I agree she chose them for looks so she pretty much got what she deserved unbelievable to put up with as much as she says she has put up with she's the fool
There is nothing wrong with picking someone you are attracted to. The problem is when that's the only thing that you're looking at. I'm not sure that was the only thing that this woman is looking at, but this man's personality doesn't leave anything to be desired.
She was in love by herself. She never said that he made a commitment to her. She just assumed he was because she was doing relationship things with him. That was her bad and he's knee EXACTLY what he was doing.
She was just so happy that a man as handsome was with her that she lost herself and self respect all because she wanted the status of “marrying” a man that everyone wanted. Looks should not be the only factor when marrying someone
I needed to hear this topic!! I’m avoidant because I’m ok being alone. I was dating a man and he was so sweet, and understanding, respectful, and attentive. He thought I was cold and I didn’t have strong feelings for him like he did. I recently broke a pattern. He would tell me he would miss me usually I would be quiet, but we haven’t seen or talked to each other in a couple days. I realized I missed him. I struggled with texting because I didn’t want to be the first to text. I knew I was afraid. I thought my thats it he is gone. Out the door. Or he is going to ghost me. I made a conscious choice to text. Usually when afraid I tell myself I’m not going to live in fear. Texted him. Telling him I missed him and he better not be asking for other woman’s phone numbers. I was actually shocked that he responded fast with “I miss you too. I won’t.” Dating him I realized I have patterns of cutting people out, not letting people in not because I’m afraid of rejection but being used in some way or judged. I love that Matt said you use as a form of growth. In past dates I would enter with zero expectations and don’t care if he likes me or not mentality , See what I learn from the experience. I discovered when like someone I tend to contain and not show any emotion. When the man I date shows genuine displays of affection in public it makes me uncomfortable. I am getting more comfortable and receptive. I met him at car wash. I wanted him to talk to me and he did. He wanted to take me out to lunch. We had breakfast the next day. Let’s see where this goes! 🙏🏼
I have issues with this too and am learning to be vulnerable with people. You are doing an amazing job; breaking patterns in no easy task. He seems like a really sweet guy who will appreciate you. Wishing you the very best.
Oh boy .. I think I have the same pattern 😐I have been most of my life alone (single and enjoying life by dancing around my apt in underwear) but recently I was in a relationship where my partner was complaining all the time that she felt lonely and I was distant .. it has been really difficult for me to discover if I have a pattern, I still don't know if I do .. maybe I have to rethink my situation because your story sounds a lot like me
Love this for you. If you don't mind me sharing a book recommendation. It's called women who love too much by Robin Norwood. It's so good. If you want to check it out. I feel like every woman should read it or hear it in an audio book. Best of luck!
She told her side of her story so boring and he is such a poor representation of a man. Steupz. He never admitted or took responsibility for anything. "actual factual" or "possibility" my foot.
This case is ridiculous she is nothing but a doormat he used her for her home and cheated on her and she put up with it unbelievable he is disgusting and a poor excuse for a man
She's not even able to communicate. It's not believable that she witnessed what she described because she has such a hard time speaking. He's a cheater. But she's lying about how things happened.
She was definitely lying bc she started off with very vague details & when she realized the judge had room for reasonable doubt, then she made up the whole thing about him getting out of bed, pulling on his underwear.
@@OSMRDucksLIB it's also strange she focuses so much on "friendship", werent they married? Why didn't she speak about anything that happened after they were married. They're both odd to me.
Please stop acting like skin color is a personality trait. This guy is a cheater just like dark skin cheaters, just like white cheaters, just like Indian cheaters, etc. The color of a person's skin says nothing about their personality. Just a really ignorant thing to say.
I would never understand how blk men could watch a woman completely break down because of their action and have no empathy for that person. Super predators.
This type of guy is cold calculating self Indulgent, narcissistic , gaslighting a total bad character and woman fall for this kind of guy because their never had any affection in her life. Manipulator.
That woman has NO NOTION of what is a friendship bond. To be friend with a man means NO EXPECTATIONS other than what he wants to give you and you to him. She, on the other hand, had certain expectations like exclusivity in their relation and commitment. In friendship the commitment is brotherly or sisterly. Never mind the exclusivity in friendship because it’s a nonsense to expect someone to be only with you when there is no amorous feelings. All in all, this woman hurt herself with her misunderstanding of what it is to be friend with a man. In her delusional mind she didn’t chose well regarding that guy. Because a real friend will respect you.
Don't get caught up in looks. It can be a waste of time. You may find them soooo entitled that they'll, actually, show you how lazy they Truly are, whether Male/Female or LGBTIQQ. It occurs at all levels, class Not included......
