Everything the Narcissist Tries Backfires

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  • @emilylynn2344
    @emilylynn2344 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    "They may have won the battle but not the war." On point. Thank you!

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 7 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I am a survivor. I will not give up. Yes they hate you. They are in torment and darkness. Leave them alone. Let the The Most High deal with them. Laugh at their pathetic hot mess. You cannot keep a good person down for long. Keep doing what is right and you will rise and they will go down. They are epic failures and cowards

    • @paulinejohn9519
      @paulinejohn9519 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Am a survive of narasist abuse I couldn't understand wat who or why someone would see me in all this pain an continue to hurt me like this I found one video on narasist an I continued to educate my self on this abuse only to find out I was dealing with bigger than I taught I was dealing with a narasist an they consume me with all there toxic trates am healing an also called on the most high Jehovah who continue to heal me today I won't want any one to go through this narasist abuse is real an you need to get out that the only way you can start healing run don't look back

    • @Kabaselefh
      @Kabaselefh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shirley Akpelu true

    • @lbhjvv6974
      @lbhjvv6974 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am a survivor of narssisist abuse. They are demonic. Runnnnn

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    A eagle can't be friends with a chicken. The eagle flies higher and they soar leaving the chicken in the dust.

  • @joshuahumes5548
    @joshuahumes5548 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    they will ruin your birthday and Valentine's day bank on it

  • @D1987Gd
    @D1987Gd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Been through this. ...know exactly how it feels. ...go no contact. ..stay as far away from these types of people forever! !!!

  • @elizabethd.2398
    @elizabethd.2398 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Phoenix rising here. I'm so glad they picked me to be the scapegoat - because in the end, I got away and am as free as a bird now - while my siblings are still brainwashed and doing my narcissistic mother's bidding while waiting for payday to arrive. She'll probably outlast them all! Hah!

  • @israelcrucifiedinchrist797
    @israelcrucifiedinchrist797 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    THE GLORY OF GOD IS SO BEAUTIFUL, I HAD A BUNCH OF THEM AND THEIR FLYING MONKEYS COMING AFTER ME, BUT WHEN I BECAME BAPTIZED, THE LORD BLESSED WITH A CHURCH, AND WRATH ALL MY ENEMIES GOD BLESSED ME WITH A BUSINESS FORMED A COVENANT WITH MY SON THEY TRIED TO CURSE AND COULD NOT BREAK UP MY RELATIONSHIP GOD WAS THE GLUE, THE BLOOD OF JESUS IS BEAUTIFUL, U ARE SO RIGHT WE THANK THEM BECAUSE THE MORE THEY LOSE THE MORE GOD WINS, BECAUSE IN THE NAME OF JESUS I GLORIFY GOD, WHO THEY ARE NOT

  •  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have been controlled by a psychopath/narcissist, a close family member, for most of my life. Some of the techniques this person used:
    1) I was being surrounded by losers and mentally ill people. Successful people were made disapear so I did not get "bad" ideas from them.
    2) I have never received any money as a child because money means freedom. I had to ask for everything I wanted.
    3) The worst was this: When I grew up and I was supposed to make my own way, I was told that I do not need to worry about anything because the family would give me all I needed and help me in any situation. Very soon I found out that when I had a real problem, suddenly everybody disappeared and I was on my own. They returned right after the problem was solved. I was very often criticized by them how poorly I had dealt with the issue.
    My problem with narcissists intensified after I got married because my wife was also controlled by a psychopath - her younger sister.
    I wish I watched your videos many years ago. It is only now that I understand the social dynamics in my life. I had no idea what was going on. Videos like this one are very important. Thanks

  • @apocalypsenewsjuice8417
    @apocalypsenewsjuice8417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My mom is a narcissist she is evil but everybody likes her fake politeness and she's played psychological games and hidden truth.

  • @genaiataylor1935
    @genaiataylor1935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    just hearing this gives me so much power thanks

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They sure do...i try no contact at my utmost best.thanks.

  • @jawright08
    @jawright08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    my recovery is so positive do to you, I am now almost 4 mos. no contact. I am grateful have been informed of these sick people. will I ever stop being intrigued of the subject of psychology? thanks jw

  • @ilianaramirez8436
    @ilianaramirez8436 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My question is. .. Where they born like that??? With no feelings

  • @Serenityafterall
    @Serenityafterall 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    FULL CUSTODY ‼ IT REALLY HATES ME NOW but I DON'T GIVE A DANG ❗ LIVE , LAUGH and LOVE YOU , and YOURS ‼ NO CONTACT NO ACKNOWLEDGEMENT PERIOD ❗❗ ❤

  • @simmisharma5169
    @simmisharma5169 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    They want to drag you out and down.
    I have learnt to go in and up
    They are forces governed by dark and hatred
    Combat those forces by recognizing the divine light and love with in you

    • @Jeff-gr2qw
      @Jeff-gr2qw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Simmi Sharma q

  • @k.a.wippel7949
    @k.a.wippel7949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Calling her bluff has become a daily event .

  • @emerald-pumpkin9691
    @emerald-pumpkin9691 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Energy-Absorption:
    Positive Energy > Absorb when people mock, ridicule, and laugh at you.
    Negative Energy > Absorb when people get angry, curse at you, and want to get violent.
    Neutral Energy > Absorb when people ignore you and shun you.
    Self Energy > Absorb along with positive, negative, or neutral energies when those 3 is not enough. Self energy comes from you.

  • @ritahamilton5094
    @ritahamilton5094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks.

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know.I have been there.hard to get further...

  • @mitchrijkaard6757
    @mitchrijkaard6757 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It frustrates me when people compare this to the Phoenix. It's almost like saying the ends justifies the means, which it really does not. I do not and will never believe in Problem-Reaction-Solution techniques. It's unjustifiable. Other than that, this was another good video and I appreciate your work.

  • @queenkong134
    @queenkong134 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Luv this thank u for sharing

  • @jackielendel1530
    @jackielendel1530 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aww thank you so much for this video. ily

  • @blkbutterfly215
    @blkbutterfly215 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    AMEN

  • @jawright08
    @jawright08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    first of all thank for all your wisdom and for me completely 95 % of James an YOUR vids, I am 3 mo. no contact of a 4 month relationship.
    I could NOT wrap my head around the fact that the funniest girl sense forever, made me scream in my vehicle as 's I just left for the 9th time. I would take notes , then thank god begood4000 apeared !
    I understand your dilemma, wish could help monatarly , but 8,ooo in hole, anything else let me know, after 30 yrs. a carpenter, . know getting some psychological classes lined up. hum who would have thunk. late James w.

  • @knowthyself9621
    @knowthyself9621 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is bushmon/xario aka rosario saint geraud. straight. badmind and wicked.

  • @xKineticSparks
    @xKineticSparks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this is almost hypnotizing.. i don't like that

  • @Simply.Homicide
    @Simply.Homicide 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    sounds just like my loser ex. lol 😂😂