an anxious bean at a mysterious friendos house
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ค. 2021
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Bless you sweet pea 🥺💗 I know your anxiety has been so hard lately and the last thing we’d ever want you to think is that we’d ever be upset or mad that you have to put your mental health first. Friend to friend, if we were ever upset by anything we would be 100% honest and come to you to let you know. Nothing you did or said made us feel bad in any way and we thought you were so very brave tackling your anxiety in the way that you did! But as we said - baby steps... it’s important not to push yourself too hard too fast, and I know you’d planned to come down alone and spend a week or so here, but you’re not bad in any way for needing to bring Casey and having to shorten your stay! Maybe next time you could both come down again and stay a couple of days longer to help you build up your confidence again 😊 it’s been a very long time since you’ve left your creature comforts and that can be so scary in itself. Your happy is our happy 💗 whatever that looks like for you! If you need Casey, bring Casey, if you need to bring the cat... I say bring the cat but I’m not sure Iris would tolerate that as she secretly rules the roost 😂🙈💗 do whatever you need to do and put your trust in us that if something happened we didn’t appreciate, that we’d come and tell you. But we are SO proud that you managed to stay another day when you felt a little better 🥰 and as said, maybe next time it’ll be a little bit longer again and that would be lovely too! Rest up sweets xx your anxiety was a big one this time around and you did so well to sit with it and manage it for a few days xxx be gentle with yourselves 🥰💗✨
You guys are the sweetest friends, thankyou so so much for being in our lives and being so safe and considerate to us 😭🥰 we love you guys so much, it was so lovely seeing you all! 💖
The fact that you kept going dispite your panic attack proves, you've already been a brave bean.
I believe Jess and the boys really would be ok with Cass staying (you know them personally though) but, also, I get being homesick.
Jess is a kind caring human, they just want you to feel comfortable too. Jess would let you know if you overstayed your welcome, she's very honest, and upfront. Sending love
Love to you Bean. You did so well dealing with the anxiety.
We totally get it.
We get anxious to. We are here for you BoBo and Co.
This title made me smirk and a funny tear ran down my cheek! I swear I love you and your wordplay 🌹
Oh babe. My heart!!! Stop beating yourself up. We told you yesterday. We’re so proud of you for going at all. Jess isn’t going to be mad, I promise you ❤️❤️❤️
I've cried more and had more panic attacks in this last month than I ever have in my whole life. It's really messing up my ability to work and just exist as a human being. We can get through this Bo. You're such a strong person and you inspire me to be strong too
If you wanna stay then stay girl! 💗 You got this!! If you get anxious it’s not the end of the world, just give yourself grace and recognize that you’re super strong for fighting through it already and being there!! All our love to you 💗💗💗
it could be good to communicate these thoughts with Jess. Either a direct conversation, or writing it out, sending them this vid, texting...
Aw sweetie ☹ Anxiety sucks! Do whatever makes you most comfortable. Jess will understand, that's what friendship is all about xxx
I don't know Jess personally, but I doubt they she would mind Casey coming over as well. But you should ask her, just to be sure. If Casey being around makes you feel safer, you should do that ^^
You're going to be fine no matter what you choose. You're having very normal social anxiety considering we weren't allowed to get within 6 feet of people the last year!! Whatever you decide to do will be ok.
I'm sorry you're struggling. Your sweater looks dope. Also, I usually regret leaving places without saying goodbye. If I were you, I'd try to wait until they get home? They might say something super helpful. But definitely respect your own feelings in the final decision. Hope everything ends well.
You keep saying you want be to able to be brave enough to do it but it looks to me like you have done it. Your there now, Casey is home safe. You have done it. Ask Jess to have dinner with you and see how things go. I fully get that you don’t want to overstay your welcome but as your friend I’m sure she just wants you to be ok. You will get through this. We are all cheering you on in the background
If you feel like you would want to stay longer, I think Jess and the boys would like that. She asked you Because she wanted you there.
I understand why it would seem to forward to ask Casey to stay. Also may not be what Casey wants. Casey is a gem the way he is so patient and understanding.
Hey I just found your channel today and I've spent a few hours watching it! It is really lovely and such an interesting little slice of your life :) I'm sorry you've been feeling anxious recently, and I hope you feel better soon! You seem very brave in so many ways and I am sure you will get to where you want to be eventually :D Also I am supposed to be traveling to Exeter next year for a long study abroad trip and I am very excited as I have never been to the UK. Is it a nice place?
Theres not a whole lot in Exeter but youre simultaneously close to Bristol and the south west like plymouth, Dartmoor and Cornwall! Id reccomend travelling out to see ehat there is! There are hundreds of small tourist attractions to show off the uk down here 😊
Morning,Bobo..Love,light and peace to you..Jess would tell you if you overstayed your welcome.Enjoy yourself,Bo.Casey your comfort and familiarity to you reason you get overwhelmed being separated from him.
I don’t think Jess minds she will be okay with whatever you decide
Hey honey it’s so good to see you. I’m so sorry you are not feeling well and stressed. 💗🙏
I need to get on more to keep better up to date. I need to look again when I finish this and see if I’m still subbed cuz I’m sure you’ve heard of a good number of us getting unsubbed from a bunch of ppl. It’s so rude and unfair to you.🦋🥰
You should tell them your concerns and be honest with them. they’re your friend, they will understand. And then it can help them address the concerns without you overthinking everything (or at least that’s the idea, I know it’s hard, I’ve been there) :hugs:
Just found your channel through LAD, trying to sort of understand this whole side of the world. Hope you are doing okay since that video 👊
Could you ask Jess and boys to watch this? X