driving in a big open field ever other weekend or something, so she can build her confidence, but don't just call her a punk and leave it at that. There is always a solution, being stuck is not an option, help to build her up and feel good about her self. Errol didn't even get the point of why Swaggy wanted to put on makeup👁👁. Men really don't understand women at all.
That's not fair I think Errol is being very calm prior to baby , Swaggy never had a problem in wanting to go out. Errol has been very accommodating getting boys ready for school ironing their school clothes making the time to take Swaggy out etc Now Swaggys Sickly Mum is there so this must add to the frustration of having a newborn as well. The language barrier can't be easy either. Errol is only human he's not superman didn't necessarily need make up on this occasion just for shopping
Errol, don't steal the kids' joy. They will have enough harsh reality when dem grow up. You are in a relationship you should give in to Swaggy and her custom as well, and don't argue about it in front of the kids.
Surely you must not argue in front of the kids . I used to do that when my son was little , and he got sick very often. An older lady told me to stop arguing in front of my son.
Errol you can't call yourxwife a Punk and yout that is Disrespectful especially in front of the kids ! Also Errol whatever issues you have with thinking parents are liars, and the whole santa thing, your kids won't feel that if brought up correctly. Meanwhile have a Merry Christmas god bless 🎄🥳
Hi Swaggy, does your mom have type 2 diabetes? Does she check her blood sugar daily? Is she on medication for daibetes? I am an RN and it could be the case that her sugars are running low since she is so strict with her diet. The weight loss is concerning. You should get her checked out by a doctor when you can because she appears very underweight, so its important to check her glucose levels daily. The machines don't cost more than $50 usd.
The state that your mothers body is in, she may not have any sign of diabetes. Your mother needs a physical with extensive blood work to determine her health status.
It happens everywhere, my daughter is vegetarian their food is expensive but you cannot keep watching prices just buy the things you want and be happy, Food is expensive all over the world. Just buy and be happy. Don’t cry and stress about prices. It’s everywhere.
I agree with your comments, don’t deprive your mom from purchasing the foods she needs to have based on her health. Everything is expensive these days. You only have one mother.
Swaggy things expensive everywhere, i do not live in jamaica and when i go to the supermarket i cash the most important things first. When the money dun it dun, so its not only in jamaica.
You have to choose between the health of your mother or the price of the food that will save her life. She is in a very critical health state. She actually should be hospitalized for treatment.
You need to purchase a play "MAT" to put on the floor for the baby so that she can start using her legs to push off. Do not slow her natural development by always carrying her around.😊
Swaggy, you are doing a great job raising your kids, but find a way to have some space for yourself now that you have 3. Mila is a 'hand' baby, which can get tiring, especially when out use the buggy. I found my independence once I got a car and was able do the shopping mall or other stuff by myself just wandering around for hours in the shops. Maybe 2024 will be your year. Happy Christmas!😊🙏🏽
Hi Swaggy. Be kind to yourself. Please learn to drive. It will help you to be independent. Put the baby in her car seat and the two of you drive around. It will cut down on your stress levels. Promise that you will learn to drive. You will feel so liberated.❤❤❤
To be honest when we used to celebrate Chritmas as well as other things; I did have my little ones believe in santa clause, tooth fairy, easter bunny,etc. Overtime( while they were still very young) I had this urge to tell them the truth. It turned out to be the best thing I have done because they told me that they knew all along that santa, the easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc were not real and just like Danny and Leo they were telling me why they knew those characters were not real. Children are way smarter than what we give them credit for. Anyway, Happy Holidays to your family with ❤.
Hi, beautiful family! Errol, please be more conscious of the words you use to Swaggy ,especially in front of the kids "like Swaggy yu a punk" We know you don't mean anything bad, but not for the kids. I agree, a Nutritionist would be an excellent start to helping your mom figure out an eating plan to increase her weight. Anorexia is a deeper issue, that requires at minimum 2 sessions with a therapist.(so she can she how psychotherapy can help her) Swaggy, 2024, get up your courage to drive and leave Errol at home & go get your "Me" time & shop as long as you want, no rush! Swaggy, please put that baby down! She needs to not be so dependent on you or else it will impact on your "Me" time. Give her tummy time, set up little play area in living room where she can watch all going on & every one have their play time with her. Merry Christmas to you all!!!
Swaggy, you walk around too much with the baby in your arms. Get her a floor mat or baby bouncer chair with a baby play station. Something she can lie on her back and focus on. Something with bright colours that makes noises and moves so she can start trying to use her arms and hands, sharpening her hand, eye coordinating skills. She needs to be stimulated. She's a bright little thing.