Bless this lady he is the type to think he is God's gift got her handling his buisness and going half on a home..while he runs with various women and wanted herto be all in his face and hate she gave attention to other men or flirting as he said
Soo... They were "friends with benefits" and NEVER in a relationship. Lol. I'm sorry she's delusional. YES they did "couple" activities and things. However, nothing is real unless it's spoken out loud with CLEAR understanding by BOTH. Plus he's a WHOLE butt head and NOT that articulate so she knew what was up. She played herself and those fake tears over the pendant... GURL bye😏😂
This case is pathetic she put up with so much out of ignorance and for his looks she should have known better she was desperate for affection good luck
Stop that, that's disingenuous He lead her to believe something that was not. He deceived her. I don't blame her for the way she's feeling. Men lie to damn much and are not precise on what it is or it isn't.@@johnadams8997
He was the live in boyfriend but they still was having sex occasionally even they had extra living space. If he didn't want a full commitment then why not just stay friend's and sleep in a separate room. He should've been in another bedroom.
He do need to stop thinking judge stupid common sense she is not and two this is court of law. We not going deep in what of spirit's lurking around and belief in supernatural thing's. He said she was hallucinating. What she saw is just that? How is judge to believe the woman is psychotic or insane unless she brought a medical personnel with restrictions, injections, medication's and everything was stated in court paper's before the case or he needed witness protection escort to court?
If I saw my necklace on another person, I would repossess my own property.
Facts! Lol
He’s the type that thinks he’s slick and valuable and he’s trash. 😅
Yes Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr because he extioc
I can’t believe women fall for this week ass game. He is not even believable with his lies.
Maybe that’ll refresh your recollection” - she was smooth with the insults 😂
This man snakes through every answer he gives. Honesty is not in his character. Who can trust anything he says?
She should left his sorry ass at the pound
Stop picking people based on looks.
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I agree she chose them for looks so she pretty much got what she deserved unbelievable to put up with as much as she says she has put up with she's the fool
@@tashawilliams8093
He doesn't even look like all that.
There is nothing wrong with picking someone you are attracted to. The problem is when that's the only thing that you're looking at. I'm not sure that was the only thing that this woman is looking at, but this man's personality doesn't leave anything to be desired.
The gaslighting is strong with this one...
I hope this lady found a way to value n love herself
She was in love by herself. She never said that he made a commitment to her. She just assumed he was because she was doing relationship things with him. That was her bad and he's knee EXACTLY what he was doing.
She was just so happy that a man as handsome was with her that she lost herself and self respect all because she wanted the status of “marrying” a man that everyone wanted. Looks should not be the only factor when marrying someone
Girl, run!
I needed to hear this topic!! I’m avoidant because I’m ok being alone. I was dating a man and he was so sweet, and understanding, respectful, and attentive. He thought I was cold and I didn’t have strong feelings for him like he did. I recently broke a pattern. He would tell me he would miss me usually I would be quiet, but we haven’t seen or talked to each other in a couple days. I realized I missed him. I struggled with texting because I didn’t want to be the first to text. I knew I was afraid. I thought my thats it he is gone. Out the door. Or he is going to ghost me. I made a conscious choice to text. Usually when afraid I tell myself I’m not going to live in fear. Texted him. Telling him I missed him and he better not be asking for other woman’s phone numbers. I was actually shocked that he responded fast with “I miss you too. I won’t.” Dating him I realized I have patterns of cutting people out, not letting people in not because I’m afraid of rejection but being used in some way or judged. I love that Matt said you use as a form of growth. In past dates I would enter with zero expectations and don’t care if he likes me or not mentality , See what I learn from the experience. I discovered when like someone I tend to contain and not show any emotion. When the man I date shows genuine displays of affection in public it makes me uncomfortable. I am getting more comfortable and receptive. I met him at car wash. I wanted him to talk to me and he did. He wanted to take me out to lunch. We had breakfast the next day. Let’s see where this goes! 🙏🏼
I have issues with this too and am learning to be vulnerable with people. You are doing an amazing job; breaking patterns in no easy task. He seems like a really sweet guy who will appreciate you. Wishing you the very best.
Oh boy .. I think I have the same pattern 😐I have been most of my life alone (single and enjoying life by dancing around my apt in underwear) but recently I was in a relationship where my partner was complaining all the time that she felt lonely and I was distant .. it has been really difficult for me to discover if I have a pattern, I still don't know if I do .. maybe I have to rethink my situation because your story sounds a lot like me
Love this for you. If you don't mind me sharing a book recommendation. It's called women who love too much by Robin Norwood. It's so good. If you want to check it out. I feel like every woman should read it or hear it in an audio book. Best of luck!
@@anthonyszymon3032 Thanks for this!
a friend toId me about miriam chamani dietrich, check her out on the web, she is very good at what she does.
This dude was insane!! I don't have the time to give my other thoughts and comments!!
He has told several lies about this necklace.
This Guy is a Clown!! 🤡 I would of left him the first moment I saw that other Girl!! 😡😡🤬🤬
They didn't look or seem like a good couple👎 😆
NARCISSISM.
He’s an ultimate liar and still ain’t even good at it 🤦🏿♀️
Thank you judge thank you 💗💗🤲🤩🤩😌😊💖💕💕👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏👍💕😊🤩💗💗😄❤️❣️❣️♥️😃😍☺️😇😇😇😇😇💝💝💝
She told her side of her story so boring and he is such a poor representation of a man. Steupz. He never admitted or took responsibility for anything. "actual factual" or "possibility" my foot.
