Getting Along with Others at Home and at Work Part 1 - Cynthia Tobias

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  • @Clynn57
    @Clynn57 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Loved this message.
    Hmmm How many kinesthetic learners have been miss labeled ADD/ADHD?

    • @raij465
      @raij465 ปีที่แล้ว

      Statistically speaking, boys tend to be overdiagnosed, and girls tend to be under diagnosed.

  • @JaneWaweru
    @JaneWaweru ปีที่แล้ว +16

    See, I could listen to her a thousand times. Great speaker, clear, humorous and relational voice.
    The message is worth a re-listen. And I sure need to tag him along for the listen 😁

  • @lesleyclaster6878
    @lesleyclaster6878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I read and studied The Way They Learn when it was first published when I was homeschooling my kinesthetic daughter. I had so much fun, and so did she, just letting her go to move around while I was teaching. We used a literature based curriculum, and she had a huge box of dress-up clothes and fabrics. I could read comfortably in one room while she did costuming to match the historical period of the literature. Just to check, I’d ask her questions about the material, and her answers were spot on. She did best having oral exams standing up! She was never meant for college, per se. But all her life, she took courses to learn whatever she needed. No wonder she was a gymnast and is now a head coach with her own programs. Hands on, always! Cynthia’s book changed my family life, including marriage! We could all relax and appreciate our differences.

  • @marjorieegert4085
    @marjorieegert4085 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I learned I have to see piles or folders on my desk. And I am not messy, merely organized in a different way. Thank you!

  • @roxyperson8328
    @roxyperson8328 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my word!! I now understand my second born stubborn architect thinker!! Thank you!! I am a audio learner and he is visual/kinesthetic!

  • @Kininet
    @Kininet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She delievered great message with humor. Thank you.

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awareness that the person is not irritating you on purpose.

  • @lesleyclaster6878
    @lesleyclaster6878 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learned from my husband’s innate sense of and need for order. I worked hard to make his home comings peaceful after my chaotic days as a very fulfilled and creative home maker. I had to WORK at it.
    I didn’t always succeed 😅, but he appreciated the effort.

  • @PattyMoor
    @PattyMoor ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I fall into a category! Woohoo! I always thought I was alone in my chaotic order….
    She is Amazing and I will be looking her up for more great words!!

    • @sheilagunter4374
      @sheilagunter4374 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great ti see things happen for a raisin...🎁🎁🎄🎗🧸^

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes because have not many people to relate shut down

  • @julietruesdell.371
    @julietruesdell.371 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm definitely Jack on watching movies! hilarious..I wish my kids would give four pauses..lol

    • @leewashaleski7719
      @leewashaleski7719 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me 2

    • @julietruesdell.371
      @julietruesdell.371 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leewashaleski7719 I think it's a great way for her to appreciate her husband's way if thinking..because we all see things differently

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely everyone's different
    People can jump around in their talking .

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This women is sm excellent speaker

  • @nanciklei3606
    @nanciklei3606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What a great message .
    Looking forward to part 2

  • @cesarswc13
    @cesarswc13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    oh my god this is so good god bless

  • @conniedecarolis3173
    @conniedecarolis3173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    FABULOUS!! I get it. Wow

  • @Silver-cl2bd
    @Silver-cl2bd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Absolutely a great message!! I have 3 kids and a husband and we are very different with similarities ☺️

  • @donnalazza8429
    @donnalazza8429 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow… interesting,thank you for this information

  • @issapolanco
    @issapolanco 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So helpful ‼️‼️‼️

  • @bearwatcher
    @bearwatcher ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ding ding just realized why I get nervous tallking to family, friends etc. I am on the move and don't want to stop!! Eureka!