Let ur mom try ground products, yam, green banana Irish potatoes sweet potato, dasheen. They do have starch but she can have it in small amounts. Instead of those expensive things in the supermarket.
I moved from the London to Grenada 1year and half ago. I was scared to drive here, it took me a month to get used driving. In Grenada. (London is easy to drive. ) But now driving in Grenada I feel free. Having a car makes life so much easier. I don’t have to bother my husband I go shops by myself or with the kids and no husband to rush me. lol
Swaggy, you're beautiful & Errold no judgment...Take it easy Errold. Let love rule.....You cant be in love 24 hours a day...argument is a part of marriage..It shows you're normal & relatable.?
Sorry Swaggy i have to Agree with your husband Errol, There Was no way that i as a young child was going to give credit to some imaginary rotund bearded man in a red outfit credit for my xmas presents knowing that my mum and dad worked so hard to provide our xmas gifts, Santa was never mentioned in my household, Our parents know us to well😃Credit where credit is due. Love and continued Blessings to you all ❤💛💚
I agree with you Errol. I honestly told my daughter the truth about Santa and explained the myth that he isn't real, and that God blessed me to purchase the gifts for her.
I agree with Errol, also. Why should we teach our children to believe in someone who isn't constantly there in their life and he only comes around 1 day out of the year and we don't teach them that God is there EVERYDAY, 24-7...and even when life isn't so "gift-giving". Our children need to learn to trust the LORD, when life breaks our heart🙏 Thank God, He gave us the greatest GIFT of all, His only son.(John 3:16) No earthly gift can compare, ever.
Errol, try to be supportive of your wife even if it kills you. You will learn that your relationship grow to be stronger. It doesn't make you a weak man to be a supportive husband. I use to be like you but I learned and my wife is my best friend now. You may not realize this but your children sense that something is off and that will affect them without you noticing. Don't take it for granted. Swaggy didn't leave Russia being a punk. it took guts. All the best to you and your marvelous family. Regarding Swaggy's mom, she needs counseling and healing to re-balance her spiritually. She looks broken from something that happened a long time ago and she's carrying that burden and its manifesting in her disease. I know Jamaica must have well known holistic healers.
Swaggy do you think you are not depressed .you just have a baby .you need a pick me up you are right go and see the doctor. all so put the baby down too much hand you are s her.good luck hope you feel better.happy holidays to you and family's.
I am glad Swaggy is allowing the boys to have the experience. They will find out soon enough that it is only make believe, and they can come to the conversation about Santa based on their personal experiences. The boys are growing up with opposing beliefs by their mom and dad. However, they will figure it out on their own in the end.
Swaggy! Look for items that address your Mom's issues, this way, you are ensuring gealthy nutrition. Give her NATURAL foods, not processed foods. Limit additives like processed seasonings i.e. Maggie's. Use farlic, onions, thyme, and fresh items. Green Plantain can be baked in the air fryer and added to meals instead of bread, etc. Same with Breadfruit and Green Bananas. Experiment with natural food with limited or no processed ingredients. No or low natural sugar, and salt.
Might seem like fun. But in the end lies can be a dangerous way. When dealing with children or any one speak the truth. This is obeying the word of God in the bible
This lady has two other kids who have developed well, are brilliant and lovely boys yet people in the comments are acting like its her first child😂 let the lady be! She knows what she’s doing. Talking bout slowing Mila’s development 😂
Have a good christmas Swaggy, Errol and family. To stop Errol complaining and rushing you when you go shopping, you need to take the car and drive it, dont wait for him to take you, because after a while he will be rushing you and be impatient with you, be independent and show him what you can do beyond cooking😂😂❤❤. Be blessed.
Yes swaggy learn to drive its important if anything happen to Errol God forbid but human we are its good to know you can drive, I think you just need some encouragement, pls Errol be gentle with her she is a proper wife brave enough to cook our jamaican meals she tried until she gets it yes she is great, some woman can drive but not domesticated this girl is one in a million doesn't sit at home dressing up but fulfilling the true meaning of a wife, Errol cut out the my youth and call her by name or say wife or something sweet she deserves that, Swaggy is the BEST you ever get ❤
Merry Christmas to the Stevens. I agree, Swaggy, you need to put Mila down so you can get some me time. I understand the rush time when you don't drive. Saggy, driving in Jamaica can be rough, but once you get the hang of it, you will feel liberated. Driving independence is great. Take it from a 72 year old, who did the road test some four times before I got my license some 43 years ago and I am still driving.