This case is ridiculous she is nothing but a doormat he used her for her home and cheated on her and she put up with it unbelievable he is disgusting and a poor excuse for a man
Boring or not..hes a scummy cheater
She's not even able to communicate. It's not believable that she witnessed what she described because she has such a hard time speaking. He's a cheater. But she's lying about how things happened.
She was definitely lying bc she started off with very vague details & when she realized the judge had room for reasonable doubt, then she made up the whole thing about him getting out of bed, pulling on his underwear.
@@OSMRDucksLIB it's also strange she focuses so much on "friendship", werent they married? Why didn't she speak about anything that happened after they were married. They're both odd to me.
@@jamiex6072 Very very odd. It almost feels like they only married for financial reasons & she got wrapped up in the title? Very dysfunctional
No she wasnt.lying...hes a scummy cheater
I bet that he pawned the pendant, knowing that it had more value than the chain. 😢
Light skin energy
My My My, He think he's all that, a straight out Liar,Cheater and A Outrageous Nothing..Zero
light skin have nothing to do with it he's a cheater that's all to it
Garbage
WORD!!!
Please stop acting like skin color is a personality trait. This guy is a cheater just like dark skin cheaters, just like white cheaters, just like Indian cheaters, etc. The color of a person's skin says nothing about their personality. Just a really ignorant thing to say.
You can wrap a skunk in a pretty pkg, open it up, it's still a skunk
Lady, never choose a man prettier than you
Judge!!! She doesn't want the gold jewelry; she wants that gold man🙄🤦🏾♂️
Gold plated
@@johnadams8997 Lol! That part!
She is super naive!! Wow!
I would never understand how blk men could watch a woman completely break down because of their action and have no empathy for that person. Super predators.
They aren't emotionally well,decreased empathy brain cells DNA
Because they can.....duh!!!! Turn the waterworks off, they've seen it before!!!🤣🤣🤣
Jason is cute but he isn't all that
Cute cheers also. I need you to be loyal and pay bills.
Pretty package, ugly heart, spirit, soul, and no brain
All that lying takes away from his looks
I never liked arrogant men like him.
Hes deffinately NOT cute hes not a looker at all...hes just run of the mill
This type of guy is cold calculating self
Indulgent, narcissistic , gaslighting a total bad character and woman fall for this kind of guy because their never had any affection in her life. Manipulator.
Sis can't stop a man from cheating just move on
Why didn't she get her necklace from the woman.I would have.
That woman has NO NOTION of what is a friendship bond. To be friend with a man means NO EXPECTATIONS other than what he wants to give you and you to him. She, on the other hand, had certain expectations like exclusivity in their relation and commitment. In friendship the commitment is brotherly or sisterly. Never mind the exclusivity in friendship because it’s a nonsense to expect someone to be only with you when there is no amorous feelings. All in all, this woman hurt herself with her misunderstanding of what it is to be friend with a man. In her delusional mind she didn’t chose well regarding that guy. Because a real friend will respect you.
He is selfish and arrogant he loves himself only
Don't get caught up in looks. It can be a waste of time. You may find them soooo entitled that they'll, actually, show you how lazy they Truly are, whether Male/Female or LGBTIQQ. It occurs at all levels, class Not included......
I'm not sure how you guys know she's caught up in his looks.. he's not even that cute. She may have really been fooled by his personality
TRUST NOBODY IN (TUPAC) VOICE.💯
Pretty boy thinks he's the sht. Lol
He kinda look like a Halloween pumpkin 🎃
I like the hairstyles that the litigants in this "Divorce Court" case have.
Bless this lady he is the type to think he is God's gift got her handling his buisness and going half on a home..while he runs with various women and wanted herto be all in his face and hate she gave attention to other men or flirting as he said
Soo... They were "friends with benefits" and NEVER in a relationship. Lol. I'm sorry she's delusional. YES they did "couple" activities and things. However, nothing is real unless it's spoken out loud with CLEAR understanding by BOTH. Plus he's a WHOLE butt head and NOT that articulate so she knew what was up. She played herself and those fake tears over the pendant... GURL bye😏😂
She is confused asf
Great video
This case is pathetic she put up with so much out of ignorance and for his looks she should have known better she was desperate for affection good luck
I’m wondering at what point t did he propose and how did they get married. All I heard was discussion around a friendship
She could have taken her necklace from the lady.
So she isn't married to him?
He wasn't married to her, she was the only one married
Stop that, that's disingenuous
He lead her to believe something that was not.
He deceived her. I don't blame her for the way she's feeling.
Men lie to damn much and are not precise on what it is or it isn't.@@johnadams8997
He was the live in boyfriend but they still was having sex occasionally even they had extra living space. If he didn't want a full commitment then why not just stay friend's and sleep in a separate room. He should've been in another bedroom.
He do need to stop thinking judge stupid common sense she is not and two this is court of law. We not going deep in what of spirit's lurking around and belief in supernatural thing's. He said she was hallucinating. What she saw is just that? How is judge to believe the woman is psychotic or insane unless she brought a medical personnel with restrictions, injections, medication's and everything was stated in court paper's before the case or he needed witness protection escort to court?
😡😡😡🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