  • @stephaniegallant602
    @stephaniegallant602 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you! ✨️ you spend a lot of time on field trips! This is the dream for me and my family 👪 ❤️

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate her instruction and advise on how to get along .handle difficult situations

  • @Blessed77792
    @Blessed77792 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Is it possible to identify so much with the message that you laugh at yourself 😂

    • @JaneWaweru
      @JaneWaweru ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I keep laughing at myself whenever I listen to this.
      It's been several times now

    • @judyg2341
      @judyg2341 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JaneWaweru 😅

    • @barbararoper2114
      @barbararoper2114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely. That's a sure sign that the speaker is not only educated, but what she is saying has great value. She not only speaks from experience, but she also can identify and explain all of the different categories, even if she doesn't have those qualities herself. She can describe both sides of the coin, so to speak, but only resides on one face of it. We should all strive to be empathetic, patient, fair, loving and kind, like she is, in our own judgment and behavior, especially towards others, but also to ourselves.

  • @elayned6147
    @elayned6147 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great lecture ❤ very thought provoking and helpful 👍

  • @robertmajors6910
    @robertmajors6910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fascinating

  • @maryp4145
    @maryp4145 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She reminds me of Jean Houston, American author, involved in the human potential movement!❤️

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate this commentary on relationships ... might have to get the book but if Cynthia has anymore videos love see them

  • @katherinestobbe5556
    @katherinestobbe5556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was awesome to listen to! Totally interesting! Learned a lot!❤

  • @cherbears4446
    @cherbears4446 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s amazing and so funny my I have both personality traits lol😂

  • @perlasmedley7652
    @perlasmedley7652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love these :))

  • @cathyphillips9120
    @cathyphillips9120 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This concept of processing information should be taught to every person, maybe there would be more understanding and less division.

  • @stephaniegallant602
    @stephaniegallant602 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Global brain 💗 overall picture 📸 great spurts of inspiration 👏

  • @user-fs6ou3fk9p
    @user-fs6ou3fk9p ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my goodness you and your husband sound like me and mine. It's so hard. I seem to be a bit of both. Global and analytical. Bless you. My husband plays golf and tennis and works well independently.

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kinesthetic. Learning by moving. Works in short spurts to keep things moving. If they are required to sit still all they can think about is moving and they're not hearing what you're saying. They need to try it to believe it.

  • @vanessap8354
    @vanessap8354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @aftonabraham6503
    @aftonabraham6503 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great information.

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds familiar littl

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Auditory. Learning best by hearing, but not hearing other people talk, but hearing yourself talk about it. If they can't talk, it will hinder their ability to remember.

  • @katherineyarnell7360
    @katherineyarnell7360 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great

  • @enacollings-uh5xt
    @enacollings-uh5xt ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I'm that visual analytic person .

  • @christyhowe-ql1bv
    @christyhowe-ql1bv ปีที่แล้ว

    Hollywood prayer network has newsletters too

  • @onThisJourney
    @onThisJourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did she cover the one's at work that "need" to boss you but are not your boss?

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Visual. You start talking and they begin to make a picture in their mind and it may not be anything like what you've described.

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Need patience with ppl that are different then myself

  • @mariannaoosthuizen9639
    @mariannaoosthuizen9639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I understand you perfectly and find you very informative funny and amusing. But I must tell you I know a LOT of people who won't understand you at all. I call them slow people. Slow to respond slow to make decisions. Lol and they don't always appreciate my little jokes.

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    50% of the population are ANALYTIC thinkers; more detailed thinker; step by step. Files away things. Doesn't prefer working with others; plays independent sports (like golf).
    The other 50% is a GLOBAL thinker; sees the overall picture; likes to have everything spread out; great spurts of inspiration followed by long plateaus of nothing. This is why there are more than one projects going at once bc when they're uninspired they can move to another project. Doesn't file anything, works better with piles. Out of sight, out of mind. Would rather work on a team.

  • @yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315
    @yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    awesome

  • @alyssamurphy2002
    @alyssamurphy2002 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every 2 hour movie 4 pauses given.

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you never see the person and you.watching tv

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds a little like me. Got to say it now

  • @santiagobahena3578
    @santiagobahena3578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you be in between?

  • @alyssamurphy2002
    @alyssamurphy2002 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just needs to talk. That might be me...yikes. I do get annoyed when others do it. Whoops.

  • @reflection6104
    @reflection6104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting. But too many generalities about human nature to make an accurate assessment of one's personality in problem solving or learning. We are much more complex as human than a few categories.