It’s just fun…kids are clever and will learn what the fable is and it won’t affect them…million of kids grow out of the fairy tale…but it’s your decision
Hi Swaggy, find some girlfriends to hang out with, you have someone in common with them. I noticed before this you are always with the family at the house or going shopping, you need some you time.
Please help me to help my Mom gofund.me/c3dd7181
Errol, please take it easy with Swaggy. Don’t tell her that she can’t even decorate herself, or ask her if she’s looking somebody because she put on some makeup. Each pregnancy is different and can have a different effect on the new mother. She still wants to be the perfect mom, but even so, she appears to be feeling overwhelmed, so go easy on her❤
Ur been so insensitive it isn't funny
She wants to look good for herself and maybe Errol. Swaggy a good wife Errol have nothing to worry about. Swaggy should ask him why he working out building his body 😂😂
Totally agree with with you, he causing more stress on the girl by putting her down. Not nice at all. What if the shoe was on the other foot.😟😟
She feels stuck! It's fine for her to get away by herself every once in awhile. Errol gets to leave the house and go to work. They ALWAYS go together as a family which is fine, but maybe she just wants some "quiet time" for herself. Even if Errol drops her off at the library for a little while. Geesh.
Errol please be attentive to your wife. Listen to her when she’s feeling down. When she’s not herself, lift her up instead to complaining and adding to her stress. Having a baby is not easy, your emotions be all over the place.! Come on, try to be the husband of the year. 😊
Swaggys mum having diabetes is not the reason she is anorexic which is a whole different thing. Think you should encourage her to talk to a therapist or counsellor to help her find out the reason behind behind her anorexic as another underlying problem. This can be dangerous to her health, causing her organs to fail.
Yes I was thinking the same…. Stress is no joke either….
Really like meself had diabetes since 11 years old completed primary high school University reached Head of Department at age 22 years old now 47 years old
Diabetes is simply addiction to sweet food drinks
Just eat in moderate amount and sleep well and exercise regularly diabetes finish
Russians are petite females because of 4 seasons they never over eat her weight goes with her height perfectly
So her diabetes is well finished
Once you control your weight to be in correspondence with your height your diabetes is finished
You do not know that??????????
Meaning you just bullshiting a lot
Exactly 💯 ❤
Errol. Swaggy is NOT a punk. If she can actually take the road test AND PASS with a license, that's not fear or being scared. ENCOURAGE her, sit in the car with her...Drive somewhere close and let her drive back. Share the driving so she gets her road confidence. That's how you do it. SHARE THE DRIVING!!!! It works! Do not criticize! Be SUPPORTIVE!
lol Ty
Swaggy fear is more so trying to match Errol standards if driving. Like for me my gf had licence but when I was in de car it was pressure in her words. I left out the island and she was moreso able to move at her pace. Trust when I got back I sat in the car and was so impressed by her able to do road. Which met my standards and from that I realize I was the pressure in the situation.
To add swaggy have to short distance to get familiar with the road and build confidence for a period and move on. Errol ya going have to hold it and put the calm in the situation.
She used to drive in Jamaica check her videos it is just she just gave birth and like they Russians her and her mother so she feels safer if the husband drives because he from Jamaica
Have you seen Russians drive they be zooming and drifting it and the Jamaicans going to drive same way hahahahahahaha
@@SwaggyPonDiIsland Reach out to coco girl and Dee Mwango. They are famous TH-camrs in Jamaica right now. shalom.
Even though errol could have taken 5mins as he said...swaggy needed that lil trip out the house....hes not considering that at all...
Swaggy continue to take care of your sweet self and your family. Errol please be more understanding of your wife’s mood. Compliment her and be patient with her. God bless your family.
You are adding more stress by always having the baby in your hands. Put her down and give yourself a break.
😂😂😂
A baby- carrier or sling will work perfectly.
Errol the party pooper. THE GRINGCH OF CHRISTMAS.
How rude that is their first baby Princess she is carried everywhere whether you break your backbone or what she is always carried around hahahahahahaha respect
I wonder myself too, if it wad first child i wud understand.ur 100% correct..
I've had a license for 20 yrs in Canada and im so nervous driving in Jamaica. Its rough driving here! Its no joke. I find myself always getting rushed when I have to go out with someone here and thats why I'm trying to learn to drive so I can shop at my pace. Big up Steven's family❤
Swaggy it’s good to put yourself together it makes you have more self esteem. Enjoy yourself take walks.Merry Christmas to you and family 🎄❤️
Errol pay her mind ❤because postpartum depression is real. Help her as much as possible and be there for her emotionally. Whenever she expresses her feelings validate them and find ways to help her feel better 💐 ❤happy new year to you all.
Your mother is crying out for medical and Nutritionist help. Please help her, Swaggy! She is too thin!!!😮😢
Good day , changes don’t come in one day ,we are working on her ,thanks for showing care
I agree Kimberley. Swaggy has been given advice from day one to get mum checked out by Doctor then take it from there.
@@SwaggyPonDiIsland Thank you. I am so happy that she is finally in Jamaica. I was so glad to see her deboard. I do not want anything bad to happen to her whilst here.
You know you well married when you argue laugh together at the same time
Errol you need to take it a little more easy with Swaggy. It takes a lot out of a woman giving birth. Post Parton depression is no joke and you have to be more sensitive in how you talk to her. I must say without judgement it sounds a little harsh to me the way you spoke to her 😢asking her if she a look sombody ? 😮I can’t even finish this message because I was upset and embarrassed for her 😢
Me too! That was a very insensitive and harsh thing to say, especially in that tone of voice.
I felt so bad for Swaggy.
Go to church then have a small picnic on the beach.If you cant make it for Christmas day do so for the New Year.Go church next Sunday morning or evening then find the beach on New Year Day.
You are correct Errol.....Tell the kids the truth...There is NO Santa Claus!!!
Season Greetings Stevens Family. My opinon mek Santa tek way himself Mummy and Daddy work hard to buy gifts ❤ Stevens Family.
Me Nuh celebrate Christmas swaggy, just let the baby have some lone times too
Maybe it's postpartum, Swaggy
The game is up Swaggy. No lie is innocent.
Every time you go out let swaggi 🚗 drive.,that is how she would get more confident.
Learn to drive Swaggy 😂😂😂
Errol why r u so hard on your wife please be easer on her she has emotions
SWAGGY look at the sugar content when you see these product
Please Swaggy and Errol are no dummies! They know Mom is too thin and I'm sure they're taking it serious and have her seeing a medical professional!! Not EVERYTHING they must share. Let's not make assumptions!!!
She can also drink glucerna it is for people with diabetes to Increase their calories without increasing the AIC for people with diabetes. It is right there on the shelf next to the ensure that you were looking at.
Hi Stevens:Happy Holidays
Swaggy hoping your mom
is slowly adapting to life in
Jam,hoping she'll be with
you a while,and will gain
some weight in due time.
I'm sure you both will take
good care of her.Switching
gears,baby Mila is growing
so nicely,so adorable,and
the boys are to be proud of
Wishing you'll a very happy
12/25 and a prosperous
New Year,filled with ❤❤
much joy,a world of happy
good health,and continued
success in all you do.😊😊
Yes swag you need to now how how to drive in Jamaica 🇯🇲
That sound like Post partum stress disorder.
Errol; you'll have to get her driving brother. There are only so many daylight hours in a day any remember also that you are now a family of five. Get her to start some driving lessons through a driving school. I know it's cheaper for you to do so within your spare time by yourself but, from personal experience not advisable. Right now you guys are having a time challenge. Good luck brother and, Happy New Year when it comes. Cheers.
Swaggy is Glucerna mommy to drink that is for us diabetics, my dietitian recommended it for me
Does the place you gave birth have a postpartum group? I think that will help with feeling overwhelmed. You need more time to you and not feel guilty, you will be a better mother when you have your alone time. Take care of your mind and your body will respond.
Take care.