    • @karendueck2895
      @karendueck2895 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reflection
      Really? I learned a lot about myself and my husband. She is bang on.

  • @rayg3408
    @rayg3408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So I heard her on the radio and everybody was laughing and laughing and laughing and I was trying to figure out is there something wrong with me because I don't hear anything that's funny so I decided to watch the video I guess there's something wrong with me

    • @Grace-nt9cc
      @Grace-nt9cc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think it's funny either. She also doesn't know my family. A sibling irritates me on purpose he calls it love! 😩

    • @rayg3408
      @rayg3408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Grace-nt9cc ahh. Try to ignore him if you can or you might have to not talk to him for a little bit to make a point

    • @jennyruizdiaz9553
      @jennyruizdiaz9553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It just proves the point that we all have different learning styles. Hope it helps you see the world from different perspectives for God’s glory.

  • @christyhowe-ql1bv
    @christyhowe-ql1bv ปีที่แล้ว

    I forget too a lot

  • @lindamiller3438
    @lindamiller3438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think I am married to man like jack

  • @Grace-nt9cc
    @Grace-nt9cc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know that they don't think like me, but condemn me for even thinking at all!💔😖 I want only to die! 💔

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We're so sorry you're hurting, Grace. And we're very concerned that you are saying you want to die.
      Please know that we have licensed counselors here at Focus on the Family who would welcome a call from you. You can reach them at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) between 6:00 A.M. and 8:00 P.M. (MT) Monday through Friday (except holidays). Just let our staff know we’ve requested that a counselor take your call as soon as possible.
      We're praying for you. Your life is precious no matter what issues you're facing. We hope you'll call us so we may walk alongside you.

    • @Grace-nt9cc
      @Grace-nt9cc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't want to talk about it! The only thing that ever happens is bad! 😔

  • @robinjohnson5014
    @robinjohnson5014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think annoy me on purpose

  • @Grace-nt9cc
    @Grace-nt9cc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only one thing I need an want is to cease to live! 💔

    • @JessiPerez1234
      @JessiPerez1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m sorry you feel that way Grace! May the Lord give you revelation regarding your situation! I pray for you, you have a God given purpose, God bless you!

    • @ERISONDANCE
      @ERISONDANCE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My hope is that you are doing much better now by way of God love and kindness. His healing of your heart n mind.

    • @jennyruizdiaz9553
      @jennyruizdiaz9553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jesus paid it ALL. ALL MEANS ALL. May you allow Him to rescue you and give you a new life in Him.

  • @davidvanderveer5882
    @davidvanderveer5882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you pass this on to Cynthia? Her site only let's you write 2sentences before throwing you out of it! Anyway, her post on having a strong willed wife... You think you are strong willed? Cynthia, has you husband
    ever looked at you admiringly w/a big smile? Then got a responds from you, Why are you always laughing at
    me? Then "blabbed" that to everyone at your family gatherings? The experts would say, Go back to what you
    were doing early on in your marriage ie. Sitting down to dinner, praying together, holding hands, making goo
    goo eyes at each other! Sorry, we never did that! When are you going say, If it works for you great! Well, I am
    not a complainer, so if SHE does not "flip" out on me ( or just twice a year) I can live w/it! It has been 41 years
    so to quote you...Just saying! But he bad thing is that I am a good talker and can hold my own w/her or that
    could be a bad thing! My memory can get me in trouble too! Anyway, going to your marriage group in Brandon might help...but we need that more intensive session - - I think it it called, Ultra Vi for some reason!
    Or just stay the course...at least she has never accused me of having affairs! But what you think is important
    to me. I could easily see what I have just written in your next book (that would be Dave & Lois) but I am sure you would change our names anyway. All the same, you are good at what you do! I'm sleeping in the garage!

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks, David, for your comment. It sounds like you are your wife are dealing with a lot. You mentioned our Hope Restored program in Branson. We would love to speak with you to discuss your situation, answer questions about our program, and see if we can be of help to you. Give us a call at 866-875-2915, or visit www.hoperestored.com. Blessings to you! ~ Karen