Errol please take it easy on Swaggy postmortem is not a joke , watch what you say only compliment your wife
Swaggy you are wonderful be confident and drive.I have my license since I am 17 yrs driven everywhere by myself all over Canada and even US. Swaggy You Can Drive Everywhere too. You have your license be confident You Can Do Anything Swaggy you smart,loving,intelligent,wonderful lady and so funny lol. I understand why you cannot stop holding Mila she is adorable Blessings come to you & family I will keep you in my prayers☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
Greeting in Jesus mighty name Swaggy and family and merry Christmas just want to say I’m praying for your mother it’s really playing on my mind to pray 🙏🏾 for her and pray against anorexia in Jesus name 🙌🏾 your really doing good by helping her find things to eat ! But I think it’s more psychological with this condition, it attacks their mind as well ! because as the people with this condition start to put’s on weight they don’t like it. so she needs to pray to God in the name of Jesus against it and pray that she starts to want to eat and put on weight and want’s to have a healthy appetite towards food in Jesus mighty name. 💯❤️ God bless you all . 🕊️🕊️your a wonderful daughter. I salute you . 🫡
It is passion fruit. It can eat straight. It is tangy. Mixt it with liytle water and can sweeten r putbwithnither fruits to make drink
This blend has worked wonders in muffins, cakes, quick breads, gingerbread cookies, corn bread, waffles, crepes and many other
How to make GLUTEN FREE FLOUR
1 1/2 cups brown rice flour (which is ground rice in a blender)
1/2 cup potato starch
1/4 cup white rice flour (ground white rice)
1/4 cup tapioca flour
1 tsp xanthan gum (optional)
I also have a Gluten Free Whole Grain Pancake Mix that works beautifully with an egg. And a Gluten Free Pizza Crust that utilizes a slight variation of this blend.
Merry christmas to the Steven family and to your mom enjoyed and be safe
I was late to watch this video but Hope you all had a Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year!!🎉 🎄Praying for much health , wealth and joy for your family🙏🏼 I hope Santa brought Errol some empathy for his wife this Christmas!🤣🤣Swaggy you are a beautiful young Mother and doing such an amazing job! May God continue to bless you 💛
Mom kniws how to enjoy naturexat its best. She will heal and feel well in no time.
Blessings.
Happy Holidays to Errol & Family. Holidays can be frustrating especially X Mas I personally feel it's lost it's fizz as Xmas use to be about Family, every one would bring a dish We played music no toys that was it..I agree with Errol to be open and honest when TEACHING his children rather than let other forces Before School Both of you are your Childrens prime educators .I'm also observing Swaggy that your a bit territorial when it comes to Mila again Errol is right If her DAD( Errol)has her who is her PROVIDER & PROTECTOR tries to hold Mila you say Mila needs rescuing from who and what When Errol has his Daughter use this time to do what you have to do ,by now Mila should have a daily set routine, which includes alone time herself which will help her development and creativity I know having a daughter is daunting and overwhelming but your just going to frazzle out remember you have other children too
I can't understand how we really feel the need to lie to our children and call it all kinds of names , parents just tell lies to suit themselves , but we tell children to speak the truth , they are Confused.
Mr steven please take it easy on your wife.postmartrum is real
You have to drive Swaggy.
Christmas time you have to buy wholesale directly from best dressed chicken a bag or two.
Where are the pets? Where is the puppy and where is the bird?? Hope nothing bad happened to them 😢
Swaggy Your husband is talking facts. Tell the boys the truth they are smart children.Happy Holidays.
Eroll teach Swaggy to drive on a place that no vehicle drive be patient, and that will be good for her when you are unable to go somewhere.
She got her license..just scared
Shaggy you should try to take your momto see one of the doctor there in jamaica ❤
Swaggy, drive for your freedom. Then you don't have to listen to all that talking.
🥰🥰🥰 good morning miss swaggy and your beautiful family merry Christmas.
Errol,
Chill down on calling names, Swaggy is a good wife and mother, be gentle, none of that Jamaican men ruff ruff. Merry Christmas and a happy new year to both of you & family.
True gal learn to drive u will love it it's a different kind a freedom an it will make life easier
Errol, swaggy. Your daughter is an extra beautiful addition to your family. Would help babysit if we were neighbors. She is very quiet not fussy either. Good move to have extend the family. You know that swaggy love to take care of herself. We women if it's even some lipstick or lip gloss we have to find time for it. Listen you telling your wife she doesn't need makeup is for me the most beautiful words a man could tell his already beautiful wife. Good luck and happy new year to all
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Errol please don’t put the dirty ball on the baby, remember babies are delicate you have to be careful.
Also women goes through emotional roller coaster so take it easy with your wife.
Don’t call her youth or rush when you go supermarket
I take a long time food shopping.
If you watch the price you don’t eat.
It’s expensive all over the world.
Merry Merry Christmas and happy new year when it comes guys I think makeup is a mindset thing never wear it 40 years later still feel pretty and yeah no Christmas spirit over here in USA at least not for me
Merry Christmas 🎄☺️
Hopefully Errol gets to read this: Swaggy needs more emotional support, plain and simple. Post partum depression is a real thing and we don't want to it develop. All Swaggy wanted was a moment of escape. In moments where she is expressing that she needs a break, validate her feelings. Errol you have this way of speaking to Swaggy where you say something good then immediately degrade her by saying something bad. Swaggy expressed that when you all do get to go out, she always feels rushed. When she said she's tired of it, in order to validate her feelings you could of said " I understand, I'll try to be in the moment and go at a slower pace". Instead you telling her to learn how to drive. Errol acknowledged that he is aware of her anxieties towards driving yet tells her to just be brave and calls her a punk in front of the kids. It may not seem like much but you can see the her feeling were hurt. Just because driving comes easy to you Errol doesn't means it's that way for everyone. You telling her to learn how to drive so she can go out by herself defeats the emotional fulfillment she'd get by spending quality time with her family. Tell her that you'll take her to practice driving in a big open field ever other weekend or something, so she can build her confidence, but don't just call her a punk and leave it at that. There is always a solution, being stuck is not an option, help to build her up and feel good about her self. Errol didn't even get the point of why Swaggy wanted to put on makeup👁👁. Men really don't understand women at all.
Exactly.
That's not fair I think Errol is being very calm prior to baby , Swaggy never had a problem in wanting to go out. Errol has been very accommodating getting boys ready for school ironing their school clothes making the time to take Swaggy out etc Now Swaggys Sickly Mum is there so this must add to the frustration of having a newborn as well. The language barrier can't be easy either. Errol is only human he's not superman didn't necessarily need make up on this occasion just for shopping
Well said..everybody has their short comings....you both sounded frustrated. But you need to b more understanding Errol.
They don't understand us. And it's so frustrating at times. That is why we have to communicate our feelings. We have to speak up!
That so true, he needs to take an inward look at himself and how he talk to his wife.
Errol, know you are playing…but don’t call Swaggy names, not a good look… know you love her still
Errol, don't steal the kids' joy. They will have enough harsh reality when dem grow up. You are in a relationship you should give in to Swaggy and her custom as well, and don't argue about it in front of the kids.
Surely you must not argue in front of the kids . I used to do that when my son was little , and he got sick very often. An older lady told me to stop arguing in front of my son.
Well said. I wonder if they know about the Grinch.
Santa is actually Saint Nicolas so it's not lies..
Errol you can't call yourxwife a Punk and yout that is Disrespectful especially in front of the kids !
Also Errol whatever issues you have with thinking parents are liars, and the whole santa thing, your kids won't feel that if brought up correctly.
Meanwhile have a Merry Christmas god bless 🎄🥳
Errol needs to chill. It’s Christmas.. give swaggy this for her kids…jeez…
IT'S NOT HER KIDS ALONE. STOP THAT KIND OF MINDSET. MOST OF YOU DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT A FATHER IS FOR?? NO OFFENCE
Thank you nice comment
Hi Swaggy, does your mom have type 2 diabetes? Does she check her blood sugar daily? Is she on medication for daibetes? I am an RN and it could be the case that her sugars are running low since she is so strict with her diet. The weight loss is concerning. You should get her checked out by a doctor when you can because she appears very underweight, so its important to check her glucose levels daily. The machines don't cost more than $50 usd.
Swaggy please get your mum checked out that thinnesses is not normal, she may be very ill
The state that your mothers body is in, she may not have any sign of diabetes. Your mother needs a physical with extensive blood work to determine her health status.
It happens everywhere, my daughter is vegetarian their food is expensive but you cannot keep watching prices just buy the things you want and be happy,
Food is expensive all over the world.
Just buy and be happy. Don’t cry and stress about prices. It’s everywhere.
Food is also expensive here in New York
Ensure is not healthy it have a lot of sugar in it.
I would advise you to make soursop juice and put milk of her choice in it
I agree with your comments, don’t deprive your mom from purchasing the foods she needs to have based on her health. Everything is expensive these days. You only have one mother.
That is so true.
Buy what you need and stop stressing
Swaggy, Please consult a certified nutritionist for your Mom's special diet
Swaggy things expensive everywhere, i do not live in jamaica and when i go to the supermarket i cash the most important things first. When the money dun it dun, so its not only in jamaica.
It is but in Ja it’s double US plus we don’t have sales 😅unless expectation date pass 🤪😅
@@SwaggyPonDiIsland Can't compare natural with unnatural. I would rather buy food stuff in Jamaica than the gmo abroad
'Expiration' date.
Not really, when I do conversion on prices its the same
You have to choose between the health of your mother or the price of the food that will save her life. She is in a very critical health state. She actually should be hospitalized for treatment.
You need to purchase a play "MAT" to put on the floor for the baby so that she can start using her legs to push off. Do not slow her natural development by always carrying her around.😊
true but remember baby is only 4 months 🙂
Swaggy, you are doing a great job raising your kids, but find a way to have some space for yourself now that you have 3. Mila is a 'hand' baby, which can get tiring, especially when out use the buggy. I found my independence once I got a car and was able do the shopping mall or other stuff by myself just wandering around for hours in the shops. Maybe 2024 will be your year. Happy Christmas!😊🙏🏽
Mr Steven, compliment your wife..
Hi Swaggy. Be kind to yourself. Please learn to drive. It will help you to be independent. Put the baby in her car seat and the two of you drive around. It will cut down on your stress levels. Promise that you will learn to drive. You will feel so liberated.❤❤❤
She can drive she has her driver's license, she's just scared!
Errol dont be calling swag names she'll drive in due time
To be honest when we used to celebrate Chritmas as well as other things; I did have my little ones believe in santa clause, tooth fairy, easter bunny,etc. Overtime( while they were still very young) I had this urge to tell them the truth. It turned out to be the best thing I have done because they told me that they knew all along that santa, the easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc were not real and just like Danny and Leo they were telling me why they knew those characters were not real. Children are way smarter than what we give them credit for. Anyway, Happy Holidays to your family with ❤.
Swaggy look for protein shake with low carbohydrates for your mom. Strawberries, blackberries and raspberries are low in sugar too.
Ensure max , glycerna
Baby Mila looks well looked after. She is striving very well.
Hi, beautiful family! Errol, please be more conscious of the words you use to Swaggy ,especially in front of the kids "like Swaggy yu a punk" We know you don't mean anything bad, but not for the kids.
I agree, a Nutritionist would be an excellent start to helping your mom figure out an eating plan to increase her weight.
Anorexia is a deeper issue, that requires at minimum 2 sessions with a therapist.(so she can she how psychotherapy can help her)
Swaggy, 2024, get up your courage to drive and leave Errol at home & go get your "Me" time & shop as long as you want, no rush!
Swaggy, please put that baby down! She needs to not be so dependent on you or else it will impact on your "Me" time. Give her tummy time, set up little play area in living room where she can watch all going on & every one have their play time with her.
Merry Christmas to you all!!!
Swaggy, you walk around too much with the baby in your arms. Get her a floor mat or baby bouncer chair with a baby play station. Something she can lie on her back and focus on. Something with bright colours that makes noises and moves so she can start trying to use her arms and hands, sharpening her hand, eye coordinating skills. She needs to be stimulated. She's a bright little thing.
Hi Swaggy the passion fruit is lovely when combined with other fruits like pineapple, mangoes to make fruit juice.
Men always in a hurry.
Daddy and Mummy work so hard to provide children with gifts at Christmas, why give Santa Claus the credit?
Let ur mom try ground products, yam, green banana Irish potatoes sweet potato, dasheen. They do have starch but she can have it in small amounts. Instead of those expensive things in the supermarket.
Yes for sure 👌
Yes they r called.... root foods..but in portions, they r still starch
And they got low glycemic index, which means the sugar gets released slowly and does not cause a spike in Blood Sugar instantly.
Absolutely, she should educate herself about the food exchange list, quality of food, not quantity.
Swaggy don't take that flour that is double bagged. Take a regular package.
I moved from the London to Grenada 1year and half ago. I was scared to drive here, it took me a month to get used driving. In Grenada. (London is easy to drive. ) But now driving in Grenada I feel free. Having a car makes life so much easier. I don’t have to bother my husband I go shops by myself or with the kids and no husband to rush me. lol
Swaggy, you're beautiful & Errold no judgment...Take it easy Errold. Let love rule.....You cant be in love 24 hours a day...argument is a part of marriage..It shows you're normal & relatable.?
Hello fellow spicegirl
Sorry Swaggy i have to Agree with your husband Errol, There Was no way that i as a young child was going to give credit to some imaginary rotund bearded man in a red outfit credit for my xmas presents knowing that my mum and dad worked so hard to provide our xmas gifts, Santa was never mentioned in my household, Our parents know us to well😃Credit where credit is due. Love and continued Blessings to you all ❤💛💚
I agree with you Errol. I honestly told my daughter the truth about Santa and explained the myth that he isn't real, and that God blessed me to purchase the gifts for her.
I agree with Errol, also. Why should we teach our children to believe in someone who isn't constantly there in their life and he only comes around 1 day out of the year and we don't teach them that God is there EVERYDAY, 24-7...and even when life isn't so "gift-giving". Our children need to learn to trust the LORD, when life breaks our heart🙏
Thank God, He gave us the greatest GIFT of all, His only son.(John 3:16) No earthly gift can compare, ever.
I totally agreed to not tell my kids about something that’s not even real. I told them the only Santa is we their parents.
Yes, my parents never let us believe that some "White man" came and gave us tingz that our parents worked so hard for. Sorry, not sorry ❤
Errol, try to be supportive of your wife even if it kills you. You will learn that your relationship grow to be stronger. It doesn't make you a weak man to be a supportive husband. I use to be like you but I learned and my wife is my best friend now. You may not realize this but your children sense that something is off and that will affect them without you noticing. Don't take it for granted. Swaggy didn't leave Russia being a punk. it took guts. All the best to you and your marvelous family. Regarding Swaggy's mom, she needs counseling and healing to re-balance her spiritually. She looks broken from something that happened a long time ago and she's carrying that burden and its manifesting in her disease. I know Jamaica must have well known holistic healers.
Learn to cook ITAL Swaggy, then teach it to your mom..all natural
Swaggy do you think you are not depressed .you just have a baby .you need a pick me up you are right go and see the doctor. all so put the baby down too much hand you are s her.good luck hope you feel better.happy holidays to you and family's.
The spelt flour is gluten free and it's good, so try it✅️
Dad let the boys enjoy their childhood memories.
I am glad Swaggy is allowing the boys to have the experience. They will find out soon enough that it is only make believe, and they can come to the conversation about Santa based on their personal experiences. The boys are growing up with opposing beliefs by their mom and dad. However, they will figure it out on their own in the end.
Merry Christmas guys. Be brave and go drive Swaggy. Swaggy always take little time for yourself, leave the kids with their dad and grandma.
Hi Errol, please speak to your wife with respect, love, and understanding!! Swaggy do not accept Errol's behavior!
Swaggy! Look for items that address your Mom's issues, this way, you are ensuring gealthy nutrition. Give her NATURAL foods, not processed foods. Limit additives like processed seasonings i.e. Maggie's. Use farlic, onions, thyme, and fresh items. Green Plantain can be baked in the air fryer and added to meals instead of bread, etc. Same with Breadfruit and Green Bananas. Experiment with natural food with limited or no processed ingredients. No or low natural sugar, and salt.
Might seem like fun. But in the end lies can be a dangerous way. When dealing with children or any one speak the truth. This is obeying the word of God in the bible
Merry Christmas swaggy don’t give Santa clause your credit he doesn’t exist
This lady has two other kids who have developed well, are brilliant and lovely boys yet people in the comments are acting like its her first child😂 let the lady be! She knows what she’s doing. Talking bout slowing Mila’s development 😂
Have a good christmas Swaggy, Errol and family. To stop Errol complaining and rushing you when you go shopping, you need to take the car and drive it, dont wait for him to take you, because after a while he will be rushing you and be impatient with you, be independent and show him what you can do beyond cooking😂😂❤❤. Be blessed.
She has to learn to drive first that's the issue. So hopefully she will. 😊
Yes swaggy learn to drive its important if anything happen to Errol God forbid but human we are its good to know you can drive, I think you just need some encouragement, pls Errol be gentle with her she is a proper wife brave enough to cook our jamaican meals she tried until she gets it yes she is great, some woman can drive but not domesticated this girl is one in a million doesn't sit at home dressing up but fulfilling the true meaning of a wife, Errol cut out the my youth and call her by name or say wife or something sweet she deserves that, Swaggy is the BEST you ever get ❤
Merry Christmas to the Stevens. I agree, Swaggy, you need to put Mila down so you can get some me time. I understand the rush time when you don't drive. Saggy, driving in Jamaica can be rough, but once you get the hang of it, you will feel liberated. Driving independence is great. Take it from a 72 year old, who did the road test some four times before I got my license some 43 years ago and I am still driving.
Oh please Errol, telling kids about Santa is not a lie that hurts kids. Let your children enjoy their childhood
It’s just fun…kids are clever and will learn what the fable is and it won’t affect them…million of kids grow out of the fairy tale…but it’s your decision
Hi Swaggy, find some girlfriends to hang out with, you have someone in common with them. I noticed before this you are always with the family at the house or going shopping, you need some you time.